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@capslapsmac
Ай бұрын
Has the email been sent out? It said it would be sent out 10AM CST but I can’t find it 😭 sorry I’m just really excited. I’m looking forward to it!
@capslapsmac
Ай бұрын
YAY! I just got it! Everyone check your email if you haven’t already 😁
@catsotorious
Ай бұрын
Hey, Caleb, are you guys proxying the ages too as well as their names?
@mimojones6801
Ай бұрын
The atm withdrawals have a double fee. The $23 is a 3 dollar fee for $20 plus a $2 fee. His bank and the ATM bank have charged separate fees. He spent $25 to use $20..That's like 25% on demand interest.
@barbarathomson131
Ай бұрын
😊
@Gobbledi_Gook
Ай бұрын
I can’t fathom openly admitting that your relationship is “on the out” and “alright at best” right after you said you’re wanting a second child. This is insane.
@nicholasgutierrez9940
Ай бұрын
People have kids to cope with life. Because a lot of people are missing that emotional bond they never had with their own family. So they try to create one with their kids. Except that doesn't work because they have no idea how to make that bond healthy. Very rare it works out.
@jackie8357
Ай бұрын
She was just complaining about being a stay at home parent - make it make sense
@@jackie8357 looking for outward joy in others. Puts kids in a situation to please their parents always while they stifle their own individuality and future.
@LilySaintSin
Ай бұрын
This! 💯@@samanthafreeman4315
@KevinSkye1
Ай бұрын
I like how almost disgusted she looked when Caleb say they were lower middle class. Like girl, you dropped out of school and you don't know what tax credits are. Calm down.
@divine_mortality
Ай бұрын
😂
@Jackpott84
Ай бұрын
Truth hurts more than anything
@D3athN0t3
22 күн бұрын
Just because she dropped out or didn’t know specific terms doesn’t have to be the reason to feel offended by hearing you’re less. It’s only natural to feel that way.
@jimipet
21 күн бұрын
Excluding student loans, if you are still in the minus net wealth you shouldnt even be considered middle class, so Caleb telling her she is lower middle class is an actual upgrade of her position.
@RodneyE.9491
21 күн бұрын
😂
@crystalm2316
Ай бұрын
"My mom always said". Girl your mom told you to drop out of school and work full time! I wouldn't listen to a single thing she says.
@cindy-ml7vo
Ай бұрын
She didn't finish high school. She needs to get her GED while she is a stay at home mom.
@mw6346
Ай бұрын
Exactly! She could be doing that online for free and it would very much benefit them WHEN she has to go back to work.
@VictorianPearls88
Ай бұрын
@@cindy-ml7vo Nowadays high school drop outs have schooling programs where they can get a high school diploma, apparently there’s now options. These options weren’t accessible or a possibility when I was graduated high school just 10 years ago. It used to be you dropped out, the best you’d be and to get is a GED. Period. Point blank. Do I necessarily agree with being able to obtain a full high school diploma if you drop out? No, because when I was in school I knew of very few who actually did commit to dropping out (Less than a handful of people in my entire 9-12 student body) because of the idea that you could only obtain a GED. Now I’ve seen a hugeeee amount of high schoolers dropping out compared to in the past because they can get a legit diploma eventually.
@NikkiCassagne
Ай бұрын
@VictorianPearls88 I don't know where you're from but that's not true everywhere in the US. I dropped out 11 years ago, got my GED the same school year, and started college in what should have been my senior year of high-school. I earned a certificate and 2 degrees. Nobody even asks me if I have a high school diploma anymore and I never took an ACT or SAT
@BananaHMouse
Ай бұрын
“No but the government pays for your babies if you’re not married” immediately followed by “do I owe them now cause I had a baby?!” Please somebody stop these creatures from popping out more children because we inch closer to Idiocracy every damn day
@DMort22
Ай бұрын
Or she could just check off the box that says her highest level of education is highschool during applications since literally no job has ever checked to see if you actually graduated high school or asked for any proof. Just a thought 🤷♂️
@Pico_444
Ай бұрын
Imagine growing up poor and you watch the video of your parents admitting they would rather drink soda than financially take care of you
@Britt4880
Ай бұрын
Literally going to happen. Hi child in the future 👋🏽 you’re worth more than you got ❤️🩹
@elliotalderson4568
Ай бұрын
@@Britt4880ooof 😅😅😅 and 😢😢😢
@purpurina5663
Ай бұрын
Or that they had you because heck, the govt pays for it
@darkmediatracks
Ай бұрын
😂 facts 💯
@Ross-px9iy
Ай бұрын
And this is why Gen alpha is so messed up because they see everything their millennial parents ever did online since Myspace. Then thinking ooh so my parents were kids just like we are. And they're idiots just older.
@RepuBlicOfChaD
Ай бұрын
The fact she said the government pays for babies pisses me off. People like these should not be having kids!
@cookiesncream8490
Ай бұрын
lmao the government raised them better than their own parents, beyond sad
@TheNitrohurrikane4
Ай бұрын
So a person shouldn't have 1 kid? And get financial help from the government when the government is going to profit on That kid in the future? It's an investment for the government at that point. I understand the people you are talking about, but it can be an incredibly emotional decision on some people to abort a pregnancy as well. It isn't as cut and dry as every single guy in his 20s-30s tries to make it seem. They are incredibly young and the Dad will be there for that kid for life. The Mom has a lot of maturing ahead of her because this sidetracked her professional ambitions if she had them by a lot. Plus she's younger than him and new mothers that are below let's say 25-30 years old generally have an increased chance of suicidal thoughts and emotional and mental health problems. The way she said it is infuriating because of her ignorance though. Financially it's an investment by the government back into the working class. Obviously there are negligent or abusive parents out there that need to be out of their kid's life or not exist at all.
@TheNitrohurrikane4
Ай бұрын
Honestly I got further in and when she said she would prefer a motorcycle over a kid I wanted to chuck my phone.
@RepuBlicOfChaD
Ай бұрын
@@TheNitrohurrikane4 You red pilled yourself!
@TheNitrohurrikane4
Ай бұрын
@@RepuBlicOfChaD Damn it.
@AshtonTheMelon
Ай бұрын
"I knew she was the one." "I was pregnant...so.." Jesus Christ.
@Lucinda_Jackson
Ай бұрын
Very sad. I'm not sure he understood she felt that way until today. He looked a bit stunned.
@elizabethallen4353
Ай бұрын
She's gotta be resentful of letting life happening to her. At a certain point, she'll want to take charge of her life.
@austinjacobsen7689
Ай бұрын
The level of 'it just happens' from these people is reaching new heights....
@yourentrepreneurjourney
Ай бұрын
🤦🏽
@carlfaitware8099
Ай бұрын
They seem to be two ships that passed in the night but one ship got his sperm into her fallopian tubes kinda by accident.
@madkiller234
Ай бұрын
The fact that these two are 21 and 23 blows my mind, they look at least 35+
@nijjaz6532
Ай бұрын
They guy looks young she looks like she partied her whole life
@Queserasera_LaLaLa
Ай бұрын
Gen Z is aging like milk
@Vikinglawson
Ай бұрын
Tell me about it 😅 I was like WTF!!! 21?
@TheSonyExperience
Ай бұрын
@@nijjaz6532it’s probably because he’s white and she’s SNOW White. The extremes of white and black skin don’t hide imperfections as well as tan white to mid to dark skin
@alib7637
Ай бұрын
I thought the same thing IMMEDIATELY. I’m 27 and they look like they have years on me.
@meganszekeres6892
Ай бұрын
She’s blaming the kid for everything, the kid she decided to have, and wants to have another one.
@Teaorwine
Ай бұрын
Right? And she's clearly unhappy being a stay-at-home, which is fine...its absolutely not for anyone, so get a GED and switch up who's the primary caregiver....and don't have any more.
