My current BF broke up with me once and I did everything Coach Lee said and guess who came running back within a month ! It took a lot of self discipline and long nights but it works! Thank you coach Lee! You’re amazing!
@01iverQueen
2 жыл бұрын
What did you do exactly?
@Meowmeow39999
2 жыл бұрын
@@01iverQueen I pushed back at first cause I didn’t want to break up.. after 3 days of reaching out to him after the breakup and not getting responses I went to his place to asked for my things and left him alone after about 2 weeks he called me telling me how much he missed me.. I’ve never initiated anything, never acted curious and asked him how he was doing or anything then another 2 weeks later of not calling/texting him he came back apologizing for the break up then we worked our way back into the relationship.. I did not give myself back to him all at once it took about another 2 months for me to finally start letting him earn me again.. and it’s been better than before because I guess he realized he didn’t want to be without me anymore.
@Meowmeow39999
2 жыл бұрын
@@canadianjatti they’ll come around hold on a little longer! Stay strong!
@01iverQueen
2 жыл бұрын
@@Meowmeow39999 good for you then. In my case I did all the mistakes and I regret it, I even apologized but so far since we were working together she hasn't responded in a week for now and I don't think she even needs me anymore, she is fine without me, even though she was perfect for me in every way. I know that her b-day is coming up literally when one month of NC is going to end but I'm not going to wish her anything
@Kloutkulture
2 жыл бұрын
@@01iverQueen don’t wish her happy birthday it’s gonna make her mad when you don’t which is a good thing
@vassilisk8371
2 жыл бұрын
I told my ex before we broke up, “I don’t believe in being friends with a girl I loved.”
@bladimiragurcia4720
7 ай бұрын
Gotta make sure to put that “d” after love 🫡
@bakwoludovic117
2 жыл бұрын
7 months later, I got my ex back. Of course I was following so many tips and being counseled by elders. But let me tell you, Coach Lee is the best on the mainstream map. The no contact rule is like a master shaolin secret!
@graysonleslie9781
2 жыл бұрын
How long were you two originally together
@Damian-rc8tw
2 жыл бұрын
I'm always happy to read success stories. It's hard to get a feel for how often exes get back together (you probably hear more negative than positive stories in the comments). I'm just over 5 weeks NC (I'm also working on myself to deal with the issues I have so if I do get another shot I don't mess it up again). These videos have done a lot to ease my anxiety. Coach Lee, Love Chat and Coach Craig Kenneth are pretty much my go to guys (they all say basically the same things, just presented a bit differently). These are the guys that keep me going honestly. All 3 say there's a pretty good chance if things were good between you two, they will probably reach out at some point. And all 3 point out the reason why exes frequently don't get back together (or it's short lived) is because people don't put in the work while in NC. I'm doing everything I can so when I hear from my ex again I give myself the best chance to rekindle things with her. If we don't it won't be because I didn't do the work.
@bakwoludovic117
2 жыл бұрын
@@graysonleslie9781 almost a year
@bakwoludovic117
2 жыл бұрын
@@Damian-rc8tw don’t read negative comments Focus on your job and goals… Women love successful men
@SafiaOs
2 жыл бұрын
Congrats! I'm 2months and a half No contact... What did you do overall to get your ex back?
@Jacare1973
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t ever say, “I love you.” Probably the worse thing to say to them.
I have followed Coach Lee's guidance and feel reborn. I'm at 31 days no contact, in radio silence, as close to shadow integrated as ever, and feeling emotionally stronger than I ever have in my life. I don't care if he reaches out and am more certain with every passing day. Thanks Coach. 💪🏾🖖🏾💕
@dforgr9257
2 жыл бұрын
Good for you!
@rainbowbright922
2 жыл бұрын
@@dforgr9257 I learned that we are all looking outside of ourselves for acceptance. It's our inner child looking for the nurturing, even the most loving parents couldn't give. The greatest love of all will come from YOU and the Divine. Love is everywhere, not from the people we attach to. If it doesn't start within, we will always be searching for it. Look at the other person as a mirror for what you need from yourself. Start there and it gets easier. I wish you all the strength you need to find yourself fellow traveler. Best to you. You got this. 💪🏾💥💕
@jacqui8392
2 жыл бұрын
How are you all going now?
@michaelscott761
28 күн бұрын
@@rainbowbright922when did you start to not care?? I’m at day 5 of no contact and I’m still devastated…
@PriNc3zZa19
2 жыл бұрын
After a few months of no contact I reached out and said I would wait for him. He told me I shouldn’t and in a weird way that let me move on. I needed to know I gave my all and didn’t want to live knowing I could’ve reached out and didn’t. I got my answer and healed 🙏🏽
@nedfara9428
2 жыл бұрын
These things definitely have no rules. Good for you best friend
@benithacalloway8286
Жыл бұрын
That’s why no contact is not for you to reach out. Its like you start overt again and it feels like a second rejection. Wait for them to contact you. When someone loves you nothing will stop them from chasing you.
@Starmajor391
9 ай бұрын
Yeah exactly. You should know if someone is for you or not… and not play mind games. We are adults and should be able to communicate.
@cwigg7728
2 жыл бұрын
The last text I sent my ex before going back into no contact was I’d always root for her in anything she pursues and she’d always be my ‘person’. After that, I vowed to never be the one to reach out, and I haven’t for months…she sure has though. Life has to continue. I’ll always love her, but I won’t sit and wait for her to realize what we had was pretty special. Her reaching out from my silence speaks volumes.
@nedfara9428
2 жыл бұрын
Life sure does. We surely ought to learn to root the most for ourselves
@brandonohara4122
Жыл бұрын
Amen brother How are you doing now?
@brandonmoskos9149
Жыл бұрын
This guy is a genius and is spot on. He doesn't know it, but he has guided me through my whole post break-up.
