Wow I just caught this in my YT side list. SUPER video -- was looking for chrome bumper repair vid and got some very valuable life advice. Thank you so much for your honesty and transparency. Love it!
@phyrexian5704
Жыл бұрын
I have watched this video multiple times over the years just for the life advice. All I can say is.....thank you.
@chuckpreston4981
6 жыл бұрын
I know how you're feeling, Tim. As we get "more experienced," we start looking back and wondering about what we could have done differently. Unfortunately, we can't change the past, can't really affect the future events, all we can do is try to plan and set things up for continued health and prosperity. You've done a great job with the hand you were dealt, growing up into a good man, wonderful husband, and excellent father. You have the respect of many - worldwide - and are a positive influence to everyone who watches your videos.
@timblackwell8833
6 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. This is the main reason I watch your stuff. You are real and speak to my soul. I identify with your struggles and with your triumphs. You are easy to identify with. I also learn a lot from your variety of videos. Today reminded me of one of my favorite quotes and this video depicts it's essence: "An unreflective man is a dangerous man.... to himself and to his own side."
@davidwatt7663
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tim your Videos always give food for thought, rather than just having a rant .I'm 60 now But yesterday I was 45!!! I'm a third Generation Farmer , I've been a racing Driver And a Teritorial Army Soldier. And I've traveled to The US staying in New England for 3 months in the Fall and early winter Back in the 80s LOVED EVERY MINUTE.Despite its many Problems you ARE in Great Country With many many Opportunities. Your Family is well cared for buy Your hard Work . Compared to millions the world over Your Future is Bright, might just need a bit of succession Planning in the Business. Kind Regards David Watt
@David-td4ik
5 жыл бұрын
this is definitely the most hardcore way to fix a bumper, but it is the trucker way to do it, I love it!
@ronaaserude8225
6 жыл бұрын
you're a wise, honest man Tim-from everything I've seen and heard on here. When people like you talk, I listen! It's not always about age or life experience, but about what people know and share. I also agree with that quote you read; pretty obvious you've got some top quality subscribers on here.
@waiakalulu3501
6 жыл бұрын
With family, you have to realize that not everyone is going to agree. Someone's going to either get or feel like they got shafted. If the bonds are not strong, the inheritance can come between folks, and then the sadness begins. The more you can stand on your own, the better. Plan to get nothing, if something does come your way, that's icing on the cake. In terms of KZitem, you're just scratching the surface of content and the possibilities for growth. I've learned a ton from you. You're highly skilled and you have a strong moral compass that a lot of other content creators do not have. Build on these things.
@jmwarden1
6 жыл бұрын
Tim, I have worked hard all my life, 30 years in the Air Force, 23 +years at a manufacturing co. and told them I wanted to retire again next month when I turn 75. It's been a good life but my back and legs say it's time to give it up and rest a little. Love your videos, and have watched all of them and waiting for more.
@felixslag
7 ай бұрын
brother this video was incredible, touched my heart. ive worked hard all my life. and finally seeing the fruits of my labor. great story teller. you should do more stories that can help younger people. hats of to you.
@matthewnebel1072
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Tim. This video sheds some light on how your hands were tied when you had all the trouble with your truck when it was new. Hopefully you and your brothers can get things worked out with your dad sooner than later. Thanks for all the videos and hard work sharing it with us.
@ozzie3251
6 жыл бұрын
Hey tim. I really appreciate you opening up about your experience. I never comment on videos but this really hit home with me. I, like you, hang out with older individuals I also learned about IRA's and retirement accounts and the value of money. I hope that you know that I really appreciated what you said and hope that everything works out well for you.
@stevehartley5803
6 жыл бұрын
Tim I worked in the same building for more then 20 years. I took a job in Richmond Va. As I crossed over the river in to Ill. I looked back at the sun setting over the Mississippi and said what did I do? I have lived more life in Richmond then I did all the time in Iowa. Yes I miss everyone back home. But this was a better life for my family. If everything worked like I was hoping for 42 years ago I would be retired Nov. of this year. The fact is the plant closed 5 years after I left Iowa and I lost my job here that same year. It is life and you make the best of it. I love my life and have lived it the best way I can. You will do what you need to do to make your life the best you can. I can't be leave I am 60 and want to fell trees with my Stihl MS 460 for fun.... That way I still know I am alive. May god help you do the things you need to do. Good Luck and enjoy life.... it is shorter then you think. Love you and your family Tim. You improve my life everyday... Thank You
@josephfox1192
6 жыл бұрын
I feel the frustrated feeling's you are having right now, You have worked for everything you and your family have right now, That is something to be very Proud Of, Thanks Again, Joey From Statesville NC
@larrysloskysr5503
6 жыл бұрын
Great video Mr Tim. Hard thing to do. Put it out to the world. This is why Mr. Tim I chose you to help me with my 50 year struggle.
