@chinyere Abang. I can relate to your story , I lost my dad last year , your description of your dad is so similar to my dad . I last saw my dad 8years ago before he passed and spoke to him last 6years before he passed . I was very close to my dad early year but the later part of his life too, he did some stuffs that drifted us his children from him . I broke down completely when I heard he passed . The one regret I live with, I wanted to talk to him so bad a week before he passed . But another part of me kept saying it’s not the right time , if only I listened to that part of me . I never got to talk to him or see him cuz I’m a different country from him. I can totally relate and this video madeecry just as the day I got the news . Agree with you , one can never move on . I appreciate the sharing of the vulnerability state .🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@NedouxSews
7 ай бұрын
Ahhhh! The pain is so relatable, grief and loss...so painful 😪
@kanmaliving
Жыл бұрын
Grief, grief, grief. I'm an only child. I lost my dad and mom, 11 years apart. All I can say is, it takes experience to understand the pain. It only takes experience 💔
@kofiyesere
Жыл бұрын
Awww ndo
@MO-cu8yl
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry 😢
@IdeevaTV
Жыл бұрын
I lost my dad 9 years ago😢😢😢 Beautiful video
@Beingtochi
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad we got to make this video and save it here. May he continue to Rest In Peace.
@ChinyereAbang
Жыл бұрын
Amen 🥰
@abiodunakinyoola6715
Жыл бұрын
Hi,you looks and talks like Ara " the drummer ".
@sose9601
Жыл бұрын
Hi Tochi!
@BakeWithTosan
Жыл бұрын
You got me so teary😢. May his soul continue to rest with our Lord.
@clarisse331987
Жыл бұрын
Your sister is so beautiful with such a calm demeanor. I see a lot of Ella in her.
@ijeomai3746
Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss. My father died when I was 14 I am now 53 and I still cry. You cannot move on!! You cannot! Still miss my dad every day!!
@ChinyereAbang
Жыл бұрын
💔💔
@Beiingserena
Жыл бұрын
Your sister is soooo beautiful! Jesus
@janetakuaoforiwaopokuagyem1600
Жыл бұрын
Mine took seven years but time is really a healer
@ulaegbuchinecheremcynthia530
Жыл бұрын
Time never heals such pains... I am a witness ,my mum death hit me so hard is over 8 years and is still like yesterday.. God help your family.
@abigailofori5799
Жыл бұрын
I had to summon lots of courage to watch this video, cos one of my greatest fear is to loose my parents, especially my dad,I too love that man 🤦♀️
@itsmetiff661
Жыл бұрын
Wow, Grace favors your sister so much. This video made me cry. I had just found you online and shortly after your dad passed. Those videos drew me closer to you.
@Fellzyvlogs
Жыл бұрын
I just can not understand how to get over the grief, l lost my Mom 23years ago and I still cried yesterday after thinking about her, this video just messed me up again, so emotional 😭😭..... Omo I just can't forget ooo. REST ON MOM
@onyiaadachukwuprecious6997
Жыл бұрын
Your sister has your mum's younger face. You guys look great. Absolutely enjoyed watching.
@BibicheL
Жыл бұрын
Hummmmh Grief Grief Grief I don’t even know where to start from I feel your pain and may your dad soul continue to rest in peace. I lost my mom last year in July 2021 May God continue to be your strength ❤🙏there is no time in this life indeed . The last time I saw my mom was 2019
@TolaniAyeni
Жыл бұрын
Wow this is who Vicky looks like 😮
@christinaalapbe6510
Жыл бұрын
So he was my birthday mate. May his soul rest in peace
@kiffydiaries5652
Жыл бұрын
Your sister is so so beautiful
@voiceofruby
Жыл бұрын
My dad is alive but I feel I have lost him, he hurt me too much. I pray God keeps him so we can mend our relationship
@ChinyereAbang
Жыл бұрын
I pray the same for you.Make an effort because I think eventually it will come back to hunt you if you didn't. All the best ❤️
@doreenbonsu1783
Жыл бұрын
Ella really looks like your sister. Much love and I feel your grief for my children lost their father two years ago and the loss is still felt .
