“Listen to people and show them you care” Or “Allow them to spill their desires and make them think you’re the key to getting everything they want” Very fine line that
@dm7356
Жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ I wish you weren’t so awkward bud
@Tomezilla514
Жыл бұрын
And that is what makes this a very powerful thing to know. Power can be used to achieve good or bad ends.
@jerodbarbee1821
Жыл бұрын
Difference of opinion
@potato31415
Жыл бұрын
Listen to people and show then you care RESULTING in them spilling their desires and making them think you’re the key to getting everything they want
@Whosyourdaddy21
Жыл бұрын
It’s not really a fine line it’s just intention.
@JackDeniko2212
Жыл бұрын
I don’t think people understand how powerful this can have an impact on someone. Be careful who you interact with
@missherrera4451
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I’m learning this slowly, not everyone requires this level of attention
@kiethmontana
Жыл бұрын
@@missherrera4451agreed
@saartnomsky4523
Жыл бұрын
yea i got a stalker but i did this over 5 months
@luku9065
11 ай бұрын
You mean they get obsessed with you?
@franciscogerardohernandezr4788
10 ай бұрын
@@luku9065 giving such attention to the wrong person can stir envy and jealousy, gaining an annoying frenemy. I know by experience.
@lynndemarest1902
7 ай бұрын
The simple act of thanking someone for being there never fails to surprise me. At the doctor the other day, the office worker was obviously unhappy. No eye contact. Finally, when all the paperwork was done, I looked at her (she had still not looked at me yet) and said, "Thanks for being here." She IMMEDIATELY looked at me and smiled and said thanks. Many people are lonely. These simple human connections matter, especially when everyone's tied to a keyboard.
@markhicks1687
Жыл бұрын
Dale Carnegie says it in his book, how to win friends and influence people. The one thing that people truly desire the most is the feeling of importance. People are not interested in money, fame or anything else, just the feeling of importance.
@Travis_Trauma
8 ай бұрын
Yep, Seduction is a new revised How to Win Friends and Influence People.
@IMSLIMEFR
7 ай бұрын
Facts
@oneuser06
Жыл бұрын
This is absolutely true. 99.9% of people don't actually care about you so it is rare when you find someone that is truly interested in you and both of you reciprocating is even more rare. Pay attention this is a key to finding the one.
@Ralph85Williams85
Жыл бұрын
Basically, active listening and confidence!
@nobodynoone2500
Жыл бұрын
Neither. Just be interested in their experince first. There is no space in that mindset for confidence or structured stratigies. Just wanton curiousity and it's exploration.
@marte1376
Жыл бұрын
@@nobodynoone2500his opinion is right. And perhaps you should follow your own advice
@wilsonbarbosa8210
Жыл бұрын
I do this almost naturally! And you can really see how people open themselves up to you if you really pay attention to them and do these things, people starve for this sorta of attention, and when you give to them they jump on it, only feasting on that feeling without reciprocating. Unfortunately, this is a one way avenue, since no one has never done it to me! Honestly it just makes you tired, you can be what people need, but never can find one to be or do anything of that sort for you. 😂
@luku9065
11 ай бұрын
I get you bro lol😂.
@MorgansBeauty22
9 ай бұрын
Law of assumption- what you assume is what will be reflected in your reality! Start changing thoughts and be more open to the possibility of you meeting your equals!
@grantwlms
8 ай бұрын
That’s why you should use it only when it’s important
@sunshine2294
7 ай бұрын
Samee thing is happening to me😂😂😂
@ThomasJones-sz3sx
2 ай бұрын
@@MorgansBeauty22 Great Point!!
@transformyourlifewithGOD
Жыл бұрын
Self consciousness kills everything. Being is the secret
@crankiemanx8423
Жыл бұрын
Your attention & time is the most valuable thing you can give someone.that moment is not something you can ever get back.
@Fuzzyblossom
6 ай бұрын
Use wisely!💪🕊️❤️🔥
@tammy6452
Жыл бұрын
The amount of impact that this gentleman has had on this country can not even be qualified even if you are just counting the people who respond in comments to how much he has affected each of them, and still no aire of supperiority but teaching what makes him influential by being seductive..getting into the minds of others and helping them grow, and in the case of most of us, getting into the mind of another and having better relationships.