@TIKTAKSS
2 жыл бұрын
I usually never comment on KZitem videos but just had to share my experience and maybe give hope to some of you who are going thru it right now. My girlfriend of 6 years broke up with me with a short text “ it’s over. Picking my things up” we were doing very good just a week before she sent me a long text telling me how I’m the only one that is there for her and understands her. But it wasn’t sudden, because I had felt a shift in her energy and a coldness in the past 6 months. She had thought about it for some time and didn’t know how to do it. She lost feelings or attraction. I didn’t beg and plead, but only wanted some kind of expiation or a final farewell. I didn’t get any of that. It was like the last 6 years didn’t mean anything. I was so broken for weeks on end. And it’s always worst at night when I was alone in bed. I found coach lees channel quick and started to binge watch every video, bought his breakup kit. Wanted to do anything to get her back. And now, after more than a month. I’m not sure I want her back. I have worked on myself, spending time with friends and by myself, working out, trying out new things. We are lost because we are feeling that LOSS, not because we love them so much. Work on yourself, you are lovable, you are worthy, you are beautiful, get your confidence back! And strive for greatness in everything you do. If your ex comes back, you will know if you want them back or not. But don’t sit around and wait for them, you will only dig yourself deeper. Because we shouldn’t be with people whom don’t see our worth! You yourself should know your worth, and that is attractive. I am so thankful for this community! It has helped me a lot! So many beautiful souls that are hurting, but we will only be stronger and there is light at the end of the tunnel, take care of yourself beautiful people❤️🌹
@benithacalloway8286
Жыл бұрын
Why wasting her time. 6 years no commitment?????
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
Bavipriv, 6 years, and you never got engaged to her? Is there a reason why you didn't want a commitment with her?
@jarrodoberg2078
Жыл бұрын
Did she ever reach out to you??
@sammyp578
2 жыл бұрын
It took me about 45 days to get my ex back of 7 years. NC absolutely gives you the best chance of getting them back. The moment I pulled away (I did this early), she started making her way towards me, we rekindled but I walked away as she was still confused. A few weeks later to today, we are dating again, our 4th new date is on Friday. BE PATIENT GUYS. You have all the time in the world. Just focus on yourself because the road to self improvement is the same road as getting them back. It's your best chance for whatever outcome you want out of this. Much love!
@rezenewoldegebrel6960
2 жыл бұрын
Much Love
@brandonohara4122
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@WishesandWonder
Жыл бұрын
Thanks I’m going through similar now. My ex made her way towards me when I started pulling away and started focusing on my life. But she seems confused. One day she’s excited to talk to me and the next she goes cold. I’m trying to be patient and not focus on the outcome but on myself.
@corinachorak3597
Жыл бұрын
@@WishesandWonderany update ?
@WishesandWonder
Жыл бұрын
@@corinachorak3597 My ex reached out about a week ago while I was on vacation trying to get a reaction by accusing me of something I never did but I barely responded and let it go. I had already moved on and don’t want her back anymore.
@nathalieyoutube2340
2 жыл бұрын
"Friends" after 3 months of no contact and he's making more of an effort than he ever did in the relationship ❤️
@a.r.m.r4453
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Nathalie....tell me .. how he come back?.... Congrats.
@jejarhavillarmia5791
2 жыл бұрын
Me and my ex also are friends right now. We hangout with his friends and party with them. We enjoy every little things.
@graysonleslie9781
2 жыл бұрын
How long were you two originally together?
@nathalieyoutube2340
2 жыл бұрын
@@graysonleslie9781 nearly 2 years - with lots of on and off unfortunately
@nathalieyoutube2340
2 жыл бұрын
@@a.r.m.r4453 lots of no contact - listen to coach Lee, he's the best
@stayhappylittlemermaid
2 жыл бұрын
Pain happens when you care.
@RealCoachLee
2 жыл бұрын
And when you are alive.
@mohamedberrached4289
2 жыл бұрын
That's right
@lilianakeya9868
2 жыл бұрын
True
@seventhirtyfive8043
Жыл бұрын
Casually accepted friendship, but have been in no contact and cutting off conversation at high points, making sure to keep it short. She initiates any contact we have, hoping the “accept friendship but don’t be a friend” strategy works
@titanniki412
Жыл бұрын
Returned keys to my Ex GF yesterday,, left them at her door, with a note written on her favorite color Purple paper, which I would write Love letters to her on. She Loved them. I'm sure she was shocked when she read "I DONT WANT OR NEED SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT WANT OR NEED ME!"
@lecroix83
2 жыл бұрын
My ex dumped me and I accepted the break up. She asked me to stay friends because she has a lot of afffection for me.. i said no after i told her I needed a time to think about it. Since we saw each other to just exchange our staff. After meeting, I ve stop talking to her, not because I ignore her but because I accept the break up. I focus on my work I move on with my projects. Recently she started liking my pictures on facebook/insta of my work my pets as well. I didnt react on that at all... Simply move on with your life, do what you like , live your life.. imagine the life before she has entered your life.
@furqanmachinetech7975
2 ай бұрын
❤
@atharva1656
2 жыл бұрын
How coach lee can be this much accurate...I've already said all this things to my ex, and lost all hope to get them back, still this videos make me a more wiser person everyday..
@dt3963
11 ай бұрын
Did they ever reach out to you in the end?
@atharva1656
11 ай бұрын
@dt3963 yes they did, but I was being breadcrumbed, so I stopped talking to them and now it's been an year I've moved on and they do not cross my mind every other day
@onyekachukwuka9059
2 жыл бұрын
When I started watching your videos, after the break up. I applied what you taught although, it was difficult but now it's a blessing. God bless you Coach Lee
@lifewithjennilee
2 жыл бұрын
What not to say to an EX 1 - Let’s be friends 2 - I’ll wait… 3 - Would like to ___ sometime? 4 - Have you thought anymore about us? 5 - Do you think we’ll ever get back together?
@crystalclimenhage7159
2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I said none of that
@hannahw90hw
2 жыл бұрын
Well I did all of this before NC but now it's really no contact. Just moving on now. If he comes back it would take a lot of hard work to be together, I'm not sure right now if I even want that any more
@lifewithjennilee
2 жыл бұрын
@@hannahw90hw stay strong and work on oneself…it’ll get better with work and focus on self love. Sending you light 💫
@hiroooooooo4656
2 жыл бұрын
Doh
@Hanhaneeso
2 жыл бұрын
I said no.2 on the very day he broke off, he told me not to wait for him thought I went NC right from that moment on... It's been 16 days since our break up
@kittisou5366
2 жыл бұрын
It’s been a year and i found out that he has moved on, though it hurts like Hell, I graciously excepted it and are now in 5 days no contact. When you love someone, you want them to be happy even if it’s not with you, I go back and forth with being angry at him at times but when I calm down and remind myself that his happiness is more important than I’m ok. He deserves all the happiness in the world, gosh it kills me but what can I do when they no longer want to be with you. Maybe one day I have a chance with him again, and if not I have to learn to be fine with that, to everyone who’s hurting, idk what to say to comfort y’all but know that y’all are not alone. Let’s take it one day at a time.
