Right .. act like yourself. Different men like different things. The right one will like you for who you are
@joshuasullivan6046
5 жыл бұрын
Not changing who you truly are can definitely be a good thing, but on the flip side, not changing who you are could also be the main reason a lot of people are single, and then they blame everyone else for not wanting them instead of changing the negative traits that "make them who they are"
@Phat_336
5 жыл бұрын
Agree!!!
@mariama9338
5 жыл бұрын
Howania Thompson that was words of wisdom
@yandia77
3 жыл бұрын
Amen🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@CommanderXevon
5 жыл бұрын
If you try to be something for everybody you're gonna be nothing for yourself. I love that
@christinaroseth5485
5 жыл бұрын
also for the one who likes you for you.
@tiaj7819
5 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭 how is his show cancelled...so much good advice...miss you uncle Steve.
@PamelaGrace31
5 жыл бұрын
Saintia J that’s what I’m saying😩
@shuhmeer
5 жыл бұрын
Ikr just for Kelly Clarkson
@erikaharrison4558
5 жыл бұрын
@@shuhmeer Kelly Clarkson show won't last because of what NBC is doing to Steve Harvey.
@kahambuesther6863
5 жыл бұрын
Whaaaaat 😢
@trooperjane998
5 жыл бұрын
Why is it cancelled??
@Hotcashe1
5 жыл бұрын
Yes you should get someone who likes you for you. But honestly you should always be focusing on a personal goal of self improvement.
@shoutrite91
5 жыл бұрын
Say this again please! Because Steve's point was missing this counterbalance. No one should expect the world to capitulate to who they are, period. That's a luxury none of us are afforded for a myriad of reasons, substantial ones at that.
@ladylioness4065
5 жыл бұрын
I love what the guy said about self reflection he was on point. One of the best things I did after my divorce was get to know me better. Found out I'm a cool chic lol.
@sosobowei2022
5 жыл бұрын
Notice the difference between the young guy's quick conventional answer and the older guy's more reflective and practical answer. Inexperience + populism is costly and there's too many immature and manipulative people hiding under the "How you are" statement.
@NBaBall3r26
5 жыл бұрын
Yea I preferred his answer more & women should be modest too
@tianamiller6820
5 жыл бұрын
@@NBaBall3r26 modest in what way
@ieo92
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah you said it perfectly. Everyone should be themselves, no doubt. But we should all strive to be better morally.
@NBaBall3r26
5 жыл бұрын
@@tianamiller6820 in the way u act & ur appearance (clothing)
@americanbeauty171
5 жыл бұрын
@@ieo92 100% correct!!!
@rochellethundercloud346
5 жыл бұрын
Act like you got sense,home training,respect,dignity,class,and have basic manners
@MsDesiree39
5 жыл бұрын
preach
@ibrahimsanga690
3 жыл бұрын
I like this phrase.."..basic manner"...there are behaviors that anyone is expected to have no matter what...missing them becomes a fundamental shortcoming.
@survivorship4290
4 жыл бұрын
“If you tryin’ to be somethin’ for everybody, you ain’t gon’ ever be nothin’ for yourself.”
@dominickmoseley7811
5 жыл бұрын
All these men applying to be the next Steve Harvey. Good picks Uncle Steve❤️ If you’re reading this I hope you had an amazing Monday beautiful! 😁
@kleighrocket4895
5 жыл бұрын
Thank u sir. I hope u are having a blessed Monday as well
@americanbeauty171
5 жыл бұрын
@Dominick Moseley love the positive energy!!
@sweetz_monae
5 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@sahabiyaa
5 жыл бұрын
“I know the hunting noises”🤣🤣
@bajangirlTX
5 жыл бұрын
Sahabiya Mohamed I hollered 😂
@sweetz_monae
5 жыл бұрын
In person it was crazy I wish I could post the picture of me laughing ugly af
@blondetteburnette2758
5 жыл бұрын
This show should have not have been cancelled period...Steve gives some really good advice on this show he is good at what he does and he is so damn funny....Love you Steve.
@KenyaVictoria
5 жыл бұрын
YES STEVE! As women a lot of us gravitate towards men who are projects. Sis we are NOT Bob the Builder. If we are in tune with ourselves and a man can’t get with it just leave
@rolorobbins2933
5 жыл бұрын
Kenya Victoria u are gravitating to “projects” cuz you are still a “project”....