@paulbenjamin8754
5 жыл бұрын
Awesome personal story! This is what "you"tube is really about. Thanks for your inspiring account. Keep living the way you are. You're teaching alot by your life story.
@shaunminifie5909
6 жыл бұрын
Cant be easy to talk about this stuff in public. I imagine there will be some more discussion somewhere along the line. I deal with a lot of rural people in my work and most if not all of them have a succession plan to keep the farm in the family. Often fraught with difficulty. I have faith that you and Jill will get there. You have worked hard for what you have and enjoy what you do. We all get to see your joy when you are with Jill and the girls or out with the psycho dogs. I know I couldn't do what you do and open up my life but I am glad you have. Stay strong.
@rileygreenwood8684
6 жыл бұрын
Tim I feel the struggle your going through man. There's nothing like working your butt off for very little compensation besides your check. This video really shows who you really are and not just putting on for the camera. Everyone needs to vent every now and then and us as subscribers appreciate your honesty to us.. I remember back when I was a kid my grandpa always told me son it's not the amount of money you make, it's how you spend it.
@jimdandy6862
6 жыл бұрын
Don't make the same mistake I made. Dad was 75 when he passed never remember him being sick. Surreal feeling, standing at an auction on property you thought was yours. Bidding on equipment you helped pay off. Worked 18 hours or more some days. Worked for free others. Meet with your siblings first and reach a consensus. If you have to, hire an arbitrator to sit down with Pop's. All of you have families to support, he owes you all an explanation of his intentions concerning the business. All of you have a vested interest. Talk or walk. Good Luck and God Bless.
@marshalldavis4455
6 жыл бұрын
Great video. The time will come when your dad realizes reality. Great investment strategy. The only thing to add, is to see an investment guy. Times change and get a "blueprint" for your retirement. It usually doesn't cost anything. Thanks for your videos.
@barretthardy3499
6 жыл бұрын
One of the most real videos you've had.
@shawnschoppert8540
6 жыл бұрын
Great video, great words of wisdom, I wish you and your family the best and many blessings for years to come!!
@terrythurman5869
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the honesty and inspiration!
@daveschuetrum576
6 жыл бұрын
One of your best videos, Tim. I have always had the same questions about the path I was on as well. Even though the job I had was a good one, (been retired now for 4 years), I never was satisfied with it. Everyone knows what their true calling is, but you also have to make a living, too. It's hard to jump ship when you get into a good profession. I had no family to depend on. I stuck it out and maxed out my investments, paid everything off 20 some years ago. That's because of going through a reorganization years ago and it really put the scare into me. When my mininum retirement age came up at work ...I was out the door 2 weeks later and never looked back. Bottom line...live below your means, invest in stock mutual funds and do your best. Have a long range plan...most important. For me...I now feel like my life is on track, and I am doing things I feel I was ment to do. It's hard looking back and knowing that I wasted a lot of time and my life with the work I did but you got to earn a living. Bottom line...I think you are on the right track now with your thinking. Most people drift along in their canoe without a paddle. You guys need to get stuff straight with your Dad. For him it's all about control and power. He is afraid of losing that.
@timhill473
6 жыл бұрын
You and I have walked down the same path in life, I too worked for my father in the family-owned business for many years and I was told someday it would be mine, well that day never happened, he ended up selling the business and I had no say in the matter, it goes without saying that the lesson learned has left me with a somewhat bitter taste in my mouth but I survived and went on with life and seceded just fine. Just a suggestion, You and your brothers should set down with dad and have a heart to heart talk. sort things out so you know where you stand
@cotontop3
6 жыл бұрын
That is the root, he won’t talk to us and gets mad if any of us mention anything.
@timhill473
6 жыл бұрын
Well, that`s too bad, sound`s like our fathers were cut from the same cloth. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. I didn`t have the slightest idea what I was going to do when the business was sold but I put one foot in front of the other and didn`t look back and things turned out ok. But I still wonder to this day what if
@daveschuetrum576
6 жыл бұрын
It really boils down to control. My father was like that, too. I think the older generation is like that. I never really got to really know my father...he was very isolated.
