The sooner you realize that women hate 'the average' the better. Everything about their man must be above average: Money, height, P size. If 6 foot were the average instead of 5'9, best believe women would raise their expectation to 6'5 across the board. Average women don't want their counterpart, average men.
@rise_of_realm
8 күн бұрын
how about personality
@DimitriTheBarbarian
3 күн бұрын
Well said. Woman wants the winner
@LoveMadeLogical
Ай бұрын
If women's optimal preferred height is 9" taller than themselves wouldn't that make the optimal height 6'1" since the average woman is 5'4"? I also think there's a couple advantages to being tall that aren't shown in these studies... 1. You literally stand out more. At a crowded concert, bar, or club, you're more noticeable and will garner more attention from women due to being seen more. 2. The women who like tall men(usually tall women) really like tall men since there are so few tall men. This gives you a disproportionately good shot with those women which a 5'11" man wouldn't get. Even if there are more women who find 5'11" an acceptable height than 6'6", the women who do want a 6'6" man will overlook any other flaws you may have if you're 6'6" since theirs so few other options at your height. Just some stuff that I think become pretty apparent when you're out trying to date in the real world. Interesting video though.
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
Hey man, appreciate the comment! The reserach doesnt seem to be consistent on this. while some studies seem to say 20-21 cm / 8 inches taller is best, the speed dating study says 25 (10 inches) so I assumed it inbetween. that said, the speed dating study is from the u.s. where height is notoriously overvalued, socio-culturally speaking. and the speed dating setting forces people to choose mainly based on first impression /physical characteristics. your question depends on the country, average height and so on. but its "only" a womans perspective. thats not necessarily what counts, looking at what men want, 7-8 cm smaller or about 3 inches. 1. I agree thats an initial advantage. since women rarely approach, this is probably not a big advantage. however that guy would be able to spot women easier ;) ;) 2. I think those that really place A LOT of importance on height are those that are either a) very tall, so they dont necessarily want someone whos much taller, but are probably grateful to just find anyone taller than them :D b) very short so they likely got issues and therefore look for their deficit in someone else. it might also be due to offspring (my speculation now) averaging out so shorter women might want to select taller men. but I think its more related to a psychological factor. if a person is fine with their height it shouldnt be that much of an issues. otherwise agree for the rare case that the woman is extremely tall (over 5 11 or 180 cm). Thanks for your interesting thoughts mate :)
@AC-mp7cx
25 күн бұрын
standing out more doesnt mean its better also tall women routinely choose short men
@KentPetersonmoney
23 күн бұрын
What's funny the average man isn't even 9 inches taller then the average man. Their only 5 inches taller.
@dioright
12 күн бұрын
I believe it's 6'1 - most desired height by females in whole world (europe, asia, africa, america). based on my observations.
@NMIBUBBLE
Ай бұрын
I’m carrying a scale around from now on!
@marlinshanklin-ww7em
2 күн бұрын
The proper height for a man is for his legs to touch the ground. Abraham Lincoln quote I would agree.
@hof82-c2d
Ай бұрын
The ideal is relative to the height of the female. Rule of thumb is the ideal height difference is 4''. If the woman is 5' 4'' her ideal match is 5' 8''. (this is in theory as I've been with women taller than me. perhaps not ideal but just saying, don't limit yourself!)
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
I think 10 cm / 4" is a nice height difference and I would agree that you should not limit yourself to focus too much on height. while women think height plays a role, I do think when other factors come into play that overweigh, they start caring way less too.
@jaybee4288
Ай бұрын
I’m 5”4 and I’m more attracted to 6ft+ men than 5”8. Men aren’t really qualified to say what our “ideal” height is no offence, that’s simply your idea of what it should be. Taller men are more attractive than short men regardless of their proportion to me.
@Mrbfgray
14 күн бұрын
At 6-2 I've done fine with girl 5-1, contrast is compelling. To me the most carnally desirable are small but the most elegant women are tall. (heavy need not apply, lol)
@jamaicaful
Ай бұрын
The ideal height is around 5"7. because that way your lips will be closer to hers. Any man over 5"10 is way to tall.
@michaelstecyk7365
Ай бұрын
OK shorty
@jamaicaful
Ай бұрын
@@michaelstecyk7365 You mad?
