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@olliething
3 жыл бұрын
yes i will do! ^w^
@xlivingxdeadgirl
3 жыл бұрын
thank uuu
@maferramon387
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, that's cool, I'll definitely check it out!
@COZM0owo
3 жыл бұрын
Also I think your talking more about aromatic at some points
@shadymoonlight2
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I'm lesbian but I don't know, so can you do a lesbian version?
@kzenkai
3 жыл бұрын
im a straight person who is trying to understand asexuality because my best friend told me she was asexual yesterday, im so proud of her for trusting me!
@Naynin
3 жыл бұрын
It warms my heart seeing comments like yours
@Madmonkeman
3 жыл бұрын
So most people aren't like this?
@kzenkai
3 жыл бұрын
@@Madmonkeman im not sure, she said when she told her cousins they hated her. all im saying is i support her.
@dailyicetea3829
3 жыл бұрын
@@Madmonkeman no, unfortunately most people aren't like this. I often hear comments like "you will grow out of it" or "you haven't met the right person yet" or people just straight up laughing at my face
@chennie4849
3 жыл бұрын
as an asexual myself, I can imagine that this means the world to her
@plutoplutopluto
3 жыл бұрын
As an ace and an artist, i relate to the aesthetic attraction. Some people think i’m weird when I say i like admiring bodies, but I just see them in an artistic way, I just see them as if they were renaissance paintings, and I think there’s nothing wrong with that.
@huesofkai
3 жыл бұрын
I think of it like this: I really really hate high heels, but can I tell if a pair of high heels looks good or not? Yes, I can. I use this a lot when explaining aesthetic attraction as it is easy for people to understand. You can still admire someone with feeling the need to be with them :)
@littlemissemila1818
3 жыл бұрын
For me it’s like, this person looks good maybe I could get to know them better so that we can be friends :D
@Nokyyyyy
3 жыл бұрын
Friend : have you seen that @ss ?? :D Me : sorry, I'm not interested _take a look_ Nice body shape, maybe a bit to triangualar ? But have you seen those mountains ?? The shape, the color, the sunlight and the clouds, everything's perfect !! Friend : what ?
@denkikaminari1268
3 жыл бұрын
I like admiring bodies too, they're just amazing, and really interesting to draw. Since I started drawing, I see everything in an amazing artistic way, and I love it !
@jvmeel7454
3 жыл бұрын
@@Nokyyyyy This is me😂😂
@Benny_Blu
2 жыл бұрын
Has anyone here ever had intrusive thoughts at night like "Are you *really* Ace though?" cuz I had that the other night and I've been out as Ace for over three months. It's got me feeling pretty down and I've come back here for reassurance. I wonder if anyone else has had a similar experience. 😔
@damitzuyugod
3 жыл бұрын
I just told my boyfriend that I'm Asexueal and I'm happy he accepts it. I guess I found the right one ❤️
@christianthe2994
3 жыл бұрын
My friends made fun of me when I told them I was asexual and said that “I just haven’t found the right person” and that “I was over dramatic”
@lemin0u
3 жыл бұрын
overdramatic? Tf
@Theoriginalstarkittnd93
3 жыл бұрын
..this was uploaded the day I came out as ace-
@aceclop
3 жыл бұрын
Kool and congratulations
@GodKingNoodle
3 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@Theoriginalstarkittnd93
3 жыл бұрын
@@GodKingNoodle it went great uwu (because 2 of the friends I came out to were also ace so that’s great-)
@GodKingNoodle
3 жыл бұрын
@@Theoriginalstarkittnd93 yay! Congrats :)
@miss_anthrope5198
3 жыл бұрын
😳 People are attracted to celebrities...sexually? I thought they just liked their mannerisms or just how they looked
@masoncafe9008
3 жыл бұрын
I didn't know that either
@sukanyachakraborty9890
3 жыл бұрын
Same...
@ahokay2668
3 жыл бұрын
Same! That’s kind of weird if you ask me.
@nightdog4183
3 жыл бұрын
Same here, didn't know that.
@mauricethegecko9700
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@bridgetbrennan6615
Жыл бұрын
I am an asexual, and the amount of times I’ve considered going to law school just so I could call myself the Ace Attorney is astronomical.
@AsharInSolitude
Жыл бұрын
Best thing i have read all week. Thank you.
@Thesnowyman
Жыл бұрын
Do it
@Kitty294_
Жыл бұрын
Omg genius
@genekisayan6564
Жыл бұрын
What are you waiting for ?
@mrpenis3625
Жыл бұрын
that’s it I’m gonna be a lawyer.
@ravadawn
3 жыл бұрын
also, normalize men being asexual‼️ men can be ace as not all men are sex crazy; ive been told so many times that it’s hard or unlikely i’m just bc i’m a guy.
@EnbyAnnoyance
3 жыл бұрын
@@ThornyRoseV It is normal. A lot of animals have sex just to produce an offspring, not for pleasure.
@PhoenixRedtail
3 жыл бұрын
you my dude, are valid as hell. enjoy your day! ace men are valid!
@miro9834
3 жыл бұрын
@@ThornyRoseV it is, many eucariotic beings have those kinds of sexualities.
@selap5951
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, I can't believe how alone I felt when I found out every man in my school just wants to have sex, and not wanting sex is more of a feminine thing, it's really isolating
@PhoenixRedtail
3 жыл бұрын
Andrey P I’m an ace girl, and even then I found out very stressful that I was the only one in my class who seemingly didn’t want to be touched by anyone, I can’t imagine how hard it must be for guys. I hope things are better now and you’re finding more validation!
@a.person1805
3 жыл бұрын
Me, who already knows I'm asexual but just wants to see my sexuality being talked about: **clickity clickity**
@excuzemeleeyum1526
3 жыл бұрын
Haha same
@Abliviaaa
3 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@Rebellious_Pastry
3 жыл бұрын
SAME
@vivictinimoved
3 жыл бұрын
SAMEEE
@lillyrose1873
3 жыл бұрын
Me too lol
@gaborkrausz5402
3 жыл бұрын
My friends: talking about how hot their crushes are Me: ah yes... *cake*
@aquajasper
3 жыл бұрын
*C a k e*
@himanshu6002
3 жыл бұрын
G a r l i c B r e a d
@puthypicasso640
3 жыл бұрын
The only thing I find hot is hot pepper 🥵
@liviwaslost
3 жыл бұрын
Cookie cake, King cake, rainbow cake, and chocolate cake 🤤
@freakinfrogs3861
3 жыл бұрын
Ice cream cake😯
@huntrr_44
2 жыл бұрын
I'm a guy who has: - 0 interest in sex, in fact I dread the idea of having sex - No physical/emotional attraction to girls or guys at all - Never had a single crush on someone in my entire life (20 YEARS OLD I SHOULD ADD) ...Yet my friend still tells me "You just need to find the right person"ಠ_ಠ
@reo5294
2 жыл бұрын
That's rough buddy... Actually I'm aro ace, also 19 years old and everything you said goes for me too, unfortunately including the friend that tells me "maybe you'll eventually change your mind" so yeah, I get it xd
@meow0112
2 жыл бұрын
Same My Friends Always be Like 'Ew Don't waste Your Life in These weird Phases'¯\_ಠ_ಠ_/¯But I am Happy That My Family Understands and Supports me :)
@kvn_ngl
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@Sarah.R.Rabbit
2 жыл бұрын
Bro!!! You're aroace??? :D
@kvn_ngl
2 жыл бұрын
@@Sarah.R.Rabbit maybe I guess
@maxralston9938
3 жыл бұрын
I am Asexual. I hate when people say things like “You just haven’t found the right person!” That happens to me all the time. No this isn’t a phase, its not that i haven’t found the right person. I just do not feel that kind of attraction.
@SSSTUDIOS365
3 жыл бұрын
HOLY F*CK YES!!! SAME!!!! My God XD I just realized that I was asexual a few days ago and my mom said "but didn't you have a crush on a girl before? You haven't found the right person I guess." And yes I did but that was years ago and I realized I wasn't really in love. I just wanted to be with someone. But yeah I get what you're saying! Finally someone who relates!
@emnekochan296
3 жыл бұрын
😂Hahaha lol my friends tells me that too hahaha shit am just not into sex I just want to love and be loved but I still didn't really like anyone for 3 years lol😂
@ooblecklover
3 жыл бұрын
i would say “would you fuck this cow?? no???? you just havent found thr right cow yet!
@maxralston9938
3 жыл бұрын
@@ooblecklover that is the best response i have ever heard in my life.
@rikkichadwick3548
3 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it 🤦♀️ definitely annoying
@francis7336
3 жыл бұрын
I hate it when I say "This celebrity is so handsome!" and people immediately go "How can you be asexual then?" like 😭 I'm asexual, not blind
@nkko9822
3 жыл бұрын
Right, they fr think that we’re blind. They act like we don’t know when someone looks pretty😭
@ThevoicesaregettinglouderTABBY
3 жыл бұрын
@@nkko9822 true
@Maddie681
3 жыл бұрын
fr tho it be annoying
@mediocreweirdo
3 жыл бұрын
Aesthetic attraction: AM I A JOKE TO YOU
@heythere3288
3 жыл бұрын
Ik this question might be dumb or weird but, do you like body parts?
@Rockhoppr3
3 жыл бұрын
Me: [Googles asexuality] Psych2Go, a few hours later:
@Psych2go
3 жыл бұрын
What timing! lol
@jessicaholden2698
3 жыл бұрын
Omg me toooooo lol!
@melinakosti4670
3 жыл бұрын
Bro same with me, I was searching about asexuality and then a few minutes later psych2go uploaded this video
@Ava-nx2jy
3 жыл бұрын
🖤🤍💛💜- non-binary, asexual-
@sarahbangura6713
3 жыл бұрын
Google really got you
@rowbinnn
2 жыл бұрын
It feels incredibly liberating knowing there's a label out there for people just like me. Not wanting to have sex doesn't make you evil or heartless, we are very much loveable and a sexual relationship isn't necessary to feel fulfilled in life.
