Each time someone breaks up with me, I tell myself, “He lost me, I was such a wonderful person, I never lost him, he lost me”
@user-jx1cl3dc4c
2 жыл бұрын
i needed this i never lost him he lost me .thank you. i have my pride back^_^♡
@_flqwsome_
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@loveandfaithfulness4479
Жыл бұрын
When you look to find a spouse, Look for someone who strives to seek God in all they do. Cultural norms and traditions come and go, But the Word of the Lord endures forever. First, early in the relationship connection, express your desire to avoid premarital sex. When you express your desire to want to honor God with your sexuality before marriage, this won’t be a shock to a real Christian. That is just a basic biblical command all true Christians want to follow. Sexual intimacy is an expression of love that brings happiness and unity into a marriage. It is also the power by which married couples can “multiply, and replenish the earth” (Genesis 1:28). Intimacy is a blessing that can lead to the incomparable joy of children as part of the eternal family unit. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." But if you say this to someone who is just pretending to obey the Bible, they will leave you quickly because they will not be willing to wait until marriage for sex. Someone can deceive you with words. But when you see their obedience to the Lord that matches their words, then you know they are trustworthy. They need to be visibly producing the fruits of the Spirit because this is a mark of a true Christian. Anyone can claim to be a Christian. And we can’t know someone’s heart. So the Bible says we are to evaluate people by their actions. Christians will not be perfect, but they will be bearing fruit that is evidence of their true salvation. Galatians 5:22-26 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another." Hebrews 13:4 "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge."
@Jules-740
8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@amby-mo3vk
4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sad to the point i can't even cry
@what1ntheworld866
4 жыл бұрын
same here, I cry but there only comes a tear, this shit ain't fun no more
@dilshafathima15
3 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@kha_leesi2596
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry 😞
@lelainerduh
3 жыл бұрын
I just get heart aches and waves of emotions
@iconic_glory5952
3 жыл бұрын
Try Laughing, Laughing is the best medicine, I'm so sorry about what happened, you'll find a better person!
@fishcanon8141
5 жыл бұрын
Every time after I break up with someone, I convince myself that person got hit by a car and died..
@rosettekz3288
5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@Seekyourtruth777
4 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂 classic
@garimathakur8301
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@pmt9853
4 жыл бұрын
sleek and simple!
@KotoriOnWheels
4 жыл бұрын
THAT is valuable!
@makeitcount2985
4 жыл бұрын
Breakups are a natural part of dating, finding the right match is a process.
@kristinaal-ashqar9902
3 жыл бұрын
I needed to fucking hear that jeeze.
@M.Stick11
2 жыл бұрын
Dayumm 🥺
@suthit562
2 жыл бұрын
I need this ❤️
@karmasutra4774
4 ай бұрын
51 and still couldn't do it. I was married and divorced and now ending a 7 year relationship. I give up
@makeitcount2985
Ай бұрын
@@karmasutra4774 Some of us never find the right match, I stopped dating completely due to the substandard quality. A high number of men are looking for the wrong things which include substance abuse, choosing any women rather than the right match just so they do not have to date, finding a mom for their kids instead of a partner, looking for a nurse a purse or a sex toy, wanting to breed but wanting the wife to do all the child care.
@test1test219
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t be fooled, when a guy runs hot and cold even after you’ve talked to him about it, he is setting you up to break up with him so he can walk guilt free.
@Freespiritedqueen
Жыл бұрын
DAMN, YES, went through this recently and a couple of times before! DONE!
@4elovechishe
Жыл бұрын
Mine called today after a whole week of silence to talk and tell me it is not going to work out. I said "I think so too. Hope you find what you are looking for". He responded "you too. Hope you find a good man, better than me, who will take care of you". I told him yes. I will find that man 🙂 I am sure he wanted to hear me "noo, you are good man" or ask him to talk or meet to start over. I think he was surprised how easy it was for me to let him go. The day before I felt like crap and today I am free!!! It was a big game of his and I am finally out of it. Glad it only lasted 3 months,not longer. I saw another missed phone call later that day but I am not calling back🙂
@Jules-740
8 ай бұрын
A guy ghosted me. Then two weeks pass and he texted me an apology and then he texted me again asking me why i didnt text him and reply and how i could have reached out to him.
@elainenilsson5472
5 жыл бұрын
Some break ups are unexpected deaths. Those are never easy.
@charming815
4 жыл бұрын
So true!