@sarabennett6295
2 жыл бұрын
Please focus on yourself and be selfish. Stop thinking about him, and love yourself. I gave him everything yet he still walks away from me. Learn to put yourself first
@ririsharon4652
Жыл бұрын
Made the 4th mistake. I asked him if he's sure about his decision. He said yes and asked me if I have regrets. I said yes and that I would like it if he gives us another chance. I'll never forget his behaviour that day. That's when I decided that the best option for me would be to move on.
@saharabejarano4354
2 жыл бұрын
Regards from Colombia, Coach Lee is the man he literally saved me from a bad place (dumped 3 weeks ago)
@debbiepardo5912
Жыл бұрын
Oh my god all the things you said don’t do ! I did !! 😮 lol this video is so powerful I’m really learning a lot … I watched your other videos and you said you begging them , crying , going there job makes them less attractive to you because you’re not giving them the time to be alone .. I’m definitely going to be doing this for now , I slowed down the process because I basically been on his ass, so he hasn’t had time to miss me !! but it’s all good you live and you learn ! Thank you so much !!!
@projectf025
2 жыл бұрын
Coach lee!!!! You have helped me keep my sanity, im trusting the process, its been almost 4 weeks. The hard part is we have a 7 year old together so the no contact is difficult
@jacqui8392
2 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Xx
@projectf025
2 жыл бұрын
@@jacqui8392 I'm doing alot better I'm actually feel8ng like I don't want her back anymore
@user-oz7uc9qk8m
8 ай бұрын
My ex boyfriend broke up with me last month he told me he still wanted to be friends , I kept asking him “ will we get back together “ but only because he said “ we’re not breaking up forever “ which made me over think a lot , I’m not gonna accept friend ship because im scared that’s what he’ll keep me as , I’m planning on doing no contact after we take our dog to the vet on Tuesday hopefully it’s works the way I want it too we had the best relationship I just have really bad mental health problems but I plan on using this time to work on that thank you coach lee for keeping me from crying for the past month your amazing ❤
@davidbradley0477
2 жыл бұрын
Listen to coach Lee! I’ve made all the mistakes after 3 1/2 months I went into radio silence. Three weeks of this and I’m glad I did. I am moving forward and don’t have to deal with her anymore. I know it’s over,just wish I had the info from CL when the brake up happened.
@nedfara9428
2 жыл бұрын
Good for you buddy
@iraira9111
2 жыл бұрын
I wish no contact also worked when you were dumped for another person ;( But at least that’ll help save some pride in the situation
@jenn2712
2 жыл бұрын
"Thank you for being a friend"....oh wait that was the Golden Girls🤔
@AMANDEEP-nm3qg
2 жыл бұрын
Why you don't make a video on "getting your ex back when she was in rebound relationship with you" It's heartbreaking for us too
@TraumaAladdin
2 жыл бұрын
He did
@user-jx1cl3dc4c
2 жыл бұрын
he did look it up
@archimedesofsyracuse9268
2 жыл бұрын
@@user-jx1cl3dc4c i think he meant "when you yourself were the rebound in the relationship"
@jayc342009
2 жыл бұрын
I'm in this situation, you just have to accept that rebounds do not work out. One person (the rebounder) is using you to get over someone else and they very rarely work out long term.
@annerivas1155
2 жыл бұрын
he has...search for "rebound"
@rambojohnj.6117
2 жыл бұрын
For any fellow poker players, Coach Lee is the STONE COLD nuts. Listen to what this man says, he is a Jedi master.
@TheMr3742
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been crying over my ex but your videos have helped me so much. Every day gets better! I wish I could explain my relationship it’s so complicated and I don’t know what to actually do. I’m just moving on but he’s wanted to take it slow. I wish I could explain and know what to do.
@rezenewoldegebrel6960
2 жыл бұрын
Either way No Contact is the reasonable solution at least it will get better by the day it is a win win solution .
@TheMr3742
2 жыл бұрын
@@rezenewoldegebrel6960 yeah, headed up with a way younger guy from China. Honestly, it helped me realize he didn’t want someone who could take care of themselves. He was way too dominant and just lived and did whatever I felt like. Oh well! 2 months later and I’m fine 🙂 feelings do come up randomly but I’m good way better now.
@rezenewoldegebrel6960
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheMr3742 Glad to hear that smooth sailing from here on the side note if you got nothing to loose just ring your x and see what happens it works .
@TheMr3742
2 жыл бұрын
@@rezenewoldegebrel6960 no I just blocked him from contacting me. I’m good with out him ☺️
@rezenewoldegebrel6960
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheMr3742 Whatever works for you and get you to where you can be fully healed . After strict No Contact of 6 weeks I had enough and ring my x the result surpass my expectation I feel better and getting better .
@connor296
2 жыл бұрын
I hope that no contact will help my situation. We both have things to heal, we both have a feeling that we're meant to be, things are tough and I caused the breakup through my immaturity. i'm growing up and accepting that if we are going to get back together, there need to be big changes made, not short-term fixes. I know she wants to talk again eventually, and I know that the connection between us was so strong, hoping we can pull through. She has used the phrase 'no contact' a few times now, that gives me hope that she wants to get back together again one day too.
@ameliel8792
2 жыл бұрын
Similar situation for me too. I don't see any videos where CL mentions about people like us for whom longer term healing/development work needs to happen before we give it another shot. I worry that if I go NC for all that time (could be 1+ years potentially) he will forget about me. What do you think?
@connor296
2 жыл бұрын
@@ameliel8792 not at all, if you back out of the situation and remove all points of contact, he’ll be wondering about you much more, there will be mystery. You wont be forgotten. I haven’t forgotten people who made no impact on my life that I met once, now imagine forgetting someone you were intimate and in love with? Very difficult.