@pimpinghoes
Жыл бұрын
@@A_R_B_Gno all people do
@DavidJoiny
Жыл бұрын
Making someone happy & hopeful about life. These qualities are automatic when you love someone unconditionally. A rare & most cherished memory you'll need, if they ever leave.
@alaalfa8839
8 ай бұрын
In some video yesterday they gave advice to men.... they said that if a woman says to a man, she can not live without him, he should avoid the woman because it's a very dangerous statement...... Why does everybody say something different? If she says she doesn't need a man, she is toxic as many videos said for a few years......, if she says she can not live without him, it is toxic. .....what kind of statement is healthy?
@ghastlypompano2
Жыл бұрын
When he said "seducer" I thought it was going to be the biggest pile of bullshit. Actually pretty truthful. People want someone to listen to them, rather than talk at them.
@A.I.-
9 ай бұрын
I guess you still don't know the difference between Brad Pitt and Frankenstein. Let's see how far Frankenstein can seduce their way to your heart.
@ghastlypompano2
9 ай бұрын
@@A.I.- moot point. The conversation is centered around regular people. Not monsters or multi millionaire celebrities. If I'm missing something, please explain it.
@spiderman-uw9uv
Жыл бұрын
I love you Mr. Robert your books literally changed my life
@SHANONisRegenerate
Жыл бұрын
Far out so just being present makes a good start to becoming a good seducer
@amalrajpr6800
Жыл бұрын
"with great power comes the greater the need to learn 48 laws of power -uncle greene
@valeriobertero
Жыл бұрын
here the same
@IblewuponyourfaceIII
Жыл бұрын
Uncle Ben taught you all you know
@alexreinhart3534
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@pinnaclepottery635
Жыл бұрын
I make and sell handmade pottery. And this is one of the principles that I use to sell my work. Because when you’re selling your art it’s a little bit about me and what I do. But it’s also about making someone feel really good about themselves and making them feel important. So when they take their pottery home and start using it, they are left with those good vibes and therefore are a very happy customer that will return. It also helps that I make amazing masterful pottery 😂
@OfficialMrWallace
Жыл бұрын
This with the combination of being attractive and well endowed will make you feel unstoppable
@t.tmarie
Жыл бұрын
I actually think and behave like this naturally but on the flip side this mindset leaves you feeling depleted and lonely. What he's saying is correct people don't naturally think and cater to others which also means the person your doing this for won't return that same energy. Use his invaluable info When it comes to customer service not to your love life!
@chucknoris7648
Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way
@marte1376
Жыл бұрын
If you make yourself a seducer your life changes completely. Funny how it is you think you don't manipulate or seduce. You're just a hypocrite and an offensive person because indeed, you think you're so raw you're better from seducers or people who listens. An antiseducer is a person who is so self-absorbed they think they don't belong or have any flaw of human nature, which is YOU 😂 And by the way, what Robert is saying is pretty complicated, we humans are so selfish it's hard to stay outside from ourselves and actually LISTEN the other person
@twincitydezray
Жыл бұрын
Someone's afraid of rejection
@devs.4254
Жыл бұрын
The best conversation I had in years was with a stripper a few months ago at a birthday. I was hanging back at the bar, and she correctly detected I wasn't super into the party atmosphere so she chatted me up instead. I knew exactly what she was doing, it was a basic ass sales 101 F.O.R.D. conversation. I knew exactly what she was doing, but it worked flawlessly on me anyways. It was the only time anybody had asked me anything about me beyond "are you capable of performing the function I need you for?" in years.
@FridaFlory23
9 ай бұрын
Pay attention, this interview in order to study and detect your soul in order to mirror your needs, give you what matches you and make you feel you have fount your soulmate.... is exactly what malignant narcissists do in the very first seducing phase of love-bombing 🧐 How to know? Love bombing is very intense, toooo much, toooo "I AM YOU" and very fast. Another red flag: say "no", show indipendence and put boundaries.... you will see ill-concealed frustration or grudging insistence or anger, cause what they cannot stand is loosing control. Stay safe 😊 Best luck!
@kenziehale4672
Жыл бұрын
Active listening can be very helpful in forming bonds!