@jcnot9712
Ай бұрын
Stay at home mom with a husband who makes 18/hr sounds like the unrealistic stuff you’d see on an old sitcom and call bs on lol
@danka1167
Ай бұрын
18 an hour in the 50s (peak setting of housewives in sitcoms), is worth a lot. Prices of pretty much everything increased since women started working + inflation obviously.
@baschoen23
Ай бұрын
Yes nut in reality, wages were keeping up with inflation and price gaiuging wasn't as common over the whole market so it WAS realistic!
@Danny-jl2sd
Ай бұрын
And they somehow live in a massive apartment in NYC.
@carlariggs525
Ай бұрын
in the "old" days, somehow young people made it work (with a lot of hardships)"; but it's not a recommended path in todays world. you have to be prepared for everything, including children. there's no room for going rogue, being a rebel, or depending on relatives.
@0h5nap55
Ай бұрын
I have a friend who makes $14.50/hour with a stay at home husband and 2 kids and it's just so rough to see them like that. Any advice goes in one ear and out the other so I've just tried to be amicable so that I can check on the kids every now and then.
@tippigirl4487
Ай бұрын
I’m SO SICK of these just 20 year olds saying “I don’t want to be 50 and have a 10 year old” guess what I’ll be 50 with an 11 year old. And he has a huge inheritance, will have a fully funded college education (if he wants) and has two stable parents who provide a stable financial life. Sometimes it’s better to have your life together BEFORE starting a family
@JohanCody
Ай бұрын
Geriatric pregnancies are dangerous.
@Bootyeater999
Ай бұрын
Nah you can do that 😂
@Becanwal
Ай бұрын
Having settled down parents is such a blessing. You never have to worry about moving apartment to apartment and changing schools, step parents, or worrying about money too young. I'll always be grateful my parents had me in their late 30s when they were ready to focus on being parents
@gabbibee
Ай бұрын
You're so amazing for setting your child up for success👏👏👏
@djfally_beatz
Ай бұрын
That is so amazing!!!! I know it's like my view on age when I was younger was so skewed and immature making a decision like that because you don't want to be "old with a kid" it's like how can you even know that at such a young age.
@Jess-ky4my
Ай бұрын
I appreciate Caleb always calling people out for having kids and being in financial holes. Too many people think all a kid needs is love -NO. Kids need and deserve financial stability. If a couple is broke and not financially literate, it will trickle into all areas of life and be chaos
@nathanpremo
Ай бұрын
Its a mix of both. A lot of kids from "rich" parents don't turn out right either. Raising children is very complex and is a balance act between love, education, and finances and without the right about of each its gonna not work out.
@yanasto
Ай бұрын
Kids are definitely not as expensive as people think, but you should have basic stability: married parents, stable living situation, decent jobs, support system.
@Tatorrella
27 күн бұрын
@@yanasto yes they are, in this world and specifically this country. They should have college paid for, help with a car, some sort of inheritance, and ability to do extracurriculars/have tutors. Thank God I’m not having kids in this lifetime lol would rather people like these guests pop out children🤦🏽♀️
@rinasakurai8857
26 күн бұрын
@@yanastoyea and that's not the average American 😂 average American is making like less then 30k a year. And they're drowning in debt. While you are correct that kids aren't as expensive as people think. The average American does not have stability at all.
@arod191
Ай бұрын
I’m already concerned that they can’t even agree about the reason they got engaged. I feel that this will not end well.
@Duneboy13
Ай бұрын
That’s not entirely fair. He proposed so he knows what incentivized him. She may just be assuming the pregnancy rushed it
@chriscanavanii9064
Ай бұрын
@@Duneboy13obviously it did
@philomerrill3265
Ай бұрын
@@Duneboy13look at her face when he said she’s the one
@kindallnight1615
Ай бұрын
@@philomerrill3265true but I feel that they may be able to fight through it and fix their relationship for their kid.
@ArmyDropout2008
Ай бұрын
@@Duneboy13seems like she said yes because of the pregnancy.
@ruhhjaja2021
Ай бұрын
Love getting yelled at by Caleb at 10am in the morning while I clickity clack away at my keyboard sippin this cold brew
@CalebHammer
Ай бұрын
clickity that clack!
@markjerue9734
Ай бұрын
I hope you didn't buy that cold brew at Starbucks! Make it at home!
@Upticks36-v2u
Ай бұрын
Hope you’re brewing your own.
@kathrynzeigler1503
Ай бұрын
The immediate defense in the replies 😂 well trained audience.
@kellymccasland7689
Ай бұрын
LITERALLY SAME
@nicoledimino6567
Ай бұрын
“What’s her philosophy on money?” “Mimis?” 😭😭😭🤣🤣
@Watertype637
Ай бұрын
I just got there and laughed out loud
@Lowlight91
Ай бұрын
I wanna know what Mimi thinks of all this!! 😂
@Noah-oh7ti
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@atsuneh516
12 күн бұрын
This had me so weak like why tf would he think that😭😭
@Thederbs1234
Ай бұрын
“When the second kid gets here” followed like ten minutes later by “the relationships on the out and day to day” smh
@purpurina5663
Ай бұрын
- Did the child push you over the edge to get engaged? -YESNO 😬
@MissMosierable
Ай бұрын
My teen in the other room, "Wait, is she pregnant? Like is kid 2 is on the way? Because she can prevent one if she isn't...."
@leroyj62
Ай бұрын
@@MissMosierable Outside of Texas you can prevent one even if she is
@MissMosierable
Ай бұрын
To be honest, she doesn't seem like the termination type. @@leroyj62
@libertysprings2244
Ай бұрын
@@MissMosierablethe girl thinks having more kids is a net positive financially due to money from government. Um, good luck to her. Although in the short term it maybe possible to get free government daycare so she can work.
@Justanotherbozo-onthebus
Ай бұрын
There is nothing wrong with being poor. It is not a moral failing. Problems arise when you are poor, yet you act as if you have money. It's delusional, it's dishonest, it's unrealistic.
@carlfaitware8099
Ай бұрын
The thing is, in America being poor is literally equated with Shame, Humiliation, and Inferiority. We are so hyper capitalistic, consumerist, and obsessed with material things that there simply are no other socially acceptable life paths. Worse yet, what most college educated Americans consider to be a middle class lifestyle (to which they are unquestionably entitled) requires at least a $1 million net worth. And even though we have more net worth millionaire households than ever in this country, they are still the top 25%. So you have most people stretching to live what is realistically a decidedly upper middle class lifestyle but they are only making lower middle to middle incomes. At best. Explains why a phony 'BILLIONZARE" like Trump has gained so much traction with a nation of stupid, noisy, assholes, angry that they can't afford the life they think they deserve, if only we let Trump build the wall and fire all the brown people. How else can a white man get ahead.
@ronnieadamson6998
Ай бұрын
Also have the ambition to better yourself - you are in one of the greatest country for moving up - it takes work and discipline.
@WoodyJ98
Ай бұрын
@@ronnieadamson6998it takes knowing the right people and having the money to move up.
@superkawaii8315
Ай бұрын
@@WoodyJ98There will always be those in the privileged class. But you can’t let that stop you from putting in the effort. It’s victim mentality. I was down and broke losing all my money trying to make my career work in my desired industry. Struggling with mild drug abuse and my finances still felt it. I still got up and applied to the local gas station and worked my way out of my hole until I got my act together and got a great job I love
@WoodyJ98
Ай бұрын
@@superkawaii8315 in 2024, a gas station can’t put you out of the hole
@turkx4547
Ай бұрын
as soon as she said the government would pay for their baby I lost all sympathy for them.
@MoneyMan28
Ай бұрын
but the baby need food for eating
@turkx4547
Ай бұрын
@@MoneyMan28 That's why you be financially literate before having a kid instead of just popping one out and expecting it to be everyone else's problem.