@ameliel8792
2 жыл бұрын
@@connor296 yeah that sounds like good advice, thank you I appreciate it
@connor296
2 жыл бұрын
@@ameliel8792 we’ve got this
@ameliel8792
2 жыл бұрын
@@connor296 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 what do you do when you really feel like contacting her? It's so hard to resist 🤦♀️
@Sihara.Liyanapathirana
2 жыл бұрын
I bought the Emergency Break Up kit. Tbh I find these KZitem videos more helpful than the kit. Coach you should update the kit it seems outdated for $57.99
@patdavbel3862
2 жыл бұрын
My ex is back after she ghosted me 3 weeks now she is the one calling chatting and video calling. Im just watching the video im amazed how coach lee talks and its content.
@Damian-rc8tw
2 жыл бұрын
I screwed up with #1. A few hours after breaking up with me she sent me a text saying she hoped we could be friends. I said I hope so too, that I'd hate to cut her out of my life forever. But that was over 5 weeks ago and we have had no contact since. I now believe that was just an empty platitude. I think we both knew were weren't going to be friends. I think I surprised her because I didn't beg or plead when she broke up with me. I just told her she would always have a special place in my heart and I wish her only the best. So I think she felt bad and threw out the 'friend clause'. A few days later I sent her one last text just saying that I was sorry for smothering her (I was needy and clingy) and for ruining a good thing, and if she ever wanted to start over to contact me. That message still shows unread (though my ex is pretty resourceful and I know there are ways to read something on messenger without it showing as read and I suspect she saw it and just didn't want to respond). It's tough though. I hope to get her back someday. Right now I'm trying to work on me. 5 weeks later and it still hurts like hell. These videos have been a big help. I've settled on Coach Lee of course, as well as Love Chat and Craig Kenneth (they largely teach the same things, just presented a little differently---and all 3 I think are equally indignant about ignoring your ex if they contact you, that is what you want after all, why in the world would you ignore them).
@LostSoul-iq4gc
2 жыл бұрын
I’m going through something similar it’s horrible. Keep strong which I know is hard.
@HasnaMardhiah
2 жыл бұрын
Similar journey, going on to the fourth week now. Pain is unbearable 💔
@TheShady380
2 жыл бұрын
Don't you dare ever contact her again under any circumstance. If you do, she will lose even more respect for you and you give her all the power. If you guys had a good thing and it was special, chances are she will reach out eventually.
@Damian-rc8tw
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheShady380 I don't plan on it. Whenever I feel any weakness I watch one of Coach Lee's no contact videos or on Coach Craig's channel (Craig has some videos on the disasters that happen when you break no contact which strengthens my resolve again). She keeps posting things about being single, not needing a guy...and these videos have helped me not to take that too personally since that's pretty normal at this stage point in her dumper's remorse. We got along well, had a lot of fun together, didn't fight. I just had repetitious, needy behavior like saying "I love you" all the time, and overtexting. All classic anxiety attachment problems (though I'm not jealous at least). I think it will be a while before she'd contact me but I'm trying to work on my own issues in the meantime. If I get another shot with her, I have to clean all that up. But I miss her like crazy. We had so many plans this summer. I royally screwed up and not a day goes by that I don't think about that.
@HasnaMardhiah
2 жыл бұрын
@@Damian-rc8tw bro I feel your pain. We were long distance, this month would have been our one year anniversary, and this September I'm going to move to a city near where he lives to continue my study. We had made so many plans even potentially move in together and like you said, I royally screwed that up and it breaks my heart everyday 😢💔
@anothergalaxy1418
2 жыл бұрын
My ex texted today after 1.5 years and all your advice is very useful Lee thank you for your existence
@gooneekim4072
2 жыл бұрын
After 1.5 years no contact? And what fid she or he said?
@anothergalaxy1418
2 жыл бұрын
@@gooneekim4072 something about that she cares about me cuz I was her first love and wants to know what I'm going. She's in a relationship but I kinda know it's not serious and it's long term. We gonna meet up soon . I dont care what the outcome is I'm indifferent
@benithacalloway8286
Жыл бұрын
Lol so true. It’s not gonna be fresh
@HowYouSeeItMatters
3 ай бұрын
@@anothergalaxy1418what happened?
@j.l.7325
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach Lee i am currently in no contact after a first time breakup. She was angry and cancelled our vacation. My ex said she will never forgive me: lesson- Do not overwhelm and blow up text or call an ex!! Luckily I follow coach Lee. Hope no contact works I did the clean slate. It is a struggle since she went into a rebound. Nevertheless I am following coach's advice. I am letting her go to be free and hope it reattracts her showing my strength. Thanks coach Lee!
@corinachorak3597
Жыл бұрын
Update ?
@williamconrad6561
10 ай бұрын
Would you take her back, or want to even though she is in a rebound? I am just curious. That would seem hard to over come and move forward with her.
@jonathanb6911
2 жыл бұрын
listen to Lee, he knows how it's going to be.
@naderhamid
2 жыл бұрын
Another good one coach Lee. Always good to see your new videos. Much respect for what you do ❤
@TonyRossiImpactGlobal
2 жыл бұрын
Been 10 months since I last talked to her and seen her. Told her I wasn’t interested in being just friends. She’s texted me a couple of times and her daughter from her 2nd marriage has called me to see her, we’re close. I highly doubt anything will happen. This is my ex wife and she’s divorced again. We have a son but he’s older and doesn’t care 🤣. I’m kinda over this.
@katarina1122331
Жыл бұрын
I'm following all the advices of Coach Lee. I really hope someday I will leave a comment "he is back!". It's my biggest dream. Currently I'm in touch with my ex, working on my anxiety. He reaches out every couple of days. He wants to help me with getting better job. Idk why. We are not friends, we don't talk like friends. I asked him why is he doing it, if I'm "his ex" only, so closed chapter of his life. Still idk.
@benhartart9487
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve said none of these things, it will be 2 years in September since the break up my life is getting better with everyday ☺️🔥😎🚀
@Heart3577
2 жыл бұрын
No skipping Ads for Coach Lee💓
@profound369
2 жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna watch this because I probably ended up messing up in every way, considering I did no contact for multiple months, multiple times and in the end she never came back. Eventually a month ago I told her I would never be saying another word to her and I haven't responded to her texts. I want to thank you for your calming energy throughout the process though.
