Thank you Shaneen, beautifully spoken. A gift to all those who need it. 18 years ago, I was the pastor with a wife who nearly destroyed my life. Everyone thought she was the ideal wife and that we had the ideal life, yet one of my young daughters would tell me, "dad, you better sleep with your eyes open tonight". I lived to talk about that now. But when the abuse was too much to ignore any longer, I knew God did not want me to die, physically, mentally and spiritually. And my young daughters needed me, alive. My wife was arrested, a restraining order was put on her, custody was granted to me over my two young daughters, and God gave me everything I needed to begin picking up the pieces. ☝But because of that chapter in my life, I can now minister to those who are in similar life challenges. "And we know that all things, (all things), work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purposes". Romans 8:28 🙏🙏♥♥
@fabulouspinkmk10
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing jack, its a support to encourage others to step of Hope and how to learn that God is for them not against them/us. Cheers to greener pastures in Christ.
@karenkuske5567
Ай бұрын
Praying for all woman who are in this situation that they are able to get out with their life. I managed to get out with chronic illness and no job with 2 teens. Trust in the Lord he WILL sustain you❤ sending much love! I was not a pastors wife but lived this nightmare as do thousands of others…you are NOT ALONE. Praise God!
@lauradelregno99
Ай бұрын
I pray that Christians who are trapped in a relationship with a narcissist find a way out, even if they are discarded. In Jesus name. Amen.
@user-lr5kk4vr5k
Ай бұрын
Not just pastor's wife's go through this
@MB-sg8dx
Ай бұрын
Shes aware of that; today’s video is focused on the many pastor’s wives who are enduring narcissistic abuse at the hands of their husbands.
@jbtoptc7327
Ай бұрын
To be betrayed by the one person so close to you is the ultimate betrayal. To my ex " I would take a bullet for you but you were the one holding the gun".
@WHIRLwind1923
Ай бұрын
this is my story, I LEFT, took the blame, to get out. I cant use my name on social media. Im trying to convince my children NONE of this is/was Gods fault. Im trying to move out of town, according to the " Church it was all my fault " im just crazy " . Crazy i expected kindnees, fidelity, respect as a human being, in marriage or from the church, ya... its real.
@dl2204
Ай бұрын
I was that woman. I can totally relate. The people who were my friends still don’t understand. I am still a scapegoat. I had to run away and cut off contact with my past friends. They still go to church with him and don’t realize what he is really like. I appreciate this video. I have felt very alone. Thank you for understanding.
@PeaceandfreedominYeshua
Ай бұрын
Your very brave and strong to get out like that. I hope you can find others that understand what you've been through. It's such a comfort that our Lord does understand, and He is faithful to us. God bless you on your new fresh chapter and season in your walk. Shalom🕊❤🌻
@ChristianOne
Ай бұрын
That was me. I left my minister husband because I couldn't enable him and make him look good when he was NOT good. I have been out for a few years now, thanks to God. Thank you for your empathy. The other pastors I ran to for help had no such empathy and compiled my despair by not understanding, believing, or helping me. I am feeling better these days but it has been a long and lonely road.
@ShaneenMegji
17 күн бұрын
I can only image. I pray for much grace. 🙏🏽
@dardalyn6374
Ай бұрын
I’m one that made it through alive in an era that no one knew what to ‘label’ this abuse. Yet, always blamed the woman. I’m 22 years out delivered not divorced yet just now resting my soul as my body is allowed to sleep. Those whom knew became the accomplice and my children were psychologically and emotionally programmed by them all and have chosen to despise and block me from their lives. BUT GOD ALWAYS has the last word. Ps 27 &37 ThE Scriptures were and are my life. So grateful for this today ! Such confirmation snd affirmation of THE ALMIGHTY is hearing and has seen it all. I bless you and your team for discernment now and forward.
@victoryamartin9773
Ай бұрын
Thank you for those Scriptures and your sad but encouraging story. I will look for the Lord's protection and deliverance.