@AvaLynn85
5 жыл бұрын
She's beautiful!
@JoyOfZion9
5 жыл бұрын
Yea beautiful chocolate woman!❤
@sheriw7788
5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful chocolate woman keep striving for greatness
@sweetz_monae
5 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@ladyashley315
5 жыл бұрын
Yes she’s gorge
@pjpj3416
2 жыл бұрын
I like the way you described her as beautiful, not a "beautiful chocolate woman", that really gets old in my opinion. Beauty comes in all shades for sure.
@JohnneseP
5 жыл бұрын
Don't change yourself for anyone, if he doesn't like an aspect of your someone else will. The right one will like you for you and will not want to change anything about you
@tatiannadaniel496
5 жыл бұрын
The second guys answer was really good.
@pourladentelle
3 жыл бұрын
Steve should start his on show where he specializes in giving, real, relationship advice as he gives on episodes like this.
@southernsass2937
5 жыл бұрын
What girl?! Sounds like you should find out who you are first. You need to be just be yourself in any situation. Be who you truly are then you will attract the right man. For YOU. ❤
@erikaharrison4558
5 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!!
@americanbeauty171
5 жыл бұрын
Go easy we don't know her story... (sent with a gentle affect)
@The1baddman
5 жыл бұрын
No man or woman need to be with someone who's always trying to changed them, if they can't accept that man or woman for who they are, they don't need to be with them.
@m.a6797
5 жыл бұрын
#KEEPSTEVEONAIR
@chelslyscott9145
4 жыл бұрын
We need more male panels like this! We need to see more men on this light! I loved this segment
@linhtranlephuong1001
5 жыл бұрын
What the young man said is what my brother would say to me but what the older man said is what my father actually taught me. I get everything i want from the younger man in my family, but i learn everything i need to know from the older one.
@kadiant5016
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all the countless times of advice. Really going to miss you on NBC. I was sad until I heard you say " Life is really like a book; I'm on my 62nd chapter getting ready to turn the page. I can't wait to see what God has for me on that other page" When I heard that, I felt so much happier, knowing you'd be more than alright. I pray God continues to bless you and your family like you have blessed me with your words of wisdom. Love you Uncle Steve.
@Livelovelaughes
4 жыл бұрын
“Stop trying to make somebody who aint the one to be the one. “ “He is not for u, he is not for you”. “If he is not ready , he is not ready for u”
@lillywolf5318
3 жыл бұрын
Tell it Steve!! Was single for 10 years before I met my soul mate, however he laid it down and took charge. I am Queen but he is King. Hugs and God bless for telling the truth!!
@roxanaspence3834
5 жыл бұрын
Act yourself fr 👏🏽👏🏽
@shanaynayokeil6553
5 жыл бұрын
Steve: you are looking at a group of hunters. Me: Shadowhunters?
@funnyanimals878
3 жыл бұрын
She has my smile and it's beautiful
@jewelwhite2832
5 жыл бұрын
Girl, be you!!!!!
@vasht7976
5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sad this show is ending😭
@misscidella
5 жыл бұрын
me too.i am sad also
@shaylagoogle3097
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!! This lesson comes with maturity. You have to know who you are so you dont except just anything.
@innerpowerup
5 жыл бұрын
A Knight in shining armor has never been in a battle. Real warriors have scars.
@nikbks8637
4 жыл бұрын
boom! and that goes for us women too. we're here to learn and grow. empowerment is attained/reclaimed in many different ways.
@olaoluolajugbe5811
4 жыл бұрын
..and scratched and dented armour
@bellefemmekenisha
5 жыл бұрын
i absolutely love Steve..I truly am going to miss him on air :(
@Yousef-ju4nf
5 жыл бұрын
"You don't want someone who thinks that you're perfect in your current form . Partly because why would you wanna go out with someone that deluded?" I'm with Jordan on this topic
@saras.2173
Жыл бұрын
“If you’re trying to be something for everybody, you ain’t gonna be nothing for yourself.”
