Things are difficult sometimes. Here in Poland we say "After every storm, the sun comes out". Stay strong and believe in yourself ♥️♥️♥️
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
That is so true! And, I guess in life it's always going to go up and down, and if everything would always just be easy maybe you wouldn't appreciate it as much. Such a good saying ☺️
@FindMeBeingMe
4 жыл бұрын
Sending love all the way from here. You're awesome and closed doors aren't that bad when we look back at them in the future. ❤️❤️
@thinkpnk4184
4 жыл бұрын
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@amateurastronomer9752
4 жыл бұрын
When you end a long term relationship, you’re not just grieving the lost of that person, you’re grieving an entire life you planned with that person. You literally have to rewrite your future from scratch which is really scary but also really adventurous. It helps to do some things you’ve always wanted to do because when times get rough, you can look to those things and think, sure I miss him/her but if I stayed in that relationship I never would of done this and that and I really enjoyed doing this and that. Another tip I got is to open a Google document and everyday write one way big or small that you’re better off by not being with him/her. This may be difficult at first because the grieving part of our brains only wants to remember the good times but soon you’ll get a nice list going lol that you can refer to on really bad days. Therapy is also a HUGE help, I wish I had done it sooner. I’m 2+ years post my gut wrenching breakup and it DOES get better. I still have down days but I’ve built a pretty dope life since then that I’m super proud of, including having the courage to love deeply again with an amazing supportive man who I’m super honored to be with and overall, I’ve never felt so genuinely happy. I know for sure I wouldn’t have the life I have now had I stayed with my ex so in a weird twisted way, I’m grateful to the asshole for breaking my heart 😂. New subbie and wishing you the absolute best. Hang in there, girl.
@TheMakeupFascination
4 жыл бұрын
Good ideas! I'm divorcing my husband (6 years together) and have been writing in a "Divorce Diary".
@amateurastronomer9752
4 жыл бұрын
TheMakeupFascination I’m glad you found them helpful. A divorce diary sounds like a great idea. I wish you the very best. Be very kind to yourself. This too shall past. 🤎🤎🤎
@justclara3595
4 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much! I'm currently going through a very tough breakup and your words truly gave me more motivation! I'll definitely try writing this list!
@amateurastronomer9752
4 жыл бұрын
Just Clara I’m so glad it helped and I’m sending you lots of love. I know it’s hard right now, be extremely kind to yourself. You will get through this, time really does heal. The list helps, two years later and I still refer back to it on down days. Good luck! ⭐️
@monicaphillips1567
4 жыл бұрын
Your methods of writing and releasing emotions is actually a form of cognitive behaviour therapy that mental health professionals give as tools to their patients all the time. Nothing hoo hoo about it. Very effective. I often tell my patients to do exactly what you did to “put down the baggage” and move forward. Go to the forest. Swim in the ocean. Nature helps to heal and nourish the soul after trauma.
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Ah that is so interesting to hear! Yes it really helped to do something very concrete and put things down on paper, felt like a small thing but actually had a big impact. Thanks for sharing ☺️
@simonabasu8263
Жыл бұрын
I like that you could talk about one extremely intimate , painful relationship end, in a very decent manner! And that you realize that it must pertain to the past and must be let go, to make place for new, different relationship! It is so fortunate to be in nature, at countryside, and field of wild flowers and river bank and known person's that mean safety for you, surround you... Good luck dancing lady, l already read your other beautiful movies and l already know you are happy and you prosper. Continue to be so!
@pritibasu920
4 жыл бұрын
You are an amazing person kika.. I hope you will meet someone as amazing as you soon..
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much :))
@mariaelena1808
4 жыл бұрын
I dident have a boy friend until i was 24 before, i tought i will never find someone but then i found my soulmate now we are 21 years married 😌👍. You will find your soulmate FOR SURE u are a beutiful person in & out 😘🍀💪
@cewkietron6571
4 жыл бұрын
You're clearly a very emotionally mature individual, it's really inspiring. Take care of yourself, Kika. ❤ We love you.
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Hi! Thank you for saying such a kind thing, i think going through this has defnitely matured me a lot and I've also learned a lot about myself in the process. So, that is something really positive I'm trying to take away from the whole thing :))
@RebelReine
4 жыл бұрын
I started crying when you were crying because I could relate to you so much!
