An update on my Equilibria code! "micheljanse50" lasts through 1/31 at this link: myeq.info/3edN2LO BUT THEN I have a different code starting in February if you are watching this at a later date! "micheljanse" will still get 15% off new orders after our 50% off code expires
@kaiw522
2 жыл бұрын
I just signed up for the Sleep bundle!! So excited to get it in the mail. I also had previously ordered the Be Token when you had recommended them before but I stopped ordering them. I could see the positive effect CBD had on my stress though so I definitely need to keep it up.
@maryjohomoelle600
2 жыл бұрын
Michel! Thank you so much for the recommendation for Equilibria again! I know you have before, but I finally ordered some since your promo code was alittle higher for stand alone items this time. An interesting video idea would be for you to compare some of the brands you’ve used. ie BeToken vs. equilibrium, different makeup products you’ve used, Vellabox vs. book club (or another candle subscription box).
@triciavivian8765
2 жыл бұрын
Sweet Michel, on days where you feel like you should "be over it already", remember that it took time to develop feelings, decide to get married, and live all those life experiences. Give yourself grace for taking time to end those things as well. Grief of losing a loved one still hits new years later, and ending a relationship can feel that way too. Praying for you and all that you're going through right now. We appreciate your vulnerability 🙏🏼❤️
@penelopepivots3156
2 жыл бұрын
So true! Sweet Advice!💞
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
You are so right, thank you for these words🤍
@cyn572
2 жыл бұрын
I too went through a divorce and this is the quote that helped me get through it. Thought I’d share it with you. “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect.” Hang in there. Life does get better.
@erin9110
2 жыл бұрын
Grief isn't a linear process. It's the shedding of expectations and hopes that we have to let go of. Be kind to yourself on the sad days ❤
@NikitaUnique
2 жыл бұрын
It’s been just shy of 7 YEARS since my husband left me. To this day, I STILL have moments of related emotions that hit me randomly. They don’t rule my life anymore, thankfully, but they still happen, and they’re hard when they do. Things take time, and there is no specific set amount of time that works for everyone. We are unique, and it’s all in God’s time. Rest in His healing hands and give yourself some grace. 🙏🏻❤️
@aksez2u
2 жыл бұрын
I've heard grief described as a ball of pain in a box. Every time the ball hits a side of the box, it caused a wave of pain, but over time the box gets bigger and bigger and so the wave of pain comes less and less often, but can still strike without warning.
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
This is SO helpful to think of it that way🤍
@aksez2u
2 жыл бұрын
@@MichelJanse ❤️
@StudioBDesignsCA
2 жыл бұрын
Hi there. The grieving process is not linear, so don't be so hard on yourself. Love your Vlogs.
@loudlittleroar675
2 жыл бұрын
So true...
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Tammy 🤍
@mindya658
2 жыл бұрын
Michel, PLEASE don’t be so hard on yourself. You are going to grieve for a long time. Maybe not all the time but it takes a while. You had a major loss and lost someone you loved very much. I find myself looking for your blogs everyday and love watching you and seeing how awesome you are doing taking your life back. I am so proud of you! YOU ROCK! 🥰❤️
@TaylorLikesPink
2 жыл бұрын
When you showed the thank you note and the last look at the ring I cried. Going through a divorce myself and trying so hard to stay positive with a broken heart. Thank you for sharing and being so real. I appreciate you 💖 (tears, tears, tears just typing this)
@sallyniemzyk6964
2 жыл бұрын
Hey Sweet Michel, divorce is a loss...it's OK to say no and cancel. Anyone that knows you and what you have been through will understand that there are good days and bad days. You have a journey you have to get through, and those moments when you need to be with loved ones, or not in the mood for whatever...it is part of the healing process! Take those moments, because you need it!
@christinevaughan2700
2 жыл бұрын
Michel, I have tears in my eyes for you when you made the realization about how hard you were trying back in those old videos. It was apparent to me and probably most that you were giving, giving, giving way more than you received. Although bittersweet, I feel you will continue to soar without that heavy ring burden. Keep being you- I’m loving watching your glow up happening before our eyes!💕
@kcourtney6826
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for showing the “real moments” anyone looking at you would assume you have it altogether with no worries, instead of a human being with your own personal struggles. I think it’s good looking at your past videos, although elicited some sad emotions, you did feel empathetic for yourself at that moment in time. It can only go up from here.
