This is my younger brother. So honored to see him be vulnerable and authentic. He's a great uncle to my two boys. Love you Cardell.
@rodrigomoralesmedellin8293
2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful family you got there. Wish you all the best.
@advaitbleh
2 жыл бұрын
cap
@Ashley-yp4yt
2 жыл бұрын
He seems like he has a really good head in his shoulders and a good heart! The way they can communicate and not really agree, but still respect each other. Wow, whoever raised him should be proud!
@notapeopleperson6761
2 жыл бұрын
@@advaitbleh just because you don’t know him doesn’t mean no one does bruh
@CactusJack252
2 жыл бұрын
Give your younger brother a hug for me
@leonkosi_
2 жыл бұрын
This shows how the couple have 100% transparency in their relationship
@Kas_Styles
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@adrijavalaityte6292
2 жыл бұрын
Fr❤️
@Ceeboyforlife
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah meanwhile she skipping birth control pills cause unexpected pregnancies of which she cancels causing him trauma while she’s completely unbothered. As a result he consults with his wife to assist him in coping with the situation of which clearly isn’t the first time he’s done so.
@mkaz8938
2 жыл бұрын
@@Ceeboyforlife Exactly what I thought. Not quite the best transparency here
@BellxZora
2 жыл бұрын
That’s was my biggest thought on this too!
@theonlythingihavetosayis9333
2 жыл бұрын
This man chose truth on camera vs drinking when talking about him talking to his ex about the abortion. Now that is a really respectable trait right there
@rosalinaburton3061
2 жыл бұрын
Even more so is the fact that it wasn't a surprise to his partner.
@Ceeboyforlife
2 жыл бұрын
He needs a better woman, but first he need to better himself, he’s soft. How they interact she obviously lead this relationship, he’s just happy to be there.
@iMsOiNsO
2 жыл бұрын
@@Ceeboyforlife bruh you must be single or a horrible partner. they are a good couple
@oreochocolate_lavacake9960
Жыл бұрын
@@Ceeboyforlife what's wrong with her being the dominant one?
@elenar1170
2 жыл бұрын
Seeing him cry about the loss made me cry too.. so sorry for them
@Llynnyia
2 жыл бұрын
Alcohol is a depressant
@oooladip
2 жыл бұрын
ikr! I almost started tearing up
@sBaby-bp9xn
2 жыл бұрын
For him she said it like she was so proud of the abortion
@keasiacrossty2025
2 жыл бұрын
@@sBaby-bp9xn they’re talking about the miscarriage bud
@sBaby-bp9xn
2 жыл бұрын
@@keasiacrossty2025 I know but she’s so proud of say about what I said not the miscarriage part
@reneka8724
2 жыл бұрын
Mad respect for a man who's strong enough to show his emotions / sadness. They'll make great parents one day.
@tommylus3672
2 жыл бұрын
facts
@DA-js7xz
2 жыл бұрын
It sucks that emotions have to be gendered to begin with. So dumb!
@loopymomy2532
2 жыл бұрын
@@DA-js7xz emotions aren't gendered. My guy us expressing emotions that don't mean guys in general don't have them just because they don't wine or get sad about stuff. Many guys express anger and that too is an emotion.
@dasia_179
2 жыл бұрын
Need a man like that 🤣
@JulieWallis1963
2 жыл бұрын
More respect for the man that is sensible enough to wear a condom! If he doesn’t want kids, he should prevent an unwanted pregnancy. This is not just a woman’s job!
@_all_around_us
2 жыл бұрын
6:28 i love how he says "I'm hurt" but he immediately corrects it because he doesn't want her to even assume she has any fault in it. That right there is real love.
@誠-f9c
2 жыл бұрын
A selfish and shameless killer.
@PoopinRainbows
2 жыл бұрын
I think it’s good he said “I’m hurt.” He labelled HIS own feelings. Then explained further. It would be different if he said “YOU hurt me.”
@heyboogiee
2 жыл бұрын
He didn’t have to correct it tho..he’s talking about his feelings not putting blame.
