Unlike some of the comments here, I loved your aggressiveness and enthusiasm. Keep fightin', man. 🙂
@daynesgreatjourney
7 жыл бұрын
TheChrizKid thanks man!
@makeupbynathali3400
8 жыл бұрын
i plan to move out of my mom's house after high school. i dont feel happy living with her anymore. everyday we argue a lot. its for the simplest things. like the other day i dropped 2 plastic cups and she got so angry and started cursing at me. she is a toxic parent im sorry to say. she tells me a lot awful things. i dont feel like living with her. when someone makes her angry, she takes her anger out on me. i plan to move in with my uncle and go to cosmetology school. he is supportive. i already started on paying for my own things. i have a job. i plan to go to school and work also. im going to live with my uncle until im stable and could get my own apartment.
@opus0872
8 жыл бұрын
oh lawd, I just had an argument with my mom right now over leaving wrappers on my table. She drives me nuts! I'm 17 and got into medschool which I'm starting in September, One prob I applied to 5 universities,1 of which was in my city (Birmingham UK), I was really hoping to get into 1 of the other 4 and the local one was a backup. But life fucked me in the ass and I got rejected from every one of them but the local school. Now how can I justify moving out? Plus I'm not wealthy at all, so my my parent would are no reason for me to leave. It sucks so bad
@michaelsmustang5.099
4 жыл бұрын
Nathali Rebolledo how did that end up for you did you move out?!? I have the same situation with my father and I’m not having fun at my parents house. Any tips?
@connordennis1881
Жыл бұрын
I have arguments with my mum all the time I told her I’m moving out she said it’s my choice she rang the council for a shared house for lads my own age and out my family house my mum says I can do whatever I want
@susanh1104
9 жыл бұрын
Too many people judge others on when someone should move out... when in reality there are so many unknown circumstances as to why they have not... thanks for sharing and you will accomplish anything you seek; I can see your drive :)
@PsychoticSashimiS
9 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video man... My family has been teetering financial and emotional wise ever since I was 5 and I want to be able to have my own life but still help my parents out. I know this may sound weird but thank goodness that I got in a bad accident a few years ago because I am now going to get a couple grand once I turn 18 in a few months. I plan on going to community college and am moving into an apartment with a really trustworthy friend that had gone through a lot with me. I've been learning about managing money and have a very good spending habit. My only problem is that I am terrified at driving and hope to get over that soon. I love this video and hope to see more very soon! Definitely subscribing
@DontFuckWitDreDay
7 жыл бұрын
Fuck dude, stop being so tough on us. Wtf did I ever DO TO YOU?
@timmylemaine7531
8 жыл бұрын
Damn dude this felt like you were talking really aggressive
@larrybravo199
8 жыл бұрын
My brother and I currently live with my grandparents and have been living with them since 2007, I still keep in contact with my real parents, they visit us every Christmas and Spring break. For the past year my grandparents have been getting mad at any single thing that they can think of. They are always really aggressive and get mad easily, I always remain calm. Last spring break, my grandma and mom were in an argument in which they were arguing about getting mad easily and never appreciating the good things that my brother and I have accomplished. My brother and I are well educated, we sweep and mop the house every 2 days and clean the garden whenever there are weeds growing near the flower pots. This June since school ended, I would always clean the house and garden but they will always find a way to create more things for us to do. So 2 weeks into summer, and I finally finished cleaning every single detail in the house and everything in the yard from cleaning the flower pots to trimming the mango tree and picking up the leaves, now I go back to the usual (which is sweeping and cleaning the house every 2 days) My brother has had a job for about 6 months and managed to pay for a used car, my brother and I are currently high school students but also go to college because we are currently dual enrolling ( which means you can take college classes and get credit for them while in highschool, so we can get our high school diploma and assosciates degree within the same year). This past week my parents have been really abusive (not physical but mentally) by saying we are a disgrace, we never do nothing in the house, we are lazy, and that we are always using our phone. Today she came home an hour earlier then she was supposed to and I was already beginning to sweep the floor ( I didn't have to mop because I did it yesterday), and she came into the house and was very angry and threw the 2 cups of milk that were on the table and made a big mess in the house, when my grandpa came home she told him that I did nothing today and told him that I didn't even sweep and mop the kitchen seeing how ugly it is (obviously it was dirty because she threw the 2 cups of milk onto the floor). My brother wasn't in the house but said that as soon as he turns 18 (in 3 months) that I will have to move out with him. She has been using this as a scare tactic for the past 2 years. I honestly don't know what to do, no matter what I do, she will always find a thing to get mad at. I am fed up with her reminding me that we will have to move out. I'm currently 15 years old and my brother is 17. We contacted our mom who lives in North Carolina and she adviced us to rent a small apartment and she will pay the rent. This is honestly very stressful.
