I must be a rare woman because I left my toxic husband we have 5 kids together. Boy bye! You ain’t bout to drive me crazy! Lessons learned. I’m still fine too😜
@ms.whitt2054
3 жыл бұрын
was just thinking about you listening to this video, I look in the comments and here you are I follow your channel and I was thinking you're a very strong woman that knows her worth and adds tax!
@vernita0216
3 жыл бұрын
Yessssssss Queen!!!!!!!
@ShermekaG
3 жыл бұрын
Right
@alicehardy8040
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@rosezarco9185
3 жыл бұрын
3 kids ..my oldest is turning 16 on friday ....he said he would never marry me 🤣🤣😭😭now I laugh about it ...I'm lucky I didn't marry 🙏 single and blessed 💜
@ebonymahogany4682
3 жыл бұрын
Ladies please use protection when in these relationships! Don’t push out a child for a boyfriend. You are worthy and deserving of someone who loves you just as much as you love them.
@nikkyshamz2696
3 жыл бұрын
🗣🗣🗣🗣
@shontaypinder3852
3 жыл бұрын
This comment is gospel 👏🏾 Amen sista
@tawana251
3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I dated for 7 months and he asked me to marry him. This June, God willing, we will be married for 22 years. Great video!
@KonvosWithKee
3 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾These brothers KNOW if you’re their wife within the first 6 months. My husband told me I was his wife the first month of dating, he proposed by month 9, we were married 1 year later. Come on now, 16 years🤔
@tawana251
3 жыл бұрын
@@KonvosWithKee Yea they know. That's right. . It doesn't take 16 years. She need to ask God to help her break that soul tie and move on so her husband can find her.
@LadiiBlues14
3 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@BreeziDeezi
3 жыл бұрын
Love reading comments like this 💚💚💚 keeps me in check! They know - and my time will not be wasted.
@sheenamincey4740
3 жыл бұрын
I have two children and was asked by my ex-husband "why I would leave after two kids?" He left our marital home, after I was adamant about getting a divorce, thinking I would beg him to come back. I emotionally detached and leaned on God for the strength to carry me through. Baby, God is still carrying, providing, and protecting me and my children!
@ladyhustla
3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!🙏🏿💪🏿🙌🏿Won’t be do it!!
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
🥰
@nikkyshamz2696
3 жыл бұрын
He's a good God
@tinathompson1159
3 жыл бұрын
Won't He Do It🙏🏼🙏🙏🏼🙏🙏🏼
@Unapologeticallysteff
3 жыл бұрын
My mother left my father after 23 years of marriage and with 3 children my youngest sister being 10 at the time. Your right Tony it is uncommon strength and I admire my mother for that. She is now remarried to a loving & husband of character. Best step father in the world 💗.
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
3 жыл бұрын
A man has not done anything for you until he's married you And then after he's done that he still hasn't done enough until he can love you, be faithful to you & be consistent with you
@iloveangelmonroe4864
3 жыл бұрын
A word!!!
@vchild
3 жыл бұрын
She's not requiring him to marry her. That's why she's not married. She's allowing this to happen.
@deestevens2883
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly....just accepting the "whatever" 👎🏾
@MissTracy-Ann
3 жыл бұрын
This letter here is why I want to work w/pre-teen girls. Self esteem and self worth need to be introduced early in a young girl's life. Praying for this sister to recognize her power & strength in Christ Jesus 🙏🏾
@MZJJ1987
3 жыл бұрын
These are my goals as well. I want to help give young ladies the confidence and self love I didn’t have growing up. God bless your ministry beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
@blakstarrdiamond6869
3 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@TakishaDanet
3 жыл бұрын
Yessssssss same here sis. Self worth needs to be drilled into the minds and hearts of all young girls. Because the innocence of women have been taken advantage of us for too long. 💛🙏🏾
@nikkyshamz2696
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@MiyzP
3 жыл бұрын
Lord please release women from low self esteem shackles 😩 because these stories are heart wrenching. Women please do better and set standards for yourself from day one.
