Grown boys are real out here! And ladies please don’t try to raise them, coming from experience IT IS A WASTE OF YOUR TIME! YOUR PEACE! And LOVE! Thanks Tony G for being a vessel and reaching those who need to hear messages as such, including me!👏🏽👏🏽
@tappe9508
Жыл бұрын
Sis, I feel you! 💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@desiree2299
Жыл бұрын
This! Grow boys will always show that cool-aid stained smile! Women only need to fall back and let Him show you who He is, then believe what you 👀! 👂🏽✍️🏽✨️❤️💎
@Inga377
11 ай бұрын
I concur!🚩 waste of God-given energy.❤️
@vinadouglas119
Жыл бұрын
It's alot of Grown Boys out here that think they're MEN because the hold a job and have a place to lay their head. But TG was on point .. They not connected to their creator and they out here preying on women for a thrill.🙏
@Happinessis_12
Жыл бұрын
This might be irrelevant to this topic. But in a previous video , uncle Tony you had said that you are faithful to God and not faithful to your wife. And in that moment I had thought to myself “Wow! That is so cruel to his wife.” But now I have realised what you meant . And how liberating that was actually for your wife. I believe God finally made me understand what you meant. You meant that you are faithful to God and by being faithful to God , you freed your wife from any sort of obligation for you to be faithful. Example : Say she is not intimate with you for a reason or if she snaps at you due to spiritual warfare , you could operate out of anger and cheat on her . But because you are Faithful to God and not to your wife . It liberates her of any obligations. Because irrespective of her not cooking 3 meals a day or be intimate with you whenever you want , you won’t cheat because you are faithful to God. I know this is a big comment . But I was one of those women who’d comment on your videos without understanding that I will never understand a man and you as man are doing God’s work by breaking the “guy code”. I may have commented some comments that were tone deaf on your videos previously and for that I ask forgiveness . Thank you for not blocking me. I am only 18 and your knowledge has helped me greatly and is also helping me grown in my journey with Christ. Also, i do not mean any offence to Sheri with my examples presented earlier in this comment. Thank you Uncle Tony for everything you do and God bless you . ♥️
@marilynking527
Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@mamat1213
Жыл бұрын
People can let you down or go astray, God never will. By being faithful to his wife, he’s following the principles and being the man God would want him to be which includes treating his wife with love loyalty respect and proper leadership
@giantonamission
Жыл бұрын
Wow! Your comment brought tears to my eyes. God bless you for the humility you've shown in admittimg your misunderstanding.
@theinfamousninapink
Жыл бұрын
Only 18?! Wow! You go girl. For you to be 18 and watching and listening to Tony Gaskins is says a lot! But what you said in this comment is incredible, you have an anointing on your mindset. Continue to pursue the righteous path you’re on! Blessings to you queen. 🙏🏾🙌🏾
@ladynottingham89
Жыл бұрын
There's always a reason to leave/cheat on your spouse, but if you want to please God and not yourself, you will stick by them because God wants families together. Of course, this is not when dealing with abuse but more so when your spouse is still growing and they need your patience while God works on their heart. Sometimes I look at my husband and I think I might have made a mistake because he's not the man I envisioned for myself, but then I remember this family is bigger than myself and my desires and I pray for God to give me patience and grace towards him. In the end, he's a good man who is still on a journey of perfection like all of us. Does he spend a little too much time on his phone playing video games? Yes, but he does provide and is loving towards me and our baby; he tells us every day he loves us. Without God, no marriage stands a chance.
@TheDollfaceddiva
Жыл бұрын
Tony, I experienced a grown boy and let me tell you. With me being a GROWN WOMAN he showed me what I don't want and what I need. I let him know that I've done too much work on myself for me to step down to meet him where he's at. I told him he can step up and meet me where I'm at or leave me alone. I changed my locks and told him to come get his things. It's been about 3 months or so. The parts of me that still need healing... misses him. But the grown woman in me knows that I deserve better. He's tried to reach out to me 3 times already and I ignored him. I don't need that kinda energy or toxicity in my life. I learned I had to love me more than I loved him because it was hurting me. He wasn't adding any value to my life. He was taking and not giving anything back but promises and illusions. I'm deserving of so much more. I know that God will send my king when the time is right. Thank you for your wisdom and guidance. You don't know how much you're helping us grow and learn to love ourselves that much more.
