"You'll stop worrying that someone will reject you because you'll never reject yourself." That is brilliant! Well done!!!
@Christian-tf6ol
2 жыл бұрын
Indeed I agree💯. They said that "Don't be the first person to say no to yourself"
@g.a.d6988
2 жыл бұрын
"Who do you believe in? I believe in me.. I love me"- SGP
@kevinflanagan4711
2 жыл бұрын
Love this
@Sergiuss555
Жыл бұрын
your IQ must be negative
@Faye-el1bz
8 ай бұрын
Who cares about rejection Its way more important to become youre best authentic self
@pinkyster9384
4 жыл бұрын
How to nail your interview: 1. Avoid eye contact at all costs 2. Rest your feet on the interviewers desk to assert dominance 3. Wait for 20 seconds staring at them before answering to a question 4. Walk out of the room calmly after refusing to take the job
@maxx4944
4 жыл бұрын
dont forgot to cry
@fsb4561
4 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard 😂😂😂 im dying here man
@DocPegLegRed
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@MrRiveting
4 жыл бұрын
5. Light up a cigarette indoors and smoke.
@redmondandkrista9475
4 жыл бұрын
@@MrRiveting hahahahahaha
@randomappalachian4635
4 жыл бұрын
Expectations: Don Draper Reality: Michael Scott
@captainswan3079
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@portman3950
4 жыл бұрын
a
@redduckto
4 жыл бұрын
fkn underrated..
@MicahBuzanANIMATION
4 жыл бұрын
100% accurate
@cribbie6327
4 жыл бұрын
Michael Scarn! Threat level midnight
@danfordchodokufa838
Жыл бұрын
"Believing that no matter what happens you’re going to be ok" is an incredibly liberating idea. I love this
@gabriellepundsack3308
8 ай бұрын
I always tell myself, "No one is going to kill you if (I fail/can't pay a bill/etc.).
@keremdemircan4203
5 ай бұрын
it is basically stoicism bro
@prodmarquese
3 жыл бұрын
getting detached from reality made me the most confident person ive ever known lol, the key is not caring guys, your fears controlling you, if you overcome them then your anxiety is gone.. everyone is too invested in their own life, they dont care if your hair's not that good
@Anthony-dw3jb
3 жыл бұрын
I can vouch for this. In my younger days I used to not give 2 shits what somebody would think about me if I said this or did that, I just didn't care and every conversation/interaction I had with anyone just felt good and satisfying. These days I'm clouded by social anxiety and it's hard to enjoy being out and around people because I constantly think about how the other person is going to view me but coming across this video is reconnecting me with my past philosophy of not giving 2 shits and I have to say it feels good and thats how I know not caring really works lol. Care about what matters to you, not to them, that is the key.
@prodmarquese
3 жыл бұрын
@@Anthony-dw3jb Exactly, once you have control over your fears, you'll have no limits
@dante93nero
3 жыл бұрын
@@prodmarquese Yes and no. Because even if you have no fears there is a difference in appearing confident and being arrogant. Whilist I do understand your point what someone like Don does is project confidence while not needing to be confident himself if that makes sense. There are subtle moviments you can do that swing a conversation in your favor and for someone with Don's knowledge he knows what clients want and needs.
@sarthaknagar6349
3 жыл бұрын
How do you detach from reality? Imagine you are to give a presentation in front of 100 people and you are nervous and anxious as hell, your heart is beating fast, at that situation how would you do that?
@dante93nero
3 жыл бұрын
@@sarthaknagar6349 the second you greet the audience. Right than and there you focus on what your are presenting and not on the audience itself
@db-7531
4 жыл бұрын
True confidence can only be achieved via lightning McQueen crocs
@richardjohnson7379
4 жыл бұрын
Notice: no other clothing can be worn or it won’t work
@dorian_tihi5869
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Beatiful people, I Just Started my own Channel Inspired by David and I just wanted to let you know. It might be Interesting for you and i would appreciate it if you would show some support. See you there ;)
@mrmark8603
3 жыл бұрын
A, er...friend was looking for some. Where would I, er he, get those?
@jay0071
3 жыл бұрын
Crispyyy
@isaacwebb20
3 жыл бұрын
Epic gamer moment
@arioux
3 жыл бұрын
“Would you like your receipt?” *20 second pause “no.-I-I mean yes”
@motivatoraligator6
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@undefeated3257
3 жыл бұрын
Omfg 🤣😂🤣
@moto-physique9270
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@gusd8659
3 жыл бұрын
LOL
@dendaungnualkhae5144
2 жыл бұрын
😂
@harshsunitapancholi15
2 жыл бұрын
1. Sit relaxed and a little lean back that makes people come out to you. 2. Be non-reactive, and react less at times when handling pressure. 3. Speak slowly and use pauses correctly. 4. You will be okay no matter what.
@TyroneMonte-v8k
6 ай бұрын
She broke up with me. I told her I was grateful for the good times we shared. No begging, no pleading, go and be well. Moved on. Did us both a BIG favor. 😂
@CelineCatalina98
4 жыл бұрын
"do you want fries with that?" *20 second pause* "yes"
@aptonymic3014
4 жыл бұрын
(i had to think fast)
@qambi1
4 жыл бұрын
hehehe
@cheerfulcrumb4540
4 жыл бұрын
that would be a fckn alpha move i reckon
@SageVaughn
4 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@LetsTacoBoutWine
4 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@GamerDwarfTR
3 жыл бұрын
Watched this with my dog Now he’s giving speeches about confidence.
