Playing games is childish....Communicate properly.....
@Chommikenya
19 күн бұрын
Right?! Thank you for watching ❤️
@judiie.3800
18 күн бұрын
But Woman do the Same 🤔🤔🤔
@curtistinemiller4646
18 күн бұрын
@@judiie.3800 some..
@notyobestie4220
18 күн бұрын
Period.
@tranquility9325
18 күн бұрын
Most of them are narcissists. They have arrested development so they are toddlers in adult bodies.
@importantone7038
18 күн бұрын
Test your way out of a decent woman so you don't waste her time!
@Dannniellleee
18 күн бұрын
💯
@daughteroftheking6402
18 күн бұрын
This 😂 👏 ❤
@teresasanchez7164
18 күн бұрын
Yes 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 men are so childish sometimes 😂
@kdani4777
18 күн бұрын
If you test me you failed my test to not test me.
@emem6935
18 күн бұрын
@@kdani4777 😂very meta
@aprilwashington3150
14 күн бұрын
THAT PART
@rebekkagasmi9451
14 күн бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@feliciajenkins5041
4 күн бұрын
Exactly 💯
@Fantasy_Lane
Күн бұрын
This is it right here💯😂 they never get that.. but have the nerve to be begging after years go by.
@newstart1847
18 күн бұрын
My dad raised me to not move in or sleep with a Man until marriage and he’s right.
@tranquility9325
18 күн бұрын
Even in marriage many of them won't be faithful.
@Handle18880
16 күн бұрын
Your dad is a liar and doesn’t live his own standards. Men are not a prize. Never save anything for them, whatever you do, do it for your own enrichment and fulfillment. Husbands are not saints and passing tests for a man who will subsequently disappoint you is futile because after all, he’s just a man, not a prize. A man that respects and values you will not tests you, he will accept you or gracefully move on.
@pineapplezz5076
13 күн бұрын
@@tranquility9325 whether they’re faithful or not, do the part that God ask you to do and let God deal with them. Marriage is something that’s sacred. God put marriage on this earth so we’re not out here living however we want without a care. Living in fornication is a sin
@estherblack2770
13 күн бұрын
My father did the same too and I ended up not sleeping g with any. I am 30 years old and I only love women😂😂😂❤❤❤
@estherblack2770
13 күн бұрын
@tranquility9325 very true. It's almost all of them. I long noticed that there is no reason for any woman to have a man coz, majority of them are public properties. They are public hoes
@dantayhylton9938
18 күн бұрын
This is why im happy single,this is too exhausting.
@clapwithonehand9304
13 күн бұрын
Too exhausting
@SistahJay27
11 күн бұрын
Exactly smh this is sooo stupid
@anitababz5465
10 күн бұрын
Exactly 💯 single life is enjoyable 😉
@clapwithonehand9304
10 күн бұрын
@@anitababz5465 It truly is.
@FightorShoot
8 күн бұрын
Bandwagon mentality...y'all the same ones made a list about places y'all won't eat.....or won't go to dates to.... Women can't run the country cause y'all too exhausting in general....too emotional
@ursaamajorr
18 күн бұрын
Grown women have bills, jobs, school, hobbies...like, who has time for all of this bs? 😂 you're getting blocked immediately if I sense any foolishness
@Chommikenya
17 күн бұрын
That's the energy!!!!!! 💪💪💝 Thank you for watching
@dantayhylton9938
18 күн бұрын
Guys from my experience if he comes off like he is testing you ,just leave. Thats way we have so much broken women and the sad thing is they always do this to a sensitive try woman. They date toxic women and make the sensitive woman working over time to provide that they are the one which is sad because they usually will never be with you.
@Unavailableforyourgames
15 күн бұрын
Exactly ✌️
@rebekkagasmi9451
14 күн бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯🙏🙏
@winning3329
14 күн бұрын
If he's testing you then that means he doesn't like you. I have noticed that males never test the women who they are truly interested in. If you feel like he's testing you then leave immediately and don't waste your time.