@arkansas1336
6 жыл бұрын
Tim, I'm 2 years younger than your dad, and I had the opposite problem...no one to leave the well established/thriving business to. I had employees that could have taken the company and 'run with it', (the company had retirement plan, health insurance and paid the employees better than 'top dollar') but no one wanted to [own and work] at the needed hectic pace....maybe somewhat more than you currently do...70 +hrs/week. My body, at age 57 'broke down' (and btw, I bought my last new piece of equipment at age 61) but I continued to work until I retired at age 65, when I couldn't go any more. I would have sold out for 40 cents on the dollar (due to my health issues), but it required a dedicated person. I ended my career by selling the company a piece at a time. In spite of my health issue 'flare up' I thought I was still "10 feet tall and bullet proof", but 5 years later I had to accept my problem. My point is, hopefully you can talk with your dad and get him to understand things can happen that aren't in his control (as was my case). I certainly don't think he should quit, but be sensible enough to realize his inaction could be the downfall of the company AND his kids' families. From my experience, I would say to him "act now before its too late, you'll be glad that you did!" From my experience my words to you are, "if something can't be worked out to help you feel better about your work life, MOVE ON, don't wait for someone controlling your life cause you and your family unhappiness" (45 isn't too late to start another career, I did and was very successful). These words, as you can see by my noted health history, are meant to be offered to you in a helpful manner.......please, I hope you're not angry with me. A friend, ....13
@95thousandroses
6 жыл бұрын
Best video in a while. Tough when you start getting up in years and realizing that what you're currently doing for money is likely what you'll be doing for the rest of your most profitable working years. Not easy to change careers later in life. Also being such a crucial cog in a family business might make one feel a bit trapped too.
@bryanmuller3510
9 ай бұрын
Hey man i needed this video right here (not the "how to fix the bumper") so glad i found your channel.
@waltermattson5566
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being real on this video. It goes to show everyone does have struggles they are trying to work out. I hope all of you are able to get things figured out and you can stay a happy family.
@royceabbottsexcavation3709
6 жыл бұрын
That’s a very good video Tim. Lots of truth in what was said by you in this video.
@cotontop3
6 жыл бұрын
I thought about it for a nearly a month before I published this video.
@royceabbottsexcavation3709
6 жыл бұрын
Tim just keep doing what you do. It’s all going to be just fine. It will all work out in time sir.
@Mr.Beastforpresident
5 жыл бұрын
cotontop3 I just ran across your channel today. My first thoughts in the first 3 mins before you said everything about the company not being yours was you have a nice shop, nice truck and nice tractor and that you have it made. Not everything is as it appears. You have it just as hard as most. I appreciate you being real. Nothing to be ashamed about.
@MrJeffm66
6 жыл бұрын
I feel ya brother. I worked for the family business up until i was 40. Got out of it and did the unthinkable, Started over at a new job. I'm 51 now, i work 12 hr swing shift. The money is half way decent, i get plenty of time off but....if i could do it over i would have stayed knowing what i know now. I work in the paper mill business in the woodyard. Yall bring the wood and we chip it up and make paper. I want to leave this place but i can't see myself starting all over AGAIN at this age. My wife says im going through a mid life crisis. I don't know about all that, i just know it sux. Love your video's. Keep em coming!
@dkmcclure23
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for opening up Tim!! I know it Wasn't easy putting this one out, assuming that's why you recorded but didn't post until now. I have dealt with some similar things that you're bataling now. One thing that helped me was me understanding that we are the ones that can change. Our parents/grandparents were raised different that us and while they maybe doing what they fill is best for us, we don't always see the outcome. We want to talk through things when they keep it all bottled up...I see how your involved with Jill and your girls. I bet 10-1 that is something your doing that's wasn't done for you. Doesn't mean your dad doesn't love you or care any less. Our way of doing things are different. Best thing is tell him how you feel. Even though it maybe a weird conversation...also don't doubt that you made the wrong decision. You love what you do and are there for a reason. You can delete this comment if I'm out of line. Just wanting to help since you put so much into videos for us
@cotontop3
6 жыл бұрын
Keith you are very spot on in your thoughts in this comment.
@w056007568
6 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more with your comments. It is clear to me that this situation is for Tim and his siblings a bit like a slowly developing festering boil on the back of their necks - it gets a little more painful each and every day and some days are worse than others. There has to come a time hopefully sooner rather than later when there is a serious discussion and some agreeable plan of action whether Tim's dad likes it or not. Often this discussion is prompted by outside professionals such as lawyers, bankers etc. when it comes to issues of pensions and such like matters. I think that Doug Harrison comment below offers some method of going forward without bringing the business down around all their heads which could so easily happen especially considering Dad's age. Succession matters in family businesses need to be addressed NOT ignored. I personally have seen this situation go really wrong related to many family farms where Grandpa controls the cheque book and there are at least two younger generations actively involved with the business and often doing most of the work but having no say or influence on events.