@bethanyrushton1069
4 жыл бұрын
Yep
@mmg8830
4 жыл бұрын
For real. Everything was good, too good to be true actually. And he broke up with me saying he is bad for me, he isn't the kind of guy for commitment. I don't get it but we are done now
@slnthll_
4 жыл бұрын
@@mmg8830 im so sorry. i got dumped day before yesterday. he said he didn't like my friends. even his parents didn't like me. well, i was so serious about us.
@theashleyinme
4 жыл бұрын
I will also do this. I was in a very abusive emotionally draining relationship. I think it's time now.
@nationalgeo9709
4 жыл бұрын
When someone breaks up with me i imagine hes gay and move on..
@imanmohy
4 жыл бұрын
That’s a very good technique 😂
@iconic_glory5952
3 жыл бұрын
Classic 😂😂😂
@vasavinarigandla6586
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂.
@issjjd4651
3 жыл бұрын
Okay I would do that but thats just going to make it worse bcs he broke up with me bcs he came out as gay...
@jjc2323
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂❤️❤️
@mariannebauman3410
3 жыл бұрын
If he broke up with you, he doesn't want you ..SO why would you want someone who chose not to want you?
@rnkim2564
5 жыл бұрын
youve got to be kidding about the guy initiating the "we need to talk" talk...in my experience, men usually find this so distasteful and are so chicken to confront or address this on any level that this is almost always initiated by the woman. guys do the ghost thing, they just disappear, I imagine the reasons are they dont want to deal with your emotions, disappointment, sadness, questions, etc and they dont view you as important enough to share their intimate thoughts with you anymore...by the time they are in a "we need to talk" mood, they have already moved on in their mind and just dont want to deal with any of it anymore. it makes them uncomfortable. I think this is one of the differences between men and women
@tonyalieteau3564
5 жыл бұрын
Yes I totally agree. They don't wanna talk atleast not to you they talk to their new girlfriend. And they do ghost you. Most men are so immature it's sickening.
@farfetched9296
5 жыл бұрын
I think women should start ghosting and being weird. When confronted simply say " It's Complicated "
@farfetched9296
5 жыл бұрын
@MARJAN I think all the men we date are related. Honestly I think men make us think we're dating, so we're not out and about recruiting more men and having options like them. These are not men just because they have penises doesn't make them men. They're simply toddlers.
@mifasola1
5 жыл бұрын
I completely agree. I was in that relationship for 8 months which is ending as we speak...he is ghosting me into oblivion. I have had the conversation with him in the past regarding staying connected and I agree he just doesn't see it as important to our bond. So...i am done talking. I don't know what it is anymore so he will continue this distance and I'm going to let him because I am tired of this. My heart is broken and I've learned that at my fair age of 64 this man is emotionally unavailable. He is a coward and hasn't the guts to just end It. In the meantime I went and got my power back. I have my boundaries and I'm not in a position to compromise any more. It won't happen again.
@a.h.2667
5 жыл бұрын
@@farfetched9296 Toddlers are much easier to get along with than some of these men. Toddlers at least show emotion, lol.
@kristinaal-ashqar9902
3 жыл бұрын
He didnt break up with me, but i ended it after he went hot and cold and I couldnt take it anymore. Im so sad, i wish i was good enough for the effort he put in at the beginning.
@jue3647
3 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same experience you did, even though I broke it off, he stopped being in it for a while already
@lamaziad978
2 жыл бұрын
I had the same experience with 3 guys this year and one from 2 yrs ago. It made me feel like there’s something wrong with me. I now believe that some men just don’t appreciate having an understanding and supportive woman. (My guys were with abusive or bossy partners before, and I’m the total opposite!) Or they simply can’t handle a woman with feelings and expectations. They want to have fun and not commit to anything or make the slightest effort. Not even to continue to make an effort to grow the relationship slowly. That’s mainly after 7-8 weeks. I never went in with an agenda or had major expectations from them- just decent communication and quality time. Apparently this is too much to expect from men (40+) these days. At least in my city!
@u311165
2 жыл бұрын
This is so common. We're not alone ladies!!! Hang in there. Heal. 💗 give it time and during that time take care of yourselves 🙏🏿🙏🏻
@thecoolestpersononyt
5 жыл бұрын
Done that and he’s sooo right. and yes using a breakup as a reason to improve and work on yourself is a great idea. and then when time passes and you start feeling better, you realize you didn’t waste your time for nothing, you spent in on you and new experiences.