@tina-ijeh
Жыл бұрын
Since you posted this video I haven’t had the courage to watch it cos I just cannot hold my tears. I lost my both parents in September 2018/2019. I can remember vividly everything that happened. My mom died in my arms. At that point I kinda felt fulfilled bcos I couldn’t really process what was happening but I can tell you for a fact time doesn’t heal nothing. Let me end here before I breakdown
@roselinetambe
Жыл бұрын
Hmmm !!! Death! Lost my dad 12years ago and it feels like yesterday! Lost my daughter 4years ago and there’s no day that goes by without me crying! Life goes on!!!
@nguperafiemo4906
Жыл бұрын
On the 10th of October 2012, exactly 10 years from now, my mum died in my arms. My world stopped. The pain is still fresh but we have all learnt to cope with living with the void and immense pain her sudden death left us with. Kai. 💔
@Fanenteraudu
Жыл бұрын
You actually don't move on. You just get use to living with the fact that your life will never remain the same.
@nubia_kay
Жыл бұрын
I lost my dad on January 5th this year, and I still feel like I am dreaming. Everything feels unreal... I still feel I haven't mourned him. I was his only adult child and I aged while planning his burial. I learnt of his death on Facebook, someone sent me a message. My dad was ever present in my life, even when I birthed my son he was there. He stayed 4 years before I was born and spent almost 30 years to have another sibling, so our bond was too tight. Omooooo, I really don't know how I will deal with this loss. Vicky really looks like Tochi.
@JaneOsuji360
Жыл бұрын
I feel your pain. So sorry. Pls be consoled. May the resurrection of our loved ones as God promises comfort us. ❤️❤️
@njimbuacolette2896
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful flashback! May He continue to RIP!
@VannieBee
Жыл бұрын
Asa looks like her Aunty Tochi. Sending love and warm hugs to your family.
@temitayofraser
Жыл бұрын
This is very emotional 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️
@unusual4tune
Жыл бұрын
I really tried to avoid this video cos I knew I was going to ended up in tears. But I could I? I pray I find the strength to get closure soon.
@eugenia887
Жыл бұрын
Lost my mum on the 22 july this year to cancer, she was all i had and am hoping i one day heal from this. Am just 23
@kofiyesere
Жыл бұрын
Awwww Ndo okay !!!
@EsoheA.
Жыл бұрын
I pray peace that passes all understanding and comfort from God Almighty for you, Amen,🤗🤗
@WorknProgress83
Жыл бұрын
Hugs darling
@temitopeomoniyi3220
Жыл бұрын
Sending you huggs, God will take care of you.
@TeniBello
Жыл бұрын
Sending you so much hugs 🤗 ❤
@Okeke_Onyinye
Жыл бұрын
This left me in tears. I have never lost someone close but the thought of it always scares me… I am so sorry for your loss. May he keep resting in peace .
@Beiingserena
Жыл бұрын
Why am I crying 😭
@beautifullymadee
Жыл бұрын
Its NEVER EASY TO LET GO.. watching this video brought tears to my eyes 😢😢😢😢.. not been present at his funeral is even worst ... it truly takes an experience person to understand the pain ..
@NavigatewithJane
Жыл бұрын
Chichi Thank you for this, Lost my dad in February and everyday has been a struggle. He is my best Guy my personal Advisor and Cheer leader. Never imagined life without him, oh it well get bettet hopefully.
@ejionyecynthia5678
Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of my dad, I cried watching this video, each time I remember my dad I wish he never died.😥😥
@lola_and_family
Жыл бұрын
Grace looks like your dad.....may his soul continue to rest in peace.
@LadedeO
Жыл бұрын
LOVE MORE! Hmmmm what a message! Thank you so much for this video. God comfort you all🙏🏽❤️
@yetundeabiodun688
Жыл бұрын
Grief……. This video makes me cry this morning..😢 I lost my mom when I was 11years and as at then I don’t really know the value of mothers until my teen years when I needed to talk to her but she was no more 😢 It’s been 18 years now and there’s no month I don’t remember her coz I’ll have one or two things to discuss with her 😢and that breaks me down 😢 May her soul rest in peace ❤❤
@tritima222
Жыл бұрын
Chai, may he Rest In Peace. And may our children talk about us like this too.
