You can always be a "poj laib" and still take full responsibility for your kids. My children will always be my #1. Thanks for sharing your story, sister.
@maiyiachannel3331
2 жыл бұрын
ua tsaug rau koj qhia zaj dab neeg no tu siab thiab kho siab heev..tu siab thiab chim siab heev...
@niaarradondo8768
Жыл бұрын
I love the way you do different voices. It’s entertaining to listen to.
@Zeb1245
2 жыл бұрын
The term poj laib is overused, that most Hmong women abused that term to justify their bad behavior. Most of you Hmong women that claim to be a poj laib don’t even have traits of a poj laib. In your case, you were irresponsible and it took you a long time to realize that you have to shape up for good when you lost something important.
@c.lee-soulisak327
2 жыл бұрын
She was reckless when she was younger. Didn't know who the baby's daddy was. It just shows that she continued to make very bad decisions into her 50s. SMH!
@bleubird2023
2 жыл бұрын
I agree! Poj liab are smart, independent, and self-sufficient!! This lady is irresponsible, reckless, and not so smart. She got pregnant because she was a slut, lured an innocent man to marry her because she got pregnant by another player like her. She’s not smart but wants a smart husband. Karma hit her hard, too late for her to realize that her life isn’t going anywhere.
@mhaiyaaj
2 жыл бұрын
The term “laib” came from the Thai word “Rai” meaning “bad “. She was bad. She remembered her kids and her previous husband because she got crippled. She wouldn’t remember them if she was well.
@hmoobkatemiddleton-not3711
2 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna be old school here. Not all poj laib are meb cab. Meb cab wish they can fight and act like a poj laib who ain’t afraid to cut a b**** up!
@mayloyang4222
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know but for me my kids are my number one priority. They are the reason why I want to live and make my life better. People don’t realize what they have until they lose it all. I guess some people realize it right away but some people don’t until they hit rock bottom.
@c.lee-soulisak327
2 жыл бұрын
Amen to that!
@a2dazgod539
2 жыл бұрын
Ha, ha, ha. Our lives are the result of our intelligence, decision and action, so everyone is fully responsible for their own destiny
@magicalunicorn5853
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I’m so tired of it’s my destiny, my fate, my paper 🤦🏻♀️. It’s your own decision you made, and the result of it.
@jouavue6514
2 жыл бұрын
Nene tsim nyog kawg, poj laib txoj me kev lom zem os yom tsis kav ntev kiag nawb yom.
@maiyang570
2 жыл бұрын
I don't care how you ladies like to be a poj laib but omfg make your children are your first priority always. It's ashamed how you ladies rather have fun than make sure your children are safe.
@tvang8
2 жыл бұрын
😂 what I don’t understand is that you said you were too good looking for your husband but why is it that you can’t find a partner in 4 years
@yourxiong5106
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your life story!
@hmoobmama
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know about you guys but, this woman had the time of her life! A life worth living. She didn’t love her husband so she left (which is what some of you need to do, especially those who are in a loveless marriage, but just wanted to stay because of “the kids”.) she lived a fun life that was enjoyable, not like some of you who just go to work and come back to cook and clean for your unloving, unappreciative husbands! She may have gotten into an accident and became helpless, but so do some of you. Whether you’re a good or bad person, we all will die one day. At least she got to live the life she wanted, unlike some of you who have a husband and kids but never got to do anything fun, just living the good old boring life. So in the end, I say this lady is a good example! Sister, I’m proud of you for the decisions you made. Although u kind of sounded like a narcissist, at least you lived your life to the fullest when u did. Life goes on.
@leejmuam1
2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@ellysavaj5656
Жыл бұрын
You’re right, she’s a good example of a selfish irresponsible person.
@ljvue
Жыл бұрын
You’re definitely dysfunctional in your thinking.
@cneyxiong55
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story.
@mklv634
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your story
@hmoobxwb7119
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, Koj lub Neej pojLaib kos mas lom zem tiag2 ua rau yus tsis paub laus li os, Fun tiag li!!
@8hlo8tawv
2 жыл бұрын
lomzem rau txoj kev Sib Aim tshaj li tiag...Tabsi thaum Laus ne..ho yuav Cog Txoj Siav li cas thiab ??
@cindyskenderovic6806
2 жыл бұрын
Liam tiag2 li os, never leave your kids unattended especially when they are under age. Your kids are your #1 priority, I have kids too but never take anything for granted. I love and care for my kids, I never leave my kids stay home alone only time they stay home by themselves is when I go to work.
