First time hearing a grown ass man complain about having a 2 in 1 celebration. Ridiculously immature if you ask me.
@junebarnick3089
25 күн бұрын
Seems all they do is argue all the time, personally I really don't want to watch this.
@billykdan8125
24 күн бұрын
@@junebarnick3089 then don't watch it
@billykdan8125
24 күн бұрын
@@MegAplin are you single
@kadenmcmaster3333
24 күн бұрын
They aren’t really arguing.. only making points of why they are moving Father’s Day for THEIR family. I think somebody else needs to focus on themself and grow up.
@forever.emm22200
24 күн бұрын
Finally someone said it...
@spflibsen22
21 күн бұрын
“Well I grilled” ok princess 🤣
@CynthiaSalas-vf5do
16 күн бұрын
Seriously
@susansmith493
15 күн бұрын
Kind of like the woman whining and crying about making her own bday cake.
@kimberlymurillo1829
15 күн бұрын
Fr
@janat6501
15 күн бұрын
Dont know what his Problem is lol every man i know enjoys it Especially my husband😂 he would grill everyday if he could
@AmieDeLalla
7 күн бұрын
Everyone hates on Matt but Abby is a needy baby and doesn’t appreciate anything. They are competitive friends more that married people.
@Alleged_Entertainment
24 күн бұрын
There is a reason why a ton of people dislike this couple.
@vegandolls
23 күн бұрын
riiiiiight? omg lol
@zimasubhan8116
22 күн бұрын
Thank you!!!
@ashleymaldonado7542
22 күн бұрын
We gotta pray for each other especially during these times
@Ruth78620
22 күн бұрын
I like Abby I don't like Matt I watched a podcast and it's very clear this lifestyle is his dream not hers. He's selfish and this conversation proves it. Moaning about having a double celebration with his family and "having" to grill poor baby all the while a beys just home, pregnant and no doubt exhausted he's lucky he got anything.
@jenniferwilliams5478
22 күн бұрын
Do people do baby moons? And do people do it with each pregnancy?
@surlespasdondine
21 күн бұрын
My husband would just say "how funny that it's on the same day" and that would be that. We would toast twice and the kids would give him double the drawings.
@sarfitch
19 күн бұрын
Right!?
@TheAlixAmanda
16 күн бұрын
Exactly!!! Every man I know would be happy at the convenience of getting it all done on one day! Weird behavior 🥴
@ggCA07
15 күн бұрын
exactly. just put happy bday on the card and maybe our happy father’s day too it’s not a big deal
@johncy11
14 күн бұрын
Of course, women don't see the issue
@BellrVlogs
14 күн бұрын
What matters to one may not matter to another. Most people born on Christmas day hate it. Some don't care. Both feelings are very valid.
@Me_1983-
27 күн бұрын
Most dads get a card and maybe a dinner. What does he expect???
@Oboe_Editz
27 күн бұрын
He expects a full vacation first class seating with no kids to bother him
@sindhujaveeraragavan2577
23 күн бұрын
A crown?
@charghhhmaine1423
23 күн бұрын
Listen the world revolves around him ..keep up please 😂❤
@matiekae0414
23 күн бұрын
@@Oboe_Editzmaybe not have to grill his own food for a day celebrating him? I bet she didn't cook her own dinner on Mother's Day. She won't even let him finish a sentence.
@gabyvilla2639
23 күн бұрын
@@matiekae0414Boohoo he has to grill? as if thats so hard.
@holisticliving5783
27 күн бұрын
You guys are so immature. How about people born December 25th? We're not going to celebrate Christmas, we'll do it in 3 months.
@trustmeimfabulous
27 күн бұрын
My birthday is Christmas Eve!! Yes! This is so stupid!
@anneshirley9560
27 күн бұрын
Mines on the 23rd. There's nothing immature about delaying a holiday or birthday. Once you get older, you tend to care less about those things, and just enjoy it in your own way. For instance, since mines at Christmas, I just watch my favorite movies by myself or with my mom, everyone gets parties, but its unrealistic for other people to come because they have stuff to do. They'll be alright. Everyone is different.
@leahcanton
27 күн бұрын
My first thought! My good friend growing up her birthday was on Christmas. Her family always her party the week before then they had her birthday breakfast on Christmas. Then they’d do Christmas stuff.
@leahcanton
27 күн бұрын
@@anneshirley9560that’s super understandable for a child. Moving it birthday party up a week or so totally makes sense. I think they meant to move a holiday by months because every 7 years it falls on your birthday is a bit weird.
@karmensanchez5593
27 күн бұрын
My birthday is on Christmas and I ran straight to the comments to see if anyone realized this every year since I was little we would always celebrate Christmas on Christmas Eve and then I would have my birthday stuff on Christmas Matt’s birthday doesn’t always land on Father’s Day so it’s not like they will have this issue every year and when your wife if pregnant with your baby like what do you want more for your birthday and Father’s Day this isn’t like your 10 years old or something it’s kinda frustrating seeing them act like this is such a big and sad issue that the had to go through even though millions of people have it worse
@srishtihirani7686
18 күн бұрын
Cake and inviting the whole family over while youre pregnant only for him to say “well, i grilled”
@amandarama8597
12 күн бұрын
And even coming back from a holiday together too. I can’t fathom a grown man complaining about this! Lol
@georgiabelle5176
10 күн бұрын
She zinged him back when she said she grew a baby all day😂
@Logicalsane
6 сағат бұрын
He's right though.....if he had to grill even when he didn't want to then she failed him....why are you so desperate to hate on him and side with your gender?? Also what pregnancy has to do with all that... typical pathetic excuse ..
@Logicalsane
6 сағат бұрын
@@georgiabelle5176Why is she saying,"She grew HIS baby" ?? When it's about benefits and good things then women claim parenthood and deprive men of all paternal rights by saying that only they went through pregnancy, breast feeding and other stuff.......... Hypocrites want to have their cake and eat it too...
@aayushi2866
22 күн бұрын
"It was a bummer" Well sir, you got her pregnant twice, the second one when your first child wasn't even 6 months! You don't get to complain about ANYTHING, your wife is a warrior.