@Toksgg
Жыл бұрын
May your dad's Soul continue to rest in peace. I lost my dad too in 2019 and it still feels like yesterday. I cried all through this video. It is really heartbreaking losing a loved one especially dad, mom or sibbling. It makes you feel so vulnerable and empty. You never get to move on as most times you just recall memories that bring down the tears. However, in all, God steps in to make the process easy as the years go by.
@omoyemen1652
Жыл бұрын
Lost my daddy 5 years ago, it's still feels so unreal, I wasn't present at his burial due to staying in the states, this year I made plans with my siblings and mom to come over to Dubia, when I saw mom ,I wept and wept like a baby ,I kept saying, thank you ,thank you, for taking care of my daddy I still talk about him in present time ,as I'm writing this now ,I'm watching his burial video..Rest On S.A.I BABA, miss you.
@beautifullymadee
Жыл бұрын
Exactly my story 😢😢😢😢.. not been present at his funeral is even worst ... it truly takes an experience person to understand the pain ...
@ohanejeuchechi3571
Жыл бұрын
Oh Chinyere ❤, your dad taught me while I was in school. He taught my class public health as a vet student. May his soul continue to rest in peace. Amen
@ChinyereAbang
Жыл бұрын
Oh wow!This comment made me really emotional 🥺 Thank you ❤️ Amen 🙏🏾
@Beingtochi
Жыл бұрын
Wow! I’d love to know what he was like as a lecturer.
@effa-kyeiAngela
Жыл бұрын
Watching this video when I know I will be burying my dad next week hits differently,may God help all of us,lots of love Chinyere.
@ChinyereAbang
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry 😞 Accept my sympathy !❤
@effa-kyeiAngela
Жыл бұрын
@@ChinyereAbang thanks ma
@sandraegwenum2434
Жыл бұрын
This month made it 11years my dad died and I still cry till date, when you have an intimate family that is so close and life changes everyone would feel it, I had to give my first child my dad name, I always wished my dad would come as my son and look exactly like him, this video made me cry and made me remember things again
@ifeyjenny
Жыл бұрын
Every time you bring up your picture of you and your dad all I see is Ella. Loosing my mum 2017 July 31th was the saddest day of my life. The pain I felt in my heart was like someone choking me and on the day of her burial that same pain came again. It been 5yrs and I still can’t get over it.
@naimasvlogs
Жыл бұрын
Being Tochi is soooooo cute!
@rosethatcher2079
Жыл бұрын
So this kinda touched me cos my dad and I used to be the closest but not we are like strangers... I have tried to make it work but it’s not working... I jus pray God intervenes and makes our relationship sane again...
@mrembosanaify
Жыл бұрын
Thank you sisters for Sharing your love for your dad. I lost mine about 11 years ago and till date I wish I told him I love him. I lost my brother my only brother on Valentine’s Day 2022 but thank God we spoke on the very day in the morning and wished him a blessed valentines. By 10 pm on that day I got the most devastating news that he had passed on. We had agreed to check on each other after going on our valentine date with our spouses. Only for the wife to call and tell us that he never woke up from sleep, it was his day off from work and after I spoke to him in the morning he took a nap to get ready for the evening events. That was the last day I spoke to my brother ,he he lived London and live in Dublin. His body was repatriated to Kenya and I was not able to make it for his Barrier no closer it’s so sad. He was only in his early 40s.
@sincerelyajg5067
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear about anyone losing a parent especially when the relationship is close. I know we all have to go one day & this is why I thank the good Lord EVERYDAY for the health and safety of my parents! Praying that you and your siblings will continue to heal as well as be there for your mother. I will cry just thinking about it!
