So good! "The right one is someone who is willing to build with you." You can have chemistry with a person but if they aren't committed and willing to build a life with you they aren't right.
@unregrettablelife9424
4 жыл бұрын
People have to think life as a company and when two get together, starting a partnership and wanting to start a company then you both would need to know what you are creating in this company (life company), whether services or products, otherwise the company wouldn't survive if two people want to create different company. Because of this most marriage ended in divorce, especially around 70% for first marriage (or first company ) - I mentioned this principle in my book.
@raesunshine2643
2 жыл бұрын
So true 🤗
@GourmandLaura
2 жыл бұрын
I need to accept what you just wrote, despite trying to ignore the truth.
@fabianafonseca3270
Жыл бұрын
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@Anna-bl8ey
Жыл бұрын
But remember, life gets hard. We don’t show up for ourselves this consistently let alone for the people in our lives. We’re all human. This is an unrealistic expectation to have of others. Try starting with yourself first
@AmanBansil
4 жыл бұрын
“No one cares that you’re really great once they get to know you“ this is not a relationship video, this is in MasterClass of life that needs to be replayed paused and digested in a serious manner. Amazing insight.
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much! That truly means a lot. Just like you, these interviews sometimes just move me! What's 1 thing you learned about him, you previously didn't know?
@AmanBansil
4 жыл бұрын
@@EdMylettShow about Matthew? Actually, I had never heard of him until this video. So, THANK YOU for the introduction. As for the subject matter, I've dug deep into this topic in my own life and have found the 'creation of space' to be a wonderful tool. Efforts like these (your video) are greatly appreciated because they help get my most important asset in line with my goals: my mindset.
@daradalmau9300
4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely in agreement!
@limitededition3712
4 жыл бұрын
True, I listened to this over a couple of hours because I kept pausing and replaying some parts. Definitely a game changer 👌
@lenkakupkova625
4 жыл бұрын
@@limitededition3712 same here
@Shareablevideos
4 жыл бұрын
1. Admiration 2. Connection (mutual admiration) 3. Commitment 4. Compatibility . All needed to make someone “The One”.
@Sarachouska
3 жыл бұрын
And sometimes you can see compatibility but no commitment, so this isn't the right time... So, go look for someone ready !
@daniellajung9421
3 жыл бұрын
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@CandaceHarmony
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this note. I came back to this video just for this! 🙏🏼
@flirtypairs5769
3 жыл бұрын
@Hazel sounds really good. Sounds like an end result or goal in a relationship. When you have these expectations, an ambitious man sees you and he'll work toward it all but then after a month of marriage you'll fill for divorce because he met you're requirements/expectations but he wasn't the one for you. If it's work it's not working. All the things you've mentioned usually end up being the final result or accomplishment in a relationship. Building up to that is very essential, but they aren't subsets of the goal or items on a checklist at the unset.
@GingerVertican
4 жыл бұрын
I met Matthew Hussey on my birthday, Nov 7th, 4 years ago in LA! He was so humble & kind and took the time to take a photo with me and ask me a question or two about myself. I had joined his website & my birthday wish was to go to his conference. I was from San Diego and it had been hard meeting someone who wanted a long term relationship. It’s like a vacation state of mind there, however!!!!!!!Update: I had just met the man who would become my husband a year later- I applied ALL Matthew’s advice and we just celebrated 3 years marriage! I have to revisit this advice frequently - so that our relationship can develop over the years and grow together. Thanks Matt! (& Ed for having hm!)
@BetterLoveMovement
4 жыл бұрын
What an amazing story and so full of HOPE! Thank you for sharing it!
@amirthar3460
4 жыл бұрын
Ginger Vertican what is the advice tell me plz
@GingerVertican
4 жыл бұрын
shiny girl You should follow his page or join his community there’s a tons of good stuff but I think the ones that especially made a difference in my life were about realizing your own value and doing things that you love instead of looking for someone else to give that to you it’s very attractive to be a person who likes yourself and then you can already be a whole person when you meet someone for a long-term relationship ♥️
@amirthar3460
4 жыл бұрын
@@GingerVertican thank you so much for your replay 💗
@Elaine-ee1eh
4 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your marriage. I too am in San Diego 🙄 and understand completely.
@scuttletheship656
4 жыл бұрын
I am 56 minutes into this amazing conversation between two insightful, KIND men...and I don't want it to end! God bless you both!😊
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
Glad you found such enjoyment from the interview! What's 1 thing you would have asked him if you could?
@lubnan08
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!!
@katarzynag4541
4 жыл бұрын
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@klw8771
Жыл бұрын
Can men & women ever just have a non sexual long term friendship only ? Does it ever really work? I’ve always found 1 person is more invested than the other & usually more than just friends..
