Nothing wrong with healthy discipline . Standing firm on boundaries. Shaping your children to be decent human beings.
@aminabakir8205
8 ай бұрын
Exactly
@TheXangelus
24 күн бұрын
Exactly right. Being a good parent is knowing when you need to use which type of discipline. Positive discipline might work for allot of things but kids still need to learn about boundaries and consequences.
@Ryleigh-u2y
7 күн бұрын
but discipline is getting hit HARD i made my mom mad or sumthin ( i know how to spell something) and she grabbed me by my clothes and ALMOST threw me at the wall but she stopped and thew me on the ground then told me to go to my room even tho i was crying and in pain
@KoalaT420
6 ай бұрын
Amen. I cannot stand seeing parents yell at their children for just being a child. I have a 2 year old and i do positive discipline. Never yelling never spanking. Shes a happy baby and loves each day. I am her father. Her daddy. She will always come to me when she needs something, not be afraid to do so.
@tarasidebottom2837
Жыл бұрын
My boys are grown up but I was so much like you with them. Now I got my niece living with me at first it was alot of adjustments for her . But after a few months can I ever see the difference in her 👍thanks for sharing.
@akb8239
7 ай бұрын
I spank my kids. I am Asian (come fight me). I spanked them during there formative years 5 -7 years. Mind it I don't abuse them. When my kids are disrespectful or make mistakes, I sit them down and explain why its not done, second time they get a verbal warning and third time they get spanked. I brought the kids to this world so its my responsibility to teach them to be respectful, polite and responsible. I owe that to the society. I have 2 boys 13 and 10 yo. I am raising somebody's husband, father and future generation. I love my children, i make sure they know that. Now I don't need to discipline them. Just one look from me and they know to straighten up their business. And when I compare my boys who are polite and respectful to the bratty, disrespectful kids nowadays, I feel like I am doing an almost okay job raising them. I am not going to let my boys become disrespectful monsters just for the sake of political correctness. The biggest drawback of soft parenting that I have experienced is, they produce soft and weak children who are ill prepared to face the tough world outside. Not everyone is gonna be nice to them. Parents should not abuse them but should be tough with them. So that when they face something harsh in the world, they can atleast handle the situation.
@dexterlab4694
7 ай бұрын
@@487racks your problem is more of the black culture than lack of discipline.
@abrahamalmighty254
7 ай бұрын
I agree with this comment
@honestfriend767
7 ай бұрын
@@487racks please, the problem is that black mothers are bad role models half the time. They discipline kids for things that they do. They tell their kids not to cuss, but can cuss up a storm. Leading by example along with discipline is important.
@gabrielab553
6 ай бұрын
Spank discipline is act of love.❤ If you dont discipline your children, life will
@ethiopiangirlhabesha8766
6 ай бұрын
@@dexterlab4694she said she was Asian don’t go blaming and putting it on black people tf!!
@jukebae8974
9 ай бұрын
But don’t forget to record them. Make sure you exposed them to the world, while having a tantrum for a few likes. Zero privacy, the hypocrisy of upholding boundaries.
@cosmokramer7009
6 ай бұрын
I'm glad I grew up in the 80s when parents only took pictures on special occasions. It must be a nightmare to have a camera shove into your face all the time.
@rayneyuki2815
5 ай бұрын
@@cosmokramer7009 as a 90's kid I wish I had the same as you. my dad would take pictures of us when we were upset or crying as a reminder on why we shouldn't cry, ruined our self-esteem and stunted a lot of our emotional growth imo
@onyxvasquez3289
4 ай бұрын
Pretty sure they won’t grow up to be embarrassed by this video. We all had naked baby pictures developed at Walgreens. The hypocrisy is crazy, huh? 😂😂😂😂
@JimedBro
4 ай бұрын
@@onyxvasquez3289 Pretty sure they would, like how people get embarrassed of a flashback that happened 12 years ago, imagine that but your actions are in the public eye and you're hit, yikes. Also, baby pictures are pretty private and trusted individuals or friends are usually the ones who see it since their (most likely) trusting, and considering this day and age, pedophiles might go after that
@Qottawawaya
3 ай бұрын
@@onyxvasquez3289 I’m Q and your O
@thechronicphilosopher6166
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately my mother is too impatient with my half brother. Been a single child my whole life until 4 years ago. I will use this advice for when I have a child of my own, i hope
@Ceciliyarp
8 ай бұрын
It’s sad that some parents are like this. During my teen/pre teen years, my mom would often threaten me if I didn’t do something correct. It’s disgusting and still affects me today. A word of advice though, try to parent your brother and explain this to him-it’s something I wish my sister did growing up.
