I spent 3 months observing this man, he true colors came out and I got the ICK! I walked away.
@FertileG
4 ай бұрын
"Fuck that shit, develop a meditation 🧘🏾♀️ practice" 😂🎉
@user-ej5jc5dk1e
4 ай бұрын
What kind of meditation is first and foremost important ? How long is every session ? Do you do it alone or in a group ? How many times a week or a month do you meditate ?
@katherineamarante7133
4 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣yooooo
@lebomafatle
4 ай бұрын
I was just thinking watching a video from 2 months ago that “this is the most consistent yt channel “ keep it up Father Alex. South Africa loves you.
@mahalaksh425
4 ай бұрын
North Africaaaa ❤️❤️2years of alex
@ariariupsintree
4 ай бұрын
This video is SO important. Most of my longest and toxic relationships in the past were like this. Now I’m out at the first red flag lol
@yourfutureisnow6480
4 ай бұрын
This is exactly why I'm frustrated in dating in this day and age. The majority of men want to sleep with you way too soon. And it's like, wow, I barely know this guy as a person. His character, etc. Everyone shows a good side in the beginning.
@gloriam8493
4 ай бұрын
I slept with a guy and he reached out after a few days... He texted: So, you ran away? lmaoo... I assume he thought I would lose my mind.. Talking about manipulative people.. btw, you would never say he's like that...
@Challenger2A7
25 күн бұрын
Yep, men can be weird. A few years ago an ex and I broke up without any ill-feeling, I thought nothing much of it, we hadn't been madly in love. He got another girlfriend, I met the man I later married. Two years after the breakup he rang me out of the blue asking if I had a boyfriend!!!! When I said I was engaged, his exact words were "Oh. I was hoping you might have been heartbroken when we split up." I still think this is a weird thing to say.
@Yeeeesh
4 ай бұрын
THIS VIDEO IS EVERYTHING!! WE FALL FOR THE HALO EFFECT AT FIRST AND EVENTUALLY THEIR TRUE COLORS WILL SHOW.
@saradf
4 ай бұрын
Alex i can’t thank you enough for teaching me « the power of walking away « ❤ it’s a life changing advice that got me out of these situations and no Fboy could play me again 🔥🫶🏻 my last experience was different because he changed after 5 months then i realised he finally showed his true colours. Can i handle the repetitive ghosting? Hell No. fool me once shame on you,fool me twice shame on me and the third one he’s out forever.
@Demi1369
3 ай бұрын
After fool me twice, there is no third time. You’re dumb to be played a second time (as per the saying) so you leave permanently. Why give a third chance?
@saradf
3 ай бұрын
@@Demi1369 yeah i take accountability for the second time i gave the benefit of the doubt, he had valid reasons and i ghosted back . what i meant to say is they’ll try to make a comeback for the third and fourth etc but the door is already locked 🔒 it didn’t happen.
@karolinah12
24 күн бұрын
So true, believe what you see. Someone said to women, "Close your ears & open your eyes! Don't fall for what you hear, but observe what you see. We want to believe people are good. Nature tricks us. Great coaching.
@aurora9687
4 ай бұрын
He hides it(negativity)and then proceeds to project that negativity on me.
@katherineamarante7133
4 ай бұрын
“Even though it’s your limb” is craaaazyyyy
@venuspsychicmasseuse
4 ай бұрын
Jesus this is so relevant. How many of us are going thru this shit?? Fuck that shit
@wildmagi-1155
4 ай бұрын
Your channel is the best on the planet ❤️
@South_Heat
4 ай бұрын
This is all very true but also is especially important when the person is actually narcissistic or any other personality disorder that’s harmful to others and kept hidden by the person at the start. Narcissists operate exactly like this. They show you what they see you want, or what they see you are, then reflect that back. And once they think they’ve got you and start feeling like you are inferior they start letting the mask slip. And behaving abusively. In my experience all people with narcissistic behaviours are abusive even those who you could describe as only mildly narcissistic. My reason for not monitoring people correctly initially has been less about being lazy and more about me being naive, overly trusting and assuming everyone is a good person. I guess I’m lazy in the sense that I want to avoid finding out this person is actually a bad person. I’ve been too soft and too conflict avoidant. But your content 💯 has helped me with this and everything you have said in this video is gold.
@MindfulAttraction2.0
4 ай бұрын
I forgot about that. Mental disorders
@South_Heat
4 ай бұрын
@@MindfulAttraction2.0 I felt like you were still referencing mental health and personality disordered types even though you didn’t specifically mention that. That’s why I was thinking of narcissists. 😉
@whyherrodere3784
4 ай бұрын
This makes so much sense and explains the problem i keep coming across with men, really appreciate the lecture Alex
@Challenger2A7
4 ай бұрын
Well said, Alex, nobody mentions that some people are really just 😊plain stupid.
@sjrekus25
4 ай бұрын
“Emotionally stupid” yes!
