Regardless if your husband loves you or not, cheating is wrong. You should have divorced him before dating another guy. I don’t blame you for going back, but you have to be willing to leave as soon as you know he only took you back to torture you. You’re so young but your thinking is still dumb like those real old og. I’m glad you finally woke up and smell the coffee. You can’t blame people for saying you cheated thats because you did cheat. I’m glad you finally found the love you deserved
@wendylee4892
8 ай бұрын
Never go back unless you want to get treated worse. Divorce him so that way you can live the life that you want. Don’t listen to others because they don’t live your life. It’s your happiness or misery, so do what’s best for you and your kids.
@leek-te5dx
8 ай бұрын
I think your story sounds more extreme in comparison to other stories. You are in a domestic abusive relationship and your husband has you under his control. You need to walk away before you end up dead. You have low self esteem and no safe haven, but you still need to remember self care. Walk away.
@NkaujElizabeth
8 ай бұрын
No sister you wrong for cheating. Cheating is the wrong thing to do when someone doesn’t treat you right. You should have use your good to win and when you leave at the end he regret you. If you cheat you make him the good guy.
@GhOst-fv7kf
8 ай бұрын
Vim pom Dej dag siab this neig
@Flower-xk2dv
8 ай бұрын
Lub neej tsis zoo yav tag txhob muab rov coj los xav lawm os tus me vivncaus..yeej yog li koj hais os yog yus tus txiv hlub yus ces lub neej yeej tsis tawg os mog..yog tau mus lawm ces mus kom kawg xwb txhob rov mus rau tus txiv tsim txom lawm os..txiv neej hmoob lub siab phem phem li nawb lawv tsis hlub yus li os yog yus rov mus yuav lawv ces lawv haj yam muaj ntsej muag tsim yus xwb os..txiv neej hmoob lub siab lim lim hiam kuv thiaj li ntshai kuv thiaj li txiav txim siab ua ib tug nkauj nrab nyob tau 6lub xyoo tsis kam yuav txiv li os tus me viv ncaus..ua tsaug os uas koj tseem tuaj shared koj lub neej rau peb mloog thiabnv os mog..peb cov pojniam yuav tau hlub hlub nws tus kheej txhob rov mus rau ib tug txiv tsim txom lawm mog yog thaum lub neej tsis zoo lawm.
I know many women going through what you went through, and they don't cheat. There's no justification for cheating. There's no love, just leave.
@nanciechen-van1095
8 ай бұрын
Yog mas sister aws cov niag txiv dev ua neej lwj siab zoo li ko mas dhuav siab tshaj plaws li os. nrog koj zoo siab koj dim plaws niag neeg siab phem lim hiam ko mas.. kuv twb nyob lub neej zoo li ko thiab os kuv thiaj ua siab tso tseg kiag os...txiv neej hmoob mas sim neej no tus yuav koj rov qab ce kawg koj rov mus tuag rau nws tsis li ces kawg mag tsim txog hnub ib tug tuag kiag xwb!
@keolor9333
8 ай бұрын
Sister I was in your shoes a long time ago! My ex husband didn’t help me with anything nor did he work. But he was super controlling too. It took me almost 10 years to get out of that life style but once I did it was the best thing for me. My parents did the same thing your parents did too but i know what I had to do! For me and my kids and I’m so happy I never look back once!!
@chouaxiong8406
8 ай бұрын
Wow kuv xav Tia kuv ib leeg tuaj tau lub neej zoo li no xwb no os
@youavu1433
8 ай бұрын
No excuse for cheating, it's a sin if your married.
@tongxiong1161
8 ай бұрын
Yog kawg
@ayxiong4792
8 ай бұрын
Once you cheat your husband will never love you the same! The cheating part will always be in the back of his mind.
@NpisVwjNeejYias
8 ай бұрын
Why not get a divorce if he truly doesn't love you. Cheating doesn't make you tye better person.
@DijDij-ru8mu
8 ай бұрын
Yog lawm os niam leej vama aws peb poj niam ce nraug txim txom heev os
@miahart8932
7 ай бұрын
I’m glad you got away from that bad man. Live your happy life now.
@ouradventuresnspecialmoments
8 ай бұрын
Hmong men with a mindset of 1975 will never be forgiving nor most of them know how to emotionally love their wife! You should've left the 1st time & never look back...Glad you have a happier life now. Live & Learn...
