This is my most favorite video on KZitem!! I love it so much.. As a slightly plump woman who has been rejected by a couple of men who chose the skinny shoe collecting self obsessed taker over me. This video made me cry at the thought that there are men out there that see beauty from within and want that.
@BayAreaPinay
10 жыл бұрын
Awe.. Don't cry.. You do not need men like those.. At least you found out early that those are the kind of men they are.. Remember when you feel bad that you have to tell yourself that "it is me that have to look into the mirror".. That was their lost not yours.. So smile Dear :}
@BayAreaPinay
10 жыл бұрын
That did not make any sense.. I am just saying.. Be happy in being you..
@THEMAYQUEEN1
10 жыл бұрын
LOL Thank you Con Nnie for your nice comment. I have been building my confidence for a while after all that past stuff. I will not let it happen to me again. I am who I am :)
@Eliz2011abc
10 жыл бұрын
These guys didn't reject "you" 'cause they didn't take the time to get to know you. If they had taken the time to get to know you, they would have realized that you're a great person. Their loss, someone else's gain. The same thing has happened to me a few times and when I looked back all I can say is "I dodged that one! Whew!"
@THEMAYQUEEN1
10 жыл бұрын
Yes I see that now so agree with you Elizabeth's Calender. Through every bad experience I become better.Therefore my boundaries and what I accept for myself also changes for the better.
@AgoodITguy
10 жыл бұрын
Simple be a lady and you get a good man or be a bitch and you get a bad man or no man at all...
@MsJazmeen
5 жыл бұрын
"BEAUTY IS NOT IN THE FACE; BEAUTY IS A LIGHT IN THE HEART." ~KAHLIL GIBRAN
@terrynorum7882
5 жыл бұрын
I agree! physical beauty fades, but who you are inside what matters.
@MsJazmeen
5 жыл бұрын
That's right Terry ! 'A Beautiful Face will age, and a perfect body will change, but a beautiful soul will always be a beautiful soul. '
@ceciliachang4947
5 жыл бұрын
right on
@ektasharma3520
4 жыл бұрын
Men will leech out everything out of the giver who even gives him a kid and then he runs after a woman who is half his age or hotter. Red pill.
@connielongfurrball1340
4 жыл бұрын
Both help
@hemshi1454
5 жыл бұрын
Yes we'll said. I found a man as my life partner. I had acne, pigmentation that makes me look ugly and he was never judge my outer beauty. He loves me the way looks I am and you know what now he's love makes me get rid of all my skin problems and look more beautiful, he totally changed my life, he gives me an awesome life. Sorry for any mistakes in grammar, I don't have fluency in English. Thank you.
@GypsyGirl317
4 жыл бұрын
That's so beautiful! 💖 ☘️ 🌹 😊 👌
@mfrapo5017
4 жыл бұрын
That's a one in a million guy 😀
@chapsgunnam2822
4 жыл бұрын
You were NEVER ugly, you are NOT ugly! You are beautiful!
@surriyaarif173
4 жыл бұрын
You are so pretty
@bluliite
8 жыл бұрын
I believe that's what women find beautiful in men, too. Innocence. Compassion.
@flowers2312
8 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@christianarongmei9130
6 жыл бұрын
Amber Gardner I agree. I think same applies for both men and women.
@palamirtammarimuthu17
6 жыл бұрын
Amber Gardner so right!😍😍😍😍
@gratitude5740
6 жыл бұрын
I agree. Character Vulnerability Loyalty Honesty My sweet man isn’t 6”4 with a washboard for his abs. Neither am I a movie star my any stretch ..... We get one another. He is the gentlest gentleman I’ve met . His goal is to make me happy whatever it takes. My role is to recognize that and reciprocate in my own way . Not the material things matter so much but his gentle heart .
@mirzamay
5 жыл бұрын
@@gratitude5740 how beautiful. That would be like an incredible dream.
@user-jt3pz6ln6y
5 жыл бұрын
If a girl is ugly but compassionate and innocent, men would never throw a glance on her. That's a tough world.
@iCurvaceous
5 жыл бұрын
Everyone is beautiful. Its what you make of yourself that makes someone beautiful. Take care of your well-being, display confidence and show love and compassion. That is what really defines beauty in this world. The only thing stopping someone from being beautiful is what they believe or perceive themselves as.
@user-jt3pz6ln6y
5 жыл бұрын
@@iCurvaceous I agree but only to some extent. There're beauty standards we all fall for
@iCurvaceous
5 жыл бұрын
@@user-jt3pz6ln6y That's dependent solely on the individual. You can choose to be a follower or a leader. Many people stand out both bad and good for their individuality. In my opinion, as long as your individuality is deemed good, righteous, healthy, respectful etc. people tend to gravitate to it with positivity.