@jms6882
4 жыл бұрын
"The real voyage of Discovery consists, not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes." - Proust
@danielvillanueva6639
4 жыл бұрын
Most is lost in indecision, than in wrong decisions.
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! What's 1 question you would have asked him if you could have?
@bencook618
4 жыл бұрын
@@EdMylettShow I would have maybe followed up with him in regard to starting a business being selfish. It would have been something in regard to, "what do you do if your spouse/significant other isn't thrilled about you being an entrepreneur? Should that stop us from plunging into the work, barring there isn't a ethical reason (obviously)? Thanks for such great contact Ed and Matthew.
@Amy-cs9qr
3 жыл бұрын
Ed Mylett Yes! How to deal with a partners toxic friend that you dislike?!
@rochelle9243
4 жыл бұрын
38:00 Ed nailed this point! The secret to sustaining a long-term relationship is maintaining intimacy, but you need excellent chemistry from the beginning. During the life of the relationship this can ebb and flow but you can only build it if the spark is in the relationship in the first place.
@emdesignwave2721
4 жыл бұрын
I am so blown away! This went from dating, intimacy, and business to kindness, narcissism, break ups and wake up calls, to our personal matrix, heart healing and recovery thru self love. To name a few! Watch to the end - the take aways are so insightful and thought provoking! Thank you both!
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
WOW ! .. you seriously just summed it all up perfectly! What was your favorite takeaway from the video?
@emdesignwave2721
4 жыл бұрын
EdMylett. I would time stamp @35 min to 37.30. Matt says “Meet them where they are”. Floored! To me, those 5 words set the tone for respect, acceptance and help with avoiding the 3 Ps - (taking things) personal, projecting and potential. Then Matt talks about the dynamic of “closing down and recreating space”. And how that dance can inform and build relationship or signal red flags early on. Brilliant takeaways for the beginning stages (in business, too) so it gets my fave award!
@charlyandrus7598
4 жыл бұрын
I am 59 years old and i am going to Disneyworld for the first time ever in a few months. Thanks for sharing about it and the trash cans.
@slobodankaarambasic4961
4 жыл бұрын
You’re amazing, Charlie 😃😊
@sharidavenport3594
2 жыл бұрын
I'm recently widowed after 35 years in a great marriage where we loved ourselves and each other. I'm also a Relationship Coach and always learning. It is So Good to hear healthy men having this conversation. Thank you!!
@AustinMBecker
4 жыл бұрын
Key to Great Relationships (not just romantic ones) - Keep your phone away, actually listen to the other person, don't expect gifts, love them for who they are, strive to help them with their success, be open and honest, be grateful for them and show them you care.
@ianmaguire5451
4 жыл бұрын
I've just watched this and I know where I went went wrong in my last relationship and I'm going to concentrate on loving me and not allowing my insecurities to push the next female away... thanks for sharing this
@eg2783
4 жыл бұрын
I swear I didn’t want this conversation to end!!! I feel like I am wiser already 😂 Thank you so much gentlemen 💕💕💕
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
Neither did I! You are so welcome! What's 1 thing you wished he went more in dept on?
@PracticalInspiration
4 жыл бұрын
This was fantastic. I love the point that we hit issues when we assume we know someone based on past experiences, as the one certainty is that with time people grow and change.
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the massive love and support! What's one thing that he said that got you inspired?
@misskayteee9862
4 жыл бұрын
EdMylett it all resonated with me, I was completely hooked and it’s amazing how so much of the advice can be utilised in both business and personal relationships. I would love to see more of Matthew speaking specifically about business advice, he is super inspiring!
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Жыл бұрын
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Жыл бұрын
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Жыл бұрын
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@brandonboy09
4 жыл бұрын
1:02:10 The matrix/mutation visual is one of the most profound things I’ve ever heard... speaks to the soul.
@MeditatewithAbhi
4 жыл бұрын
I love the perspective of having fresh eyes instead of new landscapes
@nozimakudrow2517
3 жыл бұрын
I’d to think that I have a very good relationship with my husband. After listening to these guys I learned so much more🥰 There’s always room for improvement. Open mindedness is the key🙌🏼
@houseworth123
4 жыл бұрын
See your partner with new eyes! Wow
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
This was probably one of my favorite lines too! What's 1 thing you wished he went more in dept on?
@farmerfox99
4 жыл бұрын
This is really challenging when ur 60 and ur wife is an invalid from ms and totally dependent on you. Experiencing loss on many levels .....
@kimparke6653
4 жыл бұрын
Time well spent watching this interview. Growth and communication. Miracles happen when people go inwards and ask brave questions.