@rubenloedolff
Ай бұрын
@@jamaicaful Are you?
@4mbadiii_
29 күн бұрын
5'10 is ideal tbh, 6 feet is great
@imprisonedone8054
28 күн бұрын
@@4mbadiii_the differences isnt that high buddy. 6 feet 3 is the real height where you will catch attention.
@BlueWhale1989
19 сағат бұрын
I'm 180cm and I definitely don't feel I'm what women want, height wise. Then again, maybe it's just me and not my height.
@pslgodmindset
Ай бұрын
In norway be 190cm+ or you are normie
@kawazaki23
Ай бұрын
I am 1,88m Tall and in Northern Europe that’s short compared to guys 195+
@chinajoe6510
24 күн бұрын
Scandinavia will be at the bottom of single men’s travel destination list 🤮🤮
@BlueWhale1989
19 сағат бұрын
I've never been to Norway (unfortunately) but I was surprised when I visited Serbia to find I felt short. While I'm not too tall at 5'11, I feel a normal height in my country. I'd guess the Serbs are 6'1 on average, and it makes a noticeable difference.
@oneofthelastmen5873
14 күн бұрын
So, what this is ultimately saying is that the average height of wives is similar to the average height of women, and the average height of husbands is similar to the average height of men! Shocking! 😲
@rise_of_realm
12 күн бұрын
is it? or does it tell us that height is after all, just another, not extremely relevant factor because selection obviously doesnt go as far as to leave short men out completely otherwise husbands would be tller than men overall on average :)
@oneofthelastmen5873
12 күн бұрын
I was obviously being sarcastic! Women may have a preference for the taller man, but they can't all marry him! Most women want to marry, and if all the tall men are taken (or won't commit) she will have to settle for the shorter guy (or not get married). In the end, e everyone has to settle for what they can get, or miss out. Currently, there is an epidemic of women missing out - only the ones with reasonable expectations are actually finding husbands. The sexual market place is different, but I think it is no coincidence that the heights of married men and women closely match the heights for men and women overall.
@JIm-w1b
19 күн бұрын
One of the few things I enjoy about being short, as in 5/7, is that the women who accept me as I am, are the ones worth having. Women who want only tall men, will never find love, and too bad for them. Love is when you accept another person in every way, just as they are. People who have shopping lists in what they want in another person, and bypass all others, almost always end up divorced, or it's rare if they don't.
@coachingconfidant2785
19 күн бұрын
Not really man. Women are biologically wired to want tall it's just in our genes. If you're super short ur genetics aren't as good as a taller guy it's an indicator of health. Height is something you can control a lot through proper development during your early years but almost everyone is ignorant to it.
@Mrbfgray
14 күн бұрын
Just like men wanting or insisting on pretty women, right? Just accept an "ugly chick" and be happy.
@aelitastone5629
13 күн бұрын
@@coachingconfidant2785 I clearly don't care about his tall. That not what will make him a good partner.
@user-eh9nq3xg3l
Күн бұрын
Why are the most smart men relatively short?
@GeneralWinter9
11 күн бұрын
I am 6'7" and that's the ideal height.
@faisalsebahi3138
Ай бұрын
Good am 6’0 and a half barefoot ,so I should be doing great !!
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
Well, are you doing great? ;)
@faisalsebahi3138
Ай бұрын
@@rise_of_realm indeed 😆
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
@@faisalsebahi3138 thats ma man!
@williamoverly1617
20 күн бұрын
5-8 to 5-9 is considered average height. Actors Tyrone Power, Paul Newman, Robert Redford and singer Paul McCartney were all in this range. It didn't hurt them at all.
@petercoderch589
7 күн бұрын
Women consider the ideal male height be to 25 cm taller?! That is literally 10 inches! That is 'effin nuts!