@tpaquette1991
2 жыл бұрын
I was good to my ex it never seemed like it was good enough went above and beyond to make her happy.. been in no contact for 4 months now still hard to not wanna call her... She's been posting alot on social media even the fact she met a good dude felt like a slap in the face since I was doing all those nice things for her
@Meowmeow39999
2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it takes them being with other people for them to realize what they’ve had with you, stay strong ❤️
@tpaquette1991
2 жыл бұрын
@@Meowmeow39999 it's hard tho sometimes I blame myself for being 2 nice
@thehavoc6331
2 жыл бұрын
I understand you brother, I do. It sucks to be nice to your partner and they suddenly forget about it But when the new guy does that, it's like an amazing thing
@Damian-rc8tw
2 жыл бұрын
It does suck. My ex told me I was always sweet and good to her but she felt smothered. After watching a bunch of videos here and on Craig Kenneth's page I realize I have some anxious attachment issues. Looking back I can see that so clearly now. Sometimes you can actually be too nice to a girl, do too much for her. Now, that doesn't mean you be a creep or abusive or anything. And it doesn't help I think my ex-GF has some avoidant tendencies, and she was in an abusive relationship for 6 years before me. I actually don't think my ex will be in a rush to date. There were 3 years between me and her ex and before I came along she was about to give up on dating. Kind of hurts the ego though. She stayed with an abusive guy for 6 years, and I barely made it past 6 months. :( .But I hope if I do some work, give her some space and time, that maybe I'll get a 2nd shot down the road
@ninadances7086
2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I’ve said some of these things to my ex who we’ve been broken up for 3 months after dating for 5 months. I will say we didn’t start off as friends but started dating 2 weeks after getting to know each other ( we are co workers :’)). He’s told me he hasn’t moved on but he doesn’t want a relationship right and he doesn’t know when he’ll be mentally ready. I’m trying to be there for him. I don’t want him to lose his depression. I want to move on cause being hopeful is just hurting me.
@amalkohur31
Жыл бұрын
I've said all these to my ex and was in contact with her for a month after breakup , and i slowly pulled back after Askin her why we didn't workout. She pointed everything i did wrong nothing that's unforgivable, i wasn't perfect but she didn't take accountability for what all she did wrong and it was all me at the end , even after i stood up for my mistakes and apologising and taking accountability even when we were together. I haven't lost hope but it's Killin me slowly but everyone has a limit and i guess I'm getting close to my limits.
@ninadances7086
Жыл бұрын
@@amalkohur31 thank you for sharing.
@ninadances7086
Жыл бұрын
@@amalkohur31 thank you for sharing. 4 months later after righting this comment Im still hoping too. u really gotta focus on yourself and reflect too. You gotta let go to come back to yourself.
@amalkohur31
Жыл бұрын
@@ninadances7086 i will , she has reached out twice since I've started no contact but it was just casual texting but right now I think she was just reaching out of pity to know if I'm ok . So yea I'm slowly Killin my hope. It's gonna get better, thank you .
@SpudBoiMeBob
2 жыл бұрын
Could you do a video on if ex broke up due to depression and going through a lot of stuff in life?
@timothymurray1236
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! As I said above. My ex broke up with my 3 days ago, I suspect depression, she said recently that she was feeling depressed. I'm still doing NC regardless but my fear is that because of the depression she doesn't feel that love for me but in my heart, I know she loves me. I don't want her to suffer either
@ajhayes2930
2 жыл бұрын
My ex lost a 6 yr old child, and while grieving completely pushed me out.
@SpudBoiMeBob
2 жыл бұрын
@@timothymurray1236 Did all I could while doing no contact as well. I don’t think we getting back so I’m going to do me. Don’t expect them to come back and you will be less hurt
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
Yung, give her TIME to heal. Be kind to her at this time in her life. God bless you both.🙏❤️
@abbsolute5758
2 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, I was just wondering when you were going to bless us with a new video like a half hour ago.
@samboriboun2213
2 жыл бұрын
Im not going to be friends with no ex,thats how they use you.
@gambooyt
2 жыл бұрын
Just don't be their cute little dog waiting for bits of attention. Have some self-respect.
@lisaknight693
2 жыл бұрын
I told him it is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all.
@VedemnMotors
9 ай бұрын
Protect coach lee at all coast! He is a treasure of earth ❤🎉❤
@nazi6676
2 жыл бұрын
so if I said, what should I do now? I asked him "do you think you can love me again?" and he answered probably yes!!!!!!!! after watching this videos I realized that he was fooling me by saying that
@jjw3956
Жыл бұрын
You don’t accept being friends because that is not what you want . If you’re still in love with the ex and you accept friendship you’re putting yourself through hell on earth . I became friends with an ex that i dated for a month. We just didn’t feel it for each other . No one was in love ! However we were like minded and became friends. That’s a rare example ! I am “friends “ with my ex wife . That is because we have a child together so I made a choice , I can be an asshole or move on. I did and we eventually stopped hating each other . If we didn’t have a kid I’m sure we would have never talked again . And remember if it doesn’t work out you will be better and meet someone better !
@ZajcAnja
2 жыл бұрын
Will sound a bit of a strange question. You say not to accept friendship, but where is the limit between friendship and partnership? I am slightly confused, especially since the way I see it, friendship is one of the ground rocks in a relationship.
@alexanderfinlayson3555
4 ай бұрын
Having sex. Being intimate. You don't do these things with friends. Pretty obvious.
@danieltrottier8599
2 жыл бұрын
Awesome how most coaches are going back to the basics. 3% man works every time. Thanks for the vid.
@Getgoogly
2 жыл бұрын
What if you accepted friendship. Then realized that was wrong and walked away. Gave stuff back and went silent? (As the person who was broken up with) realizing you couldn’t be friends because it hurt too much.
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
Googly, take care of yourself, and you CANNOT be friends. It's not healthy for you. Take care..⚘️
@N8orious
Жыл бұрын
I’ve already said all of these things when it first happened, on top of pleading and begging for almost a week. We’re not friends now though and I’ve been in no contact for about 4 weeks. I think I messed it up too badly.
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
NBorious, I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. It's terrific! It has many strategies for all situations. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@vassilisk8371
2 жыл бұрын
What happens if your ex while you were together said, “I’m always involved with someone once at a time”, but when she broke up with you she says, “I want to do my own thing now, I want to work on myself.”