@SebAnders
3 жыл бұрын
You could say he's now... Top Dog.
@brodemfamalam7178
3 жыл бұрын
Guess you could call him a dawg now
@3zooz17
3 жыл бұрын
@@brodemfamalam7178 guess you can call him snoop dog😂😂😂😂
@anasubia4346
3 жыл бұрын
😬
@BlackDiamond2718
3 жыл бұрын
Second in command to snowball
@SeanLunny
5 жыл бұрын
Believing that no matter what happens you’re going to be fine anyway is always a great mindset to have
@mohammedbedewy9102
5 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! You made my day sir !!
@YodaSama0
5 жыл бұрын
Sean Lunny that’s could be true but could also be really bad
@lorenzejay3296
5 жыл бұрын
I tell myself this everyday and I genuinely believe everything will workout
@clubstep8244
5 жыл бұрын
To help yourself feel fine even in heated situations: "zoom out" a bit and imagine all the life that happens around you and realize how little you mean in all that, there is nothing that's going to hurt you
@alcatraz2627
5 жыл бұрын
Alan watts explained that quite well, " you must understand we come out of this World, not into it. Therefore we are part of the natural World like the animals, the trees and the waves of the ocean and the clouds. Now have have you ever seen a cloud that was too big or too small? Have you ever seen a cloud move in the wrong direction? The same goes for humans, in zen practice you are thought to regard yourself as a cloud moveing along in the skies..."
@OMGSHEENA
3 жыл бұрын
Realizing that no matter what happens, I'll be okay, is exactly how I survived my childhood. I used to stress so much then after so many dramatic plot twists, I realized if I survived all that, I will survive whatever else comes my way and that's when I stopped stressing as much. I hadn't really connected it with confidence before but I can see the connection now. Interesting. 🤔
@bbx7739
3 жыл бұрын
Same here. I am the only one who is not afraid to speak up, regardless of their position. After you collect your guts to stand up to your parents, you have no fear standing up to anyone :)
@pastelteaaniiii
2 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@bernhardsonn7758
2 жыл бұрын
Uf
@fredricmontana5420
2 жыл бұрын
In the end, most people wont survive. 🙂
@lyrebird9749
Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear what happened to you. But have faith in yourself, you are strong and capable. You have survived. You will survive. Peace.
@mihaiioantabacaru7758
3 жыл бұрын
"My name is Don" what a great pickup line, I'll definitely use it!
@dogguyful
3 жыл бұрын
My name is Bond, James Bond
@petezah4597
3 жыл бұрын
@@dogguyful my name is Don, Don Don
@dogguyful
3 жыл бұрын
@@petezah4597 Hahaha 😂
@tinockovietea2470
3 жыл бұрын
Don Dada on the down low
@MundoGamesDo
3 жыл бұрын
@@petezah4597 Tava aqui no baile escutando aquele som
@briandtnguyen
Жыл бұрын
As a practicing attorney, I often remind myself to pause while speaking with a judge or a jury. It creates suspense. But more importantly, it actually allows me to hear my own thoughts and feel my feelings. Pausing also gives the other person time to process everything I just said. I would add that confidence is a two-way street. I find that if I practice active listening when I speak with people and really make space for them, they open up and we then mutually instill confidence in one another. Confidence doesn’t always have to be a competition.
@mosesrichard394
9 ай бұрын
i m in Law school.. i will start practicing your way
@AmyKwon-q2y
6 ай бұрын
Amazing advice
@roman8197
4 ай бұрын
you're an attorney shut up
@Kerrviii
Ай бұрын
I’m an accountant and I do this when I need to process information. It’s not an act. I need to pause to think about how to consult and problem solve. Confidence comes from faith that things will work out fine. Every problem can be solved. I love the idea of slowing down to think.
@EllaRingrose
4 жыл бұрын
With Confidence it is also to remind yourself that everyone is going through things, everyone is up in their own heads worrying about themselves. Once you realise this it is so easy to walk around with ease and assured in who you are. Everyone is human. With any scenario that scares you, ask yourself the simple question ‘What is the worst outcome that can happen from this situation’, usually it isn’t half as bad as we make it out to be! Fear is False Evidence Appearing Real. Challenge yourself everyday and you will step into a Confident Person. All the love and incredible video, Thank you x
@fibonaccisrazor
3 жыл бұрын
That was everything in a nutshell - spot on, I think.
@dorian_tihi5869
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Beatiful people, I Just Started my own Channel Inspired by David and I just wanted to let you know. It might be Interesting for you and i would appreciate it if you would show some support. See you there ;)
@zig8925
2 жыл бұрын
It's about balancing when to be open and when not to be. You don't want to be telling the wrong people your weak points, but you also don't want to be a bottle that looks perfect but shatters after some time, because of the pressure it's holding. Recently I've not been balancing it properly. I've been too focused on saying the perfect thing. I've not been patient, I've been wanting instant confidence. This is cause I want to feel the same confidence I did in the past.
@alexd0103
5 жыл бұрын
How to be confident Step 1: steal someone else’s personality and life
@reyjoson7895
5 жыл бұрын
Alex Step1: migrate Step 2: steal someone else’s personality and life
@matttheamerican3766
5 жыл бұрын
Not funny. Dudes actually do this crap
@CaliburovX4
5 жыл бұрын
Rey Joson Step three: Profit.
@bobbye7353
5 жыл бұрын
He isn't talking about his personality at all. This is all about behavior. How mature successful men behave.