@TwistedLullabies
Ай бұрын
When you realize you can set your height to anything on dating apps and women don't even read bios, so if you put your height in your bio and it's ideal won't matter if your face isn't up to par
@redrox3312
29 күн бұрын
On a lot of sources, it says that the most attractive height difference for women is 8 inches. The average human head from the top of the head to the chin is around 8 inches long(its a very rough estimate). That basically means that the top of the woman’s head would ideally align with the man’s chin. I mean wouldn’t it be more comfortable if the height difference was smaller? That way it’s easier for their faces to meet and so the man doesn’t have to hunch over or the women doesn’t have to get on her tippy toes for them to kiss? Maybe I’m over thinking it 🤣
@KitGoldenlance-x7w
Күн бұрын
I'm 6'0.5 never seemed to have any problems 🤔
@Paul-sours
2 күн бұрын
I am 5'11" with 7" long .. I'm 35. 180 pounds. You know I'm getting it in.. plus, white 🎉
@JoeBudd-D
2 күн бұрын
Well, white isn't the thing anymore my man. The world is a melting pot now. White is just average.
@anbarnasimbihon1126
Ай бұрын
I am only 5 feet 4 🥺😢😭.
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
youre a short king, play you cards right ;)
@anbarnasimbihon1126
Ай бұрын
@@rise_of_realm I am 17, but still. Pls don't mock me🥺
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
@@anbarnasimbihon1126 youre self conscious, I was just trying to motivate you. eat well, sleep well, get moving and you got plenty of room to grow bro :)
@anbarnasimbihon1126
Ай бұрын
@@rise_of_realm I know I am out of time. I should have done it before, now it's late😓. Thanks for your suggestion and motivation.❤
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
@@anbarnasimbihon1126 bro youre giving up too soon. I think growth can happen well until 20 years old. do as I say, eat well, healthy, sleep well! and sure, anytime ma man :)
@JohnSmith-sj2dk
14 күн бұрын
I am 179 cm barefoot, I feel average at the very best. I notice the height of young Australian born women, is ~ 5 7, tbh I work with many women 5 9 and up, my grand daughter is 5 9 at least.
@dexburwell
7 күн бұрын
In American - the women I meet want guy 6’4 (193cm) or taller… need not be handsome,polite or smart….. him only have to be tall 🥴
@Mraketing
3 күн бұрын
6'4 are 195 cm
@alexthemessenger5669
9 күн бұрын
Average hight of a man is 5,9
@Walterqkz1
Ай бұрын
guess im doing well with 181 cm :D
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
you can have em all! :D
@Alex-ln9on
7 күн бұрын
Im 192
@Skylark241
Ай бұрын
Thank god I’m 5’11
@gj9157
6 күн бұрын
Yeah don't ever complain
@MandpLove-ss4xp
Ай бұрын
I'm 17. But i'm almost 180cm tall. Is this bad? 😢
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
why would that be bad. afaik growth happens until twenty, so make sure to eat and sleep well and maybe youre gonna be 183 or 185!
@bilka6043
Ай бұрын
No bro it's cool
@Alex-ln9on
7 күн бұрын
Its alright. I was 182 cm at 16. At 18 I was 188cm. Now I'm 192cm.
@blacklyfe6881
Ай бұрын
The average height for a man is 5'9 where do you get 5'11 from?
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
hey man, I was saying the average ideal height. the average height in europa is around 5 10 (178cm) and in the U.S. i think 5 9 (175 cm).
@chills5100
Ай бұрын
@@rise_of_realm also to note in dutch the average is 5'11"
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
@@chills5100 I think the findings can be applied in relation to the average height in the respective country :) so for the netherlands, the ideal height would probably be a little taller!
@KishoreKumar-zh7iu
26 күн бұрын
180 to 200 is best above 200 is giant
@blacklyfe6881
Ай бұрын
I'm 5'11 and 25.
@jaybee4288
Ай бұрын
I’m 5”4, my ideal height for a guy is between 5”11 and 6”2. The taller the better really but above that it’s a bit too awkward.
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
thanks for the comment. its interesting how your preference aligns with the preferences in the studies.
@sokar9438
Ай бұрын
Im 6”2 and a half 😘
@tomsd8656
Ай бұрын
My son is 6'1" and my daughter 5'5". She looks small next to him. For you, 5'11" is probably the max. More than that and you'd look like a shortie next to him, if we're only talking about appearance. If it's a connection of the mind then physical characteristics don't matter.
