As a kid I grew up watching the shaytards and now i'm 18 getting amazing advise from one of the kids that were my childhood, you are genuinely so insperational and watching your videos are so helpful and make me feel less alone .You're truly an amazing person
@MojoDojoE
Ай бұрын
Omggg I’m also 18. We’re growing up watching these amazing people. ❤
@jasmineperez6642
Ай бұрын
@@sduolcepoh7502 I personally respect your input, but i don’t believe in god, i am spiritual and keep an open mind so im not denying his existence but it’s personally not what i truly believe in. I believe more that we are reborn into something new, something that our personality embodied or we go back to what we first were space matter, different chemicals in space. And i was only saying she was inspirational and that she should keep doing what she doing, no matter what everyone has room to grow no matter how old you are.
@gamingwithmayayt1040
Ай бұрын
OMG SAMEEEE
@Musicman169
Ай бұрын
@@sduolcepoh7502 You can have your opinions. But that doesn’t mean you’re right. If God is who you follow, one of the Gods called Sai Baba makes a point regarding everyone is one. You can see God in an individual as well as in yourself. Do some research. One of his quotes are “Subka Malik Ek”, meaning “God is One”. Jesus Christ is one God but is still the same as every other God you have ever known like Lord Shiva, Lord Krishna, Lord Brahman, Lord Vishnu, Sai Baba, Pharaohs, Lord Ganesha, etc. God is with us, and having faith is all it takes to progress in life. And to be egoistic or negative towards others means that you’re treating yourself even more poorly than the affect you are inflicting on others. This sense of that everyone is one means that all kinds of relationship binds into an harmonious relationship, where people generally live in unity rather than deceive one another due to our own actions.
@s4lly79
Ай бұрын
Same except I’m 19
@xkristixx
Ай бұрын
Just gonna throw this out there - Been with my husband since I was 14. We were long distance until I was 19 and engaged. He moved halfway across the country to me. Married at 22, and happy now at 32. ☺️ You two got this!
@stephanieburg7968
Ай бұрын
As someone who started long distance recently I really appreciate this.
@graciem6757
Ай бұрын
Bro I am 31, married, and have 2 kids. And even I needed this advice about jealousy and relationships. You have a future in life coaching!
@jessicafishley207
Ай бұрын
My boyfriend & are are about to transition to long distance for *hopfully* a shorter time (6 months to a year) and we’ve both been talking to therapists and the biggest thing they talk about it vulnerability, communication, and having an end goal. Meaning a timeline of when the long distance can end. Also everyone’s story is different. Some people can make long distance work and some people aren’t cut out for it and both options are perfectly okay! Feel out what’s best for you☺️
@chellyd.7977
Ай бұрын
My husband and i were long distance when we first began dating for 6 years!!!! And now we're married and finally living together. Long distance only works if you really want it to, you're secure, trust each other and communicate. Without communication, the relationships over lol
@tokvodrxft
Ай бұрын
As someone who got out of a 3 year domestic violence relationship, and now i'm in a perfectly good relationship, having small problems that you LITERALLY JUST LISTED, thank you. You may genuinely help my relationship. Thank you Avia.
@dikoehler4255
Ай бұрын
I'm happy you got out and are happy now.
@georgialourantos8247
Ай бұрын
I love your advice so much! I told myself about a year ago that 'I'm the luckiest girl in the world' and MIRACLES HAPPEN. You are so beautiful Avia x -Love from New Zealand!
@lindsaykeltonsisawapas
Ай бұрын
Avia! I just have to tell you that I’ve watched the Shaytards since 2010!! Your mom was pregnant with Brock when I began watching!! I’m 31, so apart of the older audience haha, but I am so inspired by you and your growth over this time!! Beyond proud of you, continue to transform and feel proud in those shoes of yours!! Love you 🥰🩷
@CaitlinEileenRose
Ай бұрын
I did long distance from NYC - Liverpool, UK during Covid for 1 year. Not knowing when they would let planes fly, not being able to plan fun visits to see each other without being afraid of contracting Covid, and both of us losing our jobs in the pandemic... it was tough. We pushed through and as soon as planes were able to fly, I packed 2 suitcases and spent the rest of the pandemic in the UK. We're now together for 4 years, happily married for 2! Now, when bad stuff happens we know we can handle it because we've already done a hard thing and came through it. This is great advice!