@7856841
28 күн бұрын
They’ll be poor forever ):
@littybritty9983
Ай бұрын
This guy could consider the military. Stable income + his mechanic experience could be a plus
@NeptuneKnives
Ай бұрын
Definitely would also upgrade his girl
@xavierharris4036
Ай бұрын
Yea military wives are the best ever
@AntiCivil
Ай бұрын
😂😂@@xavierharris4036
@luckelea
Ай бұрын
But can he keep his mustache? 👨🏽
@reaganhill7134
Ай бұрын
Plus he would be way more likely to succeed in becoming a cop later on
@sarahfranklin7208
Ай бұрын
Begging people like this to stop having children. They have so much time to have another one this is so irresponsible.
@samanthafreeman4315
Ай бұрын
It happens WAY more than anyone thinks.
@CorrosiveH2O
Ай бұрын
Fun fact, more children are born during times of hardship
@AddiBee-r7r
Ай бұрын
@@CorrosiveH2O Check out large dips in the birth rate during the depression and the 70’s inflation crisis (which makes today’s inflation unremarkable).
@superkawaii8315
Ай бұрын
@@sarahfranklin7208 it’s crazy how young adults want kids less than previous generations and there are people like this exist who pop them out for fun. Wish we had some quality over quantity at least
@megscott222
Ай бұрын
The reason they're not calling her for work is because she needs her GED.
@Afterlife2570
Ай бұрын
Hope she can get one after she gets treatment and recovers from her PPD
@GlitterMarcy
Ай бұрын
These two dont even really like each other, have no money, are using grandmas money to pay for redbulls and rent but they are thinking of having a second child?!? Thats insane.
@nicholasgutierrez9940
Ай бұрын
They know deep down they can’t save themselves. So they will have kids to make them happy. Even if that’s the wrong way. I know people who are like this. It’s mental stress overwhelming them.
@devonforsure260
Ай бұрын
@@nicholasgutierrez9940it's a sick cope... Those kids aren't going to have a healthy upbringing
Dont worry, “the government pays for your babies when you’re not married” 45:36
@Ricky32908
Ай бұрын
I love how “ sweet treats” really stuck with Caleb ever since that short crazy haired girl said she NEEDED THOSE SWEET TREATS IN THE BUDGET LMAOO 😂
@PhoenixFabled
Ай бұрын
Sweet Treats & Taquitos! 😂
@kitty207038
Ай бұрын
I need to know which episode it is!
@carlosnunez-fi7pv
Ай бұрын
@@kitty207038dude me too! I watch every episode and I must have missed that one.
@rhythmtapper
Ай бұрын
@@PhoenixFabled I love how "Taquitos" has the "Translate to English" feature below it. 🤣
@andrewsemancik276
Ай бұрын
@@kitty207038 I got you! kzitem.info/news/bejne/y6yjsYR3s4peaKA
@theidleidol9010
Ай бұрын
"two years" tells me he pissed hot, my buddy was trying to get into the academy and they told him he had to be 100% grass free for 2 years prior to starting
@cmnidit4444
16 күн бұрын
That's wild considering cops can smoke thc in legal states. But I guess we'll keep letting the bad ones through. Not that this guy would be any good.
@ahumanwithaface1595
9 күн бұрын
@@cmnidit4444 Not in Colorado. If you test positive they wont gire you or they will fire you as a cop for the state, city, and county im in. Im not saying cops dont have issues. Im just saying its not the grass.
@rcg224
Күн бұрын
That's what all those ATM withdrawals are 😂 Gotta use cash at the dispo
@alexcisneros2980
12 сағат бұрын
He's in arizona so most likely.
@OliviaRFoley
Ай бұрын
“I didn’t want to be 50 with a 10 year old” - so has a baby at 21 before being financially prepared with someone quickly.
@kara8911
Ай бұрын
Right, as if there is no in between. Ha!
@MissMosierable
Ай бұрын
Instead she'll be 50 with a nearly 10yo grandchild.
@michaelweyenberg6238
Ай бұрын
It's nothing but a cope. Every guest is full of the same copium.
@mw6346
Ай бұрын
@@MissMosierable Bingo! The kids will follow her example.
@MissMosierable
Ай бұрын
I recognize the generational echos of these choices. My mom got pregnant at 19. My sister got pregnant at 19. My niece moved in with a guy raising his mom's baby (mom was on illegal substances and making money doing tricks) at 19. It's like ripples in a pond. This woman has to suffer hard now so her daughter won't in 17 years. @@mw6346
@fallinlove3210
Ай бұрын
Them wanting a second child for government benefits is insane, and to think they'd set up that child for a hard future...for benefits...
@oophorror2251
Ай бұрын
Ha! That was my guess as to why they’d want a second kid.
@HDReMaster
Ай бұрын
get a kid, do heron
@tatianabritton6258
Ай бұрын
The part they fail to realize is with government assistance, it is a complicated trap. The second one of them makes “decent” money (not what society seems decent, it’s deemed by the government and its crap) they’ll no longer be eligible for assistance. Since neither of them qualify for jobs that pay a household sustainable wage, they’ll be forced to either intentionally take low paying jobs to keep assistance or be forced to stretch basically poverty income for a household of 3-4.
@THEGREENHELIUM
Ай бұрын
Exactly. I don’t know why we incentivize having kids especially for poor people (of which I am included.). Hot take maybe: we should expect people to be more responsible and whatever happens happens. It shouldn’t be mine or your responsibility to baby these grown children’s children with our tax money.
@chrisjackman9102
Ай бұрын
It’s incredibly common and incredibly sad for the kids and tax payers
@rebeccazeman9309
Ай бұрын
Ma'am! If you're not married and he dies or is severely disabled you have zero. Nothing. You should absolutely never stay home with a child unless you're married
@courtneym6762
Ай бұрын
Or if he decides to leave! She doesn’t even have a HS diploma
@RJWaynerium
Ай бұрын
Yup because out crummy family court system favors the woman by giving her alimony....what a joke.
@carinaraymond2
Ай бұрын
I agree in principle m, but the baby is 6 months. I come from a country where 1 year home with the baby is standard. Once that baby is made, hard to throw them in childcare when they are still so vulnerable. We don’t say “stay at home mom” until the kid is at least 1 year old
@_Escaping.Samsara_
Ай бұрын
@@courtneym6762why would no diploma matter😂 I doubt she will join the army
@timtimber5271
Ай бұрын
To be fair they’re engaged
@saraddoll
Ай бұрын
Lets get this clear, if you are not actively trying not to get pregnant THEN YOU ARE TRYING TO GET PREGNANT.
@Haya-El
Ай бұрын
@@MoneyMan28🤤 gotta put it in dum dum terms for the folks in the back of the class… Peepee in the vajayjay = babay
@jrr7031
Ай бұрын
Nah. That's only a 1 way street.
@lindala2602
Ай бұрын
It's a great mentality if you have infertility problems and don't want to stress yourself out too much
@themagicknightress7132
Ай бұрын
And ideally you should be doing multiple forms of birth control at a time whether that’s condoms, birth control pills, or tracking your cycle
@Scorpia161
Ай бұрын
fr i don't know how ppl can be so casual about bringing a kid into the world💀
@Alexxx1012
Ай бұрын
Her mentality is stuck at 16yrs old like no one told her to get pregnant twice then complain about how hard it is to have a baby and she needs to vape to make it better. He is just lost when it comes to money. They dont need to be together at all
@LilySaintSin
Ай бұрын
Yeah, I agree but they only have one kid so far. They shouldn't have another kid though. They're clearly not communicating and she is desperate to have children to fit into her fantasy. He's not much better.
@Mimi-hn6iv
Ай бұрын
@@LilySaintSin I think they're referring to the miscarriage, then getting pregnant again right after.