@marilynking527
3 жыл бұрын
They are but I’ve been there so I know the pain of loving someone who doesn’t love you back
@MiyzP
3 жыл бұрын
@@marilynking527 hence why i pray that women also find their worth because once you fix your mindset, you become tired of always being fed up. At some point you have to hold yourself accountable for your choices
@patricemurray6412
3 жыл бұрын
Hello!!!
@pooh4025
3 жыл бұрын
If you tell your sister/friend/relative there man is cheating and they stay with them that's on them .You can't make someone leave .
@ysmithriley
3 жыл бұрын
@Kiia bath & body SHE KNOWS, and ain't going NOWHERE! LHMJ, she's wasted 16 years of her life AND COUNTING.😐
@rose-annwoodsley1252
3 жыл бұрын
Facts 100 % Men go hard for the things they want. They will make the impossible possible, walk on water to get something they WANT. Car, clothes, body.. anything they genuinely desire, they will find some way to get it. They are also competitive and possessive, so when they get it, they would do anything not to loose it.
@JoannA-sweetly
3 жыл бұрын
TOTALLY!!
@rose-annwoodsley1252
3 жыл бұрын
@@dataunreadable2437 it's not the womans job to motivate a man. You cannot convince someone about your worth. A diamond will be seen as a precious stone to someone and a useless rock to another. A bum will never seen any value in anything. Theyre only focused on short term goals and squandering money. Focus on yourself and you'll be evaluated for your worth.
@rose-annwoodsley1252
3 жыл бұрын
@@dataunreadable2437 I am looking at life with the perspective that as human beings we have different preferences. I don't know about the buyer and seller analogy. Im thinking of diamonds, just as an antique car or any other item that requires serious discernment. She needs someone to appreciate her worth. A woman's duty is not to force or try to sell a man anything, unless she's in sales or customer service. As Tony G stated, successful married men can attest that "A Happy Wife, leads to A Happy Life". From a Christian viewpoint, a wife, brings success and favor unto a man. The young lady aforementioned in the video should seek someone that sees her value. There is a man that desires to have a woman that is as faithful, loyal, patient and forgiving as the young lady. That man will see her worth and value, and marry her.. Not the joker that's stringing her along. That's my view. We can agree to disagree. God Bless.
@samanthaharris5404
3 жыл бұрын
I have three children with my ex husband and I divorced him. We got together in high school. It was the best decision I ever made.
@tya4662
3 жыл бұрын
Same here sis, met in high school, got married and he became a canine. I got out and am happy I did.
@samanthaharris5404
3 жыл бұрын
@@tya4662 yes ma’am !! I never looked back !!
@vernita0216
3 жыл бұрын
Every woman has their own level of full... and ahe won't leave until she's reached it! God bless her on her journey.
@ShermekaG
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. Everyone have their own cut off point. It will be hard but it will be even harder to stay.
@pat4eva09
3 жыл бұрын
Lord, after 16 years she should be more than full, her cup runneth over🥴🥴. Lordt.
@abigailkivuti5786
3 жыл бұрын
@@pat4eva09 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@iliveforthecommentsection8242
3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@pat4eva09
3 жыл бұрын
@@abigailkivuti5786 👀👀😩😩
@reinaquisha9418
3 жыл бұрын
16 years! 🥴 Bless her heart❤️ don't waste not one mo day sis!
@klickingkayasmr7585
3 жыл бұрын
Right?! And she’s 38-still young enough to move on and get another. You’re right--don’t waste anymore time ✅
@cathycarter3
3 жыл бұрын
“The better I treat my wife, the better my life gets.” Tony Gaskins quote
@michealsworld7689
3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@chariennekhan9259
3 жыл бұрын
I divorced my husband with 3 children...packed uo everybody and left...the clouds parted, the birds started singing, I lost alot of weight as the stress went away and I have been single and happy since...I think being happily divorced even made me look younger!...occasionally I get asked why I am not married...and my answer is once is enough...I don't want the conflicts!...
