It is not even something that scares me to see or anything, but it more disgusts me. Seeing some grown "man" basically reverted to a helpless child because they don't have the nuts to lead their girlfriend, wife, or whatever women in their life, so they just sheepishly follow them around like a dog with their tail between their legs, instead of just being an actual man. I guess it is true, just as women don't like un-masculine men, even other men don't like them either, lol.
@PostNostalgos
2 ай бұрын
Other men tend to ignore it but both men and women notice it at the subconscious level. I think most men actually empathize with that sort of ass-whopped man, so they tend to ignore it, while a woman will actively be cruel in other ways, usually more subtle. For example, a guy I work with is living with a woman who's like 10 years older than him and she has kids in her teens. Every time I see them together he looks like a miserable husk but puts up with it because he needs a place to stay and she has resources. He even told me that her ex-husband is still in her life to """help""" with the children. This is all just seen as normal by everyone and I pointed out all this nonsense to him. Cognitive dissonance takes over and he can't even acknowledge how insane it all is for everyone involved. I can only imagine what these teenagers think of him and their mother acting like this. The only hope is that they'll see the wrongness of this situation and try to do better in their own life. I can't stand that lady either. She sacrificed and used everyone around her, including her children, just so she can have a career. She tries to talk to me but I barely give her pleasantries and I can tell she notices this. It really is a disgust reaction that I can't even hide anymore.
@CaptmagiKono
2 ай бұрын
@@PostNostalgos When I was initially getting into the whole "redpill" stuff many years ago, I was initially pulled into the way of thinking that it was all the fault of the women and such. Many dudes still think this way, but I pretty quickly realized that all parties are at fault here, and since men are supposed to be the leaders, it is actually more their fault overall than anything that it has become like it has. I was never a person to blame outside things, taking responsibility and accountability is a pretty big thing to me, so I saw through the redpill cry babies pretty quickly after seeing how much blaming other things was going on and so little self reflection or self awareness within that group philosophy. But yeah, as you said with the guy and his cognitive dissonance whenever the truth is brought bare, I see the same thing when talking with my Dad about work and such. He will complain about the crazy and legit dumb people he works with and the things some of them do and such. But I notice that what he describes my Mom does exactly the same all the time to him and such, but when I bring that up he just deflects, showing his obvious blind-spot/hypocrisy. Like dude, you decided to marry this woman that does the exact same things you just described as hating and called them f-ing idiots for doing, blah blah. I guess as most things, all comes down to lack of self awareness and taking responsibility for ones own actions and looking in the damn mirror for once.
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