@pauljackson8
6 жыл бұрын
Tim, Keith and Dan have it in nut shell,the longer it's left the harder it gets to sort out and you have been worrying a long time I've seen it in you in many of your videos, I've been where your at family business work all hours and reap the rewards then bam where have all those years gone , they go because we are so busy doing what we do best and that's living for the love of family and you now have one very large family in your subscribers that feel your honesty as the good man you are, you know in your heart what has to be done and it's far from easy I know I've had to do it ,take note from all the comments and go forward it will work out the right way ,help is always at hand just post it in a video and the army of followers will respond.
@bcdouglas1
6 жыл бұрын
I know exactly were your comeing from. I work for my dad have been since i was 10. Im also 45. He'll be 65 in July. He owns a construction company and is talking about me takeing over, but still wants to be a big part of the business. Dont get me wrong i love working with him but would rather be a employe than an owner. I just dont want the headache. I dont really like to deal with people if i dont have to.
@edreid3073
6 жыл бұрын
Last spring I also hit a huge buck with my 2015 Ram 2500. Nearly exactly the same damage. The rad behind the bumper is an inter cooler . I got mine fixed at a insurance referred body shop and cost was 4525.00 Canadian. I carry 500 deductible so didn’t hurt me too bad. Love your down to earth videos. Guess most of us have been there to some extent . Thanks for the vids
@jflem22
6 жыл бұрын
This video hit home for me in so many ways Tim. I know exactly what you are talking about. I have inquired about buying or investing into our family business to my dad but that is as far as it goes. He never wants to talk about it and that's frustrating for me. No actions have ever been taken to let me feel comfortable about my future with the business after he decides he's had enough. It's hard to leave and begin something new since I've been with him building the business since getting out of school. I enjoy being able to work with my dad but it is challenging at times. Anyway I really enjoyed this video and I'm glad I'm not the person going through a similiar situation.
@kendaniel2558
6 жыл бұрын
You hitt the nail on the head . Where we I live in fla we have kid that can't even count change for a dollar due to standardize testing have to have computer or calculator to due it. I hung out with older men when I was young also they would be at the store ever morning telling stories and jokes . I wish I'd took some of there advise then. All it took was 2 hospital stays in 5 years and wiped out all we had saved in 25 year. The younger generations most don't understand about financial responsibility or have planned for the future . Now I'm one of those older guys almost (54) and I tell - my grandkids and anyone that would listen how important it is to put money up an sir on it you never know what might happen in an emergency. I've ranted long enough thanks for what you do I call it life lessonsbeing
@anthonykguru
5 жыл бұрын
Tim, I am redundant on saying this, but you hit the proverbial nail on the head. You have enough comments about family and money on here so I won't add to that. My advice with regard to the drastic loss of fuel economy is to have the charge air cooler also know as intercooler pressure or smoke machine tested to see if the deer punctured through it. If you have a turbo diesel in that truck and the charge air cooler is leaking then fuel economy loss is one of the indications. I suspect if the ac condenser was damaged and since the charge air cooler is likely mounted right behind it, there might be a leak in it.
@kevincarver6727
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Tim. I have watched all of your videos and I feel like I know you even though I’ve never met you. I think you are a good person and a hard working person. TDK is a family operated company that gets the job done right. Sometimes it can be difficult. Whatever the future holds you will be fine. Thanks for sharing. Later
@devinhall3699
6 жыл бұрын
I watch every video and this one id say is the realest! Just telling how you feel. Good video man. Keep your head up!
@timaldrich875
6 жыл бұрын
Really enjoy your video's Tim , although we haven't met I can tell your one heck of a good guy. Continue to be smart with what you have you'll be ok. My dad rented his farm over to me when he became 65 (I was 43) and put me in charge , He still helped until he was unable to.I was fortunate as I see other Dads still running it all at 80 and their son's maybe being held back. I guess it's their choice. Your dad has to be a smart man to have built what he has . I hope he has a plan in place for you all. I know working with family can be hard at times but it seems you do enjoy the work, life is what you make it . Cherish the time you have working with your brothers and dad
@timaldrich875
6 жыл бұрын
And keep the logs coming, as the saying goes, if it was easy everybody would be doing it !! Tim in Indiana
@joefireman6236
6 жыл бұрын
Tim that some very good advice you put out today !!! not just for younger ones but for some of the older ones too need too listing too your good advice !!!
