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@samojedan9093
5 ай бұрын
You should think about having kids, you can't give lessons to anyone, you are 36 year old woman... I'm 27 and wouldnt even look at you for having family...
@shemusmcshane6219
7 ай бұрын
“As a Woman myself .. what we say & what we want aren’t always in line, unfortunately” .. no truer words have ever been spoken lmaooooo
@ConfidentIntrovert87
16 күн бұрын
Why do you all do that?
@StephenPuddicombe1
10 күн бұрын
Genesis 3:16 ESV [16] To the woman he said, “... Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but he shall rule over you.” Respect does not mean the same thing to women as it does to men. He must be on the "pedestal" so she respects him. She wants him to consider her feelings and preferences, and then for him to make the decisions. This gives her the emotional experience she wants and him the leadership he wants in the relationship.
@kevin15776
7 ай бұрын
For many men it's not weakness. We know we're not needed or wanted so we walked away. No need to waste time, money, and effort on people that don't appreciate or want us.
@dameongreen3733
7 ай бұрын
Exactly
@laviniusamuel5256
6 ай бұрын
Walking away is weakness…
@kevin15776
6 ай бұрын
@laviniusamuel5256 not at all. If you found a group of people who refused to engage with you, refused to get to know you, befriend you, hang out, etc you wouldn't eventually walk away??
@risepheonixpopculture8197
6 ай бұрын
@@kevin15776Walking away is power. It's liberating. Shows that you're not settling for less than you deserve and not scared to be alone.
@DrZia-ri4pf
5 ай бұрын
Walk. be a proud man.
@futons100
7 ай бұрын
Every single man who comes in my store says he can’t buy anything until he talks to the boss aka the wife. When I had a family my woman didn’t care to listen to my concerns. When I started to tell her no and pull back on the money she turned against me and the “love” disappeared. These days you can’t really be a man. To women you are only a provider. Pull back on providing, try putting your foot down and watch your relationship disintegrate.
@fackarov9412
7 ай бұрын
most husbands are constantly blackmailed with the loss of their children, home and various alimony. they live without dignity because they cannot have their say if the woman does not allow them or the alternative is to lose everything i've heard these blackmail conversations in public so i can't imagine how many couples have these conversations in private
@robertschiller5422
7 ай бұрын
Married man here: I realized that "being romantic" as a man seems to simply mean "spending money for a woman".
@diogocastro4662
7 ай бұрын
100% true mate they dont care about your concerns and if you start stablishing boundaries and say no to this and no to that they just leave or makes your life miserable. Many women dont have a pure HEART, and they can lie and cry so easily, dont go in their games, stay tuned to the red flags, they are always there
@Shay416
7 ай бұрын
Ok but there are two points to what she was saying... If you take away her resources how does she feel safe around you?
@robertschiller5422
7 ай бұрын
@@Shay416 yes exactly... if you cannot provide, you are not worth anything as a man?
@cyberfist6568
7 ай бұрын
No doubt we're being pushed to be passive and weaker, but it's not from a place of avoiding responsibility. There's no incentive to provide and protect a generation of narcissistic women. I'd argue it's self preservation as opposed to avoiding responsibility
@cv6176
7 ай бұрын
So what do you do, watch prnn instead? It goes against natural instinct
@gadget00
7 ай бұрын
Single men have it rough these days, that’s true; but all this narcissistic women in the end will not ignore the few real men walking around them that don’t play their game. Be that men and crazy women will move away but good women waiting for mr. Right will swarm around you to pick one. Don’t shut down; just be picky and you will succeed
@PeteJames_
7 ай бұрын
Well said. So true. I do think there is something to be said for which part of the world she comes from. I notice women outside of the west seem to hold traditional values from my experience.
@gadget00
7 ай бұрын
@@PeteJames_ that's true; american women (and women from countries very influenced by the US) in particular are increasingly "damaged" when compared to women of other nationalities, for some reason
@user-lw9pj7yz1l
7 ай бұрын
Laziness is root of all evil
@Nick_The_Remedy
7 ай бұрын
I think that most 25 year olds would have trouble getting a wife even if they wanted to…its women who don’t want to settle down and have kids until long after 25
@RojaJaneman
7 ай бұрын
Because women live in that same environment and r told same things. Plus, people r more calculating than d generations before. They’re more protective of their own future and potential family. They don’t wanna repeat same challenges/issues they saw in their own household as children, so they tend to seek more stability in their own potential family. Sadia isn’t considering certain facts that d past couples dealt with and analyzing things based on cherry picked facts. Men went to wars, mostly because they were forced. Not because they chose to, as a way of living or building a future. Women got married early and had kids, not because they chose to, because they were practically forced to. Including d fact that they had no birth control. Average girls got married for stability. And because if u didn’t u would age, and good men would b taken off d market by youthful girls with every wave of marriages. And once u were married, communities expected a baby. And u had no control over ur reproductive cycles, even with a loving husband. He’d expect sex, and u had no birth control. Plus, many other facts that this woman is completely disregarding.
@Emptytopfloor
7 ай бұрын
@@RojaJaneman yeah, she completely disregarded the whole shift of society after birth control. If it was so fun to be young wife and mother, why do women want to go to college now instead?
@griffferguson3039
7 ай бұрын
This. I was ready to get settled 10 years ago. No such luck
@Snarge22
7 ай бұрын
A 25 year old male has not reached his optimum yet. He'll be more attractive to women when he is over 30 with the time to earn more wealth, collect experience and wisdom, and if he is top shelf and knows women's behavior he can set boundaries. There's a reason why women prefer older men. The 25 year old man has more work to do yet.
@stacyjohnson9685
7 ай бұрын
@@Snarge22What a Lie! Nothing IRRITATES AND INSULTS ME MORE THAN AN OLD MAN HITTING ON ME! SO GROSS! I WANT A YOUNG ATTRACTIVE MAN THAT WILL BE FAITHFUL FOR LIFE, ATOP LYING ABOUT YOUNG WOMEN, WE ARE SICK OF IT!!!
@ronjcharity
7 ай бұрын
as someone that was stripped of my assets and finances by a divorce lawyer and the government, I applaud men who say no to marriage. its a oneway legal contract that entitles women to your assets and sanity.
@Nshandles88
7 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right.
@larryc1616
7 ай бұрын
I'm sure Britney and Shakira feel the same way. Soon Miranda...
