I don't think most women appreciate how much it means to a man to get a sincere touch on the arm or a little hug. These things tell us we are appreciated and loved... its like a million Christmases.
@OneWingedShark
17 күн бұрын
A couple of years ago, I got the first [non-family/eligible-girl] hug in 20 years. I didn't know how to react; it hit *hard* - and the more I thought about it the more important it became.
@Jack908r
17 күн бұрын
One hundred percent. My wife stays glued to my arm when we're out walking. And I honestly love it.
@henryhoffstadt1189
17 күн бұрын
👍
@craigm.5674
17 күн бұрын
Omg….just a touch is all I ask…. A shoulder a hand …even a butt slap….
@bmc348
17 күн бұрын
@@od1452 ... this is so sweet. I'm a very affectionate person and am always hugging my brother and friends. I had a guy tell me that my future husband is going to feel so loved. I didn't understand that as deeply until reading these comments.
@MrFun67
17 күн бұрын
My stepdad taught me so many valuable lessons about love. One example: We were shopping and my mom stopped to look at a dress, then looked at the price and put it back on the rack. She just glanced at it again as we headed to another store in the mall. My dad leans down to me and says "Keep your mom busy. I'm going back for the dress." - It's just that he was paying such attention he noticed the second glance and then just HAD to go back for it. She wore that dress all the time.
@jh26pt2
16 күн бұрын
Love that. One smaller item hidden in this story is that he knew her dress size (i.e., he cared enough to learn & remember it).
@MrFun67
16 күн бұрын
@@jh26pt2 He kept a card in his wallet with all her sizes (shirt/pants/dress/shoes) written on it along with her favorite flowers, brands of makeup, and haircare products.
@foresthiker6707
15 күн бұрын
Your stepdad is an awesome man, and it was so cool of him to 'clue you in' on his surprise for your mom. ❤He's a super guy, no doubt about it! That must have made you feel so glad to see her treated so well by him. So awesome that he was in your life with such life lessons. 🙂
@RayF6126
15 күн бұрын
My partner bought me a dress, it actually fit, which is more than I usually manage without tailoring my own. I asked him how he got a dress like that. His answer was "I held the dress at hug height and put my hands in hug position. It felt right."
@SabrinaNoel90
12 күн бұрын
OMG that is the sweetest comment I've seen in a long while 🥹 all of these replies are too cute
@r.f.pennington746
17 күн бұрын
I met a girl on a drilling rig (she a geologist, me a tool pusher) on a Tuesday morning at 0200. We wen't out that Friday night, closed down a few bars, had breakfast at the Kettle Restaurant...then went to see the judge the following Monday. That was gettin' on to 50 years ago. Neither one of us is going to be on the cover of ANY magazine (please don't share that bit with her!!!), but we raised three successful kids, grandkids in college and are now enjoying ourselves. True love isn't based on looks, bank accounts or social standing. It's based on character, truthfulness and a genuine caring for the other person. Period. We truly are 'one person' these days.
@key5270
16 күн бұрын
Oh my what a lovely story! I'm a female geologist too! Not yet licensed and studying now to pass the boards. Maybe I'll meet the man of my dreams in a drilling rig too 😆
@CB-vt3mx
16 күн бұрын
The Kettle? OMG, I've spent some of my best mornings in a Kettle having breakfast!
@thisdyingsoul76
14 күн бұрын
That's amazing. Normally I would say you two moved too quick, but sometimes when you meet the right person you just know. I met my current wife a few weeks after separating from my ex-wife. We also moved fast, but not that fast. We were engaged roughly 10 months later. Covid delayed the divorce by about 1 year, we got married 3 years after we met and we celebrate our 5th year as a couple in 2 months. I am hoping what we found in each other is what you and your wife found 50 years ago. I can say that in the time we have been together things have not changed since we met other than we both feel more in love with each passing day.
@r.f.pennington746
13 күн бұрын
@@thisdyingsoul76 GREAT! Treat her both as your best friend and numero uno and I guarantee y'all will pass the 40-50yr mark long after I'm dead...
@jesusmartinez1358
13 күн бұрын
She was a geologist huh, well she must have really DUG You,,! , hah😮, I know that's older than Dirt. I can Dig It!🕺🥸
@Robert.Sheard
18 күн бұрын
When I got married, I thought it would be nice to mark each monthly "anniversary" for the first year we were married with flowers or a date night or some small thing. My now-ex-wife mocked me for the sentimentality. For the next 16 years, it got no better. So I'm glad these guys' efforts were appreciated.
@grbenway
17 күн бұрын
You are worth more than that treatment, king
@mjaybee
17 күн бұрын
Same
@Robert.Sheard
17 күн бұрын
@@grbenway Thank you. Been single ever since (2008). 16 years of walking on eggshells is enough.
@EnochianChronicles
17 күн бұрын
@@Robert.Sheard 16 months walking on eggshells is enough, 16 years is a monument
@icecl0ud
17 күн бұрын
Monthaversary!
@Sailorlyrae
17 күн бұрын
I am learning the difference in how a man sees beauty. I have always known I wasn’t pretty by any female standards and I thought it would have to be my personality that would win a man over. I was very careful about who I dated. I made a comment to my boyfriend about this and he dead stopped and said how could I think that, I was so beautiful. And he gave examples! Both physically and personality. I told him what had been said to me my whole life but it didn’t matter anymore. I could tell he wasn’t just saying it and let him know his was the only opinion that counted. We are engaged now and I make sure he feels appreciated every day for all the things he does for us. He pushes himself so hard so we can get married as soon as possible. Men, you are amazing and whatever women say about not needing you, they’re lying. Keep looking for us quiet girls who think we’re not good enough for relationships. We need you.❤
@NicoleBeepath
17 күн бұрын
Congratulations on your engagement. 🎉
@user-iy6de7qi1r
16 күн бұрын
I hope you have a long, fruitful and truly happy marriage. I lost my wife to M.S. and COPD four years ago after almost forty years. I miss her very much. John McClain, GySgt, USMC ret.
@BillyLintzenich-wf7sk
16 күн бұрын
I fell in love with a girl in 2023 who was a raging alcoholic and a abusive nacissist. I loved her but nobody treats the one they love the way she treated me. In the short form..verbal, psychological and physical abuse.
@foresthiker6707
15 күн бұрын
@@BillyLintzenich-wf7sk That is her loss, and your gain! You deserve far better, and there's no doubt that wonderful girl will someday enter your life. Look for her in fresh, wholesome, natural places. This is coming from a girl who's been happily married to a wonderful man for 23 years. I wish you all the happiness! 🙂
@BillyLintzenich-wf7sk
15 күн бұрын
@@foresthiker6707 thank you. Ive been married before. In fact the girl i mentioned about filed false charges on me last oct and then dropped the bogus charges the week of thanksgiving. My ex said she'd be willing to be a character witness for me if i had to go to court. We were married for 8 years and she knows i never laid a hand on her or called her any names.
