A real man will give you gifts all of the time. The minute when they tell you they don’t celebrate holidays run!!
@KrystleLaughter
3 жыл бұрын
The I don’t celebrate holidays: facts💯
@jennifergodwin29
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah when they say they don’t celebrate holidays AND they don’t do special gifts or efforts here and there just because like Tony is talking about then run!! Something is very off there.
@amiragreen2577
3 жыл бұрын
@@KrystleLaughter me neither I have my own created myself
@jadew9177
3 жыл бұрын
I would agree to gift giving all the time but if one doesn’t celebrate holidays there is no need to run. A lot of people are now realizing the fallacy with these secular holidays. Nothing to argue about but just sharing...
@summerbreeze3445
3 жыл бұрын
@@jadew9177 ...I agree... 👏👏👏👏
@followsummer
3 жыл бұрын
If someone is running away from you, take the hint. Probably best they are gone anyway!
@drummerboy91productions63
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this man I’m learning this daily. I’m a single man but I’m preparing myself. Under construction
@sonjadf47
3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear how you are building your character! When you have a chance, read my comment. I’ve been brought up to show appreciation for whatever I have received as a gift all of my life. Outside my immediate family members, I can count the “thoughts” I’ve received in n all my years on one hand. That’s one of many reasons I’m still single! Keep up the good work!
@maralinautube
3 жыл бұрын
Bless you bro for being apart of Tony's community. I pray your life with be immensely blessed by you doing & continuing to do the work!
@AndreaAlvarez-cf4tp
3 жыл бұрын
I thought that there was no men listening to Tony it's surprising,but it feels good to know that they are men around the world who listens to Tony, thank you for taking the out to listen to Tony
@drummerboy91productions63
3 жыл бұрын
@@sonjadf47 Thanks so much 🙏🏾
@drummerboy91productions63
3 жыл бұрын
@@maralinautube Thank you so much 🙏🏾
@moenlightening
3 жыл бұрын
This woman wrote in about something I experienced. A man I was dating chose to not acknowledge my birthday. I told him that out of all dates that are celebrated on a calendar that is one I was expecting him to celebrate. When he told me " he thought he sent a text or sent me an egift card" & that he doesn't acknowledge his own family members birthday" he showed me what I needed to know to move on. Sorry if this is long but I had to post this.
@sheloves3663
3 жыл бұрын
That’s so silly on his part. Men like that get no more energy from me. I just move on and block. It’s men that’ll at least buy some roses and treat you to dinner so never settle for bread-crumbing mess like that.
@olanikeshamonda73
3 жыл бұрын
its not long and im glad he you shut it down
@ruru9400
3 жыл бұрын
I experienced the same thing except I flipped it on him. He said he expected friends and family to acknowledge his birthday and I told him that you want that but won't even remember the birthday of the one who gave birth to you? Not even the one you say is the love of your life? But yet you want acknowledgement. I said the day I was born was significant enough to God; if it won't be to you too, then we don't need to talk. Well, he surprised me on my birthday last week for sure! 😍 Tony is right about the history and biography. It is important to have that conversation and not assume.
@Classynfabolous005
3 жыл бұрын
OMGGG I got a damn laundry basket for valentine's day!!! And its like he refuses to see why I was so upset. Hes a terrible gift giver and it has turned into a deal breaker. I love my birthday and holidays Im just over it. And now it's the I never do anything right I'm " you dont" lol
@farfetched9296
3 жыл бұрын
If you have to tell a man what you need...RUN and never look back
@followsummer
3 жыл бұрын
If someone loves you, they just care and they show it.
@rahzyrahz9490
3 жыл бұрын
My Ex of 2 years now didn’t bother to call me on my bday, but decided to blow my phone up the following day. So I decided that it was over from that point on, miss me wit it, no time for lame excuses. If you can’t call me on my birthday when you know it’s the day that I was born celebrating another year of life for me. Clearly I’m not a priority, I realized that and walked away, I’ll take my losses on that, I’m good! Ion even wanna be friends after that.
@CaramelKissez
3 жыл бұрын
I understand
@mymakersdaughter6041
3 жыл бұрын
This is on point!!!
@andrealmorris8576
3 жыл бұрын
I ‘m with you on that one.