@chad1682
7 ай бұрын
@roncharity so what is the alternative? A life of self indulgence? There are good women out there and we need functional families for civilization to survive another 100 years.
@ronjcharity
7 ай бұрын
@@chad1682 do what you love doing and live happily ever after. Get a motorcycle…and a life :)
@lamontthecapricorn9086
7 ай бұрын
@@chad1682The alternative is an iron clad prenuptial agreement period! No exceptions.
@rioperez7461
7 ай бұрын
Men back in the day LOL. It aint back in the day anymore, sunshine. Look at the cost of living. Men back in day didn't have to pay 600k for a house. They could afford to live on a single wage. Moreover, men didn't have to filter through so many women to find a woman worth being with. Society in general has deteriorated to such a degree where men just dont see much of future ahead of them, so they can't be solely blamed for this debacle.
@iphonelogistics8424
7 ай бұрын
These people are not seeing this which is insanity.
@synaestesia-bg3ew
7 ай бұрын
Well said
@James_36
7 ай бұрын
if she told the truth she would not be able to do her grift... see it from that perspective then you will find the light
@paulschnyder938
7 ай бұрын
@@James_36What?
@ivan0oze886
6 ай бұрын
It's easier to create single mothers than to create a meaningful relationship nowadays
@juliuswallace6783
7 ай бұрын
On one hand she is right. There are some men who willingly engage in such behavior. But on the other hand, there are other men who are willing to take up the responsibilities she just outlined, but have been maligned by modern day feminism simply for being male. Worse still there are men who have taken up this responsibility but ended up with the wrong woman, being run over in divorce court and their children taken away from them. In this day and age the avoidance is mostly coming from the latter mentioned. Once bitten, twice shy.
@jeffreycounts
7 ай бұрын
Yeah, like Will Smith.
@mercuriussaguba2424
7 ай бұрын
@@ekl2947 Men aren't afraid of responsibility, they are afraid of divorce, especially no fault divorce.
@tommygun5038
7 ай бұрын
@@ekl2947.....Your SIGN language is noted. 😂 nice try...you go girl😂😂!
@ndhtyu
7 ай бұрын
@@ekl2947Lol, you dont understand the point. Men accept responsibilities, women dont, that is the issue
@adrielperez3973
7 ай бұрын
@@ekl2947the responsibility of their actions, always are the "victims" (not all but the majority) . The thing is that men have to be aware and avoid those women or behaviors, set boundaries, keep learning and growing not for women but for themselves.
@georgeelder8415
7 ай бұрын
What she's forgetting is the danger of a man doing just that... Sans prenup, a man puts his life and future in the state, and a woman who unless properly vetted is often a setup for disaster...
@synaestesia-bg3ew
7 ай бұрын
They all talk about they need the man who can "protect women", "protect the village", but they forgot that the environment evolved since the Neolithic period, men are fucked,bugdown with restrictions, beside we have a police forces, not chieftains or the local biggest guy who own a horse and can work metal, that's the difference l. You can't even take the law in your own hands to defend yourself today, you will still face justice because you saved yourself while any warriors from the past could. This woman and many others like her are dreaming in their r head wanting an ideal savage male that they pick from history books, but if you want to bring the Neanderthal back, try to be good cave women and stop asking weading rings. I agree with some of the things that she said but I don't like the emphasize at blaming young men only, because they don't have the right environment to be the best of themselves. Everything constrain them, making every moves delicate. It's not just the man fault but rules of today's society. You can go to jail for every possible reasons when a woman lie about you. You see those people forgot that women didn't lie as much in prehistoric Neolithic or the stone ages .
@pikalee3492
7 ай бұрын
This is why vetting is important (for both men and women). So many people jump into relationships and marriages based on feelings and never even discussed expectations, values, lifestyles, household structure, etc. Heck many single people can barely take care of themselves and then jump into codependent relationships.
@georgeelder8415
7 ай бұрын
@@pikalee3492 💯
@tommygun5038
7 ай бұрын
Unfortunately vetting doesn't always work either. The odds may or may not be better when you roll the dice.
@gadget00
7 ай бұрын
Proof of scared young men refusing responsibility. This observation
@kabysummit5801
7 ай бұрын
Men, if you want a good relationship with a woman, have your boundaries and protect them. This is how we go from boys to men. However the responses you receive is varied. Choose wisely. I'm on my second marriage. The first one was wrong from the get go. It messed me up but also taught me to dig deep to understand who I am and what I'm looking for. The second one is going amazing. We have had numerous encounters and moments to express our boundaries and then protect that with everything we have. That has been the difference maker. I feel blessed.
@De-tw7by
5 ай бұрын
Wait let her hit menopause 🤓
@christianlundeen
7 ай бұрын
As a guy who has never had an issue with responsibility, personally I've stayed single because most women are choosing weak push around after weak push around guy because they like the short term ease of use of him. I'm not about to beg for their attention when they're too self centered to notice they're missing out. The other side of this truth bomb is that we have a majority of women out there who are also weak(lose it when guys do communicate limits) and have no personal accountability wondering why they can't hold a good dude.
@hotchocexpresso
3 күн бұрын
Bang on 🎯 NAILED IT BRO 💯
@johnj9378
7 ай бұрын
We seem to have reached a point where relationships are just not worth it. Life has become so fast and hectic that I wonder if men need women at all. At 48 I am financially secure for life, look very good (so I've been told lol) and still able to attract much younger attractive women. I just can't be bothered with it anymore, make no mistake, men are not intimidated by women or afraid of commitment, we just can't be fucked with all the bullshit anymore. I only ever gave love, security, stability and understanding to previous girlfriends and in return received a b-double full of criticism. Like most men I'm just tired of all the games. I'm at peace now that I'm out of the game, it's so calm, peaceful and productive now. I wish all you other fellas all the best.
@fackarov9412
7 ай бұрын
in fact the only ones who play are those who haven't understood the rules of the game
@mikeshafer
7 ай бұрын
Agreed. What’s the point of a marriage when I can get what I want without signing a lifelong legally binding agreement with the government?
@HamsterPower26
7 ай бұрын
Relationships are just not worth it anymore
@zvonimirvidovic1714
7 ай бұрын
Fighters don't quit and quitters don't fight. So don't be quitter, be a fighter. We all have it ourselves, and there are women out there who can recognize it 👍🏻
@cniht
7 ай бұрын
@@zvonimirvidovic1714 Wisdom comes when one learns to pick their battles. One doesn't have to show up to every war they are invited to.
