to all the people in the comments who are just saying "just stop" to people opening up about their self harm: its not that easy. please try to understand, there are lots of articles explaing why that isn't usually helpful. sending love to all
@jeffersondavis2634
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for understanding :)
@salahdeanclemens2226
3 жыл бұрын
I have sudical throughts and want to die because high school and those goddamn kids could never understand. 😢
@P0lKaD0tTV
3 жыл бұрын
@@salahdeanclemens2226 please don't do it ...I will talk to you
@salahdeanclemens2226
3 жыл бұрын
@@P0lKaD0tTV please no high school is too painful.
@P0lKaD0tTV
3 жыл бұрын
@@salahdeanclemens2226 I understand that but I promise you better days will come 💜
@reikomei4557
2 жыл бұрын
Self harm is like a warm hug. It swallows all my anger, frustration, sadness, insecurities&everything
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@esheetaaa1306
Жыл бұрын
True
@ibrahim5592
Жыл бұрын
Same.
@sweaty2238
Жыл бұрын
It’s like a warm hug from a toxic person
@OlliMonke
Жыл бұрын
Same here :/
@moiencoremoi6300
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t like myself so I don’t care if hurting myself. More; I feel like I need scars to be valid
@МионаКоролија
3 жыл бұрын
What do you dislike about yourself? Maybe I can help..
@tojumiladipo4698
3 жыл бұрын
Go outside
@farkle_69
3 жыл бұрын
same-
@xenthelegendaryotaku5136
3 жыл бұрын
I know what exactly it feels like when my scars starts to fade I get very angry
@Avengercharr
3 жыл бұрын
Yea
@shedraws6086
2 жыл бұрын
To me, cutting helps with relief and stress. I always got really exited after hurting myself because it was the only affective and helpful behavior for stress/anxiety. Eventually my family found out, and told my therapist. I was then forced to get rid of all of my sharps in my room (which was a good idea), and that got me even angrier which led to me finding other ways to harm myself. Moral of the story, if someone you know is struggling with this, don’t apply force or pressure to them, but try in step in their shoes! I am currently 1 week clean, so hopefully I can continue caring for myself. Remember to love your self, and look at the bright side:). Life can feel like a pile of shit, but you will eventually get through it all!
@zoezebralol
2 жыл бұрын
keep going!! i'm proud of you
@kxlluasunshine3401
2 жыл бұрын
Well I kinda got caught die self harming, I do. And my friends Didn’t know and they cut my arms for fun and they didn’t know it was going to be that bad so They took me to the nurse and they didn’t wanna get in trouble so the nurse ask who did it and I had to say it was me then she contact my teacher then the head teacher then I had to put alot of bandages and everything and my they were telling my parents I freaked out when they were going to tell my parents because the truth it I actually self harm For real even if this my friends did they will still find out anyways. And the way walking to class I went to the bathroom I had a panic attack and I waited for it to stop but I went back to class crying and my class never seen me cry they saw bandages all over my arm and everything. And my friends thought I snitched on them so told the teacher sorry for doing it to my arms and the teacher was like wait what? And now they know I lied to them. I’m glad that my friend say it there self tho, it would of been a bigger problem if they actually found out I do. And my mom was so mad and everything and I went home I look at my friends mark which was only used from a stick, now I don’t have to hide my self harm I cut more and more so much but it’s fine they will think it was the scar from my friends :) there was no different but this was deeper and everything so it’s fine tho rn I have those cuts all over my arm I did it from a cutter and no body will know it was me even my friends don’t know
@marle7
2 жыл бұрын
hey champ! how you doing? i’m curious
@ionamcallister7737
2 жыл бұрын
@@marle7 hi how are u doing
@oscaraiken5484
2 жыл бұрын
4 months in I hope your still doing well champ!
@rosey-wb8fg
3 жыл бұрын
Self harm was a way to slow everything down and put my pain into something I understand. There are definitely better coping mechanisms, I don’t recommend this one, but once you start it’s hard to stop.
@brencelionheart6837
2 жыл бұрын
That's interesting. I was talking to my daughter as she self harms when she gets anxious and angry. I told her to circle out figure of eight her finger in her hand and slow it down as she goes. Sometimes it is about slowing down. Hopefully it will help a bit. I told her she can talk to me any time about anything.
@ojasvidutta4065
Жыл бұрын
i know.. once you start you feel like that is the only way you can deal with your problems and no matter how hard you try...there's always this feeling inside you that makes you want to do it again and again.
@IzzyakaSpookyGurlQueenal-lh3dh
Жыл бұрын
I hit myself because I wanna punish myself for everything bad in my life..😞😢 I'm sorry if I am hitting myself behind my screen its because in also bullied because of me having autism and the way I look..
@ChebbiIlef
5 ай бұрын
I know you hurt yourself once and then you can't stop you start doing that every time you face a problem
@butwhy483
3 ай бұрын
Completely agree. I’ve been using this as a means of coping for more than 30 years. I’ve gotten really good at masking the scars and explaining away the injuries. I change them up to prevent suspicion. But years of therapy are not even a fraction of of the helpfulness that I’ve found from Nssi
@adrijasaha4151
2 жыл бұрын
Feeling the mental pain through physical pain is just heaven ✨ sometimes I think physical torture is better than the mental torture at least you can do something in action but the mental pain in silence is worst
@diiovr
2 жыл бұрын
that is true
@Fir3starter08
2 жыл бұрын
It's so true I feel like I need the pain because I can't let out my mental pain to anyone because of my parents 😔
@Void_Astrea
2 жыл бұрын
I think I've kind of romanticized it in a sense. I kind of stare at my whole arm up to my trapezius and think of it as bearing the weight of my mind on it. Oddly cathartic but obviously not an ideal thing to be doing.