@khocolateable
3 жыл бұрын
How odd smh
@feliciacarrington7199
3 жыл бұрын
A guy conce promise me,he was gonna cook for me,I got him a gift card his b day, he was a police officer he called me the day before my b day that night,and said,he had family emergency he didn't wanna cook,nor take me to dinner,he told me he was gonna go Mississippi,never did,he never called me on my b day,but after weeks he ask me to come to his house to lay on my back,I do understand how someone can,think so less if you to think you not worth a card.
@GoodGrief101
3 жыл бұрын
He moved away from her and planned on being with her in the future🤔 Aren’t you suppose to move towards the person that you want to be with? People need to stop playing. Got the lesson and thank you.
@NekeishaWise
3 жыл бұрын
Lol I'm sorry but that tickled me 😂. That is true tho
@LEXZAYful
3 жыл бұрын
right!
@GoodGrief101
3 жыл бұрын
@@NekeishaWise 🤣
@ericalashan1923
3 жыл бұрын
One time my fiance came home and gave me a pineapple for no reason...lol. It was so cute and the aroma was present. I love pineapples. After a few days he sliced that bad boy up and we went to town😊 Some women get flowers...I get a whole pineapple.
@khocolateable
3 жыл бұрын
Super cute ❤
@olanikeshamonda73
3 жыл бұрын
lol that was very thoughtful of him, its definately the little things
@cuttinup97
3 жыл бұрын
Pineapples are for a reason.
@nessparadis6948
3 жыл бұрын
@@cuttinup97 , what reason?
@NoName-eq4fc
3 жыл бұрын
@@cuttinup97 😂😂
@patwilson1257
3 жыл бұрын
This is so true. I’m a giver. It’s always been in my heart, to give to the people I love and care about. It doesn’t take a lot to make me happy. Just show some kind of effort. A man should show his love by GIVING. Whatever financial shape he’s in. He can give something. Time, words of affirmation, acts of service. There is ALWAYS something he can do.
@xristinamilly
3 жыл бұрын
Words of affirmation is my love language ! Like my boyfriend got me birthday/ valentines gift , and I was mainly focused on and excited to read the card he got me and see the words he wrote !
@chaseback5102
3 жыл бұрын
There is always something he can do!
@tashaequeen8935
3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@micheleprice9771
3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! HALLAJUAUH! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SO VERY TRUE! I AGREE 100 PERCENT! HOW MANY MORE LADIES CAN SAY YES!!!!
@micheleprice9771
3 жыл бұрын
@@xristinamilly Amen! HALLAJUAUH! So RIGHT!YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@eileendom5858
3 жыл бұрын
I used to love to decorate based on a holiday. I married a man who thought it was a waste of time and money. It killed my spirit and I stopped decorating. I'm no longer married to him, but I'm learning to do it all again with a new man who appreciates and celebrates what I enjoy. Thanks for the Spanish lesson lol. Yes it's true, ends with an A for female and O for masculine. God bless.
@chaunceydumbuya3050
3 жыл бұрын
Just bcus a man doesn't celebrate holidays doesn't mean he can't give u gifts the rest of the days in the year.... Sometimes it's not about the gift bcus narcissistic ppl give the best gifts, especially when they are in the love bombing and hoovering stage... So when u receive a gift make sure it's from the heart and not bcus u are being bought or manipulated...
@barbielev600
3 жыл бұрын
i didn't get this post
@chaunceydumbuya3050
3 жыл бұрын
@@barbielev600 basically I'm saying is if a man don't give u a gift it means that he don't value u.. if he has ulterior motives for giving u a gift that means he is toxic or narcissistic... So peep game... Some ppl do things bcus their obligated... Some ppl do things from the heart... Some ppl do things for a selfish gain and other ppl don't even think u worthy enough to do anything for, period!
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
3 жыл бұрын
Now that is a much overlooked truth right there !
@chaunceydumbuya3050
3 жыл бұрын
@@durbansaladyinaccra2173 thank u ❣️
@angelsmile9789
3 жыл бұрын
Facts👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@kristinbrittanysmith535
3 жыл бұрын
Good morning! Have a blessed day to all that reads this comment!