@Key-Key444
Жыл бұрын
Men holding men accountable 👏🏾 Thank you for bringing back “grown-boy” series! The devil 👿😈 applying pressure & we must as well!!!
@marilynking527
Жыл бұрын
I hate to break it to you Tony but it’s getting worse out here, especially since I started watching you 5 years ago. Grown boy university needs to be Grown boy galaxy. Forgive me 😂😂😂😂😂
@itskadimusic
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@j-tenn226
Жыл бұрын
You’re not wrong 😂. We need to pray harder for protection and guidance
@SheriCheri94
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 and that’s on period
@AlonzoDuncan-nz9ne
Жыл бұрын
My older brother is one and ever since I've awakened and walk with god I see why he doesnt attract anything good while im over here attracting success a loving wife and family...... Its real out here ladies and as a 25 year old man its crazy to see a grown 40 something year grown boy be careful of these men ladies
@samonecharisma3043
Жыл бұрын
It’s very real! And it’s ruining woman’s lives. My ex was an absolute grown boy (I believe a narcissist as well) but he has major anger issues, financially reckless, and a drug addict…He was emotionally & verbally abusive. It’s not fair that I have to deal with the trauma, ptsd of all of this. I’m not perfect but I really went in with a clean heart…this is becoming the demise of the black family. Black women are being targeted & victimized too often because of this grown boy behaviors. Black women in upper 30’s-40’s are being encouraged to date outside our race because black men are so emotionally behind. They are the ones that are broken, and refuse to get better. Thank u for he series TG, I’m sure u get frustrated conveying the same message over & over. I pray for all of the hearts of men & women; but especially my black people
@DeniseM4698
Жыл бұрын
Update definitely helps!!! Thanks Tony! I’m sick of these grown boys
@Micahsophia
Жыл бұрын
Me too, they need to get it together or just stay from outside from all the good women
@Worldofdaph
Жыл бұрын
He’s so right about holding those labels. I dated a diagnosed narcissist and I’m still trying to heal. It’s an unreal experience. 12:10
@nicitaylor2011
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sad that they are so many guys out there who learn to use and disrespect and put women down. It's very saddening.
@tappe9508
Жыл бұрын
EVERYTHING Tony G is saying here is 💯🙌🏾 I was married to a grown boy once upon a time. Now, I am free!!!! I’m grateful to God for Tony G and God for helping me !!!😊❤🙏🏾☀️
@NinaR478
Жыл бұрын
Most grown boys are not narcs. They are just incapable of taking themselves serious and conducting themselves seriously. It has to come from God fr.
@la6136
Жыл бұрын
I have studied narcissism for over 10 years and yes most grown boys are actually narcissists. That is what Tony described in this video based on the DSM. Narcissism is on a spectrum. Worst case is psychopath/sociopath. Low grade narcissists show up as being selfish and having ego issues.
@gypsyspirit8472
Жыл бұрын
@@la6136 I agree with you. It’s so much deeper than most people realize. Most males would be diagnosed as a narcissist whereas a woman would usually be diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. But usually this comes From studying mental health whether from school , work , or people who have an interest in psychology. But I agree with you. I get why Tony doesn’t use the word he isn’t a therapist. But most grown boys are narcissistic/narcissists but they don’t think anything is wrong with them so they’ll never go to therapy & get this diagnosis! ( narcissistic people don’t believe they are the problem /they think everyone else is)
@kellyedwards5226
Жыл бұрын
I know many 40 and 50 year old grown boys. Makes me SMH. Accountability for one’s actions is nonexistent.
@sherrynelson365
Жыл бұрын
Amen when you are faithful to God you can be faithful to everything and everyone !!! Awesome video
@jarredguyton
Жыл бұрын
Everything your saying is true. I tick a lot of those boxes. I need the Lord Jesus to mold me into actually grown man.
@portia547
Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I’m going through with the man I love. I fell back and handed the whole situation to God, IDK what else to do for him besides pray from a distance 🙏🏾
@reznacuffey7391
Жыл бұрын
Right there with 'ya Sis
@Rain_413
Жыл бұрын
My goodness! Grown Boy University Revisited!! Get your pen and paper, because school is in session!!! 🎉🎉❤❤
@universallove878
11 ай бұрын
Great topic💯💯" Another term is called. "spiritual dwarfism" Mind, Body, Soul connection, is refers to being dis-connected in all 3 areas. Meaning persons who are like Tony described, have only grown to a certain point in life, but depending on the trauma, and life circumstances they never turn the page even after full age adult hood. Imagine a child learning how to walk, talk, eat, use the bathroom, but does not know how to communicate, show empathy, or compassion due to how they were treated. Its really sad. Alot of people will either take action to heal, or remain as they are resenting even the people who try to show them love.