@SisterSanMiguel
2 жыл бұрын
The fact that he corrects himself shows me he cannot express all of what he was thinking. It’s sad actually not really healthy
@ineedsomrmilk
Жыл бұрын
@@SisterSanMiguel no he expressed it and then clarified it because he knew she blamed herself it’s extremely healthy
@fryeday
2 жыл бұрын
Every once in a while a couple comes along and you think, "Wow, if they don't make it, there is no hope for any of us." This is one of those couples you want to see face every obstacle they have and succeed together.
@raymax_1071
2 жыл бұрын
And even if they don't make it, I'm sure they would deal with it perfectly. Mature and intelligent people make mature and smart decisions.
@Ceeboyforlife
2 жыл бұрын
Wtf are you people talking about. They are terrible because he is soft and tolerate her obnoxious behavior and those stupid outbursts. She’s selfish and he has no backbone to speak of, good luck.
@ceandremayweathers9450
2 жыл бұрын
@@Ceeboyforlife and she literally murdered her baby
@faithmassey9489
2 жыл бұрын
Ong
@aa-cx8nc
2 жыл бұрын
no way i want him to have better than that
@javierdominguez8884
2 жыл бұрын
I love the vulnerability on display here. You can tell how open they are with each other and the growth each of them had along the way.
@orianasalas8195
2 жыл бұрын
This man is really such a gem. His sincerity is so touching ♥️
@mten6968
2 жыл бұрын
These two are legit people and a great couple. They’re going to be great parents one day and they are supportive of each other on that journey already! Bring them back!
@DometriousTheTitan
2 жыл бұрын
I don't usually comment. But I have to say I absolutely love these two. Beautiful people, beautiful relationship, and I'm rooting for them to have that child and build their family
@14freckles14
2 жыл бұрын
This feels like the definition of a healthy relationship
@oluwabunmiayodele1873
2 жыл бұрын
He's friends with his ex wife and she was the only one he was able to turn to😳😳. This is a matured man right here 👏👏
@ivieaiwuyo784
2 жыл бұрын
Awww this couple was so adorable. I love the unconditional respect and honesty they give to each other 🥺🥺🥺
@user-is3wf7ts2p
2 жыл бұрын
their relationship seems sooooo healthy and they’re both great people i wish them the best and a lot of healthy babies in the future ❤️
@MzR3dD6
Жыл бұрын
I honestly think she’s not wanting kids at all. He does on the hand and you can tell he wants a family. But the abortion in beginning was selfish.
@annalowran6092
2 жыл бұрын
Poor man has a lot of pain for both their lost babies. Gonna make a great dad
@elisa3667
2 жыл бұрын
My husband and I lost our first baby at around 14 weeks, We just had our rainbow baby a month ago (term given for babies born after a miscarriage) and though we’re so blessed to have our healthy boy here, the pain of losing our first will never go away. it’s so important to discuss these things and take the stigma away from them.
@righteousrebellion90
2 жыл бұрын
There is a serious disconnect here...
@DramasArmy
2 жыл бұрын
I speak into existence that this beautiful couple will become parents to multiple beautiful souls that bring light and love unto this world, that change the world and bring peace to all that know them.
@brittanyhunter3331
2 жыл бұрын
We underestimate the impact of abortion and parenthood on men.
@carolbenson8963
2 жыл бұрын
Love them and together they just mesh so well. The communication, the transparency and raw emotion really gets me. That’s a real relationship.
@AshaniPearson
2 жыл бұрын
I just cried man , I had to do the same thing even though mentally I’m ready to become a parent, I’m not ready in the physical aspect and I would need more support tbh , I’ve been kinda just grieving my pregnancy loss in silence although my partner has cried with me it feels like I’m alone 😪
@janab2900
2 жыл бұрын
When couple’s blend so well together you just know they have a great healthy relationship. Like, they are one thing man
@missliley2271
2 жыл бұрын
I want this type of relationship where they choose honesty even though they know it can hurt their partner, and I hope I could be mature enough to accept that honesty even though it hurts me so bad
@nikok3417
2 жыл бұрын
He's so open and vulnerable, very sweet
@DeeRayOfSunshine
2 жыл бұрын
He really loves her. If he didn’t he would have left. Goodness watching his emotion did something to me!