@ElizabethHernandez-cj3mw
5 жыл бұрын
I’m going to miss this show 😭 cancel the Kardashian’s geez why Steve 💔😭
@elovesp1
5 жыл бұрын
She's pretty
@sweetz_monae
5 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@YasminMahnaz
5 жыл бұрын
Pretty w lack of self awareness like guy said... even Steve.. kno what u want in person.. know who u are and want to be vs being chameleon.
@ramzyzitouni187
5 жыл бұрын
Steve Harvey you are the best
@novalove4790
5 жыл бұрын
I ain't for everybody.
@876me7
5 жыл бұрын
Act like yourself! You’re a grown woman! Why are you concerned about tailoring your behavior to appease a man? Every man will have a different standard and expectation. Some women are so lost nowadays. When did we let go of our power in exchange for the constant pursuit of pleasing men? Smfh level tf up ladies!
@Fifth.Amendment
5 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I'm not sure who failed these women. I thought this was a new age thing. However, I've met some older women who are just as lost. I wish this comment could be pinned for all to read.
@misskingstonjamcutie
5 жыл бұрын
@@Fifth.Amendment The desperation of some of these women is pathetic and embarrassing at this point. If my mother taught me nothing else, so taught me how to have dignity. As I get older and older in this society that has devolved due to a lack of morality and a lack of standards, I realize just how very valuable MY dignity is. I'm only 31 btw. If you have standards as a woman my age, you can barely get a date because you are too much work and men don't want to be bothered, that's because they are used to dealing with women like this audience member who will bend over backwards to please them even at her own detriment. They come to expect this kind of weakness and clinginess from all women.
@pvaz
5 жыл бұрын
They are hunting for top men, tall, highly educated, 6 figure income, 6 pack... the works. That's why she's insecure, she a 6 or 7 at best, got lucky on a couple of 8 to 9 guys who ghosted after a night, so she wants to find out how to catch one of those. Thing is she won't cause those guys have their pick.
@Fifth.Amendment
5 жыл бұрын
@@misskingstonjamcutie You're right! It's truly sad, too. Some of these women will do anything to have a man. And, will accept anything. The thing is, men will only do what women allow.
@aquariusmoon417
5 жыл бұрын
Curious do you have a Mate?
@Hoosierontherun
4 жыл бұрын
The 2nd guy's accent....😍
@nathaliasimone_
3 жыл бұрын
“Once you know you, the matchup for you becomes a lot easier. But if you tryna be something for everybody, you ain’t ever gunna be somebody for yourself!”
@vania7462
3 жыл бұрын
The second guy’s advice is a lot realistic...not sugar coated ..
@lovingmariahgordon4432
5 жыл бұрын
Good advice thank you guys. She is pretty
@sweetz_monae
5 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@wandalee5010
5 жыл бұрын
Wow! I need my “Steve” someone who isn’t going to try to change me or fit me into their own box! I am too damned tired and proud of myself to change because “You” think I should!
@marysanders8981
5 жыл бұрын
I said the same thing he said before he said it. Act like yourself.
@sinosakambana
2 жыл бұрын
He said “act like yourself?!?” 🤣🤣😭
@taylorannpruett8988
Жыл бұрын
First Guy deserves the world
@ThanuG15
2 жыл бұрын
The only one you should change for is for yourself. It doesn't matter who the suggestion came from, as long as you want to yourself.
@myrahj1482
5 жыл бұрын
Once you know what you want, what you like & what you want your life to look like... the universe will send that man especially made for you!
@stormc4044
Жыл бұрын
This is one of my best episodes Ever ! Word Steve , Word!!!❤
@normanjanproductionhunter9765
5 жыл бұрын
Then we could show thank you for sharing God bless have a wonderful evening stay happy
@planbtvnews
5 жыл бұрын
Wow that was Awesome respond. When i saw the group of guys, i was like wow this are pack of Lions ready to hunt. Their Dressing are Good.
@carolinagirl2428
5 жыл бұрын
@steveharvey how am I going to get your advice now that the show is canceled? I look forward to these vids daily!😥
@bluebittybits637
Жыл бұрын
Can we get a petition to bring him back?! Podcast something😭
@sivalingam4693
2 жыл бұрын
Steve harvey is an amazing father and man figure
@GoogleAccount00
5 жыл бұрын
Great question Beautiful!!!