@winordie9441
5 жыл бұрын
How did it go
@queenbeelifestyle8278
Жыл бұрын
Awwn so sorry about that I experienced something similar but I know now u are your own man good luck champ
@maz2605
9 жыл бұрын
Honestly, if there were no social pressures to move out of my parents I probably wouldn't for quite some time. I feel grown up, I make a great income, but it's hard when you are so close to them. I have no desires to be in a relationship right now so that is one more thing keeping me from moving out. I mean, yes, there is a certain age (probably 25+) where you should decide to move out, but before then I don't think it's that big of a deal if you aren't in a relationship and your trying to get your shit together.
@daynesgreatjourney
9 жыл бұрын
Totally. Life is a process of growing and figuring things out and when you are ready to move out you can choose to do so. Don't let anyone else decide for you but you.
@georget.khumalo4365
8 жыл бұрын
+m Az Dumb Heads
@daynesgreatjourney
9 жыл бұрын
Hey Matt, think about a skill you could develop very well and then be able to get a job through that skill. 5 years ago I started learning everything I could about health and fitness and completely changed my body. After that I started helping other people and became a trainer. Then I started my own business helping people with fitness and health all from one skill I mastered years prior. It's hard to find what you love at such a young age but that's what I did without knowing it would turn into my primary purpose and passion alongside of making videos about the journey and process. I hope this helps!
@GoldenArmWelds
8 жыл бұрын
Hey man, this is my first watching your videos and finding your channel great video so far! So my situations is , I went to one semester of college, during that time I realize it wasn't for me so I bought a tri-plex so now I'm 20, and I'm renting two units out and I'm thinking about if I should move in to the other unit and yes I can afford it, just wanna see what you think! thanks
@monamoore5471
8 жыл бұрын
my brother lives with my mom until he was 34 :-)
@monamoore5471
7 жыл бұрын
Jonas Johnson No he gotten married
@BobbyDully__P
9 жыл бұрын
I should of left already my parents are way to strict. 20yrs old Almost done with my prereq at community college almost time for to head to the university system and still treated like im 10 cant have friends cant do nothing at all lol i get my phone taken away if im on my laptop a lot i get in trouble and im a computer science major and need to program regularly to practice. So your lucky to have nice parents that arent so strict and over religious.
@pigperson6814
8 жыл бұрын
+Pancake04 honestly that's retarded. at that point I think you can use the excuse of social norms and pressures to justify your moving out. you're an adult. In fact, you were probably an adult by the time you were 15.
@pigperson6814
8 жыл бұрын
***** well you have to go out and take that independence for yourself, right? Maybe that's what they're telling you?
@pigperson6814
8 жыл бұрын
+Pancake04 no I understand that. parents can be very guilt tripping people
@olivercram8372
8 жыл бұрын
To be honest just do the smartest thing at the time. If your at college full time and have a part time job at 20. Just live at home. If you moved out and live with just mates anything could happen. They could loose there jobs. They may move in with other mates leaving you in the shit. My advise is to get a flat when you can afford one. Don't feel pressured into moving out by other people, they are living other lives and are in different situations to you. Hope that helped
@cryptojonny6837
4 жыл бұрын
I just dont like any jobs on indeed and still live with my parents the jobs make me sick. I do deal with a few things on the side to make me income.