@tcnotrvlr
5 жыл бұрын
stealing someone else's personality and life? Wack! You'll end up like Edward Norton's character at the end of The Italian Job movie from 2003- A no originality, unconfident, LOSER that can't decide who they Actually are.
@VinnySmiles01
4 жыл бұрын
Let’s be real here, most of Don’s confidence comes from the fact that he drinks so much. Drunk people are just more confident no matter what.
@seconds-js7pf
4 жыл бұрын
Because they arent constantly worrying about consequences and living in the moment
@robertbelyea5767
4 жыл бұрын
Yep. No matter what there's always a drink to cure what ails ya.
@Yjkishke
4 жыл бұрын
If only it were that easy
@bighands69
4 жыл бұрын
Don is not confident because he drinks. That is just pure nonsense. He is confident because he does not actually care about most of the things that shape other people. He does not care about money in the way other people does, he does not care what others think and above all he is willing to just try. Everybody knows a Don Draper. That does not mean he is a good person morality is something different.
@lf2208
4 жыл бұрын
Don Draper's confidence comes from the fact that he is a character in a TV show, and he is only written into scenes where he is, and can be, confident.
@qualityquotes229
2 жыл бұрын
“It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.” ― Lou Holtz
@TyroneMonte-v8k
6 ай бұрын
❤😊
@JavanRobertsMagee
4 жыл бұрын
you gotta hit rock bottom first before truly being confident
@ASJacob
4 жыл бұрын
Been there, I wish that on everyone who wants to become their greatest self! The darker the weather, the better the man!
@shakaabs7102
4 жыл бұрын
Sh.sudaysi.quraan.baqara.
@cecee3480
4 жыл бұрын
Hitting rock bottom doesn't make you confident it makes you ruthless.
@kkibela
4 жыл бұрын
That whole.. Im going to be fine is what really does it.. And the no ducks given that comes out of rock bottom is what makes people relentlessly unegotistically authentic in every interaction..and relaxed biddy language.. That's confidence.. And it's unique to everyone.. Best to find your own rather than copy anyone partly.. Just comes off as creepy and untrustworthy.
@owennbeats
4 жыл бұрын
how do I hit rock bottom
@ns3938
4 жыл бұрын
Being brought up in a loving and supportive environment and being physically attractive are the most important contributors to confidence.
@njhd9923
4 жыл бұрын
What if I told u that even with those 2 things u could still not be confident 🤔
@dhiadridi4062
4 жыл бұрын
Definitely wrong answer
@dorian_tihi5869
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Beatiful people, I Just Started my own Channel Inspired by David and I just wanted to let you know. It might be Interesting for you and i would appreciate it if you would show some support. See you there ;)
@nerdalert6578
2 жыл бұрын
We need this curriculum in today's schools & make it mandatory for all students unfortunately this is something schools never teach us & as a 25 Yr old I can vouch for all adults when I say your degrees, grades & education doesn't matter if you're not able to express yourself. Until you're confident in you own skin you can never be successful.Period..!
@tanishmishra9152
4 жыл бұрын
The only reason he drapes his hand over the adjacent chair so often is because his name is Don Draper and I cannot be convinced otherwise
@stevekemp7091
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 best comment ever on any video in the world
@TheDoomer666
3 жыл бұрын
ah man, English joke, I don't get it
@stevekemp7091
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheDoomer666 you speak very good England sir
@darksunrise37
3 жыл бұрын
nooo dons drapes his hand because hes confident broo he feels comfortable with himself and his environment brooo you gotta hear me out bro it’s nota cuz his last names draper brooooooo
@mochalatte8878
3 жыл бұрын
@@darksunrise37 it’s a joke-
@osse1n
5 жыл бұрын
Internal confidence can also be called *SELF-ESTEEM* - Ultimately, it boils down to mastering your own psychology and understanding that you have unlimited powers
@Bennevisie
5 жыл бұрын
Don Draper had self esteem? You sure?
@Infinite_exhilaration
5 жыл бұрын
VariableVision Absolutely! confidence isn’t something someone always radiates, it fluctuates, not everyone always feel amazing every second of every day, Don Draper definitely has had confidence at some point in his life, and may be feeling that exact way right now, it’s something you cultivate that takes time, so your answer is a bit obvious, sometimes you feel confident, sometimes not, everyone has had confidence at one point in their life
@lukaseckart8583
5 жыл бұрын
If ones self-esteem is based on the believe that one has unlimited powers, one will at some point fail and then be forced to question it. This is far from mastering ones psychology I guess... Knowing ones limits, being confident about the potentual one has and honest about all of it seems like self-esteem that is way more natural. Just my thougt on it tho..
@Bennevisie
5 жыл бұрын
@@Infinite_exhilaration Don Draper definitely had confidence. But I would argue his self destructive behaviour (alcoholism, serial cheating on his wife, constant lying) is rather a sign of lack of self esteem. One should not confuse self esteem with confidence. One runs much deeper and the other is more superficial and ego-centric.
