Love listening to you x I've always been a 🐸 🤣 ... it's a shame but it's best staying on your own, nobody else looks after you better, than yourself.... but I'm a Virgo so it's hard, we care.... but at 49 I really have to look after myself now.... we only live once x thanks so much for your reading x
@butchtarot5730
Ай бұрын
You’re so welcome. For every person we meet who isn’t the one gets us closer to the one. Stay safe my friend
@danielleszarell
Ай бұрын
Peg-Ham ¿ no?
@cathyriehm194
Ай бұрын
Thank you, Butch. This person is my mother. It’s heartbreaking when you have to disengage (finally did a few years ago), but you still care. Can’t help someone who won’t help themselves, and hates you for trying to help them.
@patricehart9017
Ай бұрын
Virgos have the most love for you Butch❤❤❤
@jenniferknippenberg9554
Ай бұрын
Thank you butch for the reading and for your honesty. It means a lot. You are just speaking the message my heart has been knowing. Somethings just dont change. Unless the person wants to change them. I've been hoping he would push past his fears to build a great relationship. Right now he is just hiding in his work. Avoiding talking about anything at all. Can't stay forever. That is only torture for me. But as Virgo we want people to love as big as we do. Sometimes they just can not.
@jandrakebakke5271
Ай бұрын
I helped my big brother too during hard times. It was hard but worth it. He was clean for so many years and helped others from then on. He got therapy and lots of help and he did it.Saved his life. He would not mind me telling the story cuz he told it alot to others to help them. He wanted to get help though. Thank you Butch! I will be careful. I dont know for sure who this maybe for me. God bless! xx
@GreyCat827
Ай бұрын
Accurate reading...thank you. This person seems to self sabotage at each turn. Your description of my thoughts/feelings about them is a good one. I do believe they need a friend, but I am unable to be more than that again. I did see so much potential in our short lived connection; but learned the hard way about 7 months ago after "hot and cold"...I walked away at that time....I would like to feel that way about someone in the future, that does want a partner, however that manifest itself. Thank you again.
@inciangiearslan7038
Ай бұрын
You can never change a person unless they want on their own!!thank you Butch❤ be good!!
@alliemaxx3017
Ай бұрын
Yup- it’s been hot/cold since I’ve known him. (2016). Still stuck on negative thinking, still living w/ sum1 & doesn’t hav his own place. . Won’t open up abt his feelings but wants me to confess my love to him. I was hopeful things would get better & we would progress together. I’m tired of allowing him to come/go & drain my energy. I give of myself emotionally & get nothing but frustration from him. I been seeing the 🚩. Classic narc😳.
@warriorwinter2233
Ай бұрын
Mannnn I remember watching TheCryingGame from 1992, and they used the frog and scorpion analogy in the movie so so well. Scorpion straight up says, it’s in my nature 🎉. And yes they both drown.
@Speakingofspirit
Ай бұрын
This reading can really help people ❤ thank you for speaking your truth, Butch.
@lindsay1770
Ай бұрын
This person is an avoident man and I don't have what he needs to go forward with this. He's lovely, I've never had someone that makes my heart beat the way it does when he is near, (sounds so sappy 😂) Iiking him is suicide for me, there is only so much rejection a girl can take before knowing what's best for herself. Thank you so much for the reading, I had this wake up call few weeks ago x
@FoolintheRainSDMF
Ай бұрын
My ex girl is avoident & more things absolute poison to me but she was perfect all at once. So now the keys been to work on the parts of me that would think that someone like that was the for sure one when she wasn't/isn't. Sucks to admit the person we really wanted was moreso imagined rather than a reality.
@lindsay1770
Ай бұрын
@@FoolintheRainSDMF very true. Fantasy was always better than reality 😂😂 but then you're at risk of putting yourself in Limerence 😂😂. know you're own worth, lesson to be learned I guess 🤦.