@Sweet4fuel
4 жыл бұрын
This was so brave of you! Thank you for sharing. I’m coming out of a 20 yr marriage and thought I’d share some things that help me in huge ways. Journaling all the feelings, daily gratitude lists and writing letters (a lot of them to the “old” me) pouring all my emotions out on paper and then burning them in a campfire while outside taking in nature. May sound silly but it’s cleansing to my soul and gives me closure while purging all the thoughts that consume me. You’re strong and there are brighter days ahead. You got this 🤍
@wakulovszki
4 жыл бұрын
Going through the same thing rn, you're so right saying that if it doesn't feel right don't pursue it, it will make you miserable at one point! Take care Kika, you're an amazing person 🤗
@WildEmpress
4 жыл бұрын
A lot of people can relate to that feeling of a breakup, being creative and funneling my emotions into some work helps me with difficult things. I'm a single mom, I've been single for 6 years. I don't have plans to date again. I use my time to create and love myself.
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
I can definitely relate, I too have been channeling my energy and thoughts into making stuff and it's helped a lot to also distract my mind from overthinking. I think it's ok to take the time you need to be alone, and then if you ever feel like you want to date again you'll probably have a really deep understanding of what you want and who you are 😌 Sending lots of love Xx Kika
@WildEmpress
4 жыл бұрын
@@Kutovakika yes i have a lot of clarity on who I am and what I want out of life 💖 I'm watching this and remembering the surreal feeling of walking around like everything was normal but feeling that internal pain. The most mundane moments in public and no one is aware your screaming inside. It feels like it won't end. You will get through this and be stronger, smarter, and one day grateful. Which probably sounds crazy while you're in it, but you will get there 💖
@diviner2347
4 жыл бұрын
Great point. I hear a lot of stories where people stay in the relationship because of the length of it rather than it feeling right. It’s brave of you to acknowledge the pain as well as the great things that came out of it. Allowing yourself to cry definitely helps. I wish you well and thank you for sharing.
@chickadeeacres3864
11 ай бұрын
Boy, after watching this after seeing you glowing in your knitted crocheted wedding dress, I felt like someone from the future wishing I could tell the old Kika things will indeed go better . Hugs
@drit4890
4 жыл бұрын
I feel like I need to talk about this so it will help someone as much as it helped me. Relationships go through cycles as anything in life. I've been to this therapist once after a nearly breakup with my boyfriend and she made me realise that sometimes you and your significant one are not the same as you were when it made sense to start a relationship. When it happens you give a break (or a space) for both of you to heal, to understand if you actually really love that person and to move to a better place, whether it's alone or together. Sometimes breakups are not breakups, they are a chance to let the dust settle down and put things back where they belong. Make sure you love yourself as much as you love your partner and all will be fine, with or without them.
@CaromeetsLaw
4 жыл бұрын
The whole video I had the feeling and the need to hug you
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Ah I'll gladly take that virtual hug, thank you so much 🤗 I love Berlin! I actually lived there for 2 years when i was studying dance from age 19-21, so many good memories!! ☺️
@mahaabdelkhalek2552
4 жыл бұрын
It’s so brave of you to be vulnerable out in the world like that! And it’s so brave to think that way when you’re still in the early stages of moving on, usually it comes with denial and hating the whole world, but you managed to push through and accept what happened and have faith that life will get better !! Sending you so much love, your videos give me a lot of positive energy and courage, we’re all going through something and we need to remind each other that it’s ok to feel down, and that it’s ok to take some time to heal ❤️❤️❤️
@AshleyJayne_
4 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same thing Kika! 7 Years and it was beyond hard to get over, still recent! But this has helped so much! It makes you feel that your not alone in these situations so thank you I needed to hear this! You look so much more happy and healthy and you did what was right for you! X
@sherryblack7586
3 жыл бұрын
“Look not behind. See this day God has given you.” If you dwell in the past, you will stay in the past, so embrace each day with that strong and wonderful spirit I see in you. When you close the door on yesterday you can start planning tomorrow by living today. God bless!
@dahliaeakhaine
4 жыл бұрын
I've been watching your videos for about a year now and I think you're just amazing. Your personality has not only inspired me but also influenced me to a large extent. Thank you for sharing this❤
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Dahlia! Oh this comment really made me smile, thank you so much for being here for so long and the support. I would never be brave enough to share something that feels so personal and vulernable without amazing people like you 😌💕
@karenevans8721
2 жыл бұрын
Hi, I found your site thru knitting and have continued to watch your previous videos. I realize it’s been a year since the above but my heart goes out to you. Change is never easy and I hope many happy times to come 💕
@Kutovakika
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Karen! Thank you so much for your kind words and I’m so glad you stumbled upon my channel ☺️💕
@gossipgirlpamie
4 жыл бұрын
Sending big hugs your way Kika! I understand how difficult this could be as I went through a very difficult break up last November. The hardest part was that it wasn't any of our fault but it was just the sad situation that we found ourselves in. I still find myself thinking about him almost every night. The process is not easy and quick and I am afraid there are no shortcuts. But I would like to believe that break ups pave the way for better things to come with the best person for us. ♥
@johnheller7670
4 жыл бұрын
As someone who is both far away in the US, and an Epidemiologist... I would come give you a hug despite the pandemic (and maybe escape to the Lapland). Thanks for sharing, and stay brave and strong, as you are. We're all here for you.