@CleenisNOThere
2 жыл бұрын
This
@MegaDudeman21
Жыл бұрын
I couldn't imagine being asexual. It sounds so depressing. No offense
@darkfyre1618
Жыл бұрын
@@MegaDudeman21 I couldn't imagine having sex 🤢🤮
@MegaDudeman21
Жыл бұрын
@@darkfyre1618 it’s like the best thing though. I feel bad for you
@6dhypercube740
Жыл бұрын
@@MegaDudeman21Best thing" is subjective. It may be the best thing for you but that's not the case for everyone. You will look back on your comment with deep embarrassment when asexuality becomes a mainstream identity.
@AmicusAdastra
3 жыл бұрын
i HATE this oversexualized world who everyone think sex is love and sex is the only thing important to life and relationships...
@JackdawLT
3 жыл бұрын
If sex without love is possible, why not love without sex can be possible, right? 😉
@user-iq2ie4qk5x
3 жыл бұрын
@@JackdawLT yess
@AmicusAdastra
3 жыл бұрын
@@JackdawLT of course but horny peeps will never understand it...
@chillingatnight3263
3 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeaaaah
@chillingatnight3263
3 жыл бұрын
@@JackdawLT haha you are right xD
@emmaventura8778
3 жыл бұрын
Friends: talking about sexual encounters Me: trying not to make a blank face
@metra8604
3 жыл бұрын
Us inside: :'|
@sungrass9442
3 жыл бұрын
Never thought I’d be this way but when it happened it reminded me of why I think I’m asexual.
@prettyvacant3605
3 жыл бұрын
How about ppl not understanding, because you are an "attractive" person 🙄 Or "you just haven't found THAT person yet" 😑
@katenaru
3 жыл бұрын
In drinking games I am always sober while everyone else it’s drowning on shots 😬😬
@angelina3568
3 жыл бұрын
It’s ironic that your pfp is a blank face lol
@Tako-Tunes
3 жыл бұрын
This just made me realise why I've never had sexual attraction to someone I think I'm asexual thanks 😄 Edit:I didn't know so many people where like me it's reassuring to me that I'm not the only person like us
@simoraja
3 жыл бұрын
yeah same
@M..23
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@thefoolsfavorite
3 жыл бұрын
same I've always thought it was weird why people feel that sort of stuff like I get so confused-
@audrey5120
3 жыл бұрын
Me too but my crushes don’t go away easily
@wolfchick8387
3 жыл бұрын
For more asexual info u should check our AVEN its a website all about asexuality
@sshelget
2 жыл бұрын
I’m a 55 year old asexual female. I have lots of friends. I’ve always lived alone. I don’t feel lonely, and I don’t want a relationship. I went through a period of extreme anger as a teenager and 20-something because I did not understand why people were sexual. I did not even know there was a word for what I am. I just thought everyone was crossing the line to the “bad” side. It wasn’t until I was in my early 30s that I heard the word asexual. I still find it hard to believe there really ARE other asexuals. Any virgin asexuals like me? I wonder. :)
@ssjcrafter8842
Жыл бұрын
since you don't want a relationship, you might be aromantic as well(AKA no romantic attraction)
@slowmusic60
Жыл бұрын
Yes. I am right here. The weird thing is being an asexual, I only like romantic movies, can't stand action, drug , serial killer stuff. But again in the romantic genre , I love the ones without any intimate or kiss scenes. I absolutely hate such scenes.
@Remmeister2000
Жыл бұрын
I'm a 22 Year old FTM Vigrin Ace! hello! :D
@cedricburkhart3738
Жыл бұрын
Well what is an asexual? Because I got confused. Like am I one and just didn't know?🤷 I want to have children some day so I just thought I was stray and I find women sexually attractive. But I mean I would be super unhappy if I had sex out side the context of a committed Marge because I'm really sorry I would get bonded to a woman if I had sex with her so I would be extremely upset if she left me. So does that make me demy sexual or something? Oh and for some reason people keep speculating or calling me gay because I don't have a girlfriend and am a virgin. But I know I'm not gay because I wouldn't like men romantically I only see them platonically.
@Remmeister2000
Жыл бұрын
@@cedricburkhart3738 You very well could be Demi...hm, people who are Ace/Demi can want children still (I don't) but that isn't rare or impossible. The only thing you can really do is just keep learning about the different sexualities and expressing yourself. Eventually you'll figure it out
@sav2823
3 жыл бұрын
As an ace I still can't believe some crushes are because of sexual attraction, not romantic. How???
@evva3_
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I also never really understood that. Also with celebrity crushes like wtf
@ermadianne
3 жыл бұрын
Same. I'm so confused lol.
@aisha5156
3 жыл бұрын
@@evva3_ Fr. Like one time my sister showed me a few pics of guys and she asked me what I thought I was like: They’re cool. I didn’t want to say whether or not they were beautiful, or handsome or whatever because people seem to think you like like them. Unless they’re the same gender as you.
@krishnasatapathy2088
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@user-kd3xf3oz5e
3 жыл бұрын
You can not choose who you're attracted to and what kind of attraction that is!! we didn't choose to be asexual, they don't choose that either.
@ansleym.446
3 жыл бұрын
As an asexual I laughed when I saw the “no celebrity crushes” bc the only people I have ever had a real crush on are fictional characters.
@Psych2go
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Which fictional characters? :)
@thedestroyasystem
3 жыл бұрын
lol same
@rosiedracoulis
3 жыл бұрын
Me too lol (not fictional characters, but celebrities)
@makennastone6704
3 жыл бұрын
I used to have a crush on Zuko from avatar the last Airbender lol
@makennastone6704
3 жыл бұрын
But yeah I also never had a celebrity crush, I had a select few who I thought were generally attractive but thats it
@thomaslonekas6892
3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is asexual, so, this helped me to understand their way of seeing/feeling things, thanks you so much!
@carlelez
3 жыл бұрын
that so niceee uwu
@furcato
3 жыл бұрын
@@dudsblue3052 asexual is sexual attraction, aromantic is romantic attraction. i think your mixed up :)
@aceclop
3 жыл бұрын
@@dudsblue3052 Asexuals can still experience romantic and aesthetic attraction, so it's entirely possible for them to have an ace boyfriend.
@Leeleeyee
3 жыл бұрын
DUDS Blue asexual normally just means they don’t like sexual relationships and usually have romantic relationships instead ^w^
@Lolzakiyah
3 жыл бұрын
@@dudsblue3052 did you not watch the video?
@AB-qt6uw
11 ай бұрын
Nobody’s going to see this because the video came out 2 years ago, but if anyone does, I saw this video about a year ago and it gave me a lightbulb moment where I realised I was ace. I had never even considered it before but now, about a year later, I’ve accepted myself and and so happy I’ve gotten to this place. I just want to thank Psych2Go for giving me the chance to understand myself.
@ebonyblack4563
10 ай бұрын
After discovering the Ace&Aro spectrums I bring it up online regularly because it was an absolute 'light bulb moment' for both me and my partner. My partner is a more stereotypical Ace&Aro, whereas I land on multiple spots in both because how I feel toward presentation and gender varies, which is also why I lable as bi. Oh, and it's the internet, age is relative for things like posts and vids, you never know how much something 'old' might mean to someone, or how likely it really is to be seen.
@gisming
10 ай бұрын
thats so awesome for you! :D
@EmptyBox68
9 ай бұрын
So cool \:D I’m starting to question if I am ace My whole family is a little, and my mum obsesses over it lol
@Mr._Lonely
5 ай бұрын
Awesome
@Asia-sk8lc
2 ай бұрын
It's Julio 19th 2024 at 9:45 am. I got your comment and very happy for you that hun.❤
@angelamolnarpemberton5145
3 жыл бұрын
Well I’m an older generation and back in my days of youth they used to call asexual a tease and look down at them. I’m glad to see things are changing and people are actually recognizing that it’s not all just about sex. 😊
@flamingaish
3 жыл бұрын
In progress...
@Spineless-Lobster
3 жыл бұрын
I love this wholesome comment!
@a-disaster5285
3 жыл бұрын
Change is always there, even when it’s not as apparent as we’d like. Glad to see that there are somethings we’ve gotten right
@genghiskhan6185
3 жыл бұрын
Me: Maybe I'm not ace. Maybe im overthinking myself. First sign: lack of sexual attraction Me: Nevermind.
@xxo6813
3 жыл бұрын
Yep you might be asexual if you have low sexual attraction or none at all like me
@Hannah-vg8jc
3 жыл бұрын
LMAO I RELATE TO THIS SO HARD LMAOOOOO YES
@jumpinthecadilac8388
3 жыл бұрын
Can you help me? I wonder if in asexual or just too young
@xurrrCute._hi
3 жыл бұрын
I can relate this if any don't what the first sigh it January And yes I never get crushes I am still my sexuality
@tryingtoget50subscriberswi43
3 жыл бұрын
@@jumpinthecadilac8388 I can help! I am a pre teen and I still know I’m ace. What do you need to ask?
@behindu9588
3 жыл бұрын
The world should normalize love without sex is perfectly normal. Sex isn't about everything. Thnx for the likes! Please stream #PsychoSOTY :>
@Logger1010
3 жыл бұрын
You're asking people to ignore our strongest biological urge
@Silentgrace11
3 жыл бұрын
@@Logger1010 No, we're asking people to acknowledge that not everyone has that biological urge, and that said biological urge isn't required for a healthy relationship. Like, people basically refusing it exists, and telling the person they're in denial or just haven't found "the one" yet. Telling someone it doesn't exist doesn't make it go away.
@Logger1010
3 жыл бұрын
@@Silentgrace11 as an asexual most people at first are confused but are understanding eventually but if this is a big issue among the community then I support what you're saying. I interpreted the original comment as saying that a non asexual person should be okay with being in a non sexual relationship.