@NancyYang-g8s
8 ай бұрын
Kuv twb mus yuav txiv rov los kuv tus txiv tseem yuav kuv as.... Nws tseem hlub kuv dua qub lawm os.
@MissPeachie
8 ай бұрын
I don’t understand this woman. She has the courage to cheat but not the courage to leave her deadbeat husband. Never go back to neejsta because they won’t take your side. No matter how you look at it, you were also wrong for cheating. Once you cheat, keep moving forward and never go back. Koj ruam heev.
@khax2002
8 ай бұрын
Love all these stories, cause they're life lessons. Kablia, can you load 2 stories per day? I listen to your stories all day at work, and I'm running out. 😂 I really enjoy the scary stories most!
@nlchannel4682
8 ай бұрын
Ruam dhaur lawm ce pab tsi taur. Neeg ruam ce yeej zoor lir nov.....Tsi xaiv txoj zoor e mu xaiv txoj phem.
@Nchai-Yang
8 ай бұрын
This is America. If he is as abusive as you say he is why didn't you divorce him so you can move on. Cheating does not make it right, whether you are the guy or a girl. Besides the percentage of your marriage working, from infidelity, is low.
@meexiong9961
8 ай бұрын
Cas kuv yusv dhuav cov niag txiv tshob cuab ntawd ua luaj li o lawv..
@jackieyunan4899
5 ай бұрын
Cov niam tsev es raug lwm tus txiv neej deev tag ces yog tib co maum dev lawm xwb nawb lawv aw...
@atlasanyaandamazingplaces8597
8 ай бұрын
Easy xwb mas tus niam tsev. Xav thov kom peb cov poj niam xav deev hluas ces muab tus txiv nrauj kom hlua pluam es mam mus thiaj tsis muaj teeb meem ok
@songnleepage5937
8 ай бұрын
Txiv neej Hmoob cov coob yeej zam txim tau kawg vim ua neeg nyob peb yeej tsis perfect tabsi yog yus mus txiag qau tag es yus tseem muaj muaj xiv li tus pog no ces leej twg los yeej zam txim tsus tau.
@maiyang3659
8 ай бұрын
Yog Koj twb paub tias koj yuav ua neej tsis kawg nrog Koj tus txiv thiab ntxeev taus siab rau Koj tus txiv. Koj yog ib tus poj niam uas muaj ib pab menyuam. Txawm Koj mus yuav khej los nws yeej yuav tsis hlub mog
@c.lee-soulisak327
8 ай бұрын
Sorry, sister but no matter what your situation at home is like.nothing justifies adultery. You always have the chance to make a choice. You just made the wrong choice. Divorce your husband first and then you can do whatever you want. I have no respect for a cheater.
Ruam tshaj plaws! Why would you cheat b4 divorce? You are supposed to divorce then date...no pity for you!!!!
@leejmuam1
8 ай бұрын
Doesn't matter what situation you were in. Cheating is cheating. No excuses will justify your cheating. Not happy, leave.
@payang3701
8 ай бұрын
Tsis thab thab yuav tej niag txiv lim hiam zoo li ko Tsim yus npaum li ko lawm txhob Niag txiv lim hiam dhau lawm cia cov pog pój nrauj ho los yuav
@Moguy-zv7kl
8 ай бұрын
There is no excuse or reasons enough to justify an affair. If you were so broken by your husband as your stated, then you should have divorced him before you started your affair. That was your choice to by unfaithful and yours alone. No one forced you to cheat on your husband so don’t use the excuse that he drove you to have an affair. That’s a cop out and you not taking responsibility for your actions!
@chang3568
8 ай бұрын
Sister, please love yourself and leave the txiv dej. Be strong. He add no value to your life.
@mainenglee-xiong3344
8 ай бұрын
No excuse for cheating. If your husband was that bad, you should have divorced before dating another man. You exaggerated your husband’s behavior, but it sounds like you’re making it up. You deserve what you created.
@TouYang-kl3es
8 ай бұрын
Yes, it's her spouse is the problem, that's why this marriage has to end this way. No body is perfect so love is cover all sins.
@heevtshaj9066
8 ай бұрын
Poj niam siab phem li koj tsau tsawg. Lub txim tuag lawm hov.
@ML00
8 ай бұрын
Doesn’t matter if you’re a man or woman, if you are that unhappy then leave your marriage before you move onto a new relationship. He doesn’t sound like a good husband but where you went wrong is stepping out of your marriage before ending it. There is no excuse for cheating. Period. People will talk regardless but you could have left your marriage first.