@Kloutkulture
2 жыл бұрын
She found someone else bro
@JKNat9004
Жыл бұрын
Heading into Month Ten since he initiated our break up. I'm pretty adamant lately that I don't want him back. So done with feeling sad and ambiguity. I can't imagine friendship with him now. I can't stand the thought of waiting in the shadows for him to change his mind. Apparently he's happier without me.
@yu_gyeom5168
2 жыл бұрын
Hi coach Lee! I know that breaking no contact isn't encouraged, but what about when you've reached the point where it's been months of doing no contact and you decide to break no contact because you have nothing to lose? Could you maybe do a video on that?
@jinglebells3659
2 жыл бұрын
He has. He says you can do a casual reach out after like 3 months of no contact. He also speaks about that in the emergency breakup kit
@nathanlawson2523
2 жыл бұрын
Just reached out after 9 months of NC last Thursday. No reply, notta, nothing. I thought there were many signs she was still thinking of me but nah. Risk it if you want.
@yu_gyeom5168
2 жыл бұрын
@@nathanlawson2523 Oh wow, was it a bad breakup?
@yu_gyeom5168
2 жыл бұрын
@@jinglebells3659 Do you perhaps know the title of the video?
@jinglebells3659
2 жыл бұрын
@@yu_gyeom5168 there’s an old one called ‘Should you break no contact’ but he talks about it in several videos Also: ‘Did no contact work if your ex hasn’t reached out’
@keljade
9 ай бұрын
My ex said she was glad we are still friends, that was early afternoon I didn't answer her so she come back with ....maybe not then ...I mean if we were to bump into each other out I wouldn't ignore you that's all ... i came back with ...I will always be friendly towards you .
@Franniiv3
2 жыл бұрын
Hi, Thank you:) I like your shirt, you look very handsome.
@alexkirrage7797
2 жыл бұрын
So after just over 5 weeks, my ex reached out. She asked how I was doing, and asked to hang out and go for a walk. I was positive and I didn’t put any pressure on asking questions or show I was upset. We met a few more times but she made sure I know it was just friendly.
@graysonleslie9781
2 жыл бұрын
How long were you two originally together?
@kb11037
2 жыл бұрын
I followed coach Lee's advice and my ex is crazy about me
@bakjoul
2 жыл бұрын
Why would an ex tell you as you try to touch her "I have someone", followed by "I don't why I said that" and "it's false" ?
@tatianadasilva2741
2 жыл бұрын
Just a thought - my guy reached out after 2 weeks of no contact. This is the second time he’s pulled away. And I am frankly almost over it. I offered friendship, but I really meant it and explained I meant friends and in my mind I’d close the door on anything romantic. He changed tune and wanted to see me right away! We are meeting up on the weekend, and I’m still in two minds about what I’m going to do. He can sense my distance. Took a lot of working through my pain, and missing him and wanting him. But I no longer need him. He can sense it, so maybe only offer friendship if you really mean it, don’t bluff! It seemed to work in my case. Just my two cents.
@SerenHBJ
2 жыл бұрын
sounds like he might be emotionally unavailable / avoidant attachment style. currently working my way through the audiobook of Mr. Unavailable and the fallback girl- worth a listen.
@mattwood8659
2 жыл бұрын
I honestly don't know why my ex broke up. The main thing I got was they wanted to be single. They didn't want to be romantic with me anymore. I tried to understand what the issues were they're excuses change each time and just bullshit. They've also been gaslighting me. They said I had distanced myself from his friends which wasn't true or fair. I had invested more time into hsi friends than I did my own family. I did everything with them and he's salty the few times I just wanted time to myself because I was burnt out. Then he's also saying I cemented the break up. And I don't see how, I tried to get him to come to the table to discuss the issues so we could work through them. But he refuses. I made it clear I didn't want to break up and I've made it clear he's the dumper. It seems like he did it on a whim with no real reason and is just making up excuses to justify now so he doesn't have to swollow his pride. We were together for 8 years and it's just an awful way to end it.
@williamconrad6561
10 ай бұрын
He was already seeing someone, or was dating around while you were together. Either way, he was ready to dump you, and try new females. He had no regard for your feelings, or care how he hurt you. That is hard to hear, but that is what happened. I went through the exact same thing. After the breakup, I found out she was on Match for months, and had cheated 3 times. He would just end it for those trite reasons. He was ready to leave for awhile.
@stevet4768
Жыл бұрын
I’ve done all this I guess I’m screwed
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
Steve, let me recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. It's awesome! It has strategies for all situations. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@mountainman88
6 ай бұрын
Thank you Captain Hindsight!
@ClassicPrime
10 ай бұрын
Hey fellow No contacters. During the breakup I asked for a checkin a month later and she said yes. I no longer want to do this. How do I go about canceling this “appointment”
@queenrashell
2 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on when they leave you for someone else (not rebound) How to cope or get them back
@ericgarcia4464
2 жыл бұрын
I told my ex that I need some time off to lose my feelings for her after she broke up with me . Haven’t spoken since. Does that affect my chances?
@nameavailable987
2 жыл бұрын
Oddly enough my ex was the one who said I’d be the first thing he runs back to if it doesn’t work and hopes that I will still be there if his monkey branch relationship doesn’t work out because he was caught cheating and is gonna try to make it work with her. Beyond messed up.
@archimedesofsyracuse9268
2 жыл бұрын
Red flag
@nbee6217
2 жыл бұрын
The audacity!
@Kloutkulture
2 жыл бұрын
Wow
@jayviray6231
2 жыл бұрын
It’s been 5 months since she broke up on me and i went to her in colorado twice…the last one was on her birthday….we dont talk that much already like before…this morning she call me saying sorry for everything but we are not gonna back each other anymore….this broke my heart again…i’ve been through a lot of pain specially when she is telling me take care of my self…im confused coach lee….what do i have to do
@trevorharding3783
2 жыл бұрын
A year after we broke up, my ex girlfriend texts me out of the blue just to check on me and apologizes for being immature and childish when the breakup was still fresh. I think she's looking for closure. But I still find it a little odd that she texted me out of the blue after a year of me ending the friendship between us because it got really bad. Anyone have any ideas on why this happened?