@eimiemiminahora1575
5 жыл бұрын
I've noticed that man are more on looks
@iCurvaceous
5 жыл бұрын
@Michelle Sithole No, speak for yourself. For me the only looks that matter to me is how you present yourself, and what makes you you(your personality etc). And by present I mean hygiene, hair, wear, and confidence. One thing I learned about being in the modelling industry, everybody is beautiful. You just have to genuinely care for yourself and wear the sleeve that proves it. That's why I don't model anymore.
@smnvo1129
5 жыл бұрын
I wish all men think like this gentleman.
@DeAnn909
6 жыл бұрын
When you first meet someone your not going to see the true person that's not reality. They may be nervous or have 100 things on their mind. Give the person a chance and if after the 3rd date you still see they are not showing compassion then move on. We are all human and it takes time to get to know someone. Good luck every one.
@tonilee5100
5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you.
@Knidhy
5 жыл бұрын
Totally agreed! Just because a woman likes to look beautiful outside doesn't mean she's ugly from the inside. They judge you without trying to know you first. That's disrespect. I have tons of friends who are compassionate from the inside and beautiful from the outside. This is wrong thinking. Very wrong
@TarotPunam
8 жыл бұрын
only one word.. A true gentleman
@victoriakuz2536
8 жыл бұрын
I think that's 3
@Cornflower28
5 жыл бұрын
"gentleman"
@anantpro5028
5 жыл бұрын
If he is man he can't be gentle and should not be.... He should be hard... Also if he is gentle he is not man.... Sorry to disappoint... He is she.... I mean she has to be gentle... Woman.....
@anantpro5028
5 жыл бұрын
As woman are gentle not man...... There is no gentleman if he is man.. Woman is gentle..... Man is hard...
@Cornflower28
5 жыл бұрын
Gentleman is not the opposite of hard. A gentleman is hard with whom he needs, but is also kind, polite, and honorable to others.
@Healthenthusiast
10 жыл бұрын
I love the way he thinks but most men don't think that deeply .
@rosasantan43
10 жыл бұрын
your right nowadays its very few that man really care about our feeling as woman. but anyway nobody is perfect
@blaria95
10 жыл бұрын
Liz sings Yes.
@littlemissdimples88
10 жыл бұрын
dont give up Dawny cos Ive met lots of really nice guys with deep big hearts
@mizzroro559
10 жыл бұрын
my hubby is like this.
@dekretsergerry
10 жыл бұрын
thats so true
@ethnocentricfun991
5 жыл бұрын
I am a compassionate person, narcissist and users saw me a mile away. My ex pretended to be compassionate too just long enough to hook me. NOW my compassion will be reserved and given those who are not trying to manipulate the gift that God blessed me with. Be careful ladies use WISDOM over compassion or you may end up fighting to restore your life.
@ifynancy7144
4 жыл бұрын
You are right... 100% truth
@SalvaPride1893
4 жыл бұрын
True compassion shouldn’t be reserved to specific people. God wants us to love all. Did God ever treat others differently? No. He showed compassion to all even those that tormented Him. Don’t let another person influence what your heart feels. That speaks of their character, not yours. Be careful yes, but always give love and compassion to all around you as that is what God wants from all of us. To love one another as you love yourself.
@ne4274
5 жыл бұрын
Love hearing a young man describe what is so important, the feminine essence and heart.
@Sabrinageerman
10 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy that there are still guys in this world that realize that looks are not everything and that a pretty girl can become ugly from her personality. Every girl has beauty but an amazing personality can make a not so pretty girl, beautiful. More guys in the world should realize that because eventually looks will fade and you will be stuck with their personality.
@rajendrabiswas
10 жыл бұрын
***** yeah but you can stil be good person
@pablocalle7157
9 жыл бұрын
and what about girls, not that im talking about every girlon the planet, but like in mi school, im in 12th gradeand like theire are girls that are like beatifull 10, but when you get to now them theur personalities are not what i thought, and with that ive benn single all mi life, i havent had 1 girlfriend, and everyone that i know has,and also that in mi class the girls are more attractive too guys that are well, strong, popular, etc. and im well, dont have a lot of friends, im a gamer and i like anime, so not 1 girl in my class would be interested in me
@kamileishon
10 жыл бұрын
First I thought you were a little stiff and creepy, but then you opened this vault of emotion as you described your idea of beauty and I was blown away. Thank you for reminding me whats important.