@sombunman5551
Ай бұрын
Yog koj tuag mas koj tus txiv zoo siab kawg , suj sum suj sum
@luevang6207
2 жыл бұрын
Poj laib ces yog cov khaus khaus pim tshaj plaws nyob hauv qab ntuj no lawm ntag laus, qhov zoo koj mus yuav ib dub es loj loj duav nqia nqia pob tw kheej kheej los aim koj mas thiaj pov koj khawv naw, hmoob ces qe qaib qe ous xwb hmoob ces me me luv luv xwb, yog cov Txawj txawj yaim mas ok thiab tab sis yeej swb dub li lawm nawb poj hmoob khaus pim tsw lwj aw.
@nkaujhmoobusa2116
2 жыл бұрын
Ua poj laib li koj ces tsim nyog kawg li lawm os nawb
@yajcaivplawv88
2 жыл бұрын
Why buy the cow? When you get the milk for free.😆🤣😂😅
@MsBL32
2 жыл бұрын
Some people just love the single life, usually it’s men but women do it too. It’s unfortunate that you ended up alone but thank you for sharing your story. May we learn a lesson from this.
@hlubkojxwb..8327
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing 👍 😊
@paoyang2836
2 жыл бұрын
Nyob zoo kab lias peb nyob Australia mloog koj cov neej neeg tas li o nawb, ua tsaug
@nkaujmogmim125
Ай бұрын
U should never drive when u drink. That is what u gets😂❤
@kawakiyang7049
2 жыл бұрын
Lol u ppl r funny
@abaoabao2695
2 жыл бұрын
tau ib tug txiv zoo ces yog koj hmoob dab tsi os tau cov txiv ua hluas thaum peb tag kis zoo li peb cov thiab thiaj li hum koj os
@LaibLausCA
2 жыл бұрын
Poj laib haib haib!!! I like 👍
@tongyang6314
2 жыл бұрын
Vim koj yog 1 tug poj niam nyiam deev hluas nraug xwb tsis nyiam muaj me nyuam cas lub pees muaj lawm xwb koj thiaj ntxub koj cov me nyuam. Kuv yog koj tus txiv ces kuv twb tsis ntshaw koj li os...xyov koj hmoov dab tsi koj tus txiv thiaj los theej koj cov hluas nraug lub txhoj.
@kayleenlee1582
2 жыл бұрын
I'm a pojlaib too, but my kids will always be my #1. They will always be fed, clothes and taken care of. You can still be a pojlaib, but priorities.
@maovang2294
2 жыл бұрын
Nene txoj me kev siab phem lim hiam os paub tsis paub os
@xaihlub34
2 жыл бұрын
Xyov yog pojlaib los yog maum dev li os!
@mickyyang6338
2 жыл бұрын
At least you acknowledge your wrong doings instead of playing the blaming game… good luck to you sis, you will need it
@luemas2766
2 жыл бұрын
Some people just like to make babies but don’t like to take care of them
@maovue4406
2 жыл бұрын
Sister, now you know it's not greener on the other side. You had your fun -- glad that your children are still willing to build that broken relationship. Friends - make some smart decisions...no drinking and driving...there's uber and lift. If you can spend $300+ on alcohol, you can spend $$ on an uber/lift/taxi.
@trinityxiong4605
Жыл бұрын
Cas Kuv niag Poj laib yuav zoo li koj thiab os xyov thaum kawg nws yuav zoo li cas thiab
@pkcyang2910
4 ай бұрын
Wow how can your very own best friend lie to you like that too? How do people lie and still able to sleep at night? Do they not have any conscious?
I think all married hmong woman who don't care about their man and children should go live the single life like this woman did. Go enjoy your life and jump from men to men. Get all the experience you can and have fun. Don't only date hmong guys, date outside the race to. If you go, go all the way. It'll be so so fun like this woman's life to. Do it, yes... Go out and live the night life and scream at the top of your lungs! Feel popular and love all the attention you're going to get. Show your wild side and release all your deepest fantasy. It'll be the greatest experience ever, nothing like it. Oh yea, you're never gonna grow old. You're going to stay beautiful forever so have fun to the end, go all out! I believe y'all can do it. Go and live the life you want. You don't need no one to tell you what to do. The right man in shinning armor will come and save you in the end. Ah, don't worry about what people say, just do you This is the best thing to do as a hmong woman. Leave your husband and children. Im sure you'll have a fantastic life in the end. One thing though. Don't go looking for your children or ex husband when you're older like this woman did when she's old or suffering. Don't ever ask for forgiveness either like this woman did. Don't show your face around your children when you never gave a Damn about them. Remember, you only deserve the life you make for yourself. Go ahead and be about that life. To the lady in this story. You deserve nothing. End of story
@suexiong537
2 жыл бұрын
Paj zis laus mas thiaj khws dua ov koj na...
@yogkkoojj6570
2 жыл бұрын
Thaum twg daim video or zaj dabneeg ntawv muaj lo lus tias "Hmoob Meskas" nrog, tshooj KZitem channel ntawv yuav nrov ntxiv thiab muaj koob nto npe mus tsis kawg.