@joyfulshomefun
Жыл бұрын
This made me so emtional. You're such a strong woman my dear friend. May God continue to comfort and strengthen you all. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@mz_elizabeth_
Жыл бұрын
I have only lost a close aunt, tho I kind of saw it coming as she had been sick for years. 😢 Everyday I wish she was still alive. I still see her in my dreams alot. To everyone under this video who has lost any close relative, may their gentle souls rest in the bosom of the Lord ❤.
@noelorraine
Жыл бұрын
This brought back memories of my dad's passing.The pain is so real and it really doesn't go away.
@Fanenteraudu
Жыл бұрын
30:38 It sill hurts me that I refused to see my dad's corpse.
@adesuwamiranda1940
Жыл бұрын
I cried watching this video it was made for me.I was telling a friend yesterday that I don't want to be close to my dad even though he has realize his mistake and trying for us to be close.After watching this video I will put a call through and resolve every grudge I have against him.Thank you for lifting the burden off me.
@ChinyereAbang
Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to see this 🥰🥰 I pray your relationship blossoms ❤
@adesuwamiranda1940
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@russiaprogress4770
Жыл бұрын
May his soul RIP. This story is so touching mum and my dad are still alife but my dad is very sick and i am afraid to lost him because i am not around i live in france
@yasminabodewes9471
Жыл бұрын
Hahah got tears and think about mine aunt mine mum best friend she have past now for ten years and now I am pregnant is feeling fresh I have been crying often because I miss her so much I have learn how to deal but still pains me that she is not here and I still talk to her and I know she is here with us and protecting us still
@shadesofp.1736
Жыл бұрын
Awwwwww!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I can’t believe I shed a tear … It is well!!!
@DupsyEmmy
Жыл бұрын
Wow! What a watch, may God consoled you all, and also those of us who have lost parents too.
@annokoh9016
Жыл бұрын
Happy post humous birthday to your dad.
@pricelesschinny9324
Жыл бұрын
Ur dad is Exactly like my dad, I lost my dad April 2019 ,
@onunjideka32
Жыл бұрын
Your sis is so beautiful 😍, plusss! your video quality I just love it
@peacejones7648
Жыл бұрын
May he continue to Rest In Peace ❤and May you and your family continue to heal.
@nenyesspace
Жыл бұрын
I totally enjoyed the video ❤️
@Airneywealth
Жыл бұрын
Permit me to say this,Grace looks so much like your dad. May his soul continue to rest in peace
@promiseprincess3479
Жыл бұрын
Only experience can make one understand. I lost my dad in 2010. I was just in JSS3 and I felt a part of me left me. I had to grow up by force being a daddy's girl. I kind of stopped reading a lot and lost interest in school work when he died but thank God cos my husband is motivating me towards studies again. I still feel sad during every death anniversary. I just look at my younger brother and I'm happy cos he's exactly like my dad. The devil almost took him(my younger brother) January this year but I thank God he came through and till today the trauma of thinking I would have lost my brother is still with me. It is well. Weldone Chi
@Stephanieiyaye
Жыл бұрын
This was too emotional to watch, you never know how much you love someone till they’re no more 😢❤❤
@LadedeO
Жыл бұрын
I’m sure filming this was therapeutic for you both. I’m so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing the link on Instagram… my love to your family. You both are so so beautiful.
@jennysoutlet
Жыл бұрын
This video made me so emotional and a part of me enjoyed watching it. I don’t even know if this sounds well but I say so because it reminded me of the fact that I need to fix the relationship I have with my dad now I have the time to do so. Thank you so much for sharing this part of your life with us.
@alicekadzo340
Жыл бұрын
I lost my dad last year may, the memory is so fresh,🙏🙏
@chiamakalove4915
Жыл бұрын
Oh how I miss him .This video really brings back all the sweet memories I have of him.May his gentle soul continue to rest in peace.Amen
@moneyandwealthconverstaion8550
Жыл бұрын
This is beautiful. I realized I needed to connect back with my dad when he was willing to have a better relationship with me. There is a trauma that is left with us when we are not on good terms with our parents.