@briggettmumphrey3226
2 жыл бұрын
Be your authentic self!!
@preciousmatlapeng9497
4 жыл бұрын
Yes uncle Steve😄
@carlarobertson2193
5 жыл бұрын
I don't understand Steve Harvey has some of the best shows and people wanting him to fell. It's really sad you don't see this with other shows. I pray he continue will continue to be a blessings to all people no matter what comes his way.
@hiramalik5493
4 жыл бұрын
"The one who's tryna change you is not man enough for you" !!!!!!!!!!!!
@anaisr.s.6645
3 жыл бұрын
"who you may NEED to support YOU"...I DO NOT NEED ANY MAN TO SUPPORT ME ...! I am an INDEPENDANT WOMAN !
@49ers_red_and_gold2
5 жыл бұрын
I waited to clicked on this and still early 😵
@AlizeRocha
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, preach!
@msscorpio5516
5 жыл бұрын
Very truth
@abdallahabdallah9628
2 жыл бұрын
"WE hunt its our DNA" had me dead
@tcalvin4196
5 жыл бұрын
Look here Doll Baby, just be yourself. The right fella for you will find you. Just take your time because you are a beautiful young lady.
@ClaireHaire
5 жыл бұрын
She is stunning but, once she turns 30 it will "click". Women are told everyday that we have to be this or that to maintain a man, the one for you will like everything about you. I love harry potter,anime and other weird stuff, my husband supports it 100% and vice versa.
@sweetz_monae
5 жыл бұрын
Thank You for the advice
@stavros333
2 жыл бұрын
"We Are Stronger" A Poem by Steven F Gooden We're never as strong, as we are until we have to be. Never Do as much, unless the need we see. Only give our best, when we fail at mediocrity. We Love rather than hate when we admit we're one humanity. We always give more, when compassion moves our heart with unbridled generosity. We Become more of our potential when we are made to see, that clearly our minds can believe in unfathomable possibilities, while seizing every opportunity, here in lies one's destiny. More than our scars, higher than our stars, for in our flaws are what defines our features, they're uniquely ours, as human creatures. We can run faster than on our slowest day. Reason better, and thinking it through all the way, regardless which direction our emotions may sway. We can find our voice when speechless, our strong words with meekness and our Courage in weakness. Always patience not quickness. Silence for peace than loudness, quietness of fear, not hopeless, for time and effort are equally unbiased. We are more than the stories we're told, we're the one's we write, each page unfold. We are the sum of our Lies and truth, fantasy, fiction, faith, and myths, no matter how uncouth. These are what shape us, our lives lived is the proof. We can be more right than wrong. More just than judge. More godlike than unlike. Reflecting Sunlight in our darkest night. Providing refuge. Never more alive until we die within and begin again. A Human Ark Divine in our human spark. by Steven Gooden
@aminawilliamson2694
2 жыл бұрын
Depends on what the change is
@sunshinesunflowerz1647
5 жыл бұрын
Table for 1. How would you like your drink filled? Do you have a pitcher? Refill yourself. Know thy self and love thy self. Be U!
@brendajones8073
5 жыл бұрын
Yes be ur self and wooo yes lots of brothers up on that stage.
@Dd-po2ij
5 жыл бұрын
This was REALLY. GOOD today. 💘. I only HATE. I was NOT in the place today. All those. GOOD Looking. Men. 💘. Yauza!!!
@lindahill3067
4 жыл бұрын
Good advice
@indym375
4 жыл бұрын
Whoa Facts Monday 🕵
@thecalmwayhome8483
2 жыл бұрын
I love that he said the man is the hunter. I could never date or marry someone who did everything I said or didn't take charge. It's highly attractive when a man is a man in every sense...the beautiful way God created him to be.
@LARENZFAIR
5 жыл бұрын
We needed more of a mans panel Good show
@morganalexis6147
3 жыл бұрын
ADORRRREE Steve Harvey!!!😍😍😍 Ugh! I'd be so happy to have him in my life in so e capacity ❤️ (not bc of his money at all...he's just a quality man)
@TheKrista5
3 жыл бұрын
This advice go both ways. If a man a hunter don't hunt a woman for selfish gain. Leave her alone and you find the right one and let her find hers. Stop with game playing.