@FoolintheRainSDMF
Ай бұрын
@lindsay1770 that's the whole point of why some people come into path to begin with so we learn later on. Apparently some of us needed something/someone to rattle us so damn bad that we would be sick of their shit but not as much as we are of our own! Then we think,"damn these lessons were expensive and cost a lot of every resource we have, so now have to apply them or else it was all for nothin." Given that we see how bad it sucks we damn sure don't want to go through it again and history does repeat itself when we don't learn. That's why it's good that people are sharing openly their wrongs and how they've been done so that maybe others won't have to or will at least know they're not the only ones because most of us wouldn't have listened ahead of time, it would of interrupted our "bliss"😆
@lindsay1770
Ай бұрын
@@FoolintheRainSDMF I agree with this completely, I don't fancy repeating any other mistakes, I do believe these thing happen for a reason. To be fair, I think you may have had it much worse than me, this man didn't let me in enough to really do me any real emotional harm, hurt enough for what it was / wasn't. Think he was doing me a favour holding me at arms length, don't think he was trying to hurt me, more so guarding himself. I don't hold any Ill will towards him, in fact my heart actually goes out to him. I'm just not interested in chasing something that's not meant, I'm not the chasing kind anyways 😂😂.
@FoolintheRainSDMF
Ай бұрын
@lindsay1770 I've been in similar situations as what you're describing not fun and can't do what they/we don't know. It's definitely good to not chase things at all. Shit gets old real quick. Games are cool but not to play with people 😆
@catwoman7102
Ай бұрын
the frog-scorpion story made me cry
@calculatedrisk1
Ай бұрын
Glad I don’t have anyone when I hear readings like this…
@amberturley5250
Ай бұрын
I definitely appreciate this and you sharing your experience. It's been about two years now since I've talked to my little sister and I think about her every day. We didn't have the easiest childhood, and I wrestled demons for years myself: I have been sober for 8 years now, but I enabled her addictions for a long time, because when I looked at her I just still saw my little sister and then she had my nephews and my niece which made it even harder for me to tell her no. I finally had to take a step back and see that all I was doing was enabling her to get worse. I don't know how she's doing now, because I had to quit answering the phone like you said and block all contact it was stressing me out so bad the things that she was putting herself through and inevitably me since I was the only one who was there in the end, really I was the only one she had; we had different dads and unfortunately she didn't have the type of father I did and our mother.... we won't go into that but it's really hard for anybody going through this I definitely sympathize and I pray for you and your loved ones. as a recovering addict I will say, you have to hit bottom, you have to there's no other way! nobody can save you from you and like what you're saying you have your messes cleaned up for you so there's no reason to quit until you have to do it yourself. If you happen to be in the position of the enabler I can tell you this do not allow your mind to tell you that you have to help them or they will die, because your "help" is actually killing them and you are 100% the reason they're not getting better. I know this from experience until my father dropped me on my **** and I watched not only the pain that it caused him but then I had to face my own mess/clean my life up myself, I finally realized it had gone too far and it was time to fix my life you have to let them do it and it's hard to watch somebody who love struggle, but theres just no other way my friend.
@AMERICANWOMAN301
Ай бұрын
Your allegory was surreal..... I'm a Virgo (frog) going thru exactly what your reading says with a Scorpio.
@demoncat-56
Ай бұрын
Thanks for giving heart felt truth.
@dianemallon7207
Ай бұрын
Thank you Butch. My friend has no intention of addressing his addiction. The guilt from having to set boundaries is intense, but only he can want to do it. Incredibly sad to witness his demise 🙏 you made me release my tears here
@KevJaques
Ай бұрын
yep its a fable, stinging is in the nature of the scorpion so if someone exhibits that behaviour they get cut off quicker than a quick fit fitter ;)
@rosejones5445
Ай бұрын
That is a good story ❤️ Love and friendship. Thank you so much!
@sherylhokianga2649
Ай бұрын
Self Denial!!!..I'm Ignoring It!..But, Still Wanna Help Him!❤
@reginahanson2186
Ай бұрын
I have been in this situation. I am not any longer. Thank you Butch ❤
@jillykz
Ай бұрын
The moral of the story is Don't go out with Scorpios LOL JK ;)
@opharahanglin9624
Ай бұрын
So so so true 👍
@gherbie7705
Ай бұрын
Hey easy now not true! Virgo Sun Scorpio rising
@opharahanglin9624
Ай бұрын
@@gherbie7705 big up scorpio ♏️ 🤪. For real. Do not change. Thank you.
@rinareyes3222
Ай бұрын
❤🎉 Thanks Butch🎉Clarity. And Honesty are a must🎉
@tawnywhitney140
Ай бұрын
Spot in Butch it's a Sagittarius can't quit his acholol addiction been through this before with someone who passed away from this addiction not doing it again. Being a Virgo always wanting to save people. I know it doesn't work like that 🙏😞
@tawnywhitney140
Ай бұрын
Spot on I mean I don't have edit on my comments
@CameraShii86
Ай бұрын
This wholllleeeeeeee read was so spot on!!!!!!!!!!
