The sad part is unfortunately it's the parents fault for not correcting his behavior so it's not going to change unless the parents get on top of it. They need to get on that soon as possible before it gets even more out of control. I'm right there with you & having Shine defend himself. ❤❤
@Itsjustwillie11
9 ай бұрын
Seeing your family makes me realize how lonely it can get when your family isn’t around anymore, my mom passed a couple years back and ever since then I’ve felt alone, but watching you guys brings me comfort and joy! ❤
@suzannetrimble3711
9 ай бұрын
Awwwww, we can't have no bullying especially to Shine. Shine too sweet for all of that
@katyavelichko
9 ай бұрын
That not okay
@fc849
9 ай бұрын
Free Palestine 🇵🇸
@theresasimons9403
9 ай бұрын
I'm exactly like Quan 😂😂😂I taught my kids the exact same ..if they hit you ,you have a Devine right to protect yourself, and if it ever gets to it ,mommas got it ❤😂
@adriennegiles_2021
9 ай бұрын
Facts
@Nadine_2604
9 ай бұрын
Its ok to feel the emotions you guys are feeling to protect shine.The best you guys can always do is teach him how to stand up for himself. You guys are amazing parents!!!
@dianamarie4061
9 ай бұрын
I swear Riss and Quan’s boys are some of the smartest little people I’ve ever seen! Shine’s vocabulary is better than mine lol!
@clariseharrington8252
9 ай бұрын
😅❤
@PrettyGirlNana4
9 ай бұрын
Shine is so freaking cute and you can tell he loves everything you guys do for him 🙏🏼🫶🏻
@avenabolarinwa4126
9 ай бұрын
Shine is such a good boy. He listens well and follows directions great teaching mom and dad.👍🏾👏🏾💪🏾💓💓💓
@MbaliMbalz-y6t
9 ай бұрын
Shine really loves playing omg I cant wait till Savi grows up and play with him 😊❤
@chelseyevanson8224
9 ай бұрын
Nothing is wrong with telling your kid to defend themselves Shine is too nice of a kid to deserve that you guys are doing the right thing ❤❤
@elizabethwolfe6226
9 ай бұрын
I love the way you all are so involved and "hands on" with your boys. That's so important to the positive growth and development of children. As a retired educator (pre-school/kinderarten teacher and schol counselor I've seen and dealt with parents and children who bully. It's a learned behavior. So. the "aggressive" child in the gymnastics class has learned to be that way from other people-maybe his/her siblings, parents, care giver. To return that agression only teaches kids that to way to deal with negative brhaviors is to do something negative in return. Kids/people are ALWAYS going to come up against difficult and negative behaviors. Shine is a gentle soul, very smart and learns fast. The best way to handle your situation is to talk to him in language on his level about positive/ negative behaviors and how he can talk to kids who display negative behaviors toe=ward him. Hitting/pushing back is not a good way to deal with bulling. I would also speak to the parents of the child and let them know that you don't approve of the pushing/hitting, that you aren't raising your children to respond in that manner. Shine sees that you all don't yell at him or at each other, you don't hit,etc. Kids aren't too young to learn conflict resolution skills. I know "Papa Bear" doesn't want to see his kids get picked on but you want them to be able to handle situations that will come up without them (situations) turning onto physical altercations. As Savi gets older and begins to assert himself into the family mix, there will be times when he and Shine "get into it". When that happens you'll want them to talk it out, not fight it out. Parenting is a learn as you go life-long project. You're doung well. Blessings and Happy Holidays.💓💓💓💓🙏🙏🙏🙏
@georgettepratt7105
9 ай бұрын
I am not a parent, but I would also teach my kids how to defend themselves if they were in any situation or a situation like this, and Savi is such a happy baby.
@anntory
9 ай бұрын
Caribbean parents always say, "Anybody hit you, hit them back!" Don't take bully from anyone.