@lorieharris1752
3 күн бұрын
Some men wait years to test a woman after she's emotionally invested and knows it's harder for her to leave because she is attached
@iamconfusion1791
18 күн бұрын
"Testing" someone is so manipulative and indicates they're not partner material. The guys "testing" women to see if they'll have sex on the first date are also part of the problem - because they also participated in the first date sex. You think they just stopped the woman immediately after she agreed and said "You failed my test so this date is over"? No - they follow-through with having sex, too. They'll think it's OK for them to have sex on the first date with a woman and then talk smack about her afterwards and say she's not "wife" material - and he's not husband material, either. They can be judged by the same coin. I hate double standards.
@shakirasmith6454
18 күн бұрын
Thank you!!! I’m tired of these narcissistic double standards 🙄
@rebekkagasmi9451
14 күн бұрын
Couldn't have said it any better myself... 🙏🙏🎯🎯🎯🎯
@TB-cg1jk
12 күн бұрын
💯
@Krlowanigu-mg6eg
12 күн бұрын
You are right. If he proposes sx on first second date so to sum it up 1. Its just a test - delete him, hes a manipulator 2. Means it, he himself is a cheater so should be deleted.
@tothepowersthatbe
11 күн бұрын
Men who do that are hypocrites. They failed their own test, and claim to be logical leaders. They hold us to a certain standard that they don't even hold for themselves. It's a real clown show out here!
@vannisworld
17 күн бұрын
Grown men don't act like this. This just means they need to grow up.
@Chommikenya
17 күн бұрын
Grown men test you too It's how the world operates literally Am sure You have tested people unknowingly. Sometimes that's how the world works
@aprilwashington3150
14 күн бұрын
@@Chommikenya Not. It's immaturity no matter who's doing it. Discernment is what healthy people use.
@Prismatic9008
15 күн бұрын
And then men wonder why so many women are completely done with them. Soon as I get a whiff of a game/test, I shut down and block men. I've no patience or time for that crap.
@Zectriv
19 күн бұрын
*With so many trials and test coming from the outside of relationships or potential relationships; Why play games? I’ve never played with a guy but they have played with me and lost me forever. Some games you play can cost you your soulmate* A woman who knows her value doesn’t tolerate being on a game board.*
@Chommikenya
19 күн бұрын
Who likes being on a game board general?! Like just miss me with that! Thank you for watching ❤️
@sasha20232
18 күн бұрын
Ladies, remember a man who FINDS a wife, FINDS a good thing. Be yourself if you enjoy finner things in life be authentic and do not hide it, your God given husband is looking forward to provide that.... Shine and avoid toxic/shaming advice from people who haven't spent a minute with you or in your shoes.
@dearbrave4183
18 күн бұрын
This ❤💯 and avoid cheap advice like that of the woman implying a high value man or whatever marriage material guy is not only inviting you for a hookup but also asking you to pick up a meal on your way for him
@NGHealthCoach
5 күн бұрын
Amen came to say something very similar.
@Venusbry
18 күн бұрын
A lot of this is not valued men this is boys and narcissists. I'm not playing these games anymore
@thatongwediradebe6996
19 күн бұрын
How am I supposed to crave or want you after all this mental gymnastics?
@Chommikenya
19 күн бұрын
Did you call it mental gymnastics? 😂😂 Hey thank you for watching ❤️
@thatongwediradebe6996
19 күн бұрын
@@Chommikenya 🤣
@moonlightstargem1006
16 күн бұрын
It’s stressful. And when women are stressed we don’t want to have sex
@Princess_Pixie
18 күн бұрын
Men wouldn’t play these games if they actually like you
@Chommikenya
17 күн бұрын
They would and they will!!!
@lorieharris1752
15 күн бұрын
@@Chommikenyathey always do even after marriage. Straight facts.. most men act like grown boys with women..whether they like u or not
@boitshokomabaza
12 күн бұрын
exactly
@octaviawilson9155
6 күн бұрын
All you got to do is one good slap "POW,"👋🤷🤸 it works like a charm.❤
@luckycharm1212
2 күн бұрын
@@Chommikenya Then you haven't met a "man" before. "Man" is the grownup version of a boy. If a guy is truly into you, he'll do everything and anything to make you his. He will not do anything foolish to lose you. I've witnessed it myself. The guy who truly loves you will prioritise your well-being over others'.