@user-en4qp8xq2l
7 ай бұрын
I'm in my 40's and still living my adolescents! It's great
@redemption8980
7 ай бұрын
😂😂am almost 40 and can't deny that fact 😅
@byza101
7 ай бұрын
I know guys who were like you, they in their 50’s now. They aint adolescents anymore, reality has hit 😂🤣😂
@johnc1280
7 ай бұрын
She can speak for herself. I’m in my early 40s and have college girls coming to my place. I’m not complaining
@paulhorsager
7 ай бұрын
Maybe that feeling of “great” goes away when you’re at the hospital alone and really old. Idk?
@johnc1280
7 ай бұрын
@@paulhorsager well, that can happen to somebody who even got married lol divorce is a thing. Nasty divorces are very much a thing. I would prefer not having gone through that. And having a myriad of different experiences with women instead
@ronmexico5908
7 ай бұрын
Men have traditionally achieved because there was something worth protecting and providing for. There isn't anything worth the sacrifice for so men just do for themselves
@bogdankovalenko5096
7 ай бұрын
exactly 👍
@martybuffalini
7 ай бұрын
Read that miss Sadia or do you not read your comments 😂
@normanquednau
7 ай бұрын
She gets it on point. As soon as I clearly set boundaries and took no sH*t I got respected. And respect is what I need as a man.
@robertschiller5422
7 ай бұрын
and getting respect is not a present, right? you need to stand up for it. being willing to make her unhappy short term but keep or gain her respect mid term.
@DanyloZorin
5 ай бұрын
@@robertschiller5422 it is already a red flag in itself - you chose a wrong person when you need to set boundaries. Leave them immediately if they try to test your boundaries
@robertschiller5422
5 ай бұрын
@@DanyloZorin good catch! however, many women today are raised as "princesses" in a feminist society and despite of that deserve a chance (pre marriage) to become an equal partner that respects boundaries and does not dodge self-responsibility. it is tough to be married to a modern "strong" woman as it requires open discussions and education but possible to create a happy and worthwhile marriage - at least with my wife :)
@alshermond
7 ай бұрын
Here's my boundaries: no marriage, no kids, no long-term relationships, no cohabitation.
@kevsmith4320
7 ай бұрын
Lol.. You are the guy she was talking about!!😂
@kennydee8296
7 ай бұрын
have you just come from Joker’s channel Better Bachelor? 😂
@alshermond
7 ай бұрын
@@kevsmith4320 I certainly hope so!
@alshermond
7 ай бұрын
@@kennydee8296 He's good.
@marguskiis7711
7 ай бұрын
No anything
@ShivaShaktification
7 ай бұрын
She is wrong. Nobody convinced me that marriage is terrible. I learned that at home growing up, watching my mom screaming at my dad for hours every night when he got home from work.
@nico7819
7 ай бұрын
dont generalize everything
@kabysummit5801
7 ай бұрын
There are still good women out there. Sorry to hear that you suffered for real.
@sebastianfratila-portfolio8261
7 ай бұрын
I can relate and that's so sad
@Bucephalus84
7 ай бұрын
@@nico7819he wasn't. That was his experience. Not a rare one either.
@shadow_crne1030
7 ай бұрын
Agreed m8. The reason why I'm single is because I've never seen good examples of marriages, that I could follow (and I come from a big family). It's very discouraging to see constant bickering and fighting.........
@jasperruddock5155
7 ай бұрын
A mans greatest strength is self control
@Nitronerd
3 ай бұрын
When I hear "narcissist" in a video, I am repulsed. The term is far overused for otherwise simply self-centered people and, frankly, people living life on their terms.
@MyronDavismd
7 ай бұрын
This is really good. Manhood/Masculinity (aka responsibility, courage, honor, interigrity, humility) has to be taught. It's hard for boys to learn this when raised a single mother enviornment.
@303machine
7 ай бұрын
And being lectured about "toxic masculinity".
@UkraineDatingLive
7 ай бұрын
So so true …
@devilsadvocacy
7 ай бұрын
Those traits also need to be valued and appreciated. Instead we reward their opposites
@user-iw9dv4fv8b
7 ай бұрын
She wants simps
@HamsterPower26
7 ай бұрын
myrandavismd+ Haha, I love your sarcasm in the statement. Perfect
@tjbroussard3524
7 ай бұрын
She describes the desire for man who will be told repeatedly that he is mansplaining and upholding "the patriarchy" because states his objections, explains his point of view, and directly clarifies boundaries.
@devilrexx9938
5 ай бұрын
Having a spine and balls makes a man. Spine of his opinions and values, balls to live by them👌
@DanielaRosenrot
3 ай бұрын
Find out the difference in characteristics of toxic-feminist-women and traditional women and learn better vetting strategies.
@AlexSanchez-cs9fq
7 ай бұрын
SHES THINKING FROM A WOMAN POINT OF VIEW GETTING MARRIED CAN DESTROY YOU
@kmily700
7 ай бұрын
Sadia is the only woman who discuss men/woman issues without being a 'pick me girl' and can debate things in an balanced way. Genuine and feminine . Thank lord for her nowadays .
@synaestesia-bg3ew
7 ай бұрын
She is entirely in a woman vantage point, far from men best interests but women's best interests. Some stuff she said are true, but others is bullshit. The ideal man that she describes need an ideal world that is far gone. The men that she dream off didn't have to completion females at work, he lived in a man's world and women were subservient. You see there is a trade value, if you remove something from the balance, you can't obtain the same weight on the other side
@jmd3236
7 ай бұрын
Lol she rides the carousel in Dubai
@kmily700
7 ай бұрын
@@jmd3236 meaning?
@tommygun5038
7 ай бұрын
But there's no balance in family law. So it's from a womans prospective.
@zombine7103
7 ай бұрын
Bro i learned a lot from her. I wish laws were more encouraging tho.
@amootinyakaana4031
7 ай бұрын
I agree by far that when a man evades responsibility, his ability to become masculine is limited.
@marionwest3661
3 ай бұрын
Too right. He can be an old man, but he is selfish and basically has no incentive to take care of the woman who has wasted 38 years of her life on him.