@MrBogeyone
6 жыл бұрын
Just getting around to watching a few videos and this was one of the first. The thing I have found over my 64 years so far is that when a man dies, if he can count all his friends on just one hand, he had a very good life. I was raised by my grandparents and was taught to do things the way people that age did. They raised families through the great depression. I was taught to be honest and always respect people as long as they did me right. I raised my kids the same way. I worked and my wife went to school after we married. She became a registered nurse. I was a line tech in a dealership that became a parts manager and then a service manager. I tried my own shop later and as it worked out, I could never find good help. I took a job at a country club and worked to retirement. My advice is always do what makes Tim happy. I see your family life is good for your wife and girls, and that is what life is all about. Opinions are a dime a dozen so advice is best. Read what people have to offer and weigh it. Pick and choose what you feel is relevant to make Tim happy. If I were close I would help you straighten that bumper. Maybe once you get it half way straight you might look at mounting some 3 inch channel behind the chrome to help if you hit another deer? Anyway, have a goof day my friend and be the best you can be with whatever you do. The rest will work out.
@williamsuttle9390
6 жыл бұрын
That was awesome Tim, yes we still use a 6 ft measuring stick in the Wood's marked 2 ft an 4 ft sometimes someone will leave it on a pile of logs an it gets broke then we have to cut another one... Thank you for sharing.
@gerrywinters8717
6 жыл бұрын
I think you do an excellent job of sharing your everyday life of a hard working family man Your a proud father and husband and for as I'm concerned a great human being that's not scared of work as long as it benefits you and your family. I'm just an ole football coach that was raised on a farm and knows the kind of work you have to do to provide for family and my father and mother sacrificed a lot so there kids would never want and us boys were athletic enough to get full scholarship to college. I just wanted to say keep your chin high and keep plugging away and don't let anyone else take your glory. In my eyes your a great man , father and husband and a very hard working man !
@bubbathrift5498
6 жыл бұрын
Every word you spoke is the gods honest truth. You and Jill work hard for what you’ve got and for the girls. I think the KZitem thing came along at the right time and is kinda an out for you to help keep your sanity while providing entertainment for each and everyone of the subscribers here. Maybe I’m wrong idk. Just as I see it. Your an awesome guy and really enjoy each and every video produced. Maybe one day lord willing we can meet up. You seem to my type of person that I enjoy hanging out with. Btw love the music in the loader as well. Idk if that might be something you want to add to your videos is just you running the machine and jamming away. Folks see a typical day on the job for Cotontop3. Of course by all means edit out whatever doesn’t need to be seen bc we all know there are things that doesn’t need to be shared with the public in the day to day operations of TDK and what and how the family of TDK goes through along with business conversations and decisions. Have a good one man. Hope to see you on the next video and adventure.
@kengamble8595
6 жыл бұрын
Looks like one of those, what I call a contemplating day ! I have had these and believe everyone should have these ! You have to take a look at what's going on now and what can happen in the future and what you want to happen in the future ! I'm getting close to that 65 year mark and believe me, time goes by FAST !! I'm banged up, beat up and crippled up now to the point that I'm not able to do much but remember the ustas ! You know, I usta be able to do that, or I usta be! That's kinda odd what you was saying about your uncle because I had an uncle Monroe that passed away when I was six and I kelp the name going in my family because I still miss him ! Thanks for sharing and take care. 👍 👍 👍
@michaelsnyder908
6 жыл бұрын
been watching you for a little while and today I subcribed because this video in my opinion is the best one you have done as you got as real as real can be you are as normal as we all are and today you allowed that to shine through so keep up the good work my friend, also I think you are a lucky man to have such a wonderfull wife as Jill and just remember that when push comes to shove it is all that really matters to have the support that she and your girls provide. trucks and gear come and go but they remain. take care from all of us viewers here in nova scotia canada buddy and have a great day and a better tomorrow.
@rickhicks8603
6 жыл бұрын
Tim this is one of the best videos that you have put out. A lot of truth in what said in this video .You and your brothers need to talk to Dad an say we need to get something on paper about the company & how to run things when your Dad retires. Now that is the way I look at this. Just saw a video of Jason hunting hogs in High water , that was a great video that he worked on, Tim have your self a great day
@kevinr.lemieux9982
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing that Tim there is a lot of truth in what you said basically you need to work hard and be smart with your money me and my wife struggled at first made sacrifices and know we're doing okay loved the quote great video Keep them coming look forward to them every day god bless you and your family 👍👍
@jayg479
6 жыл бұрын
Hate to see a stand up guy like yourself feeling down. Keep your head up bud. Thanks for the videos!