@JeremiePooField
Ай бұрын
Typically, all relationships can have challenges that can definitely be worked through with time and effort on both parts. It’s not that they shouldn’t be together and the mentality to end everything right away the second stuff gets hard is the reason why there are so many divorces these days. So when you say they shouldn’t be together, maybe that’s not true and maybe they can both grow up a little bit and try to communicate and work through the things they need to.
@catsotorious
Ай бұрын
@@Mimi-hn6iv Yeah, that should've been THE sign.... "oops I got pregnant" *----miscarries and then does nothing to stop from getting pregnant again----* "oh wow I'm pregnant. I forgot that's how it works" Girl... Guy... You had a wake up call, you just didn't wake up...
@lindaallen8800
Ай бұрын
@@JeremiePooField They need to grow up more than a little bit!
@Coffee23AC
Ай бұрын
Mind blown that she used the excuse that the government pays for your babies when you aren’t married as an excuse to continue bringing children into this mess of a situation. Wow. That was disgusting.
@MimiRAM0NE
Ай бұрын
Many such cases
@dichang3
27 күн бұрын
The lack of education and understanding of how taxes/child benefit work is upsetting. And they probably think, if they make too much money then they will get less government benefits. Therefore they should work the minimum and the cycle continues. 🤦🏻♀️
@panickedgem
Ай бұрын
I get the vibe that she wants out of the relationship but he's still in love and they have a baby..... its like shes already emotionally checked out
@breakfastclosed
Ай бұрын
definitely
@harrietxo2310
Ай бұрын
True could also be the impact of PPD
@panickedgem
Ай бұрын
@@harrietxo2310 truee
@MPPG663
Ай бұрын
I think she doesn't want him, but doesn't want to lose a good guy. This is the one case that I think she wanted to trap a guy. Even if they don't work out, she knows he'll be in her back pocket. He'll always feel obligated to care for her.
@katesdygerz7
Ай бұрын
She is still in the self-centered child mentality. As long as she is being taken care of, she is fine and dandy.
@jcnot9712
Ай бұрын
“You need to unlock the content pack where you’re able to survive.” 💀
@hunterbruce9640
Ай бұрын
"Being a stay at home mom I don't get any luxuries". Lady, being a stay at home mom IS A LUXURGY!
@lindawilson8434
Ай бұрын
Yes you are so right If they break up she will see
@erikal9594
Ай бұрын
Well she has no diploma so she won’t be able to work a job that would pay for the childcare for a 6 month old during her shift. The situation she’s put herself in is a double edged sword. But nobody told her to drop out and have unprotected sex.
@truebengalsfan
29 күн бұрын
Many women don't see this as a luxury lol they see stay at home mom as job
@KayteeQueue2024
24 күн бұрын
@@truebengalsfanit is a job. A full time one. But to be one is a decision and a choice and unless you want to be a welfare bum then it is a luxury.
@truebengalsfan
24 күн бұрын
@@KayteeQueue2024 it's a luxury to even have the choice . Stay at home mom who on government assistance do you see that as job
@MomBodSD
Ай бұрын
Having the mindset of “if it happens it happens” when it comes to having kids and you aren’t financially stable is so incredibly selfish. I’m 3 minutes in and my blood pressure is already up 🤣
@GlitterMarcy
Ай бұрын
It got me too 😂 I couldn't believe hearing that. And then they said they want a second child?! Oh heck no😂
@carlariggs525
Ай бұрын
I hear you. Someone (parents) failed to give them a reality check and the right info.
@harbours.
Ай бұрын
One of my best friends is like this, they have a 4 year old, she’s a stay at home mum and have a house together that they’ve been renovating for probably the same length of time. They borrow money from her parents all the time or take out loans to pay bills, and they’re not using any protection in bed because they’re “not trying but not not trying”. They can barely afford what they have now
@LydiaWise-t7i
Ай бұрын
@@GlitterMarcyI wanted Irish twins but I had a baby while using protection and BC so I’m gonna wait 5 years. Since getting pregnant we’ve turned our finances around and have 10k in the bank and threw away all credit cards.. I still feel stressed about money!! I can’t fathom having another baby without being fully secure.
@oophorror2251
Ай бұрын
Calm down. Having a kid is no big deal.
@redrun4186
Ай бұрын
Departments in Arizona are hurting for cops. If a department told you to wait two years to reapply, they found something on an application or background they didn't like. I question alot with this couple.
@XenoHCS
Ай бұрын
That’s what I was thinking !! Glad someone else thought the same thing. They’re offering fat bonuses for Austin Police. I have to wait a year since I use to smoke weed before I can apply but it’s my dream to become a LEO.
@rorycolgan
Ай бұрын
Some departments won't hire young. He is 23, wait two years and he is 25.... My guess is it's a age thing
@redrun4186
Ай бұрын
@rorycolgan two episodes ago Caleb stated they change the guests' names and ages to protect the guests/victims (law and order Dun...Dun...)
@jordanbranum327
Ай бұрын
@@rorycolganback that up a lot cities don’t hired under 25 guys unless they have college degree (CJ) or from cop/military families. Though if he was serious we be talking to any small town department across the state that endorse him.
@MissMosierable
Ай бұрын
His age is young and his credit isn't good. He also doesn't have a lot of higher ed. I'm not sure about Arizona, but where I live, being too young, no education, and bad credit is 3 strikes against acceptance--well, except for in the large city.
@AlexPrime86
Ай бұрын
Stealing from Grandma, these two don't deserve a sweet treat
@CalebHammer
Ай бұрын
NO SWEET TREAT FOR THEM
@prettyboyjosiah5717
Ай бұрын
The lady look like a grandma
@alejandrogutierrez3789
Ай бұрын
Who stole the cookie from the cookie jar? 😠
@kilometersnoblue4311
Ай бұрын
@@CalebHammerthey didn’t even spend the money on condoms. You should have told them the democrat rally was giving away free vasectomies and abortions. However they don’t have free time machines to give the same tools to their parents.
@brothscout864
Ай бұрын
@@kilometersnoblue4311brainrot
@michellevm4849
Ай бұрын
She literally has almost 20 years before she’d be 50 with a 10 year old. Her reason for getting pregnant is so stupid.
@Kristenwynnphotography
Ай бұрын
Right like there's a middle ground! Some people have kids young, some older, but most people aim for the middle ground. But then she says it was kind of an accident, so I don't think it was deliberate? But then she says this like it was a plan. IDK. I hear this justification on Tiktok all the time "I want to be a young mom/dad not old!" I respect that decision but then you have to have the utmost maturity.
@hamsatd
Ай бұрын
I'd rather have a 20 year old all grown up by the time I'm 40😂😂
@DrTomCruisin
Ай бұрын
My mom had me at 30. I'm almost 40 now and she still goes on 50 mile bike rides with me. There was no reason to rush like this.
@huntermcentire
Ай бұрын
@@DrTomCruisin Both of my parents were around 30 and it been great to be able to hang out with my parents before they get too old to be able to do stuff.
@egreen04
Ай бұрын
Caleb yelling at people about their finances is my favorite background noise as I do my accounting homework
@bleuberry123
13 күн бұрын
Same with my bookkeeping course. 😂
@myaseena
Ай бұрын
21 and 23, broke with a kid... yep i'm gonna get 🍿
@CalebHammer
Ай бұрын
Sweet treat time
@lot2196
Ай бұрын
We had three children before we were 30. I wouldn't trade a minute of it for all the money in the world.
@ymi0613
Ай бұрын
@@lot2196 The point is that these two are too irresponsible to be having a kid, let alone 2. They are broke and that kid will only suffer bc they can't get their finaces straight and stealing money from their grandma
@Adore.Winter
Ай бұрын
Popcorn? Sis, I had a drink! 😂
@FutureDreamZz
Ай бұрын
@@Adore.Wintersis I had some wine 😂
@carlaperozo2898
Ай бұрын
this is the first time I realized why Caleb is so passionate about finances I didn’t knew he grow up like that, he has mentioned he struggled growing up but never in this detail, this is really hard to hear and as I hadn’t woken up, this is another wake up call for me and my kids, currently working to get out of debt by 9 months (death debts, without the car)
@jakecopperpot8878
Ай бұрын
The first time? How many episodes have you watched?