@Purelikealily
10 жыл бұрын
looool so true! hahahah
@tcyva4845
10 жыл бұрын
hahaha i agree :P
@rileysmiley9585
6 жыл бұрын
This is a very cool dude.
@rileysmiley9585
6 жыл бұрын
I always imagine that I am a bright light in a dark dreary world...that's one of the most charasmatic things about me... my energy and compassion!
@latoyam7824
6 жыл бұрын
You're just one of the few men who has love and compassion. Few men do or understand its depth and knows not how to appreciate it Good Job and thanks.
@elenidasoriolapay1905
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I feel that I'm the woman you've described as having compassion, one who shines and one with soft heart. Keep on inspiring women with soft heart!
@eitaiara
10 жыл бұрын
This is a real man. I wish most guys could think like him.
@rebecca.marina
10 жыл бұрын
Wow! I am amazed at your insight! OMG...you have the wisdom of a much older man. I imagine that every woman falls in love with a heart like yours. Thanks for showing us what a REAL MAN can be. nameste
@froggydoesntcare2713
6 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Marina Messenger namaste
@sionynarte7781
5 жыл бұрын
You're right, beauty can't be seen outside, it comes from the heart
@karenpatterson8574
5 жыл бұрын
Stop watching reality shows and learn to be a REAL human being.
@ip7607
5 жыл бұрын
Do not try to be someone else. God made us to be who we are. Don't try to impress others. If they don't like the way you looks, Too Bad!!! Be yourself, be compassionate & have a good heart, love life that’s how God created us. Do things that will make you comfortable & happy...Life is short, it's up to you & me to make it sweet. Life doesn't require that we be the best, only that we try our best👌👍Blessings to All🙏🤝✌☄☄☄☄
@alanastone5241
4 жыл бұрын
G.od is made up like Santa.
@noellealdi881
3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@noellealdi881
3 жыл бұрын
@@alanastone5241 then I’d love to hear your rebuttal for this argument buddy. If not don’t reply kzitem.info/news/bejne/uaB-zqiNhZFkgpw
@evanescencelight6767
3 жыл бұрын
There’s no god but okay..
@noellealdi881
3 жыл бұрын
@@evanescencelight6767 the Bible says only fools say there’s no God, the main reason for this is because of how much of sin they indulge, so they alienate their mind from God. Anyhow I’d love to hear your thoughts on this argument FOR Gods existence or maybe you can even disprove it and tell me how science debunks God kzitem.info/news/bejne/uaB-zqiNhZFkgpw
@shamansufi13
7 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL AND HIGHLY SPIRITUAL MAN WHATEVER WOMAN GETS YOU WILL BE BLISSED. THANK YOU FOR YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOUL. HAVE A GREAT AND AWESOME DAY.
@Yana26664
10 жыл бұрын
I wish all men were like you
@sharontruetruetrueamenharr5688
5 жыл бұрын
Amen God bless them all
@angeladallimore8079
5 жыл бұрын
Madridista Girl A Real Man
@MB-su4tr
5 жыл бұрын
isn't he`s selling his videos right there?
@anhpam9205
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, I am a 62 year old woman. This was amazing! It's what I needed to hear. While I look just fine I feel men have overlooked my stronger qualities such as depth and compassion.I wish I'd met more men like you! Thank YOU.
@marialta279
5 жыл бұрын
My husband said what he loves about me it's everything..
@euniceminayo7547
6 жыл бұрын
Lets love God first and the rest will overflow from within us i.e compassion,love,kindness,light name them all and without Jesus its impossible.
@steelman1506
5 жыл бұрын
Ya Jesus freaks are an immediate turn off.
@joelonglong342
5 жыл бұрын
❤️👍
@velinawelch7470
5 жыл бұрын
@@steelman1506 I hate that term! And if it's true I guess I'm a turn off...I dont push my faith on anyone else but I do love The Lord!!!!
@isrberlinerin4063
5 жыл бұрын
Amen !
@pogatajosephine6688
5 жыл бұрын
Yes this is right first God first ok
@anniefromthetdot3721
8 жыл бұрын
I'm too compassionate and too much of a "giver" and I continually get burned. Still haven't learned my lesson yet.
@blackwidowotilia
5 жыл бұрын
I am the same. Tend to fall in love for broken men, that end up hurting me. We have a saying in my country that good people have no luck. I see it true over and over. I see these women grab some good guys then cheat on them and be such bitches. Sometimes I say I wish I could be more mean, bitchy but can't. I tend to be so honest. This guy speaks the truth for 50 years ago. People look at aging as ugly, meekness as weak. Whatever.