@iishalanae
3 жыл бұрын
This is sad and its ALOT of women in this same situation... 16 years is alot of wasted time... how sad. To even be in the mindset it will be anymore than it is is a sad case in itself. She is wasting ALL HER LIFE just to have to eventually be single because he will leave her if she don't leave him.
@benjamincrooms5041
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome video!!! Brother Tony speaking the truth about this!! Met my Queen in May of 2020 brought her a ring in August 2020 and our wedding is August 6 2021!! When you see value you honor it!!👍👍👍
@tonid773
3 жыл бұрын
Big congrats ♥️♥️
@Minister_LaShawn
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this message really hit home😔. My sister has been with her boys dad for at least 18 years now. I probably shouldn’t have but I recently asked him if he was going to marry her and he said “he’s not sure, I don’t trust her”. It hit me like a ton of bricks even though I knew he would never make her his wife. I ‘left’ my ex-husband when I was 3 months pregnant and my other child was a year and a half. I didn’t know it at the time but it was all for my good🤗
@brittanyb5942
3 жыл бұрын
Wow
@talicialee
3 жыл бұрын
Oh honey you meant business 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
@deliteful1991
3 жыл бұрын
He said that? Wow
@Minister_LaShawn
3 жыл бұрын
@@talicialee : Yes ma’am. No more treating me like a dumping ground.
@Minister_LaShawn
3 жыл бұрын
@@deliteful1991 : IKR😒
@blacksongbird100
3 жыл бұрын
Facts!! I only know a few men (can count them on one hand) who treat their wives the way Tony does his wife. EVERY LAST ONE OF THEM ARE AMAZINGLY BLESSED!!! These men are happy. They have wonderful children. They are prosperous. Whatever they touch seems to work. It's amazing to see. Thank you Tony for giving me hope that I can have such a husband and life.
@Cpre1111
3 жыл бұрын
One of the worst things you can prove to a man: no matter how awful he mistreats you, you aren't going to permanently leave him. He'll dog you for the filth b/c he considers you a pathetic doormat who needs him to validate your worth. And he WILL eventually leave you on his own terms & won't ever look back. Listen to Tony! I've been there. DON'T 👏STAY👏! Don't be afraid to be alone. Know that truly loving yourself will get you further in life & make you happier & healthy, rather than settling for toxicity that ingrains generational curses upon your children by watching Mommy settle for a piece of sh*t. She could be missing her blessing in a real man by staying longer. Many women stay b/c they say to themselves, no man will want me now with a kid(s). But that comes from a lack in Faith in God's plan. I know it's hard & I struggle, too, tho I don't have kid(s). But know that what God has for you, nothing will alter it, including having kids. Trust in God, love yourself, level up.
@mickeykflorida9929
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this because it was exactly what i needed to hear.
@helena3631
3 жыл бұрын
that same lazy man when he meets the women he want you will be shocked how his energy improves and he settle down..My uncle was one of these guys had a women that took care of him and the child they had together,he left her and met a women with three kids and jot a job and gave her his check every week and took care of her kids and married her too his first gf almost ended up in the nut house because he didnt help her with nothing she worked pregnant paid the bill and he was around..Men do for who they want aint nothing about it
@bigflyness17
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@ericaljones7665
3 жыл бұрын
Once apon a time this was me at 26 yrs old( now 30 yrs old since sept 24th ) with 3 kids in a toxic relationship for 5 yrs with an engagement to a grown boy . I left him and my apartment . Paid the lady extra for breaking my lease early but it was all worth it . He ended up on meth multiple arrest and warrants later .
@TakishaDanet
3 жыл бұрын
Self worth needs to be drilled into the minds and hearts of all young girls. Because the innocence of women have been taken advantage of for way too long. 💛🙏🏾 Thank you Tony for standing in the gap 👏🏾
@jellygurl27
3 жыл бұрын
Long story short. The sister doesn't know her worth and value. There is nothing you can do but provide encouragement and support. We can't make people do anything.