@m_here1
Ай бұрын
@@jakecopperpot8878 I think what OP means is that this is the first time that Caleb has mentioned how young his parents were and what their situation was like at the time when he was born. I don’t remember Caleb going into this much detail about it before, and I’ve seen a lot of episodes. But I could easily be wrong and may have missed it in another episode.
@Wc7823
Ай бұрын
@@m_here1I’ve watched a lot of episodes over the past year and I don’t remember him going very deep into details.
@BrolyOnlyfans
Ай бұрын
That's crazy how a 21yr old can look so 40
@coffeebean4356
Ай бұрын
So 2 grown adults choosing to be unprotected, without caring for the sake of another human’s future is crazy. That poor child.
@austinjacobsen7689
Ай бұрын
Sadly this isn't even shocking... Happens more often than youd think
@Flow-x6b
Ай бұрын
after having a miscarriage 2 months in....
@mojoloop
Ай бұрын
My fiancé and I over the last year found it really enjoyable to do free things. We make a coffee at home and go for a walk. Sometimes we'll pack a sandwich and go for a hike. We read books, we sometimes watch movies on KZitem which has a free category. We like to watch the sunrise and susnet. Once in a while we'll drive out and go star gazing. The amount of free stuff that people have seemingly forgotten about is crazy to me.
@kristyfletcher2416
Ай бұрын
That sounds lovely! No matter how many years go by, looking at the stars, the sunsets, lightning storms, it's just always amazing.
@mojoloop
Ай бұрын
@@kristyfletcher2416 I like to think about what poeple did before technology and just go out and do those things. The simple pleasure of watching the sunrise is so much more rewarding than watching pixels on a screen.
@carlariggs525
Ай бұрын
you should write a book/do a podcast for young couples on how to have fun and enjoy life for free.
@Shodowmech
Ай бұрын
For movie nights, lookup 123movies and it has all the major names for free
@mojoloop
Ай бұрын
@@carlariggs525 Haha I'm not sure it nececitates a podcast or a book. The book would be 5 pages long tops. I guess I could sum it up as 2 people finding joy in the mundane.
@Cooowop
Ай бұрын
This woman is actually infuriating. The epitome of a small amount of knowledge is a scary thing. She thinks she has everything figured out and has an excuse/rationale for everything yet literally takes 0 action to improve.
@JustSara376
Ай бұрын
Why try to be a housewife when you’re not a wife and can’t afford to not work. This is insane. People are so crazy
@shannonlarsuel3278
Ай бұрын
Realistically speaking, she probably can’t afford to work because of the cost of child care. They probably would lose money or her entire paycheck would be going toward child care.
@JustSara376
Ай бұрын
@@shannonlarsuel3278 lol yeah I was a housewife and raised four kids at home for that reason but I was smart enough to marry a man who supported his family.
@danielburch8588
Ай бұрын
@@shannonlarsuel3278 that's usually the case anymore that daycare costs what the other person makes and why pay someone to raise your kid/s
@Dr.ZoidbergPhD
Ай бұрын
To be fair, they're both basically kids. This is probably the whole "this is what you're supposed to do" thing as opposed to "do you want to do this" and they don't have enough life experience to know the difference
@michaelweyenberg6238
Ай бұрын
Because she had a kid with him.
@emilydefelice6254
Ай бұрын
quitting therapy for mtn dew and red bull is the craziest shit i’ve heard on this show
@bleach2393
Ай бұрын
Her flirting with Nathan the whole time while in front of her husband who she claims she wants another child with? Is not what I expected
@jarrodlangford7692
Ай бұрын
Happy to see another couples audit. They are my favorite personally.
@rabidbasher
Ай бұрын
I wonder how many relationships ended (probably for the right reasons) after they came on this show
@darianmccraw7699
Ай бұрын
same, mainly because I’m married and if it’s not relatable I can be like dang well at least we ain’t that bad 😮💨😂
@reitrip
Ай бұрын
Aw yes nothing like yelling in the morning
@CalebHammer
Ай бұрын
a good wake up, no?
@reitrip
Ай бұрын
The best ❤
@wilm3rbatr3s
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@smnbrgss
Ай бұрын
Need a physical health audit to get yelled at while exercising
@mason2256
Ай бұрын
@@reitripthe only way to wake up 🙏🏻😂
@Anthony-ni8wd
Ай бұрын
Worst thing bro ever did was get her pregnant. He really needs to leave her but now he can’t 😭
@LuxeByLo
27 күн бұрын
He’s a simp what do you expect?!
@Son_Of_Sanguinius41
Ай бұрын
I honor my Grandmother in ways I hope to make my deceased grandfather proud. Not treat her like an ATM.
@dgf3308
Ай бұрын
people should be a bit more intimidated about becoming a parent
@giantpune
Ай бұрын
Why? The stupidest people on the planet manage to do it 13 times. It can't be *that* hard.
@austinjacobsen7689
Ай бұрын
Some people shouldn't be allowed to breed either... Can't fix stupid tho.
@Chikitew
Ай бұрын
@@dgf3308 tbf we also live in the same society where if a teenager says they don’t want kids they’re told they’re going to change their minds and it’s just something that you do. So.
@luvinchocolate
Ай бұрын
“The government pays for your babies if you arnt married.” This mindset makes me ill!! We the people dont want to pay for your babies!!
@Sar-ahG
Ай бұрын
I’m ok with a tax break at the end of the year but using our tax money on top of that shouldn’t be something to try and get instead of a job and marriage.
@looseleaflettuce
Ай бұрын
being fine with bringing a second child into this situation because "the government pays for it if you're not married" is insane. they may write off some medical bills, but the government is not going to help you raise and care for this kid.
@carlariggs525
Ай бұрын
yes they will...they can provide housing, food, medical care, and even cash benefits
@purpurina5663
Ай бұрын
Even if it did... it's an assistance, not the CAUSE to have a child. ETA and she asks if there's benefits on marrying... girl don't
@mason2256
Ай бұрын
@@carlariggs525okay sure let’s assume that, why rely on the government?
@carlariggs525
Ай бұрын
@@mason2256 because some people are lazy and the government has made people dependent on them.
@rebeccat9918
Ай бұрын
Thr amount of times I heard this from people when my husband was in the military... "Oh, Well you get paid to have kids." As someone who had a kid during that time... you are not "making money" having a child. Our base pay was so low we qualified for WIC. Sure medical was covered... but kids are expensive as hell!
@Christina-uq4bw
Ай бұрын
I really thought they were in their 30s at least
@keem459
Ай бұрын
Same. They both look older then they say
@ericchen776
Ай бұрын
They look as old as Caleb
@kenennaoyeka5286
Ай бұрын
Yo....she being 21 is wild....are y'all also using fake ages now? 😭
@cogs11
Ай бұрын
I don't think she's 21. There's no way
@StarxLolita
Ай бұрын
@@kenennaoyeka5286 nah, chick's a smoker. that's why she's fucked
@jcnot9712
Ай бұрын
This guy does look like the kind of dude who would have a manscapped subscription 😂
@bobbiebogdanovich8381
Ай бұрын
I worked as a background Investigator for a Sheriff's Office. If he was told try again in two years there is something in his background that is an issue.
@THEGREENHELIUM
Ай бұрын
Yeah but y’all pass around bad cops to other departments like a bag of blow so it shouldn’t be that big an issue.