@ashleyhodges8323
9 ай бұрын
Savi is such a happy baby. He's always smiling. I love it
@graceojohabah4489
9 ай бұрын
I pray I raise smart sweet happy kids like yours in the future They literally light up the whole house with their smile The diy snow was so creative good thinking momma ❤️
@MssMamass
9 ай бұрын
I’m a toddler teacher & I definitely understand it. We have a strict policy for it with actions to take at certain steps up to leaving the school (reasonably) This project was so cute ❤
@Shantelmarie22
9 ай бұрын
Yup! Definitely teach to defend yourself. We always grew up if someone hit you, hit them back. Kids can be mean 😢 & you guys definitely motivated me to make snow with my little one tonight can’t wait Happy Holidays Unbreakable Family 🎄🫶🏼
@OleratoMongale-hs4xv
9 ай бұрын
I love seeing Shine helping his mom in the kitchen❤
@jalannahaywood4200
9 ай бұрын
every time i see my internet nephews i get so happy 🥹! they’re just so happy and loving bundle of joys. its more than obvious that they’re surrounded by love and joy so a huge shout out to rissa and quan and their parenting ✨. you guys are doing amazing !!!! and also a huge thank you for the consistency and keeping us entertained! love you guys so much ❤️
@taneshawitter668
9 ай бұрын
I just love the way all the boys are interested in whatever there parents do for them to be happy
@niya78xx
9 ай бұрын
i’m not a mother , but i definitely feel this way when it comes to my siblings. I tell them all the time to defend themselves if it ever comes down to it. one of my biggest fears is them getting bullied 😩
@sonyiacastro2284
9 ай бұрын
Quan wanting to push back the kid is def the Caribbean blood in him😂😂😂
@islaand
9 ай бұрын
not even almost anybody would wanna do the same thing 😂 cause i definitely would’ve
@elainacrawford2140
9 ай бұрын
I am with Quan. From a little age I’ve always taught my son, who is the sweetest soul, how to defend himself. I encourage him to never start a fight, but has full reign to end one. Now that he is 11, he deals with a lot of bullies and kids saying mean stuff to him. I teach him empathy, because we never know what others are going through at home. I teach him that misery loves company and people will try and hate and bring you down to their level. Feel bad for them and move on with your life unbothered is the advice I give him. But again, if a kid puts hands on him, he needs to shut that down and punch them in the face!
@tanyadickens2096
9 ай бұрын
I love his verbal skills he is so intelligent. So much to be admired
@agnesd.mensah8807
9 ай бұрын
Shine's little voice and Savi's smile is sooo cute ❤.
@johniececherisca527
9 ай бұрын
I teach my children to defend themselves!! My daughter is super sweet but she definitely knows how to defend herself! The momma bear would’ve instantly come out of me if I saw that lol.
@marias748
9 ай бұрын
Bullies suck , it's so important to teach them how to speak up for themselves . Great parenting . Shine is so bright . So is savi , I truly admire your family . Please continue to look over and bless the unbreakable family .
@kimberlyburney9219
9 ай бұрын
I'm with Quan on this one. I experience this every day because I am a school bus driver, and kids hit kids all the time. I don't allow bullying. They get kicked off my bus after the first right up, and they do it again, they gots to go.
@OlaniyiOreoluwa
9 ай бұрын
Shine is soooooo smart. Never underestimate him. I love him sooo much❤
@meishabarnes9214
9 ай бұрын
Shine is so sweet 😊only knows love and happiness !! But he will grow up defending himself Savi just so sweet😊
@KlaudiaShinedima-kj6sd
9 ай бұрын
Poor Shine,Shine is really too sweet and has a kindred heart ,he really doesn't deserve that treatment at all 😥
@demariahemphill
9 ай бұрын
I teach my kids to hit back as well!! Definitely nothing wrong with that, I understand the feeling when you see your child getting bullied and it’s not the best feeling so you guys are definitely teaching him right!! He’s too handsome for that! I’m glad the babies enjoying the snow and lights!!🥰
@Sonic_yt12356
9 ай бұрын
Right, I agree with Quan 💯. If someone hit you, hit them back. I don't like violence at all, but I do believe in self-defense. We taught our kids how to defend themselves. Now they're all grown with kids, and each one of them are teaching their kids how to protect themselves. And yes, they also tell them not to hit first.
@traceygrant3386
9 ай бұрын
What being handsome has to with it.
@demariahemphill
9 ай бұрын
@@traceygrant3386 because he may get hit in the face and end up getting a bruise or a scratch he too handsome to have marks on his face
@elenaebernardez8293
9 ай бұрын
Baby shine is so smart ❤
@AnnaSowe-sr1zd
9 ай бұрын
Any time i see this family i feel so happy ❤
@annettacarr5713
9 ай бұрын
Me 2😊
@shaunawalters3340
9 ай бұрын
Me 3 😊
@JuneScott-vl3dj
9 ай бұрын
Me 4
@CharismaShardonay
9 ай бұрын
I agree with Quan on this because Shine is so sweet and friendly, & with bullies, sometimes it takes a bully to get hit one good time to stop the behavior.