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
This was probably one of my favorite interviews yet !! What's 1 thing you wished he went more in dept on?
@garywilson2383
4 жыл бұрын
Edmylett is a genius.what do you think?
@nicolekellidis7584
4 жыл бұрын
Bingo!❤
@JustanamebroDK
2 жыл бұрын
Wow - the part about physical intimacy in relationships was spot on. Summed up a past relationship for me. When you constantly feel rejected, and you're desperately trying to warp someone into playing the part, you're just not compatible! Being in a relationship like that can make you lonelier than actually being alone ever would do.
@patrickorourke41
4 жыл бұрын
Never seen Matthew speak before, and I am blown away at how much knowledge this guy could drop in less than 90 minutes. He completely changed my take on break ups and toxic people!
@elenadarling4697
4 жыл бұрын
Ed just listened and held his space and Mathew completely channeled everything that’s amazing and transformative. Can’t tell you how much this helped me post break up.
@hollykay4947
4 жыл бұрын
This is soo good so far!! “More is lost in indecision than wrong decision .” I’m sitting in indecision currently because I’m afraid of making the wrong decision.....
@slobodankaarambasic4961
4 жыл бұрын
Holly k Try to make one. That will give you courage. 🙂 One small step. ❤️
@lenkakupkova625
4 жыл бұрын
Done yet? Same situation here
@TheRealAgaBrady
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my God! I used to listen to Matthew Hussey every day for few minutes after my couple of years long break from relationships. He is incredibly good and played a huuuge part in me getting with my boyfriend. At this point 2,5 years together. Thanks Matthew! :-)
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
You are VERY welcome. So happy I was able to share this interview with you. What other topics you think I should have asked him?
@danetteshepard897
3 жыл бұрын
@@EdMylettShow I want to know about how to navigate long distance.
@JustLIkerapunzel
3 жыл бұрын
@@danetteshepard897 Just don't 🤣 Tried it 3 times. Wouldn't recommend lololol But since that won't stop you - same as with any relationship. Priorotizing your partner. Investing and giving space for them to close the gap again. If it isn't like this and one stops closing the distance - walk away!
@danetteshepard897
3 жыл бұрын
@@JustLIkerapunzel I didn't ask you a question. Blessed be.
@georgianaavram139
4 жыл бұрын
This is an amazing interview! I love the talk about kindness and how it's not valued enough in a relationship.
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the massive love and support! What other topics you think I should go over next time?
@najatrihane2569
4 жыл бұрын
EdMylett hi Ed I think it’s gonna be great to dug deeper in the subject of relationship. I would love to see a trio of you. Mathiew and esthel perel. It would be a dream if it happens.🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 amazing show, good luck. 🍀
@suikatime
3 жыл бұрын
I am 50 min into this interview and it suddenly hits me. This is the first time in my entire life that I have seen two men talking about relationships. I'm letting it sink in and it's hydrating my soul.
@joshua852009
4 жыл бұрын
"answers are a reward for doing stuff"
@darlachesnet8176
4 жыл бұрын
This was my top take away - except for all the links at the end - LOL!
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
This was probably one of my favorite lines too! What's 1 thing you learned about him, you previously didn't know?
@darlachesnet8176
4 жыл бұрын
@@EdMylettShow This was my first introduction to Matthew Hussey so everything was new to me. I was able to confirm that my ex-husband not "having my back" was an issue for me. I also resonated with kindness being a top quality I know I want in everyone I spend time with. And dating (again - at my age???) in this fast-paced social media laden time?! I'll definitely be following Matthew for tips. I almost didn't watch this, but you create excellent content and select superb guests to interview. Thank you, Ed Mylett! 🙏
@bbmpiano
Жыл бұрын
3:38 instead of bringing passion to the thing we are doing, we look for the thing we are doing to bring us passion 4:26 people become the one based on what we build with them 5:17 you can connect with thousands of people, but the one who will build with you 5:33 4stages of relationship: admiration, connection (mutual admiration), commitment, compatibility (function well together) 8:33 more is lost in indecision than wrong decision. 8:59 parked car. We get rewards for doing shit. Then you ask the passenger. Get the car moving, get answers by doing. See what works. Experiment. 12:25 the journey of discovery lies not in seeking new landscapes but seeing with fresh eyes. Some people have innate ability to see their partner with new eyes. 14:45 the times we disconnect with people is when we assume we know them today like we did yesterday. 