@behindu9588
3 жыл бұрын
@@Logger1010 We're not asking anyone to ignore biological urge. It's absolutely up to them. What we're trying to say is for people to respect and accept people who don't want to be involved in a sexual relationship :)))
@camita9860
3 жыл бұрын
I feel this is the real issue at hand than anything else really in these sorts of things.
@savvy3tv632
2 жыл бұрын
My friends and I were talking about hot celebrities yesterday and our conversation went something like this. Friend 1: Ariana Grande is super hot. Friend 2: Adam Driver though. (Everyone looks at me) (Me: quick! Think of something!) Me, an asexual: You know what else is hot? Tomato sauce. (Me: Mentally facepalms) My friend who knows: (high fives me) Everyone else: wtf?
@bubblelovessans
2 жыл бұрын
XD
@niece1509
2 жыл бұрын
I love you 🤣 this is something I’d say
@acandycrushsagajourney6215
2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭
@Prithvikalra660
2 жыл бұрын
Wow I have never tasted hot tomato sauce, must try!
@Prithvikalra660
2 жыл бұрын
@Xion Cinnamon Roll Princess I meant hot as in spicy
@sunsetskye483
3 жыл бұрын
My best description of aesthetic attraction is like this: how do you feel when you see a nice painting? Probably like “oh wow that’s a nice painting”. That’s how aesthetic attraction feels, except towards people.
@renderscott
3 жыл бұрын
I can kinda relate to this, i personally dont call people "ugly" or "beautiful", i look at their whole body (especially face cuz thats the part u see the most) and judge by the amount of unique traits they have, symmetry etc. Altho in discussions with normies i usually add "but society would probably call this person xyz"
@huesofkai
3 жыл бұрын
I think of it like this: I really really hate high heels, but can I tell if a pair of high heels looks good or not? Yes, I can. I use this a lot when explaining aesthetic attraction as it is easy for people to understand. You can still admire someone with feeling the need to be with them.
@mynameissecretyes7390
3 жыл бұрын
o m g thanks for saying that :D I do see people like that- I mean I never call people ugly or beautiful (other than myself, I'm kinda ugly but it's because I'm trans :/) so yeah I don't think woah that person be lookin' good tho, I'm just like :0 cool clothing and soft hair and yeah I like personalities :D
@littlemissemila1818
3 жыл бұрын
It’s kinda like that for me....
@sunsetskye483
3 жыл бұрын
@@huesofkai That’s a really good analogy
@ajdasdas
3 жыл бұрын
a lil' summary- i guess- 1:05 - the lack of sexual attraction 1:40 - asexuals could crave relationships without the sexual element 2:15 - they get over crushes easily 2:40 - not having any celebrity crushes 3:10 - some asexuals may only experience sexual attraction in certain circumstances 3:40 - sex depends have a good day, and be proud to be who u are !!
@sunnysideartz
3 жыл бұрын
thank you! :D
@KLF-jk3zy
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@sillygabbs
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you🙇🏽♀️
@jazhmint
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@noutjeee17noutjepsychic
3 жыл бұрын
Me, an asexual: *sees video about asexuality* Me: *IMMEDIATLY CLICKS*
@lavstoybox
3 жыл бұрын
SAME
@cypher4999
3 жыл бұрын
Yay my fellow aces
@stars_inthe_sky
3 жыл бұрын
Why is this me in every possible way? 😂
@raeishere0
3 жыл бұрын
Yes-
@GhostKrow_
3 жыл бұрын
Same here XD
@YuukaMori
2 жыл бұрын
I’m currently questioning whether I’m asexual or if it’s simply a trauma response. (tw // sa) I was recently sexually assaulted by someone who I didn’t have any romantic feelings towards, but the entire situation only confused me even more because it was my first time. I’ve never been fully sexually active until then, and each time (even when our acts were still consensual), I really didn’t feel anything. it was more of a “this is what sex is all about it?” and that only reason I kept engaging in it was because I wanted the experience. once the sexual assault took place though, I only become more disgusted by sexual relations and even certain gestures such as kissing. its tough because so many factors come into play; I was inexperienced, I didn’t enjoy the consensual acts (but I didn’t have romantic feelings either), and it all ended with assault. it’s hard not knowing, but hopefully as a heal I’ll begin to learn the truth about myself.
@kpopbaby4001
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, you would be asexual by definition and also sounds like you would be aromatic too ❤️ and im sorry about what happened to you ☹️ I hope your doing okay now
@kpopbaby4001
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, you would be asexual by definition and also sounds like you would be aromatic too ❤️ and im sorry about what happened to you ☹️ I hope your doing okay now
@conde_bathory
2 жыл бұрын
If you feel your aceness comes from trauma, the microlabel for that is _caedesxual_ But I really hope you're okay
@dd317676
2 жыл бұрын
take your time, sexuality is a journey for everyone and if you feel that in this moment that the "asexuality" label fits for you in this moment, use it. If later on it changes, that's fine too. Sexuality is fluid. And you are valid in every which way.
@Ms.Hellsing
Жыл бұрын
It's not sa if you'd let it happen
@MagicKat111
3 жыл бұрын
wait people feel sexual attractions towards people? i only feel like aesthetic attractions, platonic, or sensual like hugging and stuff iv never felt anything sexual lol.
@billbertboyce324
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like someone is blessed!
@socialanxiety9153
3 жыл бұрын
I never felt sexual attractions either lol
@towarzyszmarcin474
3 жыл бұрын
Idk if i should call you lucky or unlucky.
@littlemissemila1818
3 жыл бұрын
Actually same! I do not like intercourse why can’t we just eat red velvet cake pops instead :D
@Nagi089
3 жыл бұрын
Me neither
@kavishap6136
3 жыл бұрын
*The worse thing is when you're parents don't understand this and thinks this is not normal. My parents will never understand :(*
@istan9682
3 жыл бұрын
I don't understand how they don't see it as normal. You lack sexual attraction; so what? It doesn't make you weird or anything
@kostyathetransguy
3 жыл бұрын
"You just haven't met a right person yet" and all this stuff, right? Be strong acebro(or acesis/acesib)💜
@whodis7372
3 жыл бұрын
@@istan9682 im asexual too and my mom doesnt really get it but i gave up trying to explain because ive seen other people disagree that it's real some people seem to think that having sexual attraction is a natural part of life and thus a lot of asexuals think theyre broken but its perfectly normal to not have or have very little sexual attraction so regardless of whether or not people understand, you do you, yknow? :)
@craigpeoples9883
3 жыл бұрын
Not many parents do
@istan9682
3 жыл бұрын
@@whodis7372 my brothers asexual and says he's never going to marry anyone. I honestly wonder how my parents will react
@Zyphon
3 жыл бұрын
relatable
@theguywithticon5360
3 жыл бұрын
i eat bread
@wut6251
3 жыл бұрын
@@theguywithticon5360 i eat rats
@morxiie
3 жыл бұрын
Cool seeing you here
@k1szona_kapusta
3 жыл бұрын
Good on you and also love your videos :)
@pianojay5146
3 жыл бұрын
I like your videos!!
@vanillamoca9845
Жыл бұрын
When I was younger, I had crushes. However, looking back at it, it might be more of a admiration. Ever since I graduated high school (( I'm 22. graduated 4 years ago)) I never had a crush since. However, even when I had a crush, I still felt extremely uncomfortable. When a guy texted me implying a sex joke towards me, I didn't like it. I was so uncomfortable Ever since than, I been meh about sex. I honestly don't care about it. I don't have a sex drive. I consider myself asexual and Biromantic
@alika207
Жыл бұрын
Totally understand! Thank you so much for sharing your story.
@HalwenGreenleaf
8 ай бұрын
Ooh I’m also asexual but I’m wondering if I might be biromantic. It feels so much more difficult to figure out if I’m biromantic since it often times seems to translate to bisexual… except I’m asexual. How did you know? Any tips for someone trying to figure it out?
@itsflappletime
3 жыл бұрын
Me, who is currently thinking that I might be asexual: I have finally found the holy grail! Edit: I woke up to all this love and support, tysm! You are all lovely
@me-eh1zt
3 жыл бұрын
I’m asexual and I’ve know this for a while, it makes me so happy to see other people discovering their sexualities :)
@fluffy7804
3 жыл бұрын
Samee, i've been waiting so long for them to cover this subject! 😭❤
@Leeleeyee
3 жыл бұрын
Omg i liked your comment (I was 199th) then pressed on it and it was 212
@kou-nyancat1470
3 жыл бұрын
same when i was in middle school, I'm honestly confused about my sexuality so i often labeled myself that time as asexual because I'm not that girly or boyish and not into some intimate romantic stuffs just like that, but now i knew to myself that I'm actually straight lol
@trouvaillx5779
3 жыл бұрын
Aye same!
@abby3147
3 жыл бұрын
i’m bi and ace and honestly all my celebrity “crushes” are just me being jealous of their style
@Yoongiluvbot
3 жыл бұрын
High five
@saturn352
3 жыл бұрын
For me it's "imagine being friends with this person??"
@ita_found_here1721
3 жыл бұрын
Dude- 🤭 I used to be so jealous of Chase Atlantic xD
@andii-
3 жыл бұрын
or just like “his/her/their mannerisms are fucking adorable” or just an aesthetic attraction🥺🥺🥺
@jiminsmxgicshop
3 жыл бұрын
Samee
@kevinkite3418
3 жыл бұрын
I never felt sexually attracted to any of my crushes. I just want to hang out with them, go to the cinema, walk hand in hand, play some games, and have a deep friendship. By this video I think I like platonic and romantic relationships more than a relationship based on sex alone.