@mcclintona1490
5 жыл бұрын
You are wise beyond your years. Well Said sir.
@daynesgreatjourney
5 жыл бұрын
mcclintona1490 appreciate the kind words!
@ToniaNicole
5 жыл бұрын
Ooo sassy....lol just kidding love how your quick and knowledgeable w/ ur words
You sound very angry dude. It's not that serious, bro.
@DoctorRickSanchez
8 жыл бұрын
stfu fat bitchh
@monamoore5471
8 жыл бұрын
haahhaa
@hoagie7859
7 жыл бұрын
i think he's just confidently speaking and articulating.
@dkhosh7380
7 жыл бұрын
Casey Ryan hes not angry thats just how he sounds ik you may think thats odd but I'm similar I look angry alot when I'm not lol
@salkhanmurmu1730
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 16 and I want to leave home before becoming 18 ... I'm from India
@armytea1235
3 жыл бұрын
Same I am 18 next year I also want to leave my parents house
@AlexzanderDeGreat999
8 жыл бұрын
It's almost the end of 2016, I wonder if he actually lived up to his "plan"
@jeremiahlarkin1134
2 жыл бұрын
I think 🤔 it’s up to both Parties!! Some folk I know are 40 & still living at home 🏡 As long as all get along why Not!!!!!!!
@luka5426
2 жыл бұрын
Smart guy.! Hope one day i move and start my own business.
@MrPerfectloveyourself
4 жыл бұрын
The truth is the world does not respect adults who chose to remain children by living at home. You can call it saving money for a business or a house yada yada but the fact is that deep down once your 18 you need to move out and learn how to thrive as an adult because thats the way the world works. Your parents will like you more as well.
@cryptojonny6837
4 жыл бұрын
Ppl can live the way they want as adults man no duh we are adults when we are 18. However you dont know the problems that some ppl have its not easy for some to just move out plus most places are expensive these days you should know not all parents think the same. Ppl can live whatever damn life they want as long as it doesnt get them in trouble.
@MrPerfectloveyourself
4 жыл бұрын
@@cryptojonny6837 That is so wrong. This is why our generation of men are not masculine like our parents generation. These so called *men* today are chosing to remain little boys by living at home. This is why we have incels and mgtow that didn't exist a generation before us! Grow up and move out stop making excuses like the little boy in this video thats why he's so mad in his own video because he knows hes a loser staying at home lol.
@cryptojonny6837
4 жыл бұрын
@@MrPerfectloveyourself how is he a loser staying at home he wants to work on his business. If anything he is getting ahead then most ppl most places are expensive to buy anyways. If your making money in this world and helping ppl out your a already a man you do know that by moving out on your own. A person is spending alot on many things it isnt easy in most places before you know. It you will be broke and then what its better then living in the streets that's for sure.
@Ben_Dover753
8 жыл бұрын
Never!!! it's all I know anymore.
@Sulimanho
7 жыл бұрын
hold ur horse bro ,calm down take it easy, breath, life is not that complicated
@cryptojonny6837
4 жыл бұрын
Life is complicated sooner or later many jobs will be taken over by robots eventually.
@jazmin2592
7 жыл бұрын
Helpful advice. Btw, just because many successful "gurus" speak very aggressively, that doesn't mean you have to. I like your attitude, but tone it down a bit.
@daynesgreatjourney
7 жыл бұрын
Jazmin L that's my personality, hard to change that
@jazmin2592
7 жыл бұрын
daynesgreatjourney Well in that case, you'd be great in a sales job haha
@lolojacques6357
9 жыл бұрын
How much money should be saved up until you the decision of moving out is made?