@sharamclennan3635
Ай бұрын
This is my story. Got out 3 years ago after 26 years of it. Very few understand it and I only understood what was going on in the last few years before I got out. Still being blamed by him and many. Have had to leave my past life behind. Glad God helped me escape! 🙏🙏
@ShaneenMegji
17 күн бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that. God bless you richly. 🙏🏽💕
@Ladybug826
Ай бұрын
This is my story, as well. I wait patiently for God to deliver me. It is in His timing. But my heart weeps longingly for the joy that is promised in Scripture. Thank you for posting this, Shaneen. It gives me hope.
@ShaneenMegji
17 күн бұрын
I'm so glad. God bless you and give you much grace. 🙏🏽💕
@shaeholden1743
Ай бұрын
Oh my goodness! I lived EVERY WORD of this video. Married to a "Christian" narcissist who was a deacon in our church... charismatic and admired in the public and son of Satan at home. Yes, suicide became a constant thought to me until I FINALLY started using the brain God gave me and I left after 24 years. Of course, few in that church environment understood why. But God knows and I am happy. I am finally a happy woman. 😊
@ShaneenMegji
17 күн бұрын
I'm so glad you got out and are free. 🙏🏽💕
@MagicalCreations-fw7pj
Ай бұрын
Beautifully written letter that is divinely inspired with so much wisdom. All coming from a heart of humility, servitude, devotion and suffering. All the qualities the enemy preys upon. A heart of a joyful servant seems to always shatter into the most pieces.
@yvonnemariehorvatr.h.n.nut3315
Ай бұрын
This letter is truth! I hope she surrenders to the truth. It will be painful but deliverance. I had a relationship exactly like this. I am in the process of a divorce because God closed every door until I obeyed. I also am dealing with a covert...malignant sister as well. But God is good and God is able to set you free if you let him.
@taracannonllc
Ай бұрын
God had to free my mind and then I was able to walk out of those prison doors!
@ShaneenMegji
17 күн бұрын
Amen. 🙏🏽
@sharonwhite4601
Ай бұрын
I can relate to the story so much beautiful but sad yet again true I was married to One for 20 years but not a pastor. Finally, God brought me out. I came out with sicknesses stress, anxiety, you name it but thanks beyond to God he healed me completely slow, but I’m healed and free today because of God, I just pray that every woman or man that is going and going through this recognize it get to help you get the healing that is due to you. I promise you God is a healer. God sees in God knows but he’s gonna bring you out to help others that are stuck and strugglingwith this praying for all that according this cycle of evilness be blessed thank you for sharing in Jesus’s name amen
@NevaleeLaidler
Ай бұрын
This is about my mom.... a preacher's wife. I was the oldest daughter and heard things growing up. My dad did this to me too...
@valeries1473
Ай бұрын
For years my favorite books were, “With God In Solitary Confinement,” and “Alone With God,” by Richard Wurmbrand. It was another 20 years before I learned about narcissism. Then I understood…. Your letter is beautiful and sure to help many. If someone is unable to leave their situation (as I am), let me stand as a witness that God is utterly and completely faithful no matter what you face!!
@ChoJo311
Ай бұрын
That was me i n my marriage. Suffering silently, wondering what was wrong with me. I escaped. 600 miles for two years now. 😢
@ShaneenMegji
17 күн бұрын
Praise God. 🙏🏽💕
@daleswain9520
Ай бұрын
When I left my narcissistic marriage of 30 years, individuals in my church family were not supportive of course in fact what I heard was thank goodness God didn’t give up on you. My response though I never said it out loud is I didn’t give up on my husband. He left a long time ago, he was not the man I married and just because I’m not with him does it mean that I don’t pray and hope that he will change… And we know the odds on that one. I just had to get away and be safe. Sadly he has influenced my children in many ways and they’re grown and grown when I left him never underestimate their manipulation and they’re smearing campaign, triangulation, etc. etc. it’s all real.