@rafaelmoral3306
3 жыл бұрын
When i was 12 I always believed that i did it for attention, but when my parents saw it, i lied and said i had a habit of scratching myself with a pencil that left a mark, but I wanted them to see it but I didn’t want to say it, and then I realized that i did it as a cry for help, but I didn’t stop after my parents saw it, so it was a cry for help and how i cope with stress at school. I feel better now, i have friends that give me confidence and i talk more then usual so i feel less lonely then when i did sh
@espressoismylife2673
2 жыл бұрын
It's great to hear your doing better, but always remember your important and loved by people in the world your not alone my friend have a great day/night ❤️>3
@naturegreen5393
3 жыл бұрын
As 12 yrs old . I cut my arm sometimes. Not too much. I cut when I m angry, sad, hopeless and thinking about what I do in past the mistakes that I mad, getting Bullied. It's really something hah. And it's not easy to stop. It's hard... My dad pass away in 2019 . And now I wanna be with him . But cuz I have still some dreams to fill so not gonna die. But gonna cut.. Thanks for the help. But idk if it's gonna work. Edit: I'm sorry, everyone, for the grammar mistakes.I'm not going to correct them. I've become lazy over these past three years. (;
@wynn_04
3 жыл бұрын
Well.. Before i sae this i got yelled at because i did someting wrong.. I never change.. I just pinch myself to mame it bleed because.. I JUST WANT TO CHANGE 😭
@naturegreen5393
3 жыл бұрын
@@wynn_04 same T-T this never gonna change.... Or maybe who know. Someone will definitely rescue us in the future. Well idk when lol.
@MrGfe-zr1zs
3 жыл бұрын
It's fucking useless. Even though suicide is hard to do, it's happend.
@naturegreen5393
3 жыл бұрын
@@MrGfe-zr1zs true . And cutting is better Then sucide (ppl is gonna say shit if they sucide but when u cut nobody cares so yes. )~
@naturegreen5393
3 жыл бұрын
And i have one more to say . My own friend stab me with a sharp pencil in my arm . When i was 7/8 yrs old. It's doesn't hurt . But really who tf do this to someone like your own age. Or your own classmate. friends are someone who is gonna be your enemies .. just saying but in movies I see this. And it's definitely gonna happen for sure. 😀 . And now that person is my bff. Really like hell. Edit- We. Will. Forget. The. Past. But. Not. The . Pain. (Even though it's doesn't hurt). 😀
@christeena248
2 жыл бұрын
Just discovered the physical pain actually lessens the mental distress . More like both of the pain compete and then they neutralize eachother . I'm afraid if this is gonna be my next way to solace . but yeah it does make me feel good ! ❤️
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the first step and expressing your struggle. Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@justawildsofia2868
3 жыл бұрын
I am always scratching my back, arms, legs, face and neck. I don't understand why, but I do it when I'm anxious
@florence.exe.
3 жыл бұрын
remember you are not alone, and don't be afraid to reach out to somebody you can trust if you need to. it's easy to accidentally seriously injure yourself, and trust me, I know how addicting it is, but I suggest you look up healthier coping methods for negative emotions. stay strong
@AnimatingOwl
3 жыл бұрын
Same but i do it in shower at the last second cuz my skin is soft i Will go hard and very fast most on arms and stomach i almost started bleeding yesterday
@Србомбоница86
3 жыл бұрын
For me only legs and arms ,and I only scratch ,not cut
@willgamer0849
2 жыл бұрын
@@Србомбоница86 I only scratch my leg too. But I do it good so I can bleed. Though once I really cut. I was sad and I just applied too much force and I thought. "that was too much and looks deep" I even went to a health center thinking I might need stiching.
@gggallin8279
2 жыл бұрын
@@willgamer0849 also used to scratch myself on my arms and hands one time i scratched my face open out of frustration. But it got worse over the years when my anger and frustration gets to much i let it out on myself by punching myself or smashing my head against my table.. just did it today and nearly knocked myself out by smashing my head against my table and now my whole forehead is swollen. I dont know why i do this but sometimes it all becomes to much to handle for me so i start hurting myself
@kageta17
2 жыл бұрын
honestly, to me it was always a way to just punish myself, even for the smallest things. I know it wouldnt bring me anything as a solution to my problems, but it just became awfully addicting. Once I get an urge its the only thing that i can think about. It gives me a momental emotional relief, but then i start feeling shit about it. i try not to hurt myself that bad, but at moments like this im hardly being able to think straight. Either way, im trying to stop coping like this, so as long as im willing to do that i guess theres hope. whether youre here because you share the struggle or someone else you know does, or you just wanna get educated, try to give yourself some love and support, you deserve it at all times
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@ttrsgod9902
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@Jade-wv2wy
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone’s experience is different. I want to share what self-harm means to me because I feel like it could create a better understanding for those who have never dealt with something like this. Me, I have been dealing with self-harm for 3 years now. I often feel the urge to do so when I’m having an anxiety/panic attack. Usually, it makes me feel numb and is a way to get my suppressed emotions out. Since middle school, I have had periods where I was reliant on self-harm. It truly is an addiction.
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@m.a.r.i.a.9861
3 жыл бұрын
When I was young, I felt like everything around me was so easy, I could have fun all day. But now as an adult, everything is getting much, much more difficult and complicate. Every time I feel angry or something triggered me, I start to hurt myself by simply hit myself with something hard enough to calm me down and after that, I forget what I was frustrating about. It's getting worse and worse everyday. I won't be surprised If I'm going to die very pretty soon...
@PsychHub
3 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department
@daphne1065
2 жыл бұрын
I experience… exactly that :(
@Human1136
2 жыл бұрын
For me it's trauma from a bitch ass number >>>51
@kyapederson6255
Жыл бұрын
I know i'm a year late to this comment but are you still alive?
@yourlocalwindex9236
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t cut as a self harm form, i hit my thigh hard that it bruises, and it has gotten to the point that i don’t realize i am doing it, it really helps me release horrible anxiety. i’ve tried talking to people and it doesn’t really work for me
@PaulsMom93
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@nofrbls3640
2 жыл бұрын
Same thing for me about the talking thing
@blackqweenmars
2 жыл бұрын
I used to do that too except I would mostly hit my head
@roshini.s6008
Жыл бұрын
I scratch my arms till it is bruised 🤡 ...im hating growing up...