@alishabrwn
Жыл бұрын
Hit the nail on the head💯‼️
@n.Lenice
Жыл бұрын
6:05 💯 Thank you for expounding on this.
@cretiasmith9619
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you I send these to my 24 yr old son he is now accepting it at first he was in denial however now your getting to him I appreciate you God bless
@karenbailey921
Жыл бұрын
Omg thank you, Tony, for allowing God to use you to bring forth the messages that you speak on. God bless you and your beautiful family. Blessings 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@Dreawade.
2 ай бұрын
I like how you get straight to the point and don’t ramble all day. I appreciate your videos Mr. Tony thanks ❤
@norapeace6526
Жыл бұрын
Every notification i get at this point, I’m watching! Thank you so much for being a man that we can trust and listen to and get knowledge from. Thank you so much 🙏🏽💗🙌🏽 Bc for some women, you’re the ONLY positive Christian wise male figure in their life that’s talking about these things!!!
@ameliabeneby2981
Жыл бұрын
You are the man that these men should have had as a father. SHM. Truly anointed Tony. Keep spreading your words.
@Chosengirl1
Жыл бұрын
This is such a great and enlightening message. Strong men and healthy families! God bless you Tony
@1Loveneverends
Жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@trinigirl7846
Жыл бұрын
Yes definitely been using and understand the meaning of grown boy through u. As soon as I spot one, got to go 🏃♀️ 😅
@danasmith8390
10 ай бұрын
This is am on time message...needed this today
@dimplesp4046
Жыл бұрын
It’s 5:08 for me 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾no REAL men in their lives thank you Tony
@chrisharris2367
Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you brought the Grown Boy series back I still have so much to learn from this serious when evaluating a man as a husband
@DorothyEHines
Жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for another Grown-Boy University!!!! Been watching your previous ground-boy videos the last few weeks!! Such great knowledge!💗
@jamiechavis5347
Жыл бұрын
Thank god TG you are re- opening this series back up!! I can’t wait!!!
@antoinettej2495
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. This is SOMETHING that needs to be said. There are a lot of ppl who casually dismiss this matter.
@yvettetoms5460
Жыл бұрын
If a man has never been around a real man to teach him. Then i think that's when this topic falls in the category.
@kaylazoesch5448
Жыл бұрын
You’re a blessing 🙏🏻 thank you for all you do.
@akamo06
Жыл бұрын
Talk about it Tony 💯
@DanyjahTHERealest
Жыл бұрын
Thank you... If you care...The "Consistency" light is beautiful. Maybe lift it higher or possibly change the position/angle you are sitting. The light from the sign is creating a weird glare... Maybe have another light face you while recording if you're going to keep the "Consistency" sign up. The video would look a lot more clear... I hope that makes sense. The video is nice/ backdrop but I would play around with the lighting to find that nice clean look in the face. If that's what you want. You could just be trying to give us a good/quick word. BUT if not that would serve some justice! Hope this helps. Thanks again for your insightful videos. They help a lot in the best way.
@vilmaghans7228
Жыл бұрын
God bless you always my brother you and your family 👪 🙏 😊thanks you so much for all you are doing for the kingdom of God 😊
@TiffJackz
9 ай бұрын
I support ya 💪🏾💪🏾
@itsniqwa33
Жыл бұрын
Thank you tony
@angelalynn4225
Жыл бұрын
Good word
@TiffJackz
9 ай бұрын
Next Level Knowledge 💪🏾💪🏾👑
@vanisacampbell5261
Жыл бұрын
I felt every word..so true!!!!!