@Infinite_exhilaration
5 жыл бұрын
VariableVision I’m a contradiction because I agree and disagree with you. You should never mix self esteem with confidence, however... people’s behavior, it changes over time, take Robert Downey Jr by example, his life was going essentially nowhere, and he made a decision to completely change the course of his life, and arguably kick started the MCU. Now... I’m not talking that big of a change, but he could of been known for binge drinking 4 months ago, and has that stigma, but 3 weeks ago, without us knowing, he made the decision to stop drinking, or drink less and less, so... it’s very difficult in my opinion to judge someone on their past behavior when change is just one decision away, and your argument may be people don’t change, and it’s a possibility like most people they are basing that statement from their own personal experience. Today he could of made a decision to change everything around. The truth is we don’t know. It’s the same as having a best friend always hung out in Highschool, you graduated, moved to a different state, visited him 3 years later, you can be a completely different person, so much so he doesn’t even recognize you
@hymansahak181
Жыл бұрын
Besides what is going on under your own roof and that of your loved ones, treat life as a game and everything will be all right. That includes the position that everything will be okay no matter what. If you implement this concept, you will never get nervous, anxious, fidgety. You will be in control of yourself and the situation you are in and you won’t be afraid to put people in their place (nicely or not sometimes) when they get out of line. The world will be your oyster and the world will get out of your way of making things happen.
@bimwapshimmiesham8068
4 жыл бұрын
This is what I’ve been saying for years. Once you fall into that mindset of everything is NOT going to be ok, you literally become this. Thank you... finally someone understands what I’ve been saying.
@davidharler9149
3 жыл бұрын
also gotta say, the 4th tip really hits home. Specifically, love the line "...and you may begin to even look forward to the situations that stressed you out"
@willy4129
2 жыл бұрын
Today, in hopes of attracting attention from my crush, I made several jokes in class and everyone laughed including the teacher! Thanks for giving me confidence. I'm still getting there...
@nathanthenewbie8325
2 жыл бұрын
Proud of you bro and dont be afraid to get rejected
@iampaulwadsworth
5 жыл бұрын
Building self-confidence will change your life. Have an amazing day.
@stevenorfolk7008
5 жыл бұрын
100% truth
@wgaule
5 жыл бұрын
You can't change your life, it only happens once.
@TheAbrahamHD
5 жыл бұрын
No, YOU have an amazing day.
@wgaule
5 жыл бұрын
@@TheAbrahamHD Shut up dummy!
@Elias___
5 жыл бұрын
No
@freddelarsson4434
5 жыл бұрын
Taking pauses in between answering questions and making statements, then making eye contact is a hell of a powerful thing I learned. A must read is The Alabaster Girl.
@dahman9089
5 жыл бұрын
I did that 4 or 6 times and yeh It's something powerful even it gives you NRJ and thoughts to add later in your conversations
@hamschh
5 жыл бұрын
Jon Hamm lit someone on fire in college at a frat house
@TexasJack78
3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is a feeling, it's an emotion, it's thought. It's always internal. "External confidence" as you put it, that is by definition a facade.
@vincentmutel7313
2 жыл бұрын
Or maybe a projection of internal confidence ?
@RL-fr4hf
2 жыл бұрын
fake it till you make it applies. If you act confident then eventually you will become confident, as long as it's for the right reasons.
@realtorrasheeddubai
7 ай бұрын
Every day is another chance to get stronger, to eat better, to live healthier, and to be the best version of you. Grant C
@chelugo9928
4 жыл бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="144">2:24</a> Don: My name is Don Girl: inserts tongue in mouth
@Philip-b9r
4 жыл бұрын
thats how you do it
@kenburns4547
4 жыл бұрын
That's what fiction is FOR, so people can see what they CAN'T HAVE IN REAL LIFE.
@Cyber_Kriss
4 жыл бұрын
@@kenburns4547 Fiction ? Happened to me twice !
@Bostonite1985
4 жыл бұрын
No she didn't. She exhaled her cigarette smoke into his mouth. Watch that scene where he says "My name is Don." She does not exhale the smoke, but goes straight for his mouth. She is a femme fatale. It is written all over her face. Don is a sucker.
@Philip-b9r
4 жыл бұрын
@@Bostonite1985 she's sharing lung cancer
@Randommmmm204
3 жыл бұрын
I was struggling with social anxiety for a while. I went to therapy, got it fixed, and now I've been doing these things without even knowing the "theory" behind it. It just came naturally. Old friends of mine say I'm a completely different person. And I can see it. It's really strange.
@nykhilsandhu
3 жыл бұрын
what did u do to get over your anxiety, may i ask?
@Randommmmm204
3 жыл бұрын
@@nykhilsandhu Medication, therapy and someone who was very close to me. That last one was the most important part.
@nykhilsandhu
3 жыл бұрын
@@Randommmmm204 thanks mate, got any tips that I can implement now?
@Randommmmm204
3 жыл бұрын
@@nykhilsandhu Honestly, fake it till you make it. Act confident even though you aren't and eventually the confidence will come to you. Also, I think a good exercise for conversation is talking to strangers online. Just talk with them. Your anxiety will basically disappear because of the anonymity. That depends on the seed of your anxiety too though. Listen, I'm not an expert. I highly suggest going to a therapist. But you have to talk freely. Don't hold anything back. And the therapist isn't there to fix your problems, he/she's there to walk you through all of this. Make you realize what's wrong with you, where it started and give you tips on how to change yourself to be better.
@nykhilsandhu
3 жыл бұрын
@@Randommmmm204 thank you so much mate, really appreciate your help :)
@intrakitproductions
2 жыл бұрын
True confidence it's just being yourself in any situation and speaking your mind when needed
@chloer5065
3 жыл бұрын
There’s a reason alcohol is called liquid courage.