@palocarlljoshuam.2592
5 жыл бұрын
Same here, i always gave everything i have, i have no reservation, because i believe that is true love, giving and loving him...but i always end up hurting...
@cucar8363
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, I'm too compassionate, often call that I have good heart and I am a kind soul....still single.
@amandakelly1571
5 жыл бұрын
me 3
@belinalug6928
5 жыл бұрын
@@blackwidowotilia What hes trying to say is compassion comes before attraction, and love has no age limit. You can feel just as good about yourself at age 50 as you can at age 20, if your a compassionate person without a big ego.
@nehathegr81
6 жыл бұрын
"That depth that I can dive into and enjoy."! His expression is priceless :) Well said!
@leliu5thelement448
4 жыл бұрын
I know this is November 13, 2019, but this man is SPOT ON! What a beautiful soul he is!
@leliu5thelement448
4 жыл бұрын
Today is December 13, 2019 on a Friday...A very Lucky Day!
@elliec1345
4 жыл бұрын
Sorry - don't agree. He judges this good looking girl so harshly on what came out of her mouth. Perhaps she was just nervous - it doesn't mean she doesn't have compassion and isn't a nice person. I think he should lighten up!.
@michelles1627
6 жыл бұрын
I believe all teen girls are naturally like what you described but from experience they get taken advantage of and then that innocence leaves as they develop into a woman. So we have to act tough to protect and guard ourselves from predators.
@dralord1307
10 жыл бұрын
Ladies I completely agree with this guy, Im a happily married man of 10 years now. He is right that men see women differently than you do. When a man sees a woman and he is interested in her looks dont matter very much at all. When I met my wife it wasnt her looks that attracted me it was her personality. Even before that the most beautiful women I met had nothing to do with their looks. When men want sex we only look at looks, when we want more we dont care about looks.
@AndreiOskar
10 жыл бұрын
Dont care about looks... Oh, please. Why you guys say such things only to please women, or impress them? Of course we care about looks, but not JUST looks!
@jkk4666
4 жыл бұрын
We girls too want a boy who is compassionate n caring ...bt I met all selffish boys in my life till now ...
@miranjoyjoy3869
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha real
@mr.j3371
3 жыл бұрын
It’s called the familiarity principle in psychology. You different guys? Hangout in a different group...
@drgoodwell1082
4 жыл бұрын
I liked the way you said it; so gentle and kind, not all men want like you ,some good hearted women are treated, used, abused and treat us like shut no respect
@lct7192000
8 жыл бұрын
Some men want someone deep but they're not going to get it on the first communication. Most of the time that someone asks how was your day the common answer will be "it was fine, thanks". No one will say "I fed 20 homeless people" or "I thought of my departed mother when I saw a lady wearing a coat at the grocery store and I cried". That's TMI. Most women will not open up like that on a first conversation and may not do it until they've gotten to know the man better. I think guys go for looks initially and will stick around a woman they think is hot until he finds out she is a biotch.
@krishnak4464
6 жыл бұрын
I agree
@sallyheron7031
5 жыл бұрын
First ever thanks for sharing. Value a person for who they are and not what they have. People will hurt you but it's a part of the learning, testing and pruning process. A beautiful woman is not seen only with the naked eyes. Beauty fades, a tender heart can easily be seen by a praying man/woman connected to his father. A beautiful compassionate woman are reserve, you will not find them shopping. These woman keep themself busy caring for others and observing what next I can do to make this world a better place.
@genesisr.zepeda6696
9 жыл бұрын
We need more males like him in this world!
@yeseniasalinas8873
4 жыл бұрын
Ive met men who asked me they dont know why their failling in love i told them before he chooses a woman he should see and choose her for Her honesty Loyalty Compassion Kindness Giving Calmness Positive Careing Loving Integrity Morals Values
@carmialove9878
6 жыл бұрын
Amazing, I've never been explained to something the way you've done it. Chapeau from France!!
@071oakland
8 жыл бұрын
I loved his presentation.. I thought he was spot on in many ways . But one thing that women or men has to be aware of is the love and compassion that your giving sometimes it's not being received" and you have to know when to just move on.. And hopefully be able to give in that way where it's being appreciated. Because people unfortunately do take advantage of kindness as a weakness.
@sonicbelle
8 жыл бұрын
agree
@selinawildflower4964
8 жыл бұрын
I was about to say the same thing
@itsmesia2469
7 жыл бұрын
So true..... unfortunately......
@changyuling4593
6 жыл бұрын
Have to much he took everything from me
@ehmmyorellano
6 жыл бұрын
Elzy Arnold yes you are right.