@angiedorman9244
5 жыл бұрын
Women can wake up and do the same thing.
@thecoolestpersononyt
5 жыл бұрын
Angie Dorman I’m a woman tho :)
@angiedorman9244
5 жыл бұрын
@@thecoolestpersononyt yeah, but we don't do it as often as men. 🙂
@sudiptasaha5556
2 жыл бұрын
True. After my breakup I realised what type of guy I should be dating.
@BraveSoul979
5 жыл бұрын
I hate the games men play and how complicated they are!
@carultch
4 жыл бұрын
Oh the irony of women hating the games men play.
@Maarten8867
4 жыл бұрын
Perhaps you should remember the guys who didn't play any games. And how you weren't attracted to them at all.
@Fonzi79
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah exactly...... MY x used to say he was a simple man .. BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He couldn't express any emotions.. I was starting to think he was a robort...
@Lauriah7
4 жыл бұрын
They are actually very simple. They'll sell their soul to the devil to get what they want. Most of the time that's in your pants.
@evagacha9808
4 жыл бұрын
Men:women are comlicated Women:men r complicated WHOSE COMPLICATED NOW!?!!
@csg1381
5 жыл бұрын
Sit with the pain but not the drama. Remember that people have the right to leave you. If that hurts like a thousand bee stings, it is probably because you have some unfinished hurt that has nothing to do with your ex. Take very good care of yourself, forgive yourself, and choose your friends wisely. Eventually, you will come up on the over side of grief. I don’t believe you will be any wiser or anything superlative, but you will be ok. Remember, chose your friends wisely.
@elizaash358
4 жыл бұрын
Good advice.😇
@martiniloganmartinilogan83
Жыл бұрын
Well said , surly will chose my friends wisely.
@bearded-cat
3 жыл бұрын
It's 3am here and I was crying so hard but this have brought me peace. Thank you
@bbli-bq5xj
3 жыл бұрын
I was crying too then I came here he calmed me down.
@yazialmarzooqi6017
5 жыл бұрын
I do think most guys dont say “we need to talk” they just ghost you. I have been dating a guy for 3 months and we saw each other very often like 4 times a week and he was so into me then i have no idea what changed i believe his ex was back in his life as he told me he just got dumped when we first met and from his story this girl was overwhelming him with her emotions and blah blah blah. It really hurt in the beginning but a few days later after the “ghosting” happened i still feel so bad but in comes in waves and thank you so much Brian for making me feel so much better about myself as during the short time with him I was the best version of myself and i truly cared and showed that to that person. I do feel bad for him a bit that he lost someone who would’ve been a very amazing partner. Thank you Brian!!
@lindadowton429
4 жыл бұрын
You just helped in so many ways. Thank you for posting what you did.
@mariahcarey50
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, literally everything you went through happened to me. I thought I was the only one. He broke up with me in person and couldn’t talk... Alright. But a week later sent me a massively long text why he didn’t want to be with me. Wow.
@lelainerduh
3 жыл бұрын
My exact situation
@Ms9mmBeretta
3 жыл бұрын
I got the "we need to talk" from my boyfriend yesterday. Ex boyfriend now.
@Ms9mmBeretta
3 жыл бұрын
Update. He's a clinical socioopath and I don't feel bad he broke up with me. At all. It was a blessing.
@angelabonet5355
4 жыл бұрын
I was feeling so bad before, but when he said “you should care of your ex as much as an empty role of toilet paper” 9:05 i started laughing so hard as I was holding an empty role of toilet paper in my hands. Thank you for it 💕
@PAMECA
4 жыл бұрын
❤
@izzywoods5491
2 жыл бұрын
Same 😂
@suecole5543
2 жыл бұрын
😊😊😊 you will be okay. Yesterday is history tomorrow is mystery .💗
@Freespiritedqueen
Жыл бұрын
lmao!!! YEAH!
@smoothtruth
10 ай бұрын
❤
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
4 жыл бұрын
This was my first time dealing with this. And I’m realizing healing takes time :(
@kutestsnails7331
4 жыл бұрын
L It gets so much better. Hugs.
@uhhshortyzz4081
4 жыл бұрын
It does
@googy9164
2 жыл бұрын
Sooner or later you won’t even realize you’re healed you just won’t cry about it anymore and you’ll feel positive
@samy.mariko
2 жыл бұрын
Hey, same. He broke up with me yesterday, after 4 months. I had forgotten how deep pain feels like but i guess we're all stuck together
@samy.mariko
2 жыл бұрын
I mean your comment is 2 years old tho, how are you doing now??