@mordechaiweinstock838
Жыл бұрын
Robert Green is a treasure in our time!
@Fuzzyblossom
6 ай бұрын
💪❤️🔥🕊️♾️🌸🪬
@janetpaguilar5086
Жыл бұрын
I love the way you speak and your voice soothes me.
@Peaches328
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, we all want validation and recognition of who we are R. Greene is a brilliant mind ✨✨✨
@nyx7829
Жыл бұрын
I don't know man. I'm usually the active listener with both friends and strangers. Inquisitive, genuinely interested. Don't talk about myself much. But no one's really been "taken with me" or acted seduced. If anything, it's made me more of a conversational door mat. I think there's a degree of charm or charisma or heck beauty that one must possess in addition to being outward focused that equates to Seduction.
@remindsmeofnoone
Жыл бұрын
If you are listening for the sake of listening, you wont seduce anyone. Listening has to have aims: understanding, influencing, charming, and finally seducing
@KingofNewYorkkk
Жыл бұрын
Be active and lead the conversation. Dominant the conversation to where you want it to go
@Panda.Man96
8 ай бұрын
I will definitely listen to this guy. Clearly just by looking at him, he put all of his skill points in charisma
@sandralucasmelvoin292
Жыл бұрын
Yes, my toxic narcissist paid extreme close attention to everything. I told him about my life and then he used it all against me. Be careful with whom you share.
@dectocs
Жыл бұрын
Ok
@StainsStainsStains
Жыл бұрын
Good for you
@-Zardoz-
Жыл бұрын
Says the hole.
@khairt1731
Жыл бұрын
So you got dirty laundry and you told him about it and it backfired? Seems like the issue is with you, not him.
@ashleyc3307
Жыл бұрын
@@khairt1731 dirty laundry? How about life experiences? You sound like a narcissist.
@danielbaldwin5510
Жыл бұрын
Bro has a phd in rizz
@Fuzzyblossom
6 ай бұрын
😂😂❤
@zoilarodriguez1532
Жыл бұрын
You are so right... People gravitate to me... I love people..
@Tipperary757
Жыл бұрын
Yes, people rarely listen. Listening encourages ppl to talk.
@sarahjmount9221
8 ай бұрын
Great and very true video, Robert! you explained that perfectly. Everyone should watch this.
@hemanhunters6783
Жыл бұрын
I am happy to hear good-hearted advice like this❤ I used to listen to a lot of manipulative crappy info about this topic, when I was younger. Don't be a player. Be genuine. Be you.
@lidyanaredeemed9848
Жыл бұрын
I recently came across to this listening to this man I jus can’t get enough listening to him. Very powerful advice
@Joanna-lk7di
Жыл бұрын
Youre my favourite writer
@somewhereisgone
Жыл бұрын
Giving away the keys to the kingdom with this tidbit, my friend.
@kris7592
Жыл бұрын
Not really
@somewhereisgone
Жыл бұрын
@@kris7592 I disagree, the advice is of a high caliber.
@amalrajpr6800
Жыл бұрын
Well your attention is no value if you are of no value
@kris7592
Жыл бұрын
@@somewhereisgone 🥰❤️
@somewhereisgone
Жыл бұрын
@@amalrajpr6800 I don't like to strip people of their value. Attention is attention, sometimes we just need one person to see us.
@Giusmelo
Жыл бұрын
Divouring the 48 laws of power, I am totaly fascinated. Great stuff to ponder and learn from!
@BronkoBanane
Жыл бұрын
Do this and you will become her therapist. I am a good listener and people appreciate that but they dont stop speaking their problems to me.
@jmaxpaine
Жыл бұрын
That’s a fact
@marrencebaraquiel
Жыл бұрын
that draining asf
@ZEBEEtheoriginal
Жыл бұрын
Gifts and taken places is not required. Just listening and engaging, earnestly, is enough.
@EstefanieSanz
Жыл бұрын
That exactly what happens in therapy you have the undivided attention of someone there for you are able to listen to yourself better.
@Danceforlife-j7j
2 ай бұрын
It’s called active listening skills. How validating is that to be present and in the moment with someone!