@dark.angel1880
Жыл бұрын
If my future partner isn't like this man I don't want it. Wow. He's such a beautiful person.
@victorsoto1208
2 жыл бұрын
I can see the pain in his eyes.. but my mad respects for him for going through it with his girlfriend
@crunkxbella
2 жыл бұрын
Bless this couple. I hope they have a beautiful, healthy baby soon. What amazing parents they will be!
@zonegh0st
2 жыл бұрын
The transparency and honesty in this couple is so beautiful!
@blessedndhlovu1023
Жыл бұрын
I just saw this on the snap channel and need to find it on here and say this: I absolutely love their relationship, dynamic, their love for each other, their communication, vulnerability, support, honesty, humour, the way they look at each other and that toast at the end 💜💜💜💜💜 Much love to both of them and I wish them the very best in their journey 💜
@hemlocke7359
Жыл бұрын
This woman is maaaaad narcissistic. I feel bad for my boy.
@dinahernandez2930
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly wow. They were so mature and open & respectful every second. Its so rare to see these days… its sad but hopeful
@dinahernandez2930
2 жыл бұрын
Oh my God the ending. I’m literally IN TEARS. I want this🥺
@sinqobilemncube
2 жыл бұрын
"it hurts when it hits the cervix" Nice life problems
@_jasminvargas
Жыл бұрын
They are absolutely beautiful. I wish them love, happiness and hope to get a baby one day. I hope they keep this healthy relationship going :)
@yello4411
2 жыл бұрын
what a sweet, sweet couple. when they tried one upping each other with the "i love you" 😭
@BelleB88
2 жыл бұрын
You are both such amazing, genuine people but he right there is a gem! He's so sweet, caring and sensitive- really shows how much he adores and loves her 💗
@rayannwashington7568
Жыл бұрын
This was painful to watch. Ending a healthy pregnancy with someone you love, for a non-medical reason, and who wants to help you raise the baby is a cold hearted move. There's a reason why only 10% of doctors are willing to perform them. The 90% know it is ending an innocent life due to another's carelessness. There's something deeply wrong with our generation. Her responses are callous, but his reaction shows he still has his humanity. Surgicly terminating a healthy pregnancy due to the unplanned timing is a sensless act of violence against the unborn. Surgical abortions are brutal, as they rip the unborn limb by limb. In medical abortions they are burned alive from the inside out. Scientists have also discovered that the unborn can feel pain way before they are at a viable age. I'm done with social media today. I wish he could have stood up for the child he wanted, but with the ways the laws are structured he doesn't get a say in the fate of his child. What has happened to our women?
@RandomKeto
Жыл бұрын
Yes so tough to watch.
@firstnamelastname-uk7jc
2 жыл бұрын
oh never been this early lol, looking forward to watching
@tokiepoke
2 жыл бұрын
i love their bond and when they look at eachother and puff up their cheeks before they laugh uncontrollably 😭
@mishilaashlyn5994
2 жыл бұрын
😞 I just wanted to hug him. I lost 4 babies myself. I'm glad she's so positive and there for him. ❤️
@lupelay7201
2 жыл бұрын
This is so real and true, their relationship is beyond words.
@ToriBomb
2 жыл бұрын
This helped me see the male perception of all of this and helped me a lot.! Thank you 💕
@isimioyekunlemarktaiwo3643
2 жыл бұрын
What did you think? You thought all men are hyper masculine people with no emotions and always sexist? People are people..people will think different.
@cheesemuffinman6
2 жыл бұрын
I wish we lived in a world where people cared about good men as much as they cared about women and chosen. This man deserves everything he wants.
@SisterSanMiguel
2 жыл бұрын
Right I hope he gets that big family he wants
@Lilmissgenesis
2 жыл бұрын
Man.. when he got emotional that shit almost made me cry too 🥺
@elledoesmusic
Жыл бұрын
The laugh they shared when they were talking about how frequently they have sex was the cutest thing I've seen today 🥺
@koko4533
2 жыл бұрын
They're cute couple, and being thoughtful to each other, it's a really nice and funny video
@BubonicPlague1347
2 жыл бұрын
They are the healthy relationship we never saw growing up lmao
@ealyp1
2 жыл бұрын
I love that he was there for her most of all! I love that but women have to take into consideration of the man’s feelings
@allthingstravon21
2 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for straight people. Yall gotta think about pregnancy 😩 I'd be so paranoid every time I had sex if I were straight LMAO
@squiddytentacles2.5
2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@lissy1678
2 жыл бұрын
Fr
@noh3987
2 жыл бұрын
That’s a GOOD man. And a woman who knows what she wants and is unapologetic about it. Love it.