@reinaquisha9418
3 жыл бұрын
You too sis!
@chantethompson6747
3 жыл бұрын
You as well Queen!
@dianemcguffin6346
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💓
@sonjadf47
3 жыл бұрын
Women that compare her gifts to another woman’s gifts, is just as absent in the THOUGHT process of gift giving. If any man is with a woman like that, leave. Point, blank, periODD as Tony has said time and time again. She lacks integrity which says she can be bought and sold on a dime.
@mzdee7021
3 жыл бұрын
Ty..Same 2 U!!😊
@sonjadf47
3 жыл бұрын
It’s the THOUGHT that matters. How much something cost is secondary. He can pick up a $.99 single rose from 7-Eleven and like Tony said, make a card or coupons. Again, it’s the THOUGHT. I’m 63 and my brother is 61 years old and to this day, we exchange gifts. It’s important to train his children (I don’t have any) what is expected of them without exception! I’ve have dated and known too many men that can’t spend 5 minutes out of the entire 365 days in the year that will not even take the time pick up a $.99 birthday card or any other kind of card for someone he claims to like or love. It could be a lack of home training, accountability, inconsideration or all three. There is absolutely NO excuse for something that should come as second nature.
@drummerboy91productions63
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with this 💯
@meljolly1213
3 жыл бұрын
@@drummerboy91productions63 Agreed! Mrs. Foster is absolutely right. I always customize my gifts to someone that has a sentimental value that money cannot buy. I know Tony ALWAYS gets on us women about giving a "boyfriend"/"husband benefits" but that is embedded in me and apart of who I am. I learned that when you keep a closed fist you will not be able to receive anything in a open palm. Glory to God!!!
@micheleprice9771
3 жыл бұрын
SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SO VERY TRUE!
@micheleprice9771
3 жыл бұрын
SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! I AGREE 100 PERCENT! HOW MANY MORE LADIES CAN SAY YES!!
@sheloves3663
3 жыл бұрын
This is so good. I’ve heard so many women and myself included say that they have been with men who don’t celebrate holidays or gift give. If a man tells me something like that, it’s my exit! ✌🏽Even the little stuff can be amazing (pancakes, affordable chef, etc.) We need a Tony G factory to replicate men like Tony for us marriage ready women 😂🙏🏽
@moenlightening
3 жыл бұрын
Yes it is. Some men need to be more creative to express how they feel. I mean be just as creative as they are when trying to get a woman on her back.
@sheloves3663
3 жыл бұрын
@@moenlightening This lol They will use every trick in the book to get between them legs but when it comes time to getting a dozen roses and showing appreciation, it’s 🦗 and they call men like Tony G a simp 😂 I’m on game now and know not to fall for that crap.
@NaudiaLittle
3 жыл бұрын
Comparison is the thief of all joy. 💯 Stay in ur own lane. ❤️
@leesteal4458
3 жыл бұрын
Did you make that up sweetie?
@NaudiaLittle
3 жыл бұрын
@@leesteal4458 probably not lol I listen to a lot of sermons all day so more than likely someone said it before lol just can’t pinpoint who...but the Bible also says tht comparing ourselves amongst each other isn’t wise
@drummerboy91productions63
3 жыл бұрын
I’m in here bro ✊🏾
@CaramelKissez
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@drummerboy91productions63
3 жыл бұрын
@@CaramelKissez God bless you as well
@beefaye6861
3 жыл бұрын
I see you King 👑 ....❤ it ...!
@polkadotmeface
3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend says he’s not going to celebrate holidays anymore because of his religion. I decided to stop doing everything that I use to do for him cook, buy him food while I’m out , clean and get him gifts. Even if he gets me gifts on others days. I will never get him a gift again. I look at it as I get to save my time, energy and money. 🤷🏽♀️
@MiyzP
3 жыл бұрын
Thug passion 😂 Tony you play too much. Let me go ahead and finish this video without laughing. Your wife is truly blessed to have you 👏🏾 your personal growth is amazing. Thank you for sharing 🤝
@christineporter9914
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you about that , Amen
@jam1369
3 жыл бұрын
God gives gifts!! Of course we should give! Abundantly, to their love language. That is using good Godsense.