@zahraliang3897
8 жыл бұрын
you are a man thats why you value those things, but unfortunately there are so many boys out there. Tough to find a man nowadays.
@ScholarlyAmbitions
7 жыл бұрын
Zahra Liang keep looking someones out there for everyone
@adorhaal6970
6 жыл бұрын
Zahra Liang ur right
@sufiairfan8719
5 жыл бұрын
Wht ur saying is so true but its not the same for 90% of guys. What they need is outer beauty only, they have nothing to do with women’s heart or kindness or their behavior or innocence :)
@olivia7192
5 жыл бұрын
True
@nofybn7794
5 жыл бұрын
@@ScholarlyAmbitions No, there's not.
@shensmith2189
5 жыл бұрын
Im a compassionate and a giver person, that is why i found my soulmate!
@gloriaj.jackson7268
5 жыл бұрын
Are you married now? Your video was in 2012 and it is now 2019! I know you must have met your Ruth! Because you are truly a Boaz.....compassionate, genuine, kind-hearted, respectful, honorable and humble! Should I say more? 🤗
@ilsewippenaar4504
4 жыл бұрын
Wow. What a great guy
@kerathelovecoach
9 жыл бұрын
I Applaud You....Well Said!
@mariamistretta3860
5 жыл бұрын
🙂
@vanessakesselring2002
9 жыл бұрын
This is literally the best video on youtube which describes real beauty... This is exactly the advice I was searching for! Thank you for being so honest... This brightened my day!
@mamaluvsherbabes
5 жыл бұрын
Wonderful, appreciative man...wish he could have been my son in law! :) What I've found is men are often attracted to such a loving lady, but after getting into a relationship with her, they take her for granted and lose interest. I think in these instances it's probably because she, being the patient and compassionate lady she is, she keeps giving chance after chance, seeing the potential good in the man....Because she is a "giver" as well as a "FORgiver", she neglects to draw that proverbial "line" in the sand and allows herself to be disrespected time after time. What these loving ladies need to do is find an equally loving man who won't cross over that "line"; one who will appreciate all that she gives to them. I've seen many couples that meet this definition of "success"...but they have worked to get to where they are together as a couple. It's not always easy and it's never perfect...but I believe if both parties are loving and kind and giving, placing the other before themselves, then it is a recipe for success. God bless all here watching this video. :)
@JessMaccain
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, sir! Well said!
@jannahnurul
5 жыл бұрын
that girl impersonation HAHAHAHAHAHHA GOT ME DED
@73cindirella
8 жыл бұрын
You make me almost cry, Im a value woman and I feel happy listening a man talk in that way.
@PrizzT
10 жыл бұрын
So profound... :) Most people say self-confidence is what men really likes. Compassion? Wow, this is the first time I heard from a man. I love the heart connection part. What comes from the heart goes to the heart...love it! Thanks a lot!
@iceblue1457
5 жыл бұрын
Wow! What a depth of soul from someone so young and so handsome.
@diannewilliams1953
5 жыл бұрын
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
@graceAgd
10 жыл бұрын
Definitely goes both ways. Us females feel the same way about men. They could be so attractive, handsome, fit and as soon as you hear them start talking. Its all about him. Turn off!!! I enjoyed this video he has a very good point. Looks is not everything. Which shouldn't be confused with not taking care of yourself. We can't just say ok I'm going to eat whatever I want even tho its unhealthy and not exercise. Beauty comes from caring for yourself mind, body and spirit. I like this video.
@BeautyLilya
9 жыл бұрын
You sirrrrrr, have an extreeeeemly sexy voice...
@celestegarcia3940
9 жыл бұрын
yaaassss
@laycool0
8 жыл бұрын
🔥💦💦💦
@salmachi9836
8 жыл бұрын
and sexy eyes and real feeling about what he says
@BeautyLilya
8 жыл бұрын
+Salma Chikhaoui Everything about this man is sensuaaaallll....
@thomasninan4813
6 жыл бұрын
BeautyLilya SHUT THE FUCK UP this site is for men NOT women 😠😠😠😠
@angelahamlett8249
5 жыл бұрын
Is that why so many men fall in love with me in the first week. The downside is them being possessive, controlling and trying to dominate me. Then when I want out they keep calling me. Why I stayed covered up. I do set boundries. I just want to feel safe with a man again emotionally.