@Sam-rn5vj
3 жыл бұрын
Exactlyyy
@albedo4008
3 жыл бұрын
Yes same here
@alexaislas961
3 жыл бұрын
So do I, but that´s the reason why all of them broke up with me :´3
@albedo4008
3 жыл бұрын
@@alexaislas961 same xD i dont get why so many see sex as a must have or at least why they dont understand that you very well can have a relationship without it and be happy, i myself a romantic typ of guy with some platonic mixed in, if that makes any sens, i would like just to hang out chil together ya know walking hand in hand some cuddeling and kissing and thats it but yeah we always are the weird ppl
@phoenixangel5073
3 жыл бұрын
I had sexual attraction to every crush I had, beside romantic feelings and wanting to hang out, but I never tried to pursue a relationship cause I felt like they are waaay above me and I'm not worthy of their attention, and so I always thought that if I pursue them they will just laugh in my face. What does that mean? Am I depressed?
@reve.laurent
11 ай бұрын
I don’t even get what sexual attraction is 💀 what does it feel like
@muniaisworthit
11 ай бұрын
getting turned on I guess by seeing or imagining someone and then wanting to touch them haha I can't tell more than that I'm an ace myself
@jarodnole4618
3 жыл бұрын
It's irritating not wanting to do something with somebody and almost everyone asks you "what are you, gay?"
@YouHaveAnApeHead
3 жыл бұрын
Never had this happen when offered sex ( I'm saying that like I actually have ) but have got called Gay alot for not wanting a Romantic Relationship. The Sexual Attraction part is my choice but the Romantic Relationship bit was just something I am scared to take part in from past experiences ( Not including actual relationship experiences just experiences with people who have had relationships)
@jarodnole4618
3 жыл бұрын
@@YouHaveAnApeHead what about friendship? Sometimes friendship is the best form of relationship...for some people that is. I never have gotten called gay for not wanting a romantic relationship before but that is both quite interesting and disheartening that people try to sum up such complex feelings in a rather insensitive way
@YouHaveAnApeHead
3 жыл бұрын
@@jarodnole4618 I have had friends. I just don't know how to get newer friends after my past friendships.
@jarodnole4618
3 жыл бұрын
@@YouHaveAnApeHead honestly I just blunder into mine, urm, have you tried going to your local game shop?
@YouHaveAnApeHead
3 жыл бұрын
@@jarodnole4618 I'm self isolating right now. Thanks Covid.
@cartoonygothica
3 жыл бұрын
Finally, a video about my sexual orientation. I used to think that I was a straight girl who just didn't find the right guy, but I knew for a fact that I was disgusted by sex. The very idea of being naked and exchanging body fluids with someone grosses me out, not to mention it puts me at risk of STDs and pregnancy. There are people I find good-looking, but never have I wanted to have sex with anyone. I used to have a crush on someone in high school, but it never progressed to anything more. And honestly, I'm way over it now. I want people in my life, but even if I were to get into a romantic relationship with a guy, I don't want any sex. Sex is hugely overrated, and I feel like society is too sexualized.
@yoopstia
3 жыл бұрын
you just kinda summarized the story of my life. i didn't know how to put it in words so thank you
@clau6023
3 жыл бұрын
i'm sorry if i ask, but how did you figure out you were disgusted by it? i'm currently questioning myself so that's why i'm asking!!
@cartoonygothica
3 жыл бұрын
@@yoopstia You’re welcome.
@Grace-mv5jx
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! This basically described my life.
@denisemayosky1955
3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. But I admit my body sometimes feels urges, and I feel like I see someone attractive - male or female - and I want to go up and hug and kiss them. I don't know if that boots me out of the "Ace" category, but I know I wouldn't really want to have sex. I'm frankly disgusted by sex too.
@venti1105
3 жыл бұрын
hi asexuals, i'm not ace myself but you're all completely valid and ily have a great day
@iamproudofyouiloveyou
3 жыл бұрын
VENTI
@venti1105
3 жыл бұрын
@@iamproudofyouiloveyou FISCHL
@iamproudofyouiloveyou
3 жыл бұрын
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@venti1105
3 жыл бұрын
@@iamproudofyouiloveyou why thank you, fischl
@NUQE249
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying this
@Coolgirl_ig_
Жыл бұрын
You forgot 3 things; Cake Garlic bread WORLD DOMINATION.
@RolandTheMighty
Жыл бұрын
Shh! Don't let them know...
@snackingfeather
Жыл бұрын
Shhh it is OUR secret plan!
@ssjcrafter8842
Жыл бұрын
world domination is supposed to be a secret but since you spoiled it... we're going for Denmark first, right? that's the plan?
@lettersandwordsandstuffs
Жыл бұрын
@@ssjcrafter8842 lol noone in this comment section is taking over the world lol please stop making me almost pee myself
@lanesahne5522
Ай бұрын
@@lettersandwordsandstuffs Oh no 😮 They know 😧
@im_just_vidu
3 жыл бұрын
I'm 23 and never had an affair in my life. My friends says I'm missing out the good part. They laugh when I say I don't want to have sex ever in my life. I'm happy that there's some positive content about people like me.
@lindenbree9188
3 жыл бұрын
Just to let you know, "affair" doesn't mean sex in general, it specifically means sex with someone who's married to someone else
@xxo6813
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I understand
@hereticsaint100
3 жыл бұрын
Right there with you!
@hoseokhakyeon
3 жыл бұрын
Isn't it safe to not have sex? I don't understand why they're so proud of having sex especially having it before marriage. When they got pregnant, some of the partner don't want to be responsible for it..
@le_sseragraphy
3 жыл бұрын
@@hoseokhakyeon ikr !
@justanerdyhobbitgirl
3 жыл бұрын
Why do so many people assume that romantic relationships are about sex? There are so many things that are more important; relationships thrive when you establish trust and understand and care for each other. I'm only 24 but I know that more people should consider not carelessly give themselves away. Sex is more meaningful when you wait for the one you'll try to be with for life, and even then it's not everything. Ugh this world, man.
@abovemoon
3 жыл бұрын
That's a lovely personal belief, but in no way a truth. Sometimes you can meet a person, have sex relatively quickly and continue on to have a beautiful, loving relationship. Sometimes you meet a person, wait for a long time to have sex and the relationship ends immediately after. Absolutely nothing is guaranteed in any relationship. Those experiences set a more realistic view of relationships, and not an opportunistic one.
@diodaon4898
3 жыл бұрын
I agree somewhat and somewhat not. I am asexual and even thought i think many other things are much more important than sex, sex can give you a different level of intimicy with your special someone.
@Anna_Lindlau
3 жыл бұрын
Jesus u wrote an intier paragraph. But yes I 100% agree with you
@fauziaaulia4271
3 жыл бұрын
Wait, if i share the same beliefs as you, does it make me asexual? Im vv confused rn
@Anna_Lindlau
3 жыл бұрын
@@fauziaaulia4271 this video is a general representation on asexuality but i do think so
@ScribbleSpirit
3 жыл бұрын
As an asexual who doesn't personally know any other ace people, seeing any sort of representation or explanations like this around online media is always so heartwarming to me! Thank you for such a great video Psych2Go! 🖤🤍💜
@VioletEmerald
3 жыл бұрын
You should check out the TAAAP Pride Chats near the end of this month! I think you might enjoy the community there 💜💚 Google it to find the website.
@belyjmotylek1487
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's great to see support for your sexuality and also to meet other people who can understand it☺️
@OnewBiased
3 жыл бұрын
Only if they're accurate and well sourced. Or else, i'd just "Ugghhh not again"
@dreamiskra
Жыл бұрын
I hate my mom for not understanding that just because I don't like guys, that doesn't mean I feel attracted to girls.
@tagir9123
3 ай бұрын
Uuuuuuuh bo y , she hasn't arrived in the 20s Soon, genders won't even be a thing anymore
@KitKatYes
3 жыл бұрын
All us Asexuals be flocking to this video
@ghosty8623
3 жыл бұрын
yep!
@sharonnwabia8902
3 жыл бұрын
Lol... Yes
@CoralineDowntheLine
3 жыл бұрын
LMAO YES. Probably cuz of our representation hungry nature.
@fatoush977
3 жыл бұрын
ASEXUAL COALITION
@notsonicthehedgehog2753
3 жыл бұрын
Eh
@Buzzity
3 жыл бұрын
As an asexual myself, I still don’t understand sexual attraction and it makes me feel inhuman sometimes. Edit: I made a typo lol 🥶
@Psych2go
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! How do you feel after watching this video?
@Buzzity
3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go It helped some things click in place for me :))
@kjdf5846
3 жыл бұрын
same
@robethematoran6975
3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way I’m confused about sexual attraction I still don’t what it is sexual attraction I’m lost honestly
@LILNOSFERATU
3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry, I don't really understand it either! x'D It seems really weird to me that people look at each other and go "wow they are physically attractive so i want our genitals to touch" or at least that's what it seems like to me, lmao. But there are tons of things that some people like, that others don't! Some people honestly don't like chocolate, and I can never understand that either. But, a lot of people really like coffee and don't understand how I can hate it! So, I think it's perfectly human to not understand things that you don't experience! =)
@SquareMahogany
3 жыл бұрын
I’m 23 and my extreme religious parents always tell me, an asexual/aromantic, “Oh I KNOW you’ll find a nice husband someday. Don’t waste your 20s” and it makes me want to scream. Edit: 25 and still feel the same exact way 🙃
@ruwan395
3 жыл бұрын
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! it actually feels really frustrating
@neon_callie2.0
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@thekiller7026
2 жыл бұрын
Tell them that is sounds kinda rpy
@katrinabohol3246
2 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA lmaooo same 🙄
@SquareMahogany
2 жыл бұрын
@Shōto I feel that. I’m asexual/aromantic but I’m more gay than not. My whole family calls homosexuality shameful. I’m almost glad I’m aromantic so I don’t have to get into all the mess 🙄 but I’m trying to stand up for our rights though, absolutely.