@micheleprice9771
3 жыл бұрын
SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SO TRUE!
@twest37
3 жыл бұрын
Overall it's the thought that counts! Those simple gifts we remember. My ex-husband one time cooked for me many years ago when we were dating. Its the most memorable Valentine's day we had together. That was over 10 years ago. That's why when someone brings you nothing it makes you think they don't care.
@missybella9046
3 жыл бұрын
Tony is a beautiful man...inside and out. I hope God blesses more of us deserving women with such a man in their life🙏
@oohno1000
3 жыл бұрын
Yes he is ..... Pisces ♓️ are the best lovers for sure .... ☀️☀️☀️💕💕💕
@Ashley_Banks
3 жыл бұрын
From your lips to God's ears!!! Hallelujah 🤩💞🤣🤣🤣
@yeetqueen8729
3 жыл бұрын
I had a guy who worked at a grocery store part time and he still got me a 50 dollar jacket and bought me lunch everyday in college and took me to the movies often. If he likes you he will do it.
@openheartsavagemind6443
3 жыл бұрын
Tony is really speaking the truth about getting a woman a gift even though she says not to get her gift. I told my ex-boyfriend that one time he didn't have to get me a gift and I about fought him when he didn't get me one 😂. Ladies I guess we're just being humble and contradicting at the same time. 👀😀
@mzdee7021
3 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅..Facts😊
@olanikeshamonda73
3 жыл бұрын
i never say what i dont mean, so il never say dont get me gifts, you better get me gifts if you know whats good for you lol
@acd1168
3 жыл бұрын
That’s not funny. Words matter
@missmarymack3457
3 жыл бұрын
Tony you are literally like the Father that I NEVER HAD! I SINCERELY THANK GOD DAILY for me stumbling up on your KZitem channel about a little over a year ago! Every time you post a new video my heart begins to beat fast knowing I’m about to gain new knowledge! I could be driving, or watching a movie and I will literally pull over and STOP just to tune in. God bless you and your family because you are doing a GREAT DEED❤️
@CaramelKissez
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@CM-gd2cc
3 жыл бұрын
Fill-et-mig-non 🤣 🤣 🤣 man do he be trying to be this funny...I be crying laughing trying to receive the messafe
@britshanesmom
3 жыл бұрын
Me and my son's father aren't together, but he still brought me something for Valentines day.
@khocolateable
3 жыл бұрын
Same n he came over on Vday to bring food to me n kids
@kilimanjaro5537
3 жыл бұрын
That’s sweet.
@olanikeshamonda73
3 жыл бұрын
thats kind of him
@denisemyers733
3 жыл бұрын
When we say no that’s ok. I don’t want any thing for my birthday or holidays. YOU BETTER PAY THAT NO MIND. GET IT ANYWAY!
@marchellegodsangel9601
3 жыл бұрын
Tony I thank you for every video you have placed on here. You have truly motivated me and changed my mind frame when it comes to dating! I’m a single Mother and I know my worth. I have 5 Beautiful daughters that look up to me and 2 Handsome Sons.. I have to show my strength at all times... Thanks for all you do and I thank God for the information cause Lords knows... I’ve been through enough to not be loved right. Waiting on Mr. Right while I am fixing myself & Finding My Purpose... Thanks 🙏🏾 (BBB)
@meljolly1213
3 жыл бұрын
May God continue to bless you and your lovely children.
@demetriaphillips4110
3 жыл бұрын
My love language is quality time . I enjoy gifts sometimes but it would not bother me if I didn’t get gifts all the time . I always buy myself what I really want .
@mildredwilkins5781
3 жыл бұрын
You're an awesome husband and father. I'm 70 and I treasure the homemade things my kids have given me over the years more than the things they ultimately bought for me
@julissasmessages4493
3 жыл бұрын
Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. I have a broken relationship for 3years, but now I we are back together through his help. He can really help you as he helped me.
@julissasmessages4493
3 жыл бұрын
What'sapp him
@montgomeryfamilychannelemm7948
3 жыл бұрын
Lolo oh man exit stage left for the Jehovah witness I just love Tony gaskin 😅😅😘🤗
@joycenash1202
3 жыл бұрын
Jehovah witnesses don't give on holidays true. But that don't mean they don't give. They just don't wait for those time they give every day you would be surprised.