@RatedxDmnd
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 spot on
@Greg-nq4dj
3 жыл бұрын
Yes sir that's old time medicine right there ain't no stress balls ordered from the therapist at two sessions a week but hey whatever works for you that's what counts no matter what era your from
@Greg-nq4dj
3 жыл бұрын
One drink ain't enough Jack you better make it three
@neopabo
3 жыл бұрын
Fixing problems builds your personality. Alcohol destroys it.
@spikeybug1
3 жыл бұрын
It's also called liquid jackass
@endlessdrive8421
4 жыл бұрын
This is the only self-improvement channel which I genuinely feel like I'm being provided real value...not just some fake advice to start buying into a cult following like so many other self-help channels. Been following this channel since way before 1 mil subs and I'm really happy to see how much this channel has grown.
@felixkemp3719
2 жыл бұрын
Watch some of Alex Becker's videos trust
@LifestyleofBeauty
2 жыл бұрын
Learning how to control emotion under pressure is a priceless life skill not only for confidence!! 💖💖
@footduck6681
5 жыл бұрын
I am confident when I go to quiz without studying, knowing that it's just a day that would pass and be forgotten
@exp3905
5 жыл бұрын
no it is not...
@shadoa8154
5 жыл бұрын
That's why post secondary education is important. You can go into a test not knowing what the hell it's about, fail, and it has no impact on anyone but yourself.
@tmanfit
5 жыл бұрын
This video was so powerful, I'm going to save it and come back to it anytime I feel unconfident. There shouldn't be a reason not to feel confident.
@empirestobuild
Жыл бұрын
Good points raised but remember that this is a trained, professional actor, not naturally as shown in the movies. To be this type of confident takes a great deal more than just trying, doing or acting, but becoming that character in every way. Keep that in mind when trying, faking, doing or acting a part in front of others when such a character isn't your own natural self in everyday normal life.
@genxx2724
Жыл бұрын
Jon Hamm is a great actor. I saw him cooking on a talk show. He doesn’t walk, move, or gesture like Don Draper at all! He’s a totally different type.
@awakentruth1116
Жыл бұрын
I have theory about actors... not all, but some. They get so good at becoming (acting) another person they may be tempted to identify as that character in real life. And they get so good at the character that they lose themselves... sometimes intentionally. This could cause much anxiety and suffering. I'm sure we'll never really know but it might explain why in spite of fame and fortune some are secretly very unhappy people
@empirestobuild
Жыл бұрын
@@awakentruth1116 ...that's a very good point.
@AscendedMasculine
5 жыл бұрын
*EVERYONE* was waiting for this one! 1. His relaxed body language 2. Don is non-reactive. 3. He doesn’t try to convince other people. 4. The belief that he will be okay, no matter what.
@Matt-cl4mp
5 жыл бұрын
I was manspreading on the bus to act more confident and I ended up getting slapped again.
@adrienne2838
5 жыл бұрын
That’s so selfish, how dare you not leave space for the people next to you, you don’t own the bus man
@jauntyangle5667
5 жыл бұрын
Zip up your flies next time.
@erravi
5 жыл бұрын
Manspreading? You mean having balls?
@bingbongabinga2954
5 жыл бұрын
Alphas don't offend a women's mating instincts. Beta's are percieved as falsely advertising when manspreading.
@JimmyLeeJr
5 жыл бұрын
Weren't manspreading enough
@foxhound4911
2 жыл бұрын
I've closed deals for $30,000 in the first semester selling software. I am a newb in sales talk but as I soon I take risk of trying and improving in communication I've learned and be confident to the product that I'm selling, all the embarrassment and mistakes is worth it I've learned new things in life.
@subtletherapy
4 жыл бұрын
No one actually acts like that in real life, and if they did, they’d be laughed at. People’s problem is that they don’t realize that life is nothing like “movies” Everyone’s so fake, everyone’s playing a character, imitating and repeating something they saw somewhere. Be confident in your authenticity, stop trying so hard, everyone can see through it, and the fact you don’t realize that is why you fail to garner respect from the people that matter.
@ananthucs8210
4 жыл бұрын
we can all learn a thing or two ...evrybdy knows its impossible and will be weird in real life , but some aspects can be learned or tweaked to suit each ones style
@denverdean2663
4 жыл бұрын
That's the word right there, AUTHENTICITY.
@chuck1804
3 жыл бұрын
The truth is somewhere inbetween. The reason it works in movies is because the tone is fixed, and all the characters are interacting within a fixed dynamic. BUT you can set (or reset) the tone of a conversation, or the mood in a room, if you know how to read it and respond *within* it's contextual limits. If you're "authentically" jumpy and nervous, you'll create a jumpy and nervous dynamic. Get 2 or 3 people to follow suit, and you've created a jumpy and nervous culture. The same is true in reverse. In other words, write your own movie.
@frostyscumbag106
3 жыл бұрын
u not a great one u wouldn't get it lol it's not about being a character, it's being who you are to the fullest extent. Great characters are made from and image of great people, not vice versa. you got it twisted lol
@sophiahsu2790
3 жыл бұрын
fake it til you make it 😵😏
@TheCulturalBomb
5 жыл бұрын
Only finished Mad Men last week, Don Draper/Jon Hamm is definitely one of those men you wish you were.
@Steel0079
5 жыл бұрын
I'm about to end season 4 soon. Had to stop at 7:31 because I felt like spoilers were about to start. Its a great show. This coincidence...
@HaHaHaLMFAOtv
5 жыл бұрын
It’s kinda funny because the whole point is that even he isn’t Don Draper...