@g3nkiikyandii
4 жыл бұрын
thanks so much for sharing your personal story, kika! i was also going through a breakup earlier this year, living alone in a foreign country. then the corona struck and i was stuck at home mostly because of lockdown. it made the grieving process harder, because i couldnt go out to nature, i couldnt meet with friends or get hugs to soothe my broken heart. i did all i could do focus on work, but there were still days i just felt depressed and cried a lot. now that lockdown has been lifted, i went out more, bought a bicycle, spent time with nature and though the hurt is still there, its not as bad as in the early days. sending hugs to you!
@lucytelford2991
4 жыл бұрын
I have been a subscriber for ages but never commented before. I just wanted to say (as an old married 51 year old) that this is the bravest, most heartfelt, raw and honest video I have ever seen on KZitem. Kudos to you for being so courageous to make what was obviously a difficult video - but I think it should help in a cathartic way. Plus it will definitely help others going through the same thing. You are a very lovely and generous soul and I am absolutely certain that if you listened to your gut/instinct that you made the right choice. Things will work out.
@roza_sinha
2 жыл бұрын
I have been going through something similar for the first time in life and been struggling a lot emotionally. You mentioned everything that I have been feeling and it was comforting. I cried while you began to cry. Thanks for ever making this video, it made me feel not so alone in this and so much more hopeful. Thank you💙
@amaryheart.
4 жыл бұрын
I went through a terrible breakup 15 years ago and watching this video brought back what that felt like. It's really hard. You are a beautiful person and deserve all the good things in life ❤️
@jandobson5441
4 жыл бұрын
Think you’re showing abundant bravery and exceptional emotional intelligence. I’m sure many people will appreciate, and benefit from, your honesty. Loved also the respect you show to others. Wishing you the very best
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Jan, thank you so mich for leaving such a warm and kind comment. I felt nervous bout sharing this, but then I thought if it can help anyone or give a bit of comfort, it will be worth it 😌💕
@LittlePoet
4 жыл бұрын
oh Kika....so beautiful....break-ups....they are so hard. It matters not who leaves who....your life changes forever. I cried and cried and cried when my husband left me....and then one day...I stopped and found love in another place...I found it within me.....my strong injured self and then I could begin to heal.. You learn how much you need self-love when there is no man in your bed and no arms to hold you tight. My camera is my love. Love you so, Susan
@OutfitRepeater
4 жыл бұрын
Something that really helped me after a previous breakup was writing down a list of everything I would miss about that person/relationship versus everything I would NOT miss. The list of “things I’ll miss” made me realize that literally anyone else could give me those things, that they weren’t unique to that one relationship. Maybe that’s just because it was a rather shallow relationship 😅 but it was kind of long-term and that exercise really did help me start looking ahead rather than dwelling in the past.
@FOTO-E
4 жыл бұрын
From Denmark with love - Don't worry, life goes on. You are very inspiring, so stick to your passion for photography, it helps the mind. I'm sure a prince will soon come on his horse and greet you. (I have no horse and I dare not ride and I am too old 😂) Greetings from a fan.
@JacquelineandStirling
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and feelings. I just discovered your channel recently. I think you are so fabulous. I have also had to leave someone because it wasn’t feeling right for a long time. It was, as you said, so friggin, hard to do. I also felt a lot of guilt. I was surprised you described almost exactly what I experienced and similar inner work to get through it. And now you are happily married, how awesome is that! ❤
@milikoshki
4 жыл бұрын
as we age this gets simultaneously easier and more difficult. Past 30 it can feel much harder to make big changes, when we're socially conditioned to view our 30s as a time for children, marriage, commitment rather than starting over. On the other hand, we are more resilient, more wise, and more comfortable in our own skin. We know we can make it through hard times because we have before. And we know that it never pays off to continue in something that's not making us happy. Best of luck with your brand new start x
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
So well said, I think on the positive side I know now much more what I want and also know myself better, and like you say, feel more resilient. It's definitely scary to make big life changes when you don't know what the future will hold, but so far I think life is also about sometimes taking risks, and deep down I often still think it will all work out in the end :) 💕 Thank you so much for your support 😌
@milikoshki
4 жыл бұрын
@@Kutovakika I so agree!! who knows what life will look like in the end but when you try your hardest you're probably going to see the best possible result anyway :)
@lilia5174
4 жыл бұрын
The fastest I've ever clicked! Similar experience, so thank you for sharing. Hang in there❤️ love from South Africa 🌻
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Lilia! Oh thank you so much for your support and watching me open up about this stuff. it can be such a tought thing to go through and I wanted to make this video in the hopes that maybe it can offer some comfort for anyone going through something similar ❤️ Sending you lotso f love and strength from Finland 😌
@AnotherJacodeVilliers
4 жыл бұрын
That’s why we have wine. Oh wait... uncle Cyril took it away!