@elizab6529
Жыл бұрын
This is such a beautiful message. I’m happy to know I’m not the only one trying to teach this to the world
@666helluvahotel_UTTD
Ай бұрын
Well I don’t think you should record him having a tantrum that’s just not okay, but other than that I agree. My parents say that the kids need to have a punishment that they fear, but that is completely wrong. You should be teaching your kids to do the right thing because it’s right, not because they will be punished for not doing the right thing. That’s screwing up their concept of morals.
@cdivine011
6 ай бұрын
Ya looks like it's working.
@cosmokramer7009
6 ай бұрын
😂 Don't be mean. Babies have tantrums at times. It's normal.
@666helluvahotel_UTTD
4 ай бұрын
Fr like she’s so mean for recording her kid have a tantrum. Like yeah, let’s record my kid having a tantrum and post it on social media! Let’s post videos of my kid in his underwear too. That definitely won’t embarrass him in the future.
@RavenousPotato
Ай бұрын
@@666helluvahotel_UTTDhe’s a toddler bro they walk around in underwear all the time
@666helluvahotel_UTTD
Ай бұрын
@@RavenousPotato yeah but in the future when kids at school find videos of him throwing tantrums in his underwear it will be a living hell for him
@RavenousPotato
Ай бұрын
@@666helluvahotel_UTTD I’m pretty sure most moms have something like that on their facebook
@littleviewer48
4 ай бұрын
I wish you were my mom. They broke my arm yesterday :(
@elizabethmacpherson0989
2 ай бұрын
Your mom broke your arm??? Have you called CPS?
@kjack3337
Ай бұрын
I only see these videos with toddlers and infants. when these kids get older, this stuff doesn't work as well when they know that nothing is going to happen.
@magoo970
9 ай бұрын
My sister and brother in law are doing this and it's not working at all. He's 3 and a half and still hitting his mother in face. Acasionally shitting on the floor still as well....I would take this approach with a grain of salt.
@liamlynch2115
8 ай бұрын
Yea this feels like some silly libtard stuff.
@rajc.l.coleman-gavin9943
6 ай бұрын
Funny we don’t want to hit our kids and do fear based punishment but then they grow not understanding why they can’t have a temper tantrum and throw things at the police. As an adult we get punished all the time and it be a physical one depending the situation. And as black womanly fear is what we were instilled to have because there is a possibility to get shot
@aquarius2284
5 ай бұрын
It’s age appropriate for them to not listen at all. As a parent you have to repeat yourself many times until they learn. Repetition done long enough leads to acquiring a behaviour.
@JimedBro
4 ай бұрын
He's three, THREE, he's practically still a toddler, you gotta expect stuff like that until you have to level things up to a certain age (probably 5)
@Lanawith5kids
Ай бұрын
I put mine in time out {even though I have 5} I like to say the better the mother the better the child. For all the parents out there what your kids see you do and say matters a lot. They think that if you do it it’s ok. So all I ask is try to be nice to your kids and show them respectful behavior in front of them so they don’t do anything bad. How do you guys like inside out 2! ❤🎉
@thelaststand3560
8 ай бұрын
How about you be a good mother and not film the bobble head
@EnriqueGarcia-tx3ml
22 сағат бұрын
I’m so glad my mother would spank me when I would misbehave. 2 times in my life were i can remember she discipline me with a spank or two and honestly I can say that I deserved it and I come from a very Hispanic household so that’s pretty normal way of being taught and it taught me to behave and learn that my actions have consequences. I love my parents and cherish them every single day 🥰.
@Bill0102
7 ай бұрын
The lasting impact of this content is undeniable. A book with like messages revolutionized my understanding. "A Life Unplugged: Reclaiming Reality in a Digital Age" by Theodore Blaze
@DonJulio510
Жыл бұрын
Ill wait till your children are adults to see your results.
@iamwhoyousayiam6773
10 ай бұрын
Well the abusive former generations lead the later ones into therapy and SSRIs so there's that
@DonJulio510
10 ай бұрын
@@iamwhoyousayiam6773 thats subjected.
@lexfahey7399
10 ай бұрын
@@iamwhoyousayiam6773yup and the ones who were beat usually come out stronger and not a straight pussy.