@kawazaki23
Ай бұрын
I AM SORRY but you don’t even deserve a man that is 5”11 let alone 6’2
@Lance-456
Ай бұрын
So you want a man almost a foot taller than you? The ideal height for a man your height is probably 5'7-5'9 than anything over 5'10
@szymonbaranowski8184
27 күн бұрын
taller, tallest in the room lol
@tbrown4080
22 күн бұрын
I think the ideal height is demined by the country you live in
@EvilDoer839
19 күн бұрын
its basically the same in most parts of the world even in countries where men are short compared to the world average women prefer a "tall" foreigner or someone much taller than the average there the ideal is 1.80m (5'11) for metric system users cus its a round number and 6 feet for imperial system users (which is 1.83m) cus its a round number. Its in countries that the average height is around that that the ideal varies some women would say average is fine and some will prefer a man 6'3+
@redamageff3262
8 күн бұрын
Ideal height is 6’3 to 6’6 stop the cope
@rise_of_realm
8 күн бұрын
I love that this triggered you. maybe you want to ask yourself why.
@Caribbeanfinds
16 күн бұрын
Im 191 cm in the Netherlands i feel average
@rise_of_realm
16 күн бұрын
well since the average should be around 183 cm, you might wanna work on your self image :*
@Caribbeanfinds
15 күн бұрын
@@rise_of_realm i think so too
@thebar6095
6 күн бұрын
I thought 191cm is still tall in Netherlands? Isn't the average Netherlands person around 183-185cm? Out of every 100 men, how many taller do you see than yourself?
@Caribbeanfinds
6 күн бұрын
20% of Dutch men are or taller then 190 cm while only 12% of men are or shorter then 175 cm. So yes 184 cm is the average in the netherlands for Dutch men. Im 6 cm taller then average but since taller people tend to life more in the nothern provinces like me you can say that 190 cm is pretty normal
@thebar6095
5 күн бұрын
@Caribbeanfinds Then why would you feel average. You are 3 inches above average height.
@JohnVKaravitis
Ай бұрын
Do child-w omen understand that their children will average out in height? Sons will be shorter than the fathers depending on how shorter the woman is. So, women should abort males, not females.
@dacookie5683
Ай бұрын
Utter cope analysis. Optimal 5’11? In 2024 where 90% of dating is on apps, you are not even in the game below 5’8 and heavily penalized below 6ft, Using modern data. Optimal is 6’6 and up per the data, with 30% of women saying there is no such thing as too tall. Accepting anything less like old data, stated opinions or sample sizes where the extremes are minimized like 6’4+ is coping
@FattyWalrus
Ай бұрын
Go touch some grass kiddo.
@dacookie5683
Ай бұрын
@@FattyWalrus Ironic considering this is a video on dating, aka 90% online apps but keep yapping
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
its not a video on dating. its a video on ATTRACTIVENESS. post your data / studies :)
@Dev1ls.advocate
Ай бұрын
6,6 is too tall. I would say 6,2 to 6,4 is what Is most desired
@dacookie5683
Ай бұрын
@@Dev1ls.advocate I posted my studies and either my comment was deleted by the author or never posted. The fact is that your opinion doesn't matter and the only credible data from actual women's choices like even in the bumble graph he posted says 6'6 is ideal. What men think doesn't matter and the random 1 off anecdotes women love to make 'last guy i dated was short' etc don't mean anything either
@MevlutCakici-r1q
Ай бұрын
i would say 6 4 is the perfect height anything above would be too tall
@rise_of_realm
Ай бұрын
I do believe anything above 190 might be "too tall".
@MevlutCakici-r1q
Ай бұрын
@@rise_of_realm bro teens nowadays are much taller, so if you want to feel tall without being too tall and not average 6 4- 6 5 is optimum but not too tall to get you all the negative impacts. even me being 6 1 i feel average in class look at nate jacobs as an example
@Lolopinoy123
Ай бұрын
If your 6,3 and above people already give you a second look. It is an advantage😊
@kevingomez3752
Ай бұрын
@@MevlutCakici-r1qwhere the hell do you live? I’m 5’10” and most of dudes at my school are around my height. Just a few are 6’1”+
@KentPetersonmoney
23 күн бұрын
@@MevlutCakici-r1q Probably is the tallest you can be without being freakishly tall.
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