@gingerydelights3554
18 күн бұрын
Yeah he's clearly a very selfish person
@candaceelbrader8035
16 күн бұрын
Didn't she participate in making the baby? Or was that solely him
@olivia_brookes
15 күн бұрын
he isn’t complaining omg
@gingerydelights3554
15 күн бұрын
@@olivia_brookes He was. He's a garbage husband
@olivia_brookes
14 күн бұрын
@@gingerydelights3554 no, he wasn’t.
@TheAlixAmanda
25 күн бұрын
Hearing her say “she failed him” after describing being pregnant, getting him a cake and throwing him a party is actually so sad. What was she supposed to do, get double presents? Invite double people? I feel like no man in my life would even care about having both things on one day they’d be like great we can get this all done in one day, more efficient and less work for you! Idk no hate I’m just confused why it’s a big deal and Abby is made to feel bad about it.
@BellrVlogs
17 күн бұрын
Abby wasn't made to feel bad. Maybe she felt bad, but it wasn't because of him. He literally said, "it's okay. You were pregnant and uncomfortable". And when she said "I failed you, he said "hey!". Listen again. Better still, watch the full video. This video isn't about what she did or didn't do, it's about his birthday falling on the same day as Father's Day. His beef is with the calendar, not her. LISTEN AGAIN.
@TheAlixAmanda
16 күн бұрын
@@BellrVlogs maybe you should READ AGAIN. My whole point was that a grown man at least in MY opinion should really not have to constantly be the center of attention and care that he had Father’s Day and his birthday on the same day!! I watched the whole thing AND I watched the short and in no way did he comfort Abby when she said she failed him he wasn’t like “hey don’t say that! You didn’t fail me” he said “hey but you know what we’re boycotting father day” (so that she can do a whole other celebration for him a whole other day) it’s just ridiculous to me and self centered behavior. They aren’t even on the same day this year!!! Wether on not he meant to make her feel bad is not the point it’s the fact that she is jumping through soooo many hoops and doing so much just so this man has the attention he wants and feels special and if he doesn’t feel special enough it’s like her fault somehow. I PERSONALLY do not want to be with a man like that
@sofiagarfield2774
15 күн бұрын
Yeah she is definitely doing too much and getting no appreciation from him... He gets more than he deserves!!
@BellrVlogs
14 күн бұрын
@@TheAlixAmanda Oh honey, you don't have to lie about the full video just to give some credibility to your opinion.🙂 In the full video, he literally said, "Hey, it's alright. There was a lot going on". Also, I read your comment properly, before responding. Maybe you should read your own comment again. You literally started it with, "hearing her say she failed him after..." and ended it with, "...Abby is MADE TO FEEL BAD...", and that is what I addressed. Now, whether you think he's right to make a fuss or not had absolutely nothing to do with my response. I was addressing the fact that you said he's MAKING HER feel bad and I'm telling you, he was not. I can be mad at a situation I'm in even though I still appreciate your efforts, no? Sidenote: Obviously, Father's Day isn't as important to him as his birthday and he would have liked to be the center of attention that day, as opposed to celebrating himself, his dad, his uncles, in-laws etc. I'm sure that if his birthday was maybe the day before Father's Day and she got him birthday gifts and nothing the next day for Father's Day, he wouldn't have minded. His complaint isn't about wanting double gifts, it's about not having his birthday be about just him. Some people don't mind living sacrificially for their loved ones, constantly celebrating and genuinely encouraging them, playing cheerleader, being on the sidelines etc, but just want this one day in the year, their birthday, to only be all about them. Like, they just want this one day for themselves. I don't think that's too much to ask (different case if they're always making demands and trying to be the center of attention every damn time). Now, even though there's actually nothing wrong with that, you may still not be able to deal with that kind of person and honestly, that's also very okay (which again is why I didn't address it in my initial response). What matters to person A may not matter to B. You just need to find the person who aligns with yours.
@camilaramirezangel
14 күн бұрын
First of all…. She was very obviously being sarcastic when she said that she “failed him” after naming off all the good things that she did for him that day. Secondly, his response afterwards cutting her off “hey! But you know what?” Just shows that he either doesn’t understand the sarcasm or really doesn’t care… His response very well could’ve been him being a smart ass or just completely oblivious to what she’s saying. Either way it’s a bad look. It implies that he kind of agrees with her.
@courtney1562
27 күн бұрын
This is soooo ridiculously STUPID!! If his birthday is in, June and they combine them, who cares?!? It’s literally appreciation for fathers(Matt is a father) and his birthday is in appreciation of him as well.🤦🏻♀️🙄 They are becoming more and more out of touch with reality and really leaning into the stereotypical “influencer” mentality. Dude, it’s NOT that deep!!🤦🏻♀️🙄😩🤐🥴
@alexj4556
27 күн бұрын
But but last year he had to grill! What if they do something more elaborate this time and he’ll have to clean too! He can’t possibly do that on his birthday/fathers day
@courtney1562
27 күн бұрын
@@alexj4556 😂😂😊
@Minniexoxyz
26 күн бұрын
Literally 😂
@user-vf2bp1pi4x
26 күн бұрын
Do they hear themselves?! I feel like I’m listening to children complaining that they didn’t get what they wanted for Christmas … this is life. Appreciate what you have instead of wanting more … on a different day. Good grief.
@erica74567
25 күн бұрын
💯
@brook4366
23 күн бұрын
My dad gets a gift, a card. Breakfast in bed and a relaxation day. Idk what this guy is expecting
@Preciselylate322
20 күн бұрын
Dude that’s a fantastic Father’s Day. I don’t think that’s what he got. Your dad didn’t cook on Father’s Day lol maybe that is what he’s getting at?
@dampjoedits
18 күн бұрын
my dad gets a few gifts, a card signed by me and my siblings, and peace and quiet
@heatherrae901
6 күн бұрын
He was probably expecting exactly that sort of treatment.
@abrewer7931
3 күн бұрын
My spidey senses are going off that there is abuse happening here in some form
@RachelSings21
2 күн бұрын
I agree.
@caloman5191
27 күн бұрын
what are y'all in the comments expecting her to do??? a cake and family over with grilling is a fine enough party.