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for allowing me to share the messy moments too. It means a lot🥰
@msgarciamayorca
2 жыл бұрын
I haven’t gone through a divorce but for some reason, when you were explaining your feelings about looking at yourself in past vlogs and thought to yourself “I feel for that girl, she’s trying so hard” Omg that hit me. In my own Relationship I can see picture perfect photos and think “It’s so funny how people doesn’t know about the argument that happened 15 minutes before the picture was taken or the tears I shed for X or Y reason just before the picture was taken or the struggles that we were going through at that moment and those miles were pretty much forced”. At the. end of the day I think what matters is your happiness and I’m so glad you have this outlet.
@heyshay3337
2 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't be "over it" you should be whatever you need to feel at that moment in time. You definitely need to put yourself first and real friends will understand that. Glad you're feeling better 😊
@joancottam6956
2 жыл бұрын
Grief has no time limit! He hurt you deeply it shows…. It’s ok to not to be ok sometimes!!! It’s so fresh for you!! Take care and no worries!!!
@LStottmann
2 жыл бұрын
Even if these issues and talks with your ex started a year ago, it doesn’t mean you should be over it already. You are so young so you spent a good percentage of your life with someone who was a constant. Like you said grief isn’t linear and for some divorce takes years and years and years to start over emotionally. You are okay exactly where you are. Plus you don’t have To be proud of yourself everyday for Pushing forward. Some days you should be proud of yourself for getting nothing done and crying all day, it heals the soul. We are all rooting for you!
@marybaranowski4175
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t be hard on yourself. What your going through is like a death. You will grieve, it’s the death of a relationship. Grieving is different for everyone and the time and length are different. No need to apologize for your feelings. You are doing amazing and that’s to be congratulated. Bless you and know you are cared for by so many.
@erin7306
2 жыл бұрын
There's no right or wrong way to be sad. It's okay to be sad. We will ride it out with you so when you feel less sad, we'll still be here for it.
@denisea5429
2 жыл бұрын
I've got you on my prayers list, there is nothing you can't get through. You are equipped with everything you have need of, lean into your faith. ❤️🙏🏽 This Mama is standing with you. 💐🙂🙏🏽 Better days are coming.
@jillhayth7921
2 жыл бұрын
Michel, my 28ryold daughter just broke up with her boyfriend/live-in partner of 5yrs! Processing the grief is hard. Learning how to live on her own is hard. I think you are going to be a great help and resource for her. Thank you, and wishing you both love, happiness and peace. ❤️
@jadedoe9966
2 жыл бұрын
Some of us are so lucky to have parents we can always run home to when shit hits the fan ❤️ I forget sometimes so many people don’t have that :/
@jeanneewaseck6635
2 жыл бұрын
Amen! I was going to say that - or at least, start with that ...... Because, as you said, dear Mila Rose, "when shit hits the fan", we ALL need that safe space to "run away to" - be it a coffee shop, a certain park (I've had those #rooseveltpark ), or - like in this phase of my life, when both my parents are deceased, and I'm an only child - my dear friend Joanne's.
@jamesfv1
2 жыл бұрын
I’m one of those people. It sucks, we kind of just run to ourselves.
@jeanneewaseck6635
2 жыл бұрын
@@jamesfv1 Find your place.
@katieann5546
2 жыл бұрын
And don't forget.... you lost a relationship, but that loss is the chance to gain relationships and experiences you otherwise would have lost out on! You gained a tremendous amount of life experience and learned alot about yourself and your self worth during your marriage. Now you are a brand new, shinier, smarter Michel!!!! MICHEL 2.0 has alot of new and exciting opportunities waiting for her to get out there and take hold of!!!! Have fun Michel!!!!
@penelopepivots3156
2 жыл бұрын
So true! I'm 60 & I want to be adopted by them!😂
@Katie-qg7xz
2 жыл бұрын
Grief is never linear and will always surprise you. It is the nature of the beast. You are perfectly on time.
@tarigeorge6122
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, this!
@silverlimosine
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never actually been moved to tears by watching anyone else on KZitem talk about their feelings. But watching you in this video made me cry. I completely understand what you were saying when you felt bad for yourself for trying so hard. I’m praying for you, I just know you’re going to get better. It takes a year or two, but from what I see in your videos, you’re already so far ahead of where most would be.