@hypnotqgreen
3 жыл бұрын
This made me tear up because I was that woman a year ago, with the exception that we were married. That did not keep him and he did leave after I had put up with so much out of the same fears. Tony is right about the outcome. I pray she finds the strength to leave. Being an older single mom is not easy but being with my husband and his mess was killing my soul.
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
🤗
@lashondarochell7584
3 жыл бұрын
Praying for you sis ❤️ GOD Bless You Thank GOD you on the other side Blessings to you 🙏
@hypnotqgreen
3 жыл бұрын
@@lashondarochell7584 thank you sis ❤️
@lashondarochell7584
3 жыл бұрын
@@hypnotqgreen You welcome
@nikkyshamz2696
3 жыл бұрын
I can't even imagine ♥️♥️♥️ may God bless ur new journey
@candaceclark9266
3 жыл бұрын
I left after 3 kids from my husband of 10 years. You have to do your work and my son gave me permission to leave my husband. It’s hard!!
@LadyAngela678
3 жыл бұрын
🥰
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
🤗
@rjlondon5801
3 жыл бұрын
Yep i have 3 boys with my new toxic ex of 8/9years. My eldest is autistic (7) and told me, I dont want dad in the house anymore. Say no more. He never put his hands on him but had such a bad aura my disabled son doesnt want him in his safe place. And that was enough for me to say enough ❤ love to you and your kids x
@candaceclark9266
3 жыл бұрын
@@rjlondon5801 yes kids are honest and don’t have fear like us adults I’m glad my son gave me permission.
@laladesy7352
3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what happened to my aunt. She took care of her kid’s father for almost 15 years. He made money under the table, they had two kids, he abused her, never married her, and she met him when he got out of prison. He was the one who left her for another woman which he ended up marrying and moved to another state with. I see this happen time and time again and usually if the woman doesn’t walk away then he will.
@dooliefaye3588
3 жыл бұрын
If her primary goal is marriage and she gives him an ultimatum, he will marry her JUST to keep her stuck for another 20 years. The goal here should not be marriage but self-love. Self-love will put an end to this toxicity with the quickness, and a good therapist can help her sort this out. Bless you sister!
@carolynwilliams4926
3 жыл бұрын
Desperate and don't want start over. Cause she is scared. But she don't know what's on the other side. It could be everything she wish for just let go.
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
So true!!
@gabi-kl3rx
3 жыл бұрын
Look like the sister got a hush ring. It's a good thing they are not married bc that man is a cheating dusty and she needs to gone about her business. Sustaining that relationship = a lifetime of heartache
@preciousruby7265
3 жыл бұрын
God is a God of order!!! He will never bless a mess. He will not bless sin. He definitely won't bless idolatry. She has idolized him for 16 years. She lost her self worth and value in this young man. God knows they are both hurt and broken. He doesn't know love and neither does she. They both need a personal relationship with Christ. Her sister must still love on her and pray for her. God will hear her prayers.
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
Great comment!
@lashondarochell7584
3 жыл бұрын
You spoke the TRUTH 🙏 sis her sister needs to truly Repent and surrender her Life to GOD
@daniellehawkins7873
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro, cause these men out here getting on my nerves the way they are treating my sisters. God bless.
@LadyAngela678
3 жыл бұрын
100
@jimmyharrison290
3 жыл бұрын
Excellent as always. Doctrine reproof and correction. As a man of GOD searching for his wife. Watchful for the favor of the LORD. I'm learning every day from the word of GOD, and from your videos. How i should love my wife as Christ loved the church.. GOD desires nothing less than his best.. in all aspects of. Our life, in our finances, jobs, in our mental and physical health.. in. Our relationship with family , friends and loved ones.. especially in our marriages. Never settle for anything less than GOD'S best. Be not conformed to this world, But transformed by the renewing of your mind. Live Strong ,
@justsomeideas9594
3 жыл бұрын
I left my husband of 16 years and 4 kids. I left because I learned my worth and knew what I brought to the table. I started working on the 3 B’s before I even knew what they were and 2 years before I left. I refused to no longer allow someone to mistreat me.