@em.val170
24 күн бұрын
It sounds like she is complaining about doing just that
@alexj4556
23 күн бұрын
@@em.val170 she literally said she failed him. On the day they came back from a trip they had family over and she got him cake. He complains because HE had to grill, it sounds like he wants to be waited on hand a foot for his birthday and Father’s Day separately.
@emeraldgemini19
23 күн бұрын
Memorial Day was also my birthday and my husband grilled and his parents came over and our neighbors, I had a fun time and didn’t want everyone to leave lol
@matiekae0414
23 күн бұрын
@@alexj4556not grilling everyone else's food isn't wanting to be waited on. Maybe they could have ordered pizza or wings. Jesus.
@ericgatlin6414
21 күн бұрын
@@alexj4556where is he complaining? He gave her every benefit of the doubt. WTF?!!
@Noone73902
27 күн бұрын
Just my opinion here! Married 15 years, kids and all. Father’s Day and Mother’s Day are not a big deal, you give a card, eat a good meal and call it a day. Now you need to “celebrate” it another day and on and on, that’s too much. You already have SO many holidays, it never ends, and neither does the spending.
@kariannkirk
27 күн бұрын
My sister and I just had this same conversation because we are having our kids birthday parties on that day. It was the only day available. Someone mentioned it was Father’s Day. I said “oh we don’t really celebrate that.” Kids make a card, dad probably wants to golf by himself. These are Hallmark holidays. Why are people putting so much weight on these holidays.
@bridget7539
25 күн бұрын
This year my husband took my kid to Target. They got a really cute card that my kid drew all over, and then my kid insisted on getting me a bag of birthday cake flavored KitKats. Because he knew how much I love KitKats, and trying new flavors. It was so sweet and thoughtful and all I really needed
@TonyaA7
25 күн бұрын
On mother's day I like to go get more plants for my gardens my gift to me... I love gardening..
@ashleenicole71
24 күн бұрын
That's great for some. But some like those days more than their birthdays. I like getting my kids involved.
@Draftingalife
24 күн бұрын
Seriously 😳
@neanea1173
20 күн бұрын
Gen X here. This world is Ridiculous! Babymoons...push gifts...gender reveal parties..but don't misgender..dad's can't celebrate birthday same week as Father's day. Nuts!!!!!!!!!
@chickeynuggies7262
18 күн бұрын
Relax
@jmoney7742
14 күн бұрын
I hate it here
@candicehiles729
13 күн бұрын
I know it's ridiculous
@smithsunleashed
12 күн бұрын
These are millennial parents.
@rosemarie-graceorr1825
12 күн бұрын
@@smithsunleashedI’m a millennial parent and every other millennial parent I know doesn’t do this. This is the influencer parent bs. Everything is an excuse to go on holiday or buy unnecessary presents and every tiny little celebration has to be celebrated.
@mlw98
22 күн бұрын
You expected two separate celebrations in the same day?? lmaooo
@Hithere-wi2yt
23 күн бұрын
Oh my god how childish. A grown ass man making it a big thing that fathers day was on his birthday?? And making it sound like his pregnant wife getting him a cake and family grilling on a fine June day wasn't enough?? Come on!!
@atchomama123
20 күн бұрын
This conversation should have been kept private
@jmoney7742
14 күн бұрын
💀
@jessicapreston9808
11 күн бұрын
Why? I’m not trying to pick a fight I’m just genuinely curious why you think they should have kept this private. Don’t they make their living talking about their lives on the internet? It’s not like they’re talking about something salacious like what position they had sex in last night, so in my mind it seems like a harmless thing to share but I’m intrigued to hear your take.
@megamaze00
10 күн бұрын
@@jessicapreston9808 it’s because they are so embarrassingly immature. They should at least try to maintain their own dignity.
@SettieSpaghetti
7 күн бұрын
She brought this to an audience for support on the issue… I’m sure of it! Not that it’s right, because he’s obviously getting roasted. But, maybe his attitude on it needed to be checked and this is certainly one way of doing that. We’re all humans, he’s allowed to have his feelings, but sometimes our feelings are a little ridiculous haha.
@Barbie12656
Күн бұрын
All of them, but narcissism
@Lamards
14 күн бұрын
Run. Just run girl. You have time.
@nanopiano-m0508
24 күн бұрын
I cannot get over the fact that Matt seemed to agree with Abby when she said she failed him. I love Matt and Abby but this sounds so childish on Matt’s part. Abby was pregnant, just got back from a baby moon, and STILL threw him a celebration and then he’s saying “we’re just boycotting it now because I didn’t get two days of celebration last year” like grow up a lot of people with birthdays around that time combine them.
@carlaexclusa505
27 күн бұрын
I genuinely don’t see why someone can’t celebrate their husband’s birthday and Father’s Day all in one. To top it off, the father of your kids has to wait three months to celebrate Father’s Day? Make it make sense. 🤔🤦🏻♀️Lol Imagine if Matt told her that.
@loudemopsychic
25 күн бұрын
Did you actually listen to what they said though? Feels like you didn't. They said they're not celebrating it in June because it overlaps with his birthday so he doesn't really get a father's day (this often happens with people who have birthdays near holidays) so they're moving their personal celebration of father's day to be later in the year so that they can give him a day that isn't rolled in to something else.
@amberossinger3868
25 күн бұрын
Okay but this year Father's Day doesn't land on his birthday so their logic for it still doesn't make sense. My birthday is Jan 3 do you think people want to go to a party that just happens to be after everyone spends so much on Xmas and gets too drunk on New years? No I don't postpone my bday because of holidays. Maybe get over yourself a little bit and realize how much of a first world problem this is.
@zb4730
25 күн бұрын
He just needs to get over it. My birthday is close to Christmas, it gets combined and I don’t give a f*** lol. Welcome to parenthood
@hannahjones7235
25 күн бұрын
I mean it’s not like it’s just her that made the decision. They said they made it as a family. Maybe it was even his idea to begin with. He just didn’t want one or the other to get overlooked by doing more for his birthday or Father’s Day.
@user-wd9ck5ci2f
25 күн бұрын
They made that decision, TOGETHER, and decided as a family. Whether or not you agree doesn’t matter they decided that, let them have it.