@Steel0079
5 жыл бұрын
@@HaHaHaLMFAOtv I guess it doesn't matter. Because we are analysing his personality, and his personality is impressive in my opinion.
@TheCulturalBomb
5 жыл бұрын
@Buttrape Bill are you missing the Jon Hamm bit in my comment? Jesus Christ.
@gptiede
5 жыл бұрын
@Buttrape Bill Yeah, but aside from all that, he is really cool. ;)
@goshahello1500
Жыл бұрын
I watched this video a few years back and I forgot that after I applied the steps it completely changed how everyone around me viewed me seemingly overnight props to this channel
@Apokalypseplease
3 жыл бұрын
You reach true confidence by letting everything go.
@Hisherly
3 жыл бұрын
I can't do that 😢
@anasubia4346
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah ❤
@keked9231
3 жыл бұрын
@@Hisherly u CAN DO IT
@tinockovietea2470
3 жыл бұрын
Be like Buddha
@KAIZENURAMESHI
2 жыл бұрын
@@tinockovietea2470 Jesus
@judegnelson
5 жыл бұрын
Been watching the show and I wrote down one of my favorite quotes from him “Our worst fears lie in anticipation”
@flouannlei
5 жыл бұрын
Anticipation has the habit to set you up
@nigeljames4368
5 жыл бұрын
You've been set up by this 11 minute ad
@2adamast
5 жыл бұрын
Fears, Lies and Anticipation are the two chief weapons of the inquisition ... Our three chief weapons are ...
@hamschh
5 жыл бұрын
You should write down the quotes that Jon Hamm made when they asked him about the time he lit someone on fire in college for a Fraternity initiation.
@meliapo1367
4 жыл бұрын
A masterpiece . The “tips” i got for advertising for my business are endless.
@philnightjar1971
3 жыл бұрын
How to be confident in any situation: Don’t be broke.
@arfanzufar5148
3 жыл бұрын
Good looking is number 1
@hwdareu5848
3 жыл бұрын
@@arfanzufar5148 Money is number one, I've seen ugly rich f*boys with things most attractive men couldn't have
@mrdjr6544
3 жыл бұрын
Haha not so.
@janooniani5754
3 жыл бұрын
იასნია
@patious7779
3 жыл бұрын
If a meeting goes badly...I walk away knowing that I'm going to be at my next opportunity soon enough. Putting too much importance on any sale is a mistake. The game is "Volume of Opportunity."
@sehmeem
4 жыл бұрын
How to be confident: 1. Relaxed body language, moving freely around -standing shoulder width apart -relaxing arm on a the top of a chair -subconciously signaling others have to work for your attention -selective eye contact(situation, person) 2. Being non-reactive -being silent under pressure helps you to think the situation 3. Not trying to convince other people -frame yourself as a equal partner -willing to get rid potraying yourself confident 4. Believing I will be ok -doing things you wouldn't be okay (stepping out of comfort zone) - telling the truth even it gets you lose something - stop worrying someone else will reject because you will never reject yourself
@ShunyataShalendra
Ай бұрын
I'm quite comfortable with myself and I'm not really bothered by others. I do these naturally.
@kpnvignesh8943
3 жыл бұрын
When you grind hard , confidence comes within!
@westonmook7280
3 жыл бұрын
I almost cryed at the group circle scene. Even though I've never watched that movie you made me empethize with the main character and actually feel what he felt. Amazing story telling
@deekay6474
2 жыл бұрын
Also have never seen the movie, but that short fragment with him crying is really well put together, almost shed a tear myself.. masterful
@aydenprojain45
3 жыл бұрын
“You stop worrying that someone else will reject you when you know you will never reject yourself”
@Lalahotwater
Жыл бұрын
When you keep your word to your self you gain the mindset of knowing and trusting yourself to act /“react” as necessary in any situation, bc your body and intuition go based on how you carry yourself, and then life is more intriguing bc your body trusts your mind and vise versa so you just “do it”
@8forty754
5 жыл бұрын
Here's a study guide: 1) relaxed body language; spread yourself out; move freely around 2) people have to work for my attention; selective eye contact; piercing eye contact when earned 3) be non-reactive; pause and choose best possible options 4) don't try to convince other people; treat others as your equal; be willing to walk away, calmly 5) BELIEVE that no matter what happens, everything will turn out fine
@Apudurangdinya
5 жыл бұрын
Last time i tried to sit relaxed and a shoe flies hit my head followed by my dad voice "watch your manner boi"
@dhaoracle
4 ай бұрын
This is by far the best in the series cause it doesn't look to change anyone just tell them to own it
@mike_abramyan
5 жыл бұрын
Dude. Mad men is one of my favorite shows. Love that you did this analysis with Don.
@tree2414
6 ай бұрын
1, Be relaxed 2. Selective eye contact 3. Don't fidget or react 4. Stay silent under pressure and let yourself take time to respond - time feels faster when you're stressed 5. Share your interest but walk away if it is not reciprocated 6. Believe that no matter what you do (socially), you will be okay (internal confidence)
@jacobodom8401
5 жыл бұрын
Low reactivity is called Stoicism - which is a very old philosophy that still rings true today
@mastyer0fReality
4 жыл бұрын
Being non reactive is one of the best things I've learned. I never react. I just be.
@Vipersrule
4 жыл бұрын
@@mastyer0fReality I discovered this after my first read-through of The Upanishads. Something finally clicked and I stopped viewing the world and my experience through a lens of emotion and learned to accept all situations for what they are.