@TheTiredPirate
10 ай бұрын
@@iamwhoyousayiam6773must not of beat them hard enough
@ryancamacho3129
10 ай бұрын
@@iamwhoyousayiam6773theres abuse and then there is disapline. Especially with some boys now at days. There are times where disaplining your children with a belt can be okay. Especially when it comes to raising boys. You dont want to be to soft on them.
@missizzy1886
3 ай бұрын
I don't habe children, but as far as I understand, it's essential to instill in children the understanding that they have autonomy and their decisions carry consequences. Rather than imposing mandates, parents should empower their children to make choices and accept the outcomes. While children may opt for misbehavior, it's the parent's responsibility to ensure they grasp the repercussions of their actions. Equally important is highlighting instances when children opt to adhere to rules, reinforcing the notion that choosing virtuous behavior is ultimately more beneficial.
@ChristianHMann1962
10 ай бұрын
Beautiful ♥️ the Christian community jumps at every chance to take their anger out on their kids. Jesus was a shepherd who guided me and thats what I want to be, someone safe, encouraging, kind, and a teacher. I don't know what faith you practice but this compassion and knowledge is precious. Thank you 🙏
@christsdaughter9569
9 ай бұрын
This comment is God winking at me :)
@ctrain149
9 ай бұрын
I’m sure you were a perfect child and their anger was just spawned out of thin air
@gagirlb
8 ай бұрын
Just lied on Christians or maybe your definition of what a real Christian is.
@christsdaughter9569
8 ай бұрын
@@gagirlb They said they want to be what Jesus was for them, a shepherd
@sheridanvance7426
8 ай бұрын
❤
@brittanybean8600
9 ай бұрын
This makes no sense. Nobody is going to do that when they grow up and they'll be thrown into the world thinking everyone is supposed to be nice to them when they are in fact wrong.
@wsrtwetr
9 ай бұрын
Just ask a gen z why they feel so entitled everyone has to protect their feelings and you'll figure out where this bs comes from. And btw this is NOT Montessori at all.
@prisca9114
7 ай бұрын
Because if they get yelled at/ spanked/ humiliated they won't be thrown into the world thinking everybody wants to harm them ? 🤔
@chiefsosa3348
7 ай бұрын
If the people you look up to for guidance and protection, resort to beating you, what does that teach the kid? Only fear and distrust
@lolly1405
4 ай бұрын
Attaching adult emotions and concepts to a toddler is the first problem with this. He is not there yet. He doesn’t understand the concepts you’re talking about. Discipline is actually whatever teaches. That’s going to be different with every child. Some children require firm discipline. Others don’t. Some kids can do a time out and it works great. Some children respond well to a conversation about behavior, others won’t respond at all to that kind of discipline. As someone who works closely with your children in their first adult endeavors. I promise you, too many children are going into adulthood with absolutely zero coping skills. Absolutely no problem-solving skills. Absolutely no ability to interact with people who are not going to give into them. They have no ability to compromise or even negotiate. If you’re raising your children without teaching them these basic skills, you are a failure as a parent. You need to do what’s going to work and not what you have convinced yourself, is going to work. You can’t learn any of those skills without discipline and actual consequences. We are supposed to be preparing these children to be functioning, productive adults. We are failing.
@ep3865
4 ай бұрын
I like this approach subscribed
@jeffnavarro2563
2 ай бұрын
Sometimes positive discipline is a swift pop in the mouth for calling Mama a b word. At least that's how they used to say when I was little, wonder if that means the old ways are not the best ways😅
@GAMECODERALT1
2 ай бұрын
Yea sure sure woman. Toddlers treated like this become criminals
@h.m220
2 ай бұрын
Lol I’m an early childhood teacher and to be honest the kids with parents like this are usually a lot more empathetic and chill. It’s the kids who get beat at home that end up acting like criminals, bullying those smaller than them, destroying property, etc. Not blaming the child but this is the reality.
@GAMECODERALT1
2 ай бұрын
@@h.m220 look at the statistics. Being an early childhood teacher gives you less experience, real research is what shows the evidence.
@someone-es5zo
Ай бұрын
Hard way of disciplining is the second step if the first step does not work. They are kids, they won't understand the seriousness with which u tell. Why are u afraid of fear based discipline. Even law in the society for adults is a fear based discipline.
@TatePowell-ld9cx
Ай бұрын
Damn everyone posted long as hell comments
@MostPowerfulPMofIndia
9 ай бұрын
I can never see a child suffering or crying
@Kyojo7127
7 ай бұрын
It's life if you can't take that then get over it
@mysocksarewet
5 ай бұрын
@@Kyojo7127 you *are* a child, mate.