@Raven-uh5pl
2 жыл бұрын
You have the best family to love and support you during these hard times. Give yourself grace to navigate your new (and eventually much better) reality. You will gain so much strength and self love from this experience. *hugs from Virginia
@maceylynn6344
2 жыл бұрын
After every vlog you share I always just want to tell you that I’m so proud of you. It’s a weird world where I genuinely care about a person whom I only know off the internet but I admire you and wholeheartedly enjoy all the time you share with your followers! Cheers to you Michel and may our good God continue to bless you and comfort you in this season❤️
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
This made my heart swell. So thankful for you🤍
@marissavergara768
2 жыл бұрын
So happy you are able to visit your parents when needed. "I should be over it by now" is what I kept saying months after I had a miscarriage in 2019. I happened upon a sign where I worked and it said something along the lines of "grief has no expiration date/time limit." Of course I started bawling my eyes out. It's probably going to take long than you expected. Praying over you.
@elecops9825
2 жыл бұрын
My heart aches for you, and what you're going through. We are all following your journey, through the good times and bad. Whilst it is uplifting to see the days like that strong, positive day you had, I completely understand that it's not realistic to expect you to be happy every day.
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
Love you Ele, thank you for being such a great friend 🤍
@agnieszkaphan7571
2 жыл бұрын
I want to say thank you! Your vlogs really help me during my break up with fiancé and learn to live alone. Thank you so much ❤️
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
So much love your way, friend 🤍
@beccavanderkooy8895
2 жыл бұрын
There is not a time frame for grief. It’s been 13 years this year since my mom decided to choose my abusive step father over me for the final time and I still grieve. I still have moments that the sadness randomly creeps up on me. I know you know these things but hopefully you can come back to these comments when you get in that mindset and remind yourself to give yourself grace. Thank you for showing us the raw moments. I am so glad you have your family and a community. When I was going through my loss I didn’t have anyone, especially not family, and it was exceptionally difficult.
@beautygirlsguide
2 жыл бұрын
Sending you all the love girl! Don't be so hard on yourself! You are grieving and that will come in waves but give yourself grace! You gave your whole heart to someone and it takes time for it to heal
@isawthesign4421
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you! You did so many big things in this vlog! I've been going through a rough time lately with my mental health and seeing you persevere has really helped me. Seeing your struggle but also your determination had helped so much. I cleaned out my fridge today. I did the dishes. I reorganized my pantry. I went grocery shopping and meal prepped for the week. And I reorganized my cabinets. Thank you
@RachelsMemos
2 жыл бұрын
Michel, this is off subject. But, I feel like you’ve a straight line to our Father. And, I need PRAYERS for my Mom! Anyone reading this please pray for her to heal and come home.. this home. I need her, please tell Him I need her!! Thank you! I’m so happy for your growth, you’re truly doing amazing. The D word is TOUGH! My prayers are with you for peace and happiness! You’re on your way and shining through it!
@118jar
2 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking you watched your old self and those old suspicions, doubt, feeling of trying so hard, feeling rejection etc. brought your old pains back. I'm so glad you are doing so well & are happy now.
@karik726
2 жыл бұрын
I lost a significant relationship and it took about a year and a half to stop feeling sad periodically. Do: let the feelings flow when they arise. Hand over heart and tell yourself how much you love you. And it’s ok to feel because your heart works so good. Don’t: put timeframes on your grief. Don’t: Be hard on yourself for feeling feelings because it further imbeds that feeling and takes longer to move past it. ❤️ You got this.
@nataliegarcia73
2 жыл бұрын
Enough people told you that there's no timeline for grief in various ways, just wanna say that we love you and I very much wanted to give you a hug. Emotions are crazy but what makes us human ❤
@coffeeandbookmealdeliveryr1328
2 жыл бұрын
Yea another vlog from my favorite KZitemr I hope ur doing well
@kellyl.3059
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for having the strength to share your raw moments with us. It makes you more personable to be real with us. I love watching these types of videos because it's real life. Please keep making these videos. I wish you the best.