@KoroushRP
7 ай бұрын
I refuse to sacrifice and protect people who would never do the same for me
@vinces.5523
7 ай бұрын
I blame lame parenting... not teaching their sons responsibility or resilience. Today's parents bubble wrap their sons to protect them from any sort of discomfort or challenge... and those sons become weak adults.
@travoxworld9839
7 ай бұрын
MOST OF THIS SONS UR TALKING ABOUT CAME FROM SINGLE WOMEN WHO DIVORCED THEIR HUSBANDS
@Onmysheet
7 ай бұрын
@@travoxworld9839Fix your caps lock.
@alexs2351
2 ай бұрын
@travoxworld9839 actually there's plenty of women who are "married single mothers" especially the traditional man who thinks childcare is 100% a woman's responsibility. Seen plenty of men who just worked to provide and were uninvolved in their sons lives. The sons became mommy's boys so basically they got cucked by their fathers absence.
@johncamps1337
7 ай бұрын
Every generation is different, the time you were yourself a kid. I grew up in the 70's, 80's. I grew up with rambo, schwarznegger etc. Warrior men. I'm old school, I've had a hard life. Had to fight for most things in life. My journey has been hard. I got educated in my late 20's, 30's. Had a lot of material losses in life. But followed my passions. I am a different man from my 20's to late 40's. Twenty years of living in the north of England mainly alone. But returning to the south a different man. I follow my own path not an influencer s. Andrew tate doesn't know everything. I have tougher life experience than him. More losses. I'm old school. ✊ A man who seeks inner peace now..looking for a women of peace. Haven't found her yet I'm going through a major life change for the better at present.
@MatchGuaranty
7 ай бұрын
Its become harder for traditional man meet traditional woman nowadays, but possible if you will open your geographic 😉
@nemoretime7466
7 ай бұрын
Social media has basically made it tougher for guys to meet girls on dating apps but girls have more option. Many guys are just wasting their time looking for a quality girl today.
@tmt2058
7 ай бұрын
And my dog ate my homework
@johncamps1337
7 ай бұрын
Go to a better living area, a better university, a more affluent area. A higher class women, but with it maybe higher expectation. But a women more educated, healthier. 👍🏻
@jvo444
7 ай бұрын
So funny. I used those words exactly. “You said you were a leader, but you’re just leading me off a cliff.”
@KarakuraRiser
6 ай бұрын
I'm pretty sure a huge factor in all this is that good men get over looked and the bad boys gets most of the girls in their prime. Men just adapted to reality.
@oldfriend327
7 ай бұрын
"We've convince men that marriage is terrible." Yes, because it is. Everything about marriage, divorce, creating a family is lopsided. We have to face this or the human race is done.
@zengjanezhu
7 ай бұрын
Maybe only western countries
@bigvisk1125
7 ай бұрын
just because its unfair does not mean it is terrible. the risk is great, but the reward for choosing wisely is great as well.
@cobrakaiisback4709
7 ай бұрын
@@bigvisk1125nope the risk is all 1 sided what Leonardo dicpario is doing is smart just ask Tom brady how great marriage is.
@bigvisk1125
7 ай бұрын
@@cobrakaiisback4709 the risk isnt all one sided but yes the risk is far greater for men. but that does not counter my point at all, not even a little bit. i admitted the risk is great. if a man chooses wisely, the reward can be great indeed
@cobrakaiisback4709
7 ай бұрын
@@bigvisk1125 the risk is far too great you will find out eventually
@adriantomole1019
7 ай бұрын
She should impose those boundaries on her own behavior not expect someone else to police it for her.
@PappaMustafa
7 ай бұрын
Women inherent nature is to be led. If left to their own devices they will indulge in Haram.
@carlosizz89
7 ай бұрын
You would think with all the bs about they can think for themselves that it would be true but they are like children sadly and as a man you have to chase them around to make sure they dont light their hair on fire.
@lightofmylife2008
7 ай бұрын
I had that extra child who was weak with no sense of responsibility or boundaries, no leadership as a man . Zero masculinity. I really craved a masculin man with boundaries to lead me. He is now my ex. He was not the provider or protector i was looking for and I actually resented him like sadia described. Spot on sadia
@akferren1
7 ай бұрын
I have one of those unfortunately.. can’t wait until he’s my ex
@poopingwhilestanding5801
7 ай бұрын
Are we talking about men or women? The reality is women are a responsibility to men...always have been. The problem is women today offer far less benefit to a man, but with all the liabilities and risk. What exactly did you bring to the table?
@newoaknl
7 ай бұрын
@@poopingwhilestanding5801 .. correct. Good question. I think probably "not much".
@dcnfsu2
7 ай бұрын
I had that extra child who was weak with no sense of accountability or boundaries. she's now my ex.
@newoaknl
7 ай бұрын
@@dcnfsu2 .. no accountability indeed and running when going gets tough... :) She's my ex now too.
@kenshin198406
7 ай бұрын
The extended adolescence in the 20s doesn't just apply to men. Women are just as strongly encouraged to play the field and seek out hedonism too.
@td2222
7 ай бұрын
That's why they end up with each other.
@mariachiingles2348
7 ай бұрын
Sadia is great when she talks about women; but when it comes to men, she still lacks so much understanding about a male's experience.
@luker1hutcher315
7 ай бұрын
Exactly
@metalx1980
7 ай бұрын
So really true, she is just a hypocrite
@msmolyansky
7 ай бұрын
Not really , she is right on point
@mariachiingles2348
7 ай бұрын
ok kid@@msmolyansky
@user-jw2gg7gw5i
7 ай бұрын
She is a female of course she will lack a male's experience! She teaches men what women want! I see that. I see how to embrace my masculinity
@gadget00
7 ай бұрын
Amazing observations; young singles are in bad times, but the true nature of men and women will always elevate from the mess and good marriages/families keep mankind afloat. There is hope; keep pushing forward and you'll succeed
@cactaceous
7 ай бұрын
Society was structured back in the day that a man straight out of college could take care of a family financially. Now a days that is virtually impossible. Back in the day women had self respect and wanted a relationship of substance. Now a days women spend their 20’s in “hoe phases”, so most men can’t enter serious relationships with them. If there is no money to be found until later in life, there are no good quality women to partner up with… what do you expect should happen?