@sophynixon
4 жыл бұрын
You're brave for sharing something so personal. Thank you, as always Kika! I hope I can be as brave as you one day! xx
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you can! It's just about taking small steps ☺️ Thank you so much for your support and kind words 💕
@sophynixon
4 жыл бұрын
@@Kutovakika thank you & you're welcome! xx
@cristinamihailescu1003
4 жыл бұрын
Sending my love to you, Kika. 💛🧡❤️thank you for opening up about this. I am going through a breakup myself, moved with my parents until I find a home.Your video really resonated with my current feelings and state if mind. You inspire me to be strong and look into the future! You’re a sparkle of a person 🥰
@Aka-wy7iw
4 жыл бұрын
to anyone who reads this, cry,let the tears out,,these r emotions,,pls let them out,,i didnt cry much for when i had depression so i when i did,,it was unbearable,,so pls let them out,,pls,,,
@TeresaKayWilliams
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Don't force it.... Trust the process. I lost my mom, dad, nephew and dog in 2018. I still struggle with processing everything. The people and animals in our past ARE and always will be important to us. Losing them or choosing a new path to honor our best selves is a GOOD thing! Please try to forgive yourself. ❤️
@botakozsuleimenova4960
4 жыл бұрын
Ahhh, don't cry, please 😞 don't you know how clever, inspirational, brave, beautiful, optimistic, kind, just adorable person you are? Be kind to yourself❤️🤗 there are a lot of things in life to enjoy; continue to do what you love and I am 100% sure that you meet deserved person 💕
@TheSoundsInside
3 жыл бұрын
This REALLY helped me. Thank you so much for being so beautifully raw and vulnerable. You’re an angel ♥️
@Nejdetärbratack
4 жыл бұрын
You and "Jonna Jinton" are my nr 1 favorite youtubers. I love you so much. Hugs from sweden❤❤❤
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow that is a huuuuge compliment and makes me so glad to hear, i adore Jonna Jinton and think her videos are so beautiful, so honored to be mentioned next to her 🥰
@soulful_poetry
4 жыл бұрын
Wow I am too a subscriber of Jonna😇
@Patrizia170871
4 жыл бұрын
So am I! You are two adorable human beeings and so beautiful inside and out! Beeing through quite some similar emotional stuff (like all of us, aye?) I understand your mixed feelings very good. All I can say is: It will get better and time is your best friend.
@LadyPinkster
4 жыл бұрын
Salty KEKE i like them too, i also like daughter of old and sorell Amore
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
@@LadyPinkster Oh yes Sorelle Amore channel has been a huge inspiration for me too :)
@Makeupyourmiind
4 жыл бұрын
Break-ups are always difficult and hard to go through. You are a strong and beautiful woman. Things will be allright in the end, even if it takes some time. Sending love and wishing you well!
@madhulikajha4682
4 жыл бұрын
You are so amazing and seems like a really supportive friend. In love with your videos. I am sorry to hear about out Break up! But, we love you more than him I think so ;)
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your support and kind words, I was so nervous to make this video and talk about this 🙈 But, I thought maybe it can be helpful to someone, and also wanted to talk about it as it's been on my mind so much lately 😌
@madhulikajha4682
4 жыл бұрын
@@Kutovakika You did great! 🖤😊 We will always support you!
@MERALACXBACKINGPAN
4 жыл бұрын
Yes KiKa! Every relationship from the last will be better because you learn, you learn to look for the things you need in a person, instead of what you want. You learn to watch for the things you don’t need, and eventually you forget why you were so attached to the other people In The first place. It’s strange but I’m so glad you shared with us, I didn’t know this happened recently. Xoxo 😘
@neurolotte2406
4 жыл бұрын
I hear you, Kika, I really, viscerally do. Particularly so when you talk about the moment you realized that you had to hurt him and end it. I know exactly how painful that is. Everybody sympathises with the person who's dumped but nobody thinks of the pain of the one who leaves. It's a terrible decision to have to take.