@nengthao8318
2 жыл бұрын
Tsis hais poj niam txiv neej li. Cas cov nyiam ua neeg lwj neeg liam es twb liam txog thaum laus zog pib tsuag tawv pib ntsws twb tsis muaj neeg nyiam lawm mam li txawj xav. Mam los ua neeg zoo es twb yuav tuag cas yuav txawj xav lig ua luaj li lau?
@maimoua1371
2 жыл бұрын
Omg xav tias poj hmong yuav g muaj cov ua poj laib laus txog 6 theem zoo li koj no .neeg yeej g sawm zoo tiag
@npavdaj
2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha haven’t listen 🎧 yet but this the empowered HMONG WOMXN we have today and you gotta be dayem right they are influencers on TikTok, instagrams, social media etc for our young/future daughters. Lol 😂 gooooooo quuueen 👸 you’re strong and independent you can still ride the CC in your 50s +
@suabyalei8421
2 жыл бұрын
Koj tsis yog poj laib yog poj tuam xwb. Haha 😄 included me too.
@m.muaslis6902
4 ай бұрын
This woman will not get far in life... she will have a rude awakening one day and realized how much she has lost due to her ignorance and disrespectful manners. These kind of people needs help - they cannot and will not be able to love genuinely because people who are fill with so much anger cannot truly love. For you, I hope it's a lesson learned. Do not ever let anyone disrespect your parents. Your spouse can always be replaced but no one can ever replace your parents. Hope you learned something from this past relationship/marriage.
@txoojtvang9947
2 жыл бұрын
Tsis muaj tus txiv neej yuav zoo siab li koj hais li os poj laib yog lam dag kom tau tsuav koj xwb mas nyaj yog hos yuav kom hlub koj mas tsis muaj hnub li os tshe yog tus neeg xiam hlwb lawm xwb 3 cov nov mas pom nws muaj hluas nraug xwb qau twb tawv tsis taus lawm nas
@minecraftboy2676
2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate those that are good and close to you. Life is too short!!
@paweenahanwachira9883
2 жыл бұрын
swb roob tau 4 xyoo txaug koj yeg lawm ov. yog thevb tsw swb roo ntshai twb tsw tau rum thiab yom
Lub neej pojlaib ua cas koj thiaj ntshaw es hos tsis ntshaw tus neeg hlub koj? Tejzaum nws yog koj txoj kev npam. Tsuas koj paub koj txoj kev txhawm xwb mas. Txhob ua neeg liam lawm nawb.
@ahleenaxiong2103
2 жыл бұрын
Hi
@aiinvestor3737
2 жыл бұрын
Cov pojniam zoo li no zoo ua tsis zoo yuav.
@kanman4507
2 жыл бұрын
Tsam no ghuav koj siab lawm los kav ! Txoj kev ua poj laib noj tsis taus laus ov
@houayang7219
2 жыл бұрын
Lmfaol
@masaelee8989
2 жыл бұрын
Pom dab tsee kuwg li
@HaibTshajHaib
2 жыл бұрын
Niag tsis sawm zoo ces yog pog no.
@hollylee9769
2 жыл бұрын
Tus viv ncaus koj ces yog maum dev liam dab OS.
@yengyang9783
2 жыл бұрын
Thaum koj tseem xav ua poj laib ces tab txawm huab tais hais los koj yeej tsis mloog li os. Yuav tsum yog koj kawm tiav li koj lawm mas koj thiaj paub koj tus kheej xwb os.
@chumenglau8167
2 жыл бұрын
Rab twg los kv tau tsoob tas nrho es tsi paub tias yg rab twg li os
@bluewhisper5008
2 жыл бұрын
Koj ces....too late! Lol. This sounds like my ex sister in law. She was a big time poj laib. Now we're all grown and she's still jumping from guy to guy and job to job. No place of her own and she's already almost in her 40s. Lol.
@youwatchme3631
2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo
@meexiong9961
Жыл бұрын
Poj niam hmoob es muaj tej tus neeg tagob Cuab npaum li ntawd thiab...Cas tsis sawm zoo li o poj hmoob e
@meexiong9961
2 жыл бұрын
Nyob hauv lub qab ntuj nov es muaj tej tus poj niam coj tau phem thiab tshob cuab li cov niag txiv neej lem thiab lo
@hmongremark2686
2 жыл бұрын
Koj hais tias thaum koj ua poj laib cas tsis muaj ib tug twg cem koj kom koj tsim deev txhob mus ua poj laib. Tej lus no yog lus cuav (rhetoric) nkaus xwb. Nyob rau lub sij hawm ntawv mas tus twg tham tuaj koj sab no ces koj txaus siab thiab nyiam tus ntawv tshaj xwb. Tsis tas li los tus twg cheem los yog thuam koj, koj cia li khaws ntxub tus ntawv xwb vim koj txoj kev lom zem ntawv tseem muaj nqes tshaj dua li koj txoj sia lawm.