@Highlander9740
3 жыл бұрын
I was shamed, beaten, and bullied by everyone when I was little and I have never found peace. I've never been right. Doctors counselors church no one can help or willing to help. I hope other people find peace.
@МионаКоролија
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, you deserve better.
@gregorycarr7853
2 жыл бұрын
Hope it gets better for you. Try reading the Bible if it doesn't work you have only spent half and hour on it. Shame on the ppl that hurt you physically.
@Krugsie1979
2 жыл бұрын
@Highlander9740 Same happened to me , all that hurt & hatred & pain has also stayed with me throughout my life , i don't think the same way as most other people anymore - but i can definitely see what certain people are really like. My eyes are firmly open now. I did years of councelling too. I think all of us deserve inner peace , i took up a hobby which was metal detecting - that helped me a great deal with the depression etc , hobbies can definitely make things better , I'm sure you will find inner peace one day as i hope to do one day also. Never give up - your not alone at all there are lots of us out there.
@gregorycarr7853
2 жыл бұрын
@@Krugsie1979 Metal detecting I see ppl doing that on rare occ. usually at the beach. One local guy makes his living from it he finds ppl's lost wedding rings etc.
@xoxofl0ppa_cut1e53
2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@altheadaoang2124
4 жыл бұрын
i have nssi. ever since i was in grade 5, (im now in 1st yr college) i have been cutting my wrists ever since. its how i let all my negative emotions out.
@cptainfig
4 жыл бұрын
remember you are not alone, and don't be afraid to reach out to somebody you can trust if you need to. it's easy to accidentally seriously injure yourself, and trust me, I know how addicting it is, but I suggest you look up healthier coping methods for negative emotions. stay strong
@nazi1175
3 жыл бұрын
Sucide
@bluked9600
3 жыл бұрын
@@nazi1175 what-
@dariusmarius2196
3 жыл бұрын
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@COVID-19nBubonicPlague
3 жыл бұрын
I started self harm as minor scratches when I was like 7 I never understood why I liked it and i still do it slightly worse now its for the blood and pain when i do it
@kimberlys8422
Жыл бұрын
At 17, in a rage induced panic, I cut myself with so much force my arm slit open and it was quite the anatomy lesson. It's a feeling of wanting to jump out of your skin and using that as a way to punish yourself.
@jpedfonseca
3 жыл бұрын
In the last 30 days I cuted myself 2 times. I did it firstly to punish myself, but also to relieft the stress. I allways feel better after cuting me.
@tweedyparam8951
3 жыл бұрын
I don't think you should do it again The more you do it the more you get addicted to it and that becomes harder to stop plz don't continue 💚
@dings2962
3 жыл бұрын
Try opening up to someone you can trust and dont be afraid of asking for help you are never alone
@lavenderbloom9943
3 жыл бұрын
Me too.... I have cut alot more...
@dariusmarius2196
3 жыл бұрын
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@florence.exe.
3 жыл бұрын
remember you are not alone, and don't be afraid to reach out to somebody you can trust if you need to. it's easy to accidentally seriously injure yourself, and trust me, I know how addicting it is, but I suggest you look up healthier coping methods for negative emotions. stay strong
@chambergoosepaste9164
2 жыл бұрын
To those who listen, thank you for trying to understand and treating "ill" people as human. To those who are scared of us psychos... you're next :)
@jessewru6425
2 жыл бұрын
Lol that last part
@jessewru6425
2 жыл бұрын
😢.....🥲
@kolfoster6926
2 жыл бұрын
Right??? Lmao I feel like being scared of is better then patronizing
@aditiranjan8248
2 жыл бұрын
damn truee
@Fir3starter08
2 жыл бұрын
So true 👍
@swapnade4347
2 жыл бұрын
Just started self harm, feels better than the mental torture I experience :)
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
We appreciate you taking the first step of expressing your pain. Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. You are not alone. Help is available.
@mayisonline6115
3 жыл бұрын
I'm filled with regrets. I want to cut, but my brother made me promise i wouldn't attempt any of those things. I feel so empty. I need to be punished. I want to go to the past to take back everything I said and did. But I can't. No matter what, I won't be able to go back. That's why I need to be punished. I need to feel the pain I brong along others. I'm disgusting, worthless and useless. This pain won't go away. I'm filled with anxiety and nervousness.
@dannynewton8281
2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same. I don't like the things I've said/done in my past. I feel like I need to be punished for the bad things that I've done. I condemn myself a lot, and I feel like I can never move forward.
@supertuna6894
2 жыл бұрын
Same here. I'm really disgusting :(
@mayisonline6115
2 жыл бұрын
@@supertuna6894 But in the bright side, you do feel bad right? I guess that is what matters, that you realize your mistakes and you want to change, keep your head up :)
@supertuna6894
2 жыл бұрын
@@mayisonline6115 but i am not able to change. I have tried 10000 of time but i can't. I've been trying for yrs. If today i decided to change then tmrw i will do that (bad thing ) again and then cry , do sh and blame myself and then promise myself that I'll never do the bad thing again. But after some days or weeks i do it again. I'm soo sick fo this cycle that sometimes i just want to end everything . I'm soo sick of making promise to not do it ever again- hoping that I'll keep my promise - again doing the bad thing (breaking the promise) - hurting myself - promising not to do it ever again - again doing it And the thing i do is really disgusting :( i hate myself for it. And it's the main reason for my slef harm
@mayisonline6115
2 жыл бұрын
@@supertuna6894 I'm so sorry to hear that, if you need someone to talk to, I'm here.
