Erin is spot on when talking about universal healthcare and childcare as being a chief means of confronting social issues. Adding universal basic income and lifetime access to education/job training might level the playing field even more. In other words, we need to jettison our mythic meritocratic socio-economic system for one that emphasizes the equality of all--which can only be achieved when everyone's basic needs are met and those who own everything cannot use the cudgel of hunger and homelessness to get whatever they want. The answer is not to make the oppressed, whoever they may be, more competitive; the answer is not to continue living in a society where we are taught to constantly war with each other for basic needs.
@jeffirvin497
8 ай бұрын
I should have listened longer, 25:27. You ladies have clearly don't need my help to explain the problem. 😊 Really enjoyed this episode. Also love "This Fuckin' Guy" episodes. 😂
@ladyaj7784
6 ай бұрын
People need to stop thinking boys-will-be-boys. Our expectations are too low for boys and men. MEN need to step up and start striving for improvements to their communities the way women have... not at the expense of women, but in creating positive change for each other.
@pootboy5547
2 ай бұрын
I can just picture all the "STEPPING UP" you do for your "COMMUNITY", lady. almost of which consists of you shrieking at the TJ Maxx return counter.
@Jamhael1
2 ай бұрын
What makes you believe that a men is "a woman's mind in a male body"?
@user-ou3hb7ol5n
Жыл бұрын
As a stay at home father, and used to be a residential manager at a program for struggling adolescents, I could not agree more with these takes. I find males to be extremely lacking in the self sufficient category. Most of my male friends can't cook a meal or do laundry. I struggle to find a male social circle to fit into outside of sports and video games lol.
@Imaginativeone_DF
Ай бұрын
For me, that's FASCINATING. I don't know anyone at all who can't cook or do laundry, certainly not my son. In fact, he makes the most delicious meals, across a wide spectrum of cuisines that I've ever tasted. I didn't teach directly teach him to be responsible for himself. Perhaps he picked it up by observing me?
@luvspaiste
Жыл бұрын
Erin- you nailed it when you observed that the "one-size-must-fit-all' approach to education doesn't serve our kids well. This is especially true for kids who are ADHD (overwhelmingly boys.) I'm an RN who works child and adolescent psych and had this identical conversation yesterday with a mother of a boy with ADHD. Schools are built for one type a kid: one who can sit at a desk for 8 hours a day. Alyssa: Thank you for recognizing the nursing strike in New York. I'm in Los Angeles, but nurses everywhere are experiencing the healthcare system's attitude of "Thank you for your service during the pandemic but now we can return to treating you badly." COVID didn't change things. It accelerated the change that was already underway.
@kateyoung1308
Жыл бұрын
I am in Canada and a big fan! I see the same issue in our schools for boys as well. I raised two boys with ADHD and ADD respectively and it was only through my active involvement in their school and yearly independent education plan creation that my family income allowed for that they were able to adapt to the standard curriculum system we see here in North America. They have successfully transitioned into adulthood with empathy and a desire to contribute to society. They still play video games LOL. Great show 👏
@tammystockley-loughlin7680
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for what you do. I hope we can redo the system. My sister has worked as Para/EMT and Emergency Dept. Nurse for the last 20+ years (I work in a grocery store, I'm the sounding board). She has shared stories of double doubles and having to cover callouts to already skeleton crews... being assaulted by a drunk patient after asking for more security for weeks before it happened...on a full-moon weekend. Take care. Positive vibes from New Hampshire, remember to be kind to each other and yourself during these trying times.
@majebrennan5668
Жыл бұрын
I told my boyfriend at the time (now my husband for 39 years) that in order to be in my life he had to be able to cook, clean, and take care of kids. I told my son that before he left my house, he had to be able to cook, clean, and take care of kids. My son is now a divorced father of two girls who has split custody. He's teaching him the same basic skills he had to learn, getting them into sports, and making sure they're doing well in school. My husband loved me making more than him. BTW, he was an Army Green Beret.
@GhostCat-zc2gj
4 ай бұрын
I'm a 52 year old man who has multiple learning disabilities and psychological problems I've worked as a dishwasher and more recently as a janitor, a few years ago they expanded medicaid in the state I live in and I was able to get help I wasn't able to get my whole life which is life changing because now I also have bad arthritis and herniated disc in my back and can't really even do the only type of work I was ever able to get
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
Жыл бұрын
Community for boys you say…you mean like the Boy Scouts? What happened to the Boy Scouts?
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
Destroyed by feminists...
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
Жыл бұрын
@@DrGingerHamster the hamster!!! It’s an honor brother
@thomthom6268
Жыл бұрын
BSA kicked out all the gays and found out it was the straight pedophiles that were the real problem.
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
@@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746 The honor is mine brother! Good to see you!
@jamesafourkeeff6547
6 ай бұрын
Drained Pool Politics
@jsrodman
Жыл бұрын
Men are suffering in terms of their outcomes, income, security, in the US. Like everyone is. Because our working world and economy are serving most of us very poorly. It's a capitlism, corruption, and mismanagement problem. It's hard to think of any broad problems affecting men specifically instead of affecting everyone. And yes, MRA types, I'm aware of certain areas in which men do poorly, but every group has areas they have worse outcomes. These should not be used to construct a narrative that men are the sufferers specially, but rather to guide us to the systemic problems with an eye towards resolving them. ALSO! "Masculinity is fragile" I will say .. well.. it IS.. as many people conceive of it. Maybe we should you know, build a better idea of masculinity that isn't so fragile? -------- ALSO! i'll say the industrial nature of our schools doesn't disserve boys and/or different children. It disserves everyone really. Lots of time is spent on obedience, and very little is spent on encouraging active learning. We don't need a school system design to make factory workers who don't talk back. That age of manufacture is over. It was always evil but now it's evil and pointless.
@stregalilith
7 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@user-ll7pp7eo8q
Ай бұрын
The school system doesn’t disservice women. Women are excelling.
@EightFrancs
Жыл бұрын
A woman saying that the pressure for men to be providers, only comes from other men... Is one of the most dishonest comments I've ever heard.
@geraldfelix6211
Жыл бұрын
😂 absolutely right 👍
@SilortheBlade
Жыл бұрын
That absolutely was NOT what she said. She said Men feel judged by other men to be a provider, not pressured. These are two entirely different concepts and is bordering on a dishonest take. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and say you misunderstood. Men will do stupid thing to prove themselves to other men. I say this as a stupid man who did stupid things to prove himself to other men when he was younger, and still struggles to not worry about this at times. I will agree society at large still puts pressure on men to be the provider, and that is something that has to change, and while we can always find anecdotal examples to the contrary, it seems like women are not as judgmental on this subject.
@SafavidAfsharid3197
5 ай бұрын
@@SilortheBladeI am a victim is SA by woman during my childhood so when I see women back in 2013 protesting against criminalisation of male r*pe, what should I feel.
@rickwrites2612
4 ай бұрын
@@SafavidAfsharid3197what are you even talking about. Women against rape are against men being raped. Feminism is against men being raped. Liberalism is against men being raped. Who are these women everyone complains about that hate men and want freedom but expect men to do everything still? I literally have never met nor even heard any. Maybe yall are hanging out with some wacko religious conservative women and that's the problem?
@rickwrites2612
4 ай бұрын
It's some moms to to be honest. There's all sorts of ways moms of boys engage in toxic masculinity. Ie " boys dont do that". I find it's not women peers so much, but moms fearing their boys will be picked on by other boys if they aren't toxic.