@kamys6133
14 күн бұрын
I ghosted a guy for something like this. He got missing the night before we had plans. The day of, he hit me up in the middle of the day to see if i still wanted to go. Then did the same thing when it was my turn to plan our date. Got missing the night before. Then the day of he hit me late in the afternoon to cancel. Few days after, I thought about it and I was done. No conversation or nothing completely walked away. Yall can keep playing if you want too!!!!
@cooladultkidontheblock1882
18 күн бұрын
I dont care about any of those games. Some of these dudes need to test themselves.
@Chommikenya
17 күн бұрын
You won 😂!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@emem6935
18 күн бұрын
I love how these tips are given, like we will always want some man and his approval so we're so excited to learn how to play their games. Maybe back in the 90s but now I'm completely turned off from these immature confused abusive XYs
@vpscreations5401
16 күн бұрын
When a woman says no to a man's sex offer, why do they get angry and aggressive?
@Chommikenya
15 күн бұрын
Because that was their first intention with you
@tiayvette2048
18 күн бұрын
This is exhausting 😂😂 I’ll just stay single
@Chommikenya
17 күн бұрын
😂 what matters is that you're happy! Putting yourself first before anything else 💝
@urgenthealthbeautyandwellness
8 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@SweetAven00
19 күн бұрын
Oh you disappear you can’t comeback. You are no longer in the running. 3 guys have done this and still text me confused 😅. And I never went out with them or touched them, they wanted to pop in and out during the talking stage. Now every post I make I get a “when you gonna let me take you out” lol losers.
@Chommikenya
19 күн бұрын
😂I love that!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@PoSHEmediaglobal
18 күн бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@nikkyjackson6500
18 күн бұрын
Exactly I have had men with and without dates do this to me. I just ignore them and move forward I have no time for childish games they got back asking me for dates.… no reply from me. Bunch of crazy Men.
@nikkyjackson6500
17 күн бұрын
@@elisavh7 haha 😂 the admission fee is funny. A therapist would charge them, won’t they? It's obvious these childish men need therapy.
@Alixir1228
16 күн бұрын
I get the same! Men I never even let MEET me hitting me up YEARS later. It's pathetic!
@navina4271
18 күн бұрын
All that test just for them to turn out to be the real a$sholes lol
@Chommikenya
17 күн бұрын
Right?
@Alixir1228
16 күн бұрын
Or gay
@TwoPrettyRedDimes
18 күн бұрын
The 1st lady is a pick me mammie
@peachesjeter5480
13 күн бұрын
You gonna end up playing yourself trying to test me 😂
@SassyS2442
18 күн бұрын
Who has time for being tested. That just shows his level of toxicity. A smart woman who has value will see this and LEAVE! Ol girl talking about FAILING,,, Girl Please!! KNOW YOU WORTH!
@Chommikenya
17 күн бұрын
KNOW YOUR WORTH!!!
@theophila214
16 күн бұрын
4:35 - Man crying about being a paycheck... I can guarantee you doesn't have much of a paycheck to worry about. ;) Now I may not care about purses, but that SURE doesn't mean I'm not high-maintenance in the ways suited to me, LOL.
@feliciajenkins5041
17 күн бұрын
I fail every test because anyone testing you in any way is up to something not good. Then block and ignore his stupid 🤬.
@yudollia
15 күн бұрын
He said its his last time exposing the game 🤣 no sir. U gon keep going or we holding u at gunpoint
@Chommikenya
14 күн бұрын
😂😂 right?
@nanausbshz
4 күн бұрын
Men talk about testing when they’re the easiest thing a woman can get😂
@jaclamb161
15 күн бұрын
If men do this they need to look deeply at their behaviour.. Disgusting.... What gives them the authority to be testing anyone... Test yourselves...get some help!!!