@lastaristocrat
2 жыл бұрын
So much pain especially when you truly love a person… sometimes I wish feelings did not exist at all to feel no pain. Thank you Brian for your help
@manavymuth2428
5 жыл бұрын
Falling in love with a person that shouldn't be loved or when love has to be a secret, breaking up is the best solution. Heartache won't last for ever. Especially when someone used to need just two days to forget previous love.
@fatimaghalem1180
3 жыл бұрын
what do you mean by the last part , the 2days thing ?
@flash_flood_area
Жыл бұрын
@@fatimaghalem1180yeah, wut?
@summersheridan9371
2 жыл бұрын
My bf broke up with me yesterday and he had no reason and idk what to do anymore bc i trusted him he said he would never leave yet he did. An hour before he broke up with me he said i love u and everything was normal then suddenly we r over. I really love him and cant stop crying. I need the pain to just go away, my eyes r sore,my heartaches ect. He said it wasnt my fault, yet he said hes nt happy with me anymore. My heads just racing with questions like "what did i do wrong?" or "did he never love me?" or "was it all fake?" I just already miss waking up to him "good morning, how was ur sleep" and now i wake up crying all i wanna do is text him but i cant. I just cant do this... and never trust anyone again bc i will just get broken again.
@sharc.9259
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry about your break up. My boyfriend just broke up with me in a text . It was totally out of the blue. Almost 2 years together! The pain is so awful
@breezy1233
Жыл бұрын
Summer how are you now? I hope you are ok. Im going through it too, but he has already done it to me so many times that im becoming emotionally numb to him. He broke up with me 3 days ago, we were engaged. But this time its doesnt hurt so bad. I think im getting used to it and beauty is i wont take him back when he starts calling and begging like i know he will. Its a pattern with my guy, and im tired of it even if it feels like my guts are being ripped out, i know what to expect and im finally at a point where im saying enough is enough.
@MalekLabidi
Жыл бұрын
I’m going through this too… he broke up with me one year ago and then came back regretful after 3 week, he broke up with me again today, and I really really REALLY hope he regrets it again, what did you do to make your guy regret it every time?
@a43tstudios46
Жыл бұрын
@@sharc.9259 Are you doing better now?
@a43tstudios46
Жыл бұрын
Yes, he never loved you. Maybe he liked your company or something, but it was most certainly not "love". How are you doing now?
@imeldapopodopolus8172
5 жыл бұрын
No response is still a response...ugh...I have just experienced this...
@majdalshammari9927
5 жыл бұрын
i wanna call this man everyday before i sleep, he’s voice is so calming ❤️
@garimathakur8301
4 жыл бұрын
True
@freedomringshome4984
5 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna act as if it doesn't bother me so I can keep my dignity in tact.
@orangemocha3693
4 жыл бұрын
When he wants to break up say ok cya, walk away proud and happy..
@PAMECA
4 жыл бұрын
❤
@cc.s3850
5 жыл бұрын
I should have this knowledge years ago. I have made every mistake you can think of. I jumped in every puddle to feel sorry for myself and spend far to much time thinking about him. And today I am so happy with my life and my relationship . It is just a bliss👍😊
@what1ntheworld866
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I'm going through the worst break up I've ever went through, you opened my eyes, although it still hurts, you've made me feel a bit better.
@Tusuubirabetty
4 жыл бұрын
Breaking up and starting anew life is the hardest thing ihav seen. 😭😭😭
@Alecia_SA
Жыл бұрын
It's been 2 years now and my heart is still sore, I have tried everything to move on and forget about the person, but nothing helps. What you say makes sense, and that's what my mind is also telling me, but my heart stays raw and doesn't understand why someone who pretended to be interested couldn't tell or show me how he feels and said so many things that were insensitive and made me feel misunderstood and lonely and sad
@PaNdeM0niuM
5 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so relaxing and calming. You're really cute too!
@zahramahdieh1970
5 жыл бұрын
I just said the same thing!
@melindapanganiban2747
5 жыл бұрын
I like him
@travelfoodielove
4 жыл бұрын
PaNdeM0niuM right
@imwatching2960
4 жыл бұрын
Along with the excellent content!!!
@laurisher9006
5 жыл бұрын
Brian must be married since age 11 or something.