@immaculatelum5102
Жыл бұрын
You can't move on oh, God just helps
@Fanenteraudu
Жыл бұрын
21:03 I totally agree with you Tochi, death of a loved one changes your perception on life.
@Bibzthebarb
Жыл бұрын
Loosing a parent is never easy 🥺I remember when I lost my mum 15 years ago at age 8 and now I’m 23 and I’m still in denial of everything. Sending you both so much all❤❤
@WendusSpace
Жыл бұрын
I just lost my dad few months ago and I really don’t know how I feel. Watching this video just brought a lot of memories.
@funshooyinkansola4834
Жыл бұрын
You guys look so beautiful 😍
@oluomapraise
Жыл бұрын
God bless you for making this video Thank you for the lessons learnt There’s never a better time I haven’t had any loss but this touched me too much Thank you
@dikekelechi1483
Жыл бұрын
Wat an emotional video made me to remember when I lost my dad,he was the best dad it was too painful to me that I broke down,I lost him 3months after my traditional marriage,my dad was my best frd and I love him so much,buh thank God time heals,so am glad am dealing with it better now.
@bolanleadisa
Жыл бұрын
9 years since my dad died. The sting never goes. We just get better at managing it. I still cry and will probably cry forever.
@SandraSampsonColdfeet
Жыл бұрын
Thank you and your sister soooooooo much for sharing this . THANK YOU :)
@Still_blessedlouise
Жыл бұрын
I lost my dad in 2011. I was only 19 years old. It was so hard. I dealt with serious depression. The grief was so much. Most days are good now. Randomly it will just hit me like a ton of bricks. It is not easy but it has gotten better. I hope it gets better for you too.
@UK-sm4co
Жыл бұрын
This is a beautiful video Chi to honor your dear father . I have watched your videos for a while now and I just want to say you honor your dad's memory beautifully. You speak about how you wish you could hv sorted out somethings which nagged at your heart then... I just wanna say Chi, he knows that now. ❤ Be calm, as humans on this earth, our knowledge is somewhat limited. One day, we will know through and through. As someone who has lost a very close family member too, I just want to say thank you. This video was healing to me as well. May the memory of all loved ones who have departed continue to rest in peace 🙏
@ChinyereAbang
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥰 Amen 🙏🏾
@madeidanimo8963
Жыл бұрын
I keep saying it..loosing a loved one hits..its really another level of maturity..my mum is 6years now and every single day I think about her and how if she was here what she would say..like that memory that pictures her in person.. its really well!!
@realtrealt3786
Жыл бұрын
Ohh am so sorry guys. Lots of hugs to you both
@julietambali
Жыл бұрын
I cried watching this. Lost for words.
@tonniegeorge321
Жыл бұрын
This one touch me I no go lie. May God uphold your family. Stay safe and remain blessed Mrs Chinyere 🙏
@princessifunanya557
Жыл бұрын
Lots of love and hugs chinyere and Tochi. Grief!!!! I lost my dad also in 2019 ,March 23rd.... I am not ready to talk about it. I don't want to relate to that emotions now. I know i need him more now . He left sooo young n full of life . May God heal our hearts . Death makes you mature overnight . I learnt alot from my dad . I hv long deleted his number 💔💔💔but still have it on my heart. Love more. Show people you love them.
@temitopeomoniyi3220
Жыл бұрын
This video made me cry again(lost my mum a year ago)The pain doesn't seem to heal.
@sose9601
Жыл бұрын
Sorry Temitope.. Cry it All Out,at Anytime it comes.. These tears will help you heal with time.. I wish you so much happiness. God be with you.
@temitopeomoniyi3220
Жыл бұрын
@@sose9601 Thank you!
