Fun fact: when you get married and say those vows, you quite literally stop being your own person. It's a union. The two of you are now one and the same. Obviously it's symbolic, but the point is you don't live for just you anymore. You made a vow to your partner to be for them and only them for the rest of your life and vice versa. I swear these people only get married to look good for their families. They don't actually give a flying phuk about anyone else, not even their partner
@karinefonte516
21 күн бұрын
To most women it's even less than that: they just want to be a princess for a day, with the dress, the jewelry, the banquet, the dances, the ballroom, all eyes on her, a prince by her side (totally faceless and mute in her fantasies, he's a prop after all). They will do anything and spend any amount to live this moment. I always hated such weddings.
@Masenken
21 күн бұрын
@@karinefonte516 I mean, it's cool if they remember that they're only half of the equation and that the groom is an equal partner in this giant beauty pageant, but you're completely correct. I can't understand for the life of me the obsession with this literal fantasy with no basis in reality. It makes the husband just another tool in their crusade to be a fake Beech for a day. It's disgusting
@ErnestReddit
21 күн бұрын
Marriage is definitely a deep commitment, and those vows carry a lot of weight. its all about mutual respect and understanding everyone's experience is different, but its always important to remember why those vows were made in the first place
@Masenken
21 күн бұрын
@@ErnestReddit think those pastors officiating the ceremony really need to drive that part home. Like annoyingly and keep pointing at statistics to nail it down like an accusation. Over 50% divorce rate and over 70% women initiating the divorce very viscerally means that little miss princess is very likely to be the next. So she better. Fuqqin. Mean it. When she says those vows.
@nodiff9772
16 күн бұрын
Marriage is a dumb, old religious practice that has no real weight in the modern world because the fear of breaking vows and going to hell means nothing to people now. It is quite literally just a party with tax benefits afterwards.
@CrystallizedBlood1
21 күн бұрын
No fault states should not be a thing because they inherently subvert the concept of justice that the courts are supposed to stand for in the first place.
@Chronoic
21 күн бұрын
Woman are thenone that want it, and as long as they hold the majority of votes it's going to be hard to get rid of. I agree no fault is the worst. Woman tend to make an excuse that "no fault divorce" allows then to leave a abusive marriage. But if the marriage was abusive wouldn't that be a "fault"? Let's face it "no fault" divorce is just an excuse for a woman to divorce her husband and take haft his things without a reason.
@cdelapaz5
20 күн бұрын
The issue with getting rid of no fault states, is that you end up with people getting faulty accused of abuse or cheating. I’m not for it, but there’s not a perfect system. I’m personally a proponent of getting the government out of marriages all together. My relationships are none of the governments business. Also I’m pro prenups. You shouldn’t be leaving it to some wack job judge to determine the winners and losers of a divorce. Always remember, the government can not fix problems of any kind,, it only breaks things to which it demands more money to fix.
@equinox2655
20 күн бұрын
@@Chronoicagreed
@jadorianempire9754
20 күн бұрын
Swear this is why I’m constantly judging the Justice System, they contradict themselves too often….way too often…
@KilroyWasHere83
20 күн бұрын
No fault divorce should not be a thing.
@eshaytoastie9790
21 күн бұрын
She only woke up because she got caught, if he didn't find out she would have gone with the co-worker...
@Geo97Ut
21 күн бұрын
No, she got caught and still wanted to go, what woke her up was the shock tha her husband went and slapped her and throw her out, she wasn't walking on a doormat, she was walking on her husband's feelings until he exploded
@samurafia3334
21 күн бұрын
You found out, she said calm down we wil talk Sunday when im back and its all going to be ok 😂😂😂
@Real_Luke_Reads
7 күн бұрын
yep
@theotakuhazard1453
18 күн бұрын
Technically she WAS cheating. She was clearly having an emotional affair with Tom and was planning to move the affair to be a physical one. The fact that she intended to is more than enough to divorce, and to everyone telling Brad to stay with her has clearly never been cheated on.