@Natalie_Milana7
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like I'm either asexual or demisexual. I never understood why people feel like sexual desire is a must-do thing in any relationship. I still would want to have children, but only with someone I can trust and feel comfortable with. I always thought that when 2 people date (regardless of their gender) they only experience do romantic things as a younger person.
@aspenh5347
3 жыл бұрын
Me an asexual: *beeming about seeing postive context about me*
@YouHaveAnApeHead
3 жыл бұрын
Ego Boost 100.
@flamingaish
3 жыл бұрын
Haha nice
@ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516
3 жыл бұрын
Finally!
@davidliu2243
3 жыл бұрын
CLICK CLICK CLICK
@towarzyszmarcin474
3 жыл бұрын
ಠ︵ಠ
@iitslynx
3 жыл бұрын
any form of sexual relationship or act makes me feel so uncomfortable and sick. I dont even know why. it just makes me feel gross all over and it is the worst feeling ever, its worse seeing that all my friends talk about is sex. i just sit there all awkward and they call me weird for not liking it, or "uptight"
@CuteLilEldritch1010
3 жыл бұрын
Come join the club we have jackets
@xstrawberryaveryx9550
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's actually pretty normal for people to not like/have sexual attraction.... Wish more people knew that.
@beauboi3381
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@weinereater-wm6qm
3 жыл бұрын
same
@elsewhereinyourheart
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@lissamarah6611
11 ай бұрын
This video feels like a warm hug for me. I feel like society puts so much pressure into sex when starting a relationship, when there's plenty of other things to look into when having a partner. To know that I'm not alone in this is so comforting. I fall into the side of the spectrum that can enjoy kisses and cuddles but not the sex part. I feel like us ace people get infantilization as well, I'm always told I should get used to sex because that's the world we live in, it's human nature and the typical "ugh, just grow up already!". It makes me want to cry because it breaks me how messed up this world is, but thank you, just thank you for making me feel seen. 💜
@AllytheGumby
7 ай бұрын
as an asexual too, to be honest i feel like sex is just weird and ruins true meaningful relationships - like its probably the same for everyone, it doesnt go anywhere except apparently give people momentary enjoyment, so whats the point? if i did that with someone i wouldnt be able to look at them again, its just unnecessary. i think anyone who is asexual is most likely much more intelligent/cares about things in a deeper way because sexual attraction just seems like a halt. i think that the annoying way most peoples eyes light up when someone mentions sexual attraction is much, much more childish than thinking its unnecessary. sorry idk this reply is so random lol
@lissamarah6611
7 ай бұрын
@@AllytheGumby haha, no problem! It feels good to know I'm not the only one, thank you so much for your "so random reply" lol. You are full of sunshine💜
@JahanaraBegum-gl1sf
7 ай бұрын
I have never related to someone more in my life
@lissamarah6611
6 ай бұрын
@@JahanaraBegum-gl1sf good to know that I have a community and i'm not a weirdo anymore! you guys are the sweetest!
@QWERTY-gp8fd
4 ай бұрын
typical female nature. stop getting into relationship. normal people need sex thats just how it is. whats messed up is u getting full benefit of relationship while not offering the full course. asexual woman should not be in relationship.
@angeygirl
3 жыл бұрын
Just a reminder you don't have to decide on a sexuality right away. I feel like people are being told to define themselves too early, but you can wait. Now, I spent a good chunk of my life waiting for sexual attraction to kick in, thinking that I just wasn't done with puberty yet, but after awhile, I figured I might just not get it. I know a lot of other Asexuals don't like being told that they'll change their minds, but if I get into a relationship and turn out to be Demi, I'd be fine with that
@denkikaminari1268
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I've been trying to figure out my sexuality and, It's really confusing🤦🏻♀️ I kind of identify as bisexual but I'm not even sure if I'm bisexual or not, and I don't know how to know. I don't know I can think a girl is pretty just like I can think a boy is pretty, but everyone can think someone is pretty, regardless of their gender or sexuality, so it doesn't define my sexuality, and if I'm demisexual or asexual I will not, or barely have any sexual attraction so it'll be even harder to find out my sexuality, aaaargh idk if you watch anime/read mangas, or My Hero Academia in particular, but I feel like Izuku, he's always thinking too much and that's what I'm doing. I just need to relax and don't care, I'll probably find out one day so it doesn't matter right now, but I wanna know sooo bad. Sorry for writing all of that-
@josephine1465
3 жыл бұрын
@@denkikaminari1268 Oh God, that's too stressful. You know what, just a friendly advice. Life is too short to be thinking about what's your sexuality. Live your life to the fullest. Identifying one's sexuality for me is the least concern in living my life. I'll cross the bridge when I get there.
@denkikaminari1268
3 жыл бұрын
@@josephine1465 Yeah, you're right I really should just like wait and see, or never know but just be with who I want to be without stressing😅 one life after all, so I shouldn't worry😌
@suonatar1
3 жыл бұрын
I wish we could live in a world, where people don't have to stress about who they are, and how they define themselves. You know what I mean? If you meet some people along your way and suddenly you feel something for them, you shouldn't worry about "oh, so now I'm attracted to this one, when three months ago I was with that one. Am I suddenly bi?". I know that's an utopian idea, but people should be with people who make them feel good, without having to explain themselves to others.
@denkikaminari1268
3 жыл бұрын
@@suonatar1 Yes, labels are annoying yet I still want labels. Our society is too annoying, there are too much unnecessary rules we need to follow, I just feel trapped. Labels are part of what makes society so stressfull, but I can't say I don't want a label. I tried not to care but I can't help myself, I want to define who I am even if because of that I don't feel free. It's just...ughhhhhh I don't want to care anymore. I don't need labels to be happy.
@behindu9588
3 жыл бұрын
Who else here is asexual and very anxious knowing full well that we can't easily be happy because in most relationships, sex is very vital :(((
@TheCousinTrio
3 жыл бұрын
😔 me
@behindu9588
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheCousinTrio it feels like utter shit right :(((
@hannahvictoria4563
3 жыл бұрын
It's a really hard thing to try to navigate, but it's best to be open and honest with potential partners about your limits. Some ace people can have, and seek out sex, and some don't ever want to do it. If you're online dating mention it in your profile. There are a lot of people you'll meet that aren't ace but have a very low libido, so you'll definitely find someone to share your life with. It might be a little harder to seek out those relationships but it's absolutely not impossible
@behindu9588
3 жыл бұрын
@@hannahvictoria4563 yes :(( i hope people like us will find those kind of people :>
@fabulousfab247
3 жыл бұрын
Me too, it’s the main reason I chose to be single for a long time. But, there will always be people that would understand if we openly communicate about these things. 😊💜🖤
@bloodystring
3 жыл бұрын
my mom: don’t have sex me: well that’s good i’m asexual anyway also mom: NO YOU ARE NOT YOU ARE STRAIGHT YOUNG LADY-
@User-00000user
2 жыл бұрын
Yes,I'm asexual too :) but it's inside in of community:)
@mudkip984
2 жыл бұрын
Omg I told my mom I wont date anyone bc im aro ace and she started yelling at me abt how being lgbt makes you sick in the mind Plot twist Lgbt doesn’t make you sick in the mind
@box3450
2 жыл бұрын
LITERALLY ME BUT W/ MY GRANDMA LMAOOO
@Reverie0013
2 жыл бұрын
Or this: Parents: Dont have Sex Me: thats okay, i dont like such Kind of things Dad: Didnt say anything, because he loves me. For him, it doesnt make a difference, who i love and how. The main thing is that I'm fine. Mom: the time will come. Me: Im 22. i had experiences. I KNOW WHAT I WANT
@kalliejohnston6728
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@matthewcase6641
2 жыл бұрын
Omfg, I’ve been so confused for so long. I think I’m asexual. I never felt straight or gay, or even bi. But this makes sense!!! I haven’t been this happy in so long.
@songbyrdscrusade2052
2 жыл бұрын
But you felt stupid
@bubblelovessans
2 жыл бұрын
@@songbyrdscrusade2052 wdym
@HunterHud07
2 жыл бұрын
Great for you!! :D
@EclipsedCrown
3 жыл бұрын
I have always been confused on how people can have a crush on a celebrity Edit: thanks for the likes
@trinis8726
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr... like, they look nice, but have a crush on them??? ',:/
@Abliviaaa
3 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I never understood that and always found that relationships looked tiring and not worth it.
@patateslikofte6474
3 жыл бұрын
I still dont understand why they do that lol
@SkaterBlades
3 жыл бұрын
Same and I'm not asexual, if anything I'm the opposite. I've always thought it's both stupid and illogical to have feelings for someone you've never met and will likely never meet, let alone enter a relationship with especially with the heavy competition. The rational part of my brain would never allow it
@ElicatrothTV
3 жыл бұрын
Im asexual but HAVE YOU SEEN CHRIS HEMSWORTH????
@mister_dadstersays_hi7372
3 жыл бұрын
"Are your crushes short lived" Me who never had a crush: *confused screaming*
@starryskies777
3 жыл бұрын
You could be aromantic (not experiencing romantic attraction) but maybe not and that’s ok too
@god4414
3 жыл бұрын
Sameeeee
@miccahstaimee
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I've never had a crush in my life
@mister_dadstersays_hi7372
3 жыл бұрын
@@starryskies777 ohhh I have heard this word come and go but I never knew exactly what it meant thanks
@desteny1393
3 жыл бұрын
@@anonymous_ea that sounds 100% like aromantic and maybe asexual
@icy8403
2 жыл бұрын
This is to ALL non ace people: Yes, there are cases where someone assumed they are ace, tho then meet someone and figure out they’re actually demi, but it is NOT the main case. Saying “you haven’t met the right one yet” is very rude and invalidating. Do not say it to anyone referring themselves to be ace, not every ace person will get into a relationship. -coming from the girlfriend of an ace/demi person :)
@Julia-py9mk
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve met some people who’ve said “Maybe you’ll find someone who makes you feel different or maybe not, doesn’t matter as long as you’re happy” and I think that’s one of the better ways to comment on asexuality.