@tinajones1932
3 жыл бұрын
Blessed Saturday to all of the Blessed Tribe!!! Stay safe.
@CaramelKissez
3 жыл бұрын
You too
@pat4eva09
3 жыл бұрын
Men are definitely listening, just not commenting. Thanks Tony, for continuing to teach us all.
@gwendolynrobinson3725
3 жыл бұрын
Message hit home. And it hurts to know that he don't love you. Especially when you love him. I'm so done. Men are so cold. It doesn't hurt nobody to at least give a card with the truth on it. These guys need to leave these good women alone. But now I know well enough now to just stay to myself and remain single until the time is right.
@LoveAlways1002
3 жыл бұрын
The voice you give to the people getting on your nerves is 😂🤣😂🤣 💯💕💎🥰 Thank you for these videos on a regular!!!!
@s.r.125
3 жыл бұрын
"Gift giving anxiety" hilarious 😂😂
@aliciawoods8925
3 жыл бұрын
Aye that is funny 😂😂😂
@TheFactsofLife237
3 жыл бұрын
A man saying womp , womp womp, instead of giving a gift is lazy, uninspired and can easily google what to give. No excuses are acceptable.
@reinaquisha9418
3 жыл бұрын
Love the appreciation jar gift Tony! That would mean more to me than monetary gifts. Stay well and be blessed tribe💯💜
@shellettebell1618
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony, that's grown men right there love a woman the way she needs to be loved. And visa-versa. 🧡
@iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906
3 жыл бұрын
The way you broke is topic "all the way down" is awesome, Tony. So true that a our background plays a lot into how we handle holidays, etc. Like you said, open communication is so important. I'm going to use this to dive deeper in my relationship! Social media is only a glimpse into a person's life. Not the reality.
@Stormy867
3 жыл бұрын
See that’s why I don’t care for gift exchanges on holidays...especially Valentine’s Day. I’d rather come up with a plan that we BOTH would enjoy such as a spa day or a trip or something. No high expectations for an expensive gift.
@Itchpls
3 жыл бұрын
You are the real gift to a man. Most men that I know doesn’t celebrate the holidays but those that know you do will try their to make you happy. My kids dad doesn’t celebrate the holidays but he makes sure that we don’t go without. It’s money for me and money for all the kids gifts, in which two is not his.
@sherrytee2962
2 жыл бұрын
"Something got to be done"🤣 I did hear it all though 👏👏👏
@cathycollins1705
3 жыл бұрын
What a blessing you and the Queen found one another. It’s amazing that y’all work together towards a common goal. Continue to be blessed as a family. Soooo inspiring.
@SusanAKing
3 жыл бұрын
Thug passion! That's what I'm talking bout😂😂
@kam.kam.
3 жыл бұрын
Bruuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! Hennessy, Red Bull, rap music in the background while chef shakes and bakes in YOUR kitchen??!?! Yes!! It’s a yesssss for me!!! He sounds amazing. Tell him I said what’s up.
@earthangel8399
3 жыл бұрын
A valuable lesson for the men. When gifting a woman it's not all about the money, honey. When a woman truly cares for a man ... his thoughtfulness is more valuable than money or sex. A lavish gift can be worthless if it means nothing to the person receiving it.
@ingridfrancetravels
3 жыл бұрын
Caveat: “JW exit stage left” 🤣
@dantoinettetaylor1663
3 жыл бұрын
DWL
@beefaye6861
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂....hilarious
@tiarose5310
3 жыл бұрын
😂💯💯
@margyiphillips4931
3 жыл бұрын
With all you did in 6 years Tony, you truly look cleansed. One can't tell you lived such a life.
@Bohemiangoddess222
3 жыл бұрын
I’m with the wrong man I need romance and passion
@Classynfabolous005
3 жыл бұрын
Me too girl
@supersizedbeauty6824
3 жыл бұрын
"We put the 'o' at the end...cus we speak spanish"🤣🤣🤣🙃
@tanesegoldston2627
3 жыл бұрын
You and your wife are God sent. Thank you for your wisdom, knowledge and love for people and wanting them to excel in relationships.