@corinnapetry65
Жыл бұрын
Low wages affect men more than most things. It's the economy, stupid. When men see that they cannot support a family of four, house, dog and multiple cars like their fathers did, they get mighty depressed. That can not be attributed to women and their roles in society but to the corporate class.
@lomo2283
Жыл бұрын
This all sounds like men and women being manipulated into blaming each other when our capitalist system and government are to blame. Most of these issues will be resolved/assuaged with: government subsidies for child care; federally subsidizing education; increasing the minimum wage; restrictions on mass purchasing of residential real estate by corporations/individuals, especially foreign entities or citizens; reducing the cost of education; moving away from a debt based economy; etc.
@maxhatush5918
Жыл бұрын
Nope. Females are the root of all evil.
@MarriedManAgainstBachelors
Жыл бұрын
Bachelors for prison. There’s no other explanation!
@terrystevens8338
Жыл бұрын
It’s more like men are being manipulated into blaming women for issues and women are just swept up once again defending ourselves from the patriarchy and fighting to keep the sliver of progress we have made in the past 100 years. It is a tale as old as time and it’s not both sides needlessly going after each other. The rest of the comment was on point though. The discussion isn’t about expanding the social safety net.. they are discussing if we need to make women more vulnerable once again so they have to depend on men to survive.
@davyjose1978
Жыл бұрын
Whats' your alternative to capitalism if it is so awful?
@terrystevens8338
Жыл бұрын
@@davyjose1978 it seems that the social democracies are on the right path.. keeping capitalism for things that are not life or death and using some of the profits to fund things that capitalism is failing at regulating the cost of because people need them to survive and therefor will pay any amount of money for. That is still capitalist tho so I guess it’s not an alternative to capitalism but a way to make capitalism work again. It’s also a solution to the people that scream “we all have to work because someone has to make what we need to survive” And then scream “they are using tech to take all our job’s”
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
Жыл бұрын
Hey ladies, you know why so many men are on pain meds and disability? Because they get hurt falling off rooftops, getting limbs caught in machinery, or break their backs lifting heavy objects. But yes, the video games is the problem. 🙄
@vegashawkfan59
Жыл бұрын
L4-L5, L5-S1. Everyday pain ever since the age of 21. I got that from physical labor, but I still got to lift the heavy items for the ladies that I worked with at the Forest Service. They did less work for the same pay. Oops... I missed the talking points: $0.79 on the dollar!!! What privilege...
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
Жыл бұрын
@@vegashawkfan59 dang brother. Hope you’re managing the pain without too many drugs. It must be terrible
@SilortheBlade
Жыл бұрын
Sooooo, you think it's womens fault that these companies have poor safety measures? I'm failing to see your point. Although you seem to agree with them women here that the video games argument from the article is BS.
@Fourleggedfreak
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, the women in this video specifically were disagreeing that video games is the problem Also, you are right, it’s important to talk about how companies need to have better safety practices and offer healthcare and paid leave and cover rehab. (Which is also a point the women in this video were trying to make about needing universal healthcare so that men who have been injured can get care!)
@j.n.sloane
Жыл бұрын
Excellent discussion! The point about community for young men is particularly interesting to me because I have two sons and they are only connected to their community through their jobs. I have moved to Spain and the socializing for all levels of society is amazing. In the evenings, EVERYONE meets for a drink or light snacks to socialize and Spain is one of the safest countries in the world. I have seen men caring for their children in what looks like an equal way to the women, pushing strollers, carrying babies against their chests, and the elderly are just as involved. They maintain their family connections in a way that I, as an American, find astonishing. The family is everything in Spain. We need to support that more in the US. Support social interactions. Promote going for a coffee. Promote meeting for a snack. I remember a cop telling me that the worst thing for our neighborhood safety was air conditioning. His point was that people used to sit on their porches to cool off and see their neighbors. We knew who belonged and who didn't. We connected. That is what's missing.
@adammarshall6257
Жыл бұрын
I had to start working on my own because the trades, like carpentry is so toxic. This is because men have no role models, the ones who they should be looking up to are getting attacked all the time and men are turning to creeps like Andrew Tate and Joe Rogan, and Elon Musk because they think that's what women want.
@EightFrancs
Жыл бұрын
@@adammarshall6257 Are you actively fighting for the divorce laws, child custody laws, domestic violence laws and false accusation laws to be made fairer to men?
@drizzle27
Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for your son if these are the women you decide to take advice from.
@forsaken_bacon
Жыл бұрын
So the answer is to have more snacks?
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
14:20 So, please explain to us, how 'men' got all this free stuff you mentioned, just by being men, especially white men. Please, tell us all about it. We would all love to know.
@preciousroy6079
Жыл бұрын
I remember growing up in the 80s and 90s and playing video games even before we had all these "graphics." I also remember in the 90s when politicians and mass-panic media were blaming our pre-graphics games for Columbine. Julissa was dead on; the reflexive need to blame a scapegoat seems to have been baked into our society at a deep level, and it can only ever make problems worse.
@Fourleggedfreak
Жыл бұрын
Yes lol I had no problem spending all day on the N64 when I was in middle school and depressed. I also think they are right about isolated men playing video games because that’s how they socialize (I think it was Alyssa’s point) I know quite a few men like that!
@superdudehello
3 ай бұрын
@@Fourleggedfreak That's how I socialized for a long time!
@SuperSkink08
Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this conversation as a man that is reading the book. The NY article doesn't help the convo with the headline and image blaming women but there needs to be a reckoning for men by men to help them adapt to the new world. Society also needs to accept men that are trying to adapt as well, people still look down on men that aren't jacked, emotionless, meat balls. We should solve society's problems while also helping solve men's problems.
@stregalilith
7 ай бұрын
Oh you are SO right!
@rickwrites2612
4 ай бұрын
I think ppl need to stop mocking the size of men's genitals as like the last gotcha when a guy is clearly an asshole overcompensating for his insecurity. Why is this ok? You realize making manhood about the genitals size is feeding into the same shit. Obviously they only mean to bring that asshole down a peg, but you are basically telling all other men they should be ashamed if their genitals arent large? How does that fit with egalitarian ideals and not judging bodies? At bottom its just more misogyny. Men get victimized by overflow misogyny more than they do by anti-male sexism. The standards for men are all about not being a compared to a woman in any way, because being a woman is degrading. If you don't think being a woman is essentially degrading than there is no reason for homophobia or toxic masculinity. Becsuse it doesn't matter if you wear a girl color, or date men, or have small genitals, or prefer dance or art to sports, etc. It may not be what certain lovers find attractive, but it shouldn't be considered less of a man because of superficial shit. We can't fight toxic masculinity WITH MORE toxic masculinity. We can't fight misogyny against women if we are subjecting men to it.
@inthehouse1960
Жыл бұрын
Didn't a Rockafeller say that we need to separate children from their families at a young age to create a new market at age 3 and then separate them right after graduation to create another market at age 18. The more families are broken up, the more money can be made. Why sell a family one toaster when you can sell them 5?
@TMac473
Жыл бұрын
Stop using logic; it has no place in a woman’s world.
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
That was Karl Marx actually.
@jeffirvin497
8 ай бұрын
Perfect point! 23:50 Capitalism is largely the root of all problems we face today in our society.