@SilveryBlue1010
16 күн бұрын
The slap knock her out of the lovey dovey fog lol Also, she is delusional. What did she thinks marriage is?
@Real_Luke_Reads
7 күн бұрын
some people live in a different reality
@jhawkkw87
21 күн бұрын
Assuming this is real, then this is actually a more reasonable scenario for reconciliation than most infidelity disasters typically are: 1) No physical affair since it was prevented at the 11th hour with some "therapy" (as she put it) 2) Offering a post-nup without being asked for one 3) Offering to take a polygraph without being asked for one 4) Quit her job and cut the affair parter out of her life without being asked or any assurance that divorce won't happen I'd say separate until the post-nup ink is dry, then see how things go. Worse case scenario, you come out in better shape of the divorce thanks to the post-nup. If the post-nup never materializes by a set deadline, then proceed with divorce.
@darthsefton2298
19 күн бұрын
I think it's a good deal too🤣🤣🤣🤣
@PaulReyes-m7f
Күн бұрын
I agree
@ibrohiem
21 күн бұрын
You gotta label your shit as fan fiction
@sugarbeef
21 күн бұрын
Literally naming and introducing the characters is a fairly good label that it's fanfiction. People anonymously posting don't tend to begin with introductions.
@msmpassat
21 күн бұрын
that's reddit for you
@tommyvercetti4687
20 күн бұрын
Dude, OF COURSE THIS IS FAKE. smh
@davidteegray9730
17 күн бұрын
I promise you, you will sleep better flipping a coin to decide if it’s real or not
@engooo1
3 күн бұрын
I agree 😂
@theresidentteacher2438
17 күн бұрын
I don't listen to many "Male" Cheating stories, but THE ABILITY FOR A WOMAN TO "CONVINCE" HERSELF OF SOME BULLSHIT IS AMAZING.
@henryfebrino1873
21 күн бұрын
dont get married guys, protect yourselves
@JBTFan124
19 күн бұрын
Yeah don't get married because of this obviously fake story. Lol
@berlin040909
18 күн бұрын
Ah yes "some marriages fail so don't get married"
@sungclan
17 күн бұрын
@berlin040909 actually 43% of first time marriages end up in divorce. That's a huge red flag about marriage. Would you choose to jump off a plane with a chute with a 43% rate to fail?(marriage) or would you wait for the plane to land safely on the runway?(gf/bf/not marrying with state involved)
@davidteegray9730
17 күн бұрын
I wouldn’t say don’t get married but caution would be your greatest ally
@kaitohkid7229
16 күн бұрын
I as a female wouldn't even have intimacy without marriage. Even though men are ...
@mannydcbianco
21 күн бұрын
The postnup option is obviously the way to go here, then divorce her anyway. Otherwise she will take as much as she can and will probably get alimony too. Legally she "deserves" half plus alimony, but morally she deserves nothing. Staying with her would be a huge mistake. She would make sure to get herself pregnant to keep him on the hook, to make it much more difficult and costly to leave her in the future.
@HealerOfLightAndDark
21 күн бұрын
I agree with you. If I were in his situation, I would take the post-nup, then immediately divorce her. She DID say she understands that after they signed it, he can immediately say he thinks she's violated it for a more favorable settlement, and she ALSO said it's a risk she's willing to take. I would definitely do that
@aussiedudeofthesoutheast789
20 күн бұрын
And if you need more time to really get the ducks in a row you have the time.
@CIutchX
16 күн бұрын
The only reason I'd give her another chance would be because of the suggested post-nup, so that he can stay with her a few weeks, maybe months at best, then claim he feels like she's unfaithful and thus divorce her without a 50/50 split.
@cuttermasterson
21 күн бұрын
There’s very few times I would give anyone a second chance. This is one of them
@CraigPark
20 күн бұрын
All depends on whether he wants peace of mind or a lifetime of therapy.