@juanacerda1814
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this. I will use your idea of writing down on the paper and going to the beach. I’m hoping it helps me. My divorce has not been easy and I’m hurting. Sending you lots of love and encouragement. 💕
@melaniewhite6375
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so open, you usually make me laugh but this time made me cry! You deserve every happiness Kika :-)
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Aaw sorry to make you cry 🙈 But I hope it wasn't too heavy ☺️ Thank you so much for saying such a kind thing, I'm hopeful for the future ✨
@RitzyPink
4 жыл бұрын
You have a very healthy attitude about your breakup and are headed in the right direction. Virtual hugs for your positive future.
@korinaviado3333
4 жыл бұрын
You didn’t make a fool out of yourself with this video for sure. You’re just reminding us that there’s no easy way through, but to get through it the best and effective way you can. Awww I like your fun and chaotic family 😀
@iyengarromasha
4 жыл бұрын
Firstly, a warm virtual hug !! Separating from your partner is always a difficult to do, and especially during these times. I recently kind of separated from my partner who I was gonna marry in Dec. And this happened over the phone since we cannot meet. So suddenly waking up and not having your person to talk to is like someone just ripped out your soul. But I take it one day at a time. Sleepless nights and disconnected days are a part of life now. But as they say, tomorrow is always better! I hope you find new exciting projects, lots of videos to share with us and hell lot of strength ! Much love!! :)
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Sending a big virtual hug back 🤗 Ah that sounds really tough and must be really difficult to go through such a big and dramatic change. Life can be so unpredictable sometimes but I try to think everything happens for a reason and that good things will come ☺️🙌🏼
@gummydorky
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Kika, I appreciate this was really hard, but thank you for taking the time to share this. You share some really useful tips, but I know this video will help a lot of your viewers who might be going through the same thing. If anything, they will feel less alone in their feelings. I wish you all the best with your future adventures! The world has more amazing things waiting for you. And we'll always be here to support you!
@solitopia
3 жыл бұрын
I went through 2 break ups over the 6 months, it's been really hard for me, especially in quarantine. I just cant forget. I wake up to an aching in my chest, my heart and longing his love. But I forgot that they both dumped me. I'm trying my best to get over it, but.. I just loved them so much that it's so difficult..💔😓😭 *It's hard when the person who gave you the most memories becomes a memory💔*
@HalbzeitHippie
4 жыл бұрын
You’re such an inspirational and beautiful soul. Thanks for sharing this story with us. I especially love the little ritual. I did a similar thing when I went through a break up. It helped me a lot to focus on the positive. Sending you lots of love and good vibes.
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Christin! Yes I also found it really helped, and it was weird because i had this really strong emotion and urge to do that ritual, even though it's not really something I've done before. So interesting to hear you did something similar ☺️ Sometimes very samll things can really make a big impact ✨
@hello-sd8gm
4 жыл бұрын
aww i wish you all the best!❤️ it’s not over, you’re so amazing, any guy would adore you! it’s gonna be ok, take your time we love you😘😘😘
@Martina_BCJdesign
4 жыл бұрын
The rain does stop falling at some point...and eventually you wake up feeling all this new energy. I was with somebody for 7 years and we lived together for 6, in a city 600km away from my family. After I saw that our relationship isn't leading anywhere, a thought crossed my mind that this person no longer loves me but he's trying to care in a way, and we're in a grut... I did love him but our values were no longer the same as we matured together. I wanted commitment in a way of settling down together and putting things on paper... and he couldn't even commit to us renovating or redecorating the apartment, let alone getting married... Family as in 2 people creating future together was and is very important to me. (I don't mean having kids and getting married just for the sake of that, I mean seriousness in general and making plans for the future) So, at 26, we broke up, and like you, I had to move back to my parents. The pain eventually stopped after 3 months of crying. It was still there though, for a while. But I could put all my newly discovered energy into growing as a person again. Went back to another college, found a job, quit that job, decided to start my own small art business.. 6 years forward, I'm happily married to the most amazing man in the world. 🙃 I did not expect to get married anytime soon but it happened... I'm 32, and please don't think about numbers. It might sound like a cliché but it's the truth - it's really never too late for anything. To hell with "the norm"... You do you Kika =) Wishing you all the best from the bottom of my heart! Regards from Germany
@Ceylon727
Жыл бұрын
Looking back from this vlog and new life yes, it really took you on a journey you deserves happiness. For most of us this story relates 100%! Felt a release l!! Much love.. 04.10.2022
@colrc999
4 жыл бұрын
You are a brave person. It was not meant to be. Move on and continue to do the things you love. Life will be sweeter.