@MMWoodworking
8 ай бұрын
My question for these researches is this. If they went went around and asked the group of men they are talking about, “would they choose to be a woman tomorrow, if they supposedly would be getting ahead by doing so?” Of course not. Being a woman in America sounds awful… sex discrimination, misogyny, no help with childcare costs, much greater fear of physical abuse, no help with basic costs of feminine products, higher prices for goods marketed at women, absurd body standards… and after listening to numerous episodes involving menstrual and pregnancy topics, add that in, and that’s a hard pass for me. Being a white dude in America still provides more privilege than any other demographic. That’s just a fact. Listen to GOP voter focus groups when they get asked about Haley. A majority of them simply straight up say a woman shouldn’t be President. She is literally at w disadvantage for a good 35% of the population purely because she is a woman. Also, video games nowadays are not great, so clearly that researcher isn’t a gamer. Micro transactions and games that are barely playable on launch are standard. That alone breaks this article.
@EightFrancs
Жыл бұрын
Are any of you broads actively fighting for the divorce laws, child custody laws, domestic violence laws and false accusation laws to be made fairer to men?
@carolkar5687
Жыл бұрын
Trolls are out in force!
@carladerenzy3674
Жыл бұрын
@@carolkar5687 no, your "trolls" are people using better arguments than you.
@TMac473
Жыл бұрын
LMAO 🤣 you too funny dude
@jantoraason3415
Жыл бұрын
Explain. My dad rarely paid a dime for us four kids in the 1950s. Have laws gone overboard for women? Not my experience.
@bradfordwebster3181
Жыл бұрын
Really appreciating these comments. Dfferent angles, questioning biases, experiences, not everybody agreeing - but talking through it. It gives me some hope. I am a young adult, but my concern is greatest for those younger than I. I hope we can focus more on INCLUDING THEM in these conversations and not alienating them by discussing the issue without them.
@DukeWooze
Жыл бұрын
Just what I need a bunch of karens telling me I'm the problem. Real innovative thinking their ladies.
@terrystevens8338
Жыл бұрын
men- women are the problem women- we are not the problem men- why are you “Karen’s” telling me what my problem is?
@carolkar5687
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for trolling Duke.
@terrystevens8338
Жыл бұрын
@@carolkar5687 ran back to tates page with all his comments I guess.. 💁🏼♀️ the mirror always does the trick
@DukeWooze
Жыл бұрын
@@carolkar5687 np 👍
@jennifertwitchell4465
11 ай бұрын
There
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
Жыл бұрын
15:24 fellas, we can have our basic needs met if we lived in a country that made life better for women…😂😂😂😂
@reezoe164
Жыл бұрын
Just get a foreign female. They hate yhis feminism bs. Not all foreign females...
@christinevalenzuela6948
Ай бұрын
I’m a 70 year old retired teacher and the two words that I find to be the definitive sources for so many of our male and female issues is patriarchy and greedy capitalism 😡. Im a “recovering “. Catholic because of both. I’m aware about the current male situation because my daughters and nieces talk to me about what they are encountering in the dating world ( if and when they may happen to date). I agree that patriarchal capitalism is diminishing the value of a days work for respectable and sustainable dollar amount ( as women were still upset but not as surprised that it still around and has not begun to affect males). These articles that identify this male crisis do make it sound in cloaked terms that we need to rebuild our males- maybe it’s just a rouse for fortify patriarchy so their profit margins won’t have to slip. It’s about being and feeling respected for both systems to recognize for all genders. Loved the discussion 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@brendabrass2715
Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the struggle my brothers. The fight isn't amongst ourselves. The fight is at the front.
@volpe_sol
Жыл бұрын
This reminded me of why it's a bad idea to date a hysterical person. So much bitterness and lack of humility. This shit is crazy.
@carolkar5687
Жыл бұрын
So,you completely missed the point... thanks for sharing.
@volpe_sol
Жыл бұрын
@@carolkar5687 Your point is only able to exist in a 1st world comfortable country. Youre in a bubble of spoiled privilege asking others to validate you. Its not gonna happen.
@MarriedManAgainstBachelors
Жыл бұрын
@@carolkar5687 Don’t worry. Once all bachelors go to prison this will be over!
@Chelle_Vibes
Жыл бұрын
In this conversation, there seemed to be a good deal of apprehension against reorienting conversations of gender disparities away from those faced by women. While I understand frustrations with further centering male perspectives, I don't believe this is what Kahloon's article nor Reeves' book attempt to do. They center the experience of boys' childhood development, highlighting the consequences of it going wrong. Young boys are increasingly struggling in early childhood contexts, particularly in areas of responsibility and emotional development. The cause of which is not firm; Reeve's thinks it's physiological, Hysteria thinks it's sociological. Yet rather than focusing on how tough it is to be a man in today's society, the article brings up problems facing men as a vehicle to illustrate what can happen with inadequate development in the areas mentioned. Emotionally stunted boys become abusive men. It is for this reason I think the frustration against a male focus misses the point. Society on whole benefits from men being more emotionally intelligent. This, I believe, is the central thesis of the article, not that women's progress should lay off the gas peddle.
@RicochetForce
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I picked up on that. They consistently mentioned feeling as if women and their accomplishments were under attack by the article when that's not really the case in the text. Multiple times they express difficulty being sympathetic for these men and boys, despite the article pointing out correctly that if we don't figure out how to properly develop our men and boys will have social and political ramifications that will affect everyone.
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
Жыл бұрын
Boys and men don’t matter until they need you to sacrifice yourself for them…
@Chelle_Vibes
Жыл бұрын
@@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746 I would definitely not go as far as to say this. It can certainly feel this way for the many men who face loneliness, but society doesn't devalue their lives in any unique way. Their bodies aren't subject to legislation, their hardships aren't unique to their gender. Nonetheless, I think, and so does the article of focus for this podcast, that there is one area in which society is presently failing boys: childhood emotional development. Social skills are underemphasized in boys, skills which are incredibly necessary to succeed in modern economies. Grown men need to face their deficits like adults should they feel disadvantaged, yet immature boys could use society's help.
@terrystevens8338
Жыл бұрын
@@RicochetForce we all need to be aware that we are in the middle of a huge wave of misogyny and the people behind pushing this narrative are doing it with bad intentions for woman not because they are seriously looking for ways to help men that don’t involve rolling back woman’s progress. We have faced this same surge of fragile masculinity many times every time women make a step towards equality. I am all for helping men and being understanding but I won’t be a useful idiot that just ends up emboldening a group that has my rights in its cross hairs. You are right it isn’t in the text.. it is in the framing and between the lines. We must be cautious when it comes to patriarchy and stay guarded against the idea of re-entrenching traditional gender rolls to help men regain the power they feel slipping away.
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
Жыл бұрын
@@Chelle_Vibes I’m sorry to break it to you buddy, but men are disposable in this country at least. You can cope all you want, but I want you to show me one mainstream organization that is dedicated to the well-being of men. I also want you to find how many shelters for abused men are in your city. Every organization or group dedicated to men is immediately called a hate group. Just look at what they did to the MRAs who just wanted fairer family law. Keep your head down, I’m sure things will get better soon
@thomthom6268
Жыл бұрын
Serious moment. Men who aren't prepared for academia need the opportunity to learn a skill. And be paid their worth for it. I have a masters, but in 8th grade I took Tool Shop. Not just men, but if someone isn't on the academic track, provide them a track that lets them learn those skills. That's a systemic change I think would help. But, drop the term "mediocre men". The tradesmen I've met, didn't have my opportunities, simply because their families couldn't afford the college years my family could. But they certainly haven't been mediocre.
@hopeofdawn
11 ай бұрын
People who aren't prepared for academia need the opportunity to learn a skill. And be paid their worth for it. Fixed that for you. Imagine how different the U.S. would look if all these aggrieved men demanded fair wages for everyone, not just themselves.