@JesseOaks-ef9xn
18 күн бұрын
Actually beauty comes from the heart. Physical beauty can be enhanced but spiritual beauty comes from good character.
@seanb6478
17 күн бұрын
The few women left with good character are taken
@XxBrittany20xX
15 күн бұрын
So true. I've always said as a kid "never judge by appearances" but I've noticed as i got older, ppl who I thought were attractive at first, looked ugly to me when their real personality shines through. At least the toxic personalities. So yes, personality enhances beauty. True beauty is within.
@sofiabravo1994
13 күн бұрын
From Jesus Christ❤
@garyd5095
12 күн бұрын
@@sofiabravo1994Jesus isn’t the answer. A relationship requires both parties to actually communicate and work together. You can’t just pray your problems away.
@NickFrom1228
11 күн бұрын
@@garyd5095 Pray your problems away? Hmm, must be from one of those far alternate bibles out there.
@sofiabravo1994
13 күн бұрын
My husband drew a heart on the kitchen window one day when he was outside with our daughters and I remember him tapping the window to show me and my heart sunk and felt like time stood still for a moment, I saw the way he looked at me and was filled with so much love a joy…I haven’t wiped that spot since so every morning as I see the sunrise the sunlight shines against it and I’m reminded of him on that day and it brings a smile to my face. I’m super sentimental I’m tearing up just typing this. That man means the world to me and I’d feel lost without him…❤
@blackraven8841
Сағат бұрын
You are that man's universe. He would move a mountain on your behalf
@jonny555ive
17 минут бұрын
Yup..... That got me😢 What a beautiful story. Enjoy❤
@NeuroPedsDad
18 күн бұрын
This video reminded me of my wife. For the past 25 years I've been trying to convince her that she is the most beautiful woman in the the world. One day I will. She's the mother of our child. She's my lover and a friend. I don't know how it's possible but she is more beautiful today then the day we met. I can truly say that I wouldn't be where I am today without the support of this beautiful intelligent woman who for some ungodly reason chose me. To my dearest wife, I Love You. Always and Forever.
@JohnNewton-oo9um
17 күн бұрын
She can't see herself as the most beautiful woman in the world (we're always our own worst critic). She just needs to accept that is truly how you see her! If only she could look at herself through your eyes ...
@larryaustin4999
17 күн бұрын
Tell her everything you just told us.
@rumpelwegs5644
17 күн бұрын
@@JohnNewton-oo9um this reminds me to a very beautiful song: Lunik, "Through your eyes" kzitem.info/news/bejne/xq5mtaSDaYBjmHo
@JohnNewton-oo9um
17 күн бұрын
@@rumpelwegs5644 I agree this is a very beautiful song, and it says it all perfectly. Thanks so much for sharing this with me!
@NeuroPedsDad
16 күн бұрын
@@larryaustin4999 i tell her every day my friend.
@JerryT.Robinson-kz2rn
17 күн бұрын
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
@MichelleJOleary
17 күн бұрын
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
@JerryT.Robinson-kz2rn
17 күн бұрын
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
@MichelleJOleary
17 күн бұрын
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
@JerryT.Robinson-kz2rn
17 күн бұрын
You wont regret it
@user-iy6de7qi1r
16 күн бұрын
Congratulations, I lost my wife after almost forty years of "mostly good marriage", your comments are apropos, it takes hard work sometimes, I wish you the best. It's been four years and I miss her.
@BrittonJOrwin
17 күн бұрын
2:27 "Men do not get those things frequently, especially from women that they find attractive." You don't know how true that is.
@ShadowPhoenix82
17 күн бұрын
Nah, I think she knows.
@BrittonJOrwin
17 күн бұрын
@@ShadowPhoenix82 that was just my way of saying how true it is.
@davidcliatt1314
17 күн бұрын
The best I got from my EX wife when I said I love you, was ill let you.
@corywilliams2255
17 күн бұрын
A sobering thought is that the first and only time most men will ever receive flowers is at their own funeral.
@BrittonJOrwin
17 күн бұрын
@@corywilliams2255 that is sobering, indeed.
@rosmarin2438
18 күн бұрын
Men have feelings too.
@facubeitches1144
17 күн бұрын
It's like we're almost human or something. Naah.
@Shew0000
17 күн бұрын
Not according to feminists😂
@svr5423
17 күн бұрын
@@Shew0000 yeah most women don't understand feelings. They are often also not capable of dealing with them.
@AlfaGiuliaQV
17 күн бұрын
Do you think women could care less?
@mysticxiiii
17 күн бұрын
No we dont.
@viiiRA_
17 күн бұрын
There are probably other similar quotes but a recent one I heard that this reminds me of, other than myself, is quoted from a book called "Six of Crows": "Many boys will bring you flowers. But someday you'll meet a boy who will learn your favorite flower, your favorite song, your favorite sweet. And even if he is too poor to give you any of them, it won't matter because he will have taken the time to know you as no one else does. Only that boy earns your heart." Regarding the last clip, she tries to use logic but if there is ever a time we men disregard logic, it's pertaining to love. Her explanation even contradicts her. You _are_ the most beautiful "because I love you". Especially her being his wife and mother of his children.
@mds_main
15 күн бұрын
I agree especially on the last part. Love is the only thing where I actually disregard logic.
@ZeroNumerous
9 күн бұрын
The thing is: Our love is still very logical. His answer is still very logical. He simply has a different value of what is beauty, as most men do, compared to women. She expected it to be physical attractiveness, which is nice, but I doubt very many men would define beauty as purely appearance. He said it best: "You're my wife and the mother of my children; that makes you the most beautiful woman in the world"
@douglasstrother6584
17 күн бұрын
For men, love is a verb. For women, love is a noun.
@davidj.leavitt7176
17 күн бұрын
@douglasstrother6584…..excellent. I’m going to steal it and use it. Maybe even make a plaque with it on it.
@douglasstrother6584
17 күн бұрын
@@davidj.leavitt7176 Run with it!
@davidhensley76
17 күн бұрын
For too many women love is a reward that they might possibly think about considering bestowing on a man if he jumps through all of her constantly-changing hoops and that she can use against him whenever she chooses.
@kevinward3088
17 күн бұрын
For wimmin , " love " is merely business , purely transactional , for their material gain.
@marcusmoon1000
17 күн бұрын
Yep. Taking the trash out is making love. Cooking a meal for your spouse is love. Taking extra shifts or a second job is love. Putting 15% in the 401k (instead of going to Europe) is love. None of these make me feel tingly, but butterflies are hormones, not love.
@jh26pt2
18 күн бұрын
One of my favorite things to do for my wife is make her breakfast each morning. Eggs, bacon, French toast if I have enough time to make it. One of her favorite things to do for me is leave me little notes ... and you'd better believe that I've kept every last one. It's all about what you do for each other and making each other a priority.