@columkenn
18 күн бұрын
That would be a mistake. She wants to cheat. She doesn't understand relationships are built on loyalty and cheating is a deal-breaker.
@cuttermasterson
18 күн бұрын
@@CraigPark Life has no guarantees. Believe me she was half a step away of me say Hell NO! But because of this unique situation and the genuine actions of remorse. Give me pause. There’s nothing wrong with divorcing later. It’s not like there’s a time limit or something. Sure life won’t be the same and your probably will be extra cautious, but for me I’d give her one more chance. The way I see it. It can go two ways. One a cheater will always be a cheater. Which is fine because now you have feelings either way and you can move on. The second is if it eats at her. She will devote her life to you even more so than before. I hope this is the case and if it is not. Well you just lost a couple of weeks or months. It will be worth it. If it lands on your side. Just my thoughts
@cuttermasterson
18 күн бұрын
@@columkenn Normally I’d agree. As I said this is probably one of the few moments I’d consider giving a second chance. What do you lose by giving her a chance. Mental health, time and heartache. If this lands well and the remorse really start to eat at her. You could end up better than before. But if life was that simple. We’d all be millionaires. Still when gambling it’s always best to go with your gut. Any signs. Any signs at all. I’m out
@columkenn
18 күн бұрын
@cuttermasterson I can see your point but as he said, when she walked out the door announcing she was going ahead with her cheating after previously lying about the work weekend it probably killed all his love and respect for her in an instant, and ever trusting her again will be impossible. But as you say, life isn't simple
@-_-Emperor-_-
19 күн бұрын
Seee guys slapping works.....Plus its good cause now she did not cheat and is not a sinner,The Husband should take her in ensure she becomes a trad wife because she is unstable and a child.Since she stopped cheating, the OP should reward her for such honesty, you should forgive her, yer 35 bruv it's hard special in a pro hedonistic environment. OP don't destroy your marriage when cheat has not occured,reconcile only cause she stopped, if she had done the deed then no but do it now.
@davidteegray9730
17 күн бұрын
Bro are you ok???
@tman5211
2 күн бұрын
Why do women think that giving themselves to another man “no big deal”? Just because the woman has no romantic feelings for the AP doesn’t mean that the husband would be ok with it
@MrBiggShipp
20 күн бұрын
This story sounds so good. Although he forgot the part where Beth called the police. He gets arrested and she divorced him took everything due to his conviction for domestic violence
@kimmogensen5390
21 күн бұрын
well seems like there is nothing a quick "greeting" can`t solve.....🤚
@maxherrera5344
21 күн бұрын
Everyone, this isn’t fake Reddit post but real subscriber story from strong successful male yt channel.
@MoistTowelette125
20 күн бұрын
I prefer this. SSM is annoying to listen to. Lol. It’s like, “stop giving us your opinion on what you’re reading and just read the story.” 🤷♂️😁
@swgraphics9059
21 күн бұрын
She is insane
@mdirmcmxciv5678
20 күн бұрын
why she act like Tom is the only guilty party in her affair?
@MoistTowelette125
20 күн бұрын
Where did you hear that? Got a timestamp?
@NightCourt1984
4 күн бұрын
She may be her own woman but when she got married that meant she was a woman only for her husband. People who think that their marriage will survive them cheating after saying they love the person that they are supposed to be committed to need to wake up to a dose of reality. After the guy is asking if they'll be able to keep doing it OP should have walked in at that point and told him that would never be happening. How do the APs and cheaters convince themselves in the delusion that everything will stay the same. I'm not saying I condone it but how does it take her husband slapping her to make her see she was making a mistake.
@MrKikochan
8 күн бұрын
This is a difficult situation, no kidding. I know nothing happened between her and Tom, its 10 years and shes given the husband all the advantages he could have. But is it really worth it to always be on your guard?