@sinenhlanhlazikalala7370
9 ай бұрын
i love how when shine makes a mess Rissa says “it’s okay” so cute .😭
@Barren98
9 ай бұрын
That's so cute 😂
@aliceharris8499
9 ай бұрын
Oh my Shine and Savi are such smart kids. You guys teach them well! When my kids were younger I would teach them to defend themselves cause I would not be around them at all time. Bullying is a no no!
@GracieHallett-b8u
9 ай бұрын
Awww poor Shine. I agree with both of you with teaching him to defend himself it would give him confidence too in the long run when he grows up. My parents always taught me to defend myself. You guys are such good parents. Keep it up!! 😊
@TheDenise223
9 ай бұрын
About a bully they’re everywhere. As long as your son is having fun doing what he loves to do it’s all that matters. Don’t worry about bully I was picked on and teased. In elementary school and middle school but I just learned to deal with it and forget it.
@maragreen5853
9 ай бұрын
Period Quan !! That’s exactly what you do cause no ! My kids are so nice and sweet I tell them the same thing there’s nothing wrong with him defending himself.. yall are doing right ❤
@Maritzam759
9 ай бұрын
Savior is such a big boy now it’s crazy how fast he’s growing if I was Rissa id be in tearssss
@crystalyoung9484
9 ай бұрын
This is honestly the perfect family they go above and beyond for their kids❤
@elitaappiah-kubi1946
9 ай бұрын
Im not a parent but I’ve been a Sunday school teacher and babysitter for 7 years now and I perfectly agree with what you’ve said. But mainly it’s the gymnastics instructor’s responsibility to handle the situation while the child is under their care along side relaying future actions to take with the bullies parents. Mainly that child needs to be taught good manners and exposed to loving environments ‼️‼️‼️
@breonnabeam4675
9 ай бұрын
I think you guys handled the situation right. I teach my son the same way. They have to protect themselves and you also have to know if you are not there he wouldn't get bullied.Hope shine doesn't have to deal with that again. I love that idea for the snow. Shine enjoyed it. Amazing if it really snows, Shine would have a blast ❤️❤️
@marshaypenn407
9 ай бұрын
make sure yall tell his parents or make sure shine defend hisself because sometimes the other parent want do anything about it unless the child was with the babysitter and acting out but shine is too sweet. They be too excited for small things and i love it ❤️❤️They loved making the snow
@maddyisabel1573
9 ай бұрын
The first thing Shine said is “hit dada”😂😂😂😂 I’m dead 😂 but this was such a good sensory activity for Shine !! And he loves snow so now he can really have snow whenever plus the snow machine ! Perfect lol
@kbreezy7
9 ай бұрын
Shine is too sweet! Definitely keep teaching your children the importance of self defense/when to use it😊❤
@jasmine7877
9 ай бұрын
You guys are teaching Shine the right thing in this situation. Shine was having so much fun playing in this snow.. I’m gonna have to try this one day. ❤
@janettealmestica4328
9 ай бұрын
It’s so beautiful to see the boys growing and doing things together as a family!! To many, many more years to come!! Blessings & Happy Holidays!!!🙏🏽🌸🎄
@lissanj
9 ай бұрын
I love when rissa and Quan put a smile on baby shine & baby saviour 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@ezedihappiness6001
9 ай бұрын
This is the best lesson Quan👍he has to learn to defend himself for times you will not be around him. That is what my husband teaches my boys too.
@ari_jox3
9 ай бұрын
Snow is soo enjoyable, and with making fake snow you don’t have to worry about the aftermath of the slip. Soo cute ❤️
@tarynemishele
9 ай бұрын
I love seeing Shine in the kitchen lol helping his mama. Such a beautiful family.
@lisafulton3288
9 ай бұрын
😂😂 Go Quan! Confront the parents first because if Shine puts his hands on him without talking to them first, they may kick him out. Even if they know it's going on. That parent could make a big fuss about it. But lo key.....I agree with you guys.
@shannonbelitz3741
9 ай бұрын
Awe I'm so sorry that Shine had to go through that. My best advice is pray for Shine and also for that little boy. Shine and Savior awesome sweet.