@xfulloflife8718
25 күн бұрын
You didn't fail your husband because you combined two holidays. Matt needs to grow up honestly.
@claraosmond431
24 күн бұрын
I don’t know if you’ll ever read this, but I really hope you do because it comes from a place of care and concern. In my opinion, it is not necessary to share every detail of your thoughts and decisions with the public. You are a beautiful unit as husband and wife, and I have seen you guys go from carefully considering what is a healthy amount to share to sharing every thought that crosses your mind. It is so precious to have ideas, dreams, conflicts, trials, etc, that you can keep simply between the two of you. And it is best to have more that you keep private than the amount that you share. Remember back to when you had a life where you weren’t constantly thinking about what next to share online or what other people are going to say/think… remember the time in your life where your mind was clearer and things were simpler. It is beautiful to see the way you guys interview others, but even your guests don’t often get as deeply open about their private thoughts and emotions as you two do… guard your hearts!! It is not going to change the world by oversharing your lives online. Be choosy about what you share because those thought belong to YOU! Be proud of having privacy and using discernment over what to share or not. Have things that are kept sacred between the two of you as husband and wife. I hope this does not come off as rude, and obviously it is my own personal opinion, but I just hope this helps anybody who reads it. 🙏
@annav21
23 күн бұрын
Yes especially when it seems everyone loves to hate on them.. unless they are just doing it no matter what people think because it is their job at this point.
@KRock783
23 күн бұрын
I completely agree with your comment. They should keep a lot of things to themselves. I lost all respect for them in one podcast when they were talking about their sex life, and Matt told Abbey that it felt different after having kids and basically him saying he doesn't enjoy it. I feel like that was so disrespectful and that should've been kept between themseleves. So sad!
@1blestmomamoe472
12 күн бұрын
I agree but look they got us all talking & now they’re laughing all the way to the bank🤣
@gloriack7976
12 күн бұрын
Hear hear.
@PersonifiedBody
5 күн бұрын
But then they'd have to go get real jobs 😂 I completely agree with your sentiment, I myself barely post anything personal online, but these guys make a living off this stuff. It doesn't matter if people love or hate them because they still get engagement on their content.
@meg1229
14 күн бұрын
This guy just doesn't sit right with me, and I'm glad to know I'm not the only one 😅
@Minniexoxyz
26 күн бұрын
Lmaooo what did I just hear 😂😂😂😂
@Rachel-qs5ke
27 күн бұрын
3 months?? How about just the same week, different day
@J-en9ku
24 күн бұрын
It's already going to be a different day. Father's Day is always on a Sunday. And what, did this guy never celebrate Father's Day for his own father, since it could have been on the same day once before too. What a guy that is.
@user-ex6ej4co8i
23 күн бұрын
He also has 2 children who are very young and after 1 celebration you need to give them time to rewind before you do it again.
@kristin5322
9 күн бұрын
Is he 12? The more I see Matt, the more immature and selfish he seems. I can tell by Abbys face that she is forcing herself to agree with you, but deep down, she feels you are selfish. I feel bad for her at this point.
@sunnyrey9304
16 күн бұрын
This guy needs to grow up, what a cry baby
@user-ms9we1xv4r
27 күн бұрын
Way to focus on the things that don't matter... At all.
@chlocaine.99
27 күн бұрын
As someone whose father recently passed away, let your kids celebrate Father’s Day on the actual day. You never know when it can be the last time. It’s as simple as a card, that’s all my dad ever wanted on Father’s Day and now I can’t do that for him anymore.
@sheliadrennan653
27 күн бұрын
Im sorry for your lose of your Dad
@corrao.4643
27 күн бұрын
Yup I just lost my dad too in a car accident, you never know when your time is. Always celebrate when you can!
@rosebud3100
26 күн бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss 😢 at the end, they said they'd celebrate father's day 3 months later. Father's day is any day you decide to celebrate father figures. Your birthday is a set day every year and they still get to celebrate their dad ❤❤
@kcandyou5263
26 күн бұрын
I agree. I lost my dad Sept 30th 2023 so this is my first fathers day withiut him amd last year I was with him but I was taking care of him super sick from chemo. So it's already been 2 fathers day withiut really being able to celebrate him in joy.
@user-bq9um4zt5f
26 күн бұрын
omg im so sry for ur loss stay strong and work hard maybe make a letter for him every fathers day and leave it at his grave maybe that would help u grieve and make him proud its ur choice u dont have to do it ik it can be rly hard so stay strong i believe in u
@isabellest-laurent9549
7 күн бұрын
He says "yeah, but it's okay" like it's not really okay, but he's giving her a pass because he's so nice. 😂
@briangamber6051
7 күн бұрын
I saw this in my news feed like people magazine or something. Does this family not understand how blessed and fortunate they are? Literally they post videos for money. I’ve been watching them for a couple years and they are getting more and more kooky. A baby moon?? Some modern day thing? Not only do I cook my birthday meal for the family, I also do the dishes. Stop being so precious
@thetraumainformedteacher
27 күн бұрын
This happens with me every year for my birthday and Mother’s Day. I like to call it the week of me! Instead of celebrating one day for my birthday and one for mother’s day we kind of drag it all out and do fun things together the whole entire week. I love it!
@aemanshahid4733
27 күн бұрын
Yea this makes more sense
@emma_doucette
27 күн бұрын
My birthday is May 15th, and this happens to me every once in a while! But I'm also not a mom yet, I'm excited to have this option when I do have kids!
@allieb7705
27 күн бұрын
That’s impossible for it to happen every year for you. Maybe it’s in the same week but not the same day. Mother’s Day is on a different day each year
@TS-pi5nu
26 күн бұрын
@@allieb7705that what she said
@flameboy18
26 күн бұрын
My birthday is May 16 and sometimes the same day as mothers day . I prefer to just do both on 1 day every year. No point in another party right after.