@mkaomoua3096
8 ай бұрын
Happy gpr your new life sister
@judythoj6904
8 ай бұрын
Everyone said men don't forgive. That's not true. But it's true for your husband. Suavdlawg has tas txivneej tsi muaj kev zaam txim, qhov ntawd tsi muaj tseeb tabsis nwg muaj tseeb rua koj tug quasyawg. Cale tsiv tawm ntawm koj tug quasyawg moog ua ntej nwg muab koj tua.
@sunnygirl973
8 ай бұрын
Ib tug neeg cem cem yus, UA cas yus tsis txawj cem nws rov qab os. Paub tawm tsam thiab lo. Cov txiv dev zoo lis no xwb ces kav tsis ntev os.
@kerlee7536
8 ай бұрын
Tus me Viv ncause aw ua neeg nyob peb cov poj niam na txhob ruam2 Mas yog koj tus txiv tsis zoo tsis hlub koj li hais tias ces yuav tau muab nrauj tso mam Tham hluas yeej tsis lig Mas nawj
@miabhlub63
8 ай бұрын
Never go back!
@ylt4072
8 ай бұрын
I want to feel sorry for you, but I just can't empathize with cheaters
@seeyang72
8 ай бұрын
Mus g los lawm os lawv aw... Cas thaum txiv neej deev hluas nkauj ho g kom lawv muab nyuj hu poj niam plig thiab ma G ncaj ncees kuag li os 😢😅😅
@souaxiong5982
8 ай бұрын
Aub yau tseem tso qaib li kuv niag thaib lau 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@DijDij-ru8mu
8 ай бұрын
👍👍👍💖💖💖🌹
@kerlee7536
8 ай бұрын
Nws tsis yog koj yuam kev koj yeej muaj lub siab xav deev hluas thiaj ua li ko ces yog yus rov nrhiav qws los ntaus yus xwb los sis yus rov nhiav teeb meem rau yus xwb tsis yog daws t teeb meem nawj mog
@leevue7803
8 ай бұрын
Ntxov nrauj ntxov dim xwb vim li cas koj tseem pheej nyob tiv txoj kev phem no
@lukemoua9027
8 ай бұрын
Ib tus txiv neej twg tais paub ua zaub ua mov noj ces ruam dhau lawm mas pog laug aw
@leecaskojlubneejyuavtxomny2019
8 ай бұрын
Ruam ua luaj pom leejtwg ua txhaum es tus txiv yuav zam txim na ? Nej nco ntsoov tias yog tau mus lawm ces txhob rov Los lawm xwb nawb. yog nej tseem rov los ces yog los rau lawv tsim yus lawm xwb na. Luag ntxias Kom yus rov Los rau nws tsim yus xwb nawb.
@hmongremark2686
8 ай бұрын
Poj niam deev hluas nraug tsis zoo ze li txiv neej deev hluas nkauj. Ob yam no sib txawv deb npaum lub ntuj thiab daim av. Yog li no ib tug poj niam twg deev hluas lawm, tus txiv tsis lam kam zam txim rau. Tab sis tus txiv deev hluas nkauj no ces tus niam kam zam txiv pub vim txiv neej ua hluas yog kev ua si rau nws yog qhov ntau. Tab sis poj niam ua hluas no ces yog nrhiav kev tawm ntawm tus txiv mus pib dua lwm lub neej tshiab nrog lwm tus txiv neej xwb.
@melissaxiong6992
8 ай бұрын
Tus txiv zoo li ko es kav tsij muab pov tseg kom nws tsi muaj chaw nyob kiag xwb os
@hmongfixnas2255
8 ай бұрын
Ha ya me nyuam hmoob me kas tsis txawj ntxuav tais ntxuav diav ua noj hauv lub vaj lub tsev li lo me nyuam me 2 muaj 5 lo yog 6 xyoo xwb mas thiaj tsis paub pab niam pab txiv pob peb tej me nyuam 7 xyoo xwb twb txawj pab niam ua hauj lwm hauv lub tsev lawm na
@houathao-k1w
8 ай бұрын
Muab dov kauj vab tua dev qua tib sis tsam tseem ua npau suav pov os
@leevue7803
8 ай бұрын
Nws rov yuav koj los tsim xwb
@xayxiong1061
8 ай бұрын
You should’ve never went back to your lazy txiv dev!