@purvinikale3435
6 жыл бұрын
How accurately you pointed out qualities of a real n loving woman.. You are 10 on 10 on explaining true beauty of a woman.. May each Man find such true n a v loving woman during his life time n let the man too feel thankful to God sending such woman in his Life making his Life worth living for.. Such couples can make awesome family n in return give many good things to society at large. Thanks for sharing your beautiful video dear.. stay bless stay safe . Have a blissful life ahead. 😊⚘
@voiceofflame3109
8 жыл бұрын
Only God can make a perfect woman and a perfect man. Humans on their own is not perfect. God is perfect.
@katherinehasselman1824
8 жыл бұрын
Real nice way to put this, the words and descriptions. I now understand more about why men go for real plain girls.
@luckysol7486
5 жыл бұрын
💕 ETERNAL BEAUTY IS FOUND IN A HEART...
@goddessoflove4323
5 жыл бұрын
God bless your Heart, Genuine, soulful man!
@geethanarayan92
10 жыл бұрын
Thank God. A guy speaking something sensible. . Apart from sex. . Don't know abt other guys . But your idea for a beautifull girl just blew me away. Good looking guy speaking beautifull words. . Wow.
@lizaespada4809
6 жыл бұрын
great!
@sallyjean2519
8 жыл бұрын
Wow yes Wow I just tuned in to this amazing , beautiful , caring , loving , handsome man...inside and out! You made me cry. I am 64 years old, I am still looking for my amazing man. I have all those things I want to GIVE to just one man. Its hard, but I keep trying. I see and have been taking notes, studying you know with Adam Adole, and many others, but YOU have blown them all away, with just your few inspiring words. I will follow you, to the very edge.. and hopefully learn...thank you so, so , so , so much, God bless you. Sally
@gratitude5740
6 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so profound!!! Love it! My man is younger by a lot . I am not rich. What he loves me about is about my heart; my passion for advice and nature and the way I take care of him even at a long distance . We have been in LDR for 9 months. He is a keeper for me and he is talking about me like you describe a woman.
@QueenBee-mk8xm
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. You’re so right about compassion. We all need to show compassion, whether we are men or women. Maybe the reason it’s so attractive is that compassion is probably the same or similar as unconditional love...just a thought 🤔
@celiachimarasllan9597
8 жыл бұрын
HOLY MACARONI YOU ARE AMAZINGLY GOOD LOOKING (SORRY, JUST HAD TO SAY IT)
@chikiprima97
10 жыл бұрын
What a gentleman ! I wish every girl would have someone like you.. This is beautiful
@oliveraskerlic7746
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is so reassuring. I love it that you think and feel the way you do about what beauty and attractiveness really is. I hope women hear this and start cherishing this in them more, we all lack more compassion, warmth and deep connection in communication and less superficiality, fakeness, and selfishness. Thank you so much again, this is just lovely
@angeladallimore8079
5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful soul Beauty is in the eye of a beholder
@anewloveofficial9137
6 жыл бұрын
The physical apperance of a person is what we noticed first, we tend to be attracted to people who are good looking but actually being beautiful isn't the one that gets you a guy. Always remember that character is the most important thing that every woman should have because it's the only thing that won't fade in time.
@Soouber
5 жыл бұрын
best said.
@monikamehra9119
5 жыл бұрын
Yes i agree
@sophien5416
9 жыл бұрын
Hi, thanks for the reminder! Sometimes I get the "pull away" issue when I like someone. Probably out of fear of rejection. But if I focus on compassion and being my genuine self it doesn't matter, regardless if it is returned or not. Inner beauty should be shared. Just like in this video :-)
@judithcelestre9102
5 жыл бұрын
I love you, I agree so much with your definition of beauty; I can even feel your heart as you speak......incredible!!!!! Thank you!
@joanneiannazzo5242
4 жыл бұрын
Men are attracted to looks fIrst
@juliaiasiah2274
4 жыл бұрын
You know exact....most men only look for beauty just to show off ....her long curly hair her shape her teeth ........outside appearance ..inner person .issupet what you see ..thank you. ..be blessed.....
@zohrapatel7588
9 жыл бұрын
Your right but it takes physical attraction to make a guy come up to you in the first place.
@KokoBirdSings
9 жыл бұрын
That explanation was beautiful.
@lanmelan6174
6 жыл бұрын
Wow...your perfectly said about woman's beauty is compassion in her heart...God bless...😊👍✌
@debbiestrom6842
6 жыл бұрын
Being a beauty Queen and a sister of 4 brothers who climbs trees (still) I do confirm this line of thinking men want inner beauty inside out. It makes the outside look better no matter the outside. A woman who is deep, thinking polite and well read who appreciates people in general and life.
@erikahernandez1052
10 жыл бұрын
You are a real man. kisses !!