@monicap3081
7 жыл бұрын
I have some mental issues and my mom kind of triggers it. I don't have a car but I can bike to work. I work at a hospital as a CNA. I'm only 18. Should I move out?
@billete37
7 жыл бұрын
Monica Therese well basically there is various things that are valuable to us its not ALL money, family is NOT everything if they are TOXIC, peace of mind is IMPORTANT, but the issue is this, even if you leave out, you have to have a free mind, i moved out and ended up taking personal baggage with me, eventually i dropped it, but you need to consider it. My personal situation i am with my parents now paying $400 in rent, i pay for all my personal expenses including school, i don't like living with my parents so im looking for a small apartment that is like $700 there are a few around me, i use to live alone and enjoyed it when i was over my family related stress but i allowed my ex leaving me to break my mindset it was my own choice to allow this i ultimately have the choice to remove from those people and those mindsets. You do to, i recommend trying to communicate with your parent if not, then you need to move out if it is TOXIC i lived in a toxic household they mostly changed but is feel uncomfortable here so im looking now im a nurse and make ok money say 2600 or more a month working 3 days a week i could work more if i choose to which i do sense i dont have anything else to do even with school, fitness and personal choirs
@hermesthegod33
7 жыл бұрын
In response to all the people hating on your attitude in your video, @daynesgreatjourney keep on grinding man! I respect your attitude very much, because I can definitely relate. I also appreciate the advice as well #MuchRespect
@daynesgreatjourney
7 жыл бұрын
chase thanks man! Means a lot and keep grinding as well!
@love2laff125
5 жыл бұрын
I like this. You understand that everyone is in a different situation & gave multiple perspectives. My situation was actually mentioned in the video. Good video! Had to like & sub ya! :)
@heyiitsnikki
7 жыл бұрын
ypu are very educational thank you for your advice you are a great guy and you are very sucessful
@eli-huyasharal3913
8 жыл бұрын
For me God is #1, Family/others #2,Then everything else.
@tinipants2
7 жыл бұрын
Gad Yisrael so ur ilusion is number one
@Lowclasswarrior778
6 жыл бұрын
Jack Saltzberg: fuck off atheist
@ashleyashleym2969
8 жыл бұрын
The reason I don't want to get "the full college expiernce" even though I can afford it is because it's not my scene. It's not fun for me. It's stressful and it's a headache I don't want. I think I have enough of a college expiernce from community college, never lived in dorms. Honestly the college expiernce in my opinion is overrated and I just don't want to do it, there's better things I could be doing with my time and money than extending my childhood. I'm an adult, I don't need to be living like a child.
@musaissac182
7 жыл бұрын
Hey I want to move out so I can get away from family. Too many problems going on, there's not much I can do. But I still want to go to college
@maurilioudave4168
7 жыл бұрын
Im 16(almost 17) currently living in mexico, but i wanna move to LA next year to have the esposare I need to be a musician what do you think, is it to soon? I am really that good, but at the same time my family is not ready to et me go from home
@samuelgilbert6359
5 жыл бұрын
ASAP
@assiltarhouni
8 жыл бұрын
what to move out. cuz fk that shit can t. wait. until i dont. have. to stay with. people that dislike me
@Estiexo
7 жыл бұрын
This advice actually helped a lot thanks
@daynesgreatjourney
7 жыл бұрын
Estie P thanks a lot!
@MrPerfectloveyourself
4 жыл бұрын
Horrible advice you need to move out when your 18 no questions needed. Everyone is an *entrepreneur* even if they are kids in adult bodies like this guy and everyone else who lives at home.
@spearmint4093
9 жыл бұрын
what kind of business do you have?
@robertpolito6139
7 жыл бұрын
The day after my parents die.
@donaldtrump3631
7 жыл бұрын
my parents just want me as a dependentt to get taxes
@Magicmike57
8 жыл бұрын
Everyone is a entrepreneur now lol.