@julia._.1321
2 жыл бұрын
TW! When my scars on my wrist fad..I get the urge to do it again because I feel invalid. I get triggered just by looking at my own wrist. And whenever I mess up I get the urge to cut. I remember once when I lost the scissors I used to hurt myself and I had a full on breakdown. It’s an addiction and it’s scary, thoughts I don’t want just seem to pop up. I relapsed 3 days ago and it’s so hard for me. Sorry for the vent.
@aditiranjan8248
2 жыл бұрын
omgg, i can totally get you, though i have other reasons but the urge to cut is the same.
@zarrowthehorse
2 жыл бұрын
Why not do it on your leg? I don't recommend doing it at all but if seeing them triggers you this may help
@aditiranjan8248
2 жыл бұрын
@@zarrowthehorse honeslty the feel own wrists is quite different actually, on thighs it you forget about it in sometime no matter how deep or wide it is but even a paper cut on fingers is more satisfying
@svenskamakt
2 жыл бұрын
I am actually happy for those who get treated, loved and get to see a therapist. I have been blamed for my anxiety, sadness, and all my problems in life. My mom was really sick when I was young and i was self harming cause I was told that it was my fault that she nearly died, then my girlfriend died during a surgery on her brain, and I was so upset that only cuts helped me get through all that. This habit kinda gets back from time to time, idk why tho
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@Angel_inaa
2 жыл бұрын
I always used to cut when stressed. I did it for 4 years and have now been 7 years clean. Still to this day when ever I am stressed I can’t help but visualize memories of cutting. I won’t do it but have the strongest urge to do it.. it never goes away. I’ve been told it’s similar to the feelings people who have addiction go through.. stopping is just the beginning of the battle
@maximinusgator6646
Жыл бұрын
We love you man man
@aryanmahto2016
3 жыл бұрын
i feel euphoric when i cut myself. it's like a feeling of all stress and negativity getting out of me. it is satisfying.
@horseconfused
2 жыл бұрын
12 years old here, idk what else to do, I’m stuck in an abusive household, I’m depressed, I hate myself, not body wise, but how I act, whenever im having fun I let out a side of me that I don’t show at all, and I hate myself afterwards for it, I feel that no matter how hard I try, I can never make people happy, im just annoying to them, even my brother, I feel terrible if I disappoint him or anyone else in any way I have anxiety, social anxiety and Some form of adhd People always see me as this happy-go-lucky girl, shy, sweet, and always smiling I smile my way up to my room, close my door, then immediately have a mental breakdown every night. I hate I was born into this situation, I want to end it all, but what stops me is my mother, and other family, it would break them if I ever did that, and I have future goals, I always try to remember how my dream is to move to Japan, and I don’t want to miss the chance, so I just resort to cutting myself, it’s a way to cope with it all, I like the pain, and I feel better afterwards, I just sleep it off, treat the wound, then put on my happy face all over again, why? Why? Why? W h y?
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying something, that's the first step to getting help. Please talk to a trusted adult that can help you and give support. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. You are not alone!
@auntiimandii
Жыл бұрын
Talk to your teachers they will help
@WolvenDogma
2 жыл бұрын
I've gotten to the point where it just feels better than everything else, its like the only coping mechanism I have left
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. We want you to know that you’re not alone in how you feel. Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department
@trajackson22
5 ай бұрын
I went for nearly a year without it and then started slapping and punching myself and other things. I punched my door so hard I gave myself permanent arthritis in my pinky because I actually broke it and didn’t go to the doctor for over a year. I’ve now turned to grabbing my door and swinging it as hard as I can into my head. Ive been doing it for weeks. I’m going to do my best to stop. It’s just difficult when those really intense anxiety and panic filled moments take over and it feels like you have no escape. Thanks for sharing your stories. I’m so glad to not be alone in this.
@sumchagolovedive11
3 жыл бұрын
Im always scratching , hitting and cutting myself, it feels like a relief and an addiction, for me i love it, im not advicating that you do this
@pierrel7068
3 жыл бұрын
I now stopped to hurt myself 4 days ago and I'm working with mu psychologist. I'm trying to get better ( I'm doing a depression)
@mikolx0
3 жыл бұрын
im proud of you, you can do it!❤
@dariusmarius2196
3 жыл бұрын
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@zaynashariff5559
3 жыл бұрын
I’m really proud of you
@МионаКоролија
3 жыл бұрын
I'm very proud and happy to hear that ❤❤
@Mazecraze3
3 жыл бұрын
I know I might not be of much help but I'll try whatever I can to stop my friend from falling prey to repeatedly hurting herself. I'll try my best to always be there for her.
@RainRemnant
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! As someone facing this alone believe me your support is much valued, even if they are in a state where you don't feel that appreciation just knowing someone is there can be a big difference. Just don't cross your own limits of what you can handle, sometimes it's ok to say "I love you but I'm not capable of helping you right now but know that I wouldn't leave your side". That's not selfish. Wish you all the best
@almirasoriano1579
2 жыл бұрын
Whenever I had bruises I love touching it again and again. I FEEL MORE ALIVE.
@GreyTheLynx101
10 ай бұрын
I bite my arms and hands when I’m frustrated, angry, stressed or overwhelmed. It only helps temporarily calm me down. I feel like I’m addicted to the feeling of it and it’s just gotten worse and I feel the need to bite more frequently.
@Teu-land
9 ай бұрын
it'll help u, for some time, but it's not good at all, I'm already suffering, and i really suggest you not to do it, you'll develop a habit, and then you'll only find this way to release you negative thoughts or stress from your mind please try not to
@fuzzymushroom4579
2 жыл бұрын
I wish everyone would treat it like an actual addiction though. its not as easy to stop as people think it is.
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the first step and expressing your struggle. We want you to know you are not alone in how you feel. We hope you will check out the links to the resources in the description box for where to learn more and where to get treatment and support.
@S.C1970
2 жыл бұрын
Just cut for the first time. It felt amazing. People will never understand unless they’re in your shoes I guess. I hope I’ll get better over time.
@yinyang_iii
2 жыл бұрын
What does it feel like?