16:33 we have this desire for our partners to stay comfortable so they don’t change beyond our grasp but now there’s no sense of enigma about you. Our fears and insecurities have a need to keep them known instead of allowing them to grow, even if it makes uncomfortable, it lets our desires grow. 22:10 we value the things we invest in and give time to. 23:16 narrative building of putting in effort and courage 23:53 it’s so vital in a world of noise you’re more able to quickly build a connection 25:18 no one cares you’re great once they get to know you 25:49 being real, authentic, someone who can laugh at themselves, telling stories to at show you as a person, what your values are, being curious about someone and you are uniquely interested in them 27:32 rare and valuable. How you tell the story but you also have to do the things. Do you have the kind of life that feeds your passion and fulfills you 27:45 do you have a community so you don’t become over reliant on this one person who becomes your community. I’ve got my community over here, I don’t need you but I’m having fun hanging out with you. If they’re the sole person, that’s what scares people. 29:40 good reason to jump into bed, I have fun, I feel respected and this would be an enjoyable experience 30:01 I avoid any kind of role when someone should do something. First know yourself, self awareness is key in intimacy, there’s nothing sexy about someone who jumps straight to frustration anger and shame after intimacy 31:10 own what you do. 31:17 not only should you not violate your own moral and ethics beliefs, in order to accomodate for someone else, one of the most unattractive things you can do, it’s not acting in congruence with who you are. 33:40 I don’t need this with someone I barely know but it’s more fun if we know each other (sex) 35:05 persistent and not going over the board? Meet them where they are. 36:03 how attraction works better: he comes over, or finds a way for two of them to be close, and says whatever he wants to say, he then turns away and carries on his business here. Now he’s on her radar and she can turn to him and say something. In recreating space, he’s giving her an opportunity to close down space. Closing down space is good because that’s what it says I like you. We now have a dynamic where both of us are doing the walking. If we are the one that’s constantly closing the space, that’s where we have to pull back.
@titithetoad
2 жыл бұрын
Kindness ... absutely spot on. After 30 years of a relationship that i did not recognise was deeply toxic, i was able to finally see there was no kindness. I brought thar into raising my children .. ots the same for any relationship ... if its not kind to you its not for you, its toxic for you. X
@leyanigarabito4381
3 жыл бұрын
Wow just listened to this. Just recently started following both Ed and Matthew and I must say you guys are geniuses when it comes to life coaching and relationship coaching. Matthew mentioned so many critical points in a relationship that we often oversee or just break it off because we don’t know how to deal with certain situations. I was mesmerized the whole time listening to you both, such an amazing interview. I didn’t want it to end. Thank you Ed for brining Matthew to your channel. Both are AMAZING. God bless you.
@johnf.gamboa6217
4 жыл бұрын
" What the heck has technology done to dating?". UUFFF, WHAT AN AMAZING QUESTION..
@kate19931029
4 жыл бұрын
Can’t tell how much I love this talk. Matt you are amazing of giving out your knowledge about relationships and life. I’m so thankful I found you!
@josephinefaulk1280
4 жыл бұрын
One of the best interviews I’ve ever seen on relationship dynamics. You two are golden together, between Ed asking core life-changing questions and Matthew dishing out the relationship wisdom like some aged shaman, I was incredibly inspired and believe I might just be able to actually have a mutually loving, respectful, passionate and fun long-term relationship. 💕
@mcox951
4 жыл бұрын
This was an incredible interview. As always Matthew Hussey can share and communicate life lessons in a way that enriches and opens your eyes to new perspectives. I read his book, went to a couple of his events and always left completely enlightened. It was not until I discovered myself, and got myself out of the way, that I was able to see what was in front of me the whole time. My relationship, now marriage, has been enriched by listening to incredible individuals like Hussey. Thank you Sir!
@mcsandrad
2 жыл бұрын
💙 Matthew, you are a beautiful person, both on the outside and inside. I loved to hear that kindness is THE thing for you. Also, I was deeply moved by the description of how you and your family are affectionate - I related to it and to the kind of relationship my kids and I have. I also love your positive energy. Thank you.
@deborahberylhulse1622
Жыл бұрын
Matthew Hussey is one of a kind. I savor every word--he's so very wise and communicates with true compassion.
@InnerVisionStudios
4 жыл бұрын
Such a great conversation Ed! Two men getting deep into the topic of relationships is so needed out there. Thanks man.
@margaretahogberg6869
3 жыл бұрын
I have enjoyed every minute of your conversation, both serious and you made me smile a lot. Thank You guys
@elizabethpettigrew7804
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree with you.
@msndotnet01
2 жыл бұрын
Once Matthew says this at the 54 minute mark, I remember why I broke up with my ex. Even after I wanted to go back to the relationship, and then she dumped me after. That was at 54:00. It is a reminder for me why I left, and what she did right after I dumped her is the most manipulate tactic I have ever seen just to make me jealous and spiteful, so disrespectful because she puts her insecurities, her feelings, her own needs above all else over what's best for the relationship. Thank you Matthew.