@paulagrey6013
5 жыл бұрын
Brian's not his name
@janineevers2913
5 жыл бұрын
His name is Geert
@Professional_Nobody
4 жыл бұрын
Born married 🤣
@carriesmith4357
4 жыл бұрын
😂💖
@kerriberriful
4 жыл бұрын
@@Professional_Nobody 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Maje0823
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t want anyone who doesn’t want me.
@cathyplantlover2862
4 жыл бұрын
I forget them, its their loss! You have to have self love take this time to concentrate on yourself!
@summerscents8284
4 жыл бұрын
I thought I'm getting better everyday but today is the worst since the break up last week. I hope to get past of this heartbreak soonest.
@summerscents8284
3 жыл бұрын
@@clementokosun6886 No, thank you. I don't believe in such rubbish.
@dhanyashreenarayani3963
5 жыл бұрын
Dunno why,, hearing your voice is simply soothing my heart.....thanks
@zahramahdieh1970
5 жыл бұрын
I'm not in a breakup or even in a relation. But I like listening to your voice. It's calming!
@mandyg5747
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian. I listened to you this time last year re first break up with my man. I did work on myself and learn a lot but he obviously didnt. He just passed the time whilst in Isolation. I told him that I did not want to 'get back' to where we were but move forward. We planned to go on dates and outings....then LockDown got more restrictive. Last year was good because we worked together on things. ...his Narcissistic Ex calling round demanding he do diy or lend her money and threatening me. I didnt fully trust him to handle her as it took him longer to see that he needed to call the police. This year his mum died and his ex turned nasty about that. We did not work at things as much, took each other for granted and I stopped working at my life...just stayed in at his flat and i I was triggered by his ex. He didnt know if he loved me the same. I see that although I kove him very much we have different skill sets. He uses his skills from the army to cope with her.... a very childish selfish Narcissistic person. ..... but he doesn't know how to trust his love when things are tough and you might not feel as loving toward your partner. Obviously he is working on the premise that it should be like that first dreamy honeymoon phase all of the time. Mature people realise that they have to work together and keep growing. I love him but here we are again. But now I know more. I am not confused. Thank you for giving me peace.
@weekendnomad5038
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never been broken up w before .. I just said “ok if that’s what you want” I don’t want to lose him
@kristanpettigrew-youngbloo1370
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it’s best to just let them go and don’t ask questions. Always get the run around and halfassed answers that are lame. Just got dumped not long ago. His excuses were just that.
@kimk3821
3 жыл бұрын
"Am I doing what I'm about to do to not feel the pain?' if the answer is yes then it's not a good idea and will prolong the problem. "Am I doing this to learn to grow, to get back to who I am" if the answer is yes then it will help you reduce the pain and you will not feel it anymore. By feeling the pain, by allowing it, by growing and by not numbing it will help you get over the heart ache much quicker. Do this instead of introducing bad things like alcohol or one night stands. When you build yourself back up you have better chances of to start am improved loving relationship with your ex or new guy because you will always have to leave the old relationship behind because that relationship was broken. Thank you so much Brian Nox for being honest to women🙏.
@Fonzi79
4 жыл бұрын
I love tthis guy.. HE is so gentle and nice and smart!! HE will get me through my breakup.
@coffeeandculinaryjourney791
3 жыл бұрын
I hate the feelimgs everytime I break up with someone/bf. It feels so hurtful and empty, like the world suddenly goes black, and nothing is matter anymore. I live on my days with no passion, I see everyone passing by infront of me and thinking "why me? Do they feel the same pain with me? Or do they on breaking up with their ex too?" I dont feel like I want to eat or anything. I just want to sleep all day. Thats the hardest days of my life. I dont want breaking up with anyone again. God please give someone this year, a soulmate that will stay forever with me in marriage life until death do us apart. Aamiin.
@jondongh3274
3 жыл бұрын
Hello Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back
@jondongh3274
3 жыл бұрын
Wha'txpp him..,....
@jondongh3274
3 жыл бұрын
+ 2 3 4 8 0 7 3 3 1 7 4 6 0.......
@Jules-740
8 ай бұрын
Same❤🙏😞
@suziecamua420
5 жыл бұрын
Love to listen to your advice. I love your voice, you sound so sincere and caring. I know you opened the minds and healed the wounds of the broken hearted. God bless you!