@ameliamccullah7261
2 жыл бұрын
@@yinyang_iii therapeutic. makes you happy and stops the voices in your head. it's a coping mechanism.
@SonderMoth09
Жыл бұрын
Hey. I know you posted this a while ago but I wanted to check up on you..
@Nobody-yx8og
Жыл бұрын
@@bepositive5731 i have never cried for my injuries but the pain pursues for a week as you touch it
@patricijafijan6043
3 жыл бұрын
I have never thought of cutting myself or self harm in any way until literally at this very moment. I don't know what to do... I'm currently at home alone and I'm scared that I will do something I shouldn't.... I've tried to workout a little bit to stop thinking about it, but I felt too stressed and overwhelmed(?), I've barely finished it 😐
@luciousbutdumber.5274
3 жыл бұрын
Please tell me you haven't actually done it in the end! Please stay safe and remember that you're not alone in this!!
@vilmakaraliene8042
3 жыл бұрын
i have been popping pimples on my face for a good 4 years, but i just found out, that this is self-harming too, since the pain I am going for helps me to concentrate and calm my emotions. Its rlly complicated, because even if my face is clean, I still spend at least 20 minutes squeezing and scratcing (dk if i speeled it right) my face, leaning towards the miror. This leaves a lot of bruises, but it just looks like i have been innocently getting rid of pimples... I do this every time I am feeling overwhelmed, as well as scratch my arms and scalp (this, differently than first one, do not break blood, but helps to cope with feels as well). I know its not good, but ... It just helps me... so if there's anyone, who is going through this: you are not alone.
@boredreindeer5602
11 ай бұрын
I’ve honestly have had urges to bite myself, but I haven’t been acting on them. I do deal with lots of stress in my life but I know that I have people to support me. I wish you all lots of warm hugs and rest
@ellu5700
2 жыл бұрын
i've been clean from cutting for about 2 months🙂
@m.oshadow2350
3 жыл бұрын
i stopped cutting when i was 17 , and started when i was 12 , it was really hard to stop , bc i was doing it when i felt depressed , it was a punishment for me , i did feel much better after doing it , also it prevented me from doing something stupid , but now I'm free from it .
@PsychHub
3 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@HibaKhan-re6bm
3 жыл бұрын
I only self harm when i feel guilty but like i deserve it when i lash out on my family i feel like i should be punished too. However i lost my only blade when i started cutting again im kind of glad but i everday i feel like cutting again and i dont know what to do. I feel like im exaggerating it like so much of people have it worse than me and my reasons arent even valid.
@Abcde-ww3hs
2 жыл бұрын
@@HibaKhan-re6bm this. I have two friends that are way worse than me and actually sought out help but I feel like I have to get worse to get help
@danaareef5818
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this ❤️
@homeroortiz3101
3 жыл бұрын
well I have that old but i just find it addicting and i forget about everything and makes me feel better
@caitlinbyrne
2 жыл бұрын
For some reason, i self harm whenever i feel like it. there’s no particular reason, i just do it because i get an urge to. sometimes i do it to relieve the stress of school, etc. but i’ve been doing it for so long that it actually makes me happy when i see the scars afterward & now it’s a serious addiction
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@persiancandy9050
3 жыл бұрын
I used to cut but I can't recall that I did it to release tension. I think I was mainly addicted to endorphins.
@jordanrayne4779
2 жыл бұрын
TW i think When my mom caught me i hurt myself again and she saw after so she grabbed my hand, yanked my arm out and took pictures of the wounds, she proceeded to send those pictures to our family members to tell them how "crazy" i was acting. That was nice of her
@aditiranjan8248
2 жыл бұрын
shitt man, this would probably have made your mental state worsen..
@jordanrayne4779
2 жыл бұрын
@@aditiranjan8248 Yep it definitely made things worse
@viviandeblois255
2 жыл бұрын
self harm has always been a struggle and when my best friend found out she did nothing, she never talked to me about it and would just laugh. i get it it might be unconfortable but idk
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@figthegiant9324
2 жыл бұрын
Last week, I cut myself for the first time. My parents had been arguing (no yelling or breaking things or hitting each other but I was still upset) and eventually one made the other cry and they left the house. I had been doing homework in my room at that time and I couldn’t focus at all on my work no matter how hard I tried. Eventually I gave up and just sat there until I looked at the porcupine quill I found one holiday and kept on my desk. Im not even sure why I cut myself with it. I just looked at it and thought “People who self-harm say it helps them release their feelings, maybe it’ll help me” and here we are. I dont think it’ll even leave a scar and I dont see myself doing it again, but I cant stop thinking “why did I do that? Did it even help” for some reason those questions worry me Edit: Two days ago I did it again. My dad had given me a lecture on how I read too much and Im being “antisocial” but like fuck that if I wanna read I will read bc a book is like a friend to me and its not like I dont have friends so I dont see what his problem is But anyways I spent the whole day studying in my room mulling this over and I got like this sad-mad feeling and then I looked at the quill and thought “why the fuck not?”
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the first step and expressing your struggle. Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@Abcde-ww3hs
2 жыл бұрын
It’s a focus thing for me too. I feel like I can’t think straight until I do it. Once I do clarity comes. Idk
@vision3213
2 жыл бұрын
Been wanting to for while, my brother past a couple months ago from overdose and I am dealing with survivors guilt where I felt like it should’ve been me and I blame myself for not saving him, hopeless is basically all I feel in life. I’m just so sad
@ausomeaspie
Жыл бұрын
I self harm when I get angry, It is nothing to do with wanting to die, It is the rage.
@MC_Nands
Жыл бұрын
It's been 2 years since I started self harm. It is true at some point that when you started it, it's kind of addicting. I both want to feel emotional and physical pain in the stressful events in my life. There's a lot of people around you but no one to trust. Even if there are times when I'm well, there's this sudden urge to do it. I have scars in my shoulders, wrist, and legs. I'll get jduged but they don't know the reason why I'm doing this.