@kevinsteen739
6 жыл бұрын
I can understand your worries. I'm unable to work but I wasn't smart with my money. You didn't bore me at all. You let us in your daily life. So thank you very much for that.
@SirFatboy97
6 жыл бұрын
Very sound advice. You were apparently listening when those peers were talking. Oh yeah, you are absolutely right about 15 years going by fast!
@dehavenfamilyfarm
6 жыл бұрын
I know those front bumpers are designed to absorb some impact, but I am surprised how easy you were able to bend it back. Just put a Cotontop3 licence plate on the front, and you'll be good to go! Thank you for sharing more of your story. We are here for you!!!
@teebugg66
5 жыл бұрын
Hats off to you man, sounds like a hard spot to be in for that long. I really like your channel!
@huronhockey8
6 жыл бұрын
Great video. Going through the same thing right now trying to figure out where I’m going in life. I appreciate this video a lot more than you know.
@jacobsipes1346
6 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this video Tim. Thanks for the advice and wise words!
@garyjustliving3963
6 жыл бұрын
I feel 4 u tim, I been in that boat you are in and I decide to jump out of it about 8 years ago. I truly wished I did it sooner than later. Also yes I miss working for the family, I can remember some of my firmness memories is carrying the measure stick for my grandpa and loving every minute of it. Sometimes changes can be so hard, then when it happens we wonder why it was so hard. Like your videos.
@BORIKKEN
6 жыл бұрын
Tim keep dong these type of videos. I was truly Inspired. Keep up the great work.
@corinorwood1054
6 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this video simply for what you have to say....... Thank you for the knowledge Tim🤙🏿🤙🏿👌🏽💪🏿
@joelampo1
6 жыл бұрын
This was a very deep video. It takes someone of courage to release it to the public. No one likes to see ourselves at a weak moment. We always have to act tough in front of others. But the truth is I think everyone feels that same way. We all questions paths we have taken in life. But for you in particular , I would not fuss so much about the path u have taken. You are more than just a logger. The KZitem channel you have created , is inspiring thousands daily and people look up to you and watch your videos for a break from their own lives. The paths you have chosen have given you a loving family, a home in which you can call your own, and you are providing that family the means they need to live and be happy. Don't regret the choices you have made. It's not about the biggest house, or the fanciest car, or the most expensive jewelry. Life is about fulfillment. If it was not for the paths you have chosen , your kids may not be here. You may not be married. You could be bagging groceries or scrubbing toilets as a job. We all do what is necessary to survive and as long as you give love and support to those around you that matter most , then that's what is most important.
@jeremypatton80
6 жыл бұрын
Tim I understand completely. I'm am in the same boat, only as the stepchild. I can get very agravating sometimes. Most people think working for family u have everything just handed to u. Not true. Most days I think it is harder and more demanding. Stay strong. Hope it works out for u and I as well. Alot to invest for uncertainty.
@rhinowrecker3544
6 жыл бұрын
I like the mic, it works very well. Thanks Mr. Tim. Thumbs Up!!
@feff5717
6 жыл бұрын
I've been just watching some of the dodge truck videos and started watching some of your others. This one his home as I'm the same age and you start looking at things differently because like you said 15 years is going to go by fast can we or do we want to be doing what we're doing at 60...in my case I'm a maintenance manager so round the clock no escape was getting old. .I moved on 6 months ago. Love the content man. And yes my grandfather had a measuring stick to cut 4 ft logs. We burned 17 cord a year as a kid so I spent most of my summer in the woods
@cotontop3
6 жыл бұрын
Very cool thank you!
@garyjohnstone6273
6 жыл бұрын
Moving insight into your life Tim, dont spend your life doing something you don't want or don't enjoy.
@bradcoley6964
6 жыл бұрын
Im with you kinda sounds like my story .work hard save money do the best with what you have .At 53 I don't work forever but I want to see my children do well so as long as they let me farm guess I will .gotta be smoart with your time and money or you wont have either.
@johns8771
6 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain about your truck. My son was coming home from from Ms. State for Christmas break and hit a deer at the Hwy. 82 / 45A interchange. Totaled his car. Good thing was he wasn't hurt.