@martaeight5228
2 жыл бұрын
Tack så mycket för en sådan söt video. Jag går genom någon liknande och det hjälpte mycket. Känns autentiskt och genuint. Det är svårt som fan men du har rätt. Vi har bara ett liv. Men det gör så mycket ont att föreställa dig utan den person du trodde skulle vara the one. Tack igen för att du delade en sån privat grej. Kram, Kika. ❤
@LittleDreamer293
4 жыл бұрын
Sending so much love and support to you Kika!! Allow yourself to heal and embrace all the emotions, this will all make perfect sense someday! Stay strong ❤❤
@danielleconstantine3210
4 жыл бұрын
I'm loving this more intimate video. You are amazing, it just takes some time to process these things. You are so beautiful, please don't regret anything.
@nabashreechakraborty7203
4 жыл бұрын
Awww I love u ❤ The way you expressed I could see myself speaking 😍 I'm going through the same and I can feel you. More power to you girl 💪
@ananyathakur9116
3 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful and so strong. I'm also healing after a rather traumatic, ending of a 5 year... I could feel your pain, how hard you were trying not to cry on camera ! ❤️ Healing ❤️
@ninukutty
4 жыл бұрын
Guys if you face breakups plz cry than forget everything and move on to the future goals which u want to achieve plzzzz... because Every one teaches a good lesson and they move on...BE YOU ❤️LOVE YOURSELF
@niltiakgiggle
4 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for your heartbreak, Kika, but it's good to hear that you are on the road to feeling better! Thank you for sharing your experience even though it must be very difficult to talk about still ❤️ Wishing you healing and the time it takes to get there
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Hi! Thank you so much for your comment, your words definitely make me feel braver. It wasn’t easy sharing this and I actually had to film this twice to be able to say what I wanted 🙈 so glad if it can help anyone 😌✨
@nithyaravi2084
4 жыл бұрын
love you kika!
@karanm2129
3 жыл бұрын
No matter what ... never loose that chirpy sweetness of yours... you will for sure bounce back high and bright 🌞
@krausemedia
4 жыл бұрын
You’re amazing Kika!! I appreciate you sharing your story :) as I always say .. you’re so inspiring!! Thank you for doing what you do 🥰
@pstew5782
4 жыл бұрын
You’re totally right, if the relationship does not feel right, then it’s not the right relationship for you. Side note, you should do a hair tutorial-you looked great in this video!
I hope nobody ever has to go through anything like this because it sucks. Its so brave of you to share all of this kika
@Layne2690
4 жыл бұрын
The most drastic transitions lead to the best life changes and self discovery. Embrace the adventure darling!! 💜
@keirakreit7843
2 жыл бұрын
I have been through something very similar during the last year. I moved away from London but I did it with my partner, it was a long relationship (10 years), but things didn’t go as planned though and I had to go through a really hard time, but I knew I had to accept the reality and move on, and somehow I did it. It took some time to understand how, sometimes I still have my sad moments but then I remember why that relationship could not continue and I come back to reality. Now I’m slowly trying to find my new path and I’m sure it will be lighter. Sending lots of love ❤️
@pirozhoksladusya7683
4 жыл бұрын
I wish you all the best, hope your health is okay and heart will heal soon! Everything is gonna be a thousand times better for sure 🙌🏻💛 Life sometimes is kinda messy and people get together or go away. Just wanna send you some love ✨
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I really appreciate your kind words and thoughts💕 Yes I feel good about the future now and finally felt ready to talk about this stuff, even though I'm still feeling sort of nervous and scared about sharing all this online. But, this community is so positive and supportiveand I really value that 🥰
@MsAmira1988
5 ай бұрын
Hi KIka, I'm watching your video today and I am going through a break up. It's quite recent and the emotions are very raw. I can definitely relate to a lot of what you talked about. Funny enough, today is the day you had your baby, so congratulations! I'm so happy for you and Yuki. You've given me some hope that better things are yet to come (even though it doesn't always feel that way). All the best
@JMadelineRose
2 жыл бұрын
You are brave to share this. I'm happy you have found happiness in 2022.