@theyadorek
2 жыл бұрын
My parents use to take out they’re anger out on me, i grew up like they’re punching bag, they would drag me, beat me etc. Any time I use to feel overwhelmed or like I messed up somewhere in my life i would impulsively beat myself up, pull my hair all of that. Now that i’ve moved out and found more of a piece of mind i’ve realized it was never my fault and I never deserved to be treated that way, i’ve gained love and compassion for myself, Im still healing and i can feel the progress but of course sometimes it gets to me and i feel like i’m reliving it all over again. please don’t have children if your not healed or at least ready to care for them, 19 years later and I walked out of that home completely broken. Kids never forget the painful words you say to them 💔Stay strong my loves and if you need someone to talk to please DM me
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the first step and expressing your struggle. We want you to know you are not alone in how you feel. We hope you will check out the links to the resources in the description box for where to learn more and where to get treatment and support.
@xprodigy1x674
3 жыл бұрын
Just this once i said.
@59DrPandas
Жыл бұрын
Stop while you can. You never know when your episode could be the last. Cut your losses while you can. Stop cutting yourselves and remember that some people out there have it worst than you. ♥️ let’s just try our best at being humans and understanding each other
@59DrPandas
Жыл бұрын
@chillwithlil-oj8zr go feed your spider bozo
@59DrPandas
11 ай бұрын
@@Kitty44558 sh kitty you’re prob not even a day past 12
@Teu-land
9 ай бұрын
i can clearly see you are really understanding
@11crunmch33
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew if I was self harming. Sometimes I will hit myself or pull my hair, or smack my head on different places. I was and still am close to cutting myself. I can’t tell if I am self harming, having rage attacks, or if I’m attention seeking and not actually harming myself.
@moksha.m
Жыл бұрын
Nobody talks about the feeling of invalidation when you see how our peoples cuts were worse than yours, or when it healed, orr the feeling you didnt cut enough or deep enough. Its so tiring.
@PsychHub
Жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@catflowr
2 жыл бұрын
I’m finally getting to quit sh, it’s easier now because I have a better self esteem and stuff, but sometimes I just do it naturally so it’s kind of hard. I hope I stop completely someday. I know it’s gonna get worse when school starts, but I’ll try my best.
@fruity_loopzz
2 жыл бұрын
POV: You’re watching your scars fade, watching people with a worse situation than you, you watch people who are depressed so you can be sad, you don’t think your mentally unstable enough for a therapist anymore, you cut because you want to to feel worthy of the support your getting. I dont know if this healthy (it definitely isn’t) but I don’t want to sound like those girls who glamorize mental issues.
@kerrid5717
2 жыл бұрын
The suicide hotline left me on hold lmaooo
@speakit5250
2 жыл бұрын
Some people who doesn't understand people with nssi tells that they only do it for attention, telling us to stop is so easy to say but so hard to do because this is our coping mechanism in life.
@Hoshi_TheHusky
11 ай бұрын
I'm only 13, and I'm always been stressed at school, and I've had this issue where I bite my wrist or lower arm. The latest time I've done it, was yesterday. I didn't know that it was considered self harm :( I just did it because it was something to chew on and relieve stress, sort of
@Teu-land
9 ай бұрын
it is self harm i suggest you not to repeat it, coz it'll get worse in coming years, i too got it into when i was 14, i just tear my skin with blade and I'm suffering a lot now coz i can't think of any way to make my stress and negative thoughts go but it's really worst please, i don't want you to be like me
@Hoshi_TheHusky
9 ай бұрын
@@Teu-land Don't worry. I've been finding other ways to calm down
@Bubblegum-xm5cg
2 жыл бұрын
A friendly reminder that cutting is not the only form of self harm! Self harm can be burning, scratching (like me), hitting yourself or objects/walls, and so much more. Self harm is self harm, regardless of form or motive (cause it's not just depression).
@katherinelawson90
3 жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and still cut my thighs and legs. I want to stop. It's been years. I really don't know how to get that feeling out of my chest when I'm panicking except for hurting myself
@willgamer0849
2 жыл бұрын
I just cut my self the other day. I wasn't sad I just wanted to see blood. I remember as a teenager banging my head against a wall and punching it for being too skinny. I Still look like a skeleton but I don't beat my head anymore.
@DaytonRobinson
6 ай бұрын
Self harm helps me accept my failures and remember them
@lisa-gx3zg
2 жыл бұрын
i recently started self-harming (on my thighs), I’ve become so insecure and I hate myself so much I couldn’t help but ruin myself more ig. It hurt a lot bc I’m sensitive but I felt relieved and like I deserved it. I sometimes think I’m an actual pretty girl and like someone could actually like me but I sh to punish myself for thinking that way, my mind feels like it isn’t even mine sometimes, but yeah. Feels kinda nice to vent even though lots of people might see this and think badly of me.
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Please reach out for support, there is help out there and people who care about you! Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@adamdoherty4286
2 жыл бұрын
No matter what, do not cut your inner thighs as it can be seriously be dangerous, best of luck with mental health ❤
@Shasha-bs1no
11 ай бұрын
Honestly I started self-harming because I was falling into depression and poverty of friendship,it made me feel better and released tension from my mind,making me feel relieved from everything happening outside,it was hard to get away from it and I still find myself cutting my arm and inner thigh,but I’ve gotten better through positivity in my life.people care for you and it is hard to avoid the thing that’s compelling but there’s help everywhere you just need to ask,we are here to support each other not tear one another apart ❤
@feraltrashgoose
2 жыл бұрын
I started as a way to prove to myself that I was worthy of feeling like I wanted to die and my feelings were real. Now it's an addiction so I guess in the end I got what I wanted.
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@kylemoder7550
10 ай бұрын
Ive been clean for almost 2 years now and I hate it. I dont think a day goes by that I don't miss cutting myself. I always heard that it gets better or easier but stopping just made me feel worse.
@sjvermazen
2 жыл бұрын
Good video. A lot of content on NSSI has incorrect information, namely confusing self-destructive behaviors with NSSI, but this one defined it correctly.