@imanmohy
4 жыл бұрын
I wasn’t aware of my mistakes I was doing to feel better about the pain... even running away of it by going out or staying alone... thank you so much for this video and sharing your experience for free ... I just remembered myself worth ..thank u again
@yaddayadda739
4 жыл бұрын
He didn’t break up with me I broke up with him!!.. 💚big these vids keep popping up in recommendations.....
@roser8911
3 жыл бұрын
It’s been 4 months since break up and If he come back or not I don’t even care anymore. I’m stronger than him now..
@frederike9371
5 жыл бұрын
Could listen to ur videos all day long:) makes me feel secure
@contessacervas
4 жыл бұрын
My ex-hubby abandoned me and my kid like we’re chopped liver. He chose his mistresses and ghost me for about two years till I finally realized he’s not gonna come back even for our daughter. I accepted the fact that he didn’t love me at all so i just pretend that he’s already dead.
@tommyfravala5231
4 жыл бұрын
These videos ANSWER A LOT OF QUESTIONS AND TELLS THE TRUTH. I’m totally CRUSHED
@rachelselena4782
2 жыл бұрын
He didn’t leave me that closure. He didn’t want to break up with me but he still did, because he said we would hurt in the end because of possible changes in my future. The problem is that he gave me no closure. 💔
@alishalish4973
5 жыл бұрын
Hi. I have no patience to listen to any video. You love what you saying , that love behind your talking make me watch your video . Your attention is to help, no to make money . You are great man
@leonita2252
4 жыл бұрын
This is the best advice i have ever seen, thank you Brian, so powering!
@jodearson310
4 жыл бұрын
Your podcast on breakups is the best thing I have listened to. Great advice thank you
@superfark5914
3 жыл бұрын
Lol simple. Be honest. A man won't break up with you if you are kind, attractive, and giving. So there is only one question to be asked if you get broke up with. Ask for a real honest answer of, How did I fail you in this relationship so that you want to end it? The only way we grow as people is by getting honest feedback.
@imwatching2960
4 жыл бұрын
All shitty breakups caused a huge jump in my understanding of life and a real upgrade, taking me out of a place I was only comfortable. Still very rough and painful, but later you'll see.
@beckyryder2227
5 жыл бұрын
This is so spot on. Wish I'd seen this about 8 months ago. I have learned from my mistakes though
@user-mb9jx5tx9y
4 жыл бұрын
Becky Ryder wish I would’ve seen this 4 months ago. Would’ve saved me heartache
@beecl2076
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian Nox. Glad I chanced upon this video. I am going through one, he cheated on me. Now it's time I start asking myself questions. Thanks once again and more power.
@mackenziemonroe7996
2 жыл бұрын
Yep…he goes we need to talk, My heart dropped
@MissAllaCinderella
5 жыл бұрын
You are THE BEST! 🙌🏻 I look forward to your videos more then anyone else I’m subscribed to- and the few books I have read from you are phenomenal! You have a true gift and talent for understanding and communication!!
@Empre55
4 жыл бұрын
6:36 Am I doing this to take away the pain? (Not a good idea) Am I doing this to replenish my self respect? (Great idea)
@petrichor7121
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. You have a very reassuring voice along with a calm, frank, common sense approach which makes it easy to listen to and reflect on.. This makes a world of diffence!
@tanyak4915
4 жыл бұрын
The main reason I am listening to this is because of his calm and relax voice.
@VeronicaChen-go5wt
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Brian, I think this video worth a million dollars❤️❤️ I'll watch it again and again.
@richricogranada9647
Жыл бұрын
If the man breaks up with me then I ask nothing and disappear from his life right away.
@katrichards6541
5 жыл бұрын
He pushed me so much that i snapped and evetually i asked hom to leave he turned it around like he ended it. Its taken me nearlly a year to feel a bit better.
@mourinengicha9751
4 жыл бұрын
Kat Richards my situation now
@angelwings6193
4 жыл бұрын
men that have that trait, they push you till you blow a fuse,,, theyre controlling you and manipulating you, its Another game ,,, and when they do this its a Signal that he isnt good for you. In This case you can always tell him, Thank you for Liberating(freeing) me ! hahaha you will feel great when you see the look on his face,he wont know how to interpret those words,then look him strait in the eyes,Smile, and Leave ! (not another word,,,,,) hihihi Walk away into the sunset. You will feel great because youve just shown him youre a Goddess. And you will feel awesome because you will have defended yourself, , now wait 5 months and do it! and smile cos now that youre single, you want to flash that megawatt smile,, its the bait,,,, good perfume helps also, but not too much,,im sure that i fyou think about this you will start to see all the other times he wasnt treating you as a woman, to be loved, cherished, and protected. you deserve a real man not a child constantly breaking his toys,,,,,
@elainebenis2230
5 жыл бұрын
Your videos are always wonderful to watch and very calming.I love how you express yourself..Thank you for always having great content..
