I just watched your newest video, the comments were disabled, so I will leave my comment here. I'd like to see that last of us video. However, I notice when people record off of xbox or playstation they always suffer from the same problem, the game volume is super loud, and their mic volume is super low. I think that is just the default way consoles record, I'm sure there is some way to adjust volume. I was wondering, do you play Fortnite? Also, the comments on this video might get turned off too (youtube does this automatically for kids). So what you should do is create a community post and then people can contact you on that, or make a discord and put it in your bio.
@MeLikeTea103
3 ай бұрын
thanks for the advice, i do play fortnite! i’d love to get into making gaming videos cus i really enjoy playing , i’ll definitely make a discord or something like that
@heliosdik1931
3 ай бұрын
Ok I`ve seen the video, and I might have some advice for you. Keep in mind that it's coming from a male that's a little older than you, and from eastern europe - so some details may differ. -Your main problem seems to come from overthinking. I can assure you that your former boyfriend was “lying” to you prior to the breakup because he himself struggled with the situation and did not fully know what or how he wanted things to be. Same thing from my perspective may be with your friend. Besides, friendships have to be built and maintained naturally. Yes, you have to take care of your friendships - as any other relationship it has a cost of an upkeep - but if it is forced by any of the sides the other side will subconsciously be aware of that fact. To simplify it, don't force it, let people go when they don't engage, and don't overthink things - other people may have different perceptions of time and engagement. 2 Days of total communicating silence may mean breakup for some, and a normal busy life for others. Don't feel stupid for believing your boyfriend - if you start to permanently look for signs of problems in your partner - you will find them, most would be illusions of your mind while others may be the effect of your partner sensing your attitude subconsciously. The worst thing you can learn from this relationship is to stop trusting your partners or friends. Trust is base building of relations, and even betrayals or smaller let downs are just the price we pay for it. As for your feeling of wasting time and loneliness. Help your parents, and your family. I know it sounds boring for a teenager but I can tell you that the moment you grow up and stop being one, you start to feel not only great appreciation of your family but also a guilt of not being there for them. You will thank yourself later. Pursue something that you are interested in - a hobby. Be it computer games, pen and paper RPGs, books, nature or theater. Besides being fun it will widen your horizons, and may help you find new friends with similar hobbies and values that you will naturally form friendships around [you like theater? get into an amateur theater group or cinema discussion club]. Also, treat your experiences as that, experiences. Sure, being lonely and doing dishes all summer sounds depressive. But only thanks to experiences like it you will appreciate happiness when you will find one. Besides, it will help you understand and sympathize [or even help] people in similar situations in the future. And as brutal as it sounds… loneliness and pain are elements of life. Better to find a way to healthy cope with them now, than when they are brought by a real tragedy in your life. As there will. Somewhere down the line. But, to end this overly long and preachy comment - one way to combat hardships and non fulfillment of life, is the one mastered by the seniors. Appreciate small things in life. Good meal, a sundown on the bench in the park. A mushroom hunting in the never before seen part of the forest. You know, be a hobbit. It is the only sustainable cure for nihilistic reality.
@MeLikeTea103
3 ай бұрын
thank you so much for putting the time and effort into giving me advice, this really means a lot and you’re definitely right, i’ll try to put these things into practice. i’ve always struggled to enjoy the little things because people tell me these years are supposed to be for going out and doing lots of exciting stuff, but you’re right i should learn from this rather than suffer from it. thank you again, it really means an awful lot :)
@JeffreyLyttleman
3 ай бұрын
I'm sorry you went through that :( Hang in there and know it was not you. I will be your tiny friend if you like :)
@MeLikeTea103
3 ай бұрын
thanks bruh!!!
@JeffreyLyttleman
3 ай бұрын
@@MeLikeTea103 anytime! lower your hand and I'll climb on :)
@MichaelThorn7930
3 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that your friend just ditched you. Maybe you should just make youtube videos and try to build a community, make new friends that way.
@MeLikeTea103
3 ай бұрын
yea i wanna try doing that, thank you :)
@MichaelThorn7930
2 ай бұрын
I could have sworn I already left this message, but your discord link expired. You either have to paste a new one or use a permeant link.
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