@alexj4556
27 күн бұрын
I felt one way after watching this clip and another after reading the comments. After the video I thought that the idea was ridiculous and stupid because as an adult who cares about things like this? Who cares about things not being elaborate and super special, most of the time your birthday is just another day. That plus Father’s Day, super easy to combine for a regular family. But no, Matt is upset because last year he had to grill. This poor man someone quickly help him. After reading the comments I’m genuinely shocked at how ridiculous people are for actually believing Abby should be doing more. It somehow makes sense to people how Matt is feeling and that he deserves more. Wow.
@alanadidonato147
26 күн бұрын
Thank you.
@AER66
26 күн бұрын
Me too. I’m a bit of an older parent compared to them so maybe I see things differently. My husband and I will combine any holidays possible to limit the “to do’s.” Lol We are very much quiet, simple folk though. I suppose some younger Dads may require more recognition…🤷🏼♀️ Just can’t imagine my husband ever complaining enough to change Father’s Day…
@abbeymurray7810
25 күн бұрын
1000% he is a child
@alexj4556
25 күн бұрын
@@AER66 I think it’s just one of those things you can get over when you’re an adult ? By this logic they would need several fathers days in a year so they can properly celebrate Matts dad and Abby’s dad.
@sammi3399
25 күн бұрын
If a woman went through this, you’d call her a victim of abuse
@mysticmama_3692
15 күн бұрын
What the hell? How immature do you have to be to complain about fathers day being combined with your birthday??? Its still appreciating YOU as a person. Do you not understand that most dads get a card and a meal and hand made drawings from their kids at most...and they are HAPPY with it. So are most MOMS who get that on mothers day. Do NOT apologize for anything...no one "failed"...Matt just needs to grow the hell up.
@Mrspenguin12
15 күн бұрын
Abby deserves all the credit for what she did and Matt needs to grow up and say thank you…because she didn’t have to do anything!
@Oboe_Editz
27 күн бұрын
All of this seems like excuses like that seems like a normal adult birthday most dad’s enjoy grilling (not trying to be stereotypical) but once your a parent you can’t expect everything to go how you want it and Father’s Day is in June 16th this year not the 18th, you just didn’t plan well last year
@Womenballin
26 күн бұрын
“Well I grilled” LMAO
@SugarSugar5454
21 күн бұрын
I thought these 2 were adults and parents? 😂 For all the single parents out here, we usually spend "our" holiday doing the things for ourselves 😂 .... and you are complaining about a 2 in 1 celebration that she put on for you?? know your audience guys!!! 😂
@rhyssheldon3975
23 күн бұрын
Wow, Abby you did not fail him. You are a great mother and an awesome person. WE are proud of you and all that you’ve done for your family!
@magdalenaz4395
27 күн бұрын
Whyyy? Why not celebrate both? This year it will be on a different days😢
@ArthropodSpidey
27 күн бұрын
Matt is a bit too agreeable
@BeardedDragonMan1997
27 күн бұрын
They’re extremely co dependent
@rosie20098
27 күн бұрын
I entirely disagree. This felt extremely passive aggressive. She was extremely pregnant and they had just gotten back from traveling. She still threw him a party and got him a cake. It felt combined because they were on the same day. My husband's birthday is on June 19th and he can't wait until he gets to celebrate his birthday on father's day
@yvonnelygo681
27 күн бұрын
Not alot else you can do with OPINIONATED wife.
@catwoman7102
27 күн бұрын
no she said she feels guilty
@Kam_Davis
27 күн бұрын
and why celebrate in 3 months ??? In my family if someone is out of town or something else fell in that day we’d celebrate at least the following weekend
@morgan_baileyy
16 күн бұрын
This is so sad Abby did not fail him she did her best and tried for him. Matt is immature and ungrateful.
@lavidamia9
21 күн бұрын
She deserves better, he seems like it's all about me...
@Oboe_Editz
27 күн бұрын
Couldn’t you just celebrate Father’s Day early? Your taking away the joy from your kids of making you something like a card or something else and that just seems like something you did wrong
@kurikostoddard4913
27 күн бұрын
Matt says at the end they're celebrating Father's Day three months after his birthday. They're not completely removing it, just postponing so that he can be celebrated well for both.
@Oboe_Editz
27 күн бұрын
@@kurikostoddard4913why three months though? There’s absolutely no point as his birthday isn’t the same day this year
@Lolee56
27 күн бұрын
Her kids are way too young for any of that or to understand it but I agree this whole thing is weird… idk why she’s acting like they have to throw an expensive party or something for Father’s Day… it’s just a day to show love and appreciation, what so hard about that
@Lolee56
27 күн бұрын
@@Oboe_Editzjust get a cake and celebrate them together? Literally millions of people do this..
@Rachel-qs5ke
27 күн бұрын
@@Oboe_Editz right! This is the most stupid thing
@lydibugsqawggle5506
26 күн бұрын
Is it only me that thinks Matt is kind of rude to Abby like she is CLEARLY trying to make his birthday / Father’s Day that one year so special but he’s just saying how “oh at least you tried” and “you were pregnant “ this rubbed me the wrong way for sure
@lainielousanchez
11 күн бұрын
This guy is the worst. He’s way too whiny to be a half decent father or husband.
@jdub9595
11 күн бұрын
Moms get taken out to dinner, dads are expected to grill! Ironic🤪🤪🤪🤪
@ur_fav_swiftie.
25 күн бұрын
the funniest thing about this whole situation is that we all know dang well if Matt went on their main account and said “we’re not celebrating Mother’s Day until three months after the fact” everyone on the internet would absolutely FLAME him for saying that 😅
@zoeykralovetz1744
23 күн бұрын
They're getting roasted for this too... But if they did both... Oh boy..
@ur_fav_swiftie.
23 күн бұрын
@@zoeykralovetz1744 ikr 😂
@suesanszu
22 күн бұрын
@@zoeykralovetz1744 no, he's getting roasted. If Abbey felt like he didn't celebrate mothers day the way she expected every one would be flaming Matt for being a shitty husband. The other way round it's still his fault xd just let them celebrate whatever they want whenever they want damn.
@kylelay6858
18 күн бұрын
No, this is his fault not hers. He should just say “we can celebrate my birthday and Father’s Day on the same day”
@teamjacob4eva
25 күн бұрын
This is so childish lol. You’re a grown man why are you so obsessed with the birthday and Father’s Day clashing?