@daddyp810
Ай бұрын
Butch, I looked and looked and looked for someone who reads cards that resonate with me. Every single time I have watched your videos they have been so damn spot on. Word for word conversations we’ve had. I really wish I watched this one yesterday.im so happy to let go of this person.
@leilashlosser9384
Ай бұрын
Thanks for the analogy. It really makes sense. I’ve broken up with them. But he keeps coming back to try to get my attention. I have to let him go
@lalogonzalez8536
Ай бұрын
Yo I use 2 watch u when I was at my lowest point bk in 2022 now am more grateful than ever thanks 2 u🎉
@barbarameyer8134
Ай бұрын
Yes This Is A Friendship Yes There Is To Much Going On With Him Yes Butch So On Point Too Many Secrets
@barbarameyer8134
Ай бұрын
Thank You Dear Butch For This Reading
@barbarameyer8134
Ай бұрын
You can't Change A Person They Need To Change Themselves Yes I Tried Butch Yes He Needs Me Yes It's A Friendship Yes There Is To Much Going On With This Person
@gertrudemccray8115
Ай бұрын
Always enjoy you sharing your personal stories ❤
@detjaggillar8081
Ай бұрын
My holy this reading was really 🎯💥👊 And the metafor-story was Spot On too 👍
@hannahhaley5250
Ай бұрын
Thank you, Butch. Your ability to pick up on things is uncanny. Hope you’re doing well!
@christinacashady3421
Ай бұрын
I seriously needed this right now.. Thank you for the confirmation 🙌🙌🙌
@JenRodriguez-sk4sz
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. It helped. I needed to hear it.
@divinesigns84
Ай бұрын
Wow thank you❤ just confirmed everything I've known and felt for a long time, not that I really needed confirmation but you could not have been more accurate . Thank you 😊
@user-wy9xc6mi6q
Ай бұрын
Michigan virgo, water energy, lady of the lakes❤
@christietuyetmainigro8868
Ай бұрын
Butch how resonating! Im currently dealing with an ♏ who has a pronography problem in the last 27 years and Im ready to walk out 10 years ago!
@naxalyn
Ай бұрын
I feel this deeply due to being actually dumped from a wonderful and fulfilling connection I had with them. So in truth, I am worried that he may ask again and then get dumped once more. I definitely feel the hot and cold zones with this situation, I do want to have hopes for the best but I do feel the worst when thinking about it. So just been thinking of my future, as in career and my life. I just want them to focus on themselves before committing to an actual relationship again. And yes technically we are trying to be friends. So wish me luck, cuz idk how this road trip will go. Thanks for the lovely reading, it helps with boosting my guard up on this matter.
@HelenMcCoy-ie8xx
Ай бұрын
❤ Great reading Butch. I've wasted 2.5 years on Pisces, hot, cold, in, out, I love you, I don't, I want my Independence, but I miss you, yes he's got addiction Alcohol, he's a functioning alcohol, he's not aggressive towards me. I see potential in him, as he can be caring, loving sensitive, but then he goes all cold. I waited, helped, gave all my time to helping him try understand he can be a much better person, but he left me down BIG TIME, 1st when I had an operation, he wasn't there for me. 2nd My dog, my soulmate died last week, he knew that dog was my world, he again wasn't there for me, oh he said he was sorry about the dog, but said he'd come round help me get through the 1st day/night but he was a NO SHOW 😢, so I'm done 100%, I've walked away in the past and always went back, but this is the straw that broke the camel's back, we broke up at Christmas, so we were just meant to be friends now, but friends are supposed to be there for you, he's no friend of mine, I'm OUT.
@SuperChicago101
Ай бұрын
Been in your exact position. Glad I separated three years ago. I dont know myself with the " peace and quiet" in the house. A functioning Alcoholic will always let you down. I wish you the very best, stay strong ,you deserve so much better!!