@youtubehandlename45
Ай бұрын
Is having debt an issue to become a police officer in America? It is in the UK
@katelyndefreitas2810
Ай бұрын
@@youtubehandlename45usually just bankruptcies, insolvencies or fraud warnings v
@AlexPrime86
Ай бұрын
Buddy being a stay at home Mom and having a $98 a month phone bill and unwilling to switch to a $20 plan because hurr durr i like version is absolutely crazy
@MissMosierable
Ай бұрын
She said she gets no luxuries and only has 1 thing she won't give up (no childcare), while having loads of luxuries and tons of things she won't give up.
@mieke0076
Ай бұрын
@@MissMosierablePeople often don't realise those are luxuries. They feel entitled to smoke, eat out/doordash, taquitos, games... 🙄
@crzxm
Ай бұрын
@@mieke0076 Great point.
@tsunderecafe
Ай бұрын
Visible is $25 and uses Verizon!
@The_Hipster_Cow
Ай бұрын
Its crazy because these two are made for each other in both the best and worst ways. They complement each others banter perfectly and can riff off one another, but also the have identical financial proclivities.
@temujin6233
Ай бұрын
She aint marrying him. He called her the one and she was combative every time marriage was brought up
@drtij_dzienz
Ай бұрын
Probably lost respect for him when he quit his higher paying career
@traphuntnstuff8096
Ай бұрын
She better stick with him, her options are extremely limited.
@rubenmejia942
Ай бұрын
Who else has been inspired and motivated by Caleb Hammer to get their finances in order??? Because of the advice from this channel, I've paid off all my credit card debt and am on my way to build a 6-month emergency fund.
@dlofton7
Ай бұрын
Congratulations 🍾🎉 I am working towards getting my credit cards 💳 paid off as well. By next year I will be debt free
@247cycling
Ай бұрын
Living vicariously through the shame has helped get a plan together
@CalebHammer
Ай бұрын
That’s INCREDIBLE!! And thanks for being a member
@yourentrepreneurjourney
Ай бұрын
*I am putting away monies twds an ER fund, *paying off outstanding bills, *boosting my credit, *no Taquitos, *no Chik Fila until my ER fund is done, constant prayer and thank you Caleb ❤️
@BunniesDotOrg
Ай бұрын
Indeed. Found caleb in January 2023. Paid off my car, my credit debt. Save 10k. Bought a house. Paid off some more cred debt that happened with having furniture for the 1st time. Paid it all off. All that's left is 4k in student loans. And building the emergency fund again 🎉
@Giesselle16
Ай бұрын
She's blaming antibiotics for letting pregnant but she forgot to mention she got pregnant twice in a row. I dont think that the problem is the birth control.
@100Stratusfiedx
Ай бұрын
People try to shame others for choosing to wait to have kids. It blows my mind that people who are already not financially stable have one kid and are planning to have more.
@MoneyMan28
Ай бұрын
that's what dishwashers do, they keep breeding
@katesdygerz7
Ай бұрын
and don't even know what a child tax credit is
@IPerez87
Ай бұрын
My husband and I wanted to have another baby when our daughter was 5 but honestly we ended up just not having another baby when we saw how expensive is childcare without having family support. Yeah we only have 1 child but she will learn money management and she wont grow up in debt.
@bruhbruhhh6592
Ай бұрын
This mentality is why America's birth rate has plummeted
@Yaroshi86
Ай бұрын
When they say what they did for a living I had to make sure I wasn't watching House hunters.
@dp6568
Ай бұрын
He's a dishwasher and I'm a stay at home mom, we have a budget of $800,000. Grandma is co-signing on the loan.
@Lucinda_Jackson
Ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@erinkeller9700
Ай бұрын
This was my thought also!
@Flow-x6b
Ай бұрын
🏆 best comment
@annettewilliams6780
Ай бұрын
How is she getting a job that pays 50K with no college no high school and 4 years of work experience at 21. I highly doubt that will happen.
@ChrisMuse100
Ай бұрын
It can happen. Ive lived it but I do have my hs diploma.
@cashkitty3472
27 күн бұрын
@@ChrisMuse100well if you have a diploma that isa higher education that high school right
@TigerTsunami404
Ай бұрын
Grandmas need to be Respected not Exploited when you're fully capable of earning a living
@MissMosierable
Ай бұрын
Good grandmas need to be treasured because not everyone has a good grandma.
@richardmyers7847
Ай бұрын
Yeah you don't have to keep asking Grandma for money. She's retired old lady. I hope you don't think a grandma that gives you money is good?@@MissMosierable
@Queenroyal2012
Ай бұрын
I only got money when I brought my grams A+ on my report cards or came over and cleaned for her
@MissMosierable
Ай бұрын
i didn't say that at all. Where did your reading comprehension pick that up? You took a wrong turn there. His grandma sounds lovely because she has been lovely to them in general. She shouldn't be taken advantage of. No grandma should, but wonderful grandmas should be treasured. I didn't get a good grandma from either parent, and despite the fact theybwere horrible old trolls, I wouldn't want them taken advantage of, either. However, having a lovely older person who wants to be a nice influence on a person's kids is an amazing treat in life. I didn't have that. My kids do. This man's child does. He needs to respect how great that is and treasure it. @@richardmyers7847
@CherriiTheArtist
Ай бұрын
6$ daily drinks over 140$/month for therapy…. Frontal lobe is still loading 🤷♀️
@nicholasgutierrez9940
Ай бұрын
It literally is if their ages are right. A lot of people can't think straight until their brain develops fully at 25/26. Even less so when these kids have been raised wrong. The girl hinted at that when she mentioned her mother's issues.
@NiveaCow
Ай бұрын
As an European this show is insane. What shocks me the most is how much financial responsibility is expected from very young people. At 21 they have car loans, student debt, a credit card or two, need to shop health insurance and are expected to start their retirement savings. Dude, at 21 I just commuted by public transport, university education was completely free of charge. We bought whatever we could afford with money in our pockets, if that meant a week on only hash browns and tap water - well, that was that. I have NEVER been in debt. My culture never revolved around credit and outside of morgage it is not as encouraged as I feel it is in the US.
@filipapedrosa7309
Ай бұрын
Yes, exactly my thoughts. In Europe, we only use mortgage and car loans and that is it mostly (and after at least 25 or 30 years old if not later, especially a car because until you are stable enough, you usually just drive an old 2001 banger). Almost no one has a credit card, and if they do, they do not even know the pin code or where the physical card is because they are scared they will burn their hands if they use it lol. Where I live specifically, those are even looked down upon as well, everyone is kinda "scared" of getting one, so, yeah, complete insanity. Once I bought a washing machine on a 6-month interest free plan thingy sor of thing and I was going mad until I paid it off 🤣
@krn2683
Ай бұрын
American here and some of that is just them being irresponsible. I didn't have a car loan or credit cards at that age (I've actually never had either of those and I'm 42). I was paying student loans but I had those paid off in 7 years. These two ate just idiots.
@katelyndefreitas2810
Ай бұрын
Lots changes when you have a child
@NiveaCow
Ай бұрын
@@krn2683 well, I can't be sure, since I don't live in the US, but I feel that the ultracapitalistic culture supports this behaviour. In Europe we don't get rewards or extra miles by using a credit card. People in Europe are as irresponsible as people in the US. We just don't get that much encouragement to fall in debt. You don't leave a hospital with a bill, so no debt here. Want to have a PhD? Free, so no debt here. Want a job? Cool, use public transport, even some of that is free. In the US, when you are sick - medical debt. Want education - student loans. Want a job - need a car, so get a car loan. No matter where you go, you either need money, or debt. To each their own, it is set up like that and if you like it - perfect, you live in a perfect place for you. I'm not even criticizing it, I am just suprised. And extremely happy nobody sat me down as a 18 year old and told me I either get a huge loan (the repercussions of which I can't fully understand at 18 unless someone older and responsible coaches me) or can't pursue higher education.
@TheMoominModel
Ай бұрын
Most of the time people i know who use credit card is for like expensive thing so there is the security if something happens they get the money back.