@StonedTotheBones0000
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, whoever is whatever. Doesn't matter, it's always important to respect them as they are and to respect a person's journey.
@fionzou3614
Жыл бұрын
Can’t agree anymore ! I’ve heard many times “ maybe you haven’t met the right one yet “ , that made me feel “ do you mean I’m robot that had no romantic feelings ?” Even few more rude to just judge me “ you need to give it a try ( means have sex ) otherwise you would not know fit or not “ they way that they don’t believe ace’ exist were very disrespectful
@enviousgaming3250
Жыл бұрын
@Julia-py9mk I agree One of my best friends wants me to get in a relationship and get a girl but understands asexuality and respects it He will ask me questions if there is something about ace that he doesn't understand
@lllemons
Жыл бұрын
I remember the first time I slept with my ex girlfriend I was always confused beforehand why i didn't want it and assumed id like it. Once the time actually came, I remember laying in bed with her thinking my brain was broken. After this happening a couple of different times with different girls I thought "maybe im homosexual, I've never felt attracted to guys but something isn't clicking" After pondering that i realised ive never felt attracted to guys unlike girls so definitely not that. I've always wanted someone to love and be with on my path of life, but i could never tell someone I'm with that i don't want sex in the relationship. Learning about the ace community has really opened my eyes and I feel less like my mind is broken. Its been such a good change in life being able to seek out others that feel the same way, and I'm glad youre spreading that awareness so others can find out that they're not broken and its completely normal. Thank you 💖
@muniaisworthit
11 ай бұрын
I think you are a romantic ace. Me too. High five on that 🖐️ Do you like anime?
@sneakyninjafroggy6466
3 жыл бұрын
Me: is ace aro Also me: clicks anyways because the person who does the voicovers has an amazingly soothing voice
@ashleyahn7269
3 жыл бұрын
AHHHH IM ACE ARO TOO!
@ParkerPlays2005
3 жыл бұрын
Yep same here!
@Aliensssss
3 жыл бұрын
Ayeee ace aro gang
@AVRose47
3 жыл бұрын
Sameeee
@NagisaP
3 жыл бұрын
aro ace too〜
@Tizzy_Rose
3 жыл бұрын
When I saw the title of the video I grinned because I’m asexual
@Ray.gulp59
3 жыл бұрын
i'm asexual and aromantic :D
@cynthiafree3017
3 жыл бұрын
same here
@cynthiafree3017
3 жыл бұрын
I’m not aromantic though
@tanisha1509
3 жыл бұрын
Me toooo :D
@Psych2go
3 жыл бұрын
Did you find the points accurate?
@treznopresto4878
3 жыл бұрын
Sum: 1. Lack of sexual attraction 1:04 2. Asexuals could crave relationships just without the sexual element 1:41 3. Get over crushes easily 2:16 4. Not having celebrity crushes 2:38 5. Some asexuals may only experience sexual attraction in certain circumstances 3:06 6. Sex depends 3:38 Done
@reesespieces
3 жыл бұрын
been
@cme_epicness
3 жыл бұрын
Damn that was quick
@aglow370
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@blobfish2045
3 жыл бұрын
Good job
@VICMORROWFAN
3 жыл бұрын
I fail all those questions. I enjoy healthy sex. End of story.
@StandAloneSoul
2 жыл бұрын
I am 25 and I have had sex in my prior relationships, however, ive only recently spoke to a close friend about how I always thought that sexuality was something that my partners expected of me and felt like if i did not serve them what they find so important, theyd become upset or angry or judging with me and leave me, so I kind of forced myself into all kinds of things that at best, meant nothing to me and made me feel nothing and at worst, felt awful and/or painful just so that the other person was satisfied with me because I had built my self worth and value purely on doing what the person i feel emotionally close to wants me to, or enduring what they want even if i do not. Most of this is connected to my psychological way of how i treat others and let myself be treated and the whole system of 'If i dont want it but you do, its real, worthy and important and if i want it but you dont, its not and should be forgotten about' or rather sacrifice and submission to an unfair and inbalanced extreme of letting my emotions, thoughts, sensations, vulnerabilities and borders be overstepped, neglected and hurt in the process is something that has nothing to do with my gender identity or sexuality, but affected those in a way where I completely ignored what i felt and wanted, in these sections of myself, too. So I just recently came to the realisation of how my experiences about sexual and romantic attraction, desires and satisfaction are so absolutely different from most people that i know nowadays, in my altered state of mind, where my own experiences matter and i ve started building a connection to my feelings. Very suddenly, i came to the personal conclusion that, not only do i find a different type of gender romantically interesting than those that i had been with thoughout my life, but also that i have no interest in sharing sexuality with anyone, not even my closest romantic partners. Its not that I absolutely dislike the idea and practisation of it, which was the main reason for why i thought that i 'am' far from asexuality. (I had very open and diverse friendships across all the years but never actually second guessed myself about the topics i knew and accepted from close ones). Then recently i heard for the first time that if I do not like and do not want to share anything sexual with someone and that it gets me upset when they do, that that is something that important and worthy to think about, and that, even when I 'can be okay with it for the sake of harmony' its 'counting' as difference between the wants of me and the partners i had, which would continue to have me force myself to something i feel uncomfortable with, unless i start respecting what i feel like. I have this one really great friend, who keeps empowering me to atleast try myself out with other types of gender than what i am used to, but to also start geetting friends with the thought that itll feel the same-ish way of 'i guess ill hold still until youre done and happy' and that in that case, i should NOT continue like that but search someone who can understand me. Ive always been inclusive and acceptant of my surroundings individualities, and i am thriving and happy that finally, i am starting to treat myself the same way. It felt like quite a shock when this friend of mine answered to me explaining how physical intimacy on a sexual level makes me feel with 'Its not supposed to be that way. Theres something off about what you feel and what you do, theres a dissonance inbetween which not natural and not healthy, please start thinking about this whole topic, for the love of yourself.' And I am trying my best to get to know myself. So yeah, thank you kind stranger, for reading through this, I just had to get this off my chest because there are very few people that I can talk to and even less that i actually do, and have a nice day wherever you are. And remember to be gentle, compassionate, and caring with yourself.
@icegiraffes7445
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this….. I really appreciate you sharing. :) Good luck working through this……but know you have friends here. This really spoke to me and I felt, truthfully, seen and appreciated. I’m not trying to take away your experience, I am only grateful to you that you put this into words. So thank you, kind stranger. Have a wonderful day! :)
@manishkumarpandey9702
2 жыл бұрын
PWell, can you'll asexuals help me in this situation : I love my girlfriend a lot, she's asexual, but it I like sex a lot 😅 i mean a lot..... I don't want to breakup with her because it'll crush her heart, she'll cry alot & I don't want to give her this lvl of pain nor do I have the courage to this 🥺....... I am really really confused please help me
@prateekshagowda7151
Жыл бұрын
@@manishkumarpandey9702 hey buddy may I know how's relationship going on if u don't mind
@NightMystique13
Жыл бұрын
I can relate well to your story. We are out here too!
@nova10029
Жыл бұрын
I wish I had the courage to pour my heart out in a KZitem comment. Hope everything turns out well for you 🖤💜🤍
@erinshannon8031
3 жыл бұрын
I always thought I was just weird for not wanting to wear revealing clothing and for being 22 and never dated before. I've always wanted a romantic relationship, but it always seems like every relationship has to lead to sex and that makes me nervous.
@lowbudgetadvice95
3 жыл бұрын
You are not weird for that. I'm the same way with the clothing. Not all relationships lead to sex and they can never lead there if you are honest and forthcoming in the beginning. If they can't accept that, they are not worth it. If they are, great.
@buzzcutseason142
3 жыл бұрын
i know. its interesting how a relationship starts out as strangers and then the romantic stuff and then when it stays romantic and nothing more people suddenly can’t be in it anymore
@culthero666
3 жыл бұрын
You're a romantic asexual. Like Todd Sanchez in Bojack Horseman.
@randomhuman7360
3 жыл бұрын
SAME!!!! I’m so glad I’m not the only one who feels like this-17 btw here
@giulsss99
2 жыл бұрын
Sameee
@sra4500
3 жыл бұрын
Who else is asexual :3 ???
@ziz9557
3 жыл бұрын
a lot more people than you'd think, trust me
@a-disaster5285
3 жыл бұрын
Those likes and views aren’t enough to prove that? Plenty to make a difference I’d say
@thebutterscotchkid2481
3 жыл бұрын
idk, lol.
@jariyajames91
3 жыл бұрын
Me I do 🙂
@jiminsmxgicshop
3 жыл бұрын
me
@ak1-raa
3 жыл бұрын
Ok but lets just talk about HOW PRETTY THIS FLAG IS. I LOVE THIS COLOR PALETE
@sugar-and-stardust
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr??
@NebulaBubbles
2 жыл бұрын
same I just love how calming it looks
@FieldOfHats3
2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss I love it
@bonkchoy6881
2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE IT AS WELL 😩
@OneOfFourLucasMains
2 жыл бұрын
It has my favorite colors on it.
@lilo1981
Жыл бұрын
I'm not sure if I'm asexual or demisexual. All i know is that i don't think sex is a must in a relationship. If i meet someone and all they think about is sex, it is IMEDIATE turn off for me. am i the only one?
@jenthegaylord3981
3 жыл бұрын
I'm gay, but I actually see myself in few parts of this (getting over crushes fast, not really needing sex and I lean on more on the romantic side of relationship) but it might be bcs of my last relationship that kinda drained me, bcs before it I was more sexual and looked at men more, now I don't really do. I might swing a bit demisexual but I dunno, I don't really feel the need to be in a relationship really (I'm more into career) but I still look at anime men at least I guess Anyways, asexuals are valid, wish yall great day if you've read my rambling here lol
@albinopython405
3 жыл бұрын
Oh have a great day to you as well
@phoenixangel5073
3 жыл бұрын
There's also this thing where when you're young you are very sexually active or at least sexually atracted, but as life goes there comes a period of life when you calm down, those feelings die down a bit and you focus on more important things.