@chenito36
11 күн бұрын
When the trust was broken and made a mockery if by your wife. That should seal the deal. She nonchalantly made excuse after excuse to gas light you into accepting her affair. Once trust is broken, there is no going back.
@np5976
15 күн бұрын
She has everything to lose at this point. She's offering him an iron-clad deal! In addition, she could have nailed him to the wall for SA, the second he slapped her. A huge mistake on his part. He'd lise EVERYTHING in the real world, plus jail time. Do Not put your hands on your spouse. Ever. For any reason, Period.
@joedecowski5042
18 күн бұрын
If you reconcile it will take years for you to recover. Your distrust of her may start to fade after a bit but will linger forever. small triggers will refresh that mistrust and you will become enraged again and MAY lose at least some control and physically, mentally or emotionally respond. this is not healthy for you or her. Consider divorce now for your own good. You may decide later to reconcile in the future nut you can consider that when the hurt has dissipated or died.
@Mahouti
13 күн бұрын
I assume this story is real, so my answer will be: - As there is no physical affairs - As she completely changed her decision after the slap - As she offer all the possible ways to be forgive I believe its a psychological phase, as she always keep distance from Tom and suddenly decide such a big decision and even husband finding out didn't changed anything. This can happen in psychological problems. Before science they called it spell. If I were him I accepted the terms and forgave her as a second chance, but never a third time even if its psychological. Everyone can do BIG mistakes during psychological problems. All we think, decide or do are coming from our Brain, if brain is not working well so all outcomes will be same.
@Billzonker
20 күн бұрын
You are completely right hun I do have no control over whether or not you go out and cheat on me however what I do have control over is whether or not you have a house to come home to you when you come back on Sunday
@tellstories68
4 күн бұрын
That’s a tough situation 😔
@Obironnkenobi
19 күн бұрын
"I haven't kissed, hugged or been intimated with another man in our entire marriage, and I deserve this." So she thinks she deserves the right to sleep with someone else because she literally did the bare minimum in her marriage?
@marleneperry6972
18 күн бұрын
After one lies about what they are going to do, and you ask for the truth...why would you accept what they are telling you is the truth. Trust was broken, end it.
@joyceshelton1654
21 күн бұрын
This story CANNOT BE TRUE!! No wife is that damn delusional!!
@grandmasterestrada1592
21 күн бұрын
You'd be surprised at how much narcs can delude themselves.
@bastianriv1124
20 күн бұрын
Dam i think you live under a rock huh..
@ProudSanatani0007
20 күн бұрын
If she so sorry, Why didn't she reported herself and Tom to HR and reported Tom as a creep and a se*ual harassment....
@sungclan
17 күн бұрын
It wasn't sexual harassment as soon as she planned the trip, or even before then. If she had the messages, Tom did as well, and could easily counter with them to HR.
@sageof346paths3
7 күн бұрын
Do it its a no fault state and thr post nup is solid if you dont love her just utilize the post nup after you get yourself independently stable
@stephaniehoyland4901
14 күн бұрын
Wow she a right little cow, tom can have her, i mean what person in their right minds think yeah I married but it's still means I can cheat
@ArabicLover101
20 күн бұрын
Who does she think she is, saying that we can get over this and talk on Sunday? Like, seriously?!
@richardcox4413
19 күн бұрын
This is a no brainer. He should go with the post nuptual. He knows that she hadn't actually cheated by looking through her phone records, and her offer of reconciliation is pretty much cast iron. If she does this again, or if he even thinks she might, he dumps her, and she gets nothing.