@iathor3045
8 ай бұрын
Nej cov poj niam ruam los ntse nas txawm g hais los nej yeej paub tias rov los ces nej tus txiv yeej g hlub lawm nas yog tau mus lawm ces mus tus tshiab lawm xwb tus qub ces mus rau lawv tsim xwb os poj hmoob aw
@MengYang-j7g
8 ай бұрын
TOS mag ntaus os nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb…tsis Xav mag ntaus ces rauj tag mam mus txhiag qau yeej tsis lig na
@peachypanda1019
8 ай бұрын
This is one of the reasons why it's not always a good thing to live near relatives or inside hmong communities. Some would understand but most of em are just down right awful even though they know you're the victim.
@nkaujmogmim125
8 ай бұрын
Tu niam tsev no e g musj sisb muaj tsws li a. Ua Cas nej hos ncab ceg tau tau tu txiv ua Hai lus saib g tau u. Yog saib g tau u ce txhob cia nws nrog u pw. Muab u cem2 cej dev tag e u tseem nrog tau pw ce u ce twb g piv dev lm.
@chervang6550
8 ай бұрын
Yog koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj npaum li ko mas yuav tsum muab nrauj tag mas deev hluas os! Yeej yog tim koj me nris lawm thiab!
@kermoua6883
8 ай бұрын
If your husband is lazy and abusing you then why don’t you leave him. Cheating while you are still married is totally wrong for any man or woman!
@michaelf2700
8 ай бұрын
I feel bad for u, but why didnt u leave when u had the chance? U should have divorced him b4 u cheated. Cheating was not a mistake. U did it on purpose bcuz ur life was miserable.
@MV-ct6nj
8 ай бұрын
Peb ua neeg no ces yeej muaj ib tug zoo li ntawv los deev peb siab peb thiaj tsis tuag!. Ua ntej yus yuav pib nco ntsoov tias yus hla teeb liab lawm txhob rov qab lawm. Tom ntej zoo li cas los mus lawm xwb nawb!! You are in an abusive relationship!. Get out!!
@miayaj7313
8 ай бұрын
Yes I see that. The wife was abuse but her cowork was right. It's not fair for us women.
Sis, in a marriage, even if you were belittle, abused, cheated on, slaved etc. Once you cheated, all fingers are pointed at you. You become the bad guy. Nothing you say or do will justify your action. You need to love yourself and walk away. Who cares what anyone says. They don't live your life. I'm not saying cheating is right and is the only way out, but sometimes it takes a person to cheat to leave and when you cheat. Don't ever go back.
@jasmineflower7115
8 ай бұрын
Should’ve left him when you had the chance. You knew how your husband was as a person. There’s no way a narcissist SOB like him would ever forgive you. Maybe koj yeej ruam thiab tsis sawm zoo. 🤦🏻♀️
@mailor1380
8 ай бұрын
Your marriage is very toxic. Set cameras prove his violent abuse and leave him when you can. Your family don't take your side because of your previous wrongdoing. If you want to seek happiness and leave.
@Paulnhia68
8 ай бұрын
It's your fault if he's that bad how come you still stay with him without divorce before you start your cheating on your husband.
@Lovecookies01
8 ай бұрын
Girl that's why take out. If you dont like it take your stuff outside!!!
@ThePrincessWorrior
8 ай бұрын
Tsis zoo lawm thiaj mus. Mus lawm ho rov los, for what? We shouldn’t read our books backwards. Txawm nws yuav thov pe nplaig lo av los twb tsis zoo es yus thiaj mus na, tsis rov li lawm mas thiaj yog pob. Mus rov mus rov ces txawm yuav yog poj niam txiv neej los luag yeej paub tias..nyuag no ces tsis muaj qab ntxhiab nuj nqis khuab qhov muag. Yog kuv niag txiv es twb pom kuv tsis zoo es nws mus aim lwm tus poj. Kuv thov thov pe pe nws rov los los ham tsis yog nws los rau kuv tsim xwb. Vim yog tias kuv tsis zoo npaum li nws hais tiag es nws thiaj mus aim paum tshiab tiam sis nws ho rov los rau kuv, ces kuj yog nws twb tsis muaj qab hau dabtsi, twb tsis muaj tus khaws nws nws thiaj rov los xwb. Ces rov los lawm ces tsim kom txaus xwb tiag 😂
@kellyxiong8739
8 ай бұрын
Your biggest mistake is going back to him.
@bliaxiong9563
8 ай бұрын
Just leave him now. No need to stay with your abuse husband.Don’t listen to anyone, but yourself.