@Fantasy_Lane
Күн бұрын
This tho! 😂💯fr
@nikkimonroe1982
18 күн бұрын
Actually this is sad. No men play a lot of games and get Mad When We Don't do the same. Why do we have to go through all these tests? I understand to see where a person's at. But this extra stuff is not on call. You just want the box, just pay for it and go home by your business and women. We have to stop giving our bodies away so easy. Make him wait, don't tell him but you're like a lady.Eventually his true qualities will come out when he realized you're not going to sleep with him
@unicorn73212
18 күн бұрын
Agreed because they just sit there like we're objects waiting to be conquered there all disrespectful to women they just won't admit it because they're ego won't allow it. It's not wise to keep enabling them because a lot of them still need to work on themselves first don't worry so much about what women are doing because sometimes we're just laying there we want to be able to live in a place and relax just like them without being attacked for it.
@NileGoddess
17 күн бұрын
Let’s all fall their test because those who test you are pathetic
@tynaangelici3023
13 күн бұрын
This is some junior high school BS games. It seems like these men haven’t evolved past 13 years old.
@aprilwashington3150
14 күн бұрын
The person administering the test is the problem. Even if you "pass", you don't want him. Healthy mature people use discernment. They use their eyes i.e. look at the outcome of your life and how you carry yourself and know all they need to know based on their good or bad intentions.
@NewJohariClassic
14 күн бұрын
The sexual innuendo one usually happens early on and sets the tone. I honestly can't tell if they test me to see how attracted I am to them or that they're lusting.
@Alixir1228
16 күн бұрын
We don't play games. Dude is mistaken. Women have better things to do.
@Chommikenya
15 күн бұрын
We busy working on ourselves 🫶 Thank you for watching ❤️
@iaf4454
2 күн бұрын
That is bc they think that we are like them. It is projection
@susieadams3305
15 күн бұрын
Head games is why so many ain't got nobody
@user-rj1vj5wk9f
8 күн бұрын
the last creep who tried to get me to his house after the first date, got left walking away angry
@peachesjeter5480
13 күн бұрын
That one lady that said these men are testing you ladies and you ladies are failing,NO YOUR NOT because no man should be playing games and testing you anyway, you’re not failing,she failed even saying that.🤦🏽♀️ he don’t even know you to be testing you which makes him toxic. Leave him alone. 🚩
@coraliepython1291
16 күн бұрын
I feel already jaded by the idea of trying to find my husband...
@Chommikenya
16 күн бұрын
YOU focus on you babygirl!!
@ToniaAlex13
10 күн бұрын
Remember your husband should find you...
@iaf4454
2 күн бұрын
Remember your husband should have the means to give you a better life. Be picky, be smart
@dw5192
9 күн бұрын
Stop dating them. Test passed✨✨✨
@Chommikenya
9 күн бұрын
😂😂You Won
@tiffanycollins296
4 күн бұрын
These men are telling you the truth like it or not. I dont think they make a checklist of tests but rather subconsciously do some of these tests when you're naturally out. Not every man is like this. I appreciate hearing the differences in our brains. All of the subconscious tests are basically seeing if you have high value for yourself and at a certain age when they want to settle down and start a family, they're looking for a certain kind of woman for wife and mother of their children just like we look for the same....a high value man. It goes both ways.
@Noname444-c3v
14 күн бұрын
12:13 about the nasty words… and when the guy is a gentleman before getting married and starts to show the real him years later? I feel played and an idiot for having believed on him as a nice person… Beware of narcissists… I wish I could had identify him before marriage and kids He waited patiently until I was hooked to show he hates me And I am sure he hides something from me, probably likes underage girls or it is gay.
@TwoPrettyRedDimes
18 күн бұрын
😂😂men love toxic and ratchet or whoes that’s a lie
@dearbrave4183
18 күн бұрын
06:12 avoid cheap advice like of this woman implying a high value man or whatever marriage material guy is not only inviting you for a hookup but also asking you to pick up a meal on your way for him and your refusal to bring him the meal unqualifies you as a wife. The unqualified who qualifies, so nonsensical
@tynaangelici3023
13 күн бұрын
This woman must be a pick me
@Krlowanigu-mg6eg
12 күн бұрын
Pickmesha 100%
@qll8840
6 күн бұрын
With peace and love I’m failing all these test. I have reach the age where I simply do not care, not chasing you, not arguing, and not spending a DIME of you
@cleovernebaptiste2747
10 күн бұрын
Do that shit and I block next
@Chommikenya
9 күн бұрын
Next please....... That's the attitude
@NGHealthCoach
5 күн бұрын
Ladies, two take aways here. 1. If you want to get married stop having sex. If you can’t wait you need to make sure he is in love with you first. 2. Be yourself. The rest will work itself out.