@entertainmentmedia4742
4 жыл бұрын
How women should act? No. We have enough actors as is, too many miserable people and divorces. It should be how women should behave. This also applies to men as well. It’s simple. For starters, you could go by the golden rule. Have compassion, sympathy, empathy and an open mind. Don’t cause drama or try to change someone. Have integrity and honor your vows. Be there for each other and work things out. Be more selfless with each their and not selfish. These things are qualities/character traits that can’t be bought. And they certainly can’t be developed overnight. It takes time to develop them unless you were taught these values and lived in a home/environment with said values.
@elariamiranda4334
3 жыл бұрын
A lounge of men...love it!🤩
@music1997000
5 жыл бұрын
Why is this show canceled..I live for these KZitem recommendations
@kdeloris2225
5 жыл бұрын
Steve expressions be killing me😂
@uchechionyeachu8899
5 жыл бұрын
I can't believe they cancelled this show like for what! make it make sense plz
@HappyBirthday216
Жыл бұрын
So true.....I had to learn the hard way. After so many years trying hard to have a man to love me. Never happened instead their feelings turned to hate, which hurted me more. I learnt at my age now....right away when a man act up, ghost you, accusing you, stop giving you attention, etc. Drop that sorry a## because he is looking to make your life a living hell most men suffer from abandonment issue or some other trauma that they love taking out on you especially if you are of color. Alot of men need to go to therapy, but ruining our life are they goals...so freaking sad.
@justalilbitt3681
3 жыл бұрын
There are men who try to change women alot, and that's y so many of us don't see beauty within ourselves and look to plastic surgeries, turn to drugs, wrong crowd of ppl and isolate to keep frm being changed to who we r not.
@divinegoddess3060
3 жыл бұрын
this was great lol
@Mrsqueen876
5 жыл бұрын
Man and woman should act the way God ordered, 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
@karonmutungwazimusic1823
5 жыл бұрын
beautedereine amen
@theeelevatedsongstress
4 жыл бұрын
Right!! I was thinking the same thing!!! If ur personality is aggressive then yeah (now some people TOO aggressive) and if your personality is sensitive (some people can be too sensitive too) then that’s who you are. But the thing is everyone has that one personality trait that people notice off back but there is many layers to people in general. But anyway yeah I agree just be who you are. I honestly think that when God sends you someone he creates that person specifically for you, because everybody can’t deal with a sensitive person nor can some people deal with a super aggressive person. That’s why I always say there is one person who can deal with every part of you. And honestly only God can give you that person.
@skip031890
5 жыл бұрын
This could have been a really good conversation of substance, but they just had to give the mic to that simple ass dude who responded. She asked a very serious question that deserved a serious answer. Not just "be yourself." Men need to tell women what they expect of them. How about knowing how to cook? Being willing to stay home and raise the kids? Being a decent woman by not showing other men your low cleavage, keeping the house in order, etc. There's so much that could have been said, smh
@sweetz_monae
5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your answer
@samlovexo
5 жыл бұрын
I haven’t met these hunters
@scosta87
2 жыл бұрын
Steve is hilarious 😂😂😂😂
@AA-bu3en
5 жыл бұрын
I'm earllyyyyy
@evanescenteuphoria8126
5 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't have to "act"! If you do, it's not for you. "Taking inventory" of yourself should be done BEFORE a relationship . How do you know what you want without understanding who you are?
@kayjewels1488
5 жыл бұрын
Uhhh I’m just curious if his son is single... that’s a handsome man.
@Sacrelily
5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful people😻
@shawtrickajoseph6367
3 жыл бұрын
Be you aww 🥰
@tboykin13tb
5 жыл бұрын
Thank U Unc!!! 😉
@theeelevatedsongstress
4 жыл бұрын
But what he said is true why Steve joking!
@Kimmieziven
5 жыл бұрын
40 sec in and i agree!!!
@COGmercy
3 жыл бұрын
What I told my son....do not be like Steve Harvey....be the husband of one wife!!! Men already have an advisor and He gave us a manual....His word follow it not the advice of any man and definitely not the example of his life!
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