@aituk
Жыл бұрын
It's amazing to hear the confidence with which they deliver their delusional ignorance.
@kevindunne7166
Жыл бұрын
I know. I found it amazing how clueless and inept they were!
@tknier88
Жыл бұрын
Anyone else notice that anytime a problem that effects men is turned into "How men are the problem" Or "This means we should take more from them to help women" Delusional
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
Yep, you noticed that too.
@latt.qcd9221
Жыл бұрын
Or, worse, when it gets turned into "how men are the problem" when it's something that's due to women's own choices, or when certain behaviors women engage in get projected onto men instead.
@TMac473
Жыл бұрын
Reminds me of that Hillary Clinton quote: Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat. Just imagine being that self centred! It’s funny if you don’t think about it.
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
Always men...we're always the problem.
@genericdreamers831
Жыл бұрын
"Young men are just soooo entitled! They expect all these things like a job, a house, and a woman to just be handed to them! Also, we should totally have free healthcare and childcare and other stuff that benefits women. Big Daddy Government should just hand it to us!"
@SilortheBlade
Жыл бұрын
She was saying that if everyone (not just women) had access to healthcare and childcare it would go a long way to solving the other problems. You really are an example of the problem men put on themselves today. You want to vote against your own economic self interest because someone insulted your pride. I hope you come back and reply to me with an insult, and you will see I don't care. I won't even respond. Because your opinion doesn't matter to me since I don't know you. Try thinking that way sometime. You would be amazed at how much happier you would be,
@genericdreamers831
Жыл бұрын
@@SilortheBlade Sorry to disappoint, but I'd rather put you in your place with plain truths rather than opinions or insults. Who's gonna pay for it? We all will. But it's women who will get far more healthcare spending covered over their lives. The Obamacare Mandate basically forced young men to buy more coverage than they need to cover the head meds of his urban liberal female voters. Who gets more from childcare? Also women, the majority of mothers being single these days. This is just another wealth transfer that gives men the short end of the stick. So it's in my economic self interests to keep my money in my pocket rather than let Big Government despoil it.
@ladywolfwolf
Жыл бұрын
Yeah. Just where are all of the single fathers? Not want the responsibility?
@maxpayne232
2 ай бұрын
They're all depressed because their ex wifes won't allow them access their children. All thanks to the american court system which is TOTALLY not in favour of women.
@maxpayne232
2 ай бұрын
Just so you know. Screening for anxiety in girls is covered under obamacare. For boys it's not. Never heard a single feminist even acknowledge this issue yet they wanna claim it's all about equality
@jaygatz4335
Жыл бұрын
There needs to be a balance of masculine and feminine traits in each person. I think the drag queen's reaction to the toxic male was right: "Honey, I'm more woman than you'll ever get, and more man than you'll ever be!"
@Jamhael1
2 ай бұрын
Why this stupid obsession with Sociology?
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
Жыл бұрын
Imagine four men talking about the struggles of women and chuckling, blaming, and being condescending the whole time. Save your money and go overseas fellas. The west is dead
@hysteriapodcast
Жыл бұрын
Bye. We'll help you pack.
@lyingdogfacedponysoldier5746
Жыл бұрын
@@hysteriapodcast I don’t need help sweetheart. This bicycle has no need for a fish…it needs a cyclist
@carolkar5687
Жыл бұрын
Imagine? lmao
@thomthom6268
Жыл бұрын
Four men chuckling, blaming, and condescending about women? Sounds like The Any Bar on any night. And likely your last BBQ and your last Sports Night. LDFPS, you're not winning. Noöne outside your tenors, baritones, and basses are gonna be convinced. But maybe you're grooming a new generation.
@stregalilith
7 ай бұрын
And stay there
@mapleoak11
7 ай бұрын
This is a great discussion with smart commentary.
@DrEsky914
Жыл бұрын
I have spent the last almost 30 years raising a son. I was amazed at the way he learned when he was little, he would keep trying things until they worked which fascinated me as I would be so careful and want to avoid failure when I learned new material. He also struggled to be organized at school and this was something we worked on as his parents for most of his school years. In his middle school the boys were separated from the girls for 7th and 8th grade and we (the mothers of the boys) formed a little club as our issues with our boys was so much different than the issues with the girls! He was finally evaluated in 10th grade and given a diagnosis of ADD with inattentiveness (as opposed to hyperactivity). I had never considered ADD as he could work on the computer for hours at a time, or play music for a prolonged period. This was a very helpful evaluation and helped his father to understand that he wasn't "lazy". He did graduate from college and did fairly well and explored his world to some degree which was really great (he did a semester abroad in Europe and traveled a great deal). His interests in his 20's were in music, performance and radio broadcasting (!). I continued to support his goals and recognized that in this different world of social media etc he needed time to figure things out. He was finally accepted to law school with a full ride; I immediately gave him Sonya Sotomayor's autobiography!. I had always shown him support but also that women are strong, educated and able to do anything in this world. He turns to me as a friend and a support and I hope that I have done my part to raise a successful male.
@angelcoyote9802
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for working hard to raise an empowered man.
@matthewczajkowski5735
Жыл бұрын
When are women going to realize that a lot of the judgement on whether or not the man can provide, it comes from the women. Why do you think divorces are so high when she makes more? A majority of women do not want to provide for a man which is fine but you can’t blame men for this. This is on you.
@jt1559
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. It's okay for men to provide for the woman, but hells no to them "providing" for the man. Yet, apparently women are the caring, sacrificing ones...
@SilortheBlade
Жыл бұрын
Citation needed.
@mapleoak11
7 ай бұрын
When she makes more, his ego can't take it.
@PaperRaines
Жыл бұрын
A great commentary by Julissa at 27:54 about the subtopic of Latinos in this situation. I remember attending a women's equality conference meeting at my job a few years ago. I, was one of two dudes there lol. But we were all discussing women's place in society and what the issues were and solutions and whatnot, and then one of the participants jumped in to tell us about how her son also needs to be treated like "a man" by her and his sisters. Literally in the areas of cooking for him and cleaning up (like doing laundry). She was a Hispanic woman and made the point that this is the case in her culture, and she likes it that way, and her daughters do too (according to her at least) If that's what a woman, not that she represents all women or all Latinas, is bringing to a roundtable discussion about women's equality, that says something about how deep that root is. So yeah if the dynamics of the world changes around a Hispanic man and his family, I can understand some serious disillusionment leading to depression and resentment
@Jamhael1
2 ай бұрын
The problem is that woman INSIST in the belief that a men is "a woman's mind in a male body"...
@jaygatz4335
Жыл бұрын
The matter with men? Josh Hawley, Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro, and Nick Fuentes would be a start . . .
@davyjose1978
Жыл бұрын
Riiight, so Jordan Peterson and Ben Shapiro are bad for men. Any evidence why? I doubt you can explain.
@jaygatz4335
Жыл бұрын
@@davyjose1978 In my opinion, they are mired in the old stereotypes of "strong" men who should not show a sensitive side or be open to the changing landscape of gender identity. The era of John Wayne is long gone. They are very rigid and absolutist, which is bad for the issues of tolerance and conflict resolution. And for the life of me, I can't figure out why Fuentes claims a man is gay if he has sex with a woman.