@theflyestfella9832
Жыл бұрын
Nothing more healthier than seeing a black man being able to express himself and have empathy for others.
@allyraverty6644
Жыл бұрын
This one made me cry. They are so supportive of eachother
@sethbrumini378
2 жыл бұрын
That man is so sweet, pure and genuine. She has a good man and it looks like she knows it. I hope their love lasts forever. ❤️
@cameronx8711
2 жыл бұрын
This whole thing makes me sad , angry . I just can’t accept scenarios like this for some reason , like it’s a kid not a puppy u can’t pick and choose , that a life , idk man
@cammy1002
2 жыл бұрын
He is foul for the laugh comment. She will never be fully happy with you again.
@heyitsnatalie49
2 жыл бұрын
ME LITERALLY LOVINGGG HER LAUGH BC I LAUGH THE SAME WAY HJDHAJS
@ericaaguilar1017
2 жыл бұрын
he’s the type of partner i would want when it comes to having the baby talk
@mariiiana_o
2 жыл бұрын
I think this has become my favorite cut video. Beautiful couple. Real feelings. Amazing.
@michellecobb8403
Жыл бұрын
Best Truth or Drink I've seen so far! Such a mature, respectful and loving couple. Will definitely be great parents! Blessings to you both
@Elizabeth77755
Жыл бұрын
I think it is sad when anyone kills their own unborn baby. She could care less. It bothered him. It still bothers him.
@benblarney
2 жыл бұрын
Never above u never below u always by ur side
@shawnbrown8791
2 жыл бұрын
This was so pure like you can tell they have such a healthy relationship
@raynarayskye
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry taking the pill is NOT hard.
@puneetk549
2 жыл бұрын
They are such a good balance…. He is the reserved responsible one that takes life too seriously and she is the flexible a little out there and keeps things light. You guys have such a beautiful relationship don’t let this hurdle bother u too much!!!
@destheamazon9578
2 жыл бұрын
A man that exudes emotional intelligence is a great man indeed!
@tomfoley5837
2 жыл бұрын
seeing him cry made me for cry for the first time ever watching a cut video
@emrecansoker2117
2 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos I watched in KZitem. So sincere and real…
@luci4087
2 жыл бұрын
when you’re in a relationship, decisions and opinions should be discussed and respected. yes, it is a woman’s body and her choice, but it’s also a matter of respect and trust for each other and the relationship. i’m not talking about this couple but in general. i’ve seen women get an abortion and then notify their partner after it was already done, and the relationship shattered. trust and respect goes both ways. women can make the decision by themselves, but they should have the respect to discuss it with their partner beforehand. (if you’re looking into birth control, look into nexplanon or an iud versus the pill. the pill can be the least reliable due to the patient missing days or not taking it on time and more. finding the right birth control can take some time, but talk to your doctor about different options if you are having issues with yours from weight gain, mood issues, etc.)
@JsjaBejs
Жыл бұрын
Or he can get a hysterectomy
@TheGoonbear
2 жыл бұрын
Wow what an amazing couple. They’ll be great parents when it happens for them. I wish them the best💜
@Brookehhxd
2 жыл бұрын
"I wasn't counting, but I mean I was counting" 😂
@cosmic_peach
2 жыл бұрын
What a refreshing couple! Haven't found a truth or drink couple who's vibe I enjoyed this much in a while
@PBWK
2 жыл бұрын
Definition of a beautiful couple.
@Lord_Juvens
2 жыл бұрын
I respect their choice, it's probably for the better, if you can't take the pill responsibly or use other means of preventing pregnancy (out of the norm circumstances/higher power excluded) then it's probably not the right time for being a parent either. Although personally I don't necessarily agree with abortion being an "easy-way-out" for people who can't have intercourse in a responsible manner.