@MAte925
16 күн бұрын
Get enough bedroom action
@64bluegrass
17 күн бұрын
Today at work I got some breakfast for my coworker that I know she likes. I brought it to her and she gave me a hug and said what a sweetheart. We aren’t “involved” with each other, but that hug just went down to my bones.
@supasmits
17 күн бұрын
That's worth an HR situation in 2024
@kevinward3088
17 күн бұрын
Be VERY careful , a false accusation is highly likely ....wimmin are like unexploded bombs
@sheilamarie1481
4 күн бұрын
Roll with it, see if it takes off to a great relationship.
@grbenway
17 күн бұрын
beauty is far more the actions of the woman than what she looks like
@idunno6480
17 күн бұрын
And that cuts both ways I’m afraid.
@RevElderKnight
16 күн бұрын
Emily, In my wallet/ cellphone there is a list. On that list is a list of clothing sizes my wife wears: blouse, pants, skirt, dress, and underwear sizes. This includes size variations by manufacturer. There is also the colors and styles of clothing, and jewelry. One day I surprised her when she returned home from work. On the bed was a large white box with red ribbon, a note with her name. Inside was a complete outfit, from intimate wear, dress, jewelry and shoes. The note said, "Get ready, put it on this outfit. I'll pick you up at 7." At 7, I rang the doorbell. She answered and found me standing in a Tux, pointing at a limo I rented for the night. There was dinner and dancing, a theatrical concert, carriage ride through the town, then drive home. The next morning, she asked how I was able to get an outfit that fit perfectly. "It's my little secret." The secret is, I help with the laundry, and enjoy shopping for clothes with her. Keeping an eye on her reactions when she looks and tries things. Share this with your viewers if you want.
@dali1384
Күн бұрын
thank you bro! great advice, i will implement that
@fifthrider
18 күн бұрын
This is heartwarming, but depresses this hell out of me. I've done things like this. Then one day it ends with "It's not you, it's me. There's nothing else you could have done." No explanation, no mention of problems to be worked through, just gone. Attachment, then ripping away. Over and over. You start to understand the villain as you get older.
@JT-in5le
17 күн бұрын
Real talk. Sow your oats and keep living.
@JD-mz1rl
17 күн бұрын
The truth is women generally find this weak. They want a savage.
@whitechicacooks5780
17 күн бұрын
For whatever it's worth, I was the wife that did my best to make the ex feel appreciated, respected, valued.... and it was only met with betrayal & further abuse. But I'm now in a healthy relationship. It's not the roller coaster my "marriage" was. It's peaceful. I wish the same for you! 🙏🏼💜
@fifthrider
17 күн бұрын
@@whitechicacooks5780 Good to know there's a flip side to the coin, and in your case a happy ending. Well done.
@fabricecardon4165
17 күн бұрын
same here.
@VRIceblast
18 күн бұрын
Women never learn. The woman that took her guys phone, and started reading his private notes, and filmed it, felt like a violation to me. She sounded condescending, like she was belittling his emotions. Clearly that's a one sided relationship. He's doing all the giving, and she sounds like she thanklessly accepts it all. The one that found all the cups he saved, looked like she truly felt touched from it. If you compare the 2, you'll see the difference in emotion. Guys tend to give their heart to their girl, and she rarely appreciates it, and usually loses respect for him because he cares for her too much, which she'll naturally take advantage of, and then blame him for her doing it.
@NeilGruch
17 күн бұрын
Yea she doesn't care how it will make him feel. Hope he realizes this before it goes too far.
@georgeperkins9381
17 күн бұрын
100% bro you hit the nil on the head
@QATest4fun
17 күн бұрын
@@NeilGruch Look at his face when it happens. I see "I don't like it, but I can deny you NOTHING." Pain in his future is my guess.
@daviderickson9077
17 күн бұрын
I used to enjoy doing sweet things for my wife and she always appreciated them. But I heard her frame this to her friends that I was so whipped she had me completely under control. That took all the joy out of our relationship
@QATest4fun
17 күн бұрын
@@daviderickson9077 Yep, my wife was the same. Even in our wedding pictures you could see that she "thought she was settling" for me...Clearly THAT was not going to last. Now I'm a millionaire, living my best life in Thailand, while she still slogs daily through her grind...while I have a GOOD woman who guards my peace, respects me, and does everything in her power to enable my happiness. (Oh, and did I mention, I shaved 18 years off the age of my lady? (my EX is 58, my current gal is 40.))
@lkreinmiller-author
17 күн бұрын
It took my husband a while to be comfortable holding my hand in public. Once he did, we never walked anywhere without him holding my hand, except when both of us had our hands full of children. 🤗 That is one thing I miss most after 2 years of courtship and almost 52 years of marriage - the feel of his larger hand holding my smaller one.
@liesareparadox1892
11 күн бұрын
The third video hit home. I had to tell my wife the same thing. I am pretty emotionally cold lots of past trauma (not going to get into it). My wife wasn’t feeling my love so I told her my thoughts and feelings. I love coming home every single day, I love that she takes care of our kids, our home, and me. I love that she lets me be me and (mostly) understands me. She is the first person who I need to tell good news too and is the only person I can be vulnerable with. She is my best friend. My wife is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. No other comes close.
@MPHIY17
15 күн бұрын
The sum of all of a woman's qualities define their beauty. I recently caught up with an old friend who brought his new girl along and she's pretty average looking at first glance. Hearing her speak, seeing how much she cares for my friend and and kind she is just made her one of the most attractive people I've ever met. Kindness and compassion are worth more than looks, y'all. Looks fade. Goodness doesn't.
@larrynalls8882
17 күн бұрын
My mom has a box of "truck-stop trinkets" that my dad bought for her. Just random little things to let her know that he thought about her throughout his day. Pure love! She treasures that box more than any expensive gift he could have given her.
@MistReated-c6p
17 күн бұрын
Every Friday my late husband would bring home flowers,& these lil puppies from a gum ball machine Then there were times he'd bring me home frogs ornaments or stuffies I'll never forget when he brought home a giant stuffed frog on his motorcycle 😂 There are so many memories And I was truly blessed to have him in my life ❤️ Rest in peace my love 💞
@LowerTheBoom
18 күн бұрын
When I was maybe eight or nine years old I went to an overnight summer camp out in the woods and there were a couple of really pretty girls maybe 13 or 14 years old or so who were camp counselors that week. A lot of boys had a crush on them, including myself. One day when we were out in the forest for some kind of activity everyone was kind of spread out doing their activity, and I overheard the two pretty camp counselors talking and laughing about one of the other boys. I must have been out of their sight line behind a tree or something, but I was well within earshot to hear their conversation. They knew that this boy David was in love with them and they thought it was so funny that they could so easily manipulate him, that he was so smitten with them, and that they had him wrapped around their little finger. They were being intentionally duplicitous, because they were egging him on and leading him on, but in reality thought he (and probably all of the other boys who liked them) was a joke the whole time. Well that was an extremely jarring experience for me at a young age to have a barn door fall on my head like that and suddenly realize girls could be so treacherous. I must have been too naive before that, but then again I was only eight. I think that always stayed with me somewhere in the back of my mind that no matter how much you show that you love a pretty girl that deep down inside she is just laughing at you and thinks you're a stupid joke, even if she doesn't come right out and overtly say so.