@Joshua-h2j
Ай бұрын
They look way older than they say
@fracha4817
Ай бұрын
Poverty does that
@jessehahm3177
Ай бұрын
Rough
@henzoko5946
Ай бұрын
I would believe they are early 30s over early 20s more than anything else.
@miirkatx
Ай бұрын
I think the ages are changed to help protect their identities. I hope so anyway cause yeah they look way older lol
@Jes1919
Ай бұрын
I am 22 and my face looks like a baby compared to them. They must have done a lot of drinking, drugs, partying, etc.
@Cannibalizee
Ай бұрын
Damn! 18$ an hour for a dishwasher in phoenix is pretty damn good
@bobbyrivera2951
Ай бұрын
Tx roadhouse takes care of their employees
@sydneyice
Ай бұрын
Pretty average for the big chain restaurants. Darden starts you off in the kitchen at $18. Fast food like in n out, canes, ect start you off $18-20. Tip earners make $10-11 an hour. Phoenix pays well if you know where to work
@Cannibalizee
Ай бұрын
@@sydneyice Key words "if you know where". The majority of such jobs do not pay well. Not to mention the amount of fast food chains that don't provide insurance. A ton of smaller businesses do jot provide insurance either.
@Jess-he9fc
Ай бұрын
@@bobbyrivera2951not according to the recent drama lol
@harrietxo2310
Ай бұрын
@@Jess-he9fcdamn what happened?
@bryanmurphy1107
Ай бұрын
Not putting nicotine in the budget is understandable, but it also makes the budget pointless and guarantees it not to work
@Chi.native
Ай бұрын
I think he just has a moral objection to it so he has them reshuffle the budget themselves.
@ambientmusic-studymusic3780
Ай бұрын
“We went to public school” how is that an explanation for why yall got pregnant 💀
@stephanierodriguez6164
Ай бұрын
Right?? Like most ppl in the us go to public schools by that logic most ppl should be popping babies😭
@Mrmysterious-dj1ov
Ай бұрын
Because it won’t happen if homeschooling with only siblings 😉 😂😂😂
@Afterlife2570
Ай бұрын
Poor or no sex Ed. It was a joke, but also kinda true.
@rinasakurai8857
26 күн бұрын
@@Afterlife2570yea but you don't need Sex Ed to understand that you shouldn't have kids when you're poor. Like it's an excuse far too many people use to avoid accountability.
@Afterlife2570
25 күн бұрын
@@rinasakurai8857 don't @ me and take things off topic as if sex ed isn't just as valuable to students as financial planning. Go @ someone else
@jwcarlson
Ай бұрын
Please don't bring any more kids into the situation. Good grief.
@MoneyMan28
Ай бұрын
but the dishwasher job is paying ok
@karlyhester6861
Ай бұрын
the craziest thing about her paying for the sims resource is that you can access ALL the content for FREE. She was paying for a quicker download 😭
@alexisdiamond7761
Ай бұрын
She very quickly made it seem like his fault and yet she is full of excuses and justifications for everything. He clearly wants to be together and married and she's very dismissive to him. I don't have high hopes here
@sarahcraft1983
Ай бұрын
As a teacher, we will deal with the consequences of your shit parenting. These kinds of parents are so unfortunately common. We’ve all forgotten what a sacrifice children are and the kids are bearing the brunt of it.
@susiefairfield7218
Ай бұрын
Yeah… $200 a month for formula and Disposable diapers cost $30 to $80 per month or $360 to $960 for your baby's first year….& they want another kid? smmfh
@oophorror2251
Ай бұрын
@@susiefairfield7218if you think these two are awful parents you’ve lived a privileged life.
@austinjacobsen7689
Ай бұрын
@@susiefairfield7218 not to mention doctors well checks, child needs and illness, daycare in case one of them happens to leave, childs savings account and school fund. Yea these people have no idea...
@MissMosierable
Ай бұрын
@@oophorror2251they aren't physically abusive, but they are awful. Awful parents aren't just parents who need to have their rights removed.
@dking1362
Ай бұрын
An unmarried, high school dropout stay-at-home mom.....this woman needs to give serious thought to what happens to her and the baby if they break up. She just doesn't have the luxury of not having a job in this situation, IMHO. She is going to need to be a stellar employee--hardworking, reliable--to keep a decent-paying job for the long haul to compensate for the lack of education.
@grapeswisher2226
Ай бұрын
Imagine how hard her life would be if she was a college drop out with 50k in student loans😂
@dking1362
Ай бұрын
@@grapeswisher2226 For sure. My advice would be to keep at it - don't drop out. She could get a lot of financial aid and a practical degree from a community college. Having that degree that kept me employed and my kids housed and fed above the poverty line. It certainly wasn't my plan to be a single mom of 3.
@AnalyticalMenace
Ай бұрын
So, I'm about 5 minutes in and I know it's been said before. But I'll say this again for the folks in the back: *HR is there to protect the company--NOT the employees.* My condolences to the dude who had to work for a toxic company.
@haslynalmonte8273
Ай бұрын
Yes exactly, OSHA is the way to go
@CalebHammer
Ай бұрын
Thanks for being a member!
@bradhaines3142
Ай бұрын
@@haslynalmonte8273 OSHA is also a problem. they make everything harder to do, costing you time and making the company mad at the expense
@blarghmcblarghson1903
Ай бұрын
That got a bit overshadowed by reactions to the couple's behavior, but everyone should be aware HR does not work for employees. Also he really needed to consult with a lawyer about how viable a lawsuit would be, especially in a situation where multiple employees are having their rights violated, cut down on the cost by having it be a class action.
@saramartin8167
Ай бұрын
She said she doesn’t get any luxuries because she’s a SAHM and he gets to go out everyday and buy whatever. Let me tell yall something. I’m a SAHM, my husband works his ass off for myself and our 2 kiddos and he still makes time for us. It’s a blessing to stay home, raise the kids and have a husband who pays the bills, our fridge is always full, provides a safe home and vehicles, and we have health insurance, that is a luxury. I don’t take our lifestyle for granted.
@papabear2515
Ай бұрын
Hats off to you all!
@Emmabobemma4321
Ай бұрын
As a sahm also, I agree! It’s definitely a luxury to be in this position and my husband works so hard to make this possible
@marklapis7569
Ай бұрын
Good for you but my wife is a SAHM too - she takes it for granted less than you and I work even harder than your husband to make that happen.
@imreallyjustaghost
Ай бұрын
Right! The luxury I have is that I can stay at home w the kids! We have the opportunity for me to be there 24/7 w the kids, cook, and keep the house in order while he bust his ass at work. It's not always fun but I wouldn't change it for the world. He gets to enjoy his weekends w the kids and he loves every second of it. He doesn't have to stress about chores bc I got it...and I don't stress about money bc he's got that. It takes a lot of work and sacrifice but it's so worth it
@nickroman2931
Ай бұрын
My wife takes it for granted…. And even yells at me about it. Even after working 15 hour days
@franciscolaurean8550
Ай бұрын
Their relationship is "on the out, alright at best. Day to day thing." But a second kid while they're struggling financially will make it better??
@moosiesama
22 күн бұрын
What could go wrong? 🤪
@robbiebentley5028
Ай бұрын
As someone who borrowed from their grandma and made sure i paid her back as soon as possible. They piss me off more than any other episode.
@CalebHammer
Ай бұрын
Same here!
@tammywilliams8445
Ай бұрын
Your grandma appreciated that ❤
@robbiebentley5028
Ай бұрын
@tammywilliams8445 She was the absolute best. She was more like a 2nd mom and lived down the street from me. Miss her everyday but am so blessed to have known her and be loved by her.
@bryanzoom97
Ай бұрын
It’s awesome to hear that you actually paid her back good for you 👏
@mydadspulloutgametrash
Ай бұрын
Jesus that's a lotta episodes
@lianalonge1984
Ай бұрын
I don’t understand how someone can be a stay home mom with an annual income of $37,440. 15:55 And she’s playing The Sims instead of working on her GED while at home?