@davyjose1978
Жыл бұрын
@@jaygatz4335 The "problem" with men is that men are weaker, fatter, lazier, more emoTional and overall more pathetic than they ever have been before. And women hate it. There is a reason why Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate became so big. Because men deep down actually want to be that "John Wayne" character you describe, or at least the modern embodiment, a dude who is in shape, jacked, rich and with a hot babe on his arm, perhaps multiple. We don't want to wear a dress, cry about our feelings, put pronouns in our bio, wear a mask or subscribe to any of your woke BS. And thats why Tate is huge - because there are millions of men out there who want to live that way. Suck it up, Princess.
@jaygatz4335
Жыл бұрын
@@davyjose1978 Why do men want those things deep down? It's a very exaggerated and cartoonish take on masculinity . . . toxic masculinity - that's what gets us into violence and wars. It's time for a change. BTW, please give me your definition of "woke". That word is tossed around like the word "liberal". The last time I check the definition of "woke", it was: "Alert to injustice and discrimination in society". It's an old problem that has yet to be addressed.
@davyjose1978
Жыл бұрын
@@jaygatz4335 *Why do men want those things deep down?* Who are you to tell what men want? Are you saying there aren't millions of men who want that, that "cartoonish take on masculinity?" There are millions who do (Id say most men want this to some degree..), and they always will. Why do you think Andrew Tate blew up so big? Because despite decades of men being told they are bad, they are toxic, there are millions out there who want that so-called "toxic" masculine life. And they always will, despite how woke worms like you will shame them for it. *It's a very exaggerated and cartoonish take on masculinity* What, going after money, hot girls etc? Who says that's all it needs to be? But if they do, so what? Hey listen - if you are a weak, spineless little worm who doesn't want to hit the gym, get jacked and have a hot girl on their arm, why don't you f___ off and let the men who do want that, go do it? *toxic masculinity - that's what gets us into violence and wars* Is it? Id put it down to greed and power (and the lust for both)...but you fancy a "change", do you? How exactly do you plan on eliminating the innate desire amongst many men (and women) for more power and money? Let me know how that goes for you. Also - anything to say about toxic femininity or is it just men who can be toxic? *BTW, please give me your definition of "woke"* Someone who pursues far left "progressive" ideals based upon equity NOT equality. Causes like feminism, socialism, climate change, BLM, any area where a supposed "minority" groups are "disadvantaged". Good example off the top of my head would be how trans activists wanted "Natural Woman" by Aretha Franklin banned because it is offensive to trans people. Problem is - none of these issues are problems anymore, or else the "solutions" that are proposed are inherently authoritarian in nature (good example is affirmative action to supposedly fix female underrepresentation in certain fields). Pronouns in someone's bio are a standard calling card, as are obesity, being out of shape and ugly, weird hair colors, these people are easy to spot. *That word is tossed around like the word "liberal". The last time I check the definition of "woke", it was: "Alert to injustice and discrimination in society". It's an old problem that has yet to be addressed* Absolutely nothing wrong with being alert to discrimination and injustice in society. The thing is - in the Western World those "injustices" have been fixed. Now woke types like you need to find injustice where it doesn't exist, the Aretha Franklin being a great example. Despite what BLM claim, racism isn't an issue (perhaps against white people, yes) nor is sexism (perhaps against men, maybe) Any questions?
@kristinsewell1441
Жыл бұрын
I came upon this pod a little late but I wanted to chime in. I think essentially men are bemoaning the weakening of the patriarchy. They DO feel entitled to the lives their grandfather's had and they blame empowered women for that instead of a shrinking economy and regressive policies. I was in a convo with a group of men about this because I am worried about my son, who is 26 and seems to be stagnating. He doesn't know what he wants and isn't motivated to find out. They blamed me for coddling him. I am a single mom. I also have a daughter. My son lacks ambition not self-sufficiency. He lacks a community of men who are successful and aspirational. He finds community in gaming and all of those men have similar lives.
@stregalilith
7 ай бұрын
Yes!
@Jamhael1
2 ай бұрын
Well, woman started DEMONIZING his existence, so what do you expect?
@kristinsewell1441
2 ай бұрын
@Jamhael1 Project much? My son does not feel demonized. We have talked about this. If anything, he simply doesn't like the choices he's presented with. He feels like he needs to do a trade, but he doesn't really want to do a trade. Or, he thinks I want him to go to University, but I have never suggested that (I have multiple degrees and so does his sister) and he doesn't want to do that. He joined the military and he didn't like it. It was the only goal he had set for himself as a teenager so eliminating that, he no longer knows what he wants. Eventually something will click into place but that requires exploration which doesn't happen without effort.
@Jamhael1
2 ай бұрын
@@kristinsewell1441 go look into social media, and go look into the job market and life cost crisis, the mental health crisis that is practically in PANDEMIC LEVELS amongst men that there is out there, and you will see that men are INDEED being demonized...
@user-ll7pp7eo8q
Ай бұрын
Nobody feels entitled to the lives their grandfathers had. I think most men feel that their grandfather’s life sucked.
@MylesFCorcoran
Ай бұрын
Thanks. That was reality packed.
@squ34ky
Жыл бұрын
Would this be an example of woman-splaining?
@kevindunne7166
Жыл бұрын
On steroids!
@emilianosintarias7337
Жыл бұрын
Remember people, according to these PMC karens, women's issues are in society and men's problems are inside men. "How can we help women combat social problems and how can we help men deworm themselves of their issues so they don't commit suicide?" Is not the right question. The right question is how to uplift everybody who wants work for improvements.
@psbauman
Жыл бұрын
I think the scapegoating comes from the concept of a zero sum game, which is false and also masks what’s actually going on: like some of you stated, there’s a community problem, and there’s also a more fundamental, existential inability for men to conceive of total freedom and equality for everyone because true freedom requires you to get out of the trap of self-loathing and isolation. Men have been enabled to never address this trap, to somehow mask it with “getting what they are owed” and now that the discussion is being opened and other demographics, genders, identities, are harnessing their own tools, men are faced with the reality that they never picked up any tools beyond social entitlement, “getting ahead,” reinforcing dominance, etc. The "positive" reinforcement that has shaped their identity in the patriarchal system has actually been gaslighting them in destructive & crippling ways for centuries.
@geoffbeaton8231
21 күн бұрын
The ladies should have read the book Richard wrote and watched some of the interviews he did specifically on the book. A lot of your comments would change when you read his logic, not some journalist. Maybe the Hysteria ladies could ask Richard to join them in their podcast and receive the information first hand. I am a bloke from Australia and I very much enjoy your podcast.
@cocacolayeah
3 ай бұрын
I agree with many of the points made here, but the pressure on men to be the provider stems mainly from the dating scene, not from other men. Modern women can provide for themselves but still choose, in large numbers, to marry "up." They are free to do so, of course (is it entitlement?). But this results in pressure on the capitalist marketplace to provide more opportunities, which it fails to deliver. And then, oh well, many guys get cranky and the blame game starts.
@clytemnestra
Жыл бұрын
Great podcast! Women can’t fix the problems men created for themselves.
@lomo2283
Жыл бұрын
All men didn’t get together to “create” this problem. The solution for men is not to disenfranchise women. If that is the solution someone proposes, that individual is the problem.
@TMac473
Жыл бұрын
Women can’t really solve any problems beyond what they evolved for- creation of babies; never mind mens problems.
@jt1559
Жыл бұрын
You mean that some men created. Over 99% of men have no power or had no say in these problems.
@shadebug
Жыл бұрын
I see somebody married in their early twenties and it’s very much a case of “tell me you’re in a church without telling me you’re in a church”
@stevejarred6484
4 ай бұрын
I see four women on this panel talking about the problems with men. Could not you have found a man who could have given you his perspective on this subject?