@donnaf5114
Жыл бұрын
I'm new to your channel. I'm old enough to be your mother and have a daughter four years older than you. One thing I've learned in life is that if a relationship goes much past two years and the man hasn't asked you to marry him, he most likely will never commit to you. In other words the relationship will always be a frustrating one. So after two years, looks like you made the perfect choice to move on from the five year relationship and now you have found "the one." Congratulations and I absolutely loved the dress you made! So glad I found your channel! 🎉
@evasyogaclass
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, you're so strong! Thanks for sharing! You can be so proud of you and of making this decision. It is never easy,but it's so important to listen to yourself and do what's best for you. Don't feel guilty. In the end everything happens for a reason and maybe your ex will also benefit from it. Be proud of yourself. You're a beautiful woman with a good heart! Mr. Right will come one day (that's what I'm telling me as well all the time😁). Big hug from Germany❤
@evysy9253
4 жыл бұрын
I'm praying for you! You're strong and amazing. God bless!
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I really appreciate it 💕
@wulan.backpacker
4 жыл бұрын
Awww Kika. I really wanna hug you when you got emotional in the video. You'll be alright and what a strong person you are, sharing this to the world! Hugs from Hawaii 💕
@hamsteroncoffee
4 жыл бұрын
Oh, Kika! I am so sorry to hear about your recent challenges... Just keep going, take each day one at a time and keep yourself busy as much as possible 😘 Use this time to pamper yourself, to realign on all levels so that after this chapter in your life you are stronger and better than ever ❤️ Hugs and kisses! Really nice idea with writing your thoughts on paper and then swimming into the sea!
@sujatasinha8831
4 жыл бұрын
I can completely understand you... I am in a sort similar situation and I am trying to move on... I am happy that you are able to move ahead, all the best for what's in store next...
@ginasreview1030
4 жыл бұрын
I know this has nothing to do with the video but that HAIRSTYLE!!! I'm thriving. ♡
@uselessweirdo
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this. I've been feeling odd in my relationship for a while now and I relate so much when you said about not wanting to hurt the person who you shared so much with. I still haven't made a decision, but your story and the comments made me realize that I am not crazy. You were so brave for sharing this video with us. Thank you so so much.
@Kutovakika
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Leticia! First of all, thank you so much for your comment and sorry to hear you're going through something that must feel very heavy, no matter the outcome feeling odd or strange in a relationship always takes a lot of energy from us. I'm sure you'll know what the right decision for you is over time, I thought about it for a looong time, but at some point there just wasn't a way back and I knew I had to do it. I also felt I wouldn't be able to move forwards if I didn't do anything afte having had all those doubts, so I needed a reset and just start from blank. Sending lots of love ❤️
@carlyrowland1640
4 жыл бұрын
You're a beautiful person and very inspiring. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us ❤
@cathyfraser6524
4 жыл бұрын
I learned after leaving a 13 yr relationship that people come into your life for....a reason, a season or a lifetime. I know that better times are in your future. ❤️
@rebeccawhite6607
4 жыл бұрын
that was very brave and no doubt a daunting video to make , self observation and honesty can be very uncomfortable . As an ardent follower of your work i would like you to know that you have helped me hugely and inspired me to be brave and try new things and reassured me when i am reaching upward and doubting myself that my foundation is strong
@badziby
4 жыл бұрын
You are such a pure soul in a fake world man ...your tears touches my heart ❤
@ivonarados774
4 жыл бұрын
It is Kika ❤️ crying is really helpful. Thanks for this video, you are really brave to share your personal things and you gave great tips on how to go through this ❤️
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that, I've been thinking for a long time about making a video on this, but wasn't exactly sure how to talk about it. Now it finally felt like I knew what I wanted to say and even though it was really scary to press publish on this video, I feel so grateful for all the support and kind comments here ☺️
@bmwvintageprincess
2 жыл бұрын
Marry yourself first. Value yourself first. Pamper yourself. Put yourself first. You will never be unhappy.
@philsimpson2854
4 жыл бұрын
Every time I watch your videos, I have the reoccurring thought that the person you end up with will be able to proudly say “Kika is not only my wife but my best friend “! If we don’t experience sad times we can’t appreciate the good !! Stick with it, you’ll be someone’s ray of sunshine and ‘happy pill’ combined. You deserve to experience no less. Xx
@EmilyClare
4 жыл бұрын
Such a moving and brave video, I bet you were nervous to put it out there, but I'm so happy you did. I really love how much you are opening up and I think your videos are wonderful. X
@ArtChickTV
4 жыл бұрын
You have a great personality. Always a pleasure to hear your thoughts. Really adore the video transitions too. Very clever!