@Kyojo7127
5 ай бұрын
@mysocksarewet OK well I'm just saying the facts
@mysocksarewet
5 ай бұрын
@@Kyojo7127 whoever says “I’m just saying the facts” has never been factual in their life. Proven.
@Kyojo7127
5 ай бұрын
@SmilingAgilityPuppy-pq1ok if you cant listen then the only way to teach them is to feel
@cecynay7369
Ай бұрын
Might need to explain what that means, practically.
@SHAYKINGMIEDAMNHED
2 ай бұрын
The police need a workshop in this!
@chantellehartgen8855
2 ай бұрын
Yeah there's only 1 big con to this. When your child hits the age to go to school, when go ahead and do something wrong the teacher will not do that positive stuff. They will either warn them, put them in time out, give them detention or something along the lines etc. Which will lead to mix messages to your child and cause confusion, discomfort and maybe some feeling of being scared. No, I am not trying to tell you how to raise your child. I am simply making sure you are aware of the negative behind the positive stuff.
@johnroc4497
4 ай бұрын
If I created the person, I damn sure will judge if I feel like it
@johnmortimer7862
25 күн бұрын
If your child isn't terrified of you then you have failed as a parent.
@tileyahallen8219
10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. 👍 My aunt is staying for a week at my house, and we are yet to plan for when she comes. I let my anger and negative emotions at my Mom get in the way of watching my cousins & disciplining them positively. We have a more mature environment, so we have to be really careful with what we leave out.
@Auroraxxiii
6 ай бұрын
I wish I had respect that when I was young
@thetruthwillsetyoufree5567
Ай бұрын
Wait until your child gets older. You’re going to get very tired of that. You’ll want a sure reliable way to make sure you’re getting through to him every time, especially when you have her children and other things to do when life picks back up again after the toddler stage. The Bible is very clear on what works.
@Beberle675
5 ай бұрын
Yeah, it creates entitled brats that always think there will be a way around something even if it's not allowed. It manifests the idea of things that are wrong aren't really wrong since all you know is positive discipline (aka no consequences)
@patriciareyna456
21 күн бұрын
Where’s the link
@rUby_LIkes_chEeSE
2 ай бұрын
As an Asian, I don't agree
@summer.clouds
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.
@nathaliaarreguin7406
Жыл бұрын
Where is the link?
@lordkoekig3718
3 ай бұрын
My mom would just smack me, that worked great, she only had to do that a handful of times, and you would learn not to do things, just teach your kid proper manners, and teach them how important respect is.
@corradonovello8058
6 ай бұрын
Thats is definitely not what discipline means lol
@papperrr
8 ай бұрын
Miss my 4 year old niece drop my milk im 9 and he even hit me with a fork and also push me and ruined my markers i am pissed off at him never EVER wanna Forgive him NEVER EVER!
@DonnieandThiagosmama
10 ай бұрын
One thing that has been working for me with my 8 almost 9 months old is looking him dead in his eyes and say no and I shake my head lol he looks at me and stops what he is doing....but he also looks confused and like I know she just didn't tell me no 😂....nothing wrong with a little pop on the hand or bum also
@chrismccaffrey8256
10 ай бұрын
Really!??? Would you like an adult doing that to you when they dotn like what youve done? A little "pop" on your hand or bum?
@JaseekaRawr
10 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with hitting your infant??? Tf is wrong with you. I used to be one of those who said "my parents spanked me & I turned out fine!" - lmao, I in fact, did not turn out ok. Spanking is usually just one aspect of the abuse. This is usually accompanied by other forms of abuse, too. STOP hitting your babies! Seek therapy. Poor kids 😭 Don't be surprised when they go no contact with you, like I currently am with my parents. You can do better, so do better.
@DonnieandThiagosmama
10 ай бұрын
@@JaseekaRawr get a life girl it's not like I'm swinging him off the top ropes and doing a powerbomb on him. While the imagery is funny there are kids actually being abused out here and I mean hit with the unimaginable.
@orinola3543
8 ай бұрын
@@DonnieandThiagosmama Discipline and Abuse is DIFFERENT
@sheridanvance7426
8 ай бұрын
@@JaseekaRawr❤
@mariagabrielamolina4898
4 ай бұрын
Yeah 😂 cuz hugging him when he's having a tantrum for no reason is gonna help a lot.
@dylagence443
3 ай бұрын
im trying my hardest not to amuse that these default pfps hating on gentle parenting (or any type of parenting that doesn’t require harming ur kids) hate because they were treated poorly by their parents
@chiefsosa3348
2 ай бұрын
What do you suggest you do then?