@cryptojonny6837
4 жыл бұрын
The way the economy is now pretty bad many ppl are buying gold and silver or getting into stocks and cryptocurrency.
@zakahnlyne3166
8 жыл бұрын
This is what I needed to hear. I'm 18 turning 19 in a couple months and I'm starting College in a few more months. However, I wasn't sure if I wanted to commute from my house to the school. I'm super close with my family and I want to continue to travel during my college years. I started traveling last year during my junior year, but I wanted to live at the dorms for the college experience. Any advice on that? I thought commuting was going to suck but it does save a lot of money! One of the reasons why I wasn't sure when to move out and how is because I'm not really independent. My parents always help me out. I am however going to live with my parents since I want to be a Physician Assistant I know I'll need all the help I can get. How is your experience as a commuter? Do you help your parents out? Love your advice! Hope you can answer my question.
@zakahnlyne3166
8 жыл бұрын
*questions
@mike9077
8 жыл бұрын
What your doing is smart. I find it funny when these 18 year olds brag about moving out barely making enough money for rent living pay check to paycheck. By staying at home and going to school you will come out ahead in the end.
@billete37
7 жыл бұрын
Some people just dont have wisdom im with my parents im 24 i dont enjoy living with them personally as i enjoyed the quite freedom of living alone without having to appease my parents, i mostly stay to myself but ill probably move out i dont feel comfortable i will look for a cheaper place than i use to live at sense its a better option
@alexdecritt2691
8 жыл бұрын
I'm 18 with a baby on the way and my parents won't allow me to go to her house to see her or anything and they keep trying to force us apart to ruin our relationship and they talk shit about her family please help
@daynesgreatjourney
8 жыл бұрын
Hey Alex, that's a tough situation especially if your parents don't support you. I would sit down with your parents and express what you want and ask for support from them. Regardless of how they feel about your girls parents thats your child and you deserve to be around through everything.
@goldenstar_1007
7 жыл бұрын
Alex Decritt stop looking for your parents to support you. Take care of your baby by yourself.
@wiiiz3
7 жыл бұрын
BigSam, exactly lol, I cant believe he asked for advice for that
@tinipants2
7 жыл бұрын
Ur cute...look like a dentist ith that dentist looking chair behind u
@gourianand433
6 жыл бұрын
You should go into Consulting. :)
@ismaelramos8841
7 жыл бұрын
did you move out?
@JZEFPV
5 жыл бұрын
So, almost 4 years later, I need to know, have you moved out yet?
@daynesgreatjourney
5 жыл бұрын
JZE FPV yes lol
@JZEFPV
5 жыл бұрын
@@daynesgreatjourney awesome! Haha
@mackenziegray8946
5 жыл бұрын
Why should I move out?
@nickthompson6617
5 жыл бұрын
How about if I could just put my parents in a retirement home peace out
@ilyriico
8 жыл бұрын
For owning your bisnuess and your still living at home means your not making too much money off your bisnuess lol
@opus0872
8 жыл бұрын
he said start up, so he's probably made next to nothing, if he's made anything hrs probably reinvesting 100% of that small revenue
@tagertgibbs7493
7 жыл бұрын
theres a difference between being "blessed" and being a little boy,, take it the way you want,,, if somebody calls you spoiled,,, thats probably BECAUSE you ARE and theres nothing wrong with that,, Just dont take advantage of ppl,,, and If your convicted to Pay your own way(Like a adult) than my advice is do it,,I was hopeing you might have advice i could glean from,,but unfortunately that wasnt the case,, i hope everying goes well,,but to be frank this video was just you ranting, also you were totally off topic pretty much for the whole video
@Trophonix
7 жыл бұрын
Agreed. He was just ranting about him living at home and not talking about the actual topic.
@lorrainecouper
8 жыл бұрын
Haha I'm just a kid (11) why am I watching this?????????