@oophorror2251
Ай бұрын
She was too lazy to be a Golddigger and settled for food stamps in order to avoid work lol.
@bigcat99100
Ай бұрын
We bought a house close to my now retired parents to save a fortune on child care
@MissMosierable
Ай бұрын
@@bigcat99100Do your parents find that funny?
@reillysmith1947
Ай бұрын
I swear. How could someone be that useless to the world? She is screwing her child and all she wants to do is smoke and text on Verizon
@bigcat99100
Ай бұрын
@MissMosierable it was their idea, they're excited.
@Teaorwine
Ай бұрын
If one partner is going to be a stay-at-home, they have to cook and make lunches. That's the trade-off. The "income" they bring to the household is in labor. As a SAH for 15 years, it's been my job to make meals, do the majority of chores and childcare, track the finances, etc. We go out to dinner once a week and I get a latte sweet treat when I grocery shop (also about once a week). I don't understand these people who want to SAH and not do anything. That's not a partner, its a leech.
@katm462
22 күн бұрын
💯
@kujo3423
Ай бұрын
She could get a job in childcare (daycare). She'd get paid and be able to keep an eye on her kid.
@katiebellejohnson2688
Ай бұрын
This!! My daughter-in-law did this- I’m so proud of her work ethic!
@thebryster240
Ай бұрын
My wife does this and gets a discount too. Not the best pay but it pays for itself in more ways than 1
@kujo3423
Ай бұрын
@@thebryster240 I've seen several ladies at my little one's daycare do this. Glad it was able to work for your family.
@chrisjackman9102
Ай бұрын
She could probably start her own at home daycare
@akelly12121982
Ай бұрын
she obviously does not want to work... wants to have another kid to get more government money.. disgusting
@mssnwndrlnd
Ай бұрын
Caleb! Consider budgeting about $60-65/month for people to go on the nicotine patch if they are committed to trying to quit. It can set a numerical limit for the budget since we know they're addicted, but it pushes the ultimate goals of saving and quitting!
@mizrice
Ай бұрын
You can do it a bit cheaper if you shop around a little for them, too! :) I just went through it successfully!
@FRESCO_KUN
Ай бұрын
They could just do that with their whatever they arnt spending on bs
@MikeDeMellia
Ай бұрын
If you have health insurance - your PCP can prescribe them to you for practically free. That’s how I quit.
@kennyfisher2009
16 күн бұрын
The funniest part of this show is the fact that he gets more anxiety and bent out of shape than the ones in all of the debt
@josieshepherd7141
Ай бұрын
Borrowing money from ur grandmother bc ur broke is absolutely insane
@KALEIGHdoscope
Ай бұрын
Borrowing it isn't insane as long as you have every intention of paying it back asap. But "borrowing" it with the mindset that "she'll never ask for it back, so it's a gift" is just awful behaviour.
@youtubeuser3182
Ай бұрын
Worse. They’re NOT borrowing. They’re TAKING.
@lot2196
Ай бұрын
No one ever pays back grandma.
@MichellePacelli
Ай бұрын
There's two types of grandparents. Ones that planned for their retirement and have 100s of thousands of dollars that's gonna go to u in 10 yrs when they die anyway and then there's ones living off 1k of ssi a month. I'd say its OK to borrow from some grandparents lol
@trexasaurus5322
Ай бұрын
It’s ok to borrow if you need it and intend to pay it back. My grandparents have helped my cousins out while they’re in college and they’ve all paid back their loans
@stellaanony3020
Ай бұрын
It's tradition to switch jobs right before you go on Financial Audit. + stealing from grandma, this is going to be wild.
@oophorror2251
Ай бұрын
Old bag was probably just gonna give it to him anyway.
@aoquan1
Ай бұрын
I was thinking the same! Like why everyone is on a new job lol
@stellaanony3020
Ай бұрын
@@maureenviola Yup, I got that from the video later on as well. Still, the job thing is a repeating pattern.
@YaBoiHoof
Ай бұрын
As a government employee which is a mechanic, this guy should get a job working for the gov as a mechanic. The money is less, but the benefits are great. Especially for a family.
@Sar-ahG
Ай бұрын
Not less than $18 an hour that he’s making now
@YaBoiHoof
Ай бұрын
@@Sar-ahG Definitely not less than $18/hr! I meant the money is less in the public sector than the equivalent job in the private sector. But the benefits generally make up for it, at least in my experience!
@churchofmarcus
Ай бұрын
I was a mechanic for over a decade, and I can tell you his story is true. I don't recommend anyone learn that particular trade.
@its_jess4321
Ай бұрын
My brothers a mechanic, I agree
@jacobhillen3998
Ай бұрын
It's a lot better on the heavy truck and equipment side.
@_Hollie_
Ай бұрын
@@jacobhillen3998yeah hgv mechanics can ear A LOT of money, otherwise the pay really isnt great. If he wants to stay in the profession i feel like he needs to get in with a trucking company of some kind
@scaryomelette353
Ай бұрын
I guess it also depends if you work for a sleazy shop
@jojohill27
Ай бұрын
Yeah straight up I worked at a 10 minute place and it is
@andreaiffrig4430
Ай бұрын
One of the key lessons from this one is don’t have kids if you’re not ready for them. Financially, mentally, stable relationship with partner, etc.
@cassandrachampion
Ай бұрын
When she asks “is there an actual benefit to getting married?” 🚩🚩🚩
@Afterlife2570
Ай бұрын
Sounds like her mother really coached her to ruin her life
@kate9836
28 күн бұрын
It sounds like a fair question to me, she doesn't seem to like the guy and if that's the case why should she want to be legally anchored to him?
@hannahbanana84237
Ай бұрын
“I thought that’s what you do…” when talking about just having a second kid. Oh honey, you’re not required to have children and you probably shouldn’t if you can’t support the one you already have
@matronedea
Ай бұрын
They're such irresponsible parents.
@dip5635
Ай бұрын
Sadly I thought that's what you do is extremely common in American culture. Massive failure to today's youth.
@jessd2577
Ай бұрын
Their poverty mindset is keeping them poor. Can't afford to buy drinks in bulk, but will pay $8 a day in drinks. Feel bad about being poor, so might as well get a sweet treat to feel better. It might be small purchases, but it is death by a thousand cuts if they spend over 6k in a month.
@yourentrepreneurjourney
Ай бұрын
👍🏽
@ruths329
Ай бұрын
My grandma always said, "It isn't the dragons that get you it's the mosquitoes " 20 five dollar purchases is still a $100.00
@poms-eyeview2453
Ай бұрын
I had exactly one Red Bull in my entire life and it was given to me for free. I don’t pay that kind of money for a drink.
@joe.shad0fx
Ай бұрын
Dude should look at working at the local police garage. if he knows cars they're usually good places to work. Plus you get to know some of the officers while working on their cars. Might be an option for him.
@deano6410
Ай бұрын
Zero percent chance they’re still together in five years
@joseaguilar3323
Ай бұрын
I nearly spit my drink that he thinks the auto industry is too amoral and his alternative is to become a cop.
@courtneya2207
Ай бұрын
I thought the same lol
@bubgerkirg
Ай бұрын
wait WHAT
@krn2683
Ай бұрын
Right?! How is detailing immoral?😂 No one's holding a gun to people's heads and forcing them to get their car detailed.
@RJWaynerium
Ай бұрын
Being a good cop supports lots of good morals. You're better off not watching these amateur videos that put cops in a false bad light.
@joseaguilar3323
Ай бұрын
@@RJWaynerium LMAO
@HaulinAssAssin
Ай бұрын
I hope dude realized he’s better off not marrying that chick.
@balloonboy1006
Ай бұрын
"he's in control of the finances" him: "I do forget about her bills often..." lmao that sent me bro aint no way he said that!
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