@salemaw
7 ай бұрын
Well said Sadia. I was told I was too young to get married and start the family at 26. And it's certain points in my life I envied my friends who were single and having fun. I am now 32, 8 years into my marriage with two boys and I can't be any happier. Thankfully I have a really amazing wife. I pity my friends who have wasted their 20s. I was blessed to have positive role models to help me with this decision.
@gavinr9107
7 ай бұрын
I am very happy for you that you found your unicorn of a wife. Being realistic however, with the divorce rate and with the rapid rate that women are becoming permanently single, a lot of men are simply choosing not to marry and start a family at all. I turned 40 recently, half of my friends are married with children, the other half are divorced and a few are single. Society today is an extremely challenging and risky environment to start a family.
@salemaw
7 ай бұрын
@@gavinr9107 don't give up brother. Women of this generation are terrible and selfish. I had a colleague at my old job who was in a similar position seemed to have given up on marriage, the dating doesn't work. One day after a long break from work he said he got married to someone from the far East. Time went on, we were close and he said this girl looked after him, appreciated him providing, god fearing, he told me his life is in order and she wants to be a mother and he thinks she does a great job. I am from a Muslim community where marriages are often arranged. My marriage was semi-arranged, filtering out women that are not serious about marriage and who were feminist frankly. Anyways the dating game has major flaws. Good luck bother
@Macheako
7 ай бұрын
Some of us tried and our relationships just failed because you can’t guarantee someone happiness Life is worth living ❤ with or without ur dumb wife
@mattb3846
6 ай бұрын
Wasted their 20s?? Time is never wasted when you're wasted all the time... Seriously though, finding themselves, figuring out who they truly are & what they want is wasting time? It takes some longer than others. Building a nest egg before popping out kids & taking on debt is wasteful? Your friends don't need to be pitied. I know plenty of divorced guys trying to live the 20s they missed from getting married too soon so be conscious of that before thinking you're better than your friends.
@jonblazeinc
4 ай бұрын
There is no right definition of "wasted " you pity your friends who wasted their 20s, well I know legions of ppl who got married and had kids early who wish they started their families at later age and missed out enjoying their younger years . So no need to pity anyone just concentrate on your own life
@SuperKoolAidMan17
7 ай бұрын
She’s a great bridge of helping men understand of what women want and how women operates, especially when a women is being complex to understand and how respond to it, to some degree. Yet, she hits some nails on the head of what men does and how it affects their ability to attract and keep women and the woman they want.
@TendresseExige
3 ай бұрын
As a young man in my twenties, I really did my best for the women around me. I literally changed myself, in any way possible. I accepted the challenges life through in front of me, and I worked like I never did for myself before. All for my family , both present and future.I was in the middle of doing it, in a foreign land, when the manipulation, the lack of awareness and accountability, the seemingly never ending list of demands all the while being ungrateful for what I was bringing to the table,as well as verbal abuse just reached the tipping point. I do agree that men in the 20’s should strive to build these safe spaces for their families, but I also know that not all women are worth this investment. It’s a shame , because I am afraid I will never be able to love the same anymore, but what do I know man !
@gdub8568
7 ай бұрын
BS. I know plenty of strong men with lots of responsibility that have a hard time attracting women, while pot dealers and bad boy losers have their pick. She acts like every good man out there who does the right thing has success... Easy to say from a woman's perspective, she has no idea of the plight of men.
@luker1hutcher315
7 ай бұрын
well put brother
@pikalee3492
7 ай бұрын
The type of woman who's attracted to dealers and bad boys are unhealed, traumatized, and druggies themselves. A healthy minded woman would not be attracted to that at all.
@ampersand6375
7 ай бұрын
Protect yourselves. You're strong, independent woman. You ladies got this.
@Alliseeisflames
7 ай бұрын
😂
@mmr4882
21 күн бұрын
I believe 🤣
@Nshandles88
7 ай бұрын
Where are the women That deserve responsible men?
@sabine4867
7 ай бұрын
Here's one 🙂
@maikdp
7 ай бұрын
Marriage has increasingly become a high-stakes venture, particularly for men. For us it's crucial to be cautious about the person you decide to spend your life with, as the ramifications can last a lifetime. Making the wrong choice in a partner could mean shouldering emotional, financial, and social burdens that extend far beyond the relationship itself. As such, the traditional view of marriage as an ultimate goal might not hold the same value it once did, warranting careful consideration and discernment before making such a long-term commitment
@fayaazM
7 ай бұрын
Wow this channel is taking off! ❤
@gokhangunay4345
7 ай бұрын
Then responsible men ask: are there any woman deserving responsibility and provision? They are quite rare nowadays.
@laurendarrling
7 ай бұрын
With that mindset, you won’t attract a woman you deem “deserving”. You will attract those who aren’t because that’s your first thought meeting someone new and you will nitpick every single thing. Which will lead you into a cycle of not getting to know someone for who they truly are.
@Bookooky
7 ай бұрын
It's a role YOU deserve.
@gokhangunay4345
7 ай бұрын
@@laurendarrling nice gaslighting, but thanks. As I said deserving ladies are really rare. Majority of them are consumed souls expecting you to fix them. I am even not diving into the field of femininity which is heavily lacked or pretentiously presented.
@stan4288
7 ай бұрын
@laurendarrling with dat mindset he will be absolutely prepared to see through the farce and spot d bullshit very early enough which will also inadvertently lead to him avoiding unnecessary pain and trauma from d wrong kind of woman..
@MatchGuaranty
7 ай бұрын
This information is so needed nowadays, Im woman who grew up in traditional culture and now experiencing western world I see problems thats people going through and all this propaganda that is leading people far away from their nature making them completely losted and in end result unhappy 😌 But there is always light at the end of the tunnel ❤️
@ilsedemolder3973
4 ай бұрын
Which culture are you from?
@dhamigill8021
7 ай бұрын
Amazing 🎉🎉🎉🎉Thanks for the lovely insights. Lovely woman Sadia
@thanimmalique7164
7 ай бұрын
So refreshing to hear a woman who appreciates the mindset of a man and woman. I can chat to sadia all day. A human being that speaks reality
@ManaBrown-vw4sp
7 ай бұрын
Nah she doesn't have a clue
@UkraineDatingLive
7 ай бұрын
At the end of the day everything about living according to your nature and being in balance with yourself 👌
@JimmyCalandraABathAvenueStory
7 ай бұрын
I think this woman is So Beautiful, and incredibly intelligent.❤
@Ausnapify
4 ай бұрын
You could never
@hhgneon
7 ай бұрын
I believe the guy asked her about one type of guys snd she answered about another type of guys. He asked her about the guys that are willing to commit and don’t get a girl they like to do so, and she responds about guys that get all the girls and off course they’re not gonna commit.