@ava.makes.editsxx
3 күн бұрын
When Abby said she “failed him” and he didn’t immediately respond with “No you didn’t” I almost lost it. Matt honestly needs to grow up and realize that being celebrated double in one day isn’t a bad thing. Any other dad wouldn’t complain, boycott Father’s Day, or even care. This is just selfish and immature behavior.
@EmmaBaggarly-hy1ru
19 күн бұрын
Logging off after I hear her say "honestly I failed you and I'm sorry" lol girl that's wild 😂
@Oboe_Editz
27 күн бұрын
When she says ‘we’ve decided as a family’ it seems like she decided not Matt of the kids
@pinkluvr48
27 күн бұрын
It’s not looking good rn. They can both display what they want and meet in the middle. I don’t wanna judge Abby too quickly, but it does look like she takes “I grew ur babies” as a way to lead in the house. You BOTH run the home.. not just one or the other..
@thatonechick6747
27 күн бұрын
@@pinkluvr48i mean no disrespect to her but even if she grew them he took care of her when she did he hasnt been absent from a viewers standpoint n thats why it kinda sucks. If he says hes happy guess hes happy but to me i dont see why it wouldnt hurt any good dad to skip fathers day and celebrate mothers day if theyre on the same day celebrate ur birthday early yk? Its sooo common for people to celebrate birthdays before or after the day but let the dude get a fathers day he made them babies too
@pinkluvr48
27 күн бұрын
@@thatonechick6747 yeah that’s the thing with marriage and relationships. There will be a time it definitely feels like you give your all to your partner. Especially if they’re hurt, injured, struggling financially, looking for a job, etc. there are so many road blocks and struggles that can hit you both or individually any time. Yes she grew their kids but he also helped. Yeah he took care of her after birth just like how I’m sure she takes care do their home, kids, etc as well. It’s not gonna be the same always, the balance readjusts after some time. It’s not always a steady ride!
@glowingowl221
27 күн бұрын
Let the man finish a sentence once in a while
@ceciliapistorius8321
27 күн бұрын
Hilarious because people always say the same thing to Matt
@tara6460
26 күн бұрын
She can't. Her ego is the only thing in the room at all times
@CyleeBrown
26 күн бұрын
@@tara6460do you watch the same videos of them that I do? That isn’t the idea I got whatsoever
@andreabrown1847
23 күн бұрын
@@tara6460yes!! You are so right. She is always this way!
@twilatull4185
17 күн бұрын
Wow Father’s Day is more about the kids anyway not the dad , imagine goin to school n kids asking what u get dad for fathers day n ur kids say nuthn yet because we can’t celebrate it for another three mi the cause it falls on our dads bday . How ridiculous I’m sorry I like u guys but that’s just silly. And selfish IMO
@Ange12_123
15 сағат бұрын
This is beyond absurd. I know that a lot 26 year old men would still act childish and have an immature mind, but not when you have step up and be a father to 2 children. It has to stop there for the sake of your children and wife that has bore youre children while you are sitting comfortably and complaining about 'fathers day' being stolen from you especially when you have not been performing a good one at that. To me Matt looks older than 26, i would have assumed 32, sadly acts as a 21 year old.
@lucygarrett9785
27 күн бұрын
It’s perfectly understandable what you ended up doing last year and it makes a lot of sense, but don’t use “I grew your baby” as the excuse. He’s an adult, a cake and a bunch of people over isn’t really common for a fathers birthday. It sounds like you guys had a great day last year and it just doesn’t make sense why you would move Father’s Day to later in the year
@hannabobo4187
27 күн бұрын
I think she just meant like Auggie was her present to him.
@rosie20098
27 күн бұрын
I think it was fair for her to point out that she was extremely pregnant at the time, but idk it feels childish and silly for Matt to be upset about this. She tried her best and he still got a cake and birthday party. It was petty for him to be like "yeah well I grilled". I've heard many women point out that the men grilling are the only ones who are thanked ar BBQs but it's the women who clean the house, make the side dishes, prepare the meat, decorate, get the drinks, and are left with the clean up. If Matt didn't want to grill he could've suggested going out to a restaurant or ordering BBQ. Thus just felt extremely passive aggressive and I think it's unfair for Abby to feel the need to say "I failed you".
@pennypittsburgh
27 күн бұрын
Yeah, that "I grew your baby all day, every day" was very selfish of her. That one got me. Yes, she did fail him.
@MayelleGrace-qz4xx
27 күн бұрын
Okay I think that’s a bit much she was joking
@justarandomgirlvx3578
27 күн бұрын
@@pennypittsburghWhy was it selfish? Do you imply she should do the physical labour when she is pregnant? It isn't an excuse, it is a FAIR argument. Being pregnant physically limits you.
@anneminette
27 күн бұрын
I’m sorry but I feel bad for Matt about this. Even though he makes his words sound like he agrees, I can see his expression that he’s sad about it. To delay it a week or two, I get it. A whole three months? Nah. That’s just not right. My husband would always say I don’t have to get him anything for his birthday or Father’s Day but as his wife and him being the father of our child, I want him to feel celebrated and appreciated just like how I would like to feel on Mother’s Day.
@Kam_Davis
27 күн бұрын
I agree on this it’s hard because he could barely get a word in … 😫😫
@alanadidonato147
26 күн бұрын
They’re moving it for him to celebrate HIM more. And if my husband ever threw me under the bus like this. 😳🙄 Poor Abby. A baby moon, dq, grilling, family and a pregnant wife want enough for him. Move on.
@TheAlixAmanda
25 күн бұрын
@@alanadidonato147yea I felt worse for Abby in all this. Why does this man need to be SO celebrated anyways?? It sounds like she did so much for him last year on top of being pregnant , traveling and then hearing her say she STILL “failed” him is honestly so sad like really Matt does it have to be such a big deal? Most guys I know don’t even care about all this stuff anyways!
@jlongino51823
25 күн бұрын
@@alanadidonato147this is definitely immaturity on his part.