@aptonymic3014
4 жыл бұрын
@@mastyer0fReality do you BE reactive?
@marwanchabili8203
5 жыл бұрын
when it comes to self confidence I think harvey specter would be a perfect example
@bjorgerla2434
5 жыл бұрын
Tip #2 : Be non-reactive Person : *your mom’s dead* “Well that might not be the best thing”
@livewireOrourke
5 жыл бұрын
lmao
@life-destroyerofworlds7036
5 жыл бұрын
@@livewireOrourke jocko willink: GOOD
@xanthippus9079
5 жыл бұрын
Camus nailed this one.
@tobiasbengtsson2112
5 жыл бұрын
Björg Erla “I knew this was coming, does BLANK know? I want to console Blank.”
@bambostarla6259
5 жыл бұрын
Omfg I said something like that a week ago when my grandma died
@galactusholmes
3 жыл бұрын
This video... I’ve seen quite a few of yours. This one really hit home for me and confidence felt and projected has not been an issue for me for decades. Well done
@wearedying
3 жыл бұрын
This is the first video on this channel I've seen. I just hope I don't forget to implement the tips!
@kev3d
5 жыл бұрын
It helps when you have a team of writers, a director, makeup, special lighting, and retakes.
@Jay-og4yb
5 жыл бұрын
I'm sure it does buddy. But in the end that sounds like an excuse. An excuse that's easy to make and that I want to make. But you know what? Excuses are only gonna hurt us. I'm done living through excuses. Join me
@enloveyduvey001
5 жыл бұрын
Fact
@lolomgmetobavi
5 жыл бұрын
@pim nas Why is it ridiculous? Some things haven't changed since the 60s and you can do some things even without being super handsome and having an expensive suit.
@hotsphone
5 жыл бұрын
That's not the point. Don Draper is a perfect example *because* he's a character in a show. He is able to be more charismatic than a normal person would, so he's perfect for study.
@hydrolito
5 жыл бұрын
So actors just pretend they are important people or somethings unimportant people, your victim number 3 that is on scene for less than 2 seconds almost getting run over by a car. Director: Car didn't come close enough we got to do a retake, is that really a way to live maybe being a stuntman isn't so great
@paris8094
5 жыл бұрын
“like him or hate him, he’s speakin straight facts😔”
@MrCapzz
2 жыл бұрын
Just be yourself. Be true to yourself and true to others. The most happy and confident people I met lives the most humble life in the villages of India. They may not have a fancy job, education or any lucrative career but they are content with themselves.
@p_9220
4 жыл бұрын
I sat asymmetrically and my boss fired me. Thank you for the video.
@huberdahum2683
3 жыл бұрын
😭😂🤣🤣🤣😁
@lincbond442
5 жыл бұрын
It's been several years since I've watched Mad Men. I think I'm due for a weekend binge.
@manessuarezserantes9269
2 жыл бұрын
The best part pf all pf this is that he is an actor and is doing all of this cause of studying people like this, what a performance
@KlassenExercise
5 жыл бұрын
>Selective eye contact. >Pause before speaking more often. Interesting points!
@georgedunn320
3 жыл бұрын
I never heard of this Draper character, but I definitely agree with that 30% figure. We do rush our own responses in fear that too much of a pause will lose our audience, but when we're the audience, we're never that demanding of the speaker.
@macmaczee3485
3 жыл бұрын
i feel ilke my voice is deep af whenever i hear this dude
@omareldaouk1377
5 жыл бұрын
Please analyze Ragnar Lothbrok from Vikings , easily the most charismatic yet calm character in any series
@luvslogistics1725
5 жыл бұрын
Omar El Daouk Ragnar was always the smartest man in the room and thus he felt secure, as visionaries often are. He was a thinker among barbarians and saw value in others and was ahead a few steps.
@ssjliano9971
2 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how simple stuff like this is but the way we were programmed growing up made shot like this never go through my head
@KSJpeep
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I really needed this, I was just rejected and was so scared to go to school because I knew that people would confront me about it but again thank you so much!
@jack-ls3rs
3 жыл бұрын
You have to pay price to action. You have to sacrifice something to get something.
@cxaservices8376
3 жыл бұрын
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@jack-ls3rs
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds good because I'm already thinking of going Into crypto currency investment soon, heard is really profitable with investors now .
@cxaservices8376
3 жыл бұрын
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@lonutifrim2750
3 жыл бұрын
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3 жыл бұрын
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@Sempiternal.Traditions
5 жыл бұрын
I am aspergers. I appreciate these videos much. Thank you.
@dominikforstner1351
5 жыл бұрын
Check your sources. Behaviour like Don's is only for the boss. Being too comfortable around superiours shows disrespect. Using body language that says"me has biiig territory" will infuriate superiors and alienate business partners. It is only benficial for you to get women or to discourage adversaries.
@johnpen269
5 жыл бұрын
Can't believe i just willingly watched 11min long ad
@BroccoliCult
5 жыл бұрын
hahahaha
@youtubesuckss7058
5 жыл бұрын
Depressing
@ci5kooKID
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah that man soap commercial got me like that.
@TheReservoirdog96
5 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@stevethompson8504
2 ай бұрын
Empowerment and confidence comes from knowing yourself ,for the bad and the good and understanding that you are in charge of what you take from these.
@gabedallas4833
5 ай бұрын
One time I spoke with my deep tough guy voice, and all the bad guys ran off.