@phineasfromtheshow
2 жыл бұрын
the respect and love i have for both of them is insane. their relationship comes off so strong and i am rooting for them 199%. good luck!
@Off_to_see_thewizard
2 жыл бұрын
Her spirit just shines…wow 🥹 Hope to see them both again in another video. In a time where everything is fake for social media, they really seem so genuine❤️
@KillTheCupcakes
2 жыл бұрын
I just can’t relate to mourning the loss of cells. That’s like crying bc you have a period. Just seems so illogical.
@Nobars-z1q
2 жыл бұрын
"Never above you,never below. Always by your side." I stan for that.
@HelloAllie
2 жыл бұрын
Same! I had never heard that before either
@christinec.7976
2 жыл бұрын
yeah, I'm definitely using that one!
@carolcanales4347
2 жыл бұрын
That’s the first time I ever witnessed that type of cheers😭
@khae_g
2 жыл бұрын
Amazing.
@Kas_Styles
2 жыл бұрын
Same. Love it
@anonnona6433
2 жыл бұрын
This is one HEALTHY relationship. Respect and communication 100%
@fey9915
2 жыл бұрын
Every shot they took was for fun, 100% transparency otherwise
@HackerNils
2 жыл бұрын
Except for her insecurity regarding his female friends.
@moonflowers333
2 жыл бұрын
@@HackerNils nahh that was his ex-WIFE. nothing wrong with her reaction. her feelings are valid
@fey9915
2 жыл бұрын
@@Pedant_Patrol shouldn't you be trying to figure out how to start fire somewhere 🤣
@mrsmiley4842
2 жыл бұрын
This is not a healthy relationship. He obviously holds a lot of resentment towards her because of her choice to abort, and you can tell they have problems. Very sad overall.
@prayagpomaje
2 жыл бұрын
He's gonna be a great dad. Hope he get lot of kids in future.
@hoodhealthywithhuff8815
2 жыл бұрын
Why would u curse someone like thay
@isabelsweere8332
2 жыл бұрын
i'd like to think he will
@AlwaysAlicia2991
2 жыл бұрын
@@hoodhealthywithhuff8815 right lol
@Ceeboyforlife
2 жыл бұрын
It won’t be by her. She may give him a kid if he doesn’t wake up and she runs him off. He’ll get one, MAYBE a second at best. She doesn’t care to be a mom so much but she also doesn’t want to deprive him I don’t think.
@littlemissmaybe480
2 жыл бұрын
It’s sad that his baby that never had a chance to live that he could never meet his/her father.
@MollyBurkeOfficial
Жыл бұрын
I am obsessed with them as a couple.
@keksfresse8553
Жыл бұрын
Aww, I think so too!!! :)
@emms8
Ай бұрын
Molly❤
@johnrodriguez1164
2 жыл бұрын
Abortions and miscarriages are topics that need to be spoken about. The percentages on both of those are a lot higher than most people know.
@SkillzKillzBR
2 жыл бұрын
Why do people need to know the number of abortions?
@EnzoPepsiCola
2 жыл бұрын
@@SkillzKillzBR perhaps to "normalise" discussion about the topic?
@ashtonmylin2358
2 жыл бұрын
It’s a shared experience that brings light to sometimes an unfortunate situation that makes others feel less alone. It’s not a bad thing and this couple expressed both the pain and joy of their relationships journey…that also happened to include an abortion and miscarriage. ❤️
@ashtheleech
2 жыл бұрын
THIS
@ashtheleech
2 жыл бұрын
exactly
@SaharaColeman
2 жыл бұрын
Oh yes we need more couples to come on here and discuss this sensitive topic. Good to get an outlook on how people on both sides feel about it.
@simonopps
2 жыл бұрын
I kinda agree, but then again, I don't think that this is a way that works for a lot of couples.
@on3andonlym3
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed I would love to see it from all different perspectives! Haha my niece is prego and naming her son Miles Cash 🤪 I don’t like the miles but I kinda love cash lol everyone love $$$
@syniahthomas977
2 жыл бұрын
@@on3andonlym3 I like cash who doesn't 😈😎
@SevenHunnid
2 жыл бұрын
How come When i look at the top & see all the succesful people.. there is NO mexicans 😩I review weed products on my KZitem channel .. tryna make it out💯..