@audreyt854
3 жыл бұрын
Aww Tony, the skydiving was too sweet! I just love the way you consider and love your wife. GOD bless...
@lauralei4445
3 жыл бұрын
My last relationship gave me roses and attention for nothing, even spent money on my kids that weren't his, for their birthdays. When my birthday came around he gave me ZERO!! Didn't do anything.....super weird, but apparently he was faking to get me :(
@culluts2755
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, that's something we have to be aware of also.
@lauralei4445
3 жыл бұрын
@@culluts2755 lesson learned :/
@Stormy867
3 жыл бұрын
A damn shame that’s what they do
@lauralei4445
3 жыл бұрын
@@Stormy867 yes. Especially when we have children and are just fine. Like don't chase someone down to get them, just to treat them like trash after a while. That's what's frustrating. I don't have a lot of time, so why waste mine :( but lots of good info on here to learn from:
@octaviapollard3334
3 жыл бұрын
Good afternoon everyone. God bless. Stay safe😊
@Shae_3
3 жыл бұрын
My mama said we were all conceived on a holiday her and my dad have 4 kids. So it’s always a way to give a woman something on a holiday. I’m my mama gift. 😂😂😂🤣 The last guy I was talking to we decided to end it, but he did send me something on Valentine’s Day this year. We never discussed it prior. He never asked me if I wanted anything and he lives out of state but still made it a point to send me something to feel special on that day- got it the day before my the day after. I didn’t expect anything and didn’t think he would send anything. It was something HE wanted to do. So ladies it ain’t no excuse if he wants to do it he will find a way.
@xristinamilly
3 жыл бұрын
Just the beginning of the video and I felt the need to comment, I feel as though God speaks to everyone in different ways and as for me in my life , I feel like God definitely uses social media and things like KZitem to speak to me directly . It’s so amazing the way God works , and the moment I am dealing with my first relationship a bunch of Tony Gaskins flooding my timeline . I can too say that these videos have helped me and taught me so much about love in general . It is truly a blessing this channel and a male perspective .
@jocelovesart2911
3 жыл бұрын
I just want to donate a 100 dollars just so you can bless your wife. 🥺🥺😭
@micheleantoinette8072
3 жыл бұрын
My favorite is the ignoring specifically around the holidays but, conveniently remember to call you the day after their birthday to ask you why you didn't call
@yolondalong8047
3 жыл бұрын
"Stroke that pen" 🖋️- TG 🥰🤣
@KrystleLaughter
3 жыл бұрын
Juxtaposition. You used it right Tony. It means to compare or contrast two things.
@MissTracy-Ann
3 жыл бұрын
That's right sis, help Brother Tony out. You know God is growing his vocabulary daily 💯 Use them words TG 🗣
@nessparadis6948
3 жыл бұрын
@@MissTracy-Ann , he knows he’s using them right. He’s got a grease vocab. He just plays around with us.
@ugreene1
3 жыл бұрын
@@nessparadis6948 Exactly! He admitted he was good with his words. Best believe he knows the meaning and how they impact people. That’s how he got us listening 😂! He’s smooth!
@leilani3070
3 жыл бұрын
One thing Tony gone do is make sure that video end right before it hit a hour hour.
@JewelGlowASMR
3 жыл бұрын
This video made my day. Lol you be preaching but at the same time cracking me 🆙 you’re one of my favorite KZitemrs!
@melanatedgoddess809
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Tony new to your channel great channel. I have never understood how men think ..
@ycam9316
3 жыл бұрын
Fashionista vs Fashionisto ... 😂 *dying
@makedat3904
3 жыл бұрын
I died on that part 😩😂
@aubreysellssofl
3 жыл бұрын
At this point I need to click off bc I can’t 💀💀😩😂😂
@aubreysellssofl
3 жыл бұрын
And then he gone pause with that dumb look on his face....I watched it like 10 times 😂😂😂😂
@CeeceeH1819
3 жыл бұрын
Not celebrating birthdays and holidays does not equate to never giving gifts. Just don't be with someone who does not share the same values as you, then you won't be disappointed.