@TJ-oo5mx
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for these videos man! I've been showing them to my new Area 51 alien friends
@malikprince2356
5 жыл бұрын
😁😁😁😁😁😁
@khanfauji7
Жыл бұрын
I joined an executive meeting on video one time. And you could tell the most senior person in the room cause they were the most spread out. And the most senior was so relaxed that he looked like he was uncomfortably slouching down in his chair to a point it looked unprofessional. So much posturing in the corporate world. We’re still all animals an the end of the day.
@gastavalvin3408
3 жыл бұрын
I want to wake one morning and find out that my portfolio is $500,000. I know it’s possible.
@brandonturk9796
3 жыл бұрын
This is really depending on your investment curve, just invest wisely
@johnjames3491
3 жыл бұрын
Plan your investment with good portfolio manager and I can assure you that in few months your account will be more than your dream.
@Scott-melker
3 жыл бұрын
Do you know anyone that can help? I’d really appreciate if you can share your broker contact info?
@gastavalvin3408
3 жыл бұрын
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@JuliaJulia-eb6xn
3 жыл бұрын
I really don’t understand how all this work but I invested with Mr David Harrison , a top notched forex trader that gives me profits every week or should I call it 7 days
@partapvirk9837
3 жыл бұрын
My heartbeat start beating fast when i even have to say a word “Hi” Dead
@carpelibrum7543
5 жыл бұрын
It would be interesting to see Aubrey Plaza's charisma breakdown in one of your next videos.
@samheedy
2 жыл бұрын
I have a feeling KZitem will recommend my channel as a recommended video after this🤓
@liaf3125
5 жыл бұрын
Tried doing it this week and my mom smacked me… At least I got her attention 🤣
@Brandon-og3vn
5 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@danielbentley6000
5 жыл бұрын
If u a dude get out of the house away from mom
@nawal10
5 жыл бұрын
_mulberrymure_ 😂😂😂
@theogghost9872
5 жыл бұрын
you dont do it to your family only people you just meet..
@liaf3125
5 жыл бұрын
TheOgGhost The guy said “How mastering each level can take you from being nervous to completely confident in any situation”. So it’s not just for meeting new people, it’s for any given situation.
@emans5335
5 жыл бұрын
Would anyone else love to see a Tommy Shelby analysis from Peaky Blinders? Hes self-assuredness is amazing lol
@ozielreyes2777
5 жыл бұрын
Eman S is that show any good?
@emans5335
5 жыл бұрын
In my opinion it's a very entertaining show, especially if you enjoy gangsta/mafia content
@Shree_Vijaya
Жыл бұрын
Every failure and rejections is a lesson. Instead of suffering reflect and learn from it
@DarthDapor
2 жыл бұрын
Recently, I was accused of a crime I did not commit and arrested. Now, months later, Iam out of custody, and drowning in court drama and stress of having to defend my story of events. I realized the same thing this video points out: No matter what, I will be okay when this is all over. I may not get everything back that I want, but in the end there are two possible outcomes of my case. I could be convicted, but that doesn't matter, because I will be a better person afterwards. I could and hope to be aquitted, and that doesn't matter either, because I will still make myself a better person afterwards. The situation and the result do not matter. The only thing that ever matters is the belief that you're going to bounce back from it.
@domadordepollosmm
5 жыл бұрын
I think what we consider charisma in this video is dangerously close to toxic masculinity and the feeling of being untouchable, emotionally unreachable and hard
@matttheamerican3766
5 жыл бұрын
Martin Menendez that’s how battles are won brother
@tonygaertner8863
5 жыл бұрын
Lmao toxic masculinity isn’t a real term. It’s made up sjw crap
@peterpenta4440
5 жыл бұрын
somebody attended gender studies
@headbash216
2 жыл бұрын
Look at social situations as an opportunity to show yourself and others how much you love yourself and the world. Be Honest, happy, aloof and care free. You've got nothing to prove.
@trickydicky2594
4 жыл бұрын
"My name is Don" Instantly seduces
@adipsous
3 жыл бұрын
Somehow, when he says that, he's also subliminally saying, "and I'm the man (you've been hoping for)"
@honkytonk4465
3 жыл бұрын
What happened to your face?
@num1Jaysta
3 жыл бұрын
@@honkytonk4465 That's a Richard Nixon mask
@Lazywesley
22 күн бұрын
Damn, ive just started smoking weed and i learned this through weed's self introspection and im finally happy to come across such a video
@bigshotmeshach
5 жыл бұрын
Similar to Harvey in Suits.
@orang375
2 жыл бұрын
Judging by the likes on this video it looks like I won't be getting much eye contact from strangers for a while
@youreale
5 жыл бұрын
How to be confident in any situation: having a LOT of money in your bank account.
@Chernobog958
4 жыл бұрын
Not really. Graham Stephan explained how he was a millionaire and still had no confidence. If all your confidence comes from money then it's easy to take it all away. Real confidence comes from within.
@SophiaAphrodite
4 жыл бұрын
Tell that to Donald Trump. One of the most insecure people in existence
@bitfragment
4 жыл бұрын
You'd believe that will help and whilst it might be true, it's not the kind of confidence you'd expect it to be. If you are a shy, non-confident guy, having lots of money is not going to magically make you confident and out-going.
@KalemStLouis
4 жыл бұрын
Sophia Bogard lol what? I don’t think anyone who got to become president was not confident. He’s one of the most powerful people in the world, I’m sure he’s not insecure.
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