@lauraearthsea9830
Жыл бұрын
He does a hv a beautiful mind. May GOD bless his life. 🙏❤️ He certainly has left a string of wonderful thoughts to improve our lives. My hope is for his continued health! ✨️
@clyndermoody4192
6 күн бұрын
He makes some much sense. Plus,It is so easy to do towards someone.
@Noor-sl5ep
8 ай бұрын
This is actually very amazing
@basimahknowshow
Жыл бұрын
True! I seduce without having to think about anything. I simply get to know you as a person. If I talk to you abd allow you to open up about who you are that matters. Just sit n listen to them tell you n show you who they are.
@SabrinaAngel
7 күн бұрын
@RobertGreeneOfficial you are helping me in tremendous ways in my life. Thank you for your work and determination.
@Vulgaels
Жыл бұрын
People dont understand how powerful is this. I am not best of looking mad, have been obese etc. But this mentality of care for others has been the most seductivr thing
@marissadower-morgan3313
Жыл бұрын
"Trying" to be interested as opposed to being interested in the same or similar subjects or ideals is a deal breaker ..because eventually trying is too hard to sustain . That is why meeting someone is better in a shared cultural setting . People always revert to who they were before they met ...so start with having similar tastes and ideals .
@marte1376
Жыл бұрын
This is explained in the book. You seduce someone you know you can be their dream. It's impossible pretend to be someone you're not or you wouldn't like to be.
@ErinDeNis
Жыл бұрын
But do it from a pure heart, not to take advantage of them. Thats called being grown.
@Man.Well93
8 ай бұрын
Newsflash other people have needs too and men actually need to do something to fulfill them. But hey, since we are only"manipulating" you, us men have stopped pursuing
@goldenbuddha316
Жыл бұрын
he is actually correct, i stand by every word.
@sharri5412
Жыл бұрын
That's why narcissist are such good seducer... they learn you and then use the info to play you. I don't ever let people know me and I test them to see if they would used the info I give to play me like a fiddle.
@sht3885
Жыл бұрын
thank you Mr. Greene, i will definitely read your books.
@ProPrivaC
8 ай бұрын
Roberto I respect your grind and mind You have trampled lines of logical and illogical Your said the point of the laws of power is not to use the book And Your making spiritual and physical combine in coagulation I respect this a lot for the meditation so observation preservational observation emotional psychological and all This is a great tool and framework because it is the epitome of navigational guidance of one’s self I fray and encourage to search beyond these qualities but for kids starting out in the world 48 laws and human nature are amazing books and for me has personally developed me in only a matter of days beyond capacitance I am refined in my searching and looking and was still able to maintain spiritual knowledge as well as now physical knowledge As a individual your outlook to navigate the body and your years of study and years of observation learning and then giving to the public I must say I respect highly Thank you for your contribution to the world
@gerrimiller3491
Жыл бұрын
This is extremely powerful ❤
@bennyblackcat4959
Жыл бұрын
Just like everything else in human relationships, it's all a matter of perception. One might be exactly and genuinely as he described, but been perceived completely differently from the other side, according to their personal experiences.
@DreamCatcher-wg1bk
Жыл бұрын
This has to be true. I am currently talking care of a friend admitted in the hospital who went into injury comma after a bad car accident. One of my friend co-worker had came to visit and she was extremly beautiful and attractive. Before she left we had chance to share some personal conversation and during one of those she mentioned she is also doing her Ph.D which happened to be in a field I have an interest. I was so engrossed I keep asking about her Ph.d, her research, her achievements, talents etc and conversations was flowing water. Trust me my mind even stop registering she is attractive in that moment. When she left we exchange number saying she wants to call me up to check up on our friend recovery and I thought nothing but for her kind support. To my surprise that evening she called me up regarding my friend and she also gave me her another number saying she wants to meet up one day to continue our conversation over a coffee with a flirty text.
@franknsteinsASMR
3 ай бұрын
Listening to them will also allow you to figure out if he/she is who you really want
@maryglo1
Жыл бұрын
Encouragement works. Knowing someone knows you and shows interest is very sexy! Gifts! Dates! Brilliant!
@bilbobaggins4403
7 ай бұрын
He's got crackly spittle quality to his voice.