@carolynbacon9896
17 күн бұрын
We all get tested in a variety of ways on using our power responsibly & lovingly or selfishly. At some point, a girl realizes how much power beauty & feminine energy has over boys. Girls react in different ways depending on how they perceive it - frightening, overwhelming, baffling, intoxicating, affirming, endearing, self-aggrandizing or funny. These girls were in the intoxicated/self-aggrandized camp. I hope they grew up to be better people.
@jsbrads1
17 күн бұрын
I am sorry you had this experience and I’m sorry it influenced you as it did. Girls that young are just discovering their power for the first time and are flexing their muscles. Girls and women (and sometimes even us guys) say things we don’t really believe in conversations. Sometimes it is to fit in with others, to find commonality, we agree to things we don’t believe. Sometimes we brag and exaggerate our abilities. Power goes to people’s heads, makes them lightheaded and induces laughter, but that laughter isn’t real. I’m sure at some point a tall handsome young man walked past them and they realized they had no power at all. Most gals in their teens find older men attractive and those older men don’t even consider them as options. That experience may eventually moderate their thought processes and recalibrate their attitudes.
@idunno6480
17 күн бұрын
@@carolynbacon9896jr narcissists and I doubt they did anything but get worse with age. Narcs don’t change because they have no ability to self reflect. Absolutely evil what they did
@carolynbacon9896
17 күн бұрын
@@jsbrads1 Beautifully said. Thank you. Time, if nothing else, humbles us all.
@jagosevatarion8822
17 күн бұрын
when i was about the 7-9 there was a girl who always acted disgusted by me. when i heard a rumour she had a crush on me i refused to believe it.
@michaelmccotter4293
17 күн бұрын
47 years with the most beautiful woman on earth. I suggested we get Married February 14. That was 44 years ago this coming Valentine's day. Marrying Leeann was the BEST decision I ever made. I always refer to her as "My Lovely".
@foresthiker6707
15 күн бұрын
Such a 'Lovely' story, and testament for a beautiful marriage. We've been married 23 yrs, and still seems like yesterday. God Bless ❤
@Julia-kimbo14
5 күн бұрын
That day Feb 14th 1981 was my 20th birthday and the day i got engaged.
@robbbutterfield1256
17 күн бұрын
My wife was the most loving, giving woman I ever met. We were together 8 years before she passed. I thought of her as the most beautiful person I ever met for the exact reasons that guy stated and more. She's been gone 7 years and I still love her and only her.
@aaronrodden8121
12 күн бұрын
Sorry to hear brother!! Much love!
@Clintcellington
17 күн бұрын
I've been married to my wife 18 years. I actually adore her little imperfections. Just the little weird things we all do. Things she doesn't even know that I notice. To me, it shows that she is comfortable being herself around me. It makes my day every day.
@YooperHatesOhioState
18 күн бұрын
After getting bailed on recently I discovered I’m better off living the single life and staying there. Been my whole life and realizing it’s not a bad thing
@DiggerEvans
18 күн бұрын
100% with you there
@YooperHatesOhioState
18 күн бұрын
@@DiggerEvans finding things I enjoy is key like sports gym and movies
@craigm.5674
17 күн бұрын
Don’t give up….always be open….otherwise you may miss someone
@nmularoni1
17 күн бұрын
@@YooperHatesOhioStatedont forget the boys!!
@13_13k
17 күн бұрын
I feel the same way. I've had a lot of women as one night stands, girlfriends, live together girlfriends, girls that are friends, very short marriage, many opportunities where I have a woman and just wasn't feeling it, or had one but didn't realize it and then lost her, but, the ones that you are with for a while and you are loving life with this woman, you are great friends, great sex, she gets up before you and then wakes you up for work with a cup of coffee in bed and maybe a little fun or she says "later" and you shower and she has a lunch made for you, (construction worker, you have no idea how much it means to you to have a lunch made for you) and you are thinking this is great, and then it's over. You aren't living together but a few nights a week at each other's house, and she says she's not ready to be a couple. She wants to go out with another guy and didn't want to hide it from you (honesty is good because I tell every girlfriend that if I feel the need to be with another woman I will tell you and you do the same so that we aren't cheating, we can end it right there.) So, it is what it is. I've done it to women and it has been done to me. But the last time was the last time. It was time for me to be single, for good. Focus on my business that I started from nothing and is doing very well but can always be better, make myself happy, do what I want when I want, no checking in or asking permission or saying I'm not coming over or explaining why I stopped at my buddy's house after work to have a couple beers, no having to go to her parent's or her friend's houses, sleep in, stay up late, eat what I want not what she wants. It's good to be the King. You also realize that we men are the prize. Not women. They want us more than they show you or act like. We make their lives easier while they make our lives more complicated and difficult. The return is never worth the investment especially with the high risk of loss involved. 75% or close to it is women filing for divorce. Over 50% or marriages end in divorce in the first five years and just end in divorce. If you were gonna skydive and the instructor says between 50 and 75% of all jumps has parachute failure and you die, are you going to risk jumping with those odds? Why would you invest your life, career, everything you own, your kids, your retirement, your house, etc... with odds like those statistics show? There's no way.
@Jack908r
17 күн бұрын
I work from home. I support the household. My wife comes into my office at 230-3pm with a cup of tea and a few cookies. I fringing love that. She just comes in with the tea and cookies, and walks out. Good lord I love that woman for just that little act of recognition.
@HoneyWeNeedtoChat
17 күн бұрын
Hey Emily, we love that you are so moved by our clip ❤thank you so much for sharing. We'd love a tag on your reposts so those watching can be encouraged by our other episodes.
@Dana_Bellamy
16 күн бұрын
Yeah. Your clip was the best one! I thought your husband was agreeing with you, but then he spoke... Wow! Powerful! It made me feel blessed because I know my husband feels the same way about me. (Married 21 years this November and six children together).
@Adam.NavyVet
17 күн бұрын
We never get compliments. Ever…After 40+ years I can count them on one hand. How she does show me she cares and loves me is in the things she does for me. Making homemade meals every single night. Making cookies and treats on weekends. Uncounted actions and chores she does every day without fail or complaint. While verbal complaints are rare as hens teeth. There are many ways that we show our love and devotion to us. My Wife is still the Most Beautiful Woman I have ever known or seen. I still get goosebumps when she touches me unexpectedly. Any contact can elicit feelings of love and affection. We see far deeper than the superficial cosmetic stuff. Because Age is an evil overlord and what we look like at 20 is not what we will look like at 50 or 60. We discover the beauty within, that will remain beautiful for the rest of time. That is what we cling to.