@elecops9825
2 жыл бұрын
You're always cute, Michel! Through rain and shine, your smile remains so bright ☀️
@stone.durfey5862
2 жыл бұрын
Oh darling it's ok to shed tears and feel sad. I still do, for many different reasons. My favorite Aunt's passing, my darling mom, I miss her awful every Christmas. My dad for teaching me loads of handy tips, and for supporting me with his love. I choose to remember happy moments with my husband, instead of the hurtful ones. And there were so many that hurt. I remember thinking that one day I would just run out of tears...but they just keep coming. Some of the hurt gets lighter, as time goes by. Don't forget to take the time to feel the sadness and grow from it. Hugs and a box of tissues 😊💟🌹🌹🌹
@cheri7384
2 жыл бұрын
Michel, I am much older than you but have enjoyed discovering your channel in recent weeks. I have never divorced (marr. 52 yrs. this year) but many years ago I had the worst loss anyone can imagine...I lost my 9 yr. old daughter. I tell you this to say that you should never feel guilty for having "sad" or "bad" days. None of us can be strong every day. Even after 35 yrs. I still have sad times. Give yourself permission to cry or cancel plans or whatever you need. You are doing wonderfully in my opinion....you are growing each and every day. You have so much learning, loving, growing, experiencing, and so much more ahead of you....grab hold and let God steer the way! You've got this....even on the bad/sad days.
@Raven-uh5pl
2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. As a parent myself, I can’t even imagine that level of pain & hurts to even try. I pray for continued healing for you and your family.
@cheri7384
2 жыл бұрын
@@Raven-uh5pl Thank you so much. I appreciate your thoughtfulness
@cesseward7034
2 жыл бұрын
just don't skip the process of feeling the pain.. it may take awhile,but that too will pass. continue to live each day better than yesterday..you are kind and beautiful . no doubt the world will resonate you in many ways. stay safe.
@thattinyfox
2 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend put those LED strips everywhere in our house 😂 He put some on top of the kitchen counters and underneat them, and we turn them purple to have a party mood when we have people over, it's really nice 😊
@debraalfano2851
2 жыл бұрын
What you are experiencing is like a death and I feel like you have to go through all these firsts to truly heal. I’m glad you put yourself first - nothing better than family ❤️
@jeanniecollier6763
2 жыл бұрын
Michel, grieving either from a death of a loved one or the death of a marriage is not an easy road. Give yourself the ability to go over the speed bumps in this journey a little slower on the days they are hard to maneuver, Just remember we love you and want the best for you and we can always wait on the other side of that speedbump. God has you wrapped in his arms and will help you through this chapter. Hugs!
@ccryder654
2 жыл бұрын
It's been 10 years for me sweetie and I still have bad days. You will always be healing and growing sweetie don't be hard on yourself!!
@corinneburque
2 жыл бұрын
Yay for emotions! I struggle with them too but I keep in mind they remind us we are alive. If we didn’t know sorrow and struggle, we wouldn’t know joy and happiness. Be kind to yourself. You are amazing! Xo
@alexirossi
2 жыл бұрын
You have so much self awareness and it is so beautiful to witness you move through this. Thank you for sharing your journey! ❤
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here on the journey with me🤍
@oliviacurzi4124
2 жыл бұрын
It takes a long time to grieve the loss of what you had. You're crushing it-- give yourself some grace and do what you need to for you.
@sarahcoons648
2 жыл бұрын
"It's like a little lit runway all the way to the toilet" haha! Thank you for your chats on grief, I've been very hard on myself recently and the reminder that it's okay if my healing process looks different from others was needed
@journaledbyjessica7300
2 жыл бұрын
Grief really does come like waves. Sometimes your in the wave and sometimes your not. Sometimes the wave is small and sometimes it is massive. The ocean is vast. And the waves never end but you learn how to ride the waves so they don’t carry you under anymore. You are processing your sadness so gracefully. Thank you for sharing these real moments. It helps to know I’m not alone💜
@christinalarson54
2 жыл бұрын
You have got to be better to yourself girl. You are grieving a loss. There is no time limit or certain way to grieve. It is different for everyone, like our personalities are all different. My brother passed away at 6 years old from cancer. He has been gone for 25 years, and I still have break downs and cry my eyes out. You are growing, getting stronger, and pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. You are doing great. Allow your self those times to cry, without feeling guilty. We all are rooting for you, and are always here for you!
@rebeccastroud7609
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for continuing to share the realness that comes with everything you're going through. I'm dealing with some hard marriage stuff right now too and seeing you share all of this on your platform really helps me feel less alone. Also, cancelling plans is an excellent form of self care. :)
@songs74610
2 жыл бұрын
You are so brave to be so vulnerable online. I am in a relationship where I feel stuck. There are days I feel not respected or valued, verbally abused and don’t have anyone to talk to about it. Actually, I don’t even feel like talking about these feeling anymore. More power to you!