@moniquebrown3880
Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your videos and insight One thing this reminds me of is. Narcissistic grooming The beginning of relationship and mirroring back by creating a bond quickly and drawing that person Internal self and like you see getting into there spirit
@csc8697
Жыл бұрын
The last person that was like that to me was a flat out narcissist.
@geez5059
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I mean these are seduction techniques. That’s kinda how narcissistic people survive through seduction of unsuspecting people. Robert has said how he used to be the kind of guy that enjoyed the process of seducing women. Called a ‘rake’ but he grew out of it. I don’t think he argues that these are morally right things to do but just that it is ‘how you can do it if you wanted to.’ And how to spot it if somebody is doing it to you.
@csc8697
Жыл бұрын
@@geez5059 I do realize it's a selling technique to or how to win people. I guess it depends on your intentions. I'm still traumatized from my narc POS father & past bf.
@msforce9
Жыл бұрын
Real narcissists are unable to show genuine interest. Their only goal is to discover all your weaknesses, to use them against you, that's the only way they know to survive
@trains889
Жыл бұрын
Or it was you who misinterpreted your being over-demanding to their being a narcissist. A narcissist never listens. So, I think the problem was you.
@geez5059
Жыл бұрын
@@trains889 that’s a bit much too assume things like that. You don’t know anything about them. Idk why you’d jump to those sort of conclusions out of nowhere. That’s quite insensitive especially if they have just said they are damaged by it.
@masterprophet8378
8 ай бұрын
Lavishing people with due accolades is becoming more and more rare as society devolves deeper and deeper into the abyss of narcissism. Tragic to boot!
@hurlentropy6866
Жыл бұрын
The key is money or looks. Materialism helps a great deal in this society.
@michaelcahill1450
9 ай бұрын
I’m glad I’m seeing this now, but I really wish I would have heard this as a young man.
@deanwongonline
9 ай бұрын
Powerful Insights from a Master Communicator.
@adriamartinez4810
8 ай бұрын
And those not paying attention, many times they dont enjoy others because always are in a hurry because of work or busy. It is a pleasure when someone listens and with attentiveness
@47bricklayer
Жыл бұрын
People would rather be heard than right.
@betterwithwine
2 ай бұрын
this is 100% me on the most natural level. I think I see why people mistake this for me being romantically interested in them..
@cayennesinivassinel6977
Жыл бұрын
Wow...there are people who do not care for others to validate or recognize them ...to Know ThySelf is key to inner joy...they know who they are spirit/soul/source and they Direct people to Inner Guidance... to depend on others for these things is to want their energies they need for themselves to live. Teach independence 🙌🏼 and independent people know how to be balanced...& do not expect others to do for them what they can do for themselves....and they are major foundation in Teamwork....why seduce others?
@nicolafarnhill2184
7 ай бұрын
A million percent. This is what I do in my work 🎉
@rachellesilva5626
8 ай бұрын
Narcissists are very good at mirroring initially, just long enough to get the hook in. Then that is what you strive for the entirety of the rest of the relationship.
@nancybrantley9694
Жыл бұрын
My fave podcast....so TRUE😊
@adriamartinez4810
Жыл бұрын
And be spontaneous. Cannot be the same with each person.
@Mayalex9927
Жыл бұрын
Entering into their world and experiencing their lives.. Well said
@souvikkarmakar6925
Жыл бұрын
And also HELP people to be a great SEDUCER
@Just2gofoods
Жыл бұрын
Mr. Robert I Really like these shorts, especially this one; thank you, sir.
@chrismackerdush7728
Жыл бұрын
He’s describing the attributes and behavior of an ideal parent i.e. being a good partner to some one seems to require the same qualities as a good parent
@msessenceofreality
7 ай бұрын
Be careful who you invest that interest in because sometimes it's a manipulator. I learned that the hard way.
@jimcoffey7291
Жыл бұрын
At present I have but one goal in life nothing else matters be safe God bless
@ekatasatya2995
Жыл бұрын
thanks for warning.
@ClassesMANI
Жыл бұрын
Truly speaking never be this person , it’s people pleasing mindset . We never know, whom we have meet . Maybe they are the real players who are just , making you believe their parts so that they can make u work according to them
@askmajd
8 ай бұрын
absurb people needs and thougts and reflect in a caring way
@LeiraHP
Жыл бұрын
really listening & integration what someone says or observing what they go through is not seducing is caring. now, of course everyone wants care.