@lunarmoon8965
3 жыл бұрын
@Security Cam Sam they...didnt do anything...
@notyourplateofbiscuit
3 жыл бұрын
@Security Cam Sam wtf does that even mean bro
@veeeeeeeee7
3 жыл бұрын
@Security Cam Sam why are u here again!?
@lunvvaa
3 жыл бұрын
Idk I feel like I want to have a relationship and do cute things like holding hands or bonding. But I dont really want sex.
@vxbrxnt
3 жыл бұрын
me too
@hy3ju
3 жыл бұрын
same!
@stonesheep_1412
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@AngelA-ym2jz
3 жыл бұрын
I like your pfp
@socialanxiety9153
3 жыл бұрын
Same. And it might be because I’m young, but I’ve never really felt the need for sex. Honestly being in a cute relationship instead of a lustful relationship sounds better if I had to pick one.
@isarki09
3 жыл бұрын
My friends: *talking about how hot their crushes are* me:"ah yes, really um, aesthetically pleasing yes"
@zkk34
3 жыл бұрын
Sameeee
@isarki09
3 жыл бұрын
@Security Cam Sam why?
@isarki09
3 жыл бұрын
@Security Cam Sam do you know what aesthetically pleasing means?
@mileybartholomew10
3 жыл бұрын
Arke that person keeps invalidating asexuals, so I’m guessing they were just being a jerk. Also I 100% can relate
@veeeeeeeee7
3 жыл бұрын
@Security Cam Sam why u here ??
@liamdockery8544
5 ай бұрын
Hi! I actually came out to my friends today about being asexual so yayyyy :D
@freya-8552
3 жыл бұрын
Me: *asexual* My friend: hey.. i think i'm asexual- Me: OMG YAY CONGRATS ON COMING OUTTTT SISSS my friend: - and aromantic- Me: oH okayyy thats fineee sisssss ♡♡ She was soo scared of coming outtt but she will 4ever be my frienddddd
@andii-
3 жыл бұрын
wow half of my friend group just invalidated me 🤠 edit: lmao i took shit the wrong way actually- no invalidation, they were confused
@a-disaster5285
3 жыл бұрын
Alex W. My condolences, at least you know who aren’t your friends Edit: Enjoy knowing you’re not alone in this :)
@andii-
3 жыл бұрын
@@a-disaster5285 yeah we’re all graduating from my school this year so we probably won’t see each other again. i’m also fairly sure that if my mom finds out that any of my friends invalidate me shell skin them alive
@a-disaster5285
3 жыл бұрын
Alex W. Do film it if they ever have to confront her
@andii-
3 жыл бұрын
@@a-disaster5285 lmao sure
@hellothereyoureamazing4604
3 жыл бұрын
"They get over crushes easily" Me, an asexual who has never had a crush (not aro btw): Mhm mhm interesting
@SoggycereaI
3 жыл бұрын
Same, not one at all lmao.
@imagi-nation8013
3 жыл бұрын
can you explain about aro ace more pls
@PhoenixRedtail
3 жыл бұрын
@@imagi-nation8013 while asexuals dont feel sexual attraction, aros dont feel romantic. aro ace would be someone who doesnt experience either of these. Again, theres a spectrum, thats just the short description.
@imagi-nation8013
3 жыл бұрын
@@PhoenixRedtail thank you have misunderstood it all this while,I thought aro-ace meant ace people who feel romantic attraction to people of the same sex
@PhoenixRedtail
3 жыл бұрын
Imagi- nation all good! At least you’re not like most people who think all aces are aro too and vice versa. Some are one of these, some are both, they are all valid! :)
@rat.4312
3 жыл бұрын
As an Asexual individual, I do my understand how somebody else can look at somebody and go, “ Theyre so hot/pretty I want to date him/her/them” Whilst I am in the corner having crushes on people who I trust and who are nice to me. ;w;
@a-disaster5285
3 жыл бұрын
【 Mochie Birb】 I might be guessing, but grats on being Demiromantic Asexual, they’re lucky to have you crushing on them; being A-spec goes to show that you aren’t going for them because of their body
@rat.4312
3 жыл бұрын
@@a-disaster5285 thanks! ✨
@trulykey8106
3 жыл бұрын
Omggg sameeee
@coolkieyt
3 жыл бұрын
I crush on fictional characters 😭
@towarzyszmarcin474
3 жыл бұрын
As a heterosexual individual i can, but i do not really like it either. I just accepted the fact, that people are and will always be imperfect and ugly in a way. And going for some people only based on their looks is not the way. Thats just my opinion tho. At least its not a good way for a stable and long prospering relationship.
@ViperVixen420_69
11 ай бұрын
me: 35, viirgin, nobody I meet in this world is sexually appealing to me also me: *mega simping for fictional characters* list includes: Percival de Rolo (Vox Machina) Levi Ackerman (Attack on Titan) Derrick (teen Wolf, NOT THE ACTOR) Draco Malfoy (Harry Potter, also not the actor) Alastor (Hazbin Hotel) Lelouch Vi Britannia (Code Geass) Roy Mustang (Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood) that's just a few on my rather extensive list. I recently come to realize this particular shade of Asexual is called FICTOSEXUAL. @Psych2Go if you could make a video on fictosexuality and where it may fall on the Asexual spectrum, you'll earn a sub from me.
@muniaisworthit
11 ай бұрын
Same girl or whatever gender I'm fictoromantic though not fictosexual but yeah,not many people know about it
@shinx1387
3 жыл бұрын
One of the most awkward situation is when friends who don't know I'm asexual send me memes with sexual context and i need to : "haha that's funny" ,(internal screaming and confusion)
@Yoongiluvbot
3 жыл бұрын
People think I'm innocent
@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784
3 жыл бұрын
A lot of asexuals have sexual humour though maybe you’re just not one of them. We can talk dirty all day...we just don’t want to do dirty xD
@fe_fanby2278
3 жыл бұрын
@@Yoongiluvbot Saaaaammmmmeee!
@moonhall
3 жыл бұрын
Im not asexual but I really don't get what is funny about sex so I just "haha that's funny" so im not left out x,D
@purprr8208
3 жыл бұрын
Its ironic, im the least innocent out od my friend group yet im Asexual haha
@jaslikeart
3 жыл бұрын
Reminder: asexual and aromatic is different
@Azadgoli
3 жыл бұрын
Can we just make to groups for people Normal - Weird Much simpler
@N0mad649
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly before I found out about aromantic, I thought it was lol
@redacted-19
3 жыл бұрын
@@Azadgoli elaborate on *weird*
@smithsunleashed
3 жыл бұрын
@@Azadgoli okay sure. aphobes like you are considered as weird, while people who understand the concepts of lgbt and accepts them are normal
@chaiyinliew4497
3 жыл бұрын
@@Azadgoli 😕
@soros001
3 жыл бұрын
I've never enjoyed sex. I've never wanted sex. But it always seems the world forces it into my lap (no pun intended) and I always feel really uncomfortable. I want a romantic relationship, I want to feel close to someone, I want to love, but I don't want sex. I've never found a partner who understands this and I always have to have "the sex" to keep the relationship going. I've tried being single and I find it desperately lonely. So I seek a female companion, then she wants sex, I get uncomfortable and we break up. It's a recurring cycle that I don't think I'll soon break.
@fireruby1882
3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry😩
@Kindred...
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that, you'll find the right one, hopefully, eventually
@fantasyworld3897
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear but there’s always a possibility you’ll find someone!
@Sentient_moss_with_mange
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry man :( hopefully you can find the person who understands you❤️
@Tyler-ce3um
2 жыл бұрын
I never want that either, and I never will. This is the only time I’ve found someone who feels the same.
@0L1V3RZ_OL1V3RZ
Жыл бұрын
I’m asexual and not feel sexual attraction at all, (I know , shocker) but anytime I mention I have a partner, they go: oh so you aren’t asexual? Like mF STOPPP
@BlueMoonFoxi
Жыл бұрын
Fr
@blue211
3 жыл бұрын
I can't comprehend how you can be sexually attracted to a celebrity or person it honestly confuses me 🧍♀️
@jj4891
3 жыл бұрын
Especially when you don’t know A THING about them
@xxo6813
3 жыл бұрын
@@jj4891 right I've never been sexually attractive to a celebrity
@xxo6813
3 жыл бұрын
@@jj4891 I don't see how people do it
@littlemissemila1818
3 жыл бұрын
It’s kinda weird in my opinion
@hafsahossain1394
3 жыл бұрын
Well,I also don't understand how it works.But I know it works for other people somehow..I'm actually a fan of some celebrities and I'm never attracted to them in a sexual way,but I've seen their other fans thirsting over them and finding them sexually appealing when they show their abs and them sweating after their performance or practice is filmed.The fans says they look sexy that way and honestly I don't really know what sexyness is,so yeah! I definitely can't relate to that and it confuses the hell out of me
@deniseseminoff6847
3 жыл бұрын
I'm Ace and I rather adopt children then "doing it" 😊
@bagel1612
3 жыл бұрын
Yes there are children in need :)
@user-iq2ie4qk5x
3 жыл бұрын
Yepp
@user-iq2ie4qk5x
3 жыл бұрын
Do you think it's hard to find a partner who is Ace?
@deniseseminoff6847
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-iq2ie4qk5x I think so. I havent found one yet. But that's ok for me. I'm in no hurry. :) What about you? If you don't mind me asking. :)
@jiminsmxgicshop
3 жыл бұрын
sameee :p
@crack_soda
3 жыл бұрын
i honestly dont care if you’re anything, as long as you’re -human- anything, im chill
@meganck9152
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@yanyanbanyan7152
3 жыл бұрын
Even if you aren't human, I'm chill
@useless.5663
3 жыл бұрын
No I'm a burrito. 🌯
@rainadatkween7959
3 жыл бұрын
What if you’re an alien?