@amys5087
2 жыл бұрын
I like how you keep things real. Everyone (on my FB page) seemingly has perfect lives. I think it's better for each other if we keep it REAL! So sorry you had to join the big group of divorcees. :( It's so painful.
@elecops9825
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, Michel has so much strength and bravery to be this real online. Social media can feel like a highlight reel, only the good times, instead of all the times. One of the many reasons we're all loving Michel's content lately
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
Love you both so much 🥺
@angelicaca.
2 жыл бұрын
i truly love how much effort you put into editing your vlogs. it really shows how much effort you put into planning, editing, and posting your vlog. thank you for being authentic.
@tinacoomer7326
2 жыл бұрын
I think it's great that you recognized you needed to cancel plans to embrace your feelings & go to a safe place (your parents). Also, one tip my Mom gave me years ago about when you go thru a breakup & are feeling sad is to remember why you broke up then you will stop feeling & only going to the so called happy memories. You got this woman! It may not feel like it at times but you do. When I went thru my divorce years ago a customer told me it takes 3 years to get over a divorce...at first I was like he is crazy but he was right! So take your time feel EVERYTHING get it out. Hugs to you!
@queen_b9280
2 жыл бұрын
Omg. I'm going through a separation/divorce too. Yesterday was a bad day AKA character building day....I cried and stayed in bed. I needed that. Today I'm up and doing things. It's ok to allow ourselves to NOT BE OK! We going through a grieving process!we are growing around our grief. Recovery/grief isnt linear.
@19chique
2 жыл бұрын
Michel, don’t rush it. It takes time. And you still are cute. It is perfectly ok to not be ok, sister. Anyone who judges you for what you are going through??? Well all I can say is keep living. I had a break up last Jan 21 that I am still crying over. Give your self LOTS of grace during this time. 🙏🏼 We love you!
@christinagray5952
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly I wasn't "over it" for a long time, and I'm the one who asked for the divorce. It's great that you're pushing yourself a little bit, but don't push yourself to get over it. It just takes time, unfortunately. Love you ❤
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you friend, love you most 🤍
@urresyacreates
2 жыл бұрын
i love u michel 🥺 getting over sadness after a breakup took me almost two years but i truly hope that u'll heal sooner 💔🌼
@athenanagel8335
2 жыл бұрын
Do not feel bad for any of your feelings. It’s okay to cry and it’s okay to hurt. You have to feel these feelings before you can heal from them. Sending you love. 🥰
@medinar5
2 жыл бұрын
Healing is not linear Michel. You are doing the best that you can at any given moment, don’t be too hard on yourself. Remember to show yourself the same grace and love that you show everyone else. 💖
@ashep2310
2 жыл бұрын
You are such a sweet sweet soul and I love watching your videos. I know sometimes life is hard but you truly are such a light in this world. I sure hope your heart finds the peace you deserve sweet girl!
@AnnaMuzaza
2 жыл бұрын
Awweeee bless you… I like the “hi friends, how are you” 🥂 to brighter days. I’ll probably steal the hi friends for my intro on my videos 😅🤍
@amandaellis9656
2 жыл бұрын
Any time you need to talk we are here and happy to listen! ☺️ Thank you for being so open, honest and REAL!! I know exactly what you mean about watching old videos of yourself and feeling bad for yourself at that time! I have been there! Praying for you! You’re doing amazing! 💛
@arlenemacias806
2 жыл бұрын
It’s is not your fault for trying so hard❤️ it is the other person’s fault for not appreciating you because you are Amazing!
@Imaslife
2 жыл бұрын
you have easily become my new favorite comfort youtuber. I love your vlogs!! 🤍
@trinc9015
2 жыл бұрын
I’m going through a grieving from a loss, it’s a process , for like 2 years now and the best way to describe it , is like waves, comes and goes. I feel The same way, when something comes up and reminds me of my grandmother , I keep it to myself and talk to God because I don’t want to talk it over with someone , because I want to control the length of time based on my emotions.
@marymiddleton5324
2 жыл бұрын
You are my favorite youtuber. I love how real you are. Emotional pain I the hardest . Praying for you. We are all here to support you and cheer you on.
@allaboutme418
2 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking that I really wished Michel had a new video out and there it was!