@Bookooky
7 ай бұрын
She discussed immature men actually. You need to improve your comprehension
@hhgneon
7 ай бұрын
@@Bookooky if you pay attention to my comment you’ll see me and you we are saying the same thing
@qmulus1
7 ай бұрын
@@Bookooky The ones who have multiple women chasing after them have no incentive to mature.
@hhgneon
7 ай бұрын
@@qmulus1 correct
@AshAndCream
7 ай бұрын
@@qmulus1depends if that man wants the attention from many women, or just one. Motive to not sleep around exists in some men even with means and opportunity.
@raalaa121
7 ай бұрын
Sadia is amazing. Enough said. Everything she says truly resonates with me.
@UkraineDatingLive
7 ай бұрын
I have the same feeling 👍
@wildprodigy
7 ай бұрын
This is easily one of Sadia's best takes. I find she has amazing insight when she chooses to hold women accountable and talk about what women can improve on
@keepitahundo3655
7 ай бұрын
YALL NEED TO UNDERSTAND NO ONE PERSON CAN BE PERFECT & DELIVER A SPOT ON ALL POINTS COVERED PERFECT MESSAGE FOR ALL AND EVERY AUDIENCE AND PERSON. SHES VERY GENUINE AND DOES A GREAT GREAT JOB OF BEING UNBIASED AND JUST GIVING US STRAIGHT RAW TRUTH & FACTS. SHE MAY NOT BE THE MOST POPULAR FOR PODCASTS BUT SHE IS ONE OF THE BEST. LOVE HER AND WHAT SHE BRINGS AND STANDS FOR
@beastmasterbg
7 ай бұрын
why are you yelling
@nathand4500
7 ай бұрын
Stop writing in caps.
@keepitahundo3655
7 ай бұрын
@@nathand4500 do something about it. U can’t? Waa waa. What was the point of that u must having nothing going on in ur life
@reboot4357
7 ай бұрын
I have taught my son of 17 that the most important thing for him is to be in pursuit of his purpose, getting a vision for his Life and developing and building wealth and a legacy for his life. Having compassion being Kind, developing boundries formulating frame and THIS will develop a abundance mindset where as he will have his pick of the litter. With that his mom has been a powerful women of virtue femininity and strength he has the blueprint understanding that with life there is up and downs he has the framework to win.
@Guddilove801
7 ай бұрын
👏👏👏💪 this !! Word per word you have precisely described what my husband and I have laid out the blueprint for our our two boys. They are already on that path and haven't even hit their twenties. Im so chuffed and happy to know there are other parents who have such vision and clarity ..working as a team to steer Their families to the best they can. Brilliant!! Blessings for your beautiful successful family. 🙏
@wimvankempen8458
7 ай бұрын
I am learning so much from you Sadia!
@MatchGuaranty
7 ай бұрын
Probably its not easy to admit reality for many men nowadays , but Im happy to see there are still man in their masculine nature out there..
@Ausnapify
4 ай бұрын
You had to watch this to learn something? Seems like common knowledge.
@ClassicMan33
7 ай бұрын
Not having a wife and kids has nothing to do with responsibility. Hilarious! I agree with one idea though; a man can't understand manhood until he is providing to someone or something bigger than himself. It can be many things, not just being a husband and dad. 🤵🏾♂️
@psico_steph
7 ай бұрын
You’re justifying yourself
@ClassicMan33
7 ай бұрын
@@psico_steph As any man should be, he is the only one that needs to justify himself. Take notes. 😉
@tommygun5038
7 ай бұрын
@@ClassicMan33.....Remembering women's SIGN language is hard for a lot of men in a moment of weakness.
@ClassicMan33
7 ай бұрын
@@tommygun5038 It may take a few lifetimes for them to overcome it, but they will. 🙏🏾
@Deb_deCoder
7 ай бұрын
classic men lose in the end 😅
@danasamana
7 ай бұрын
I´ve tried to protect and provide as long as I remember. I was called "backwards" and I should behave "less Pascha"-like by my mother. While my sisters literally were allowed to annoy the F out of me I was called back to be "nice to yoiur sisters", I was discriminated TO THE MAX for being a MAN, until the day I no longer wanted to be such a "toxic maskuline pile of shix" and became transgender. Feminism literally castrated me - having been a sensitive but responsible young man with NO HEALTHY ROLE MODEL WHATSOEVER, only feminist maniacs who told me that being MANLY is toxic. Until I actually believed it and destroyed myself. Now at the age of 48 I´m waking up to the nightmare of my lost masculinity and the ruins of what once was a healthy strong young man. Gone. Dead. I´m crying over what I could have been.
@mercuriussaguba2424
7 ай бұрын
Sorry to here this.
@ilsedemolder3973
4 ай бұрын
You mean you want to reverse your transition?
@Kristian777Dating
5 ай бұрын
Dope gems I like the channel and what you speaking keep it up!
@jesseandrewrosales
7 ай бұрын
I appreciate how she pointed out the fact that we have extended men’s adolescence into the early 20’s. I always wondered why I grew up seeing men in their 20’s as grown men. If that makes sense. Now everyone wants to be younger.
@markceci9896
7 ай бұрын
But she forgot that women have extended their adolescence to their 30s as well.
@S.M.E.A.C
5 ай бұрын
@markceci9896 *40's
@jesseandrewrosales
5 ай бұрын
@@S.M.E.A.C 50’s maybe now! I was being conservative lol
@r.b.8635
7 ай бұрын
I am tall, good looking and have a 7 digit income. Saying that I am very attracted to almost 90% of women. But, I would never marry and never have kids. Why shall I get rid of my money and freedom if I have a dream life where all my needs are covered? And no, I have a backbone and I'm a traditional, masculin man.
@Cateater123
7 ай бұрын
I'm almost near 6 and good looking too but I don't think I'm attracted to even 20 percent let alone 90percent .
@James_36
7 ай бұрын
make the woman contribute in every way, dont simp and pay for everything then you maybe wont be so scared
@paulschnyder938
7 ай бұрын
What's a 7 digit income? 1000,000 ?