@ansonjackson6254
17 күн бұрын
This video should be required viewing for all women. If every woman realized how little reciprocation most men require in a relationship, they would be so much happier and fulfilled. It's not about gifts, it's not about money, it's about RECOGNITION of our efforts. Should be so simple, but most women don't get it. Thanks Emily, for doing your part to educate modern women.
@jagosevatarion8822
17 күн бұрын
a lot of women dont want men to be happy.
@rondasoutherland6882
15 күн бұрын
So.... if I communicated that I do not like receiving flowers as a gift and even with an explanation of why that person only gifts me flowers on special occasions......I am the one being a horrible partner because I didn't jump for joy to get the flowers that I don't like getting?
@ZeroNumerous
9 күн бұрын
@@rondasoutherland6882 Have you tried asking for other gifts? Are you certain you've actually communicated, or are you dropping hints? Have you directly stated "I do not like flowers of any variety. I'd much rather have [gift] instead."? Because otherwise, yes. You are. By being annoyed/curt when receiving gifts: You're communicating to your partner "I do not want your time or your thoughts". Conversely, by not listening if you're genuinely communicating your partner is communicating "I do not care about your desires, this is how I show affection". Either way, you definitely got defensive and sound extremely bitter. Relationship's probably already dead because of a lack of communication on both of your parts. Good luck.
@rondasoutherland6882
9 күн бұрын
@@ZeroNumerous I was up front with what I didn't like. I actually don't like receiving gifts at all..... I'd much rather have an experience than a material thing. I'm a very simple person.
@RmasterD
18 күн бұрын
Yep! The last one has me in my feelings. I may cry.
@TawaraboshiGenba
17 күн бұрын
I can't stress enough how important reciprocation is. Men are also human, and thus, men also have feelings, men also want to be loved, and men also want to know that you want them for who they are and not what material stuff they give you or what feelings they make you feel. If you don't make any effort, if you don't show interest, if you don't communicate and shothat you wantnt us, we won't waste our precious time and effort with you.
@creatureofstyle
13 күн бұрын
I agree, my last relationship was the reverse of this. I was the one showing all the love and he just took me for granted. I didn't get it, I know how other women are so I know he won't easily find another one like me...
@northbeach8336
17 күн бұрын
Too many people think of beauty as a thing that can be photographed. There is that, but it is a small segment of the concept. It builds with the 'reality' of the person. Women who don't look like models in still pictures can be amazing in a video, where their movements are added in. Someone who doesn't catch your eye in a video can be mesmerizing in real life. For some, that builds up each time you see her. When she starts interacting with you, her beauty gets enhanced. Eventually, you can have so many instances of beauty associated with a person that they exceed all others. Sometimes, you're lucky enough to be able to see all those instances coming before they even happen, so that you know she's the most beautiful woman you'll ever meet before she's even started showing it fully.
@michaelreifenstein2114
17 күн бұрын
As a photographer, I understand what you are saying, but it's not going to stop me from trying to capture the image my mind sees. I know why painters paint, and sculptors sculpt. They feel driven to show the beauty contained in their minds and want to share it.
@ZeroNumerous
9 күн бұрын
@@michaelreifenstein2114 Art is always trying to capture the moment seen with the soul.
@michaelreifenstein2114
9 күн бұрын
@ZeroNumerous sure, but a 5 year old can paint better than me. So photography.
@iggs67
17 күн бұрын
From experience, if a woman is a 6 or 7 but nice, caring, respects her man, shows affection, she will be the most beautiful women in the universe. However, even if she's a 10, but shows disrespect, always argues, nags, tells you she can do better, she becomes the ugliest. And I've been in relationships with a couple of very beautiful girls in my 20s. These girls were 8s, 10 for me are supermodels, and after a few times of the above I couldn't even look at them, they were the most disgusting people on the planet and I dumped them without looking back. 2 of them tried to get back with me a few MONTHS later after "dating" other guys, but my answer was "I don't love you anymore, don't call me".
@ultimobile
17 күн бұрын
my woman is a 5 but she cares for me, we've been together over 30 years, and I told her I'm never leaving.
@ficnonnie6006
16 күн бұрын
I used to write my grandfather little notes every morning after my grandmother died. He said once that it didn't make a difference, but I noticed he was less depressed when I gave him those notes. He saved them all. Even if they say they don't care, they do.
@astridsallerlei5355
Сағат бұрын
Oh this is so lovely - thank you so much for sharing.
@stevebaxter5873
17 күн бұрын
I loved this vid. It says it all, but too many Women 'expect' these sentiments from Men without ever reciprocating them. The best girl I ever had was not the best looking, she was the best 'communicator'. She would leave little notes for me, she would write little poems to me, and would touch my arm before asking me a question or making an observation. She became the MOST beautiful Woman in my world and I felt Sooooo lucky to be with her coz I knew she loved me back and it inspired me to be a better person for her every day. God I miss that.
@christopherhill4438
17 күн бұрын
Couldn't agree more! Some people confuse beauty with glamour (hair, clothes makeup etc). Imo beauty is a mysterious combination of looks and personality.
@peterelliott4922
18 күн бұрын
If more women knew how deeply inspiring their genuine appreciation/reciprocity is to us & understood the difference in our mood & drive to provide a good life for them get energised by the respect & appreciation there would be a lot more very happy couples
@svr5423
17 күн бұрын
they know. they don't care.
@foresthiker6707
15 күн бұрын
@@svr5423 Not true for all women, guaranteed!
@foresthiker6707
15 күн бұрын
I'm pleased and blessed to be in the 'happy couples' category... We've been married 23 yrs, and with so much love and laughter! We spoil each other (it's the little things!) every single day. The love is genuine and unconditional.
@svr5423
15 күн бұрын
@@foresthiker6707 doesn't matter. We're talking about typical behaviour. You shouldn't strife to seek validation/appreciation/reciprocity from females. It's not in their nature.
@foresthiker6707
15 күн бұрын
@@svr5423 Oh, I'm not so sure about that, since I am a female 😂 Truly, my husband has never had to seek any of those things from me, because it's in my nature to give them to him unconditionally. I have that same unconditional love for our sons as well. It's a healthy, happy bond. My husband and sons would do anything for me as well, without question.
@calichigal
17 күн бұрын
Reading these comments brings tears to my eyes. The affirming ones, sweet happiness; then the sad ones where men's experiences from women have not been good. I already commented once about my husband - he was the best, and hit all of these. He knew I was the one when he first saw me - but we didn't even actually meet until months later!! Yes, I DID appreciate him, very much, and expressed it. I had witnessed enough broken relationships where the women didn't, that I learned from them. My brother was this kind of man, too. The woman he set his cap for used him. She was very self centered and knew he would do anything for her. It broke my heart.
@idunno6480
17 күн бұрын
Sounds like my ex gf. I hope he can get over it
@kevinward3088
17 күн бұрын
The vast majority of women are like the woman that used your brother , feminist misandrist dehumanising brainwashing is a major factor , 95% + of women follow the " sistahood " and are part of the hive mind.
@VMX1.