@bilaysiadeloach
9 ай бұрын
The kids loveee the snow. Their smiles are so precious🥰❤️
@victoriachapman6608
9 ай бұрын
y'all really make my day rissa ,quan, shine , and savi i love yall ❤best family i know honestly !
@cathypower696
9 ай бұрын
I love when shine gets so excited 🎄
@tashab7358
9 ай бұрын
So cool !! Love it ❤ As far as how I handle bullies, I tell my son to do whatever the kid did to you back. Don’t start it but finish it and let an adult know what happened. You both told Shine the right thing!
@SweetJenn2001
9 ай бұрын
What a cute neat idea for family time! ❤ gotta love how smart Shine is
@millielivermore5182
9 ай бұрын
I have always teach my kids to hit back if a child hit them the parents come round I can give them what my kids didn’t get to there child so I agree with all the way
@SweetJenn2001
9 ай бұрын
@@millielivermore5182 I 100% agree to. Kids should definitely learn how to defend and stick up for themselves. Am glad he has a dad like Quan to teach him and Savi
@lisakonteah7950
9 ай бұрын
I hope a truly in need family gets your help. I’m so happy you guys do this for someone.
@khadijachirwa
9 ай бұрын
You guys definitely handled it well. Shine is such a good boy❤️
@marla87rabbit47
9 ай бұрын
The Christmas tree was lovely 🤗. Shine is such a good helper 🎉
@tanyadickens2096
9 ай бұрын
Wow snowman says Shine and now Saviour is going to enjoy. So nice to watch Family Fun such a beautiful way of bonding more. Beautiful blessing from God. Prayers
@PatriciaRamirez-ht2kj
9 ай бұрын
I feel what quan said to shine is adequate ive done the same as a parent but as parents we can also bring the issue up to the class instructor pitch it as a safety concern or wellbeing of other children as a concern more than a complaint type deal. Its good this came up because as kids get older it happens all the time in activities and sports...this way your better equipped to handle it....great snow project.
@daniellebowley2429
9 ай бұрын
Savi always made my day just by him happy and smiling
@samanthapeters9738
9 ай бұрын
It’s so hard! I just find it so difficult when other parents don’t have the same standards! Really difficult subject! Thanks for sharing guys x
@triciaking5970
9 ай бұрын
Loving the way as young parents you always do things to make your children happy ❤❤❤❤
@Teeyah2
9 ай бұрын
Our baby Shine Boy!!!!!! I'm with you Quan!!! He is the sweetest lil human on KZitem!🤗🤗🤗❤🤗🤗🤗Broke my heart that he was sad!!!😐😐😐
@reeeda5363
9 ай бұрын
shine is sooo smart, he's definitely a mommy's helper
@motomamarih
9 ай бұрын
The snow turned out amazing! Shine and Savi screaming and having fun in the ballpit at the end is everything 🥹
@Barren98
9 ай бұрын
Nice
@satoyaparker739
9 ай бұрын
I love Savi smile it's just sooo cute. Shine is the cutest.
@khathutshelonetshipale844
9 ай бұрын
I love how rissa and quan include baby savi in everything 🥰🥰
@tamitennell9038
9 ай бұрын
Rissa and Quan you guys are simply amazing with coming up with adorable activities like this for Shine and Saviour.....❤
@ronneishaalexander9336
9 ай бұрын
Its how u all even come up with these fun activities ..i admire how u guys take time in creating ur own fun for ur kids ..its like yall are so inventive with doing new stuff,keep up the fantastic parenting
@Poetic_Queen
9 ай бұрын
Awesome idea for the snow! Rissa you are so creative! Love to see the boys smiles. As far as the little bully in gymnastics class Quan you told Shine right. Talk to the parent too and let them know what you don’t appreciate ❤
@shaynee31
9 ай бұрын
I absolutely love the vlogmus videos this year! The activities are very creative and it also give us ideas to what we can do with our kids. Thank yall for this!!!❤❤❤
@frieda4874
9 ай бұрын
Definitely taught my kids to defend themselves and hit back, nothing wrong with that. Love the DIY ☃️❄️. Boys are excited and so happy!! ❤❤
@katerinasemenov9479
9 ай бұрын
Honestly, we tell our kids to stand up for themselves. Never throw the first hit or push or bully anyone but if someone does it to you first you stand up for yourself.