@lilykeeney4656
Ай бұрын
song is from rio!!
@makeupartist4ever
Ай бұрын
I'm genuinely impressed with your answers and your grasp on reality at such a young age. I definitely didn't have that logic at your age. My boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years and have dealt with long distance the entire time. While we have lived together for years he is gone a lot for work. You truly have to trust the person. Yep, there is a chance he's cheating but I know him very well and the possibility is quite low. I worry more about him coming home safely. Role's reversed, as well. He could sit there and worry about me cheating but I'm just waiting for him
@deehydrated
Ай бұрын
I remember watching you when you made your “forever love” video. Cannot believe how strong you’ve become. I’m 22 btw. I’m so proud of you girl
@serenatruong8812
Ай бұрын
This could not have come at a better time. My boyfriend and I may have to start long distance next month and the first person I searched for a video of advice from was u! Even though 19 may seem young, sharing your experiences gives me hope that we can make it work. Thank u Avia for being u
@nataliesnotablenonsense
Ай бұрын
period, rio only has bangers fr
@shaleywilliams8583
Ай бұрын
My husband and I were long distance for the first 4 years of our relationship and we are in year 3 of living together and year 2 of marriage! If it’s meant to be, it will work out.
@ItsATwinThingvlogs
Ай бұрын
loveeee and yes to the positivity love that
@btk1243
Ай бұрын
Funny story. My neighbor Ron is single and in his 50s. He told me about these two 60-something sisters, Lisa and Cathy, who share a home down the street . . . He said that he started going for morning walks with Lisa, for exercise. In the evenings, he sometimes would bump into Cathy when walking his dog . . . One day, out of nowhere, Cathy confronted him, "Sorry for being abrupt, I'm an old lady, and I have to know: "Are you sleeping with my sister?!" .. Ron paused, then laughed. Cathy said, "I knew it!" Ron interrupted, "Sorry for laughing. But this morning, you know what Lisa asked me? - She said, 'Are you sleeping with my sister?!' (Cathy)" . . . . So I guess jealousy is not limited to people in college - (Watch out for those Senior Citizens!)
@Nicole..78644
Ай бұрын
Ur so pretty. I love ur videossssss
@victoriajohnston4489
Ай бұрын
I currently live in Italy and my boyfriend lives in Canada, it is definitely difficult but I do believe it makes your relationship stronger. You are so emotionally mature, im sure you both will be great!
@eleanorh3836
Ай бұрын
i love your videos & your advice so much! you need to drop a podcast because I would listen to your advice and stories nonstop girl !!!
@kaleighandrew
Ай бұрын
literally love your videos :)
@s3b1987
Ай бұрын
the song at the beginning... the first time i hear it, was in the movie RIo, i think i was sung by jamie foxx.
@islamurray2978
Ай бұрын
You are so pretty, literally angelicc
@fmma14667
Ай бұрын
You're truly beautiful Avia
@maulipandey_
Ай бұрын
i smiled when i saw your video on my feed 😭💌ily
@maggiebakken13
Ай бұрын
Fly love from Rio is one of my favorite songs omg
@vivianf9930
Ай бұрын
Yesss the Rio soundtrack SLAPS
@rubywatson1525
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this❤ Would love a video with your mums opinions on life situations!! You’re an angel keep shining girl ❤❤❤
@isabelmakarewicz212
Ай бұрын
i missed watching your videos and i finally found you again which makes me so so so happy. also your unbelievably beautiful
@l_7376
Ай бұрын
How do you deal with staying abstinent and temptation?