@niamtsevxeemlaujlauj5003
8 ай бұрын
Sister save your life. Men like your hubby is not safe to stay around.
@MyConfessions
8 ай бұрын
This story is frustrating! Yog koj twb paub tias koj tus txiv yeej phem li ntawd cas hos tsis nrauj kiag es yuav ua li cas los mam ua. Hos koj tus txiv twb phem phem es tseem yuav rov yuav ua dabtsi? Who cares what your neej tsa said..this is the US! Just serve him divorce papers and be done with it! This is the very reason why pajyengxa said it's part of the culture......all the women in this story allow for this abusive husband to act the way he did.
@zoolikuv
8 ай бұрын
I don't blame you as a victim the first time, but the second time is on you. You are more than welcome to leave but don't cheat.
@paris3478
8 ай бұрын
Cas tsis khiav os.qub dev ces....
@maichang8246
8 ай бұрын
Sister it's still not too late to leave your husband
@sacleo786
8 ай бұрын
Sister, being in a crazy marriage like yours isn’t worth it. Live your life to the fullest and get away from that mad husband of yours.
@nouyang3166
8 ай бұрын
I can't believe she even went back to him when he beat her after they went home from her affair.
@17maukabtsab
8 ай бұрын
Sister, you should have let him go a long time ago.
@chongxiong340
8 ай бұрын
Time to go. Since he catches, you should just divorce. Bye. Find new love. I'm not sure why you stay.
@TubTxheebCaaj
8 ай бұрын
When did wrong, you always find something to blame. You should have divorced the guy first before you go have affairs.
@leevue7803
8 ай бұрын
Koj mas thiaj yog ib tug poj niam uas ruam tshaj li yog nws ntaus koj thaum twg ces hu 911 xwb
@nancyvang2126
8 ай бұрын
Sorry poj niam xubtubpim
@visibopath1412
8 ай бұрын
Koj tus txiv dev no lub siab lim hiam kawg es koj dig muag lawm thiaj xav tias ib tug txiv neej siab dev li nws yuav lub koj no. Kuv yog ib tug txiv neej thiab yog kuv tus pojniam tham hluas nraug lawm ces kuv yeej tsis yuav thiab, koj tus ua niam tsev yog txiv neej tsis hlub koj thaum pib lawm ces kho tag ces nrauj khiav yus tus txiv lawm xwb yog hais nyob rau neb qhov teeb meem xwb ov.
@maryly09
8 ай бұрын
Idc how bad your marriage is or how miserable u are, when u cheat, rather than divorce first, you lose all credibility.
@tsis-k-koj
8 ай бұрын
It's your fault because you keep excepting bad treatment no one force you to stay. Plus you should have left your husband before dating to other men. Don't rely on anyone else for whats good for your life not even your side of the family.🤦♂️
@leevue7803
8 ай бұрын
Koj mas thiaj txawj ruam yus twb mus tham lwm tus lawm nws tsis nrauj yus los yus muab nws nrauj tsis txhob ntsib nws cov kwv tij thiaj tsis mag lawv cem lawv hais phem rau
@blueberrysmilie1
8 ай бұрын
Hmong nej cov kev cai tsis make sense.
@Llis3322
8 ай бұрын
Hmong people need professional therapy/help. People make mistakes including men. And to "forgive" is such a hard thing to do because a lot of people don't know how to forgive. they are stuck on one mistake. And the person who made the mistake often times don't know HOW to rebound off that too and they think shoving the issue under a rug will eventually make it go away.... there is no "clean slate" after cheating no matter who did it. It takes a lot of work from BOTH sides
@lovetoplaywithyou3530
8 ай бұрын
You can still divorce your husband and love yourself
@payoaxiong415
8 ай бұрын
Cheating is way worst than leaving your husband. You would have to adapt to the modern world for example those dishes you don’t want to wash. You would have to get alternative like fake plates, forks, and spoons. I feel like all women goes through the stage of doing everything. It’s up to how we react to the problem. But cheating make you as worst as him. And maybe you also haven’t put your shoes in his lifestyles. Sometimes we want to lead and guide our husband but they are still a husband so just relax and follow their lead. There is no point of being stress when you yourself can’t put any effort to do anything about it. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
@piamoua3649
8 ай бұрын
There's a reason why we're classify/label (male or Female).
@leevue7803
8 ай бұрын
Thaum Koj tsis tau mus tham lwm tus nws twb tsis hlub koj na cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj li
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