@annmaslar7275
6 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! That’s the first time I’ve heard that compassion is the most beautiful thing guys want in a woman. Amazing!! My male friend, not quite my boyfriend yet, knows how much I respect him and he knows how compassionate I really am. The feeling is mutual so I quess I’m doing everything right!!
@lw1343
6 жыл бұрын
Erika Hernandez Would you know how to treat him if you had him?
@azzaalsabbagh9098
6 жыл бұрын
Erika Hernandez
@anitracongratulationsprade2295
6 жыл бұрын
Erika Hernandez amen!! Real man status!!
@elliehannan5139
5 жыл бұрын
That is awesome that you can see that in people. I don't think all guys are like you unfortunately however you yourself are an inspiration and if you spread this kind of deepti and insight to the world I hope other guys catch on. Xox
@christinehaigh9807
7 жыл бұрын
Many guys and women are like the girl you just described as lacking compassion. Equality is very important.
@thatveganchic
4 жыл бұрын
This is higher level stuff here. A lot of men are also not compassionate at all so they would not be attracted to women like this because they don’t even recognize what it is- they mistake it for weakness pretty quickly and move on to the women who act like bitches to cover up their own insecurities. Human Beings- in general need to cultivate a deeper character and get in touch with their souls but not just to find a man. I could say the same things on my channel but just direct it towards the Ascension which is now happening on planet earth that the majority is still unaware of. In fact- I’m going to do an entire series on how to cultivate a character and yes, suffering is essential for this as well as opening the heart chakra. People who have a closed heart chakra are not capable of feeling this deeply. Great Video. You’re cute and real💗
@tairabibi4700
4 жыл бұрын
you know, i felt so guilty, realising that i fell in love with you (online) in the first instance....today I'm happy that i did because i found guy (real life ) which has the same values as you....thank you, dude, for speaking out-you're helping us!
@BrittLovesGlam
9 жыл бұрын
Love is light and when you are love and when you are compassion you are light and then you shine and when you shine people see you!! Thank you this is exactly what it is thank you!! so much!! you rock!!!!!!!!
@abell2828
9 жыл бұрын
i can tell your connected to yur heart... you have alot of compasion
@metrotmobile9299
4 жыл бұрын
I never met a guy like him. He is awesome, wonderful
@elizapellet1598
6 жыл бұрын
You are not shallow. You've got depth. Compassion IS beautiful. Love does shine.
@outofthegoldfishbowletcete762
8 жыл бұрын
do you happen to have a much older identical twin who thinks just like you?
@wms72
5 жыл бұрын
Or just an older brother who thinks like him
@nasyamanis5438
9 жыл бұрын
thank you for your video, now I am not afraid to think positive about myself and not worrying all the time. Everything comes through the heart......
@maryleblanc8634
4 жыл бұрын
Hello Jad... You are just the sweetest person that I have met in a long time.... Your heart and your mind are simply beautiful....I have 5 sons my oldest is 33....I love each and everyone of my beautiful sons...they too have standards simular to yours. They love there mom with there whole heart and soul....I tried to educate my son's to treat all people equally with consideration patience understanding compassion friendly and approachable....I didn't want my son's to fear women instead they make pretty good buddies.....if I don't say so myself.... I am so pleased to have stumbled on to your site.....yes yes yes the whole world needs a little love, a little understanding, a little patience, having an open mind, and quite simply .... We all need to treat others they same way that we would like to be treated and understood. Good work....keep it coming..... Namaste Mary
@RoselynTeves
4 жыл бұрын
I like the way this man think. Yes, love is powerful. It makes a difference.
@dijanavejo2007
8 жыл бұрын
you understand spiritual conection ...heart conection...thats a only way....thaks....you have soft heart...
@anewloveofficial9137
6 жыл бұрын
Guys are easily attracted to beautiful women but being beautiful doesn't mean in physical appearance only. It's so important for women to possess a good character because it will make a man fall in love with you even more. Don't worry if you are not that good looking for as long as you have a compassionate heart to love someone and every guy would be chasing after you.
@oliviamitchell4099
5 жыл бұрын
Man you are so awsome. I like the way you express the truth. Not to many men or women know whats missing for a good relationship.
@puppetmaster3911
6 жыл бұрын
That is a really great point!! I think chemistry matters to a certain extent, but....a heart, a person who has passions, a person who is striving for something, a person who cares about being a good person, and a person who stimulates me intellectually is very very important as well. If that is not there the physical attraction is GONE. I was raised by men in my family that told me LOOKS ARE EVERYTHING! SO I REALLY APPRECIATE THIS VIDEO FROM A MAN. I remember thinking if that was true I am not sure if I even want to find a man. I mean I have been told that I am good looking to others, but if that is ALL that matters that is a total turn off.