@RavenousPotato
Ай бұрын
He’s a fucking toddler
@Robert-3691
5 ай бұрын
I'm lost in this content. I read a book with similar content, and I was completely lost in its world. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn
@dregoon_YT
9 ай бұрын
Discipline means learning? I didn't know it meant learning I thought it was another word for punishment!!
@aisoorodoxjxjodod
9 ай бұрын
My mom says that she dosent have to be respectful to me but i have to be respectful to her even if shes rude to me
@amandamaranell7027
6 ай бұрын
I think it should go both ways. Parents still need to respect their children even though they are the authorities in the house. If a parent doesn't respect their child/children then the parents shouldn't expect the child to respect them back. Just saying.
@ellahopkinson
5 ай бұрын
I much prefer 'normal' or 'weird' looking faces, i find interesting people beautiful
@patriot8242
18 күн бұрын
I bet this parent looks back and is mortified by how she decided to do woke parenting.
@Parentingtips_by_faiza
3 ай бұрын
Yes it’s true
@Blackbrownie101
6 ай бұрын
I got positive discipline. Whoopings helped me learn right from wrong. My mom more encouraged me than put me down.
@Blackbrownie101
5 ай бұрын
@SmilingAgilityPuppy-pq1ok If you believe in time outs for your kids, do you. But at the end of the day, try not to judge a person's parenting style. You raise your kids the way you see fit. I didn't learn fear. I learned how to respect others.
@Blackbrownie101
5 ай бұрын
@@SmilingAgilityPuppy-pq1ok have you even ever been whopped?
@kojismiles
5 ай бұрын
that is not positive discipline. you got it all wrong. its important to be taught what’s right and what’s wrong but this is respectfully not the way. this is abuse and it should be abuse. being whooped means you get injuries and they dont do anything about it. that is neglect. stop having kids and let cps come to your door.
@Blackbrownie101
5 ай бұрын
@@kojismiles I never got injuries.
@madisonwillis9591
3 ай бұрын
@@Blackbrownie101I never got physical injuries from my mom's constant emotional and mental abuse either but I'm currently on medication so I can function in society due to various mental disorders caused by it. Try again.
@Kyojo7127
7 ай бұрын
This is why kids are becoming into entitled he/ zer brats
@Kyojo7127
7 ай бұрын
@@487racks that's not true
@Kyojo7127
7 ай бұрын
@@487racks all the kids in My school have never been beat or had a scolding, there all disrespectfull while the one given hard love are the opposite
@mysocksarewet
5 ай бұрын
I think the problem now isn’t about hit discipline or not, just parents being too scared to say “no” to their kid.
@RavenousPotato
Ай бұрын
@@Kyojo7127did you listen? You still have to uphold boundaries.
@Kyojo7127
Ай бұрын
@@RavenousPotato it's been 3 month bro let this go😭
@MADMikey04
Ай бұрын
If a kid is still learning and is too young to understand, there's that. Sadly, that's not always the case. It's different when a kid is doing something that they absolutely know is wrong.
@QuinlanVoss.
9 ай бұрын
This is the most gen z sht I’ve ever heard in my life
@wsrtwetr
9 ай бұрын
It's ok they will be on anti depressants and a bunch of mental pills soon enough following their parent's delusional believe of the world and entitlement.
@orinola3543
8 ай бұрын
🤡🤡🤡 Yeah gen Z is better at not CONDONING Child Abusers and idiot psychopaths Like millennials with their "When i was a child bla bla bla " Stfu.
@madnessprime2009
8 ай бұрын
Out of context comment lmfao
@Star88833
8 ай бұрын
Yes exactly 😂😂
@Kyojo7127
7 ай бұрын
@@487racksit really isn't just look at the swearing 8 year olds in my country
@tpot91
7 ай бұрын
Ever wonder why home schooled, only children turn out a little off.
@staceyrainwater734
6 ай бұрын
They’re usually above their age group in knowledge since they get the one on one time they need and they tend to be happier. It’s not what it used to be. It’s actually more beneficial if you can afford it.
@Theonestupidolive
5 күн бұрын
What the hell are u doing with that poor baby
@brians9182
6 ай бұрын
Sometimes I get frustrated with my toddler. I was searching KZitem for tips. This was brilliant.
@Dasindance
3 ай бұрын
Positive reinforcement for unhealthy behavior is not discipline. This parents behavior not only rewards the child's unhealthy behavior but teaches the child to repeat the behavior to receive the "positive" response from the parent again.