@conceptofeverything8793
4 ай бұрын
Self diagnosed with ADHD. I can bite myself, hurt myself and bump my head or burn on purpose. It gives me a sense of control and lets me expand the inattentivness. Masochism is a coping mechanism I developed during early teens, probably a stimming pattern to stay somewhat focused on lectures that were more exhausting and thus, harming to my mental. I do not take enjoyment out of that nonetheless. Its just something that raised my adrenaline rather than dopamine. Diagnose urself people
@sweetvanillagf
2 жыл бұрын
Back when I was being abused I’d cut sometimes, not too much. Now even after I’m away from everything I do it everyday still. It’s almost like a routine
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the first step and expressing your struggle. Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@Vidya8902
Жыл бұрын
It feels so good.. whenever I'm depressed frustrated i just cut my body it feels intentionally good...and i do fee pain but it's nothing..🥀
@Teu-land
9 ай бұрын
going through the same since 14
@alliegantt2414
4 жыл бұрын
wow i didn’t know this! one more thing to add to my list 😅😔
@user-gq6nq7fi9w
26 күн бұрын
That shit feels like a breath of fresh air for like a second. Like it genuinely feels like a stone is lifted off your back, but just for 1 second
@white3405
3 жыл бұрын
i used to make a little cut on my arm everytime i made a mistake or someomeone, like my parents , telled me that i did one ...
@pushpitasaha783
2 жыл бұрын
Its very difficult to step out when you already start to feel relaxed after harming your self... All the pain, anger, rage, suffering flows along the flowing blood.
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the first step and expressing your struggle. We want you to know you are not alone in how you feel. Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@we5436
2 жыл бұрын
@@PsychHub copy - paste ...
@we5436
2 жыл бұрын
Ya pushpita you are right . But how can i flow my blood . Cose i can not cut deep enough cose my perent spot it that i am selfharming .but I also want to flow my blood .😥
@DaytonRobinson
6 ай бұрын
The people who say there doing it for attention are the absolute worst
@kulineranjajanyuk
5 ай бұрын
yeah i mean i do that when i'm alone, if we wanted attention we'll do that in crowded place. The one who said we wanted attention is not feeling mental-issue like we did.. they would not understand
@Jay_MixedMedium
3 ай бұрын
I get what you’re saying, but some people do it for attention as a cry for help. Like, they don’t have the words, but they hope someone will notice and help them.
@icebear4849
2 жыл бұрын
Cutting has always seemed to help me when I’m upset and I literally cannot handle all the emotions at once I just cut and it makes those emotions go away and stuff.
@ziiovo3933
3 жыл бұрын
hehh, taking it out on yourself is temporary relief. i'd rather take it out on myself than others/breaking objects
@PsychHub
3 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@ziiovo3933
3 жыл бұрын
@@PsychHub thank you buddy. i'm glad it's in the past
@Mysterious_Ace
Жыл бұрын
Nssi is a punishment for how I’m feeling and or what I think I’ve done. I’ve believed I deserve it since age 12. I’m trying to get better now, 10 yrs later. There is hope.
@amymcfarlanex2982
3 жыл бұрын
I used to do it for a relief, but now I don’t get that relief so I don’t even know why I do it. But I just do.
@Biscuit-Loves-All
Жыл бұрын
I sometimes think i keep making too many mistakes and im irresponsible, getting as bad as just accidentally biting your tongue leads to an episode of hitting my face but no broken bones though. I just think “Why am I alive” but this was very helpful.
@user-yn5jh2rl9r
2 жыл бұрын
I did this a lot in middle school. Never wanted to seriously harm myself and honestly didn’t really like the pain. Never figured out why I would do it. I think it has something to dye with the household I’m in. I was young and felt that my sexuality made me a bad person. (Southern Baptist household) I will be out of here soon and that gives me hope. About 5 months clean today.
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying something, that's the first step to getting help. Please talk to a trusted adult that can help you and give support. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. You are not alone!
@yuriyves6919
Жыл бұрын
as a 12 year old, cutting helps me to absorb every single emotion. i don't understand why i have to stop, i keep my scars as if there like my precious things that i can't leave behind.
@PsychHub
Жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Please talk to a trusted adult that can help you and give support. For 24/7 support, call or text 988 or go to your nearest emergency department. You are not alone!
@Chloe_Ana
3 жыл бұрын
I cu✝️ (I used ’✝️’as it a sensitive topic) on my legs and I’m scared because someone ratted out my friend for their sh and the only people who know about theirs knows about mine and I’m scared Edit: I’m 3 days clean
@COVID-19nBubonicPlague
3 жыл бұрын
Are you still clean?
@Chloe_Ana
3 жыл бұрын
@@COVID-19nBubonicPlague since then I am only 2 weeks now
@Chloe_Ana
3 жыл бұрын
@@CorvinzBonez if I’m being honest you just helped me I have been feeling terrible lately and have wanted to do it again so thank you 😊
@Chloe_Ana
3 жыл бұрын
@@CorvinzBonez you are one of the sweetest person ever omg thanks for being so kind kept up the kind gestures
@cottentwt2226
Жыл бұрын
The first time I picked up those scissors. I didn't want to let go
@aster9809
3 жыл бұрын
i hate how my mom acts abt this. one time she saw my cuts and thought it was sexual because I wore chokers and she thinks that's because I engage in BDSM and like cutting myself and think it's hot. i had to explain to her that chokers are very common among alt/alternative people and had nothing to do with that but anyways she took my chokers away even though they cause no harm to me
@RainRemnant
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe try inform her more with videos like these. It's hard for others to understand, don't give up because eventually we will need our family
@Randorambo66449
2 жыл бұрын
Saying "just stop" doesn't help Self-harm becomes an addiction sometimes I still struggle and relapse to this day after beginning at 8 due to some mental illnesses and I have no real reason now but still relapse because of minor inconveniences because it's so familiar that I don't know how to use any other coping mechanism sometimes.....I don't want to die, I like being alive. But because it's a comfort for my brain now, I relapse a lit.....it's gotten easier to hold times of not hurting myself and I'm still learning new ways to cope that aren't dangerous But "just stop" is not always a solution for people
@PsychHub
Жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@gavinpena1386
2 жыл бұрын
I myself used to struggle with this my sophomore year of high school not cutting but just punching shit like walls eventually it got so bad that i ended up getting a boxers fracture in my right hand and after that i knew that i had to stop. It was that easy for me but i decided to come back to this video after learning about my current girlfriends struggles with self harm and just hoping to maybe find a way that i can help or just something that i can do rather than getting upset or just ignoring it as if it isn’t a problem. I know ultimately it’s not my decision it’s hers and I can’t change that but if there’s anything that i can do to help her please just let me know.