@Kardonnify
3 жыл бұрын
Can’t wait to listen to this one because gift giving is my love language ♥️
@mariagrady8425
3 жыл бұрын
AMEN Praise GOD! For this talk of now an growth for men an women. AMEN
@LadyJay882
3 жыл бұрын
14:36 Filette McNon! Tony you got me ho-ller-in!
@onevenus6040
3 жыл бұрын
Me too 🤣🤣🤣
@fabiennepdt4898
3 жыл бұрын
Filet mignon. That's French !
@mariamayub212
2 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed watching this video and so insightful. All my life I have been giving presents to people and didn't know about love language even as a child I gave presents to my cousins so I barely had any money but I use my allowance to give people presents cuz I like seeing people happy. So as I grew up, it's continued to be a big part of my life. My mom was the same way and since her passing, I do it now to keep her spirit alive. She always gave you more than you could have ever expected and we used to play bingo at every holiday and she would bring two bags wrapped full of bingo prizes with different money amounts hidden inside. Each of us brought a bag but she always brought more. So I think for me it's just keeping her spirit alive and just how I naturally grew up. But when it comes to men, I'm always giving them presents not just buying but actually making presents based on their interests and hobbies. I go all the way in terms of effort and most of the time I don't get anything back LOL I'm kind of used to it and your story about everyone's background being different is so true. It's just what I'm used to I can do it in my sleep because I'm so tuned in to other people and what matters to them. I pay close attention constantly. And that's just for my friends! Thank you for a wonderful discussion!
@Banana-lk7tf
2 жыл бұрын
"Bercules! Come here, thou!" No one makes their point like you, Tony!🤣🤣🤣 I gotta say, my husband and I are not rich but he loves to buy me gifts, lots of gifts. I love them but I wish he'd save our money and give me a back rub or write me a poem instead. We've had talks about it but gift giving is his love language, not mine. I grew up fairly well off, so gifts and money don't mean much to me. He grew up with less money so that may be why he sees gift giving as so important, I don't know. I'm more into quality time, physical touch, and romantic words. He finally wrote me a beautiful poem after I hinted for like, a year. He's an amazing, hardworking, and loyal man. We just need to work on each other's love languages, because I'm not into buying a bunch of gifts, so I'm no better in the love language department. Thankfully, we don't have much to complain about in our marriage and I'm sure we'll eventually learn. We're still newbies. Married one year.
@tjelks
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for ALL the wisdom shared in this message and thank the young lady that asked the question!! I have a good man, but he was raised by a mom that never hugged him or told him she loved him. He said he knew she loved him because she provided for him, but he is challenged in that area now as a man. I was raised in a very affectionate family and love celebrating holidays and giving gifts. Gifts and holiday are not a big thing to him. Because we are polar opposites In these areas it causes me a lot of friction and some upset at times that he is not affectionate or big on acts of service/gifts which are big for me. I have to remind myself he is a good man and I know he loves and cares for me, because he makes the effort and time to do things I want and even gives good gifts on holidays.
May God continue to bless you & your family! Thank you for sharing your wife's testimony!
@niamhreynor5939
3 жыл бұрын
Tony you are doing great things for the lord . God bless you and your family 🙏
@CaramelKissez
3 жыл бұрын
Happy Saturday blessed tribe!!! 👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽
@badgirlhollywood9741
2 жыл бұрын
@Tony Gaskins That story though… I could see her tears that hit me right in the feelings. My mom still has artwork from since I was a kid. That stuff is precious. On the other hand I don’t like heights either I’m not trying to get paralyzed. Skydiving is dangerous!
@brujalinda
3 жыл бұрын
Tony thanks so much for this video I so needed this. You just woke up my senses how a man who appreciate or loves his women should treat her. Is sad how I have only imagine the things you mentioned wishing someday someone can treat me this way. Wishful thinking always 🙏💯
@ibcandy
3 жыл бұрын
He said in Spanish “we” put an “O” at the end of a word for males and then paused...lol!!! Ssstttoooppp-uhhh!!!😂🤣😂☠️☠️☠️
@JermaineThomas4050
3 жыл бұрын
This has been a great video 🙌🏽! Everyone has a story, a style, and their current level. What made it even better was TG's role play Q&A of: what would you like for your birthday?