@empressdushi7688
2 жыл бұрын
You should come on it in something u can teach us.
@dieerstenummereins9834
2 жыл бұрын
They genuinely seem like a great couple
@Ceeboyforlife
2 жыл бұрын
No they have issues. He’s scared and she’s cold hearted. I want to know more.
@yutaaaa1178
2 жыл бұрын
@@Ceeboyforlife bro what
@CassandraL666
2 жыл бұрын
I love that even though it visibly upset her that he spoke to his ex-wife? That based on the emotional weight he was carrying, she understood for him. I think that needs to be encouraged in women more. She literally swallowed that anger for him because she was so trusting in him and their relationship. That’s beautiful. I’m grateful these two have one another. They’re a beautiful match.💕
@drewweidhaas1342
2 жыл бұрын
*In people
@suja605
2 жыл бұрын
@@drewweidhaas1342 exactly. some men get mad too.
@CassandraL666
2 жыл бұрын
@@drewweidhaas1342 I agree. It goes both ways. I’ve just experienced jealousy on that level from women more so than men. So my bias took away from the bigger picture.
@Ceeboyforlife
2 жыл бұрын
There’s no way in hell that’ll be normal for women to accept, they’re too competitive and I don’t blame them. What do I or anybody else look like allowing my person talking to their ex about our life altogether moments in our relationship, get real.
@thisname6738
2 жыл бұрын
Idk why y'all are mentioning jealousy and competition. Having an abortion is so personal. I think it would make most people uncomfortable knowing their reproductive life is being discussed with their partner's ex, particularly a painful experience
@galzo9149
2 жыл бұрын
He’s such sweetheart. He didn’t think twice about putting his feelings aside for her. :(
@Llynnyia
2 жыл бұрын
Her life at risk her choice.
@kokichikomaeda7274
2 жыл бұрын
@@Llynnyia but it’s their baby, it’s their discussion
@loopymomy2532
2 жыл бұрын
@@Llynnyia her life wasn't as risk. THEIR life was at risk. The baby life wasn't at risk until she decided that abortion.
@Pedant_Patrol
2 жыл бұрын
What about the child's feelings? The one who never got a chance?
@tainii-san5879
2 жыл бұрын
@@Llynnyia well, she didn't make the baby herself. If he stepped down from wanting to have the kid and stepped aside while she had the abortion that's fine. But in general, it should be something that both parents agree on.
@mmunoz2101
2 жыл бұрын
When he started crying I immediately started crying too. My husband and I had a miscarriage last April, and I feel for the non birthing partners who may not be be going through it physically, but still experience thr loss.
@YungSeti
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss. Hope you've got love and healing in your life ❤️
@Ceeboyforlife
2 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile his gf taking shots, such a lovely couple.
@Viiola24
Жыл бұрын
Non birthing? You mean men?!
@pepelecocker8095
2 жыл бұрын
The man is so emotional and that was my favorite part of the video, he is in touch with his feelings and can communicate them. We can only see a glimpse of their personalities but you can immediately see the love for each other, the way he is patient with her and the way she brings positive energy to the relationship. The woman is trying to hide her emotions with humor but you can see she is hurting too. Hope they become parents soon, they are great!❤️ I can see them having twins 🥰👫
@angie-ro7ii
2 жыл бұрын
Bare minimum for men YASSS
@Ceeboyforlife
2 жыл бұрын
Let hope she doesn’t “miscarriage” again.
@isimioyekunlemarktaiwo3643
2 жыл бұрын
That's because she makes him feel safe, society has thought both men and women to emasculate men for showing emotions, they feel it equates to weakness. It also demonised women who are determined saying it is "masculine" people forget that they are billions of people in the world and no one can be the same..so masculinity and femininity is a wide spectrum. Anyways, I love this couple.