@user-fg9cl7bp2z
10 ай бұрын
I cant see any child crying! It breaks my heart
@Hff19927
3 ай бұрын
Nothing makes you learn as a kid more than a whooping. Its the only language I understood at that age 😂
@madisonwillis9591
3 ай бұрын
I mean, scientifically it's bad and it's made me into an anxiety riddled mentally ill adult who fears everyone who's supposed to be nice to me for fear it'll screw me over and I'll be hurt again, so there's that. Animals don't get it, children don't get it. It's not hard. All they know if they're being hit/harmed by someone who's meant to protect them.
@Hff19927
2 ай бұрын
@@madisonwillis9591 as long as its a place out of love then its fine. Im not talking about beating a kid for a power trip am i
@Hff19927
2 ай бұрын
Tough love is the only way
@madisonwillis9591
2 ай бұрын
@@Hff19927 literally not but k
@Hff19927
2 ай бұрын
@@madisonwillis9591 you’re mislead, it does. You will know one day
@Cosmic-Munk
4 ай бұрын
I prefer whooping s
@rohankenrivera4651
6 ай бұрын
My parents would spank me when i did something wrong and so far i didnt turn out to be violent
@pupssss6
Ай бұрын
Can you give an example of what you did wrong?
@rohankenrivera4651
Ай бұрын
@@pupssss6 Well, my opinion has changed. I did a bit of reflection and reminiscing about the past and I was a pretty aggressive fellow when I was a kid.
@rohankenrivera4651
Ай бұрын
@@pupssss6 I don't really remember but I bet it was because I threw a tantrum and cried in public which is a common thing a kid would do
@calicaly2k
8 ай бұрын
WoW! Hope your child doesn't grow up beating and abusing you. This doesn't work on the hood!!!
@calicaly2k
7 ай бұрын
@487racks Know the difference between Verbal and/or Physical Discipline, Beating, and Abuse.
@calicaly2k
7 ай бұрын
@487racks Read my stance....again. Parents should not beat or abuse their children and vice versa. The overall child TODAY is lacking ANY measure of respect and good morale towards their Parents and community because they never had strong good will Parents to begin with. Todays Parents, in general, are weak and spineless and too busy being a "friend," and the minor crime rate,"Snatch and grab theft," gun violence, and graduation rates prove it. 🙏😇❤️💯🏛🏳️🌈🇺🇲🌏👨⚖️🗽🫂
@mysocksarewet
5 ай бұрын
The best way to get your kids to trust you is to use positive discipline, but many forget to say no and helicopter parent their kids. There is a fine line in parenting, and too many parents aren’t suitable to be parents.
@CuriousGeorgePhotos
11 ай бұрын
Weak parenting
@horsepowermultimedia
11 ай бұрын
What do you mean by weak parenting?
@SeraFina8808-ou6mb
11 ай бұрын
Probably a troll 🙄
@orinola3543
8 ай бұрын
@@SeraFina8808-ou6mbOr a normal human being who don't do "Abuse" Because not everyone in this world is a fuckass "Know it all Karen" 😊
@ronansayers1004
Ай бұрын
😂
@mmmmdddd2267
8 ай бұрын
Positive discipline is great when it works. Still, you should not have your child up on KZitem.
@osibosi99
6 ай бұрын
“Undisciplined children” comes from the latin world “Prison”
@SharalFernandes
4 ай бұрын
😂❤
@nw_blessed1404
3 ай бұрын
Restraining your kids like that is causing more shit down the road. So stupid don’t listen to idiots that chase internet clout
@RavenousPotato
Ай бұрын
I think it’s basic knowledge that it’s disrespectful to hit ppl. Your boss doesn’t hit you when you mess up, and your spouse probably doesn’t to. If you don’t treat them as a valid individual, they will never become well mannered adults.
@Beautybybllc
6 ай бұрын
I need so much help in this regard and idk where to start. my 3 yo is pretty well behaved but has meltdowns and a problem telling me "no", but my 5 yo is talking back BAD and being otherwise rude, bossy etc. Im a stay at home mom and home school and I need help with structure and discipline
@RG-pw7vo
8 ай бұрын
🙄 please.. and this is why we have a generation of children who dont respect or fear authority figures and are little babies about everything. Your kid is bad you put them in time out and dont let them out until they stop crying do that for a week youll have an angel child.