@pat4eva09
3 жыл бұрын
In the words of DJ Khaled..."Another One." Help 'em out Tony.😩😩 Don't quit on us yet. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@TonyaNicole7
3 жыл бұрын
Sister shouldn’t be marrying someone that your saying is cheating on her that should not be encouraged if he is doing all of these things. Marriage here shouldn’t even be the agenda for this letter 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳 come on MAN!!!!!
@reinaquisha9418
3 жыл бұрын
That's why this work is so important.... That's not common knowledge 🤍
@libbymills4432
3 жыл бұрын
16 yrs, 3 children...she probably feels that he's her only option. Things won't change unless and until she learns to love herself and not operate in guilt and shame. Good luck to her. God, please show her who she is, in YOUR eyes.
@LadyAngela678
3 жыл бұрын
Facts. Why be legally tied to a bum like that.
@iloveangelmonroe4864
3 жыл бұрын
Amen sista
@sandeesuarez1130
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. Gaskin for helping us heal from these toxic individuals. Also, I'm more than ever aware that this world occupies a tremendous amount of trifling predators. I wish I was schooled much sooner but it's never to late to learn. My God, my best years are gone but my wiser years are ahead of me. Thank you. God bless!
@sandeesuarez1130
3 жыл бұрын
*too late (typo)
@andreakimmy971
3 жыл бұрын
It's so crazy! While I was watching this at the very beginning I started praying that there may start to be an abundance of true Godly men who love the Lord, and then Tony talks about the Men's retreat at the end! Amen!
@yasemins1313
3 жыл бұрын
“Was just getting ready to quit on y’all” 😂😂😂
@pat4eva09
3 жыл бұрын
Hilarious 😂 😂 I died when he said that!!!
@lisa05K
3 жыл бұрын
Please don’t ever quit on us!!! 🤩🙏🏾😃
@ShermekaG
3 жыл бұрын
Right. Have to be there for them always. Because I once was in their shoes so I understand.
@pumpkinspice213
3 жыл бұрын
He is gonna stay until the kids get grown so he don’t pay child support, he don’t want her, and he is waiting on the one to come along. Sis is sad, has low self esteem, and needs a reality check.
@JoannA-sweetly
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, gaming.....
@pumpkinspice213
3 жыл бұрын
@@itslivenow3079 You think so?
@pumpkinspice213
3 жыл бұрын
@@itslivenow3079 (1) Did he have arrears? If so, he will need to pay that back until it is paid in full or collect SSI (2) Did he have his child late in life? If so, that’s his issue not the mom.
@tlashai9902
3 жыл бұрын
Some men are ok with being on child support. It’s sad, check out Kevin Samuels, punk a$$, and alpha male strategies, trick @$$. These losers alone will tell you that.
@pumpkinspice213
3 жыл бұрын
@@tlashai9902 Morning, I don’t understand where you are coming from with you statement.
@JermaineThomas4050
3 жыл бұрын
Ability to be alone (without a relationship right now).
@deliteful1991
3 жыл бұрын
Leave your sister alone and just pray for her. Be a shoulder for her when issues arise without judgement.
@Jazz.Ministry
3 жыл бұрын
“Fiancé means a glorified boyfriend “🤯 Tony keeps it all the way real 👏🏾💯
@maiyajones5814
3 жыл бұрын
The Grown Boy just wants to string her along. If she has the strength to walk away, he probably wouldn't chase after her.
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
He absolutely won’t!!!
@tonid773
3 жыл бұрын
Which is good. It may not feel good, but I hope he never chase her if she leave ✌🏽✌🏽
@KrystleLaughter
3 жыл бұрын
God ain’t nowhere in that relationship.If God was in it then there will be the evidence of God which is love and peace. I stayed in a toxic marriage for 8-years because I thought it was “God”. Don’t buy the lie ladies!