16 күн бұрын
When I was young. I always said to the girls I dated " Do unto others as you would have done to you" My wife treated me this way. 23 years married. If you don't want to be treated like garbage then don't treat others like garbage. Simple. It isn't complicated.
@davidj.leavitt7176
17 күн бұрын
Most excellent video. Thank you. Men also find it hard to express our love in mere words. Maybe because we are firm believers in action speaks louder than words. It’s also important to note that in the modern scene, when a man does the little things for you, opening doors, bringing you flowers, snail mailing you a loving card, asking you how / what you’re feeling, etc., he’s not a simp. He genuinely cares for you. If you take those things for granted and don’t reciprocate in your own way, express thanks, and dismiss them, he will stop putting in the effort, reevaluate the relationship, and most probably move on.
@user-iy6de7qi1r
17 күн бұрын
I've been following you for a few months and just recently entered a relationship with a woman who's some distance away. We've grown quite close through messaging, and so much of what you say in this video is quite relevant in our ongoing relationship. I lost my wife of almost forty years to long term disease four years ago, covid being the last straw. I really want this new relationship to blossom and what you just said/showed in this video has real truth and impact so far. I have high hopes, thank you!
@NicoleBeepath
17 күн бұрын
I'm in a long distance relationship with conversations mainly in text. I think a long distance relationship can be very good in developing different types of intimacy so when a physical one does develop that the couple already knows they aren't lust driven. At least when it comes to the relationship I am in I think it has helped us to discuss important issues and not just get caught up in the superficial.
@ohiorushbaby
18 күн бұрын
I'm saving this video for a woman I'm seeking out. One day, when I feel like she's ready to hear this message, I'm going to share it. I'm just in the beginning process of exploring the relationship, and I don't want her to be overwhelmed with my feelings and misappropriate them as hers...I want her to feel genuinely about me the way that I feel about her.
@jsbrads1
17 күн бұрын
Love bombing is gross and manipulative but gentle encouraging in an appropriate time scale is the right way for her too. It isn’t possible to properly love someone if they don’t reciprocate, we need it and so do women. I’m sure you are doing great at it, just remember she needs you to be open too before she can realize the fullness of her own emotions and that is before we start calculating how guarded people often are nowadays. God Bless
@user-hp7ji2zv9s
18 күн бұрын
This video was perfect. The most important thing to a man is not just the way she looks when looking for a wife. ITS THE HOLE PACKAGE, without make up. Men that are most concerned about the way a woman looks are just looking for a fun time. So ladies you need to be responsible first.
@davidgold5961
17 күн бұрын
The HOLE package, as you wrote, has a different meaning than the WHOLE package!
@user-hp7ji2zv9s
17 күн бұрын
@@davidgold5961 OK
@idunno6480
17 күн бұрын
@@davidgold5961yeah but it’s probably a misspelling. We all do it. It’s funny though 😄
@shrodingerschat2258
17 күн бұрын
When my wife and I started dating, we couldn't see each other that often, but we did email each other 2 or 3 times a day (before the advent of texting and smartphones). I printed off and saved every one of her emails. I still have them to this day. We just celebrated our 25th anniversary this month.
@foresthiker6707
15 күн бұрын
Happy Anniversary!💗💗 That's a sweet story. We just celebrated our 23rd last month, and yes, we've kept all of those little notes and things sacred as well. 😊
@clvo2004
11 күн бұрын
Oh same here! I printed off the first 100 emails and put them in sheet protectors and stuck them in a binder. It’s in our closet. ❤️😂 Every now and then I pull it out and read them. We celebrated 20 years in July. Happy Anniversary to you and your wife! Yay!
@toasterpastries5811
13 күн бұрын
7:35 *A man's deep love for his wife builds and builds and builds until she divorces him for not being "alpha enough." Watched my mom do it to my dad after 25 years of marriage. He was never the same again. He declined down a pit of mental illness.*
@markjolyn94
17 күн бұрын
We've been together for over 30 years,and tomorrow,the 30th is our 29th wedding anniversary. I am so blessed to be married to my soulmate. There is no one that comes close to her in any way
@dynastyextreme9409
13 күн бұрын
Totally agree with the third video. Surface level beauty goes away over time. Inner beauty to the core, is something that is priceless.
@tomfinn9887
18 күн бұрын
Agree with you Emily. Also, you understand men very well.
@grahamwarrin3313
17 күн бұрын
I have watched thousands of videos on KZitem and I have to say this is one of the truest, most insightful videos I have seen. Emily understands men more than any other relationship expert or woman I have come across in the past sixty years. Emily, you are an absolute gem - bless you.
@lyfandeth
18 күн бұрын
If he brings your lazy day morning coffee to your nightstand before he wakes you, he's in love.
@user-vh8oz8vh4n
17 күн бұрын
And it still didn't matter. I don't drink coffee but would make it and bring her a mug the way she liked it. Wasted time.
@JimKittell6486
16 күн бұрын
Real beauty is far more than skim deep. When I met my wife, she was above average in looks, about 100 lbs. Over the last 1/3 century, she added about 2 lbs/yr, 160 lbs. My love keeps growing.
@johnnygood4831
16 күн бұрын
The last video nailed it. When I met my wife, I would have considered her about a 6, but what I saw after looking into her eyes raised her to an 8. There was so much life and beauty in there. When I would go to get her flowers, the usual response from the florist would be, "What did you do wrong?". Nothing, I just wanted to. Her health has gone down over the years and her allergies have gotten worse, so real flowers are out. I got her 3 metal roses instead. 1 red, as it's her favourite colour and it stands for love. 1 gold as gold is forever. 1 blue which no one will really understand unless you have seen the movie, The Thief of Bagdad from 1961. He has to go through many trials to find a blue rose to cure the princess and marry her, so the blue rose is that I wish I could cure her of her illness. I got tears just writing this. That is how a real man loves.
@rmt74358
17 күн бұрын
4:12. I think it's awesome that this man wrote how how he feels about his Woman, and writes it down. I'm glad his Woman his happy about what she found, what he wrote, what he remembers, etc. What does seem bothersome and it's just an opinion. He seemed bothered to share that. It was personal, sentimental, and she took that and shared it online. I would have been upset. I personally would have felt that she is taking this opportunity to seek attention more than just being happy. It does seem that he was writing this all out online. It would have been available for everyone to see. She should have shared it after that. Not in her time.
@NicoleBeepath
17 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video and thank you for these comments. They help verify just how sincere and wonderful of a guy I found. Plus, the comments are just so educational to know how to appreciate the man God has sent me. I do compliment him a lot especially on his character and intellect because I think those deeper things likely get overlooked. I didn't realize why he found me amazing cause I am one of those good people whom are usually overlooked, taken advantage of, and underappreciated. Now, I see how all of that has helped me to understand and love him like he needs. The more positive media and comments I see about relationships makes me realize it's never too late for God to change things for the better. Blessings to everyone.