@oliverharding9761
6 жыл бұрын
Tim you are a good man and a good family man also no matter what you do don't leave it to late and don't do it in hast. I was 45 when I sold my business and parted with a lot of money to start a new one but before I got the chance to take the helm I fell of the back of a truck trailer and broke my neck and back and the new company went and I lost everything. I had that accident on December 6th 2006 and I'v had a few strokes over the years the last was six months ago but thank God I'm ok now tho I will never work again. I love that shop of yours I wish I'd one like it. The best of luck to you and your family no mater what you do. Here in Ireland we have a saying the devil you know is better than the one you don't know. Keep her lit Tim.
@johnwhicks8687
6 жыл бұрын
Good talk 👍. This is the kinda video that makes me proud to be a Tater. Great video. Oh I think the new lights in the shop are gonna work out great 👍. Just a feeling I have 😂
@dextermontgomery3126
6 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed the video. Real life felt. We all have battles. And listening silently has really helped me get to where I am now. Some of that listening was BS and some of high quality. But you learn over time of what's quality and what's not.
@klc317
6 жыл бұрын
Good advice man about listening about money. I'm 40 now but never really took seriously the importance of saving and investing in my future stuff until my mid 30s. Glad I did it then, once you see that starting to grow it really makes you want to save more and do more with what you have.
@jameslowery7769
5 ай бұрын
awesome video good preaching on life
@robbievance1089
6 жыл бұрын
Somebody has probably already said it somewhere below, but in case they haven't, the wide cooler behind the bumper that was crushed is probably the turbo intercooler. That would affect your mileage and power significantly. I would look into replacing it, and it's something you could easily do yourself. Great advice on financial management too.
@tylerrathbun5388
6 жыл бұрын
Great video, and very inspirational I always look forward to watching everyday! Your friend from Kansas!
@WB-Brown
6 жыл бұрын
I have a front bumper for a 2016 RAM 2500/3500 in my back yard. If you were going to be in SC I would give it to you just to get it out of my yard. I put RanchHand on my front and back. I have tested both and you can't hurt them. I won't own another truck without putting them on.
@stubs1227
6 жыл бұрын
Good video Tim I have bull bars on all my pickups. It will give the deer the boot. Also if you have a dad like I did your brothers and you will be partners some day. Unfortunately that happened to me and my brother my dad passed early at 59. Thank God we were close he showed us everything. That made my brother and me very successful. All the best to you and your brothers.
@dewainwoodard4840
6 жыл бұрын
Great video Tim thanks for sharing sorry about the bad luck and I don't blame you for feeling that way
@dewainwoodard4840
6 жыл бұрын
It's all good buddy where here if you need us
@robertshoemaker4880
6 жыл бұрын
Sure don't build them like they used to. Had a 2013 GMC and backed into a railroad tie wall. I was backing into a 45° parking spot and the back up sensor just started to beep as I stopped and barely touched the wall pushing the drivers side rear bumper into the quarter panel. I don't know if I was that pissed off or the bumper is just that cheap but bent down and grabbed the bumper and pulled it rite back into place, layer under the truck and pushed the quarter panel back out into place also. It didn't even scratch the paint. But being a Volunteer fireman for 17 years, and understanding that they build the cars today to bend and take the impact so you don't , it is kind of a trade off. But it still sucks. Lol
@michaelwhalen4072
6 жыл бұрын
Did same thing with my Dodge deer fold them cheap bumpers like nothing. Keep the videos coming bud.
@blankenshipfarms7801
6 жыл бұрын
Man I understand what you mean I think you made the right decision man hopefully everything will be settled for you and your brothers y'all have a lot of time and money I'm sure invested in the business and run it very well we will be praying for you man and thanks for the videos once again
@dawaldron78
6 жыл бұрын
I love watching your videos. Awesome video.
@briancriswell9695
6 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to let you know that I really enjoy your and Jason's videos man before I know I've sat watched 3 or more hours of your videos and I flip back and forth from yours and Jason's and didn't know I had celebrities just right down the road from me I've passed TDK headquarters many times
@markmortensen4341
6 жыл бұрын
We've got a lot of deer around here too. I know it's not your rig but when I got my Dodge I looked at the bumpers and the first thing I did was put a winch and brush guard on it. That way if I hit a deer it wouldn't hurt. But you know what I did??? I had my pickup in neutral and it slowly rolled back about a foot and hit a 3" tree and bent the heck out of that rear bumper!! Had to replace it.
@axecuttimber1243
6 жыл бұрын
Hang in there , keep working with your family . It's not over , till it's over .