@gabrielle4305
4 жыл бұрын
Ed, I just LOVE when powerful men (and women) empower each other. Can’t say how much it warms my heart to see you complimenting Matthew through the interview.
@zakhah77
4 жыл бұрын
I used to say that I never take relationship advice from single people, but after following this guy (and another single relationship coach)'s interviews online, I'm re-evaluating that thought. Matthew is on FIRE!
@victoriaanaya8497
4 жыл бұрын
I highly recommend going to Mathew’s retreat, he is so passionate and to the point and breaks down so much about life in six. What a great interview!
@pajourney8363
4 жыл бұрын
Back to healing from a breakup, what someone can do is reinvent yourself. “Reinventing yourself is key to becoming whole again”. add new habits, new talents, and new intimacy.
@mariasoeters
4 жыл бұрын
Jesus guys. Amazing interview. Honestly one of the best I've ever seen. I'm blown away
@MissLisaBowes
Жыл бұрын
In my experience, having been married over 20 years, is that you have to fall in love with the same person over and over again. My husband didn’t understand that it was the small things that made me able to do that. The times when he showed me tenderness during tough times. Or, simply showed me proper encouragement. When he thought enough to stop at the store and get me a few flowers-just because. We aren’t together anymore, as we couldn’t get back on board again. But, we raised our kids together. We keep a close friendship and still look out for each other. We still have each others back. You can end it and not completely abandon each other. For example, I chose to move to another state (where I have healed and grown as a person), I went home for Thanksgiving. As a family, we had an amazing time. I love him. But in a different way. My kids respect and love us. Because we show each other grace. That’s so hard for people. And as much as I miss those wonderful moments we had. And hurt from the bad ones. That love is still there. And it’s what makes me try to still be a good momma…a good woman…a good person. I just need to remember to show that grace to myself. I get down on myself because I couldn’t keep up that original thing that made us create the wonderful people and family we did. I am happy where I am. I have the career here I wanted and am around the kind of friends I always wanted. So, I stand by my choice…but still stand by my kids and those I left too. In the ways I can. Love is complex and no one can tell you how. You just do.
@willi8420
4 жыл бұрын
I was repainting the bathroom while listing to the podcast , wife walks in when Matthew was talking about breakups , and now she thinks I'm plotting to break up with her, sad but true.
@Screenplaywriter
4 жыл бұрын
Probably not. Probably just wanted you to say you aren't. Buy her flowers.
@Joshualuv13
11 ай бұрын
Thank goodness a dating coach who has said there's no such thing as The One ! I totally agree .It's about two ppl who want each other and the same things. It's called a partnership
@azierah2
4 жыл бұрын
Ed bring out the best insight from Matthew.. this is Matthew BEST interview!
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the massive love and support! What other topics you think I should have asked him?
@lkasjddasjlk4350
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, that analogy of Disneyland was one of the most profound things I have EVER heard. For a 11-12 yo to notice that on his trip is foreshadowing of the amazing person Hussey is today.
@valeoclub
4 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! Ed, I find that such high quality, easiness, openness and fantastic flow of this conversation are definitely a sign of a wonderful interviewer that you are allowing guest to speak. It was like a beautiful tennis match! Matthew, absolutely love your logic and intention to stay away from absolutes, rules, “one fits all” ideas - lots of grey and foggy spaces in the world... My biggest take aways - meet them where they are, own your actions and ALWAYS be kind and empathetic. Thank you for a great and insightful conversation.
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
That's what i'm talking about! Couldn't have said it better myself !! Thank you so much for the kind words! Was there something in particular you learned about him, that you didn't know before the interview?
@valeoclub
4 жыл бұрын
EdMylett I have followed Matthew’s work as well as Esther Perel’s advice, conversations and TED talks, so I generally agree with their take on the subject of relationships. One thing I learnt about Matthew that perhaps I didn’t know before is his ability to apply simple relationship principles to the business world. In other words, he isn’t just “hitch” or the “dating doctor” but there is actually a lot more depth to him. Enjoyed the interview. So thank YOU!
@bazgashabir7410
3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree! Matthew, great as usual and it was also was great to witness Ed' s exceptional interview skills !
@sirennem.6890
2 жыл бұрын
John Gottman , 8 dates. The best book. Learn how to date. And Imago therapy, the book Getting the love you want explains all
@Rskillswitch
2 жыл бұрын
While i was watching this on my tv i opened up the comment section to see if other people were in absolute admiration of Matts perspectives Everytime Ed gasped, i was like THANK YOU, HALLELUJAH 🤣🙌 for saying that, because as brilliant and successful ED is, you'd very rarely see professionals and advisors in their own channel admire someone else like that, what an absolutely incredible video this is.