@lanamays7136
Ай бұрын
I'm sorry hear that, I'm dealing with Pisces now and we Bern talking for a year on 8/12. He so hot then s cold I was just looking for a sign because I Been feeling he's going thur drinking cycle again. I'm wishing you best break the cycle . I'm trying not to get deep in . Thanks for sharing
@madredelmarrockypoint463
Ай бұрын
Thank you Butch!! I am Virgo Rising , I wrote under Aquarius, ( my moon sign) about what is going on... THIS READING has to play into what I wrote on Aquarius... as Leo has always been a Big drinker. He needs Healing and only HE can make it happen.
@RisingPhoenix81
Ай бұрын
Love the stories...You have a heart of Gold...❤
@NicchiSee-xv3os
Ай бұрын
Thank you soooo much for your honesty and genuine concern
@user-yb4cn5rg4i
Ай бұрын
Very clear message, thank you ❤
@christiemcglocklin5111
Ай бұрын
Lies & SECRETS are like CHOKEING & DROWNING IN YOUR OWN VOMIT.
@KatieBurke-qu1mk
Ай бұрын
Thank you... Butch...❤
@karenparker605
Ай бұрын
Omg you are soo right about this guy I just met. Wants a relationship but runs hot and cold. I think he has a sex and alcohol addiction but you’re right he hides it. I’m over it. He’s a Gemini too
@sherylhokianga2649
Ай бұрын
Scopios R 2 Deadly! lol
@wounded-bird
Ай бұрын
This hit HARD. Thanks, Butch😊
@gaildisantis5343
Ай бұрын
Breaks my heart ❤… and I know this is true..
@yvonneboutin5152
Ай бұрын
Yup iv walked away too im a virgo
@aubreyfreeman1000
Ай бұрын
Love ❤you brother, lol I am the frog, he is a scorpion! Thank you for your beautiful stories
@mekylieme
Ай бұрын
Butch, thank you for this, so much. I needed to hear this and it has triple-confirmed how I'm feeling. Sex addiction is horrid and destructive.
@JRSS-uv6ew
Ай бұрын
Kia Ora ❤ long time ♍😁your dad says hi son yes we love to help and teach the truth 😁r awesome BUTCH WE LOVE CANCERS ❤❤❤❤❤ havd a huge heart. Sending you love from the Divine 🎉❤
@dominiquelavoie6648
Ай бұрын
Thanks for the knowledge reading, it was good to hear it even if knowing? 🎉❤
@carriecook1032
Ай бұрын
Thank you Butch. Have a fantastic weekend. 😊❤
@anique1031
Ай бұрын
🎯 Thanks Butch! Sadd but true. Moving on, deserve better. 💔
@Shayy.smithh13
Ай бұрын
this just brought me to a huge realization. wow, thank you.
@dorienightingale5779
Ай бұрын
Thank you❤
@bridgetmcgovern1631
Ай бұрын
So on point!! Thank you
@Angels444.
Ай бұрын
Resonates. Ty so much for the guidance.
@butchtarot5730
Ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@user-lp8xv3gs5x
19 күн бұрын
Good afternoon. Love ur readings
@patriciabukator2622
Ай бұрын
Thanks for the truth
@melissakefalos3843
Ай бұрын
Wow this was spot on and it sucks bc I don't want to let him go but I know I have to .. 😢
@therawestvirg
Ай бұрын
Thank you, confirmation!
@JenniferSmithBurak
Ай бұрын
appreciate the confirmation Butch. thank you 🙏
@themirkaaa1009
Ай бұрын
You are soooooo goooood!!!
@frenchloveboutique5853
Ай бұрын
Hey Butch , hope you are doing well.❤
@konradbukowski4899
Ай бұрын
Good reading 👌
@mariasauze6072
Ай бұрын
Thank you 👏🏻good reading
@butchtarot5730
Ай бұрын
Welcome!
@shrikadebideen5278
Ай бұрын
He a saturtrius and Virgo Humm so true
@user-yk7ok7sp8f
Ай бұрын
Bless you. You should have been my big brother. Xx
@JRSS-uv6ew
Ай бұрын
WHANAU BRO 😎. Absolutely 💯💯im a Therapist I'm straight up 😅 exactly 💯💯
@JRSS-uv6ew
Ай бұрын
Im a Indigo VIRGO ♍🤟
@user-hw8go6xo1f
Ай бұрын
So on point ❤
@christiemcglocklin5111
Ай бұрын
Dishonesty leads to KAIOS & CONFUSION.