@khloe-nicolestevenson1851
9 күн бұрын
I was immature when I dated this tester now I’m mature try that now 😂😂😂
@Chommikenya
8 күн бұрын
😂Glad you enjoyed it
@fisf.2148
12 күн бұрын
So is the sexual innuendo test passed by being sexual or by not being sexual??
@ninashirley432
13 күн бұрын
This is quiet funny I think they are talking to 18 year old girls, I think these guys are pathetic😂
@lolo8288
12 күн бұрын
BUT . . MEN DONT LIKE GAMES!! 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@Fantasy_Lane
Күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@Chaotic313
2 күн бұрын
I so wish this was a required course in high school. Men and women wired different. Not good or bad. Just different.
@TheJayJay26102
18 күн бұрын
This makes sooooo much sense. The guys are giving game! Of course, not every man is the same. It should be expected that men test us like we test them. Thank you for this compilation❤. I don't have tiktok😂
@come_on_barbie_123
18 күн бұрын
Agree!!!
@Chommikenya
17 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@Alixir1228
16 күн бұрын
I don't test men. I homeschool my sons, those are the only males I test. I have better things to do.
@TheJayJay26102
15 күн бұрын
@@Alixir1228 Definition of test: take measures to check the quality, performance, or reliability of (something), especially before putting it into widespread use or practice. How do you know if it is the man you want without checking his values, morals, and character? You can't marry anyone. How do you choose friends? Would you befriend anyone? You have an opinion. Do what you like as long as it works for you. I don't have kids. I'm looking for a husband. Me and you are in 2 different stages of life with different goals. So why would we be doing the same exact things if we dont want the same outcome? I'm in my 20's, single, no kids. Edit: we test things we buy from the store. That's why we look at reviews when buying things. That's why we have people getting paid to test products. You test drive a car to make sure it's reliable. Idk. I test everything. I guess some people don't.
@aprilwashington3150
14 күн бұрын
@@TheJayJay26102 You don't test. You look at the results of their current life. That's how.
@suselperez2409
10 күн бұрын
heavy on the projection
@ninashirley432
13 күн бұрын
Real Women don’t invest in guys with tattoos, steroids and sleep with guys 😂
@lorieharris1752
3 күн бұрын
That's why women should date multiple men at the same time but don't sleep with all of them, make sure not to invest emotions before they do protect ur ❤ and energy, take birth control use protection.. Until in a relationship.. even after with no ring . Don't believe everything they tell and get to know the ones u like before sleeping with them if u want more than sex .. lists goes on but once they show u theu playing games pull bk..lol funny thing is u may not even notice games cuz you will b too busy with all to focus on one. How they win is usually they date multiple at the same time and try to get them attached..
@martinahorcikova3133
2 күн бұрын
That s the truth Ladies!!!!! Good luck with a dating!!!!!
@Indigenous_DNA
13 күн бұрын
So Immature! Full Grown Adult Men already know exactly what type of woman they want. They communicate that from the beginning. Games are for the immature.
@Suhaylyalloo
9 күн бұрын
6:02 It's giving Tyler Perry lol 😂
@Liteskinblacknotmix3d
7 күн бұрын
First stop listening to men and have some self love and standards…that’s it.
@rivkajazz
Күн бұрын
Ok. I'm glad to hear the men telling women what to expect. I'm older now and retired and in hindsight, a lot of these "tests" are true. I don't understand why an Arab Muslim woman is speaking. Aren't they in arranged marriages? They are escorted during courtship and never in danger of becoming a "side piece." They are virgins when they marry. The Arab Muslim man can have a couple of wives. They can beat her and treat her disrespectfully during their marriage and she has no say so. Why is she speaking????