@loveth-Iwuagwu
Жыл бұрын
Hey sis, this video got all my emotions up. May his soul keep resting. My parents are alive and when you spoke about child mood memory I remember when my dad comes back from New York to Lagos every year since 1994, December 15th because my bday is December 16. He keeps all the pastry given to him on the plane for me. And my dad makes videos of me growing up he always had a camera so when he goes back in January to NY he will watch it. Now I am In the same city as my dad I feel so distant from him, my dad believes he is always right and it hurts that now I need a good daughter and father relationship is hard, when my dad Calls me, hello how are my grandchildren? I will say they are fine and he will just hang up ⬆️. Like I was your Lil girl before ooooo. Thank you for the video. I will keep trying for a better relationship. ❤
@ChinyereAbang
Жыл бұрын
Oh wow! I pray parents themselves open their minds to the realization that life is so fleeting and they need to do better. It can't be one-sided 😞
@chinenyeodozi7677
Жыл бұрын
I could connect with your relationship with your Dad, I also had that disconnect with my Dad for so many years but I felt a need to ask my Dad for forgiveness for things I did and for things I didn't do just for us to be cordial again and that moment gave me a chance to gently tell him how he wronged me over the years. Thank God we are very close again. Some of our parent are stuck in their ways and we just have to find a way to love and respect them like that because they would not always be here with us. Good luck Sis
@loveth-Iwuagwu
Жыл бұрын
@@chinenyeodozi7677 so true. Thank you ❤️
@adedamolaolubukola5288
Жыл бұрын
This was quite an emotional one for me, I cried all through the video with a running nose sef. Watching this video just made me think back on when my dad was very sick and how it broke me, thankfully he survived it but a lot of things changed for me afterwards cause I just realised like this life is vanity and there's no point holding things to your chest/heart and that if it's one thing that makes you happy, buy it or get it if you can afford it. I pray God grants you and family the fortitude to bear the loss....
@lovelynsdiaries8510
Жыл бұрын
I teared up watching this. Father’s are irreplaceable❤ What I learnt from this video are: Father’s are not perfect Parents sacrifice a lot for their children Life is not always smooth, there are ups and downs
@kateobire287
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@stellamarismutinda6617
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this with us my dad went missing in 2014 January we searched for him only the car was found we to this day we never found his body I just pray that one day I could see him my life changed alot something left me I was so close to him then in 2020 June 16th my sister passed away haemorrogic stroke it hit our family so hard it was so painful,the tears and I had nightmares I remember praying telling God that my sister should appear to me and tell me what happened she started coming to me at night I felt scared I had to pray and cancel the prayer I prayed when I received the news of her death that her soul to rest in peace she stops appearing to me I learnt a huge lesson about life one can die anytime may your dad's soul continue to rest in peace and God grant your entire family peace and comfort he is in a better place with God your dad will forever remain in your hearts
@ChinyereAbang
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry 😞😞 Nothing heals this kind of pain but I pray God comforts you as you go through life❤️
@kenny_ajayi
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing because I can relate. I lost my dad 4years ago and still have not gotten over him yet. Even up until yesterday. God bless your channel. This video is inspiring and emotional. got something from it❤
@udugbawaelohorblessing493
Жыл бұрын
This is so emotional dear,I cried while watching this video. Thanks for sharing 👍 I need to settle with my dad cos I haven't spoken to my dad for 2years
@suzanaorayou1052
Жыл бұрын
😍😍😍😍😍 love the video
@itsbenedictaedi87
Жыл бұрын
This made me so so emotional! Took me back to when I lost my Dad in 2004! And then my Mum in 2019🥺😢. I’ve never come to terms with it. Thanks for doing this gurl! One can never really move on. It’s well though. May Your Dad’s soul continue to Rip. 🙏.
@debstarr
Жыл бұрын
I was a child when my daddy died, I didn't cry because I couldn't cry thinking about it now I think I was numb. Years later when I found out my mom had died I saw my self laughing in disbelief. I eventually fainted when reality dawned on me. No you don't forget the feeling you just learn to deal with it 💔💔.
@debstarr
Жыл бұрын
It's been 27 years for daddy and 25 for mummy, I'm not sure I've learned to cope, I think I'm just pretending to be okay. RIP Daddy and mummy 💔.
@deee5461
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This reminds me so much of my dad. Same way my dad was ill and died so sudden. I will blame Nigeria healthcare system. Everything is soooooooo slow. Test will take forever to come out. We never move on…. #loveandmissyoudad
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