@CoriMiller
4 жыл бұрын
One of the best interviews I've listened to. I've been following Mathew for quite awhile and love his style but equally Loved the questions you asked. Such a great combo you two are. Thank you for all your content, always learning something!
@sirennem.6890
2 жыл бұрын
many of us are attached to our partners, not in love. The book Attached explains that
@thecatisoutofthebag83
Жыл бұрын
Matthew Hussey is truly one of the best coaches there is!
@Bizsavvyartist
4 жыл бұрын
This was amazing and much needed as I go through the process of healing after a break-up.
@jorgecarlos4120
4 жыл бұрын
Ed, I watch interviews and listen to podcasts all over the place. But even when watching the same guests in different podcasts, I keep coming back to interviews on your channel. Something about your excitement, your humbleness and eagerness to learn brings out the best of the people you interview. Keep it up my man!
@kelleyanne4372
4 жыл бұрын
Wow! You guys are awesome! The topic of a toxic relationship is spot on! I’ve been in one! I absolutely love this interview. I’m saving this one! The topic of kindness spoke to me as well. I’m 50, divorced and have 4 boys. I am sooooo over negative people! I just want to be around genuine, kind people. I don’t even react to them anymore, why bother! Matthew thank you so very much for this eye opening piece. I’m also in the online dating world and I couldn’t agree more, there’s always something else at someone’s fingertips. Its hard but there are genuine people out there. Thank you guy so very much for taking time out to do what you do best! Thank you for caring! ❤️ Happy Thanksgiving to you both!
@garywilson2383
4 жыл бұрын
Edmylett is a genius. What do you think?
@sallykalan4026
4 жыл бұрын
I agree ❤️
@sallykalan4026
4 жыл бұрын
Kelley C I agree so much ❤️
@garywilson2383
4 жыл бұрын
@@sallykalan4026 hmm How are you doing?
@sallykalan4026
4 жыл бұрын
Gary wilson i am doing good lol 👌😃
@victoriajimenez7416
3 жыл бұрын
On the topic of physical affection, I also find the trouble with wanting physical affection that doesn’t always feel like it is expected to lead to the bedroom. Sometimes I just want to be intimate in the sense of enjoying company and the feeling of closeness but it doesn’t get received that way by my partner, so I don’t feel comfortable being close anymore because I can’t get a hug without it being pushed towards sex. Suggestions?
@SunshineSurfsup1
4 жыл бұрын
MasterClass lessons...for life! This wisdom happens to be landing at a time of a clean break from a guy whose energy fell below my orbit. Thank you!!!
@charlesrobert1883
4 жыл бұрын
If you want help to get your love back, I can introduce you to someone who can help you, message him on WhatsApp+44 7418 327456... And he will help you bring back your ex
@belmontdwl
4 жыл бұрын
Best one yet. For sure. Not everyone is built to be an entrepreneur but everyone is built for all types of relationships. Applicable to all.
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
Right on! Was there anything he said that really caught your attention in a positive light?
@belmontdwl
4 жыл бұрын
@@EdMylettShow Yes, if you are interested, you close the space and then open the space for the other person. I don't know if I explained it correctly but I understood it. Seriously, very perceptive. Great job, brother!
@pippapowling2306
Жыл бұрын
This is phenomenal and so well-worth watching, which I will do several times and absorb even more. Thank you both.🙏🏻
@asiag6863
2 жыл бұрын
Not one calling for sure...but a calling is something you have a gift and passion for. Not something you have to force yourself to be passionate about
@MawiyahJ
4 жыл бұрын
Masterful. I got so much value from this. I’ll be watching this several times. Thank you.
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
Incredibly happy to hear you enjoyed the video ! Truly appreciate the love and support. What's 1 subject you wished he would have elaborated more on?
@sdidora5
4 жыл бұрын
@@EdMylettShow the ownership of it all...
@meganlodge4660
4 жыл бұрын
Has to be one of the best (if not *the* best) video I have ever seen. I’ve been watching Matt religiously for a while now, and every piece of content is incredible, but the amount of wisdom in this interview was just outstanding. Ed, you’re so right in saying his humility makes him just the most awe-inspiring and amazing person, because the way he can use simple illustrations and analogies without needing to use big words or make himself look good is just perfection. Absolutely blew my mind watching this and I have a feeling it will be one of those videos where you learn more each time you re-watch it. Thank you so much for the time and effort you put into making this, you have no idea how grateful I am, and I’m sure everyone else watching is too. So much love ♥️♥️
@tesslouise-givetesslove9948
4 жыл бұрын
Love MH, been following him for 5 years and have grown so much with his advice. Great interview. Just a thought. In the description could you put the times next to each question on the list? I plan on coming back to rewatch a few parts and that would help me and others find the advice we are seeking. Thx
@cayad2591
3 жыл бұрын
Everytime I hear Matthew speak he will say something that makes me yell "Thank you!!!" at least once! 🥰
@jonassearcher3708
4 жыл бұрын
This interview was an absolute gift. SOOO SOO GOOD!!