@julianavasaturo7717
Ай бұрын
I know its not nearly the same bur I've been doing long distance with my best friend for 12ish years.. I loved this video because long distance is really hard no matter the person ily for this!
@Breeanamarie
Ай бұрын
I have been long distance with my boyfriend for over a year (California to Texas), and literally can relate to the unnecessary comments you get from others. Immediately it’s a a jab, but I honestly am in the most healthiest and secure relationship I have been in my entire life. Hopefully we won’t be long distance for much longer and become a wife soon 😉
@capturedbykiana
Ай бұрын
As someone who’s been in a long distance relationship for 2 years from Cali and my boyfriend is stationed in Germany I really appreciate this🥲🩷every moment i get to see him is so special since i’ve been with him once a year as well
@Erin-ut7vv
Ай бұрын
Can I just say ur makeup and hair and fit slayed this videooo!!
@applejacks25
Ай бұрын
Girl anything more than an hour is long distance IDK what anyone says LOL don't let people tell you it's not
@alaynasweeley5485
Ай бұрын
This is really mature and thought out advice!
@Elizerebourg
Ай бұрын
‘Not far’ is such a relative thing. In the USA that distance isn’t that far, but if you live in a European country (yes, Europe isn’t a country), it definitely is 😅
@mckennaadventures7741
Ай бұрын
Dating a military man know how it is ❤but in the end it will be worth it all!
@user-wl1bq6ho9p
Ай бұрын
I completely agree with you on long distance relationship bc my brother is in a long distance relationship
@kendranormann
Ай бұрын
Aviaaa my favorite KZitemr ❤❤❤❤
@Georgia7Pap
Ай бұрын
I wonder how you feel with the fact that Ian never visits you in LA? You always go to Arizona to see him or you meet in your hometown for major holidays. One time he came to LA and that was because he had a game with his school. I thought that maybe it was due to finances but you say that you went to Disney so that can't be it. Unless you paid for everything and he just can't afford trips to LA to see you.
@BgirlAnimal
Ай бұрын
it’s probably because ian is in college and has less flexibility with his schedule
@TheBeautySpectator
Ай бұрын
I was wondering this same thing. He has opportunity to visit.
@kaatieharrison
Ай бұрын
5 to 6th hours in the UK is one side of the country to the other 😂
@brandondowlen1836
Ай бұрын
Great vlog, Avia! ❤
@ToastyTiff
Ай бұрын
Rio is my heart movie 🥹
@emilygriest9188
Ай бұрын
6:40, my and my bf call it "together alone time" 😂😂
@carlosr5918.
Ай бұрын
I live in Connecticut and she in Vegas. Its so hard! I fly every 2-4 months and even that isnt enough.
@l_7376
Ай бұрын
That's a pretty mature perspective
@tulip_peony
Ай бұрын
The song is from Rio 🥰 love that song, now give me a kiss lmao
@kaileegarcia477
Ай бұрын
me and my boyfriend literally play Fly Love for our birds all the time 🥹🥹
@karymea3914
Ай бұрын
okay but i love your shirt and need it WHERE IS IT FROMMM😞
@danieltwambi3563
Ай бұрын
I love the advice videos 😊😊😊
@MojoDojoE
Ай бұрын
Love you Aviaaa❤
@Grrreeeeeeew
Ай бұрын
Avia you are my sunshine
@ayannamyaa
Ай бұрын
Girl period
@joanaespinoza5975
Ай бұрын
When will you live in the same city? ☺️
@PrincessPeyten
Ай бұрын
I couldn’t trust my ex boyfriend because he would say some off the wall stuff or ask me questions he already knew the answer to and say very very inappropriate things to me that made think whoa WTF😳😳😳
@junfredpactol5970
Ай бұрын
You're so beautiful
@baileyy.scott101
Ай бұрын
I need your playlist links😓😓😓
@100akerwoods
Ай бұрын
😂Rio , I love that movie .