@amrietaaarun3420
2 жыл бұрын
GET THEM BACK FOR A VIDEO WHEN THEYRE PREGNANT! can't waittt
@savpal1757
2 жыл бұрын
YES PLEASE CUT
@aliyatrotman5518
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@kolawoleolusola
2 жыл бұрын
I really love how easy she is to talk too.. She deal so well with her emotions and does not allow it to show her in a negative way., he has a really good woman by his side
@tatiana8336
2 жыл бұрын
This fr
@tatiana8336
2 жыл бұрын
Even when she got mad, she said what she had to say didn’t ignore him or stop talking and allowed him to apologize and continue with the questions n responses
@michelle-up9nx
2 жыл бұрын
@@tatiana8336 mmmik
@Ceeboyforlife
2 жыл бұрын
No tf he doesn’t, what are you people talking about, they don’t communicate honestly in the moments they actually count. Also she has no regard for his emotions because it’s her body her choice, F him and he has to cope with the idea by talking to his ex wife. Did we not watch the same video? She probably accepted it because she knows she’s not good at connecting with him so deeply.
@PoopinRainbows
2 жыл бұрын
@@Ceeboyforlife you’ve been commenting on other peoples comments. What do you think was the healthy choice by these two?
@eyeamdee6209
2 жыл бұрын
My wife recently had a miscarriage. I bought books on becoming a father. Got a baby (doll or toy) to make sure our dog would be ready for the baby. Picked out names. It hurts so much to this day. I feel his pain and started crying again about it. I know things come in due time but the pain doesn’t go away at all. I put a lot of my pain to the side to ensure my wife was ok but never truly dealt with it. It hurts man.
@wifehaver6973
2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully you guys can get what you want. For some, miscarriages are one of the worst things to happen to them. For some, they are relieved. Why would you be relieved that a baby just died, and you were celebrating?
@CIST3
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss. I lost a baby too and my ex-husband just didn't get it. We already had two sons and this would have been our third child. To me, the moment I found out I was pregnant, I started seeing a future with that baby and all the celebrations of life that were to come. I entered a deep depression for a while and eventually, I recovered. A few years later, I got the courage to try again. I was terrified that I would miscarry again, but we were blessed with a little girl and then a few years later another one. So now, in total we have raised four kids (2 boys and 2 girls). God is good. Prayng for you recovery and future blessing....
@anonymousone9699
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry got your loss. I hope you have someone to talk ti about this so it can help you process the loss.
@anthonybrinson3405
2 жыл бұрын
5:06 if you ever need to see a moment of true honesty and also true understanding, then take this moment into consideration. She wasn’t happy with the answer, he wasn’t really happy to give that answer, but you can tell she understands it was nothing more than needing to vent. That isn’t something that’s easy to admit or take in, but it was handled very well, at least for the video and I highly respect that from both of them, especially from her point of view having to take that in
@leonkosi_
2 жыл бұрын
Well said my guy
@_all_around_us
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, you can literally see her battling her own feelings about it. Honestly, a very inspiring moment when she is able to brush aside her POV and put herself in his shoes.
@cuterthaneva101
2 жыл бұрын
@@_all_around_us yea, it was tough for the both of them. And maybe he couldn’t vent to her because she was going through it as well.
@CynCereMusic
2 жыл бұрын
Poor guy! smh poor guy! he wanted the first baby and she aborted it Can you imaging a fathers pain!?and then because she aborted it, when they wanted to have one she miscarries !she has to sit there and wonder..... is it her fault she lost the baby because of the previous abortion....there was a lesson to learn from this! after you remove yourselves from the" awww they are a good couple." its not cute!!! that man couldn't stop himself from crying smh can you imaging his pain and why he's crying smh! if I were him id have to leave her. do you see how my body my choice effects more then one side of the equation smh...
@quesadilla9957
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I understand. I don’t criticize the other men that *do* leave. It’s a hard thing to live with for some
@maayanranson3251
Жыл бұрын
I agree with your comment but you've got to stop writing smh so much, you wrote it like, twice in every sentence
@lesleygonzalez8784
2 жыл бұрын
Lol when she went into that bit about the cervixesssss , YAS girl enlighten these people !