@PeaceandfreedominYeshua
Ай бұрын
Amen. Waw. Gave me goosebumps, and tears in my eyes, si beautifully written. I hope and pray that every woman or man trapped in such a living hell of a marriage, I pray that God gives them away out and heals them fully and restores to them the years that the locus ate away.❤
@adamg7937
Ай бұрын
Well.. you made me cry. Feeling trapped by a vow you made before God. .... Wishing and praying and hoping fervently that something will change. Even, you barely dare to admit it, if it means death, his or yours.
@sarahyip2825
26 күн бұрын
I am so sorry! Please take in this truth: A vow is only valid when made between two deserving individuals. Not where one party has the dirty upper hand (a false front or some hidden agenda). We all deserve to be cherished. Falsehood abounds and not everyone is who they say they are.
@cornflakesagain5647
Ай бұрын
May all the broken women who resonate with this beautiful letter find their freedom, whatever that looks like. May God's perfect love for your precious souls, cast out all fear that shackles you to bondage, and may God's heavenly host surround you and yours. May God direct your steps from this darkness you are enduring and guide you into a life of light. May you experience that safe place you've been yearning for.
@4Waridi
Ай бұрын
This whole letter resonates. The part about clenching teeth at night 😥😭 and worn off enamel. Dentist said I need to get braces or teeth will start falling out. It will not happen in Jesus name. Thank you for this encouraging letter. May God bless and keep you safe in His arms.
@ShaneenMegji
17 күн бұрын
Thank you. God bless you too. 🙏🏽💕
@sarahtennessee608
Ай бұрын
This is 2 Tim 3:1-5 in the flesh. While heavily weighted in males, it is also found in females. When a family trait, it becomes a group sport against the source(s). I only discovered what a narcissist was last year when Holy Ghost brought it to my attention. Once you see the traits, you see those who walked in it over your lifetime. God is interested in setting both abused and abusers free. He desires that none perish. May He release the Strategies of Victory to deal with this epidemic.
@atharva-upclosingnature2423
Ай бұрын
I am not originally from the christian faith but my encounter with the religious teachings from the bible and the lives of catholic saints convinced me that this religion is so strong and sufficient in rattling down narcissism which continued like a curse in my bloodline... however it's heart wrenching that belivers forget the basic 2 commandments of Jesus Christ to love God and love our neighbor as our selves. They are sufficient for crumbling down pride and arrogance from a person... it's sad to discover that religious pastors and clergyman are sometimes the epitome of narcissistic personality and yet profess to be followers of Jesus Christ... To these wolves in sheeps clothing...God would say "get away and depart from me...I know you not" Ofc narcissism is not confined to any specific religion or race but atleast our christian faith should have not been engulfed by false preachers and narcissistic leaders... this is just a desire which might never come true as the Bible already warns us about false prophets... being vigilant and discerning is so important hence
@laurie2715
Ай бұрын
There are more women just . Like . Her . In the body of Christ one would imagine . It’s horrible for the wives , and anyone a victim of this secret abuse . I think it is the greatest harm to Christ’s body worldwide , it destroys what could be a powerful impact to rightly show the world the love of Christ and that hurts the hearts of wives and victims also . Their heart yearns deeply to bring people to the Lord . Thank you for sharing this Shaneen, you are truly a gift here . 🙏🌿
@sidneywilson6177
Ай бұрын
Tell everyone to expose the fruitless deeds of darkness . Don’t be afraid ! God has used you and others to educate us about narcissism and the greatest narcissist , Satan !
@Eternallight395
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this letter that so many like her have experienced as well as myself. In going to numerous churches after I was threatened by a knife from my ex. (This was a person that was very successful) Im sad that many leaders at many churches would not even offer prayer over me. My story is not to be a victim but needing support, prayer and hope to help others as well. My story went through one ear right out the other of these leaders. They acted as if they never heard a word I said. This was unbelievable and unimaginable they would do this to one of Christ followers. I’m very thankful for the Lord’s protection and guiding me away from that evil situation! God Bless you in this ministry through Christ!