@brotherrogue2310
Жыл бұрын
just to add something to the last point Yes, we like validation, we want validation..... but to REQUIRE it, as in, its something people NEED to do, as in an expectation, it will usually lead to dissapointment
@ladonasanta9222
8 ай бұрын
👌 wooow, can you please attach the full episode 😭 🙏
@baronvonbeandip
8 ай бұрын
Idk that this is accurate. Maybe its just me but I am a void that's trying to fill myself within anything and everything else. I think people are intrinsically put-off by me taking everything from them.
@user-tr7yg7zo3j
7 ай бұрын
It helps to be a novelist. You want to hear everybody’s story. My favorite phrase when I meet someone new: “So tell me about yourself.”
@Lifeasithappenss
Жыл бұрын
This is really good advice.
@hemikaislam3303
Жыл бұрын
Yeah sounds correct to me. I’ve never had a boyfriend (that I can remember) who was ever interested in me and wanted to know things about me personally like asking me questions like where I grew up, what are my favourite flowers, and what was frightens me. I haven’t had a male want to actually realllllly listen to the sentences I’m speaking in real time. It’s like it’s in 1 ear and out the other. The boyfriends I’ve had (apart from 1) have never wanted to make me happy, like buy a book they know I’ll love to read, or write me a letter. It seems like the boyfriend I had last just stuck around me to see if he could sleep with me someone soon. Literally just staying with me in the hopes that I’ll one day open my legs for him when he’s done nothing to win my affections. He lived in my home rent free for 1 week and did nothing but “wash the dishes” and he thinks I should “put out” for him. He is dreaming. It’s common sense to wash up after yourself when you’re staying at a home that isn’t yours. No brownie points. We lasted 2 months and I had to bail on him. I left. He forgot when my grandma died, even though I spoke to him about it on the phone for 30mins. He forgets everything, lies and breaks promises. Yuck. I can see why no girl has ever wanted him in the past.
@kasheba866
Жыл бұрын
this is why I keep hearing reflection.. cool!
@mastsid0212
9 ай бұрын
He will make a great salesman
@sarajitsen56
3 ай бұрын
Wow his words are the only thing that made sense ..its basically just stay true , be kind , be humble there is nothing to brag about just give your opposite partner the freedom to talk to and slowly they will open up to you more then become friends first maybe and then make a move finally to male them yours
@cicivonschweet8966
8 ай бұрын
Make sure your intentions are good first. Don’t use this selfishly to use and abuse others for your own personal gain. And yea that includes using it on multiple people at once just to boost your own ego. It includes using it falsely just to prove to your friends you can seduce a random person. It includes using it just to get sex out of someone who you led to believe it was going to be a different type of relationship. Basically, don’t be a bad person.
@cicivonschweet8966
8 ай бұрын
And yea that includes using it on multiple people at once just to boost your own ego. It includes using it falsely just to prove to your friends you can seduce a random person. It includes using it just to get sex out of someone who you led to believe it was going to be a different type of relationship.
@letsomethingshine
Жыл бұрын
Nah. It's : Demonstrate Value Engage Physically Nurture Dependence ("what they missing") Neglect Emotionally Inspire Hope Separate Entirely then Move in After Completion
@Jipaaji
Жыл бұрын
Attention and listening Get into their spirit Remove your lenses And give validation
@clownworld-honk410
Жыл бұрын
"Seducer"...That's a strong word with negative connotations to describe someone who is engaged enough with humanity to show interest and concern to a stranger. He's using the wrong word.
@marthaoviedo8680
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One of my favourite authors
@Mushroom321-
Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!, being attuned to the person !! ❤😊
@nemono-won7712
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Abandone yourself and thoughts for THIERS... everyone loves a private "cheerleader".
@StylishStu
8 ай бұрын
The sharpest tool in everyone's arsenal
@girish4378
8 ай бұрын
Hey guys! If anyone has finished reading the full book ‘Art of Seduction. We can do a podcast on this book’s every chapters and post our video on our KZitem channels. Reply me if anyone has fully finished it.
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