@raquelortiz4170
2 жыл бұрын
He just said we should break up When I opened that message I almost died
@heidijimenez6582
4 жыл бұрын
Hi brian. Thank u for all ur videos. Im from Philippines. May God Bless u for helping us to be ourselves again.
@nailpolishinhale
3 жыл бұрын
I went back 3 times just to quickly numb the pain, even though I didn't like his actions I thought he would change. Stupid me it just prolonged the breakup so now it feels worse then the first one!
@daviddickenson1243
3 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm y
@daviddickenson1243
3 жыл бұрын
I'm here
@ZosiaSur31
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! You helped me regain my self-respect! Wish you uploaded videos more often!
@ucella7313
3 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up wit me 2 hours ago through text saying I'm done don't ever call me again . I booked an Uber to leave his house and than he sent that. I didn't feel wanted or loved . He said he was tired of this "shiitty relationship. But yet he turned it around and said that I said that . But I didn't. I was shocked but I was tired of finding excuses to his actions. I really tried.. to understand why he was being mean to me
@gregmarkjulian7661
3 жыл бұрын
DR ORDIA was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems too 💤💤💤
@gregmarkjulian7661
3 жыл бұрын
Text him on what's app 💤
@gregmarkjulian7661
3 жыл бұрын
+2348077751695💤
@michellewall6748
3 жыл бұрын
Run honey, run
@Soulfulrover
3 жыл бұрын
Sending the last message was the most important thing that helped me get closure, the person did not reply back but atleast i was convinced that this is it.
@Loverofartsandmusic
3 жыл бұрын
I was heartbroken a year ago after he told me he found someone else but guess what. I've never been grateful. Even though it hurts but I realize, I should've left earlier and tell myself how lucky he was during the time that I was there for him. I was so great but he was so ungrateful.
@lucianagrasso1117
5 жыл бұрын
You always help me to see things more clear. Thanks for that. ❤️
@dlwsport250
3 жыл бұрын
I could use some advice.My boyfriend broke up with me. My therapist said that for him, it was not out of the blue. He created "a fight?" so that he could say "come get your $#!T" as we lived together and we were closing on a house on the next Monday. Only my name was on the contract because he wasn't around when we put the offer on it. I also had put down the earnest money down with the offer. (The fight was a shock because I had to leave the restaurant early because my torn rotator cuff got hit accidentally by a stranger) . It seems so disrespectful.
@wessatassam8162
5 жыл бұрын
I got many choice at my life I build positive mind ,sometime lost some one we love verry verry hard, how could exit my mind a way from our memory so I do ,busy with my life ,i do gym,meet my friend ,fokus to move on to have another life and I think my life full of color like rainbow and i cut to be not regret then I choice to healty life without sad and felling sorry my self ,i am strong I am nice I am happy ,I am not lonely, so much we can do this life life so short maybe I will die tomorrow never new this so I choice to joys for all situasion and eccapted our kondision what happen is that we are not alone in the same problem but we must love our self to make we happy and healty mind 💟
@wyethhan7434
4 жыл бұрын
I think its a good thing to break up someone who doesnt deserve your time and love. If he goes away...say your glad because you settting yourself free from the pain.. Accept and love yourself!thank you Brian..you're actually cute and you make my day with a smile.😊😘❤!
@aarshdeep313
5 жыл бұрын
I learn from you. But I never tell your name to my boyfriend. Hehe
@butterflyqueen9260
5 жыл бұрын
I asked myself " Can I do better?" Fuck yeah!😊
@Fonzi79
4 жыл бұрын
My x broke up with me after 3 YEARS during Christmas week and he never told me he was unhappy and I was blindsided and heart broken, he took 3 years from me to not to even try to work it out , he says he thought he could connect but couldn't and it wasn't another woman .. ummm okkkk then what was it ?? I'm mad that he couldn't tell me why ....... He says I'm a amazing woman and I always gave him warmth. We always respected one another and he was a good man but something just went wrong . He started to pull away gradually after his father unexpectedly passed away 1 yr into us . I would feel at least better if he told me what was on his mind.. Hopefully 1 day be will .. I'm so lost ...