@sabine4867
7 ай бұрын
Good point 👍
@westfieldartworks8188
7 ай бұрын
I'm finding Sadie to be far more than your run of the mill online/tv relationship expert. She's quite good, very deep, and grounded solidly to earth. I'm starting to put on on the level of Dr. Jordan Peterson, when it comes to interpersonal relationships advice and understanding. Thank you.
@ManaBrown-vw4sp
7 ай бұрын
Wat a wimp😂
@alyzak.8997
7 ай бұрын
So glad you're talking about the other side. Love your work
@Neoteny374
7 ай бұрын
Anecdote. We have one young lady on our ship. ( I don't think she belongs, but the fact is she is there, so I feel some responsibility towards her) When we dock, everybody is quick to home. The young lady is often the last to leave. "Aren't you coming" they ask me. I risk sounding like an old chauvinist, "I'm not leaving her here" The young guys don't seem to be under that pressure.
@peterGnash
3 ай бұрын
young men have been bullied and shamed in this culture from childhood for seeing themselves as a protector to women. women themselves push away from men who can assert themselves and gravitate to those who dont challenge them. but then when everyones grown up and its about sexual attraction and mating prospects, now there's an issue
@CoachSteveJandS
7 ай бұрын
Giving up on life is not attractive.
@ibopwebop
7 ай бұрын
The blueprint she describes for men has lead to so many mid-life crisis where men who married early and did the 'traditional' thing ended up never following their passion. Your 20's should be about discovering your life purpose, not pumping out kids b4 you know why you are on this planet.
@gadget00
7 ай бұрын
Another scared kid commenting on this video. What does “following your passion” even mean? In your 20s you do college or trade school and start making money regularly and setting up your adult life: start to pay bills, student loans and adjusting to take care of yourself without mommy and daddy picking up your toys. Your “passion” mostly would be either a glorified hobby which may or may not be a joyful waste of time, or a useful practice you can keep doing after marriage perfectly. Many married men have “passions” they enjoy often, but your biggest “passion” will eventually be providing for your family and be the reason they feel ok and secure. Nothing tops that for a man. Let go of your child ways and you’ll naturally gravitate to this, because you’re a man and that’s the natural habitat for us. Join us
@ibopwebop
7 ай бұрын
@@gadget00 I'm a grown man, father of two adults who did exactly that. Following your passion means finding your life purpose and developing a craft that is in line with that. If you had learned how to read you may have gotten the full extent of my message.
@Ausnapify
4 ай бұрын
@@gadget00 No thanks.
@gadget00
4 ай бұрын
@@Ausnapify sure, kid; now go to your momma
@Ausnapify
4 ай бұрын
@@gadget00 I'd rather go to yours, she's playful.
@ShimelisDessalegn-ow8no
7 ай бұрын
Sadia, you are the only one I watch. You are changing my life
@sourabhsen5629
6 ай бұрын
High praises to Sadia, your intelligence is profound. Thank you for this wisdom!
@dystopia-0616
7 ай бұрын
You shouldn’t need a “stop sign”, you should just has good morals and treat everyone with respect…especially if their being kind to you
@karasmusic123
7 ай бұрын
She is talking about what happens psychologically on a subconscious level when a guy merely states a boundary. It's not that the girl needs to be instructed like a 2 year old, she just needs to be made to feel like her partner has a spine, because that is attractive, and that is what happens when a man states his preferences - it makes him look more attractive and masculine in his partner's eyes.
@dystopia-0616
7 ай бұрын
@@karasmusic123 I don’t care if it’s subconscious, stop making excuses for poor behaviour. Your an adult.
@ianarn
7 ай бұрын
Problem is those men had stable women to actually do those things in their 20s with and they haven’t existed for the last 40 years!
@alextop1850
7 ай бұрын
You are a beautiful soul, young lady. I had it where I was in love with a beautiful girl but she was a covert narcissist, she was so fearful of losing me that should be so toxic daily until I said enough I'm out. Which then entailed fulfilled the toxic cycle she was in then would beg me to stay, I loved her gave her another shot till the next time. In the end it broke my heart. But I wasn't acting as the solid oak tree 🌲 I should of been as a partner. But I wish her all the best with her new engagement and I'm healed as much as I can be but took time. x
@kaylahyang1712
5 ай бұрын
Spot on, 🎉🎉🎉 Sadia is so wise.
@gridrunner1319
7 ай бұрын
Back-in-the-day ….a woman “needed” a man….to protect, to provide, etc ….No longer ….she is self sufficient…job wise etc…It’s a 2 way street….Not so simple …
@davidachonii44
6 ай бұрын
A man can do whatever he wants. He doesn't have to answer to women for his choices in life. These relationship experts think they know everything. Give me a break.
@Thomassina1
6 ай бұрын
She nailed it for me 3:55 about contempt and resentment, pushing him to set a boundary or then seeking a punishing guy who has ott boundaries. I look up to the solid men in my life, respect their judgement and decision-making, it makes me feel safe. A big part of male weakness is from feminism run amok, has silenced many men, plus the onslaught of boys raised w/o a father in the house. Fathers push and challenge their sons to be men, take responsibility, make decisions, to protect. Fathers-in-law can perform the same function in some families.
@gideonkyeremeh1132
7 ай бұрын
I don’t think it’s about avoiding responsibility or being afraid to provide.However,I think it’s far better to make sure you develop yourself and put yourself in a place whereby providing even if hard won’t be that hard.
@tomdrummy4984
7 ай бұрын
“What we say and what we want doesn’t align” ………
@SG-xb7de
7 ай бұрын
Women communicate verbally only 7%. Rest 93% is feminine non-verbal communication, and that Sir, is what creates 'Polarity' in the relationship.
@Bahador.B
7 ай бұрын
Hmm... I did all that. My son was born when I was 25. I worked and ran a business. Made lot of money. The chick I was with just complained, then took the kids and split. Curious on opinion on being wrong.
@XPuntar
7 ай бұрын
You did not listen between the lines of what she wanted! ... You gave her too little attention! And also there is ego ... yours and her! Go read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
@hokagedlo6133
7 ай бұрын
@@XPuntarwhat about what he wanted and needed a relationship isn't one sided. If a man has grovel for affection he's already fighting a losing battle.