@mds_main
15 күн бұрын
There was this girl that I deeply felt in love with and I noticed I had some differences in my behavior towards her rather than with other people. Starting from the things mentioned in this video, I also tried to keep physical memories of us together and I tried to remember all the important stuff about her and most importantly despite objectively her not being that much "conventionally attractive" I honestly still think she is the most beautiful human being on the planet ever. But also, both me and her put special emphasis on time and its importance and I always made sure I was prioritizing her time over mine because I just felt this incredible push to just put all of myself only to have her be happy. Not in a simp way (I hate that word), it was genuine love and she very much appreciated that when she noticed it. Unfortunately she only saw me as a friend and we are still very good friends to this day, but I guess loving someone also means to let them go...
@jonny555ive
22 минут бұрын
The little notes, the picking up something while shes out just for you because she thought you'd like it, the pet names she calls you..... These things mean the WORLD to us men, because she doesn't HAVE to do them....She WANTS to. That is how you treat a man who you love because we will show you that love TEN FOLD, because thats what WE WANT to do. Show him you really love him, we really need to see it and we will not take it for granted.❤️
@amywalsh4006
4 күн бұрын
This explains a lot because when I do something that I consider mundane or just what you do if you genuinely love a man, like check up on how something is going that is important to him of being the one to initiate a catch up or even effection, he makes a point of commenting how much that means to him. But at first I thought it's not really a huge deal, I'm not sure why he's so enthusiastic over these little things. But I think it's just something he hasn't experienced a lot of before, and also coming from a childhood of abuse and the instability within the foster care system, it just means so much to him.
@marcusmoon1000
17 күн бұрын
Telling my wife she is beautiful has nothing to do with what she looks like. Makeup, salon trips, jewelry and clothes cannot change her beauty. Getting old, toothless, fat, and wrinkled cannot diminish it. When I say the woman I love is beautiful, what I always mean is, "It makes me happy to look at you." Usually, it also means, "I know the universe loves me because you are in the same place as me so I can be made happy by looking at you." I married that woman so that for the rest of my life, I would always know the universe loves me. I work hard to take care of my wife so that the universe will continue to bless me with her.
@rickypickles5046
17 күн бұрын
You are one of the most beautiful people I've ever known. When my daughter was 12 she came home crying cause a boy called her ugly. I told her that it is natural to have a first impression simply based on looks but as time passes that first view changes. A 5 can be a 10. A10 can be a 1. You are what is inside. My daughter is a 10!
@dewardroy6531
17 күн бұрын
As usual, for me anyway, you have made everything plain. I am a widower for 11 years. What you have to say is pure gold for the young. Most unlikely love will ever find me again, but life and love go on, and what you say here will always be true for the next generation.❤️
@JohnNewton-oo9um
17 күн бұрын
You are absolutely bang on Emily! I say in my own words 'It is the light from within that illuminates the body and gives it its beauty!' A lot of women just don't understand that the smallest and simplest of gestures on their part can mean the whole world to us and be something we will never forget. When we men do something for a women, just her genuine appreciation for it is the greatest high we can experience❣️
@doma3554
17 күн бұрын
The way Emily’s voice got a little low at the start of the video when she talked about the third video, and the way she kind of itched near her eye when the third video was actually playing, you could tell it really meant a lot to her. :)
@grewdpastor
17 күн бұрын
My wife and I have been together since November 1968. We met during our university studies. Both of us practiced our profession (medicine) for years. She had her own practice in a general hospital; I myself worked in another hospital. Together we had 3 children (now in their forties). She considered herself nothing special, but I disagreed with her. When she was found to have a basalioma in a nostril 8 years ago, a deforming surgery proved necessary. Fortunately, a repair surgery could be done. The plastic surgeon did his best recovery with a swing of skin flap. My otherwise by no means vain spouse continued to feel deformed. Fortunately, I was able to comfort her by saying that the sweetest and dearest “ cuddliest pets” always limp along after years. And she was, is and will always be "my sweet cuddle". 🥰🥰
@cameronrautmann2761
18 күн бұрын
Wow, I was totally engrossed in this video, and right in the middle, up popped Kamala Harris dancing again. What a buzz kill! This is definitely the best video you have posted, by far! Finally someone that communicates the true depth of men.
@user-su6wy3bj4v
17 күн бұрын
Reminds me of this one time I borrowed my car to my brother for a couple days when his was at the repair shop, and when he brought it back, he asked me what scent/car freshener I had used in the car. The reason he asked was because his wife of several years at that point had made an off mention that the car had a nice smell, and so he immediately thought he'll use the same in his car as well. (In case someone is wondering, the car scent was a combination of vanilla, strawberry, and pine)
@SB-qn1vo
18 күн бұрын
Thank you Emily
@Hodenkat
17 күн бұрын
Women who treat men like the ones in these videos are unicorns for sure. I do believe they exist but there are very few. I don't doubt there are a few who have grown cold because they've been mistreated by a callous hearted man. To those women I would just like to say, the number of good men out there far outnumbers the callous jerks. Be careful, but once you're sure, let that man know that you appreciate him. Show him you care. You will be repaid X1000%
@christopherpardell4418
17 күн бұрын
I am a figure sculptor. There is no woman so beautiful in appearance that I can’t make a sculpture that is even more beautiful. But the clay cannot feel my hand upon it. Beauty in art is just a metaphor for what really matters; for goodness, for kindness, for a giving nature. Things we can only hint at in a painting, photo or sculpture. The woman who gives her true heart fully and in genuine connection will always shine so much more brightly in her man’s eyes that no other can compare, and that kind of beauty does not dim with age.
@justmejk
17 күн бұрын
I did all the little things for my BF of over 5 years (we didn't live together) - little touches, unexpected little kisses, made him coffee 1st thing, cooked a nice breakfast Sunday mornings, etc etc. I dont know. Maybe he just didn't know how to receive love and affection. He certainly didn't know how to show it. In the end, what did I get? Ghosted. These videos are so sweet and heart-warming.
@SuperAfikaaShow
16 күн бұрын
same thing happened to me when all i did was love. Now i'll just focus on me
@HeraldOfChaos76
18 күн бұрын
These guys are fucking Kings dude seriously
@phillipbecker4393
17 күн бұрын
Im married, but im still lonely if that makes any sense. I don't know how else to explain it. I agree with this video! Have a great day👍
@tdrive398
17 күн бұрын
Great vid. Most Men would keep a single cup for life- dude had DOZENS. He's a blessed guy. We're VERY rarely shown any appreciation, even by those who claim to love us. But God forbid if a woman goes even a single day without a compliment!!!
@mikebrewersr3379
3 күн бұрын
Beauty start in the heart which am shown in not only you actions towards the one you love ,but also associates, and goes way farther then that!!!
@rena5789
17 күн бұрын
So, so sweet! Thank you so much for these videos - for us women to appreciate our men further more 💖
@lybor4533
17 күн бұрын
Yeah, it makes big difference between someone, who is just hot and someone, who is beautiful as whole person. Being special for someone as person makes relationship far more compatible and it´s far easier to love such human.