@earthyartist71
8 жыл бұрын
You seem like a really nice guy. HOWEVER: I think that is a pretty quick judgement of "Yaletown Girl". For all you know that woman is totally heart centered and you will never know because you expected her to throw her trust, and vulnerability out to a stranger who only said hello. You didn't even give an example of what that "heart-centered woman" would say. Is it because you haven't met a girl who is willing to hand the sacred part of herself out like candy to every man who says hello? Men in the city need to realize that beautiful women are hit on ALL THE TIME. Men approach them with all sorts of intents - and a lot of them are shallow and selfish. Many of these women have given everything to men in the past - but those men only took without giving back. All women are givers by nature - so to bring out that generosity a man need to take the lead. Show her she is safe to give.There is softness behind every shell - and only a real man has the strength and patience to prove he isn't like the sea of jerks that created her shell. The best apples are at the top of the tree. You have to climb the tree to get to them.
@eijonasson
6 жыл бұрын
Buyer beware... If you buy this con job you will attract guys that have endless wants . Best you find someone that knows the value of a fair exchange in all aspects of life. Love, like, respect etc are earned by the people you choose to have in your live. Don't thow your pearls to the swine. Proceed with caution.
@Sonika377
5 жыл бұрын
You are so profound and compassionate too and you can not be more right !! it's is from the 💕that you have to speak from ....I am so touched thst you are talking about this beautiful way ...to younger girls ...I will share it with other ladies .Sending you .Namaste ,light & peace ..
@Roc469
5 жыл бұрын
He said it best. Wise man.
@jasminebetancourt616
7 жыл бұрын
light comes from God, Jesus is love only he can change hearts
@victorialagaras7219
7 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Betancourt I agree
@yvonneamisi2248
7 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Betancourt true. But remember that he can only change it. If you really want him too.
@allglorybetogod6416
6 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Betancourt amen u r so right
@Linda-mx5cn
6 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Betancourt we have to choose love,Jesus... He has the power, but we have free will. Through our suffering we come to know love. Its true.
@helenamills4563
5 жыл бұрын
Amen😇
@sylviametos3731
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your fantastic video! I love your attitude about true beauty! Wow! Let it shine!
@stelselv
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for every word you said... You sounded very genuine and very spiritual....I appreciate this video 🙏🏾
@anneslifeindubai4176
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such wonderful words. 💓💓💓💓💓 . A words full of compassion 🙏❤️❣️... More love , more blessings to you.
@stephanief.b.5893
10 жыл бұрын
Wow a very beautiful message for women, thanks!
@AndreiOskar
10 жыл бұрын
And it is a message to impress women, indeed. Forget about most of it.
@DrBitchcraft.
10 жыл бұрын
I like this video and the message that you want to give. I really do. BUT! how do you know if that person, that "bombshell" who talks about shopping blabla has not gone through suffering? Every person carries their weight of worries and troubles. So many people are extremely good at faking personality. Faking emotions and keeping the real ones hidden. So how, in the end, do you actually KNOW that the person has suffered? I find that shallow people are actually really rare to find. The ones who have not suffered, don't have depth, don't know about life and whats valuable in the end. Most people who seem shallow have turned out to be, after some time, very deep compassionate personalities. Am I making any sense here? (english is not my native language ^^) Again, I want to say that I really love your message in this video and I agree almost in everything. It just threw me off that you kinda made it seem that you judge quite quickly on others. just saying..
@newbeginningswitheve3460
5 жыл бұрын
I believe we are a reflection of those we meet and the reason you can feel others love is because you're full of love yourself. Thank you for sharing your knowledge of what real love looks like.
@mindoverpurposepowerlifeor1622
5 жыл бұрын
blessings I am so thankful for your message the Lord God my savior is always always inform me via his word that I'm making a quiet spirit is a high value for a woman and a virtuous woman who can find I have been that virtuous woman as God has development through the fire through the trials that life has to offer it is that Meek and quiet spirit of love and compassion that God has developed within me and I have walked this walk for more than 20 years and I've often wondered why is it that whenever I meet a man they always try so hard to be with me and really tell me they love me so early on in the relationship or friendship rather but what I have found was that very thing you shared was that like that was up on me that draw them to me because of that like they were drawn to the light of love and so I cherish that and I do not take it lightly but I am very impressed with your wisdom and it seems to me that you are a man of God God bless you may you continue to do what you're doing and I speak a blessing upon your KZitem channel because so many women need to understand that it is the beauty of Holiness that makes the difference God bless you
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