@chongwange934
Жыл бұрын
Tseem tab tom haib xwb txhob maj maj tso tseg ma yuam mi poj laib!
@seelor-logansgrandpa2938
Жыл бұрын
Vim yog koj yog niag maum dev tsis sawm zoo koj thiaj li muab tus txiv zoo saib tsis txim txiaj koj yuav tsum mus yuav tus txiv hais Ib los Ib ncaws taws xwb coj li koj cov txiv zoo nraug hais lu txim txiaj luag tsis yuav koj li o
@kevinher4010
2 жыл бұрын
Txoj kev npam los caum cuag koj lawm xwb, koj tau ua phem rau koj tus txiv lub kua muag los lawm ne. Nws twb tau npo koj thaum koj tau kev tws/txom nyem naw.
Maum dev laib laus cas tseem muaj plus los tham rau saum huab cua thiab lau!
@XeemHmoob
2 жыл бұрын
He took you in give you a roof . Claim your kid as his so people don't shame you but you didnt have a good heart . You got what you deserve hopefully you learned from it and never do it again.
@yeebntshachannel9254
Жыл бұрын
Koj CES tsuas need NWS Thaum koj tsis Tau chaw yug mi nyuam xwb, koj tsuas muab NWS los nti koj lub ntsej muag thaum koj yuav poob ntsej muag xwb thaum dhau txoj kev poob ntsej muag lawm CES koj yuav tig rov ua Dev Tom NWS, koj yeej tsis sawm zoo kiag, luag Tus zoo2 koj nyiam2 luag Twb tsis yuav koj tsuas muab koj ua lub chaw theej lawv cov oil nyeem2 tas CES luag mus luag tsis K k koj li sav😅😢
@leejmuam1
2 жыл бұрын
Ntuj aw..thaum koj tseem hluas hluas zoo zoo nkauj, txhua yam tseem zoo zoo,.twb tsis muaj tus yuav. Koj xav yuam kev Deb tshaj plaws,.thaum koj plab puas tag, nqaij xoob tag, rog thiab laus lawm tseem xav tias yuav tau tus zoo tshaj koj tus qub txiv 😂😂. You need your brain check.
@puaspaubkub1989
2 жыл бұрын
Yog niag nraug nrab tuag ces koj mag nyob nkuaj los mas vim koj qaug cawv tsav tsheb o
@pajcily11
2 жыл бұрын
Such a shame you influenced your friend to leave her kids at home and even when they're sick! Your neighbor should have called CPS on you guys. People can go out regardless of your marital status BUT at least have a freaken reliable babybsitter!
@autumnlossij-muas1490
2 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with being goods friends with a man. You don't necessarily have to or need to marry them.
@leechang1814
Жыл бұрын
Based on your happy drinking party that involved with the accident, you the driver should've been charged with DUI. Did you just make up a BS story so people can believe you?!!!
@pyang6075
2 жыл бұрын
Is she a poj laib or a meecha? Because my term of a poj laib is an independent lady that doesn’t need anyone to support her and responsible 😜🤣🤣🤣🤭
@jackieyunan4899
2 жыл бұрын
Koj yog noob poj nrauj nawb........
@teev37
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂🤡lig zog lm los kav liam mas?yom...cia kv mam li cem kj nawv?...Niag maum aub,ua li cas es kj yuav mus tsim txiaj ua luaj li?...hahaha...cem lm nawv?😂😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡🤡
@Mloogzoo
2 жыл бұрын
5 minute into the story es koj twb ua txhaum lawm. U are bad.
@athenavwj176
2 жыл бұрын
Omg women like y’all are disgusting. This story made me so mad lol
@payang6882
2 жыл бұрын
Es koj mus ua poj Laib txog tav no puas nrhiav tau ib tug txiv zoo nraug tshaj teem ma Ntshe koj twb tsis ntsib ib tug txiv tseem ceeb thiab twb tsis zoo npaum teem thiab ntshe koj tau dub mev lawm xwb xyov dub puas yuav koj thiab lawv tsuas so taw xwb es niaj hnub no koj puas tau txiv na
@frank7340
2 жыл бұрын
All men take heed. Treat a woman like a queen and she will treat you like a servant.
@yogi8897
2 жыл бұрын
Terrible mother. I feel bad for the children that were in your life.
@meilywanglau9356
2 жыл бұрын
Wow...showed how irresponsible both you and your friends were...! The kids needed better parents!!! You didn't deserve your husband! This should be a lessons for all of us to learn.
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