@gioovannabp
4 жыл бұрын
How are you?
@Fonzi79
4 жыл бұрын
@@gioovannabp aww thanks for asking ... I'm hanging in there I'm in the anger stage now with the NO contact ... Each day I get stronger away from him ... Thanks for inquiring ... It means a lot...
@pauomila9861
4 жыл бұрын
Hi! How’s everything now? im going through the same situation with you now :(
@emiliadrogaris8517
4 жыл бұрын
Probably the most helpful breakup video i have watched. Congratulations
@milenamilena1314
9 ай бұрын
Thank you, Brian for a profound and important knowledge, wisdom, understandings you always share. It helps everyone, who is ready, to become a better, wiser, happier version of the self and create truly loving, beautiful relationships.
@saempress6604
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video...👍👍❤️. Very helpful for me at this moment..
@toshita8083
4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend broke up with me because i did same mistakes again. When i stopped doing, he quit. He blocked me from everywhere. He is rude to me now. But we love each other. Help!
@lorettamarycecilia
3 жыл бұрын
Did he ever reach out?
@nadiageline9556
4 жыл бұрын
I hate minds game.. That meant they don't understand love is.. If we love someone, just be comfort to be our self, coz the man should love us the way we are and we do same.. Love not a game nor pressure If no love then break up, move on, be positive in life there's millions waiting us :)
@lynnh.6111
3 жыл бұрын
You are the best Geert. I love all your advices! 👍
@karenlouise2156
2 жыл бұрын
The Bible tells us to guard your heart. Too many people date for too long of a time. Dating has become an alternative lifestyle to marriage. Hearts should not be broken from anyone you are just dating.
@piscesaretheshit
4 жыл бұрын
Tyty. Your insite and frankness are the absolute best advice or techniques ive ever heard. Maybe im just ready to hear it. Not just listen. Ty.
@lisacody61
5 жыл бұрын
PLEASE THANK HIM - FOR ME
@bige4911
4 жыл бұрын
I broke up with my ex because I got tired of the constant accusations of me cheating. I'm with you from the time I wake up till I fall asleep when and where did I have the time. It was a month gone by and he still didn't get that we were no longer a couple. It took blocking his number and calling him out his name for him to finally get it.
@dmiri0921
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you for this. I watched a lot of videos today and this one helped me the most!
@ericemily5290
3 жыл бұрын
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
@ericemily5290
3 жыл бұрын
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯
@ericemily5290
3 жыл бұрын
Whtsaap him**
@ericemily5290
3 жыл бұрын
✝2 3 4 9 1 5 2 0 5 2 0 6 3......
@dmiri0921
3 жыл бұрын
Go away, scammer.
@kristym4243
4 жыл бұрын
I love these videos they are short and ti the point. Alot if videos like this are an hour long and I lose interest I don't have an hour. These are so great keep my attention and give the info I need to learn. Thanks
@hkhdfju4459
3 жыл бұрын
Me Watching This With My Tears:')
@Rosy7531
4 жыл бұрын
This was the best thing I’ve seen on the subject. Thank you.
@pearlluber5849
5 күн бұрын
A breakup can be a missed bullet.
@kimberleyann51
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!!! Im dealing with the worst pain of a breakup
@Ela2351
4 жыл бұрын
My ex is moving away soon, and we were talking about moving away together. I mean we talked about having kids and everything. He became distant, barely a few messages a day. Then one day he was supposed to call about us moving away together. He didn’t, so we texted and I was really angry cause he’d always make time for me and us. And he said he can’t take me with him and ended things. I tried asking why and he threatened to call police on me and even sue me if I text him ever again. Never gonna trust anyone again. From I love you to don’t you dare ever text me again. It’s really sad.
@Rasheens-Story
4 жыл бұрын
If someone tells me it's over then I leave them a lone.
@Rasheens-Story
3 жыл бұрын
@@clementokosun6886 😂😂😂 no thanks why would anyone want an ex back 🤨 I go forwards not backwards 💯
@Rasheens-Story
3 жыл бұрын
@@clementokosun6886 I’m good I don’t even know you
@aussiegirladventures3189
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. This changed my life. Bless you.
@ananascarpenter
3 жыл бұрын
Such sound advice. Thank you so much, it's exactly what I need at the moment.
@davisleonard4262
3 жыл бұрын
I know of a powerful doctor who is capable of helping people to bring their ex back he helpe mi also when my heart was broken in 8months. Message him and be free.
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