@Giveupbit
8 жыл бұрын
Cause you're starting early XD
@lorrainecouper
8 жыл бұрын
yup!
@Ben_Dover753
8 жыл бұрын
Because you have a brain, continue using it!
@sammydamo
8 жыл бұрын
because you want to think forward
@lalaforeal5005
8 жыл бұрын
Is 31 too old?
@hdhdhd-4935
6 жыл бұрын
Move out now trust me it is better for u
@ducksoop.x
6 жыл бұрын
Yes
@evelyn6745
6 жыл бұрын
Lala Foreal , yes, but only if youre ready, comfortable with it, if you're earning a lot of money. l'm 41 and still at home, l now have enough for a deposit for a unit after saving for the past 22 years. So hopefully l will be moving out soon.
@bugs389
7 жыл бұрын
I can't find a hilarious comment I saw yesterday on this video. I feel like this guy got triggered and deleted it.
@ismaelramos8841
7 жыл бұрын
bugs what'd it say
@bugs389
7 жыл бұрын
This was 3 months ago but I believe it was the comment by joshua gregory, which is back again. You should be able to see it, it has 8 upvotes.
@nhadrian8494
5 жыл бұрын
I’m 14 and trying to leave it’s annoying and boring
@gabriellaurrutia90
7 жыл бұрын
I wish my son think like you 😔
@fluffylloma8266
8 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm I feel Like u should Have mor subs
@justchickenstrips
8 жыл бұрын
dude its fine as long as ur not 25 or over
@jameswiggle
8 жыл бұрын
depends. what if you are 25 and in university and are too busy to get a job
@justchickenstrips
8 жыл бұрын
***** if ur 25 in a graduate program i mean i guess its ok but moving in with some roommates would be my route in that situation
@cryptojonny6837
4 жыл бұрын
Lol like really now why do ppl think that you should move out at a certain age from your parents home. It is not easy paying bills at most places or paying rent in my opinion there's no age limit.
@mariaannathereselim6030
9 жыл бұрын
Hey Matt . I just wanted to ask a question living with you parents at age 30 is that even normal ?
@georget.khumalo4365
8 жыл бұрын
+Maria Anna Therese Lim #Hopeless 😨
@sammydamo
8 жыл бұрын
no,get out
@nicholasmcdaniel5840
9 жыл бұрын
But where do I go if I move out at 14
@daynekamela
9 жыл бұрын
Nicholas McDaniel that's a tough one Nicholas. I would crash at a friends and get a job to save money for a while.
@jameswhite3415
9 жыл бұрын
You cant move out at 14 unless something aweful is going on or you can asked to go to foster care. If you move out your oarents can call the cops on you the cops can artlrest uou make you come back home ect
@FirebrandF5
8 жыл бұрын
Under a bridge
@thatguy-qb6up
6 жыл бұрын
Sorry but family is not number 1. Honestly only family I need is close friends.
@daynesgreatjourney
6 жыл бұрын
lildevil its all predicated on your personal values. Yours might not be however mine is.
@cryptojonny6837
4 жыл бұрын
Parents are the best advice some friends end up doing drugs and drinking that can end up getting you in trouble for many years you can't trust most friends.
@FavioHDTV
7 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO
@jsjjdjdjjejx9177
8 жыл бұрын
I'm moving out when I'm 16.
@FirebrandF5
8 жыл бұрын
Lol better make sure you have a nice cardboard box to take with you, kid because that's what you'll be living in under a bridge.
@erinwalker3843
6 жыл бұрын
Jsjjd Jdjjejx I'm moving out at 15
@user-ey1bk5gm9k
6 жыл бұрын
Lmao!
@collinmilam5691
6 жыл бұрын
Jsjjd Jdjjejx I’m moving out when I turn 8
@BluGuyMyco
6 жыл бұрын
Dude, calm down, you act like people care if you live with your parents still. Stop being so defensive lol
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