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you so much! That is incredibly kind of you. Truly means a lot to me. You think this might be one of my best interviews yet?
@TSAONGAF
2 жыл бұрын
OMG I wish there was a "love" button on YT. I dream of the day when these two great men have more followers than our superficial and mediocre-minded celebrities in the entertainment industry.
@ghaddict7
4 жыл бұрын
Wow. I’ve listened to this twice, once on Spotify and now on KZitem. I’m blown away about how this applies to my personal and business relationships. But most of all, hoe to improve them or create more value than what I was already setting forth.
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
That’s so awesome! Happy you were able to find some enjoyment in it! What's one thing said that really resonated with you?
@jeanne-miriamkirsten1677
3 жыл бұрын
What a profound conversation ☀️I feel Ed was expertly asking questions which gave Matthew the ideal opportunity to share his insights and realisations with more depth & gravitas.
@celestekriel7126
4 жыл бұрын
Love love love this!! Especially where Matthew talked about the partner and the family! I can relate, so true! Love You Guys!!! Thank You for being in this world!!!💙💙💙
@Exprealtyagent
4 жыл бұрын
This talk was a box of jewels but the banker’s mind bit was my answer for today. In my sad mood today, I decided to learn something new like the athlete recovery 😉 , that example made me cry because I really understood my identity is not what I was sad about, I am above that. Nothing is a coincidence, so thank you kind gentleman for the light in my dark day.
@dft120
4 жыл бұрын
I found the best one for me many years ago. I look forward to watching this one to see how to improve our already awesome relationship. I'm guessing this can also help improve a relationship with God. Thank you for all your great content though I rarely comment. (This is my first)
@AikiraBeats
Жыл бұрын
That one about creating space so you can be at the same pace with that person is so very true. It's something that I'm still learning to understand.
@BrazilianGirl.
4 жыл бұрын
Who else took notes ?!? Amazing quotes ! Wow What a great interview ! Been following Mathew since his first "Elvis Duran"morning show appearance and he never ceased to "wow "me ! 👏 👏 👏
@nohemid.611
4 жыл бұрын
This is by far one of the most interesting videos I've ever seen , Matthew has an unbelievable way of explaining things I would normally find complicated in a simple way, that is a true ability of a great communicator! Amazing interview the notes I took are amazing! Thank you both so much for sharing all this knowledge
@RenaWith
3 жыл бұрын
No one will ever be better than John Gray when it comes to understanding men and women and relationships. He changed the world forever.
@vivianneschmidt6276
4 жыл бұрын
This video was incredibly insightful into the dynamics of human relationships as a whole. Thank you for sharing your content!
@Prisoner4011
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Matthew! Your Matrix theory really shed some light on my recovery from severe chronic depression, something none of the doctors I saw or the medicine I took has managed to do in the past 6 years. If I actually climb out of this one day, I owe you big time. Thanks.
@LisaGemini
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome interview! I got more in just 30 minutes than I usually do in other videos. This new brave world of dating is kinda scary at times. But Matthew makes it so much easier to understand. Thank you for all the affirmation I get from your work, Matthew! You’re a gem and your mum must be so proud of you!
@sue4958
4 жыл бұрын
I just came across this. Mathew I follow you and love what you are doing and how you do so in such a respectful way. Ed, I did not know who you were, but listening to your engagement with Mathew, your warmth, humility, strength and openness was a breath of fresh air. Loved the interview, thank you both
@Harharq8
4 жыл бұрын
Matthew Hussey you really understand relationships very good very well. A pain will change us for the better as a person but all people are avoiding pain or hard work then when are we going to better then?? I think i better do hardwork at least i will be better.
@dpcsoup04
4 жыл бұрын
Stop looking for the thing you’re doing to bring you passion and start bringing passion to the thing you’re doing 🙏
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
BOOM! Absolutely said and summed it up perfectly. Great stuff.
@dpcsoup04
4 жыл бұрын
EdMylett god bless you and your family brother, keep on fighting the good fight.
@nennettedebs8333
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Loved it!! Your most important relationship will be with yourself, that's the 1st place to take the trash out. First place to practice kindness, and practice all the other tools you will use for other relationships. 🙏💖
@janepenston1778
2 жыл бұрын
Yep I'm with my husband over 20 year .we took a spilt for two years and returned back to each other with new Insights and fresh look with each other.