@CeciledeLuire
4 ай бұрын
"if you have a low IQ- *that's problematic* ... i mean, *that's REALLY problematic,* you know 😮" you're killin me today 😅
@tanyasharadamba1264
4 ай бұрын
Omg Bless you Father Dalexis 🥰
@lynstrawberry5645
3 ай бұрын
Now this is the TEA. Powerful video. Very much needed. Thank you father Alex for all that you do ❤
@oliviamoore5328
3 ай бұрын
Is finding someone compatible just finding someone aware of their vulnerabilities so they don’t project it so much, is finding someone actually choosing a persons vulnerabilities and coping skills to deal with/tolerate long term. Nothing worse than feeling like youve grown and learnt much self awareness and to not project, trigger or harm someone you love + be open to being observed and worked with only for everything to be rejected consistently and them not do anything. Denial is a silent killer
@fearrahp9098
4 ай бұрын
Your actually so spot on! Your incredibly smart and mentally stimulating. Love your videos, one of the best by far👌🏽
@ShaBella509
4 ай бұрын
This resonates so much it's unreal, I'm taking notes 📕 for sure 😅 after the honeymoon stage, true colors show up. Be observant and move accordingly.
@ladyfxllc
4 ай бұрын
Your videos somehow coincide with situations Im currently facing. I really enjoyed the asthetic of the video with the white background you recently posted. It somehow felt like you were being interviewed.
@Apocalyptiseptical
3 ай бұрын
WoW. So much truth. Familiarity breeds contempt
@QueenBeeDigital
4 ай бұрын
You’re getting smarter and smarter. Honestly better than the dating coaches despite the scandalous imagine in the beginning.
@humanityandme
4 ай бұрын
One of your best talks
@Kate.Sangalang
4 ай бұрын
Father Alex is the only youtuber who casually text while vlogging haha love it!
@ashleyanderson933
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for the consistency in posting. Good morning from NC . Sending much love Father Alex 🌹
@steburavah
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your videos. It has help reassure me a lot that I wasn’t the problem in my last relationship. ❤
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
3 ай бұрын
Thanks 🙏🏽
@lydelltucker2372
4 ай бұрын
Hiii I love your channel. I've listened for years and hv learned so much. Please talk more about low IQ and problematic. This is an interesting topic for me because I dated someone who had a low IQ... Didn't find out until later. She's 53 and didn't know what her sexual reproductive organs are and has had 3 kids and menstrual cycles... Ovaries, uterus, fallopian tube's... Blah, blah. She would do things that would piss (unintentionally) me off and I'd try to explain to her over and over what she did wrong and she just couldn't understand the wrong she did. Couldnt hold a conversation. She didn't even know who the Queen of England was. Her child like mind drove me crazy and stole my peace.It's like she had the kind of a 7 year old. But a 7 y/o knows the Queen of England(before she died) Please talk about this. I need to know more about this. Thank you soo much 💋
@ririx557
4 ай бұрын
You're such a G thank you for sharing this with women good karma is your friend!!
@katherineamarante7133
4 ай бұрын
One of the greatest of our time imo
@kathas.9453
4 ай бұрын
Love your videos ❤
@leaperm3433
4 ай бұрын
Facts! Had to listen twice!!
@marissahumblytherealistone8950
3 ай бұрын
Ur ALWAYSSS SOOOO MF ON POINT 💯
@ivettemendez1739
4 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@iihabibaii
4 ай бұрын
Beautiful Video Alex 👏🏻
@meklitdebebe5933
3 ай бұрын
Tou should write a book man
@TiaWasHere11
4 ай бұрын
Excellent video
@SK-no2pp
4 ай бұрын
Great video ❤
@reinventedxx
4 ай бұрын
Hi Father Alex
@paradisehotyoga5931
4 ай бұрын
Love it Alex emotional iq 😮
@Apocalyptiseptical
3 ай бұрын
I love when he says those guys with small d… who makes u fall in love first so you have no other choice than accepting it F*** THAT!!
@shedellasmith7064
2 ай бұрын
I want to order the course
@aniabrandt7
4 ай бұрын
Thank u for that video Alex
@lamiamartin3070
4 ай бұрын
💯
@Mariamarcelino31
4 ай бұрын
Father alex can you make how to have self discipline or self control lately i been losing my coolness to someone hahaha
@LifeLessonsforWomen
4 ай бұрын
Guys can hide all the things they want from me, they can't hide from God! They will face their judgment when the Lord's timing hits at the least opportune time. 😢
@angelwings6193
4 ай бұрын
its sad that intodays world ppl dont or cant be honest n sincere,,,,,,, theyre not only wasting Your precious time but theirs as well always looking for bigger n better,,,,,,,, waste of time,,,,,,,,,,,, so i take my time n watch, observemm, and connect the dots, soner or later their true colors come out,,,,, and thats when you can see if theyre true to themselves and to you or if theyre just flaking thier way through life thinking they will always be "the catch" when , in al honesty theyre no catch theyre just Fake,,,,,,,, too bad theres 90%+ of the populatin loke this who are Afraid of being their true selves,,,,,,,,,, hey they even lie to their own selves,,,,,,, take your time,,, the truth always comes out eventually,,,,,,,
@louiselarge
4 ай бұрын
❤
@zonebajones867
4 ай бұрын
❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🕷️
@privatename5899
3 ай бұрын
It’s very rude when you text during a video. You can edit that out, but you purposely do not.
@Kima89
4 ай бұрын
What every man is hiding from you...his crippling porn habit that comes to light 6 months in
@auroraxxfacekilla49
4 ай бұрын
Watched this at 555 likes hey change coming in. Thanks for the knowledge! 🧡💙🧡
@stepfaniehawkins205
4 ай бұрын
You know, after watching dozens of your videos I just need to raise my hand and ask "Who in their right fcking mind would even bother with a man, for real bruh!"
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