@misskaykayRSA
11 ай бұрын
So true. A relationship of reliance on our Creator is what will help us get through the craziness of this world ❤
@paetonwalton6346
Жыл бұрын
I've been binging this grown boys stuff.. we need help ending it for both too have successful relationships ❤
@blessedblessed5018
Жыл бұрын
But it's not a womens job to raise them..we are only to support. I guess I'm stuck in conflicting mindsets.. di I stay "wait and encourage " or move around level up and stick with my standards
@Wewereneveryoung
Жыл бұрын
Move on
@ZionsPrincess
Жыл бұрын
Great message, I shared it Stay blessed 🙏🏽
@Didi-fr5ic
Жыл бұрын
There is millions of them 😂
@rosesjezus
Жыл бұрын
Yes i am so happy. Because i love this university
@TyraPeredo
Жыл бұрын
Confused… not sure what they really want
@royliechaVb
Жыл бұрын
Right right you are correct about all that I disappear on them kinds I’m only accepting healthy things and ppl around me
@ambars1405
Жыл бұрын
I was so tempted to share this to the ones I know, but it was too blunt it might hurt some feelings
@pristineparr7509
Жыл бұрын
Can you talk about how the current environment has some black men disrespecting their mothers, all in the name of bashing her for not living up to the conflicting, one sided standards that have created the toxic environment we have between the sexes now. Would love to hear your take. I married and divorced a narc and his grown son is his toxic twin but with one difference, he believes making money has turned him into a high value man when he displays the same toxic mindset his narc father does.
@thesocialminimalist1314
Жыл бұрын
Hey Tony, this is a great content, especially because I'm a single mom to a boy, and i always worry that he doesn't turn out to be a mommy's boy or irresponsible. I want to raise a decent man, that fears and knows God, is diligent in his work and a respecter of persons. How do i do this successfully as a single mom? I do desire marriage, definitely not to a grown boy but a mature man of God. I waiting on God for this, but until then i still have to raise my son.
@jenniferwebb6741
Жыл бұрын
Same here sister!
@kendrabee100
Жыл бұрын
Well said thank you ☺️
@daishanewsomednp6956
Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir❤🙏🏾
@nzingahoney
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for reiterating a male is not necessarily a MAN
@constancenunn
Жыл бұрын
Yes, thank you. Can you Talk about Blueface and Chrisean Rock? He is a immature grown boy.
@my2boysr2blessed
Жыл бұрын
🙌🏾
@OptimisticSeven
4 ай бұрын
AWSOME VIDEO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@User17.2.9
Жыл бұрын
Mr Gaskins Eboni K Williams says that the chance of Black women finding love beyond the age of 40 is at Zero percent. Black women under 40 must get the degree and man now. Can't wait for your response 😂
@TLove-zc3dm
Жыл бұрын
👋🏾NEW SUBBIE- You have just described the toxic relationship of Bluface and Chrisean Rock. I wish that you could be a Life Coach for BlueFace and Chrisean. These two need so much help and now they have a new little baby that they have added into the mix. I believe that Chrisean is addicted to the toxicity of this man. He is influencing his little six year old boy, as well as other young boys and other Grown-Boys. I do realize that they have to want the help, but I wish it was mandatory for parents to go through a Life Coach course before they get to take their baby home. You’re doing God’s work! Thank you!🙏🏽 ❤❤❤
@shay9262
Жыл бұрын
You always are so right!!!!
@LadieTasha
Жыл бұрын
I use this word Everyday😂😂
@ascensionqueen
5 ай бұрын
Tony, can you please do a video of a “man” living a double life??
@noexcusetoday
10 ай бұрын
This is a sad reality 😔
@FeliciaRHill
Жыл бұрын
Be blessed
@MsChristianr
Жыл бұрын
If your son is already a teenger how does a single Mom influence him from not being a grown boy?
@NinaAngelina25
Жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@childofgodskingdom8403
Жыл бұрын
Tony is that your voice on fathomevents its a commercial on KZitem
@lerandabrewer3923
Жыл бұрын
👍🏾
@beedubbya2278
Жыл бұрын
Are your websites still up? I can’t find them to book a session
@luvlovedunegan1224
Жыл бұрын
Okay i been watching the old videos this week lol look at God lol
@Coach-ks5yd
10 ай бұрын
Guys were create by and for women
@melissabarrett3088
Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@larrykush43
4 ай бұрын
You’re projecting a lil too much analogy what a man boy is…. But that’s you’re opinion.
@tydesiree
Жыл бұрын
This sounds like a grown narcissist 😅
@akamo06
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@sexxxyass09
Жыл бұрын
No lies told brother Gaskins. I was just speaking about this very thing.
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