@amybennett1530
2 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@annequeen9926
2 жыл бұрын
I was binge watching and realized a new video came out yay! Michel the next chapter is going to be the best chapter in your life Promise!!
@elecops9825
2 жыл бұрын
@@annequeen9926 Yes! I just know she's building her way to bigger and better things from here!
@AudreyDeary
2 жыл бұрын
So glad that you live near your parents & are able to get some rest with them 💕
@luvsnursing9946
2 жыл бұрын
It’s grief it comes and goes. Some days are good some days are bad. Feel what you feel without apologize. You are so brave for sharing your feelings with others. You no doubt are helping many. It breaks my heart that you are hurting. You are an amazing young woman. Thank you for being so real.
@annezylick3112
2 жыл бұрын
I have always enjoyed your videos…and I thank you for trusting your channel friends with your heart. I hope to can feel all the love and support we all have for you. I think you have handled this season of your life with dignity and grace. Sending you a hug…sometimes that helps 🤗
@montanaamat3145
2 жыл бұрын
Honey..do not put pressure on yourself to “be over it already”. I was married for 3 years and got divorced in October of 2018. And I still have moments just like this every now and then. And that is totally okay. You do get better and those kinds of feelings happen further apart as time goes on but you are still grieving a life that you thought would be forever. It is OKAY to not be perfectly okay right now. Feel the feelings when they come. Ignoring those feelings or pushing them down will only prolong your healing. But there is no timeframe that you have to reach certain milestones in your grieving. You’re doing amazing. Lots of love
@amandajones7554
2 жыл бұрын
The other side of this is amazing....once you find yourself you won't ever lose her again! Keep going I feel your content and life you are sharing now is soooooo much better. The funk will go away...I promise!
@ariellehansen1098
2 жыл бұрын
Oh Michel, this one hit home for me. I went through my divorce years ago and I still weep out of nowhere every once in a while if I think about that sweet girl who just loved and tried so hard. Who wanted to do everything to make her relationship work. Who loved selflessly. Who was gaslit, neglected, lied to, and betrayed. I, myself, and well over it but I still ache for the person I was. Additionally, I now and remarried and have a 5 month old and when I watch you with your parents I am so inspired about the parent I want to be and how I want to support my children. And how I want them to feel about me and themselves. Sending you all lots of love ♥️
@Nad_H
2 жыл бұрын
This broke my heart but I totally understand it. Even now married and 5 years on I think of how I was when my ex left me out of nowhere and I get so sad for the person I was and how someone made me feel back then, it can be odd feeling sad for your past self. But you are doing what helps you heal and that’s all that matters ❤️ you are such a ray of sunshine even through all of this xx
@sax_25
2 жыл бұрын
Michel, you’re in mourning and mourning occurs in waves. It’s okay to feel how you need to feel. Feel it and then you can work on letting go. Don’t rush the process. As much you may want to, it’s a journey. Praying for you.
@trina6256
2 жыл бұрын
We are going to DIY your lighting for the bathroom… think it looks so cool… and beats a nightlight!!! Thank you for sharing the tip!!!😍
@mekylienguyen4482
2 жыл бұрын
When you said, "I love you" at the beginning, I felt that in my heart. 🥺♥️ I'm a new subscriber and have loved your vlogs. You're so real and genuine. 🙂
@stephaniemusick1889
2 жыл бұрын
Just wanna give you a big ol hug. My heart breaks for you. But, you handle yourself and situations with such grace. On the bad days, remember, you have so many of us that truly love you and care for you. Just keep talking it out because we are here to listen and pray with and for you. You're and angel and in my prayers always. Take care.
@ednagordner9061
2 жыл бұрын
Oh Michel, I’m so sorry ur going through this, there is NO time frame on “getting over it”, you will heal when ur ready. We love u and are always here for you. ❤️
@jaimimelissa7495
2 жыл бұрын
I just love your thoughtful dad. He cares so deeply for you. ❤️ The shoe shelves were a great idea. Thank you for the honest and vulnerable vlog. I am growing with you. 🥰
@emmy8526
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, huge deal parting with the ring. Well done! Embrace what’s good in the present and your future with one less thing tethering you to a regret.
@elecops9825
2 жыл бұрын
I really love your car chats, feels like I'm chatting with a friend 😊
@joanneedwards5630
2 жыл бұрын
Aw you still looked cute, even with being upset. Praying for you over here in Scotland. Thanks for being so brave in your openness. We are with you.