@prisca9114
7 ай бұрын
Ok why would you need to "fear" authority figures ? Is fear-based respect actual respect, or simply people-pleasing to try to protect oneself from the scary situation/person ? My opinion is, you don't want your children to blindly obey you, but rather to respect you, not only because they love you but also because YOU respect THEM If the only thing keeping your kids "in line" is fear, then they don't really respect you, they just try to protect themselves from you. And chances are, if they do it with you they'll grow to do it with every authority figure they'll meet in their adult life, making them unable to stand up for themselves Your goal isn't to make an easy to parent, "angel" child, it's to raise an assertive adult. Children aren't supposed to be easy-going 24/7
@prisca9114
7 ай бұрын
@@487racks Yes that's my point Disciplining is teaching, not abusing or bullying
@GudduHydrabad
10 ай бұрын
Why no example? Useless video
@ConstaPation
25 күн бұрын
Watch out because without enough sternness your child will think he can do what he wants with just a small little talk
@eulanzejoubert5622
8 ай бұрын
And what if this doesn't work And they walk over you.... every time?
@akb8239
7 ай бұрын
@487racks Yeah...that doesn't always work. I have 2 boys. 13 n 10 yo...so I know. Example: I have explained (talked very nicely and respectfully/lovingly) to both my kids to never take money from their father's or my purse without asking. Yet my 10 yo took money from my purse one day. He got caught by me and then he lied when I asked. So I sit him down and again talked to him and explained it. Next time he does it, he will get his ass whopped. Talking always doesn't work. (I amAsian) we don't have soft parenting. Although the newer generation parents are starting to do it, and their kids are some of the most disrespectful, bratty, entitled, indisciplined kids i have ever seen.
@pupssss6
Ай бұрын
@@akb8239and why do you even start telling your children not to take money from your purse? Why did you attract their attention to that? Because you see bad in them? Are you suspicious of them? So, first you plant seeds of the bad in them and then you deal with it! Basta!
@Menace2Society9
8 ай бұрын
Soft parenting gets all the soft nut jobs we have today with genz.... Spanking needs to be a thing again. Kids will learn fast...
@Menace2Society9
8 ай бұрын
@@487racks the overwhelming majority of studies prove TOUGH parenting is the best for children also two parent households... Stop saying beat. Like its abuse... its not. It's corrective behavior.. If your kid(10) lets say breaks a vase by playing ball in the house. You tell them very sternly that you do not play ball in the house and warn of consequences if they do it again. Fast forward, they do it again- you put them in their room and take away electronics and TV time, while making them write an apology/why they won't do it again letter. 2 months pass and they do it again but he breaks a window. You put them over your knee, spank their ass and send them to their room grounded for 1 week with chores to pay for the window... You dont have to spank them right away(or smack their hand), but when they don't listen via light consequences. You must teach them with harsher consequences... I did bad things as a kid and once I was spanked with a plastic spoon, I learned very quick not to do it again... I have no mental issues, no "trauma" etc... the vast majority of ppl claiming "trauma" over being spanked or soap put in their mouth are looking for attention online... they think it's "cool".... I'm glad my parent's did what they did. It made me a good person and i learned there are consequences for my actions.. Single fathers raise their kid(s) better than single mothers and this is the reason why-Single mothers do not punish their kids when they should, they allow too much bs to go on and then wonder why their kid is a little ahole and ppl don't want the kid around... Father's know when to punish the kid and how much and its very much needed in society, more than ever...
@Menace2Society9
8 ай бұрын
@@487racks I don't know what you're saying, youtube is blocking your msg... I did see the first few words... search it yourself-"is tough parenting the best way to raise kids?"or something close to it.. You'll see tons of articles siting studies that it is...
@Menace2Society9
8 ай бұрын
@@487racks yeah ok, you're definitely not being truthful at all.. The most comprehensive study done on the topic looked at 9,000 families in the UK to discover the long-term effects of different parenting styles. The study found that children’s upbringing had a profound effect on social skills later in life. Those children with “tough love” parents were twice as likely to develop empathy, resiliency in the face of difficulty, will-power, and control over their emotions. The study states that, “Confident, skillful parents adopting a ‘tough love’ approach to parenting, balancing warmth with discipline, seem to be most effective in terms of generating these key character capabilities.” The principal author of the report, Jen Lexmond added, “far from a ‘soft’ skill, character is integral to our future success and wellbeing.” We're living through the evidence for your soft parenting style. Mental illness, narcissism,delusions, lack of control over emotions and lack of real empathy is off the charts.. kids/young adults today are fkn horrendous... theres no debating that. They are from the certain type of millennials aka liberals/leftists.... the ones who believe in Participation trophies, that you should be submissive to your kids because they don't want to hurt their feelings, they dont teach them how to deal with reality and much more..... We are quite literally living through the product of the parenting style like you want and believe in.... its not going good AT ALL... not to mention more fathers out of the home(most not by choice).... 2 parent households with tough love > anything else
@Menace2Society9
8 ай бұрын
@@487racks yeah the toddler sitting in her arms throwing a fit... gotcha Spanking isn't beating your kid...