@Garden366
Ай бұрын
Dear Pastor’s Wife, Please do not think for one second that your children do not see, and are not affected by your husband‘s evil and his treatment of you. Also, please be aware that this is not done at the hands of a Christian, but at the hands of a person who has given themselves over to the evil one. Within your letter, I recognize the one fallacy that keeps people stuck with absolute evil, and that is your insistence upon calling people who act the way your husband does, a Christian. No Christian can act in the way a narcissist (your husband) does and still walk with the Lord. Reread that last sentence and think about it in light of biblical truth. Remind yourself of God‘s entire council, not just that you are to be submissive and obedient and joyful, but that we should know them by their fruit and should see them as God has demanded. How joyful can you be in the Lord when you are being abused by the one person you thought would be there to protect you? How much trust can you place in the Lord when you feel he’s giving you someone you cannot trust? You know your heart and you know it is extremely hard to love and to worship the Lord, when your joyful expression is forced. Your heart says the Lord has given me this burden to bear, and I must bear it, however, you are finding it very hard to truly walk with Jesus as you should. You’re finding it hard because there’s no one in your family, especially your husband, who will allow you the dignity that you deserve, that God himself has given you. After a while, the treatment that you receive begins to chip away at at least some of the joy and the trust and the obedience that you give to the Lord because your heart will be asking - why does he allow me to continue in this suffering, how can I suffer at the hands of a man who is supposed to love me and who in front of God promised to do so? The most important thing you can do is to recognize him for what he is because in that truth, there will be some release of tension and in understanding that your husband is actually evil, and not a Christian, you can then better lean entirely upon the Lord because he, not your husband and most probably not your children, will be your Rock. I found it entirely needful to call out the truth, that my husband was not a Christian, and that my insistence that I act as though he were was leading me into a bondage of my own making. Until you step out and away from that thought process of calling evil good, you will struggle. I am not saying that you will leave him, I am just saying there is freedom in truth, and Jesus Christ is Truth. Once the truth of your life is accepted, you can partition your heart and your mind away from your husband and toward the Lord. The Lord God Almighty does not expect you to take abuse or to be abused. Lean on Christ alone because your husband is evil. Accept the truth of your situation and call on and lean on Jesus. He will guide your path.
@ericb8413
Ай бұрын
A great book on this subject is called “In Sheeps Clothing “. Just because a person claims to be Christian it really means nothing if they don’t behave as the Bible instructs us. Narcissists are in churches too, and they’re very destructive.
@worldupsidedown1
Ай бұрын
Why wouldn’t a wife leave a husband like that?
@elenatamuk1
Ай бұрын
I am so glad you posted this…… every word you said is exactly how I have been feeling . I feel God has been telling me that he is not a Christian for God told me a 2-3 years ago… you shall know them by their fruit. Now in my situation every last one of his immediate relatives are narcissistic so I thought God was telling about them…. Then when God told me my own husband was one too…. That set me on a road to make sure I am praying always…. My kids ask me if he is still a Christian and my answer was that he is lukewarm…. But the reality of your words made me realize what God told me you shall know them by their fruit. I am barely hanging on but I am hanging on….and I will find my strength in the Lord until He brings the breakthrough!!!!! Keep me in prayer..
@deniseneuman1958
Ай бұрын
I was one of these women. My husband discarded me, so I then was free.
@lorettaenglerth1361
29 күн бұрын
Thank you for this letter that describes my life . My marriage isn't to a minister, but a prominent person of the community we live in, where people are blinded to what he is capable of behind closed doors. Comments made to me, oh what a wonderful man you are married to, so thoughtful and caring. The caring side that I have personally never experience , even when I have gone through cancer breast surgery, and recovery. That is just one that was most recent, nine years ago I went through surgery for a tumor in my heart. There was no real concern. In this letter the emphasis on the women's children's, I have experienced this, to hear in the letter hurts my heart to actually hear it.