@xxsnow_angelxx3953
3 жыл бұрын
I relate to this in a spiritual level
@AbbeyWagner4547
Жыл бұрын
I’m asexual too and I experience a lot of acephobia 😢 It hurts but as an asexual, I have to stay strong 💪 Asexuals are valid ♠️✨
@cedricburkhart3738
Жыл бұрын
Wait what people have a problem with that? I don't understand.🤷 What's rong with that. I don't really understand it to be honest the discrimination sounds confusing. I guess people bug me sometimes about not having gotten a girlfriend.
@cedricburkhart3738
Жыл бұрын
I'm confused by this question of validity.🤷 Is being dislexoc valed?
@AbbeyWagner4547
Жыл бұрын
Do some research on asexuality, You could learn a lot from it.
@cedricburkhart3738
Жыл бұрын
@@AbbeyWagner4547 I don't really know what there is to lurn there are so many things about it that I feel like I don't know what it means if someone says they are that.🤷 It's a brod range of things. And how do I know if I'm asexual? Or some form of it? But I am dislexoc. Sometimes people make fun of my bad speling and once I couldn't get a job because I didn't finish the paperwork that you have to fill out. But I mean is there anything cool about asexuality? Could someone just choose to be asexual if they want to be? I mean I could read about it I guess but I'm not so good at that and it's also hard because acidemia doesn't like giving soled definitions on sexuality. Is asexually something you can be diagnosed with like I was diagnosed with dislexoca?
@peacelover8394
Жыл бұрын
@cedric You can't choose to be asexual.. Its innate.. I think so.. I'm ace and i can't choose to be not ace.. I don't know if there's a diagnosis on asexuality.. I haven't heard of one.. Sorry
@yingtails7383
3 жыл бұрын
As an Asexual myself, this is very helpful for those who don’t know what asexually is and those who want to know what it means.
@mjoymusic7035
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!🙏
@madagascarpenguin
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! So many people think that it means to have to attraction towards anyone. It’s really frustrating when those people try and argue with someone who’s ace about asexuality.
@yingtails7383
3 жыл бұрын
@@madagascarpenguin I hate it when people assume my sexuality even after I tell them and explain it to them and evening as far as tell them that I’m not interested in a sexual relationship with women or anyone for that matter.
@exxiyya4855
3 жыл бұрын
So this is accurate? (Sorry for asking) Bc I've been thinking about it a long time now and I think I might be Asexual.
@yingtails7383
3 жыл бұрын
@@exxiyya4855 It’s ok to be confused about your sexuality for a long time, it took me a long time before I figured out that I was asexual myself you don’t need to figure it out right away. You should be proud of your sexuality and don’t let anyone tell you that it’s not valid because they’re wrong.
@galileaibarra9488
3 жыл бұрын
it will sound weird, but i have never felt more identified with a sexual orientation as in this. i genuinely thought i was just weird. i would have never known it, it never crossed my mind. and it makes me feel worried about the information not being spread enough, because i would really love to see those people who are struggling to feel good in their own skin know that they’re valid, and not alone. just that.
@meowmewnow
3 жыл бұрын
I didn't find out until last year, but it's seems to be becoming a bigger topic now and I hope many people can finally find out they are not alone
@a-disaster5285
3 жыл бұрын
Not weird, I would have found it weirder if no one went through a “What am I?” Stage, though not being concern about yourself in those areas is also natural. Many sexualities and romance interests have fallen under A-spec, so I’m glad that having more access to this information has given you enough confidence to consider yourself Valid (you are!). The more I read about these sorts of comments the more I feel bad for those who are experiencing what you two have, but then I realized I don’t have to since they’ll eventually discover how much of an Ace they are and reevaluate themselves appropriately
@komikomikoin
2 жыл бұрын
my friend's a straight person and I came out to her last month. she said she accepts me and gets me being asexual. I'm glad I have friend like her.
@maayy_0
Жыл бұрын
@@helmetmcbarin me, an aroace, think that sometimes coming out for ppl that we like is kinda important
@hi-lj8uu
3 жыл бұрын
Even though I’m not ace, I’m rather mad at the fact that people are basically saying that being ace is being uninterested in relationships in general. They’re basically saying that asexuals are both asexual and aromantic. Just because someone is asexual, doesn’t mean that they don’t want to be in a relationship!
@Barlmoro
3 жыл бұрын
i think there is a big conflikt with it. if you have a Ace + not Ace relationship the not asexual partner will suffer from hormones. depends on how much libido he has its faster or slower. My ex girlfriend lost her Libido to medical condictions and i try to be a good partner, but it goes so worse that i get migrane over the urges to make love with her, becurse it stressed me so much. She loved to kuddle but after like 10 min my hormones overhelmd me and i have to stop or i endet that it switched from happy to actual harm...
@Nothingtea
3 жыл бұрын
@@Barlmoro As I understand it, in an ace + not ace relationship, just like *any* relationship, the key is communication. Partners should talk to one another about what they need, and what they're comfortable with. Having a lower libido due to medication is not the same as being asexual- so I'm going to say, you should talk with your partner about if they'd be comfortable going to the shop and buying some sexual aids. I absolutely loathe that ace people are always expected to be the ones "compromising" here, for the "health" of their partners however.
@Barlmoro
3 жыл бұрын
@@Nothingtea i talked with my ex about it and all was blocked from her side. she even refuse to talk to her doctor about the problem. i think in her world it was not a problem and dosn´t understand my suffer.
@foxtail7363
3 жыл бұрын
I think they should do a video on aros tho too
@thekiller7026
2 жыл бұрын
@@Barlmoro what do you mean?
@meow-wk4zf
3 жыл бұрын
to this day,i still dont understand how ppl can get attracted to someone without getting to know them first. i never understood their memes and jokes and i feel like an outcast. then i get made fun of for having a different opinion from them
@doomesst6422
2 жыл бұрын
It's called instinct Don't let those ppl bother you. Someday you'll find people who will accept and love the way you are. The key is to keep being open for others, even if most of them won't understand or will make fun of you. Thats the only way you can find those real friends. Sry for my english if i fked up somewhere, its my second language.
@architaarya3829
2 жыл бұрын
Hey, you might wanna look that up, it's called demisexuality. I expirience the same, it CAN NOT for the life of me be attracted to anyone before getting to know them and forming a connection. It's an ace spec sexuality.
@serenity8699
2 жыл бұрын
bruh ify
@BuilderB08
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I feel the same, like… how?
@StonedTotheBones0000
2 жыл бұрын
Well if you get made fun of then screw them because EVERYONE on this planet is different from one another. You do not have to understand that and they don't have to understand you. But it isn't your job to make them understand and vice versa. We are all unique and different individuals with all different types of opinions and outlooks. This is perfectly normal and okay. All of us are valid in our own ways. Just because someone doesn't understand someone else regardless of who it is, doesn't make the person any less valid. Just difference of opinion is all. I love how unique people can be when it comes to individual expression. It makes the world beautiful. Sadly some people haven't figured out how to make peace with difference of opinion and construct or overall structure. Some peoppe have a mindset that if you don't agree with them then that means you must hate them or that you're less valid them then or "wrong" because peoppe are generally attracted to "norms" and if anything in their own world falls outside of that order they've set up for themselves mentally, it disturbs their world. But more people need to learn how to let go of that and let change be change and let difference of opinion, be what it is.
@dreamyqui8472
3 жыл бұрын
Me: “O MY GOD IM ASEXUAL” still tryna learn my sexual identity
@neptunestardust
3 жыл бұрын
Same! It’s so frustrating
@luckytheprotogen
3 жыл бұрын
Same hello fellow aces
@katelyngunabe6280
3 жыл бұрын
same
@dreamyqui8472
3 жыл бұрын
@@neptunestardust I swear and more frustrating when ya parents wanna sit you down to talk cuz they think you like the same sex
@loveawayfromreality6453
3 жыл бұрын
@@dreamyqui8472 well that's rip
@artkat8990
2 жыл бұрын
I hate when people say "Ha, you are Asexual it means you're gay". And when I say that I'm not gay, they say "Well Asexuals make part of lgbt so you are gay". Gosh I hate when they say that. Edit: I'm not being offensive to gay people, it just bothers me when my friends say that.
@noriakikakyoin2687
3 жыл бұрын
I was bullied for being Asexual. They’ve called me things really bad
@lllash4662
3 жыл бұрын
*Hugs* being asexual ain’t anything wrong🥺
@a-disaster5285
3 жыл бұрын
They called you an Ace, they were trying to make you feel invalid even when you had enough qualifications to be better than them
@narutobutshippuuden1422
3 жыл бұрын
... My friends even saying that that's a *phase* but umm... no....
@jiminsmxgicshop
3 жыл бұрын
awww that sucks 🥺💜 you need a hug
@marsh799
3 жыл бұрын
Don't listen to them, your definitely Valid and I support you 💝
@zMadzz0
3 жыл бұрын
ace gang where you at?
@rainbowcat3143
3 жыл бұрын
AYYYYYY
@Gamer-jv3zg
3 жыл бұрын
Right here but I’m also Aro!
@ameliaswiatek9204
3 жыл бұрын
hi 🤠
@shootingstar1529
3 жыл бұрын
Over here with my beautiful purple, black, gray and white flag
@RaiAsimar4058
3 жыл бұрын
AAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
@mr.pancakes1072
3 жыл бұрын
When I was younger I imagined asexual meant budding haha like just spawning clones of yourself
@TurdaleNerdingle
3 жыл бұрын
XD
@cosmicgamegirl4522
3 жыл бұрын
There’s two types, the one your talking about which is things like plant life or certain animals/creatures reproducing by themselves and the asexuality of a human being
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