@vickycarter1713
2 жыл бұрын
Those shoes shelves look great! I nearly gasped when you said something like 'I should be over it now, it's been a couple of months'. Good on you for being so brave, I'm not sure if I am even over my previous relationships from a long time ago. Whatever works for you but no need to rush or put a time pressure on it. Really enjoying your content (but not wishing for you to feel sad etc of course).
@tonyaboggs5367
2 жыл бұрын
There is no set time limit on how long it takes you to feel okay and happy. You have been through so much. It's going to take time and allow yourself to take as much time as you need. You're smart I know you know that. But we are all here for you and thank you for being so open. You're so pretty and so amazing so smart. I'm so happy that I found you on KZitem . your inspiring
@jenna1879
2 жыл бұрын
Love the bathroom light hack! I just have a cheap plug in night light and it is not cute at all. Keeping that DIY trick in mind for the future!!
@03bferrell
2 жыл бұрын
Honey you are doing great! I know that what you are going through is different from my own experience but after almost ten years I can sometimes experience something about my husband since his passing and it can make me sad or reflective. Don’t beat yourself up it hasn’t been that long and grief has stages and takes times.
@bethbowker2289
2 жыл бұрын
So proud of you for putting yourself first, for letting yourself feel all the things, and for realizing that this takes time. Grief is not linear therefore healing isn't linear. You were with your ex for years, it takes more than a couple months so heal all that. Keep holding onto the hope Michel!
@marissah3125
2 жыл бұрын
I COMPLETELY get it!!!! I’m the same way. I’ll have a few good days and think it’s behind me and the next second I’ll be crying and so anxious. It makes me wonder if I’ll ever be happy. I would have done the same thing as you…stayed away from questions. Go somewhere i won’t have to fake being happy, or talk for hours about what’s bothering me when what i really need is just to talk, be heard and then carry on. I also usually get out my lavender camomile bath soap, lotion, shampoo and conditioner, candle and a good book and hot tea. Then i snuggle under the covers and soothe myself thru the day. I’m sending you big hugs!!! You truly are doing amazing job of balancing self care and important responsibilities
@katiecourreges
2 жыл бұрын
Oh Michel, don't be so hard on yourself. Sending hugs from France. Also, I have been enjoying the 'new' and flourishing Michel vlogs.
@kzfingerprint
2 жыл бұрын
This entire video is SO relatable. Thank you for willing to be vulnerable and authentic. ❤️ Btw, idk if anyone who can process a several years long relationship, let alone marriage, in a few months. Give yourself time. I adore you.
@carmanwilliams8278
2 жыл бұрын
Michel, I found myself crying a little when you said "I did this" talking about choosing to go back and watch the video you did. You sounded as though you think you've done something wrong. You haven't! Don't mistake being wrong for being human. It's wonderful that you went a couple of weeks without a sad day. I have come to embrace sad/low days too. Think of it this way..........although we don't want or enjoy going through them, those days give us a very special moment.....if you never "fall" or hit a sad low, you'll never know what it feels like to be embraced and comforted and picked back up. Love during happy days is still good, but it's the love shown on the sad/low days that sticks with us....carries us. So keep looking forward. Keep being human. Keep soaking up that love whenever you have to be picked up and gently dusted off :)
@patriciamurray1720
2 жыл бұрын
One baby step at a time .. you are a beautiful soul & your someone will come when the time is right and will appreciate all of who you are ❤️
@MsMooselet
Жыл бұрын
You are the sweetest and kindest person ever.
@maryhefferman5571
2 жыл бұрын
You have to take it one step at a time. You will stumble but you need to at times to see where you are at. Don't be too hard on yourself because you need to morn that . Praying for you. 💖
@patricialimaco5181
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing with us. I can’t imagine your strength in putting this out there. I feel the same way ending a long term relationship. It’s been months and I still have days like that - today being one and I get so annoyed with myself for letting it still hurt and make me cry but grief isn’t linear and we deserve grace in these moments to feel what we have to. Hugs to you
@MichelJanse
2 жыл бұрын
Hugs right back at you too, friend 🤍
@JadeWeiss
2 жыл бұрын
Although what your experiencing isn’t a situation I’ve been through but it’s incredibly important to give yourself the grace you give others. Grief can be many things & goes through waves of different emotions. Sending you love from Montréal, Canada 🤍
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