@lunaplanet12
4 жыл бұрын
You are an amazing person. I feel you. It’s always very painful andddd really suckssss to go through a long-time relationship breakup but it’s also a very natural thing. And I know almost all of us will bounce back being a much better happier person because we’ve been forced to learn to understand ourselves, understand the universe and understand true happiness. You’re on the right path. I hope you’ll heal soon and peace and harmony will come back to your heart soon! Sending you love and support from Los Angeles. If you were to travel to California, please know that you always have at least a friend and a place here for ya.
@Kestiambre
4 жыл бұрын
Hello Kika, thank you for your honesty and your courage. I would like to suggest to make a photoshoot of you and the sea. When the video showed your face with the wind in your leached out hair it had a strong impact on me. It was a strong emotion and beautiful. I’m torn because I want to see more of this sad aesthetic but i don’t want you to feel sadder....
@Kutovakika
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these sweet words, they put a smile on my face 🥰 Ah yes out there by the sea was such a beautiful evening and light, I’m definitely drawn to a more melancholic aesthetic sometimes, and I love the sea becasue it is so dramatic 🙌🏼
@Kestiambre
4 жыл бұрын
Kutovakika (thank you for replying 😱😁) the sea suits you well ☺️ have a nice summer and thank you for your videos t’aie cadre of your self
@Miss-320
4 жыл бұрын
Hi. When you talked of going into the ocean w/your letter it made me think of one my favorite movies by Penelope Cruz called (Woman on top 2000.) It might be under another name abroad.) But it’s perfect to watch for you & will make you laugh, smile and feel hopeful. It brings joy, I’m not kidding. She too goes into the sea something similar (no spoilers) & she too has just ended a very long relationship & struggling to thrive & how to move forward. I swear, it’s a wonderful movie and you must see it. ❤️🌟 I know 5 yrs is a very long time but you’re so lovely, you deserve to be happy. Finding hope, and laughter is so difficult especially at a hardship. Just thought I’d share if it you need a pick me up or anyone else going through the same storm.
@romanaulehlova7947
4 жыл бұрын
I have stopped to believe in relationship till the end of our life with one person. We change and so do our priorities. It is right thing to do, to listen to the call and follow it... I am going exactly through the same situation right now as you :)
@sofisofi2155
4 жыл бұрын
You are such a sweet person. I'm glad you allow yourself to live all the emotions a break up brings. I think this and to live somewhere else for a while (as you also did) are the best ways to move on. It maybe take some time, but someday it gets better. I also breakup with the person I was with for 3,5 years. It's been a year now, but I still feel it new, although I don't miss him and our relationship so often anymore. It is difficult, especially when you share so much with someone, even though you know the breakup is for the better. It's really nice you are surrounded by people that can hear you and also make you smile! I hope you feel a little bit better every day you wake up! Send you a big big (and warm because of the summer) hug from Greece!! :)
@yollofrollo7796
4 жыл бұрын
Kika❤️! I’ve been watching you since 8K subscribers and I swear I was subscribed, but noticed today I wasn’t (and immediately changed that). All this to say, you are an incredible person that has been such an inspiration to me and to everyone that is lucky enough to find this channel. Your wonderful personality, incredible creativity, and beautiful aesthetic is so special and makes me want to be better, explore more, and enjoy more of the world we live in. I’m so sorry to hear you are dealing with these heavy feelings, but please know that you are loved and appreciated. We are all cheering you on!
@anastasiapa5393
2 жыл бұрын
I like you so much. The way you look, your vibes, your art. You are an inspiration. Thanks for this video. My loved one left me for the second time in six months. And I'm watching your video to make it easier for me. And I was so glad when you said in another video that you met a man.
@bonbeechler2323
4 жыл бұрын
You are blessed to have your family, your pets, your beauty and intelligence. I wish you well. Thank you for sharing with us. 🥰
@nitikagirasol758
4 жыл бұрын
You are so so mature Kika. You are handling it so well. Stay strong love. We adore you ❤️
@curioussorgi
3 жыл бұрын
Yes -- It really is true! Every relationship is better than the next and it does not mean the love you had for the person in the past is less or no longer meaningful. That person is on a journey too and their next relationship will be better also. So, by choosing to make your life better, you will make their life better too. ( That said, there are abusive people and there are others who have been conditioned to believe they are not worthy of more -- but ... another subject..)
@AnnaBowling
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your beautiful art and your beautiful honesty. There is beauty in grief, along with the rest of it, and as my mother used to say, broken bones heal stronger. Writing is a excellent way to work through big life changes. Much love from the U.S..
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