@kadinethompson9442
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people remain where they are because they are bossing up before they leave. Go back to school start a business etc.
@Ania_Naomi96
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@brittanyb5942
3 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@KrystleLaughter
3 жыл бұрын
@@kadinethompson9442 Facts. I did this after my 7th child was born. ❤️
@sibel3795
3 жыл бұрын
Tony you literally are the king of coaches now one will ever top your wisdom..every time you do a video you make my knowledge more. No one is to the point, the realist... God bless you and your family
@mzchocolitt4091
3 жыл бұрын
I dont want to be strung along thats time you’ll never get back, most of the time we as women see the male isn’t our husband and stay anyway. I don’t want to ever make that mistake again. A man doesn’t see you as his wife if it takes that long or he’s showing you he’s not your husband.
@tiawannarichmonde250
3 жыл бұрын
Women who allow men to date them for years and years many times end up heartbroken because he usually marries someone else.
@kilimanjaro5537
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve always felt that way. I’m not wasting my youth on a man. Come correct or don’t come at all.
@Ania_Naomi96
3 жыл бұрын
Speaking life and affirmations are so beneficial
@reginastevens7673
3 жыл бұрын
Good day everyone✋🏼
@reinaquisha9418
3 жыл бұрын
Good afternoon💛
@MissTracy-Ann
3 жыл бұрын
Good Morning Sis & have a blessed day
@reginastevens7673
3 жыл бұрын
@@MissTracy-Ann thank you so much🙏🏼 have a blessed day🌺
@jussjess2829
3 жыл бұрын
The sister should just let it be. As much as it hurts sometimes to watch those we love go down the wrong path, sometimes its best to stay out of it. That is my motto. Mind my business because women rarely want to hear the truth. Sometimes that goes for me as well.
@kilimanjaro5537
3 жыл бұрын
This is true unfortunately people just have to learn on their own.
@joycenash8271
3 жыл бұрын
I am enjoying how you are explaining it to her with love and compassion. She loves her sister.
@missmarymack3457
3 жыл бұрын
I get so excited when you post new videos!! New videos produce NEW KNOWLEDGE!! I am thirsty for it!! God bless you and your beautiful family!
@lillianpitts9853
3 жыл бұрын
I left after three kids in my first marraige and remarried a good husband the second time who passed away and remarried again to a narcissist had a child with him and now divorcing after 3 yrs after finding out hes never going to stop cheating I didnt know I was considered a strong person
@ulricka2131
3 жыл бұрын
The better I treat my wife, the better my life gets❗❗❗ this speaks to me much more than the happy wife happy life. Blessing upon blessing!!! Here is a man who understands life. Stay blessed brother👌🏾
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
Sis, those are a lot of questions about a sorry, no-good man and none about your sister. Why has she stayed with a man for 16 years that won’t marry her? Why is she having children with a man that won’t marry her? Why is she with a man that cheats on her? Why does she keep allowing him to come back?
@missbee201
3 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! That's the first thing that came to my mind, hell with him what about her
@shekhinahtshimoloho6738
3 жыл бұрын
Cohabitation a norm !!she.must get out of.that toxic ass man .16yrs its too.much.he will.never marry her .
@VintageAfro91
3 жыл бұрын
Wow. This is BEYOND stringing her along!!!! This woman at this point is choosing to be in this dead end situation. 16 years?!?!?! How slow can you take it?!?! That’s nearly 2 whole decades!!! No way in the world.
@nessparadis6948
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you Tony. Sometimes I get so mad hearing these letters. I get mad that we as women allow such messiness in our lives. I get mad bc we don’t love ourselves. And I get mad at the audacity of these men 😡.