@superlovesparkles
24 күн бұрын
This is exactly what i was thinking. I feel that with his Struggled in Depression he wants to feel appreciated in two different days but she doesn’t see it that way, she keeps saying ME, ME, ME. I Gave Birth to our children and Celebrating you in two different days is too much for ME. I gave birth to two children too and I homeschool, clean, cook EVERYDAY but that’s still not an excuse to not Celebrate my Husband on Father’s Day. What i see as a Wife is i want my husband to feel even more special on that day just how he makes me feel special on Mother’s Day. My daughter’s Birthday is on Mother’s Day and my husband ALWAYS goes all out making us feel both special in the same day.
@sophiadavis3860
21 сағат бұрын
I’m 16 years old (side note, my parents are divorced) and I bought my dad a $15 steak for Father’s Day this year that he had to grill and he was ecstatic. It truly upsets me that Matt is so immature and doesn’t appreciate the things his pregnant, busy wife had done for him, and still continues to do. Especially when she feels bad. It’s just so sad to see.
@amg_xo3
Күн бұрын
I throw up a little inside my mouth when I hear him speak.
@darthpanda5142
27 күн бұрын
Not that hard to have the kids make him a Father’s Day card or make a little picture with their handprints or something and also have a birthday dinner? It doesn’t have to be elaborate
@EmiNo-il1gs
27 күн бұрын
Sure it doesn't have to be something big, but what if she wants to have a big dinner and not combine it with his birthday?
@alexj4556
27 күн бұрын
By the way he talks about last year and how he’s the one who had to grill it sounds like something simple would not be enough for him
@alanadidonato147
26 күн бұрын
Poor Abby. Sounds like a great day and he just wants more, which is fine I guess but don’t throw your wife under the bus like that, I don’t care if you have a podcast or not
@user-ob1qc7nb6v
19 күн бұрын
If this is the biggest issue in their life, they must have a nice life 😂
@mila17890
3 күн бұрын
People here after seeing Cooper’s vid 👇
@cheyannewilliams2020
27 күн бұрын
Father's should get their day just like moms should period!
@StacyJones-xg9dh
26 күн бұрын
That depends if they're actually dad's I don't think guys who have babies and don't stick around for them should be celebrated just because they got a girl pregnant. There's a lot of men out there that will want to celebrate the holiday but they don't even spend time with the child so why are we celebrating some of these men
@kytruth1027
26 күн бұрын
@@StacyJones-xg9dhumm you realize there's a lot of moms like this too, right?
@positivelyrachel5102
22 күн бұрын
That’s not the point
@xAnjaxful
15 күн бұрын
You completely missed the point
@brittanybarbour5669
27 күн бұрын
This is strange
@skyefinnestad2257
10 күн бұрын
I swear they’re satire. There’s no way this is genuine 😭
@TheNerdess
23 күн бұрын
I dont think I have ever seen a video where he isnt being passive aggressive. Making specific comments n then pretending he thinks its no big deal. "WELL I GRILLED ... but tons of dads do." Like ...
@bshows14
27 күн бұрын
Once you are married longer, you will find that combining special moments or delaying them is 100% fine. Mothers day and my birthday are only a month apart and Father's Day, my sons bday and our anniversary are all in the same month. It's fine. As long as special moments are recognized, it doesn't have to be a big huge celebration every time. Sometimes, just a simple dinner is totally fine.
@Aisha19910
27 күн бұрын
Whyyy? How about not celebrating Mother’s Day…. How would this make you feel abbey?And also you sound abit selfish there…. Wellll I grew your child hence we didn’t celebrate Father’s Day last year well. Seems a little one sided this topic poor Matt!
@Oboe_Editz
27 күн бұрын
Yeah they say some questionable things on here that make them seem so horrible
@Kaitlyn_88
27 күн бұрын
okay so obviously you didn’t listen. there not celebrating it because it’s on Matt’s birthday.
@Oboe_Editz
27 күн бұрын
@@Kaitlyn_88father’s day is June 16th this year his birthday is the 18th
@anneshirley9560
27 күн бұрын
@@Oboe_Editzthey're still celebrating it, they're just doing it in a different day so that it doesn't take away from his birthday. I get it, because I was born in December 23rd. Everyone forgets my birthday, which is understandable.
@Oboe_Editz
27 күн бұрын
@@anneshirley9560but it doesn’t even seem like Matt likes this idea he’s just agreeing to please Abby
@p.a595
14 күн бұрын
It’s not like his birthday was being outshined by Mother’s Day or another Holiday that celebrates someone else. Both are celebrating him!! 🙄 The Narcissism, Entitlement, and ungratefulness is through the roof with this guy!!! 🙄😠
@Nottheone213
18 күн бұрын
They are always talking over each other - it’s hard to listen.
@salleigh
26 күн бұрын
then cutting each other off in this was driving me nuts lol love them ! Happy they can both decide on these things ❤😊
@hazeywazeya
27 күн бұрын
I hope he delays mothers day for you next year
@yvonnelygo681
27 күн бұрын
I hope he delays something for her....... when she wants it......
@jolenegsings8843
7 күн бұрын
She failed him because he couldn’t handle having a day not all about him?! WOMP WOMP
@RachelSings21
2 күн бұрын
The fact that she says ‘I failed you’ and he DOESN’T IMMEDIATELY CORRECT HER IS WILD!!!!!!!!!!!!
@tehrimtariq
27 күн бұрын
Abby imposes a lot on matt and makes him look weird if he disagrees
@maggiemoo9311
25 күн бұрын
Bro why don't u just celebrate, I didn't get a clear reason 😭 likeee is it really to hard to buy two gifts, or go golfing as a fam, or just hang out... I can't with influencers anymore
@denizereyes7418
15 күн бұрын
you should celebrate Brazilian father’s day, that it’s like second sunday of august 😂😂😂
@Odes1Angel
Күн бұрын
The fact that he talks over her is annoying to listen to.
@lizza4949
27 күн бұрын
Let him finish to tell you how he feels ! Not how you make him sound like he has to agree to everything you’re saying. I feel like Abby always wants to take control of everything and anything.
@kimkb8819
27 күн бұрын
I couldn’t imagine not celebrating my husband on Father’s Day he is an amazing dad and deserves to be celebrated nor would I skip his birthday. This kind of screams lazy to me. You don’t have to do a huge celebration even just a card and going to dinner is acceptable but to completely skip it because YOU want to is selfish. Imagine him doing that to you on Mother’s Day would you feel the same way?