@lisa.s.headley7
Ай бұрын
😢 I'm thinking of my sister-in-law who passed away almost exactly one year ago today (8.8.23). She was in a very similar situation. She passed away due to "failure to thrive". Her passing brings so much anger and grief still...
@worldupsidedown1
Ай бұрын
That is heartbreaking. I know I’ve felt that at times myself. I’ve been divorced for over 30 yrs but issues with my grown sons has isolated me & feeling the guilt all over again. I’m so sorry that you have to grieve for your sister in law like that. May God comfort you!!
@worldupsidedown1
Ай бұрын
20 yrs, not 30!
@lisa.s.headley7
Ай бұрын
@@worldupsidedown1 Thank you ❤️. I'm so sorry to hear of your situation, too. Here's a virtual hug 🫂
@worldupsidedown1
Ай бұрын
@@lisa.s.headley7 Thank you, same to you. ❤🩹
@aimeeguzman6758
Ай бұрын
This was my life with my sister. My parents and brother still believe her and don't believe the abuse I suffered. I have healed so much physically, mentally and spiritually with her out of my life. This makes me think of the Mica Miller case, so very sad.
@katey614
Ай бұрын
Thank you, Shaneen, for sharing this VERY important letter! Many blessings to the dear woman who wrote it - I pray she is now free and safe and thriving! 🙏
@sweetsunnydaygirl
Ай бұрын
**WOW!!😲😲🧡🛐☦️ THANK YOU SHANEEN! Sharing this with family & friends!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO SEE THIS!! May Jesus bless You, your family, and your ministry here! You help me so much! Love and blessings and prayers from Rachel in Nashville👩🎨😺💕🛐☦️🕎
@gerger5670
Ай бұрын
It’s bad enough just being a normal Christian, I once watched my pastor(Mitch’s) wife almost bow to him( before she remembered I was there)when she knew she had displeased him. He told us he was better then her because she had been married before🤮🤮🤮🤮
@user-ol3dy9rg7y
Ай бұрын
Amen Thank You Lord, set Your children free from abuse!!
@theverystones2643
Ай бұрын
There are some narcissistic “first ladies” who allow their Jezebel spirit to ruin their husband’s mission and ministry as well. And sometimes both of them are wrong’ens. End times trainwrecks
@FeedScrn
Ай бұрын
Or they have their minds set (misdiagnosed) about you... even though they are 'praying about the condition'... and it's supposedly for a good cause.
@thedeborah7328
Ай бұрын
And he makes sure his friends see you as an enemy to the work of God. So they help him despise you. I've lived that and I'm out.
@gwendolynwehage6336
24 күн бұрын
wow, this sounds so very familiar!!!!! These women stand by their husbands and are accused of being rebellious by nearly all family members!!!!
@lenihassveasphaug9634
Ай бұрын
So sorry to hear. Thank You Shaneen for bringing it up. ( love you)🕊️❤️
@berthabridges3483
25 күн бұрын
The attacks that those who come out of the shadows to confront their abuser are frightening called Jezebels" and ostracized, told their lying while all the while the wife sins in her silence knowingly. "Those who allows the oppression share the crime." ~ Desiderius Erasmus Roterodamus.