@stregalilith
7 ай бұрын
Women are not here to fix broken men
@Alissasness
Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your baby! Any names picked out? My cousin named hers Vada and Haisley. Love those names. So lucky it’s a Girl!!
@stinkystu1
Жыл бұрын
No, it isn't women. It is feminism.
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@jmfs8738
Жыл бұрын
Have you even read the definition of feminism? Why do fully realized women frighten you so much that you use a term of empowerment like a curse? That statement was so pitiful I can see why your Friday nights are laughable!
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
@@jmfs8738 The 'dictionary' definition of feminism? That one?
@RicochetForce
Жыл бұрын
Fundamentally, opportunities, prosperity and power in a society are a zero sum game. If you have a political class and movement focused on pushing one sex's political, social and economic goals over the other the end result will be a loss of opportunities, prosperity and power for the other group.
@godofrock
5 ай бұрын
I was a med student 5 years in on the deans list honors student but kept getting bumped out of my class to let in a minority or a female minority or a foreign minority. These are structured programs and being bumped could mean you need to wait for several months to get back in. I got bumped 5 times which added an extra year. As a male student of low middle class not able to get aid of any kind came out of military so I was older not on any GI education benefits thanks to Ronny Regan and 170k in school debt. I had to give up my dream of being a doctor and went to work in a trade to pay my debt off. Had I been any other color or female I would have had resources enough to finish.
@ericscasny9312
Жыл бұрын
Men have an innate biological desire to provide. It's not social pressure. This was a sad conversation.
@cpr1200r
6 ай бұрын
ROFL..
@marknugent9851
Жыл бұрын
Congrats Julissa! Demagogues, salesmen and tent revivalists are all the same, they need some event - real or manufactured - that heightens the emotions of their marks, making them more suggestible. Be it joy or hope or anger (AKA fear), and in the political sphere they need emotional excitement, wedge issues. Sexism is one of those wedges, transphobia, racism, ableism etc are just tactics to execute that strategy. It's asymmetric warfare, making expectation/reality gaps that make people suggestible. Asymmetric warfare is one of the three prongs of perception management which is the main way to execute a plan to make people vote against their own best interests AKA social engineering. The other 2 prongs? Psychological Warfare cuts us off from ourselves and Nonlinear/Hybrid Warfare cuts us off from the outside world. This lack of trust in ourselves and our environment makes people vulnerable to the demagogues, salesmen and tent revivalists who pull the BS move of 'Only I can magically fix it, all you need to do is give me everything you are without question'. The answer is this feeling of pain in the male population is the price on society for everyone, including men, not being feminists. If you have expected roles and mismatching realities, you either fix the reality with legislation or you adjust your expectations. This anxiety is the result of social engineering expectations rubbing against the progress of more healthy gender attitudes. A lack of feminism hurts *everyone*, including men. To Julissa's point: your wages, adjusted for inflation, have stagnated for 40+ years as CEO to average worker ratios ballooned from 8:1 in 1920 to 108:1 in 1990 to 319:1 in 2010. 'Wage gap between CEOs and US workers jumped to 670-to-1 last year, study finds' - 7 Jun,2020. **** To the resident royalist, just found this tidbit Alyssa: “In the event that I am reincarnated, I would like to return as a deadly virus, to contribute something to solving overpopulation” - Father of the King, husband (and 2nd cousin) of the late Queen, and famous racist, Prince Philip, 1988 Maybe we could rename ‘covid-19’ to ‘Prince Philip-1988’ in his honor? Royalism and fascism are not far enough apart and royals seem to know this .
@MRICCI8
Жыл бұрын
Erin's commentary on UHC hit a chord. It would be a better world if insightful people in conversation could have a seat at the table shaping policy.
@alexfernandez711
Жыл бұрын
intelligent people*
@Scohen415
Жыл бұрын
This was a great conversation and I totally agree with the points. When said that men arent prepared to be able to take care of themselves I feel like I resemble that comment. When I moved out for college I didnt know how to cook or do laundry. All skills I had to pick up. But for sure the idea of the Ted Bundy life where I could have a big house kids and work as a shoe salesman was slightly in my mind. I think this all boils down to the usual Capitalism run amuck. Its always gotta be someone to demonize and place the blame on so we dont look where the actual problem is. Saying video game graphics or women working is nonsense cause like Alyssa said weve got railworkers having to strike to take F'n sick days! Childcare is expensive. Homes bought up by Zillow and redfin so we can be forever renting. This is the lack of opportunity thats crushing the spirits of everyone. And since theres still an old fashioned idea of male superiority and place in the world and when some men cant achieve that they look to a scape goat and are quickly guided there but POS's like Andrew Tate of Jordan Peterson. Cause any real reflection on whats happening would lead to the revitalizing of unions and workers rights that should be happening. So much easier to just sit on the internet and be made that disney has gone woke or some other nonsense. Anyway loved the episode!
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
Low IQ then Sam?
@kevindunne7166
Жыл бұрын
Please shut up!
@Maclyn88
Жыл бұрын
Naw ladies, I still think it's the video game graphics 😆🤣
@MonkeyFeat
4 ай бұрын
Treat everyone equally and give everyone good possibilities andvwe all will thrive. Unfettered capitalism is killing the USA.
@migmontest
Жыл бұрын
Shaming men while telling each other women how great they are. Of course the problem is not women.
@rayng8932
6 ай бұрын
It’s always been survival of the fittest. Don’t blame women for working hard to becoming more fit to thrive in the evolving world.
@sacha96155
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad I listened to this, but this discussion is just as tone-deaf as that Arab committee on women's issues composed entirely by men. It's just as ridiculous to hear Joe Rogan talking about human suffering as it is to watch rich women talk about the problem with poor people. There is so much bourgeoise snobbery in this episode it's disappointing. The expectations you think men have about what's coming to them in life aren't things men are used to and are having a hard time living without. These expectations are imposed by other women as conditions for a respectful and stable partnership. If a man can't get a job, make money, and provide, he'll die alone, because he'll be rejected by women he wants. Of course, these conversations will always avoid talking about what women really expect of men beyond conversational etiquette, because they're conducted by women who will only have relationships with men with inheritances, to stay in the bourgeoisie, and host podcasts talking smack about poor people.
@karenokeson2705
Жыл бұрын
Feeling a little inadequate?
@sacha96155
Жыл бұрын
@@karenokeson2705 More frustrated at the ubiquity of privileged cynical ingrates across most walks of life and identities. And I don't need to be suffering from a problem to empathize with others' suffering. Beyond that, I'm not very interested in being "adequate" in the eyes of these privileged cynics (inadequate humans imo). My comment is aimed at those who care about having a conversation beyond snarky like-mining and move towards a future society that actually cares about equity instead of using the word for the personal gains of a few aristocrats, while ignoring the truly underrepresented.
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
@HAMMERHAND Of course he did. He's pushing back. That's all one needs these days to be a hater of women...it's amazing how we've gotten this far.
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
@@karenokeson2705 Yes. I'm a victim. You?
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
@@karenokeson2705 And since I'm a victim, I want you to give me free shit. So glad you care.
@BlackDogBlues4961
Жыл бұрын
If I could give one piece of advice to cis/het white dudes it would be this, "Don't expect others to tolerate things that you would not." I enjoy a lot of privileges in my life, and it infuriates me when society prevents the equality and dignity everyone deserves.
@maxhatush5918
Жыл бұрын
@HAMMERHAND ahaha what a sight to see you tucked away here brother!