@becca4067
3 жыл бұрын
Wow I can relate this exacly is happening with my sister it’s very stressful to me
@tarao4382
3 жыл бұрын
I totally understand how you feel. I was so stressed for a year. I recently let it all go, I feel free. I had to free myself from someone else drama. I feel as though I was more stressed out than her. Wasn't my mess to be stressed. How was I so stressed over another's mess. My life is peaceful with no drama. I had to wake up. Please free yourself and pray for her. Peace and blessings to you 💕
@lebradavis8447
3 жыл бұрын
Omg..... 10 years & one day I filed for a divorce. Wow!!! I married August 25, 2009 and divorced August 26, 2019. Lawd have mercy.
@deenasayed2333
3 жыл бұрын
Trust your intuition and go with it and you will never need a life coach. Be your own life coach.
@Best-ThingYouNeverHad
3 жыл бұрын
It ain't even about the court like you said Tony marriage sends a message to other men that this woman is off limits. If he can't marry you you still on the shelf
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
"God doesn't have anything to do with your relationship because y'all in fornication." TG
@vadamsable
3 жыл бұрын
BINGO!! God honors promises. Weak women remain weak until they get tired. Your sister needs prayer. She needs to grow in self esteem.
@BreeziDeezi
3 жыл бұрын
Period . I wish I could tell my mom this but she gets offended and yells because I take the advice she gave me as a child and SHE does not. She has a masters degree but has been engaged to a felon with a part time job for 4 years ... Torn between resentment and worry for her.
@Dr.Elaine1
3 жыл бұрын
@@BreeziDeezi Yes, the word can be offensive to those that aren’t following it. The fact that she is offended is a good sign because deep down, she still has a desire to please God. Being offended and yelling are defense mechanism to prevent you from reminding her of her sin, contradiction, and guilt. Tell her what God requires, that’s your part. At this point, she seems willing to accept all consequences for her actions. So, let her.
@nikkyshamz2696
3 жыл бұрын
@@BreeziDeezi omg pray for her intensely for the scales to fall off her eyes before that man ruin her life.
@ericalashan1923
3 жыл бұрын
Great video. I always say a healthy self esteem is very important. If u dont love yourself how can u expect anyone else to?
@danacaldwell1035
3 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskin, you offered such wise, kind and sweet advice on how this lady can support and lift up her Sister. Thank you and I hope you get back every thing you've planted into others lives. Have a blessed day
@RUNWAYBEAUTY
3 жыл бұрын
At this point she needs to move on. God bless her✨
@gracegratitude2642
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lord for setting me free. Lord you gave me the strength to leave after 12 years and 3 kids Ohhh today I am the bride of the Lord. Amen
@Londa.G
3 жыл бұрын
I just finished up a Sunday sermon and this came through! Happy Wednesday Blessed Tribe! Have a super blessed day!
@BreeziDeezi
3 жыл бұрын
16 years. 3 kids. A shame... I won’t even live with a man and I’m 27. But I see my family just giving away baby showers to encourage this foolishness. More baby showers than college graduations. This is so sad. You can break the cycle but don’t waste your breath on people perpetuating the cycle. They’ll only get offended and keep playing the fool.
@ummielove
Жыл бұрын
“This what I do!” I felt that statement. I watch your videos and appreciate the blunt honesty! The discernment you carry is a blessing from God. Be blessed.
@Dearest_Kenyetta
3 жыл бұрын
Fear handicaps us. Praying for this young lady.
@Chinadoll698
3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I met in May 2017 and he had propose March of 2018 and we got married in April 2018 and we are happily married with a two year old son and we are coming up on our 3rd wedding anniversary on April 15th! Mr. Tony Gaskins you are telling her nothing but the truth sir because even before my husband propose to he told me you are my wife!