@Debbeeey
2 жыл бұрын
Please don't give up trying! If it wasn't the time yet the first time around, that's perfectly fine! And that the second time didn't work out, is no punishment. It's absolutely unfortunate but don't blame yourselves. I know someone who had an abortion as well because she and her partner weren't ready, but she got pregnant (again unplanned) after 8 or so months and now that baby boy turned two. Don't give up hope 😊
@jessy1982
2 жыл бұрын
It makes me think though, were they really not ready if they wanted a child so soon afterwards? It seems irresponsible to go straight to the abortion route when it was more you not being careful enough to avoid the pregnancy, especially when a year into the child's life you'd have wanted one anyway. Idk, abortion being a form of late birth control with consenting people in a relationship feels too casual to me.
@jessy1982
2 жыл бұрын
It's over now and of course they shouldn't dwell on it, but I'm more talking about others in the decision time before they go through with it.
@Debbeeey
2 жыл бұрын
@@jessy1982 are you talking about the person I mentioned? I know what you mean, and I don't like that fact either. It does seem strange to me as well that suddenly you are ready half a year later after your first abortion. But you have to keep in mind that this can also affect people (probably most) A LOT, they question themselves, feel guilty, maybe even get depressed. Just because they did it, doesn't mean that it was easy. I never talked to her (that person) about that (I shouldn't even know it in the first place) but my guess is that the abortion was hard on her mentally and she never wanted to go through it again. I just wanted people to know - if you decided to get an abortion at some point in your life for whatever reason: please don't think it's the universe/god/or whatever you believe in is punishing you with not being able to get pregnant ever again. 😊
@jessy1982
2 жыл бұрын
@@Debbeeey The one you spoke about and those in the video have similar enough stories that I was talking about both. I agree though, if it's over, no one benefits from being put down about it. It can't be easy to live with it afterwards, and I'm sure it can't be forgotten either. Failure in getting a child afterwards should never be seen as punishment, yes. My comment was more along the lines of preventing it in the first place (using more forms of birth control, not taking the abortion route so casually, etc) for both the parents and potential child's sakes.
@vitaaeris
2 жыл бұрын
@@jessy1982 no offense, but it’s really not your business
@rachelyy
2 жыл бұрын
This couple is so heartwarming. Love their relationship dynamic and mutual love and understanding.
@zeynepnursozer
2 жыл бұрын
The way they laugh and in tune with each other is so nice to see, they look like such an amazing couple
@gabriellaruth83
2 жыл бұрын
It is not your fault when you lose a pregnancy, the majority of miscarriages are due to fetal abnormality. My love and condolences for your loss💓
@lukasmeerhoff7321
2 жыл бұрын
its actually kinda her fault abortion increases the risk of miscarrages in the future and she seemed so joyful about killing an innocent life it pisses me of she shoudnt get the pleasure of being a mother smh
@kikibirdball
2 жыл бұрын
@@lukasmeerhoff7321 miscarriages are common and they just happen. It ain't your place to say these two wonderful people don't deserve to be parents
@Pedant_Patrol
2 жыл бұрын
@@lukasmeerhoff7321- Agreed. Who knows how the abortion affected her ability to carry. Sad.
@fystrom
2 жыл бұрын
Wow look at these male experts on female fertility. "Who knows how the abortion affect".. Actually people do know how abortions affect the ability to carry. And likely her doctor knows how it affected her in particular. Some real experts have published stuff about it for non-experts like you to read about - if you're actually interested. The amount of factors that play into account getting pregnant - maintaining the baby - delivering the baby is endless. Abortion is considered a very minor risk. Like you know living in a city with its polution, or stressing at work. The most important one is actually age, yet noone is raging at a 28 year old for trying to have a baby outside her prime time
@gabriellaruth83
2 жыл бұрын
@@lukasmeerhoff7321 There is no evidence that abortion increases miscarriage, it's a myth. I don't know what it would be like to feel so entitled that I get to decide what someone else does with their body, or so hateful that I would deny someone happiness. I'll pray for you.
@shamlove788
2 жыл бұрын
I think the male is an admirable person. You can tell that he is highly family oriented, highly respectful, and a 100% committed and in love. Good luck to both of them in their attempts at child conception
@tybrooks4112
2 жыл бұрын
Wtf! The male
@spongebobislyfe5906
2 жыл бұрын
@@nahadoth2087 They might not be a native speaker of English.
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