@Alan-jx7uk
17 күн бұрын
I loved a girl a long time ago. I would do little things for her and she would write me notes of appreciation. Things didn't work out between us. 40yrs later I still have those notes and a few pictures. Those notes mean as much to me now as they did then.
@beac8238
13 күн бұрын
Why didn’t it work out?
@Alan-jx7uk
13 күн бұрын
@@beac8238 It was supposed to be platonic roommate. But I fell in love, she didn't. I've never had a roommate or a serious relationship since.
@ZeroNumerous
9 күн бұрын
@@Alan-jx7uk Shit dude. I'm sorry.
@Alan-jx7uk
9 күн бұрын
@@ZeroNumerous Thanks, I think I'm a better person having had her in my life, even if it was for a shorter time than I would have liked. I've heard she's happily married. And I'm happy for her. I've never been mad at her, she's a good person she just didn't have feelings for me.
@lordgrimoz6085
15 күн бұрын
My ex wife was appreciative in the beginning to just simple reminders that I love and appreciate her, but at the end she turned it against me. My current wife is completely different. I ask about her day when I come home from work, I give her flowers (not to fix a problem) randomly, my love language is touch (random caresses, hugs, cuddle and kisses). Those things I was brought up to understand, because for 8 to 10 work hours a day there may not be any contact between us, there are 8 hours dedicated to sleep, so you only have 1/3 of the day to listen, support, nurture, and keep that spark from dying.
@themookie2112
2 күн бұрын
Just found you about a week ago, and after watching about 10 of your videos, you are AWESOME!!!! You know how men feel and act. Thank you for bringing this out into the open. Thank you, Thank you! Much Love!!! (oh, and I subscribed, also.)
@karlcattegut8100
17 күн бұрын
As someone with ESL, whose mother tongue's concept of beauty, refers only to outer beauty, I've never understood the English conflation of inner and outer beauty. In the third clip, the woman was clearly talking about her outer beauty (and she is 'outer'-beautiful), and how she isn't the most 'outer'-beautiful woman in the world (true) but that she is the most special (I understood special to mean a combination of inner beauty and emotional bond) woman in the world to him, and then the man interrupts with all these 'inner'-beauty and emotional bond things that makes her the overall most beautiful woman in the world to him. And my only thought is: That is EXACTLY what she was saying. I guess I've found another pet peeve: agreeing but talking past each other because you use the same word with different meanings or different words with the same meaning.
@ZeroNumerous
9 күн бұрын
No, the problem is that she makes the distinction. He doesn't. They weren't talking about the same thing. She was making the distinction between her outer appearance and her inner world, her beauty and her specialness, while he was pointing out he doesn't care about her outer appearance only her inner world, and that's what he associates as beauty. To her, it's two separate qualities she possesses, to him it's one quality. Furthermore English conflates inner beauty and outer beauty? It doesn't. The Mona Lisa is beautiful, but Gal Gadot is attractive. We have different words for those two qualities for a reason. The problem is that many women conflate attractiveness with beauty. Many men do not. We recognize one exists and the other exists as separate things, and while we find a woman attractive, hot, pretty, etc: Beauty means it's own thing.
@EnduringInIdaho
17 күн бұрын
This is a great example. A man's love and commitment is different.
@sbarmiueenl
4 күн бұрын
There's aesthetics, and then there's beauty. And they barely overlap.
@charlesmcnider4948
3 күн бұрын
This video made me click the subscribe button. I appreciate this channel, the woman who own this channel isn't one-sided. God Bless us all!
@michaelmetcalfe639
9 күн бұрын
I don't know about the collecting cups or the notes on the phone. The beauty one at the end is definitely spot on
@reptiliansquad7225
17 күн бұрын
This was grate as a man and a u.s soldier i appreciate you and you got my seal of approval on that note id love to see a video explaining the distain / stereotype when it comes to dating military personnel and why we are seen in a negative light most of the time
@reptiliansquad7225
17 күн бұрын
Sorry if I miss spelled anything or have improper grammar I'm on a 24h shift
@ZeroNumerous
9 күн бұрын
@@reptiliansquad7225 Fuck I hate those. Oorah.
@andrewgraham6953
10 күн бұрын
I honestly cant put into words just how cathartic it is to see your work. As a survivor of female to male abuse.
@davidhannabach5271
17 күн бұрын
As a man who has never been truly in love this was eye opening
@captainfrosty31
16 күн бұрын
My man has a memory shelf on the wall, there's things like a travel bottle of shampoo from our first hotel stay, a painted stone from a trip to a food festival, a business card from the shepards hut we stayed at and so many more little trinkets. He also keeps the two valentines cards I've drawn him stuck to his fridge 😊 ❤
@ponyhaly6131
17 күн бұрын
I’m naturally clingy and my husband loves that about me!
@NicoleBeepath
17 күн бұрын
Great to know cause I am like that and even though there are dating gurus that refer to it as a red flag my guy loves that.
@marjoleintje2009
5 күн бұрын
Same, I'm super clingy but I'm always scared of overdoing it since the stereotype is that that will push guys away (seen it happen aswell) 7 years into marriage I'm still apologizing that I'm so clingy sometimes, and my husband keeps telling me he loves it, because he loves to feel wanted and needed.
@Sparklyeyedmisfit
17 күн бұрын
I'm crying happy tears over here..I don't cry easy..how sweet these couples are to each other..couple goals..😊❤❤..I'm single..thank you for posting these videos..😊
@biglew1161
13 күн бұрын
Fred Sanford said "beauty is only skin deep but ugly goes straight to the bone". I'm sure he was being derogatory in that moment but. I take it to be that yes physical beauty is only skin deep but if you have an ugly soul, that runs deep. same with a beautiful soul that means more to us than anything.
@Andrea-l1o1n
17 күн бұрын
I love your videos because they show me how to treat my husband better and better.
@yolobatus8200
15 күн бұрын
This feature of KZitem of showing different comments at different moments makes the video better
@tobyfitzpatrick565
15 күн бұрын
Omg. The 3rd video has me in tears. So beautiful.
@adamsmith7682
17 күн бұрын
A woman that a man finds truly beautiful, she becomes the measure of beauty he uses in the future. It is an *emergent* property, more than the sum of physical beauty, shared experiences, attraction, affection, complementarity, sexuality, sympathy, empathy, integrity, humility, cupidity - all combine and the whole is greater than the sum of the parts.
@JohnSmith-ij4xe
16 күн бұрын
I have to agree with the last video as beauty cannot always be explained because it’s more than just looks but also a feeling and how you are treated. I have only ever found this with 1 woman which I never knew what true unconditional love before I met her(beyond what regular love is), beauty and that a woman’s imperfections are what also makes her perfect and to top it off it feel like home. It’s a wild experience.
@riaanbreedt5490
17 күн бұрын
very true we not only appreciate it but we cherish it
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