@marvinbecker7948
18 күн бұрын
great work, thank you
@PHEBUStv
7 ай бұрын
She is telling him👏👏, look at his face😂😂😂that's the face you make when you're downloading 😂😂😂
@Rudelherz
7 ай бұрын
It's incredible how well she describes this paradox and human insanity. The older I get, the better I understand this, understand myself. I love how she won't talk down on ppl but puts herself into this weird human family. Still, I want to get away from ppl and society in general. I feel like it's very liberating especially for my marriage to be more off-grid and live life as natural as possible. Makes me less toxic and attracting toxicity. Guess healing is what is happening then, we all need healing.
@carterhalbrooks8091
7 ай бұрын
I had many successful relationships and hookups in the past but it's all ended around 8 to 10 years ago, and that's not due to any change in my demeanor expectations or demands; it has only been a consequence of the horrific epidemic of narcissism amongst women and to exacerbate the conditions, they are constantly affirmed in their beauty, power, competence, virtue, and yet are fed a parallel stream of invective towards men amplifying a baseless anger (what Freud would call projection of their own faults on to others) in tandem with hair trigger decisions regarding the minutiae of male mistakes that involve real legal consequences or lifelong reputation destruction. Hm, it's a real mystery why men are afraid to be masculine...when the entire culture is convinced that having an XY chromosome is inherently toxic and evil!?!??!
@Logansmith823
7 ай бұрын
Great video. Keep up the good work :)
@bebravebianca
7 ай бұрын
Wow. So incredibly well said.
@mohammadmousavi1
7 ай бұрын
most importantly society makes marriage dangerous for men ... marriage is very low rewards with high responsibility and risk.. would you jump with a parashot that works 50% of the time????? because marriage is suicide with current law.. first, divorce is in record high initiated by women. Also, divorce is so damaging to men (lose of money, custody of children, and being kicked out of your home when you build the home to relax your old times in it) ... so NO men are not weak men are getting cleverer to not getting into trap of marriage in these days. Of course, if the circumstances change and the divorce law becomes fair then you will see a big spike in the marriage rate ....till then men shouldn't get married
@NavasGonzalo
7 ай бұрын
I'm so happy to have a healthy relationship for 12 years with a healthy person who doesn't give two f*cks about trends and social media. I can't even imagine how are things in the dating world right now, but for what I hear it literally gives me the creeps.
@AdekunleLawal
7 ай бұрын
Sadia is deep love her insights ❤
@angelcassie4514
7 ай бұрын
💗Love hear about boundaries more explain it in more detail please 🙏
@GB-ws8zx
7 ай бұрын
I find both sexes avoiding responsibility. And to be clear, responsibility, in my definition, is not just about, I can provide X amount of cash for support or am prepared to raise a family, responsibility includes ability to reciprocate: "Yes, I am guilty of that. Thanks for reflecting that back to me." I know many seemingly prepared to raise a family. I know few prepared to accept their guilt without resistance, or expectations for reciprocity. The day I see this in more women........
@synaestesia-bg3ew
7 ай бұрын
Well said
@iphonelogistics8424
7 ай бұрын
Why is there so much media in pressuring men to date, or conquering the world. Can we enjoy ourselves alone without society pressure? I personally refuse to go by anyone’s standards. I do what I want 🎉 not saying anything that was said is wrong but damn give it a break
@peecee1289
7 ай бұрын
Because they need us to continue to be slave to society, without us everything crumble and they need us to get back in line. We now have enough information to realise its all bullshit
@alexissanchez3009
7 ай бұрын
Facts
@wejdanlabban9298
7 ай бұрын
Good point that the definition of being a strong man was mentioned ,, Protecting
@XPuntar
7 ай бұрын
Nope! It is not that! Strong men by women are men who are able to control their own emotional urges!
@tymiller1633
7 ай бұрын
So good!!
@krisofamerica
7 ай бұрын
It really goes both ways.
@MatchGuaranty
7 ай бұрын
Yes, correct, since nature tend leading to the balance ..
@ryanlipkin6964
7 ай бұрын
My advice to men set up your future or at least lay the ground work financially. Housing, retirement, paying off debt, and an emergency fund. Be picky with who you choose as a wife, find one with similar morals, hobbies, interests and spending habits. Don’t settle be willing to remain single! It took me until I was 33, would have loved kids earlier in life but wasn’t willing to risk anything with a woman without those things mentioned above. And my wife and I are blessed for it.
@dh1474
7 ай бұрын
All those things, but no need for a legal marriage. If she leaves, no need to give away most of your sh*t..
@ryanlipkin6964
7 ай бұрын
I agree with this 100% unless you are going to have kids. That’s my opinion just for myself don’t think it needs to be for everyone but once I decide to have kids I believe that my life needs to be in service of them and I do believe a marriage is the right foundation to raise a family. But 100% understand what ur saying!
@voxPopuli-432
6 ай бұрын
Sadia hits it on the nail everytime👍🌹
@zaneislandd4650
5 ай бұрын
One of the best things I personally did was to extend my adolecense until 30y.. I did so many stupid things, trips, girls etc so it really was better for me so I could settle down for a family man (now 40y with 3 kids). I really would have hard time mentally if I would have started this life before
@charlestoddsullivanforpres6628
7 ай бұрын
I have a minor disagreement - back in the day, a man used his teens as the 'training' time not his 20s.
@luker1hutcher315
7 ай бұрын
fuck 20's you should be training your whole life. Never stop improving.
@charlestoddsullivanforpres6628
7 ай бұрын
@@luker1hutcher315 That is a different context.
@glecservices3114
7 ай бұрын
Women have created this world the way it is, men ain’t afraid of weakness or responsibility it’s to do with the way women are.
@byronryan4216
7 ай бұрын
🤷♂️
@markmitchell8430
7 ай бұрын
I agree with her 100%. When I was coming up I was out of my mother's house at 18. These days guys are 30yrs. Old and still living with their mother s
@MerwinARTist
15 күн бұрын
Learn to think about a spouse as a business partner .. do you want someone who is lazy, uninspiring, wasteful, addicted to drugs, etc. .. or do you want someone who is going to help you work toward answering life goals, someone who is going to be there for you when you are sick, broken, and tired. Life is like taking a hike up a mountain .. do you want that partner to be complaining all the time .. or excited at each step along the way! Sexual attraction is just a part of the big picture.
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