@reecewatson2
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe she is checking on your ‘status’ and/or to see if there is still a connection there. Anytime a women contacts you like this, invite her out, if she says no, continue to move on and wish her well.
@jinglebells3659
2 жыл бұрын
@@reecewatson2 being a woman, I would agree (:
@reecewatson2
2 жыл бұрын
@@jinglebells3659 😊
@nbee6217
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe she has been mistreated or faced some challenges and finally learned that she was unkind towards you and is just looking to ease her conscience. Guilt can be quite a paralysing feeling.
@dawls07
2 жыл бұрын
Did she have a rebound that just ended. If so, don’t ask her out.
@AdrianAzian
Жыл бұрын
I had already told my ex that I would wait after she moved in with her coworker and said she'd come back after their apartment lease is finished. How do I reverse this? or should do moving forward? I'm already started NC for a week now.
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
Adrian, go NC. Wait till she's settled in her new place.
@leatherandlace1875
2 жыл бұрын
Think I did all of these. Nightmare
@vincentdimitri169
2 жыл бұрын
120 days no contact..... complete silence.
@lisabaughn
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry. It's a lot to face. I hope you're doing well despite it.
@vincentdimitri169
2 жыл бұрын
@@lisabaughn It's hard, I know she was seeing someone but not sure if they're still together. I don't think I could go back to her now that she's been with someone else.
@lisabaughn
2 жыл бұрын
@@vincentdimitri169 That happened to me once too. It devastated me for 3 months straight. I hope you're figuring out ways to take good care of yourself.
@LostSoul-iq4gc
2 жыл бұрын
I’m worried she won’t contact me and I miss her. Trying to stay away but finding it so hard
@Brockleejohnson
2 жыл бұрын
Smh this video is a little too late for me Iv freaking said all of this. So now I’m just gonna accept the fact that I am never going to get her back fawk my life I’m done 🤦🏾♂️
@blissedout-gu4cl
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your logical guidance and explanation. Your videos have helped me in so many ways, it’s like listening to an amazing friend with so much wisdom! Would you consider touching on sex with ex a bit more? I know in one of your videos you said to make it a personal choice but I do feel women and men differ in that area. And how to politely decline. Please and thank you!
@sammyp578
2 жыл бұрын
I can share my experience if you like... If you're a guy dumpee, I think it's good to have sex, but only once or twice after the BU. Otherwise, you can fall into a trap of giving them what they want without any need of commitment. I think for a girl dumpee, it's probably better not to have sex at all. We're wired differently, and I think guys are more likely to have a one track mind and just be after the sex. I did sleep with my ex, a few times. I thought we were rekindling at that point, but when I realized she was just enjoying the moment and not really thinking about it, I turned her down the last time she asked. I said 'I want to, but I don't think it would be fair on either of us. We need to be able to move on without things getting confusing'
@blissedout-gu4cl
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! How did that last part work out for you?
@SauravKumar-ek1gw
2 жыл бұрын
Being in NC is a challenge in itself but thinking about your ex finding someone else while we are just waiting for them to pass all the stages is the biggest fear of mine. And what if she didn't contact me after like 2-3 moths and I reach out to her seeing if she is still interested and she says where were you all this time... I'm totally over you now. Aaahh... the overthinking kills me .. BTW 15 days in NC. I know this is not encouraging but just something I am deeply afraid of happening even after trusting NC.
@lisabaughn
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Try not to look on their social media and try to just stay away as much as you can so that if it happens you don't know about it. Also, this has happened to me before, so now I just try to brace myself and prepare for it so that I'm not surprised by it if it happens. Everyday instead of only looking at the NC calendar, I try to imagine him with other women, on dating apps, etc. so I am prepared if it happens. I hope that helps.
@terael5637
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Saurav! I'd advice you to change the way you look at no contact, don't view it as a way to get your ex back, you shouldn't just be ''waiting for them to pass all the stages''. Look at it as an oportunity to grow as a human being, go work out, go to therapy, develope new skills, pick up new hobbies, go out with friends and make new ones. Turn the pain you are feeling into something beautiful and something that makes you proud of yourself. Giving up hope has helped me, changing the focus from her to myself (as much as I can) has helped me. You can still love them and miss them from afar, I still cry regularly even after 5 months post breakup and around 2 months of no contact, I love her just as much as when we were together, it will take a long time for that to change and that is fine, but I'm not expecting her to come back to me, I've accepted that it's not in my control and therefore thinking about whether or not she is seeing someone else or if she has moved on is only a waste on time and energy. I hope you come out of this experience as an improved version of yourself who is stronger and more confident.
@EmmaMercury
2 жыл бұрын
What about if you stupidly suggested "can we stay friends" to which they said "of course we can" I haven't acted like a friend, had no contact for 5 months now, wish i never accepted the friendship, its still hard even after all this time... Love to everyone going through a break up ❤
@Meowmeow39999
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t act like a friend! Flirt be playfully
@sTl2yk3l2
2 жыл бұрын
Dang! I watched most of your videos, i have done every single thing wrong that i you have mentioned lol. So there is absolutely 0 chance for me. But knowing if half the battle. Hopefully next time i do better!
@sharie.9054
2 жыл бұрын
What if he reached out after 2 weeks? shall I respond to his messages?
@big_ghost
2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t find your videos until after my breakup so I wasn’t aware of the “no contact” method and how to utilize it. I made some mistakes at the beginning. We had a great relationship for 2 years but she broke up with me and moved a away a week later. I tried to convince her to give us another chance, almost begging. I called her a few times after she left (which seemed to annoy her) and even spoke to her mom trying to get some advice on the situation because I was always close to her during our relationship (She said to wait a few weeks and try to text her something to start small talk). I wish I didn’t tell her mom how hurt I was bc I’m sure she told my ex which prob made me appear less attractive. I’m doing “no contact” now but I’m worried I messed it up and maybe it won’t work for me now. Is there any videos talking about what to do if you didn’t start the process in the best way?
@johnnyramirez3229
2 жыл бұрын
Let me know what he replied please, I did the same thing. Thanks bro
@big_ghost
2 жыл бұрын
@@johnnyramirez3229 Im glad I wasn’t the only person that made that mistake. Makes me feel like maybe I’m not crazy. I just want to help and no contact feels like I’m not doing anything. But unfortunately, I never got a response.