@davyjose1978
Жыл бұрын
Imagine using woke terms like "cis" and expecting not to be laughed out of the room. The rest of your drivel should be pointed out and sniggered at hysterically also.
@mariewilson6115
Жыл бұрын
When you have people like Andrew Tate as A role model you already have a problem. There was a video of 10 year old boys who were big fans of Andrew Tate. It's crazy.
@migalorsdarwin1930
Жыл бұрын
Were are their parents? They should be the role model, but those parents either do not care, or are bussy working, so those children are easy targets.
@RicochetForce
Жыл бұрын
It reveals just how badly it has gotten. That Andrew Tate is so appealing to modern men and boys should alarm everyone who studies radicalization efforts from extremist groups.
@EightFrancs
Жыл бұрын
Marie Are you actively fighting for the divorce laws, child custody laws, domestic violence laws and false accusation laws to be made fairer to men!
@Metaphix
Жыл бұрын
Women flock to Andrew Tate, that's what enabled him to start a camming business. Even the woman he raped according to the current case and accusations is on record texting she still wanted to hang out with him afterwards. If being like Andrew Tate gets women to want you like they want Andrew, ofc he's a role model. Because it works.
@davyjose1978
Жыл бұрын
@@RicochetForce How badly what's gotten? Why do you think Tate has gotten so big? I'm a huge fan of much of what he says. Why do think men listen to him? Radicalisation? How pathetic. You haven't a clue what you are babbling about.
@LemonDawn1
Жыл бұрын
This was a great conversation. Thank you.
@kevindunne7166
Жыл бұрын
It wasn't. It was four clueless asshole feminists completely dismissive of men's needs!
@Jerry-od8kx
5 ай бұрын
Women's effort for should continue. But I am disappointed that the same tired arguments not being represented in government, upper echelons of business, and a gender-based pay Gap as matters of patriarchy have been well disputed it's not based on gender but rather choices. Women have equal rights and opportunity but they have not earned respect from men. That is the greatest misogyny in our society
@fantym1633
5 ай бұрын
Except that women do NOT have equal rights. If women actually had equal rights, there would be *many* more men incarcerated for gender-based violence such as SA & DV. If women had equal rights, there wouldn't be years-long backlog of SA forensic kits awaiting analysis. If women had equal rights, bodily autonomy & reproductive healthcare wouldn't be restricted in so many states & child support payments would be mandatory, w/o the existing loopholes of "underemployment" & reflect the true expense of raising the children, not the pittance percentage awarded by courts currently. If women had equal rights, the marriage/children wage penalty experienced by mothers wouldn't exist & married men wouldn't earn more than single men or women, simply for being married men.
@yarnarrutor9418
Жыл бұрын
This is 'comfort feminism.' Comfort feminism isn't philosophical or intellectual, it's machiavellian, solipsistic & lazy. Good feminism isn't popular, and women who ascribe to comfort feminism are a dime a dozen. If a man dates a comfort feminist, he'll be expected to entertain inane thought experiments regularly. Examples might be "Maybe women are just better than men," "I felt objectified while we were having sex," or a general attitude of "I'm strong and independent" when she is neither. "I dumped my boyfriend, crashed my car, and got a coffee, all before 10am. Being a woman is hard work."
@thekunninglinguist2397
Жыл бұрын
All I hear is Dead Eggs
@DrGingerHamster
Жыл бұрын
What I hear is a bunch of rote propaganda. You hear that too?
@Ajhcr
6 ай бұрын
Do you hear withering sperm screaming “papa” when you throw away your Kleenex as well? 😂
@I8one2Many
Жыл бұрын
Asian women outearn white men in the US.
@sjomn
Жыл бұрын
Just wow, just wow.
@AyJay53810
5 ай бұрын
❤
@hardeavers8645
6 ай бұрын
entitlement is seen in both sexes...
@econometrics469
Жыл бұрын
I feel like only 2 of them actually read the article.
@carladerenzy3674
Жыл бұрын
Why read the article when you can just ignorantly pontificate without a shred of credibility? (LOL) Sad that many of these women are raising sons.
@annwilson3069
5 ай бұрын
❤love the
@whoscares
Жыл бұрын
Wonderful episode!! Do more about this dynamic with men and women..we are not the problem!!!!
@PaperRaines
Жыл бұрын
If anything women have been saints, the way society have been throwing them under the bus for centuries
@jt1559
Жыл бұрын
@@PaperRaines what garbage. Who are the ones being fed into the war machine for millennia? Just because
@karenokeson2705
Жыл бұрын
Maybe parents need to make their boys learn to read and help out.
@migalorsdarwin1930
Жыл бұрын
But what if they have bad parents. Bad parents= do not care=create bad/uneducated children and the cycle repeats. Does CPS even care about such children?
@EightFrancs
Жыл бұрын
Karen Are you actively fighting for the divorce laws, child custody laws, domestic violence laws and false accusation laws to be made fairer to men?
@ecarter2747
Жыл бұрын
22:05 "The vast majority of people who have any kind of decision-making power ... are men." Okay, so if men are in charge of almost all of the decision-making, how do you explain who decided that - as a single but pertinent example of actual gender-inequality - women should literally be given most scholarships simply because of their genetics? Better yet, how do you explain Duluth, which now positively benefits women on a planetary scale at the expense of men and their (read: your own) children? * cue crickets *
@stregalilith
7 ай бұрын
He’ll I’m not explaining anything I’m moving to Duluth
@pollinatorsband
Жыл бұрын
Congrats, Julissa! Also lololol in general to this episode :-) As always, great slicing and dicing the dumb arguments out there. TT
@carolutley6523
Жыл бұрын
👍💙💙💙👍
@thomthom6268
Жыл бұрын
Oh cool! Alyssa is honoring Tom Petty! /s
@mojmiller5568
Жыл бұрын
Great conversation and I too am not having this blame women game b.s. including the unconscious/conscious bias of illustrations mentioned w a woman leap frogging over a man - because that's not the issue. Men and boys are in crisis, and it won't change a thing if we ignore the facts on the ground i.e. that MEN commit mass shootings, and a majority of the violence x all cultures, period. Masculinity is not fragile, humanity is fragile - we need to reframe who and what men can be here and abroad, and MEN need to do the work, not women. Similarly POC should not be educating and hand-holding white people about racism & anti-racism. Men still hold 70% of all political positions in this country - FIX IT, WAKE TF UP GUYS. The patriarchy is killing you.
@thijsjong
Жыл бұрын
You go from women getting the blame (by who?) to blaming patriarchy. And 70% of politicians being men. Amd somehow men doing worse them women in college. 51% of voters are women. I dont see a coherent argument being made in your comment. You re allover the place.
@bigdaddyd7674
Жыл бұрын
Of course not accountability is evil to women must always blame men. Women never at fault. Btw it's the gynocracy killing us. I wonder what men commit the mass shootings the raping, the drug addiction, the violence the suicides. Funny how the all come out of fatherless homes. Hmm ain't that interesting
@EightFrancs
Жыл бұрын
Feemales are extremely violent and abusive. And every excuse is made for them.
@DukeWooze
Жыл бұрын
Man I wish I was this ignorant life would be so easy.
@terrystevens8338
Жыл бұрын
💯 🎯
@backto-il9ne
Жыл бұрын
Men are struggling indeed and it is a very serious issue but the root of the problem is not women; it is patriarchy and capitalism. Men need to do the work to unlearn the toxic patriarchal and capitalist knowledge systems they have internalized for centuries. I am a man but I was raised to be self-sufficient. Yes! My adult life did not turn out as I envisioned as a child but I have no aggrieved entitlement because I was raised to fend for myself and adapt to changing tides.