@sandrawarren2456
Ай бұрын
Oh my...this is so on point. I am there
@user-ol3dy9rg7y
Ай бұрын
We are born into a world that says if someone calls themself a preacher we should consider them as being close to God. People worshipped my ex because he took 3 online classes and gained the certificate to marry and bury. Ministry attracts the ministers of satan who we are warned about by God in Word. Mine never prayed with me or our kids. Our family was a sacrifice on the alter of the ministry, we were told by one senior pastor we were under. At a pastors wives retreat we were literally told that if our husbands strayed or looked at porn or flirted with those flying monkey women in the church who didnt respect your marriage either...that the pastors wives were to just give him more sex. Counsellors ask about the sex life. As though that is some sign of a healthy pastor-pastor wife mariage. Word of God says that God does not hear the prayer of the proud. He does not hear the prayers of those who betray an abused woman and kids. They preach woman submit but do not mention God's Word to husbands that if they do not love their wives they dont even love themselves (so if a pastor does not love, how can he love God's congregations, He CANNOT. If he does not cherish and love His wife as Christ loves the church and gives his flesh self up for her...no porn, no flirting, no adultery by the eyes or in reality, etc., then God SAYS HIS PRAYERS ARE HINDERED. Abusers' prayers are no heard, God does not have partiality like people do, God does not respect persons, only those who obey The Lord will be found in Heaven...not those who merely label themselves as belonging to Jesus. Many many will say to Jesus, but look at what we did for You, in Your Name. Jesus SAID to them He WILL ONE DAY SAY "Depart from Me, I never knew you, you workers of iniquity" JESUS IS NOT FOOLED. FEW will enter the narrow gate, Jesus said. Wolves in sheep clothing He warned us about. When you are married to such a narcissist wolf, no one listens to the introverted abused woman. Most of the flying monkeys side with the abuser, and the abused loses even more support (a blessing actually to lose those who are Judas' in your life anyhow, it is shocking but when you learn about narcs you easily see the demons. my ex husband, a childrens pastor, had demons in him. YES. You can see those who have demons. Are they PROUD? Do they BRAG about how they fast, etc.? Do they excuse any sin? Usually what they preach against is the very sin they are doing. Dont smoke they say yet secretly they are comitting adultery (even with the eyes, Jesus said you already did it in your dirty wicked heart). They heap up sin upon sin, while the flying monkeys cheer them on - The Lord God Who made us sees all and everything is recorded in His books. He forgives those who are contrite and turn from sin and walk in love and according to Holy Spirit. Many are on the wide road, few will find the narrow road. Jesus Himself said this and He alone is TRUTH. God said not to trust in people even self (the heart is deceptive). Time to seek God as he says to as though He is our Manna, daily Bread. We know them by their fruit. The false church that teaches a false gospel protects sinners and wicked people instead of kicking them and their leaven out. They might fool people who do not seek God and dont walk according to Holy Spirit. One day, the fakers will hear from The King of Kings and Lord of Lords... Depart from Me. All those who supported and covered up wickedness will also hear those words. Do not expect to be told you are Jesus' faithful servant by Him if you actually are NOT faithful to obey Him as Lord. If this is your paradise, this is all you will receive. For the wounded, Jeremiah 29:11-14 seek The Lord while He may be found. He is Who He says He is in His Word. We choose to believe. If we dont seek God and His Word, we will never be filled with Holy Spirit who Jesus said only abides in those who obey Jesus, Word of God. Only by abiding in Word of God can we know Him Who heals us. Those who belong to Jesus will do what He says with His help. Apart from Word of God on our hearts and minds we can do nothing. Jesus IS Word. Read and seek God now, He will heal. He will forgive too but repentance is not saying sorry, it is an action of turning from what God calls wickedness and start doing His righteous works. Revelation letters to the churches is all about Jesus looking at our fruit, which is works. We dont earn Heaven, but the wheat that belongs to Jesus will bear fruit that He said they would and Jesus is Truth and does not lie. It is people who lie, and we decieve ourselves. We were born into a world/church that says to obey every human authority in your life or else. GOD says to fear HIM not man. Give us fear of The Lord, God, Holy Spirit teach us...we do not need a man to teach us, JESUS SAYS. There is healing and if you seek The Creator Who made you, with all your heart, you will find Him. You will be shocked to see how crafty satan and his ministers and children of the devil