@janissaalatorre587
Ай бұрын
Rio ❤
@user-ty4dz5fo9k
Ай бұрын
good morning 🙋🏻avia
@hat3rzg0nahat3
Ай бұрын
Have you ever talked to your boo about if you had an acting job and had to do a kiss scene?
@lisbethflores941
Ай бұрын
Rio 🦜
@madi20047
Ай бұрын
It's hard for me, I don't really get to see him in person 😕 He lives over 3000 miles away 💔
@xXxGAYshaxXx
Ай бұрын
We did Poland-U.S. for 5 years 😥 everything is doable but super hard
@user-qo6du4hc4w
Ай бұрын
Good morning Avia Hump day🐫
@Dream-Gaming
Ай бұрын
I thought u said pick your feet 😂
@kenyahamon9622
Ай бұрын
RIOOOO
@annax38
Ай бұрын
I think over an hour drive is long distance.
@RoyaleBryYT
Ай бұрын
Literally am in the same situation but instead Scotland to Oregon 😢 It’s absolutely TORTURE STILL for 6 years not being able to see each other cuz of the plane expenses going up rn 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔🥺🥺🥺 I mean we’re still trying to make it work cuz I’m literally waiting for 2026 as I was told would be the time we’d be able to go to the USA and mostly I’d wanna stay being in Scotland is bad enough we barely have anything good for like fun wise I’d say 😂
@Koala6748
Ай бұрын
Sorry to pry but I am confused about the last part, do you mean in 2026 you both move to the same Country/City? As I completely understand long distance at first but 6 years?! I would definitely need an end date! Sending love to you both, it must be so hard I cannot even imagine!
@RoyaleBryYT
Ай бұрын
@@Koala6748no I mean I’d wanna stay with my boyfriend I ain’t moving back to Scotland 😂 Literally Scotland sucks
@RoyaleBryYT
Ай бұрын
@@Koala6748and we don’t have a date when we’d see each other all it is is cuz I’m starting college soon next month, but I won’t get much paid as well for the time I’d be able to go see my boyfriend. cuz Yh think about of all the work and that and I’m autistic and I have no idea how to do that. so it’s basically why I was told my boyfriend or my mum but idk who’s going where first like me to him or him to me, like idk yet we’re not in 2026 yet but it’s cuz he’d be 21 while I’ll be 22 so more likely I might know more things but that’s still unlikely ik what I’d be doing. But we’re also making it work at least Yh while not being able to hug or anything which sucks and especially when in public you see couples and you just want them there too but again we can’t Teleport which also sucks😢
@kaseyjefferson6300
Ай бұрын
Rio 💋
@tyreesetjjoyner1995
Ай бұрын
Good video, PrincessTARD
@Brandon-ic6gg
Ай бұрын
❤
@SnobbyKidStudio
Ай бұрын
A relationship with God is a long-distance relationship, but not really. I don't know, random comment. Okay, thinking about removing it. 😉
@rongarrett1366
Ай бұрын
Avia ♥♥♥♥♥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹✴✴✴✴✴👑👑👑👑👑
@clairetrestrail7876
Ай бұрын
Ur so beautiful I love you video 💗💐🫶
@TheBeautySpectator
Ай бұрын
You sound like you're trying to convince yourself on the long distant relationship.
@francinedelosreyes
Ай бұрын
Are you okay with your partner watching 🌽?
@epiccrafttime2205
Ай бұрын
This was super helpful for me, I was really hurt during a past long distance relationship and I’ve held onto those fears and worries and hurt for so long that in my current relationship which is not long distance, I have such an anxious attachment style and I find myself ruining a lot of our moments because I’m afraid of what could happen between us. I’m definitely going to focus more on the positive what ifs!! 🫶
@AlyssaAhearn01
Ай бұрын
What I want to know is how going to church is either the same/different as you live in a different city that probably doesn’t have a lot of LDS memebers. I only ask cuz it was a HUGE challenge for me, and somewhat of an eye opening of those who are apart of the church ❤️🫶🏻
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