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the first step and expressing your struggle. Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department
@Rana-vi8xl
Жыл бұрын
Hello, can I ask you? if any one from your friends hurts herself without reason and she skipped it.. Can you tell me how?
@xenthelegendaryotaku5136
3 жыл бұрын
Self cutting and burning just feels so good and I just can't stop
@PsychHub
3 жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@HibaKhan-re6bm
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr i always want to cur myself my sister saw all my scars on my thighs and she made fun of me and bullying me about all the “disgusting scars” :/ had to pretend I scratched myself by accident she didnt care 😐
@xenthelegendaryotaku5136
3 жыл бұрын
My mother taunts me for these after she found out
@ashgraham4630
2 жыл бұрын
I am 15 and I harm myself in many ways. I have had a tough life. I was bullied and put down a lot but others and myself. At the age of seven I was raped. It almost happened again at 13 and did happen again when I turned 15. The first and second times where by family friends. The last time was by my dad. Hurting myself is my only way out and I am so scared that my family will find out because my Dad says that the only people who do self harm are just looking for attention. I sorry for opening up so much but it's nice to tell people what's going on. And don't worry I'm fine, and I don't need any help.
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying something, that's the first step to getting help. Please talk to a trusted adult that can help you and give support. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. You are not alone!
@RainRemnant
2 жыл бұрын
@@PsychHub you should monitor the comments better, some stuff people say are real triggering when they go in details about how many inches they cut with what tool. But the worst was a bully telling others to go cut themselves and about how their blood would run like chocolate. Sick, this should be a safe place for people like us. Reported them but KZitem never cares, it won't be removed.
@k3kboi665
2 жыл бұрын
When i feel the pain and see the destruction i caused i feel like i am actualy connected to my body, not outside of it.
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. We want you to know that you’re not alone in how you feel. Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. You are not alone. Help is available.
@toben3655
2 жыл бұрын
What's your form of sh? Remember, your all valid and please stay safe. Don't do anything too bad and take care of your wounds. Have a good day.
@somerandompersonontheinter7916
2 жыл бұрын
i snap hair tie against my wrist I just started recently doing it I've been thinking about self harm for a couple of years but I I never really had the guts The first time I had done it Before I did it I just looked in a mirror and looked at all of my insecurities I think that's what's triggered it :/
@mauriced3277
2 жыл бұрын
When i hit myself I don't have to think. It's like I'm hitting the thoughts and when I'm done I'm not thinking of anything, just crying a bit. It's really releasing.
@PsychHub
2 жыл бұрын
Please reach out for support, there is help out there and people who care about you! Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department.
@neah4742
Жыл бұрын
Watching this because this afternoon, when I was so disappointed with myself, i tried hitting my arm many many times. I felt better but after realizing that i actually felt better, i became scared. What shall I do?
@PsychHub
Жыл бұрын
Emotions can be painful, and self-harm may feel like the only way to cope with them. But there are other ways to deal with painful emotions. Help is available. For 24/7 support, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or text TALK to 741741. If you or someone else is in danger, please call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department
@juliamoore1790
3 жыл бұрын
I just hit my head really hard
@acef4iry986
3 жыл бұрын
head banging is a type of self harm, hope youre ok ~ jada
@plantxarmybtsgrowth5776
Жыл бұрын
That was a really really nice video the way your channel handles this topic is fantastic
@youssef8368
3 жыл бұрын
I feel so uncomfortable.
@AmeliaWalth
Жыл бұрын
Today I got overwhelmed and I started hitting myself and my mom kept holding me back.❤ my mom is the best for making sure I don’t hit or punch myself. Happy Mother’s Day
@saibopcur6088
3 жыл бұрын
I cut myself basically every night and I’m not sure why. I like my life and want to keep living it, although I wanna die or at least get really hurt at like 18. The details are basically I wanna die in a pool of my own blood with cuts all across my body, knifes through my hands and a missing eye I gouged out myself. I frequently get anxious because I don’t wanna die old. I just wanna die in a gory, gruesome matter below the age of 35. I guess I cut myself because I enjoy it when I see blood running down my arm/leg, or just seeing my own blood and thinking “I did that to myself” and feeling excitement or something like that. I don’t really understand it, it may be a form of masochism but I’m not sure. Can someone help me if this is bad? Because I don’t know. I feel perfectly fine, I’m healthy, I’m not depressed or anything like that it’s just that I find it fun or something to cut
@thefavouritesherriff8755
2 жыл бұрын
In year 5, I hated myself because I had these facial tics which were a habit, and I was embarrassed and ashamed of it. It made me cry, it made me angry and depressed because I just couldn't stop (I still can't) So one time when the tics got bad I smacking my face and slapping it, I would basically beat myself up almost, this happened more then twice. One time when i had the usual fight with my parents I was upset and angry. So I got the kitchen scissors and started cutting my knee and grazing it, and to make the pain worse I had put perfume on it. A couple minutes ago I had another bad fight and my dad yelled at me, in my room I was crying and I had the idea of cutting again, I just did it a little to my wrist. The stinking sort of takes away my sadness kinda.
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