@Menace2Society9
7 ай бұрын
@@KainoPerry beating and spanking your kids is not the same... learn the difference 🤡
@garrettbuckmaster4297
9 ай бұрын
It's funny cause the don't touch it it's hot teaching methods have worked for a long time if you let your kids experience consequences for their actions instead of failsafeing their life they won't be the kid that gets beat up in school for breaking social boundaries don't raise weak punks and Sissy's prepare your children for adulthood and the workforce
@user-pj9rz5nd5y
7 ай бұрын
Great message
@Jacquesvdw4963
11 ай бұрын
My dad grabs the belt and hits me 😂
@Abloolah
10 ай бұрын
Bro that’s what discipline is
@Jacquesvdw4963
10 ай бұрын
@@Abloolah yes I know and it is good what he is doing
@EternaLivesMatter
10 ай бұрын
You have a good father! God bless him!
@Jacquesvdw4963
10 ай бұрын
@@EternaLivesMatter yes thank you 😊
@chrismccaffrey8256
10 ай бұрын
@@EternaLivesMatterwhat the fuck!?
@sylviapotter6328
10 ай бұрын
Yeah looks like what you were saying had no affect on your child at all since it's still sitting there crying, every time I watch these videos I see how much older parents are today but definitely not wiser. When I had my children, I was 22 yrs old and had 3 babies under the age of 4, my first on October 20, 1979 and another son on March 19,1993. I know back then we had better control of our kids, if they did something they weren't supposed to we didn't put them in some stupid time out or have some 3 hr. discussion of what and why they did something wrong and we certainly didn't just let them get away with whatever they wanted because we didn't want to hurt their little feelings or embarrassed them in any way but they knew when I meant business. Today adults let their children run them and their lives, they let their children kick, scream, spit, hit and even disrespect them and that's good parenting? If you really love your child you would want them to be good, successful, respectful adults like mine. Parents be parents and do your job, we have enough juvenile delinquents.
@eulanzejoubert5622
8 ай бұрын
How do you not let them walk all over you. I have a 3 year old son, who doesn't listen most of the times.. what is the best way to help them listen to you
@bashar86
5 ай бұрын
Ahh whoopin is a form of deciplina
@mysocksarewet
5 ай бұрын
Also comes with losing contact with your child in 20 years “for no reason?”.
@kojismiles
5 ай бұрын
my parents taught me that this punishment is cruel and ineffective. get this toxic info off this mom’s yt channel.
@adararelgnel2695
11 ай бұрын
So what DO you use? You only offered 3 options, there are plenty more forms of effective discipline.
@Vivid929
7 ай бұрын
I know how to drop kick
@Flo_22.
Жыл бұрын
I think what you meant to say is a strong father 😂.
@sharamusica
11 ай бұрын
Lmao my kid would not care
@stonevisionmedia
11 ай бұрын
He's going to be a sociopath.
@chrismccaffrey8256
10 ай бұрын
Sociopaths are created by extreme abusive trauma, so no, this child likely WONT become a sociopath
@ohsnaptutorials5409
10 ай бұрын
@@chrismccaffrey8256 looks like it’s working real well based on the amount of teachers walking out of the teaching industry.
@orinola3543
8 ай бұрын
@@chrismccaffrey8256 Louder🗣️🗣️🗣️💯💯💯💯
@johnnystanley8513
8 ай бұрын
@487racks your very obsessed 😅
@Joshismack
11 ай бұрын
BS
@Joshismack
8 ай бұрын
@@487racks BS
@chibimarshmallow8808
4 ай бұрын
Deny facts and reality all you want🤭
@Joshismack
4 ай бұрын
Passive nonchalant correcting will only create little demons.
@madisonwillis9591
3 ай бұрын
@@Joshismackgentle =/= permissive. I don't understand how none of you get this.
@user-qf5nc7pw7r
10 ай бұрын
A belt would have had the same result yaknau? - sincerely asians and blacks and mexicans.. Ps. Wik
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