are. In these days God is separating the true wheat from the tares. They look a lot alike, but Jesus said not to walk by sight. Heal all who are being abused in any way, Abba Father. Draw Your sheep into Your fold and heal them and give then Your rest from those who are children of the devil (Jesus called CHURCH LEADERS (Pharisees) this.) Help us obey You and forgive these abusers -men and women - those who rejected us and worship a human being like a pastor. Forgive them Lord and forgive us as we forgive them. Teach us Your Way, Holy Spirit and all who are Your real children will, with Your help, with You abiding in them, will be healed. You said to deny self, bear the cost of that, and continue to hold fast and follow You. If we do not obey You, we will not be filled with Your Holy Spirit. Teach us of Your Holiness, not many regard Your holiness and most church leaders do not have Fear of The Lord, in Whom You raised Your Son (Isaiah). Jesus walked in Wisdom, Understanding, Knowledge, Power, etc God's Holy Spirit. If He is truly in us, then we will have the mind of Christ. Jesus says to leave the carnal mind (which is an enemy of God He says so) in the baptismal waters of our agreement to follow Jesus and obey Him. Jesus was obedient to Father's Will and He is our Example. His yoke is easy. Meek and lowly in heart - we can only be this way if Jesus abides in us. He wont abide in any who are lovers of self. If we dont obey and deny self...then we are none of His. Jesus says all this. Believe or don't Many do choose, and excuse being on, the wide path. I did too when in thise false Christianity. Seek The Lord and He will be everything to you that He says He is. He will not be Healer, etc to the disobedient. They prosper in the worldly things and not according to Holy Spirit. Do not envy them, Jesus said that those who trust in their self and money and advantage and popularity are not on the narrow road. This is all the reward these braggers will recieve. But they DO NOT BELIEVE Jesus' Words! They think they are so special and annointed that they will never wash feet and serve others. When has YOUR Pastor cleaned a church toilet? The Pastor who does humble himself is rare indeed and so blessed in these 2 Timothy 3 days. God tells us to recognize the wolf and to from such turn away. God tells us to TURN AWAY AND HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH HYPOCRITES. But a WOLF will never preach about WOLVES,...why expose themselves?! God says ask Him for His Wisdom. First, He will teach you to repent of sin and forgive. THEN when Father and Jesus sup with you, He will teach you. If you dont seek Him you wont find Him. If you do ask, knock, seek, You WILL find The One Who made your soul and Who died for your sin. Praying for all tares, that even one would turn to God's righteousness. Praying for all wheat, true wheat on the narrow path, may Father God Himself hold our hand and help us give Him glory in the earth and bless Him yet while we live. Sorry so long. Truth is all that matters, so seek Him Whose Name is Faithful and True. He will knock the blinders off our eyes if we make Him Lord and King and obey Him.
@2008LadyLaura
Ай бұрын
Wow!!!! I can relate. Was engaged to someone like this
@davidmissar5485
10 күн бұрын
So true when a husband and wife enter the ministry, they are both being attacked from every direction...In my mind a pastor has a much easier job then the the wife who deals with the children, cleaning the house, food shopping, paying the bills, laundry, dishes, cooking and being supportive to the husband...It never ends for the woman...And true, ministers come in all colors, with a whole lot of narcissists in the pulpit...We were missionaries and saw it all...what ended it for us was when the brethren turned against us for something which wasn't true...We packed our bags and never looked back...I hope others fare better...Mercy, thank you Father and the Lord Jesus for your great and wonderful MERCY...
@McGyverPilot
Ай бұрын
This will neither change nor be adequately addressed by those in power. The unpleasant full truth is that we must LEAVE (Go Offgrid). " Come out of her my people...lest ye partake in her plagues!" (Rev. 18:4)
@berthabridges3483
25 күн бұрын
These women are suffering, but it's not for the LORD. It's from a guilty conscience. They have the Holy Spirit and Scriptures like everyone else.
@MeCynthiaAnn
Ай бұрын
Thanks always. From Cynthia Ann in JANESVILLE, WI
@snowyowlz5992
Ай бұрын
That was my wife and I undergoing the hell from her father and mother (associate pastor and wife from a well known church in the Northwest many years ago) utilizing triangulation, pulling, pushing us any way to destroy our marriage before and after a restraining order against her mother and grandmother.
@MsAgape911
23 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing, to all who suffer there is hope. Jesus came for the oppressed don’t let the church oppress you. There are so many resources Flying free and many other podcast and KZitem channels are out there to help you.