@EightFrancs
Жыл бұрын
Are you actively fighting for the divorce laws, child custody laws, domestic violence laws and false accusation laws to be made fairer to men?
@backto-il9ne
Жыл бұрын
@@EightFrancs Shut up, man.
@EightFrancs
Жыл бұрын
@@backto-il9ne Do you think it's acceptable to have an unfair and unjust legal system that rewards toxic feemale behaviour?
@davyjose1978
Жыл бұрын
@@backto-il9ne Wow, you are a man and you are spewing this utter garbage. Where did you go wrong in life?
@stregalilith
7 ай бұрын
You’re a real man. These guys who troll this site are not. What a difference-and they can’t see it they just complain that women won’t have sex with them. And the reason is that these”men” are repellent to women
@carlossalas4750
4 күн бұрын
Behind every successful man, there is a woman. Behind every failure, there's a woman there, too. Don't man hate. We will always fight for what we feel is right.
@sharonklauser1817
Жыл бұрын
💓you
@blk4784
Жыл бұрын
These women hit the wall head first🤦🏾♂️😂…. Sorry grannies, but hey hopefully ya get 8k subs soon.. btw men are NOT complaining, we’re tired of y’all using this toxic masculinity non sense for us being MEN… not even worth watching a whole episode of Grandmas telling men tht we’re the problem…
@bilbob7624
Жыл бұрын
Don't Murder Your Children.
@jmfs8738
Жыл бұрын
And what about your children? All good? Sperm all nice and tight? How about that access to birth control and health care that you use. - O, right - you're a virgin. Good thing you're not being forced to have a child. You don't even know the definition of murder or children. Maybe start with a lower-case m and c.
@bilbob7624
Жыл бұрын
@@jmfs8738 Don't Murder Your Children.
@maxhatush5918
Жыл бұрын
@@jmfs8738 women have literally all the rights and Access to birth control and healthcare that men don’t. What are you talking about him being a virgin or not is irrelevant
@stregalilith
7 ай бұрын
Stop murdering your wives and children and girlfriends and mothers in law and sisters in law and their friends🤮
@rcreative1
Жыл бұрын
When I see a young, apparently healthy man standing in an intersection with a begging sign, I want to get out of my car and slap him then say, "There are millions of unfilled jobs. If you go get one, you might also get a girlfriend!"
@RicochetForce
Жыл бұрын
Telling a young man to get an exploitative, dead end job just so a female peer will even LOOK at him is not the motivator you think it is.
@OctopusDanceParty
Жыл бұрын
How do you know what that person has gone through, or how they got in that position in the first place? Instead, you're going to shit on them because they're a dude? This is a really idiotic way of thinking...
@rcreative1
Жыл бұрын
@@OctopusDanceParty Yep. I don't slap anyone, but I have a hard time believing that a young man could not do something more productive than beg. Did his mommy hurt his wittle feewings?
@rcreative1
Жыл бұрын
@@RicochetForce The large boobs on your avatar peg you as a 13-year-old boy. Every woman I have dated with large boobs also had brains. An employable male is far more attractive than a male who sits on the couch whining about mommy.
@EightFrancs
Жыл бұрын
@@rcreative1 Are you actively fighting for the divorce laws, child custody laws, domestic violence laws and false accusation laws to be made fairer to men?
@yamisukehiro2273
Жыл бұрын
Zero accountability. Women are now complaining about the problems they created. Disgusting
@eotikurac
Жыл бұрын
pitches and horse
@kevinkrueger7479
8 ай бұрын
This is a disappointing episode. Militant defensive feminism that blames the victim. Not one sentence in this advertisement (it's essentially a book ad), has anything to do with the actual problem.
@RicochetForce
Жыл бұрын
There is a stunning lack of empathy in the video and in the comments section in general. We're seeing a rise of radicalization and intensely anti-women efforts in the country. We're seeing a generation of men who are, by society's doing, bound to be a massive underclass. We have a society posting "The Future is Female" while stats come out every few years about how there's a measurable bias against male students in the education system. And the response here was to... blame the victim. Please remember that the overwhelming majority of men are poor, so taking the tone of "You're the entitled oppressor, your problems are your own. Deal with it." is maybe not the most productive way of going about this. It's touched on lightly, but Joe Rogan, Andrew Tate, Jordan Petersen blowing up the way they have should be alarming. I have friends who are teachers telling me they have 9-10 year old boys fully onboard with Tate's nonsense, and other friends in High Schools who shared that they can't reach the boys. They struggle to frame lessons in ways that don't have the boys immediately check out, become defensive, or disruptive. This type of rot being absorbed in the formative years is scary a hell. It's a breeding ground for extremism and radicalization. When it was discovered how badly girls were doing during school in the early 90s with Saving Ophelia, the response was a massive all-in, no expenses spared effort focused entirely on improving girls' education. When it was discovered how badly boys are doing... the response is to blame the boys and offer solutions that help... everyone? Excuse me?
@EightFrancs
Жыл бұрын
Six decades of milietant feminism has created at least three generations of feemales who have absolutely no respect for.
@MarriedManAgainstBachelors
Жыл бұрын
Don’t worry! The ADL and SPLC will arrest these men!
@DukeWooze
Жыл бұрын
Nice to see someone with a functioning brain.
@davyjose1978
Жыл бұрын
Tate's "nonsense?" Like hitting the gym, being in good physical shape, getting your money right, being motivated, being disciplined, not taking any BS from society, understanding "The Matrix" and why it's not your friend? Yes, you are correct. What "nonsense". You haven't a clue what you are talking about, do you.
@jt1559
Жыл бұрын
The education system treats boys like defective girls. Most of what you said was reasonable, except the bit about Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson blowing up is alarming - I disagree, as they both add a lot of value to modern discourse.
@julesk1567
Жыл бұрын
fyi, about three quarters into your show youtube plays an ad for hillsdale college, specifically an online course on supply-side economics with art laffer. 🤮 hillsdale college as in the college supplying the republican right-wing with graduates and acolytes. as in the blueprint for the college transformation the republicans have in mind. dominion over education…
@davyjose1978
Жыл бұрын
Oh no. You mean people might learn things that you dont agree with? There is a college out there "supplying right wing graduates". Oh, the horror! You mean there will be a college out there you woke fanatics won't be able to control? So sad.
@sirenwing
3 ай бұрын
Omg, I effing LOVE these broads. They are 1000% spot on at the problem with (mostly) heterosexual boys today is that expected/had been told That mommy the sequel was just going to be handed to them on a silver platter. Now, they are all having tantrums over it.
@christinevalenzuela6948
Ай бұрын
I’m a 70 year old retired teacher and the two words that I find to be the definitive sources for so many of our male and female issues is patriarchy and greedy capitalism 😡. Im a “recovering “. Catholic because of both. I’m aware about the current male situation because my daughters and nieces talk to me about what they are encountering in the dating world ( if and when they may happen to date). I agree that patriarchal capitalism is diminishing the value of a days work for respectable and sustainable dollar amount ( as women were still upset but not as surprised that it still around and has not begun to affect males). These articles that identify this male crisis do make it sound in cloaked terms that we need to rebuild our males- maybe it’s just a rouse for fortify patriarchy so their profit margins won’t have to slip. It’s about being and feeling respected for both systems to recognize for all genders. Loved the discussion 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
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