@Chommikenya
Күн бұрын
@@rivkajazz well don't generalize some are starting to stand up for themselves!!! But I feel you !! 😭
@rivkajazz
Күн бұрын
@@Chommikenya A lot of them have moved into my neighborhood, in the inner city and believe me, I'm surprised that this Muslim woman was allowed to be in social media speaking her mind because that's not what I witness from day to day. Muslim women aren't even allowed to go outside without supervision. Anyway, just wanted to speak my mind. I'm a U.S. Marine Corps Veteran, Sergeant and Jet Engine Mechanic. I served this country honorably. I don't see any Muslims enlisting in the military to serve this country they so desperately want to immigrate to. As a black female veteran, they don't respect me. As a matter of fact, Arab Muslims were the first group of people to own and trade slaves. They just get here to our country, don't assimilate, take advantage and want their laws and way of life to dominate. They want to turn America into the place they wanted to escape from. The math ain't mathing. They have stores on EVERY street corner and black folks are spending their money in these stores so they're prospering in the black community. Most Muslim women are beaten or killed for saying anything. That's my rant on the subject.
@Yamama533
6 күн бұрын
This made me laugh.. bye goofies 😂
@DairiesofaDarkSkinBeauty
7 күн бұрын
Its simple, really. Keep your legs closed until marriage!
@Chommikenya
7 күн бұрын
💯
@kurtrinamckinnon4214
17 күн бұрын
I picked up on it a long time ago😅
@qolayahsirafi1808
Күн бұрын
Don't test me because I don't play games.
@nikki4334
18 күн бұрын
Oh this video ain’t for me, I only date grown men, not childish little boys lookin to be chased
@blah7834
17 күн бұрын
That woman is slow
@MistresstheMediator
18 күн бұрын
Kids
@unicorn73212
18 күн бұрын
If you take his dark humor seriously he might not trust you either because a lot of these men are different they put women down especially older women to give there egos a boost because there angry that you don't like them that way. If you always take offense to people jokes it makes it harder on women to Make friends to maybe its different in her cultures but in America they test us differently they will think something is wrong with you and you must be a whiney Karen if you never laugh at his jokes sometimes its not as deep as these influencers think it is there just afraid to get there heart broken. Thsts why they make jokes because it helps ease there pain.
@stellbanne
7 күн бұрын
😂😂Galz are here investing for retirement, there is really no time for these games, fellas. You need need to walk into the 21st century because these games are literally outdated.😅
@jvsVideoSamples
19 күн бұрын
Thanks! Great tips!
@Chommikenya
19 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@Fantasy_Lane
Күн бұрын
There no way a man can really gaf about a woman being in his life if he is willing to test her knowing that she may just leave him alone forever… that’s dum. Idk.. maybe it’s just me.. but it’s gotta be a word for it
@Fantasy_Lane
Күн бұрын
To see how you respond… whole time we wondering why y’all even respond like that. lol Stop playing them dumb ssa games or lose the realest thing you ever had… y’all act like we would really care. When you’re genuine, you never take a loss. I promise you
@jennoor3105
12 күн бұрын
A test I was out
@Fantasy_Lane
Күн бұрын
Everyone that tried it, got cut forever lol… till this day, wondering about me. Never again. Grow up
@royahoma8660
2 күн бұрын
And with all this, men and some stupid women on social media blame women for having standards and spending time on their work and academic life.
@ninashirley432
13 күн бұрын
Just remember PT sleep with all their clients except the ones that know that are little boys with mummy issues
@Eighthhousefallen
16 күн бұрын
Or he is taken
@moonlightstargem1006
16 күн бұрын
Men are never single
@Alixir1228
16 күн бұрын
@@moonlightstargem1006always hung up on a girl from when they were 18 🙄. "She hurt me!" World's smallest violin. 🎻
@redeemerliveth2589
4 күн бұрын
Childish
@adriennelarkin8188
13 күн бұрын
it,s so Sa How Pathetic this is!!
@joanrobijn4118
18 күн бұрын
Point of the story, men AND women play the same game 😂
@Chommikenya
18 күн бұрын
Most women tend to lose though 😄 Thank you for watching ❤️
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