@johnnyramirez3229
2 жыл бұрын
@@big_ghost yeah bro it sucks. I was left in 2019 and I’m still in pain. Stay in touch if you have any questions keep your head up
@susanreilly7739
2 жыл бұрын
I did the same thing so I’m interested in his response
@big_ghost
2 жыл бұрын
@@susanreilly7739 I still have not got a response. I would love to hear coach Lee’s recommendation
@timcorley5558
2 жыл бұрын
First two years we were best friends. Then next 12 years romantically with great chemistry. Now she has moved on in a committed relationship. Started as a rebound however it has been 9 months now. Should I take the request to be just friends again? I do want her back for life this time! Any advice would be helpful? Thx
@MikeAyye
2 жыл бұрын
Hey yall. My ex reached out couple days ago after 30 days of no contact on the dot. We had a friendly exchange and I ended the conversation. Should I not reach out next time? She said "I hope you know you can reach out and that I'm here for anything always" and stuff like that. May not reach out again to show she needs to be the one to build and fix what she broke off
@leslypierre9574
2 жыл бұрын
Let her keep reaching out. Don't initiate contact yet. If she starts to reach out to you more regularly, than you can start reaching out to her. But you must not appear to eager, or that you want it more than het.
@lisabaughn
2 жыл бұрын
Hmm. I don't think it would hurt to just say hi to her, to show that you aren't angry and that you're open to her coming back.
@Kyrojii
2 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, I have a question. Its been almost 3 years since me and my ex wife broken up.(no kids by her) Ive watched your channel back in 2019. Heres the update. Ive decided to go no contact like you said and went radio silence. I canceled all social media platforms. Ive been working on myself financially, mentally and physically and recently started dating. Im about to finish school as well. Fast foward to 2022 for the past few months ive caught my ex spying on me at my job. Idk if she knows I know this but its getting really annoying. Why is she doing this? Thanks
@donnaquinlan6530
2 жыл бұрын
Bummer I broke a three rules
@stephensneddon1059
2 жыл бұрын
If you say no to friends...and they say ok and just go...is that it?...they've gone?
@jannlewandowski5540
Жыл бұрын
Stephen sneddon, let me recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. It's terrific! It has strategies for all situations. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@spiderboy3340
2 жыл бұрын
it's my day 2 of no contact 😔
@timothymurray1236
2 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, are there any circumstances in which you recommend reaching out? It's been 3 days of NC for me now and I'm determined to see it through whatever rhe outcome but I think it's depression that made my ex do it. Our relationship was pretty good, no fighting, no toxicity, no bickering. What if depression makes her unable to reach out? I'm very concerned about her.
@UsmanAshrafmusic
2 жыл бұрын
Don't break NC
@Meowmeow39999
2 жыл бұрын
3 days is not long enough! It’s okay to worry but do not reach out that’ll only prolong the time they’ll come back! But if she hasn’t reached out in 4 months + then I guess it’s okay to reach out I think at that point you have nothing to lose
@dr.options
2 жыл бұрын
Citing her Depression as the reason is just you looking for an excuse to break No Contact. Stay strong.
@fj4731
2 жыл бұрын
Today is 66 days depression of No Contact everyday thinking should I initiate contact because my ex gf broke up with me in december and we got back together on Valentine day which trigger her love back though she said she love me but I was reserved for 2 month she got upset she dont feel i love her because i questions her about the 1st breakup blaming her why break up giving up our 7 years relationship and I told her I dont want a gf who will break up with me. Now I regretted my Negativity that I pushed her away not believing her love and because she got her mental distress and she decided to break up with me again. I need advice should I break No contact? Should I believe her I Love u and stay No contact ? I am confuse
@timothymurray1236
2 жыл бұрын
@@dr.options maybe so. It's just that I was speaking with friends girlfriend last night who suffers from depression and she told me some scary stuff, she has pushed her family away for weeks at a time. She said a person might not be capable of reaching out. Anyway, I will stay strong.
@user-de1kj4mq4p
2 жыл бұрын
After I do to many mistakes to contact him.I'm still waiting for him it almost 2 years I still can take him back? As I know he still single but why he keeps quiet I know he loves me to much but he choose to end with me. Thanks very much for video 🙏
@kseniyab2359
2 жыл бұрын
You look great 😊
@dallas2160
2 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, my ex reaches out to me even though I don’t think she wants to get back together. She says things that you say are good like “how are you” or “how is (my pet) doing?” And like you said this could mean that she’s been thinking about my life and me. But when she asked how I was I told her exactly what you said “some days are more difficult than others” and she said that she’s doing a little better every day. I don’t know if this is working. Help. Please.
@szhmoe
2 жыл бұрын
She's reaching out to check the water temp from your end hoping you'd make the move to ask her to talk things through and maybe get back together.
@Ant-ig8we
2 жыл бұрын
Yessir coach lee
@rubiales_123
7 ай бұрын
What to do, when I've already said "I'll wait for you"?
@RealCoachLee
7 ай бұрын
The best thing to do in that case is to just stay in no contact. Make them think you have changed your mind.
@rubiales_123
7 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot for your fast answer
@maktin2447
Жыл бұрын
could you say something like "I want you in my life but I cannot have you as a friend now" and then never act as a friend?
@RealCoachLee
Жыл бұрын
That's an okay way to say it, but only okay because it communicates unmet desire. It sounds needy and like you are secretly still in love in love with your ex. And the word "cannont" is a no no. It's really best to say, "No, but thank you for asking and take care of yourself."
@georginabrigs1891
2 жыл бұрын
How about if he reached out but never initiated contact again? Ive initiated once had a convo. It's been 1.5months since the 1st day hebreached out. Then we followed each other again in sm he likes and check my stories sometimes. Is it okay if ill say to him that it's better that we just unfollow each other again, forget the romantic past we had and just move on with our lives? I mean if i want to forget him for good.
@jinglebells3659
2 жыл бұрын
If you really want to get over him then you could do that. But if you want to say that just to get a reaction from him and speed up his ‘fear stage’, then don’t… just let it be and wait him out It’s a good sign that he’s liking your stories
@georginabrigs1891
2 жыл бұрын
@@jinglebells3659 thanks for the reply! I think 1.5mos is too early. Ill give it more time. Thanks.
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