@brentmedders
6 жыл бұрын
I hope you feel better, seems like felt the need to get some of that off your chest. You know it is always easy to judge from a far but never know the whole story.
@koryleague8833
6 жыл бұрын
Great video Tim. Thanks for sharing.
@toms1499
6 жыл бұрын
I know where your at Tim, I worked for my dad some in the past and about to try to go back working for him. We have always had a rough relationship even when I was a kid, before when we had disagreements and money was not a big issue I would just quit but the last one he fired me over somthing meaningless about 10 years ago and left me in a bad spot. Being his only child and getting up in age he wants me desperately to come back. Tough decisions we make with family business. Good you have somthing going in your back pocket as I have learned it is very necessary. I hope things work out this time for us and get better for you. I have a decent corprate job now that I am going to have a hard time giving up but do prefer the small company life and am cautiously preparing myself for the change. Supposed to meet my dad for breakfast in a few hours actually to talk about the prospect. Awful nice truck to keep so rough, would think the company would want to fix it. See if you have a certifit nearby, should be able to pickup a new bumper from them for pretty cheap those coolers and sensors could be a little pricey though. Take care man!
@edgarburnett2115
6 жыл бұрын
You are a good man , Tim.
@chadder19k
6 жыл бұрын
Also Tim why don’t you go and make your self a bumper for your truck?? That way it will look cool and bad ass also!!
@patkelly7999
6 жыл бұрын
Good man Tim, fair play to you, that was deep man, keep her lit:)
@alphonsotate2982
6 жыл бұрын
Deer is no joke glad you were in a truck.
@southerndirt9589
6 жыл бұрын
It’s hard to stay in a family business when your not shore about the future I got out in 2016 and started my own past two years have been hard but it made it a lot easier about my decision when they filed bankruptcy back in December all I can say is follow your gut keep up the awesome videos
@zachfoster6221
6 жыл бұрын
You make great videos really enjoy watching them
@waynecompton7612
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the chat Tim . Thank you for the video and Take Care 😎👍🇬🇧.
@w056007568
6 жыл бұрын
I have been there and experienced all those feelings. When I raised this broad question with mum and dad and could not get any satisfaction on the issues I baled out at 32 and took a lot of flack from others including direct family but with hindsight I don't regret doing so although it was really rough for a while. I'm sure that this situation is very common regarding family farms and many other family business because the older generation will not discuss the issue of succession and so there is no plan (long or short term) to get on top of the situation properly.
@SwimminThelake
6 жыл бұрын
Tim, u haven t bored me at all. I got the same feelings sometimes..
@deronlogterman2951
6 жыл бұрын
Great video Tim. Keep your head up.
@christopherkalinowski9430
6 жыл бұрын
Feel for you it’s obvious you take pride in all you do keep going man
@bobskowronek6691
6 жыл бұрын
Wow Tim what a great vid today. Brother don't feel alone a lot of us in the same boat as you. At least you it seems were smart enough to start a retirement, I don't even have that and at almost 58 yrs old will have to work the rest of my life. I really enjoy your vids things will I hope a workout for you you just keep doing what your doing. Later Tater:))))
@ISXCUMMINS565
6 жыл бұрын
I like the mic, it’s sounds good. I feel for ya brother,had 6 brothers and 6 sisters 13 of us .. dad kept us under his thumb petty much all the time till he passed at age 84. His deal was that if we stayed with him when we turned 21 he’d buy a dairy farm go 50/50 on the cows and milk check, our halve of the check went to the farm expenses as he determined. But on the flip side we have farms that are paid for. We don’t all milk cows needless to say:-) I’m 48 so hang in there, pay day is coming 👍
@danielsweeney6742
6 жыл бұрын
Tim- I have a 97 Dodge I had an incident with another vehicle. About 10 or 15 miles an a hour. I tried to put it with a come along and a light pole. Made no change. Just pulled the truck towards to pole. I was shocked how much you moved that bumper with just your weight.
@steamfan7147
6 жыл бұрын
I'm about in the same boat,only I don't have a family of my own.Moved in with my father after my mother died in 2010,I'm a full time care taker for him,work 50-60 hours a week for not much money,basically stuck in a job I don't like anymore and will shortly be too old to find a wife and start a family.I got two older brothers,both of whom are financially better off than me that won't do anything to help out with my Dad and from the looks of things I'll be working til I fall over in a Pine box,but it is what it is and it still beats the alternative. And ya,young folks,listen to Tim,life is hard,better wear a helmet.
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