@DebtDemolisherTV
3 жыл бұрын
YEEEESSS “WHEN YOU ARE FAITHFUL AND YOU ARE FOCUSED, THEN YOU ARE FAVORED!!!!” TG 😭😭😭
@pamelacallahan6156
3 жыл бұрын
I live and was raised in Phoenix Az it's beautiful 🌹 here great place for a retreat!! Horse everything
@peonyflower7296
3 жыл бұрын
How about a retreat for the ladies?? Anybody else?? I would really like that! Your wife would be great to meet and talk to us ladies lol
@renita589
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony!😊 The time and effort you put into educating people, not just on how to achieve healthy relationships but more importantly...how to achieve healthy, GODLY relationships is so awesome!!! When I'm watching & listening to your videos, I can truly discern your genuine heart's desire for others to experience the peace, joy, & favor that you possess in your own marital relationship. May God's Eternal Blessings continue to follow and radiantly shine upon you & your beautiful family!!!🙏🏽💕
@katrinaandersonward5938
3 жыл бұрын
Be blessed. As you mentioned, thank you the huge attempt and sacrifice for the future men’s retreat. I will pack my brother’s suitcase now.
@JermaineThomas4050
3 жыл бұрын
Be a good human being. - TG
@kadinethompson9442
3 жыл бұрын
Btw that man is delusional now that you explained it...
@Mdmw88
3 жыл бұрын
That’s a great idea! Tony please help these men out here most are misguided.
@TakishaDanet
3 жыл бұрын
Only one word in response to this situation: “ NEVER “ 😂 lord I thank you for the wisdom of Tony Gaskins and the insight we learn from the other women of this channel. ❤️
@RFonyeaBlackmon
3 жыл бұрын
Good afternoon everyone.
@ladyboss38
3 жыл бұрын
I'm just here for the knowledge. Tony is dropping gems
@AE-106
3 жыл бұрын
As the old ppl used to say, "you are a mess"! "Tellin' it like it T'I is"! Your word IS spreading And reaching brother Tony. God bless! I 😊🙏🕊
@queenshugg4264
3 жыл бұрын
Grown boy activities!! She needs to learn how to LOVE herself first!!
@s.r.125
3 жыл бұрын
Praise God for another episode of Talks with Tony! 🙏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽😅
@nenaclay1
3 жыл бұрын
Hey ladies! Great to see a new episode today 🥰
@s.r.125
3 жыл бұрын
Finally 😩😩😂😂🙌🏽
@priscamoyesa
3 жыл бұрын
POWERFUL VIDEO. The retreat is a great idea.
@s.a.h6440
3 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom in these TWTony videos. Even though my attempts to book sessions with you were not successful I am still learning with each video. May God continue to bless you and give you the energy to continue to help others.
@doriscrumpton2980
3 жыл бұрын
Let go and let go! God will work on your behalf so let him go. This is not the life God want for you. Stop cursing yourself with this man. Let God bless you and let it go!🙏🙌
@DD-mg2se
3 жыл бұрын
Oh yes. Your life gone be bright because you treat your wife right. Be blessed.
@bodiendominique400
3 жыл бұрын
So excited to see another 'Talks with Tony'!
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
Tony, how can we support you regarding the men’s retreat? When you help the men, you help us🤗!!
@maiangellove8949
3 жыл бұрын
Your heart and dedication to serve is of excellence.💕 Hopefully, the men that need the retreat will be in attendance. God bless you Tony🙏🏽.
@marthaphillips6720
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Tony, for your videos very helpful and I love listening to them continue to be blessed you and your family.
@ShesGottaFastCar
3 жыл бұрын
Preach! Focus Faithful and Favor!!! Yes!
@schlonmartin8336
3 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskins, you're speaking truth. God bless you and your family! Keep allowing the Lord to use you.
@DebtDemolisherTV
3 жыл бұрын
🗣🗣🗣 Your flow of the spirit be anointed!!! ALWAYS!!
@dawnsandiford3089
3 жыл бұрын
Love the way you apply that scripture about the prodigal son,I’ll use that whenever I become aware I’m doing something that the most high does not approved,thank you, never realize it’s such a joy in heaven when we make small changes,WOW
@vadamsable
3 жыл бұрын
Tony, write that math down!!😂😂You remind me of myself. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free as the old saying goes. The advice you gave for making a man accountable is the key to all relationships. I'm not letting anybody take up my youth or use me.
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