@ggccministry8494
Ай бұрын
Amen!
@ruthsnively7248
Ай бұрын
This breaks my heart.
@Titus2.3-5
17 күн бұрын
Wow, just...wow! I needed to hear that.
@berthabridges3483
25 күн бұрын
The Lord is understanding, but He will no longer accept those excuses. Too many girls and boys are suffering. Who speaks up for them? The Lord does, ask Him yourselves. He's given men years to repent but haven't unless they get caught. It's not acceptable. .
@chapter9363
Ай бұрын
This is very painful 😢
@kat-75
Ай бұрын
I have met happy pastors wives too.
@vell5052
Ай бұрын
Jesus help us! 🙏🏾
@hassadah
14 күн бұрын
‘it’s all your fault’, ‘you Jezebel’, ‘you rebellious woman’, ‘you unsubmissive wife’, ‘when will you ever learn to honor your husband like Sarah honoured Abraham’ … these sounded all too familiar… I’ve heard it all
@ggccministry8494
Ай бұрын
Ministering to the wives
@AliCMP
Ай бұрын
(He's not a pastor and we don't have kids) I have the health issues and I've had those thoughts. I keep wanting out of this life t the point that I'm convinced I'm going first (I have to and I want to) but then everything is the same and he keeps having "the episodes". How do a pray the right thing? and by that I mean asking God t get me out of this?
@berthabridges3483
25 күн бұрын
Frankly speaking, I have more sympathy for the people who have been molested than the wife who knows and does nothing about it to save face and her position in the church hierarchy. Allowing her husband to prey on other people's children while she protects her own or not..
@joshsmith2071
Ай бұрын
Christians need to use critical thinking skills based on Bible knowledge instead of being enamored with a charasmatic personality and some of these people would never be allowed behind a pulpit to start with.
@alphaomegaambassador4978
Ай бұрын
Maybe the bigger problem is the existence and use of a pulpit in a building. Christianity spread like wildfire throughout the Roman Empire in the 1st three centuries after Jesus without either. Pulpits are narcissist magnets.
@chapter9363
Ай бұрын
Hi shaneen can I have the letter in writing
@ShaneenMegji
17 күн бұрын
Yes, here it is: www.shaneenmegji.com/blog/letter-to-the-pastor-s-or-minister-s-wife
@chapter9363
17 күн бұрын
@@ShaneenMegji thank you very much with share it with many people ..may God continue to use you 🙏
@pierre931
Ай бұрын
When some One sell his coscience make suffer Who love he and Is a round he. Is the more bad insult for they and for himself..Is not me that judge and decise and we pay our bad too in the successives lives
@pierre931
29 күн бұрын
The normality Is God that kill?
@rickybobby9797
Ай бұрын
If the goal is to speak about truth then here it is: For countless eons women did not leave their parents home until the parents vetted potential suitors (and the daughter was then able to select the one she wanted). Without these safeguards women, who primarily make choices on emotion, will choose men like this-or the bad boy types. Where is the church in all of this and where are the fathers-whose historic responsibility was to be looking out for their daughters. We all know the answer to this-we’ve outsourced these responsibilities to public schools and colleges-where the average women is “known” by countless men before she marries-and for the other women who are duped by these narcissists and psychopath their father and mother are no longer involved in vetting these men-no, they have left their daughter to make calamitous decisions on their own. This is the state of our society-even the church says little about this nor does it expect upright behavior by women.
@katey614
Ай бұрын
Children learn by example. A young man or woman is more likely to choose a healthy spouse and enter into a healthy marriage if that is what their parents modeled for them while they were growing up. If their parents did not model healthy behavior toward each other or their child, it is unlikely that such parents would be able to make healthy recommendations to their son or daughter regarding marriage choices.
@JanetBlessing-hb7yg
19 күн бұрын
So healing!💔❤️🩹♥️💜🕊️ Thank you so much for posting this, Shaneen, and deep gratitude to the courageous “dear one” who composed it.
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