@devinelyguidedangel4334
Ай бұрын
Crosswatcher pisces here. I love virgo with my whole heart. We were making a life, plans, memories together. Out of no where virgo left me to go back to his ex wife. He told me he was broken and needed to heal. He told me he missed his wife and there life. When said all that and just disappeared he completely let me down, im crushed. He left all his stuff in my house. He cut me off and threw everything we created in the gutter. I can not trust him if he did come back because i know he will not let his past go. So, as much as i want to continue believing in the lies i have to go. Im getting on plane and moving 3k miles away. I dont trust myself to say no to him because i am in love with him and all he will do is play games with me. Im really really hurting over what happened. I dont even think he really loved me.
@VeronicaJenkins-jn6rg
Ай бұрын
Ty
@sherylhokianga2649
Ай бұрын
I Think I Jus May Know Of That Person!..And, I Think!..U R Rite!..2 Much Going On In His Head Where He Is!..I Would Feel The Same!.. If, I Was Where He Is! Thanks!..It Makes Sense 2 Me!😮❤❤
@rafen1187
Ай бұрын
That's sad, find your strength and self worth if you're going to be picking up the pieces of your 💔 alone 😢
@dobedobewop
Ай бұрын
Yes this is my ex. Weve been seperated 6 years. He is an addict and it's hurt me so much. I know he can't be honest or in our lives. I did see the potential in him. Idont want to be with him, I just wanna see him do well. I feel guilty for letting him go knowing he won't create a good life for himself. I don't know how to let go of the guilt it feels like I chose my life over his death even though he's still alive. I know he won't change but it's very hard. Thank you for this message I needed it today.
@briannathomasprotopia7048
Ай бұрын
I’m Scorpio and love with a Virgo man I don’t know what happened tbh we just couldn’t get over the hump
@summercherie1748
Ай бұрын
You seem to be describing the apocalypse of my life... he was everything bad in a HUMAN He was a Master Trickster ET AL and GOD FINALLY TOOK HIM OUT SO HE IS FACING HIS JUDGMENT DAY AMEN
@patriciabukator2622
Ай бұрын
He has bipolar and drug addiction but we only dated..he is with someone else he is a Scorpio
@amiraoukaci295
Ай бұрын
yes i know he lying to me, i keep living from stress to stress until i lost myself and all i think about is rest and sleep, i pray TO HAVE THE STRENGTH to leave him and never soften when they chase me, because i did so many times until now, and yes he is an alcoholic, he is verbally abusive
@darlawarmann8623
Ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@llcrose7568
Ай бұрын
multiple addictions due to childhood sexual trauma. anything to block the pain. I can't turn my back.
@nukagirl2823
Ай бұрын
I'm a Leo woman and got none of this me and my Virgo man are good this is not me lol 😢😅
@meconley7021
Ай бұрын
No, I don't know
@jazzyj784
Ай бұрын
Wow I’m dealing with a Sagittarius who is dealing with addictions and he is definitely hot and cold with me. I feel like he definitely is hiding shit from me bout the fact that he sneaking and getting drugs
@kerrynrich6816
Ай бұрын
Divorced now Butch ,moved on bless
@Catlover62150
Ай бұрын
Hi Butch
@FriaMelissa
Ай бұрын
hot and cold a player type shit
@clown_Atlas
Ай бұрын
A 🦂 jumped kermit 🐸 in the desert he was never the same after
@shannongrooms2780
Ай бұрын
I want to like this, but I like seeing 777 views 💓✨
@briandesrocher6882
Ай бұрын
You hit me and my exact 15 year off And on I’m Virgo she narcissist addicted Scorpio. Every detail is what she has done and what i have done and im the funding for my and her addiction she never has paid for any….. any I have
@marinachristian3068
Ай бұрын
It's family and a former jealous coworker working with them.
@XiaoGuanYin104
Ай бұрын
Yes. He is a narcissist. He is a workaholic. And i have gone no contact.
@domjay
Ай бұрын
I didn't wanna hear it, but now that I'm listening, it's all pretty much true. Thank god I didn't have sex with them LoL - I'm not losing out on much except a lil bit of my time and energy, nothing that I can't bounce back from. Time to get back to what makes me, me. I just wanted to feel what it's like to be seen as the epicenter of someone else's life. I just wanted that feeling, but ok, time to evolve and face the music, it's not gonna happen with this individual. At least I kept my power and kept my pants on.
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