@deantewilliams4142
9 ай бұрын
Never underestimate Baby Shine he always out smarting y'all 😂😂😂😂😂❤❤
@renemalan4416
9 ай бұрын
No way that child parents must teach him not to bully, it's only right that Quan teach Shine to defend himself.
@RamatuJalloh-e6o
9 ай бұрын
Shine little "mama and dada" is the cutest ❤he talk so well y'all so Smart ❤❤❤
@veronicanewnam7789
9 ай бұрын
As far as the bully situation, all the parents need to meet with the people in charge and make them decide what is best for the majority. Before it gets messy. You guys are wonderful parents . Keep loving on your babies as they grow the love and affection you show will leave an impact on your babies.
@Kashoo
9 ай бұрын
Savi hair be funny wild and cute at the same time!😂😍
@trezzyruth7271
9 ай бұрын
You'all just handled it perfectly 🥰 😊
@wendyouedraogo1028
9 ай бұрын
Savi is such a happy baby, every time he laughs or smiles i laugh and smile😁😁😁
@briannamartin7968
9 ай бұрын
In my experience with my daughter being bullied, i taught her the exact same, to defend herself. I also took a further approach and spoke with the parent in regards to the bullying (EVEN THOIGH ITS OBVIOUS THAT THEIR CHILDS A BULLY) to let them know that we’re teaching our child defense so expect for her to to hit yours back and she won’t keep it cute. Met with teacher, dean and principal as well and stood up for our daughter and in sum., she hasn’t been bullied since. There’s enough going on in today’s world to have to deal with bullying too. You’re doing the right thing, PROTECT YOUR CUBS❤
@brittanystanley7399
9 ай бұрын
Awwww it’s so cute to see baby boy shine playing outside in the snow making snow angels you guys are my favorite KZitem channel because you guys always doing things with your two little babies being creative 💙💙💙💙💙
@tinarodriguez2081
9 ай бұрын
There smiles are so priceless.. ❤
@denisemoore4044
9 ай бұрын
I love that you are finding things to do with the boys. Such a great idea. Now I need to do this. 😍😍 They will be able to look back on this and remember the fun time. ❄️❄️
@hej5241
9 ай бұрын
Y'all are doing a great job as parents absolutely love it
@ItsNickjr
9 ай бұрын
I love seeing the entire family in the kitchen its doo adorable ❤️ and shine and savi smiles are so bright just like rissa
@sharonkhumalo8552
9 ай бұрын
Y’all parent like you have 20 years experience I’ve learnt so much about parenting from you guys. Genuinely, Thank you ❤
@JassThompson0406
9 ай бұрын
Y'all's reaction was exactly what mine would be too. Let him know to defend himself if he needs to especially if it's needed. Older two have always been taught this
@Barren98
9 ай бұрын
Hi where are your food vlogs 0:02
@maya_martinez
9 ай бұрын
i love the activities yall find, Shine really seems to enjoy them🥹❤️
@rodikapryce7354
9 ай бұрын
Aww I think that was so cute , what a fun way to make snow with your little ones.❤❤
@Maijthebabygirl
9 ай бұрын
Shine slowly becoming a chef 😂😂😂😂😩 Quan do something . He should be a sport boy
@pamelarogers9768
9 ай бұрын
I understand just what yall talking about,show shine how to defend himself.I love the kids tree topper.
@kimberlymentor
9 ай бұрын
Rissa Ive just been admiring your hair this whole Vlogmas it looks healthy & has grown so much looks so pretty ! The boys are so sweet and happy all the time you guys do such a great job raising them !
@noekasuares9384
9 ай бұрын
I just hear myself when Quan is talking😂😂😂. I tell my kids also, if they hit you, you hit back! You're no punching bag🤜🤜🤜. Shine is too sweet for all that💙
@ItsNickjr
9 ай бұрын
❤😂First 😅❤❤❤It's rissa and quan the queen and the Don he's from Jamaica she's Italian they come together......... #rissandquan I found Myself singing you guys old intro today and don't know why 😂❤
@SibongileSibongileFongoqa
9 ай бұрын
I just love shine and saviour.. I really agree with Rissa and Quan shine is the sweetest child ever that kid is really crazy for real ya'll
@Jayandriah
9 ай бұрын
Shine is literally the sweetest idk what I would do if someone did that to my child and savi said lemme stop drinking this bottle we got gifts 😂❤
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