@Calories_To_Calibers
14 күн бұрын
She absolutely was cheating
@sageof346paths3
7 күн бұрын
Id wait to divorce and just use her to pay bills and save then after about a year make a decision. If she cant make jt it the whole year at least youll know she cant be reformed if she dies and your stull not into it at least youll have a years worth of savings to fall back on and be comfortable after you leave her 😂
@ShavonaHooper
3 күн бұрын
If he truly believes that he can give her a fair second chance without throwing this up her face then yes but before they go any further I would see a therapist separately and then together to figure out why she thought having sex with other man would be okay. I also believed that she allowed herself to be seduced by Tom and she should’ve told her husband immediately. Ask her if he had suggested the same thing would she have been okay. It’s more than just sex and I think that’s where couples get it wrong. Your body after marriage belongs to your spouse. No one but them gets access to it. That’s the vow you took. You are off market.
@mt8956
6 күн бұрын
Divorce her and be friends with benefits if you like. But she did have an emotional affair
@Zan140
14 күн бұрын
Holy shit. They went over and over about dont leave I will leave. Get over it
@jansdavisbelerts1196
8 күн бұрын
What are the chances that she's not gonna try to do it again
@charlybessette9818
Күн бұрын
100%
@MikhailScottKy
10 күн бұрын
I am going to sound like a simp but.... Post-nup - therapy - and her changing careers with retribution for the guy.
@MrCruzin93
21 күн бұрын
Lmao ai story much? How did it go to third person
@J-tron-ke2fn
16 күн бұрын
The instructions given to AI slipped in the story
@sonicprime1597
15 күн бұрын
Marriage is no longer a forever promise, it’s just a suggestion nowadays. Don’t get married my brothers it’s a total scam.
@user-uy6zk6pl6t
19 күн бұрын
Well, another realtor turned 304. I personally know many realtors who became cheaters.
@00MAEL13
8 күн бұрын
Absolutely not
@TheQQshk
17 күн бұрын
Miraclous slap😂
@DavidJackRabbit
5 күн бұрын
Divorce 100%
@bastianriv1124
20 күн бұрын
I do believe in second chance and it's up to the OP or ur own.. If all the condition she said is true, ill give her a second chance but the milisecond i see something that she doesn't tell me idc even surprise like birthday, ill divorce her. But you have to say zero surprise.
@danieljack6255
16 күн бұрын
Divorce her
@oskarjakobsson6538
19 күн бұрын
One of ur batter stories
@blimy01maynard30
5 күн бұрын
"Thanks for slapping the taste out of my mouth and literally throwing me out of the door." Straight fiction or the worst abuse story of all time.
@JBTFan124
19 күн бұрын
The fakeness of these stories is unbelievable. Like at least try to make them believable. Lol married 10 years, but don't know your spouse's password for their phone
@davidteegray9730
17 күн бұрын
Sorry to tell you but it happens
@SilveryBlue1010
16 күн бұрын
Ain't that normal tho?
@maxamaya__
18 күн бұрын
This story was altered to believe it was true. Still entertaining though
@jvbutalid8316
8 күн бұрын
AP should've punched the husband away and brought the wife to the "party" anyway. After all, husband slapped wife, so AP was only hitting back in defense of wife. Then while at it, he could say something like "stop hitting her, man! do you not see she's not content with you anymore? let it go, man!". That would probably work well for him in court. Then he wins, couple divorces, AP gets the wife to himself, and the wronged ex-husband will rot in jail and pay alimony or something. I mean, he had the balls to insist to the wife that they can't back down from the reservation; he might as well go all the way.
@oskarjakobsson6538
19 күн бұрын
Part 2plz
@ondrahavran6539
20 күн бұрын
I would try to give her a chance, but stay vigilant tho. If she goes back on anything she said then just divorce. On the contrary if she fulfils everything that was promised and continues to do so, then you may have better relationship then before. But if you spot ANY valid red flag, then just divorce and don't look back
@DontCallMeSuzi650
20 күн бұрын
Bro you’re crazy!!!! Not after that disrespect.
@royalbeast3140
9 күн бұрын
Bullshit to much talking
@Brian-rl1yw
20 күн бұрын
Stupid ending. Dont write anymore stories as you really suck.
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