Great talk! , if I may say so myself 😊 I was with the children’s mother off and on for many years, she had a bad habit of running away when life got tough/difficult, we met when we were around 15years old. She left again, going on five years ago now,for what appears to be the last time..😞 I have spent the past years working on myself and being somewhat of a guide for the two daughters the best I can. I thought we would always be together.. but sometimes people are just not the people who we think they are, I guess it’s a part of the illusion of self.. I still believe in happiness and love, although I don’t believe I have really experienced it intimately. I keep my heart open and believe love finds a way, at the right time for the right reasons.💚🥰 Everything happens for a reason and everyone has their season. Being alone has taught me a lot about myself and others.
@ScoreGuru123
7 күн бұрын
Very few childhood sweetheart relationships last. The brain chemistry changes and people change as they grow up and get older.
@AnnikaMorina
7 күн бұрын
@@Jarratt. Im sorry to hear that 🌹 must be hard but as you say sometimes people are not who we think they are but we have hope because we see that small piece of the person whom we believe they are. Someone will come when you are ready everything has its own time as you said. Take care of your daughters thats the most important thing for you and Im sorry to say but if someone can hurt their children by leaving more than once maybe thats for the best! Sorry to say 🌹 Take care my friend!
@AnnikaMorina
7 күн бұрын
@@ScoreGuru123Yes this can be the case unfortunately!
@melinamorina516
7 күн бұрын
This was a great talk Mom❤️I have so much to learn from you❤️❤️❤️I also agree, respect always comes first ❤️
@AnnikaMorina
7 күн бұрын
@@melinamorina516 Thank you I am happy with this one ❤️
@arigonetabreznica9332
7 күн бұрын
Zemra jem te dua shummmm ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@AnnikaMorina
7 күн бұрын
Te dua shum zemer❤️❤️❤️
@ScoreGuru123
7 күн бұрын
Have a blessed day 🙏
@AnnikaMorina
7 күн бұрын
@@ScoreGuru123 Thank you so much, hope your thursday is full with goodness 🌹
@RawTruth-j8b
7 күн бұрын
To much Egoism, to much me me me, instead of us together creating a beautifull life together. What happened to those vows: for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until parted by death.
@AnnikaMorina
7 күн бұрын
@@RawTruth-j8b ❤️❤️❤️
@tarno_bejo_
6 күн бұрын
This one is a long comment. As a start, depression relation to darkness (lack of sunlight) is real. No sunlight means less vit D. The lacking of vit d will cause you depression. However, i know that vikings were consuming fishes with tons of vit d (like salmon). Thats how they didnt get so much depression. Back to the topic, I feel like people in the west barely mention about the sacrifice when they talk about love. The furthest you guys talk about is the "mutual profit". Sacrificing is all about giving to somebody (not hoping of receiving something back from that same person). But i must admit that, every human will hope something in return with or without realizing it. Thats the basic of us human. Thats why, i think without the belief in The Creator. Its very hard to reconcile about giving out to somebody without hoping of receiving something in return from that person. Well, you know im a muslim. In islam, we give something to people in hope of pleasing The Creator. In hope The Creator will give us something better from that sacrifice. Also, many people would think that "intimate relation" is important to keep the family. But, if you hit 50 or even further above 60, well, couples barely have such "relation" around those ages. People need to base their relationship beyond the "intimate relationship". And i would say, you have to see them beyond the visual/physical appearance. Like, who knows that somebody ll actually be happier with sack of potato during your senior days. I also must admit that i barely understand the meaning of the word respect itself. But according to cambridge dictionary, respect is: "admiration felt or shown for someone or something that you believe has good ideas or qualities" love is: "to like another adult very much and be romantically and sexually attracted to them, or to have strong feelings of liking a friend or person in your family" So, in that sense i would argue that you need respect to have good love. Cuz, you really want to love somebody our of their good qualities. I mean, the love out of toxicity exists, right? Oh, I ve learned biology in high school. What i understood, autumn is when plants are dying, losing the leaves. 😭 Since then, i dont see the autumn as the same anymore. 😥 My question for you tho, mother: do you rack the leaves around your house? 🍁🍂🤭
@AnnikaMorina
6 күн бұрын
@@tarno_bejo_ We know about depression but there are ways we can avoid that even here with long darkenss, take the little light everyday when you can. People here tend to stay inside when its cold. Be outside is importan all year round. I agree with you that sacrifice is needed without expecting back BUT for a relationship to work long time it needs to be give and take. Rack the leaves around my house well if you mean if I do what I talk about so yes othervise I would never say! So youre saying that God think we should just give and give to our partner without anything in return? I think that the partner if you have that kind of relationship doesnt give did not find God. Just becuase we dont expect anything back doesnt mean that it should just be give give…it should come villingly out of Love and Respect!
@tarno_bejo_
5 күн бұрын
@@AnnikaMorina Yep, being outside is important, cuz we need sunlight for our body generating vit d. I mean, those people need vit d supplement i guess. And well, if your spouse became disable (lets hope hot), there aint gonna be so much giving and taking. Does it mean relationship aint gonna be working? Oh, the racking leaves question was supposed to be such inside joke., But i guess i failed to make it clear. 🤭 No, i mentioned: "Its very hard to reconcile about giving out to somebody without hoping of receiving something in return from that person. " It means, we are giving only because of The Creator. Not because hoping something to return from that person. For example, the relationship between the disable person and normal person. Giving and taking aint gonna always work. I mean, surely you can hope something from your spouse for sometimes. But that shouldnt be the foundation of your relationship.
@AnnikaMorina
5 күн бұрын
@@tarno_bejo_ It can never be the foundation of a relationship and thats not what Im saying.
@tarno_bejo_
4 күн бұрын
@@AnnikaMorina As i mentioned, if your spouse became disable (lets hope hot), there aint gonna be so much giving and taking. Does it mean the relationship aint gonna be working and it has to end? I mean, thats a material to think about.
@AnnikaMorina
4 күн бұрын
@@tarno_bejo_ Come on if that would ever happen if course its an entirely different situation….I think youre tvisting it a bit now!
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