@EmiNo-il1gs
27 күн бұрын
Honestly your being selfish, they are busy people being pregnant and celebrating a birthday and father's day on the same day is difficult. She just want to give him the celebration he deserves so he has one day for his birthday and one day for father's day. Calling her lazy is so incredibly rude and disrespectful
@kimkb8819
26 күн бұрын
@@EmiNo-il1gs they are not pregnant lol and no that is selfish to ignore a holiday because it is inconvenient for you at the time
@samanthab5757
25 күн бұрын
I don’t understand. Does he want a birthday cake and a Father’s Day cake on the same day to feel acknowledged ? I guess if it were me I would probably say let’s celebrate my birthday the day before, then Mother’s Day the day of. But my husband wouldn’t know without me setting clear expectations to him that I didn’t want the day to be combined. Whatever works best for each family.
@EmiNo-il1gs
25 күн бұрын
@@kimkb8819 She was pregnant last year and doesn't want it to happen again, they are still celebrating it why is it such a big deal if it's on a different day?
@Breatheintomeandmakemereal
17 күн бұрын
No, she can’t stand the fact that he got two days in one. It’s classic narcissism. “WE decided as a family.” There was no we in that. She decided it. And I don’t think him saying that he grilled is being passive aggressive or whining. She’s trying to claim it all and he’s just getting the facts straight. No, he’s the one that grilled. I think that’s all that was. And then she uses the, “Well, I grew two babies.” That sounds more passive aggressive to me than what he said. And she took Father’s Day away from the kids.
@ambermik2940
18 күн бұрын
Omgoodness its a made up hallmark holiday anyway. I cant stand the obligation and pressure that comes with these made up days
@RochelleLong924
3 күн бұрын
I agree why celebrate Father’s Day when CLEARLY your married to a little boy 🤦🏼♀️
@oscarbernal5508
27 күн бұрын
Its not Ok Matr and you know you are not ok... you are just been nice, speak out
@EmiNo-il1gs
27 күн бұрын
Its not ok for you to assume she is controlling him and they probably talked about it more off camr
@Kelly-fk3lu
27 күн бұрын
Ok that would not work for Abby if the rolls were reversed AT ALL LOL
@Zeusthedogo
2 күн бұрын
Why do their conversations get worse and worse?
@Chloe.b11
Күн бұрын
I really think she says “I failed you” as a joke because she knows how ridiculous he’s being having to celebrate Father’s Day and his birthday on the same day and god forbid having to grill but he isn’t aware she’s kidding and said “hey but you know what…” he’s soo un aware and self centred. I used to watch them but I really think Matt is just a man child who needs to change.
@yvonnelygo681
27 күн бұрын
He need patience, as much as stars in the sky. He cant get a word in. She raises her voice if he tries to carry on talking.
@secretpal6039
27 күн бұрын
Such a stupid idea Abby. How about putting in some effort? My dad’s birthday is May 10 and my daughter’s birthday is May 15, and they fall on/near Mother’s Day every year, but we still celebrate each person because all of those days are important to our family.
@alexj4556
27 күн бұрын
Abby? How about Matt? He clearly expects something elaborate and separate for his birthday and Father’s Day, that’s just ridiculous! As an adult it’s completely normal to not have a big bash for your birthday, most of the time and for most people it’s just a day, maybe a meal with friends/family at the weekend. He’s upset because he had to do something last year! How ridiculous!
@boycee1
13 күн бұрын
Keep them separate so your kids grow up knowing dad has a special day too, not just on his bday. They need those memories. Bet Abby wouldnt go for this of the tables were turned. Celebrate both days. Goodness. You have no jobs, you're both home all day and your parents live there to help. No excuses for being tired. Imagine living a normal life like most Americans. Working 9-5 seeing your kids after work, not having parents live in for help,not getting to vacation twice a month etc etc. walk in a normal person's shoes then you can say you're tired.
@amybeccaburris4383
21 күн бұрын
This is wild lol he wants equal birthday and equal Father’s Day. Missing the point my guy!!
@sstacyss
27 күн бұрын
I grew your child everyday is rude to say. He puts in a lot of work himself as a dad and deserves to be rewarded. Be lucky you have a man that’s involved. You seem unaware of what a lot of women go though as a single mom.
@Noone73902
27 күн бұрын
I don’t think she is dissing all single mothers because she celebrated both on the same day.
@alexj4556
27 күн бұрын
Wow what a bar to set. We should praise all dads simply for not walking out on their kids?! How stupid
@LL-wu5ui
26 күн бұрын
She grew the child and is raising the child. He is raising the child as well. No matter what he does, he will NEVER compare to her growing the child, birthing it and breast feeding.
@rosew6111
25 күн бұрын
That is true… have you ever grown a child inside you? It’s exhausting, the fact that she pulled off a party and cake on top of that is commendable.
@alexj4556
25 күн бұрын
@@rosew6111 on a day they came back from a trip no less!!
@jenniferandthings
27 күн бұрын
In recent years because my sister is at uni/ doing her PhD, we always celebrate both fatherday and her birthday on the same weekend
@lillianstamets9309
23 күн бұрын
Although I wouldn’t do this with my family I truly believe they can do whatever they want and everyone in the comments is being extremely immature and disrespectful talking abt how they are running their families live. LEAVE THEM ALONE.
@soulfulguitarist7726
15 күн бұрын
He’s sitting there on his phone going “yeah” 😂😂
@Duckys6
27 күн бұрын
I feel so bad for Matt he should get Father's Day because Abby gets Mother's Day a Father and a mother should both get a day 😊off
@natashagarcia491
27 күн бұрын
I know for a fact matt wouldn't ask abby to cancel mothers Day had her bday been that close in proximity to mother's day. Weirddddd & an excuse to give less effort.
@ChristinaFromYoutube
12 күн бұрын
He is so unlikable.
@ShesAWillow
4 күн бұрын
“Yeah, but it’s okay.” Is it though? ‘Cause all he did was complain. I hope he reads all the comments flaming him. Grow up, Matt
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