@doriscrumpton2980
3 жыл бұрын
You have to express what makes you feel loved and let them know what you like to feel to loved. Don't give a man a gift unless you know that's what he want and vice versa because if it's not what he wants it will be an insult to them. If you like flowers, purses, shoes and clothes let them know that. People can't read minds but sometimes good at guessing but be sure don't guess. If u get me a Toyota and i want a Mercedes Benz it will be an insult.
@kilimanjaro5537
3 жыл бұрын
Tony, you don’t have to explain the long videos. I’m here for the long videos 🙋🏾♀️.
@meljolly1213
3 жыл бұрын
Translation: Men, depending on where you live if you are listening you can make it work. Look at bilingual Tony. When he said, "She was evicted 16 times by the ninth grade". I cried my eyes out like a baby. Now you know me, you know I'm from da skreetz right! (In Tony's voice & accent) I have an idea 💡 how about that "grown grandpa" bring his grandson and play TG on KZitem so he breaks that generational curse. BOOM! Happy Sunday Blessed Tribe 💘
@marshagooden5359
3 жыл бұрын
This was so good Sir Gaskins... Male Men-torship
@kanika9995
3 жыл бұрын
My Ex uses his money to court women spoils them,was good finanicially no issues, but ended up being maniplutive in others ways.
@accountabilitychangepeace777
3 жыл бұрын
Hey brother Tony I need one of those shirts ❤️ God bless you and your beautiful family ✝️
@TheFactsofLife237
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. I need a gift for Christmas. 🎄 ⛄️ ❄️ 🎅
@444LAAH
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so tickled. You are hilarious with choice of words & phrases! 😂😂😂 I see my self in you except I'm way goofier at times
@gigibrown_wright
3 жыл бұрын
Excellent perspective TG! I appreciate this!
@lex28lush10
3 жыл бұрын
Hey hey Tony Gaskins here... Popping In now.... Everytime he said that makes me giggle 😭🤣.. Love this Tony Gaskins, so funny ... Blessings 🌟
@msshanellep
3 жыл бұрын
First video (of yours) I ever seen...HOOKKKKED! SUBSCRIBED BELL ICON ON! THANK GOD FOR YOU AND THE ENCOURAGEMENT!
@straighttalkinggirl7622
3 жыл бұрын
Personally, yes gifts are nice, its a mans way of showing he cares, but Id rather have a mans presense than his presents.
@xristinamilly
3 жыл бұрын
YESSS THIS COMMENT👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾, a mans presence than his presents
@tracyroberts1562
3 жыл бұрын
I like both
@kilimanjaro5537
3 жыл бұрын
My love language is quality time, so I agree. Gifts are nice but I’d rather just have your presence.
@angelsmile9789
3 жыл бұрын
Say that again. Amen🗣🗣🗣
@DeniseM4698
2 жыл бұрын
Noted for all holidays ! 🤣📝📝
@VirtuousWoman1143
Жыл бұрын
BUT WHEN HE MOVED THAT FAR AWAY WITHOUT ASKING HER TO GO, THAT WAS HER QUE TO LEAVE HIM ALONE.
@tmacthespa
3 жыл бұрын
Langston Hughes!! Tony you are hilarious!!
@ibcandy
3 жыл бұрын
He said “...and I hit the ground Wrong “- I’m deaddd-uhhh!!! ☠️☠️☠️😂🤣😂
@lifecoachdr.marye.proctor2207
3 жыл бұрын
I love the story about y'all skydiving. lol...be blessed!
@lynghee159
3 жыл бұрын
God bless...learn something everytime from your teachings. Godspeed
@maralinautube
3 жыл бұрын
This stuff is not laughable for the person in it. But when you listen to these messages you start 😂😂😂 up because you like, I know where this finna go!!! 😒
@tiawannarichmonde250
3 жыл бұрын
I know a guy who told me years ago how he did his girlfriends. He said he'd always break up with them just before, and get back together afterward. If a man loves you, he'll do for you all year, not just on certain days. It's the small things that count.
@maralinautube
3 жыл бұрын
@@tiawannarichmonde250 Yes. Absolutely. I Agree!!!
@tiawannarichmonde250
3 жыл бұрын
Women like just because gifts. It lets a woman know that she is thought of.
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