@sylakras
4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful interview! Thank you Ed for having Matthew to this conversation, which is bringing so much clearness about relationships to us. 🙏🏻❤
@moncamonca1439
7 ай бұрын
Hello, thank you Ed and Mathieu. I'm impressed by your Theory - this concept about the matrix and the loss of identity in the big square of a long-term relationship. I've experienced this Loss of Identity over the last few years and I have to admit that I felt exactly as you've described. After the loss of my job, a very difficult separation, a separation from my teenage son, my mom past away, my death as well, receintly I had an accident, my whole world collapsed. I thought I was ready to meet someone new but my recovery was not completed. Now I've understood that all my values and beliefs have been tested. Today I'm still alive. Smiling and laughing again. The Athlete method is valid and worth the effort ))😊
@Kait__C28
4 жыл бұрын
This is honestly one of the most profound things I’ve been heard. Thank you Ed for this! And Matthew! Been a fan for a long time. I adore you.
@hannahahle
2 жыл бұрын
People who have someone they’re ordained to meet know it. They know from a young age and know when the encounter that person. It doesn’t mean they’re the person they end up building a life with, and when they do they still have to build a relationship that serves both people well like everyone else
@takeoveracademy4079
4 жыл бұрын
There is a man the entire world needs to know.
@simsimasgaming
4 жыл бұрын
The most romantic thing Matthew Hussey does, is share his wisdom with the world, and with a heart full of love. I look forward to meeting someone so in tune with reality, someone like him.
@mrj1299
4 жыл бұрын
I just love your reactions Ed. You show so much emotions.
@tesslouise-givetesslove9948
4 жыл бұрын
He is so affirming hey. Nice to see :)
@khadijafriha6200
4 жыл бұрын
When a conversation is made by two great men about important matters in an understanding and logical manner, the result will be incredible .Thank you
@RAZASHARP
4 жыл бұрын
Toooo Ed.. you outdid yourself with this one my friend!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I got a watch this 10 more times🤷🏽♂️ awesome for business as well..thanks bro... Letsssgoooo
@EdMylettShow
4 жыл бұрын
You are VERY welcome. So happy I was able to share this interview with you. What other topics you think I should have asked him?
@teresa6635
3 жыл бұрын
Fabulous discussion. Love hearing men having conversations like this...getting real, honest and deep. So Refreshing!
@tuesdayskittens
4 жыл бұрын
Brilliant right to the end!!! Thank you both, amazing!!
@김은수-h9p
4 жыл бұрын
I watched Matthew for years but this is truly amazing! You two were ment for each other🤣 The flow of the talk and the content is great♡ It gives such good impact to our lives. I think I will show this to people I truly love and care. Thank you so much😍
@angiep8217
2 жыл бұрын
Matthew is incredibly smart with analogies & he makes total sense
@maialenruiz8021
2 жыл бұрын
I really really loved this interview and specially the last part talking about the recovery after breaking up. You really helped me to see that Im in the right path and doing things well. And I'm learning a lot from your knowledge for when I'm ready to go back on dating 😅. Thank you so much Mathew.
@maialenruiz8021
2 жыл бұрын
Ans thank you Ed for such a good conversation. Doing the right question. It was wonderful. Such a beautiful energy between to of you
@karenquehl6869
3 жыл бұрын
Matthew I can never impart how much your words are helping me. I am living near Toronto Canada. How can I go to one of your retreats? I have passed this on to my son. Right now he is an executive with Amazon in Seattle. Wedding anniversary today but taking his wife to Buffalo for very special MRI and bloodwork to get clearer diagnosis of a mass on her liver. I am with my granddaughters 7&11 in Toronto. My daughter-in-law looks to me for advise because I survived breast cancer and then 5 years later huge blood clots in my lungs from meds. I will listen to all of your talks. Have left 4 years ago from second abusive marriage. I asked myself, why did you stay so long? One example I was in cancer treatment 2 years. Sick and scared. He never went with me or even asked how I felt. I discovered he was going to a casino. No money for that but my line of credit. First marriage 7 years and was told I was a means to an end and ran with a 6 month old baby boy. He tried at one point to kill me with a car. Second marriage of 36 years. A truck load of red flags. A daughter from this. I am a university graduate in psychology and sociology. A retired elementary teacher. Took many, many courses along the way. Learning is a life long endeavour. Moving on. Thanks. I did not know there were men out in the world like you.
@asjacyra87
4 жыл бұрын
there's something about this whole interview that clarify a really good point about long term relationships and for me was growth with your partner and Matthew said something that makes click for me and that is try to find someone who's right and ready in the same time that you.
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