My motto. If u ever leave me for any reason stay gone and live with that decision for the rest of your life lol. There will be no reentry. 🙅🏽♀️🤓
@steelesharpensteele6252
8 ай бұрын
Facts
@observer4497
7 ай бұрын
❤ Truth. Exactly what I said..
@andnowyouknow3363
3 ай бұрын
Very well said. They made their bed so let them lie in it. As for us, they opened space for someone better.
@louiseelliott6404
Жыл бұрын
I had so much to offer. It’s done. It’s over. I walked away. I’m no contact. The End. I can’t accept any hoovers. It would be emotional suicide.
@louiseelliott6404
Жыл бұрын
@caligirl9403 I get that. I gave far too much and paid the price literally. Now we’re gone. In our power and back in control. We keep going every day.
@rollingphoenix5816
Жыл бұрын
I no longer have any animosity towards them. They opened my eyes and made me stronger. Finally on a clear path. Thank you for these videos.
@Amazingday22
7 ай бұрын
I had the some situation last year they made me see the truth and reality and more wiser for the future in 2024🎉
@aaronrichey583
10 ай бұрын
She would tell me that I didn't enhance her life all the time, that she could easily find someone else. ☹️ The devaluation was awful.
@SagittariusBabe87
8 ай бұрын
That's horrible, what a bitch! The devaluation usually is so horrible. The ex would devalue me & make comments about my breasts. I have a very nice body, but he couldn't help but make rude, dismissive comments. They can't help themselves it seems. They love to devalue. They must devalue them to feel better & on top. Go riddance✌️
@tpa617
8 ай бұрын
lol, when really it was the other way round
@elaineclewley4704
Жыл бұрын
Let them live in regret 😊
@smarternow
9 ай бұрын
After 16 years, marrying him, no sex, he was cheating, lying all the time and I could careless who h😂 is with, where he goes AND I never want to see his face again. No re-entry.
@jeanpaul4100
Жыл бұрын
I have dated 3 of these creatures. All in the last 5 years. The first was a shock. Then I knew what was up and was able to deal with the other two.
@kimkim9838
6 ай бұрын
Yeah the first one almost destroyed me off but I start to caught on with the second and the third was the worst of them but I was also becoming my strongest by that point so it was difficult but easy at the same time.
@joanolisa1
Жыл бұрын
Mine made me physically and emotionally sick. I was a wreck 😢 I couldn’t understand what was going on. Lord help me never to return.
@donnadaniel4448
Жыл бұрын
I have nothing better to do than listen to your videos ❤
@rhyannjoedan
Жыл бұрын
A fool is someone who will not learn by instruction but only consequence. Dont go back to the narcissist. Theres some instruction. If you like pain, then be a fool and go back.
@PatrickRascon
7 ай бұрын
She sold my are home now I'm living in a camper. 38 years with the demon.
@user-nc1rf5if1u
2 ай бұрын
same here, I had to leave my home and everything I loved, the worst being my little dog, but if I did not go then I really think I might not be here today, but you know what, you cannot put a price on peace and calm, people think I am a loner because they don't know what I went through as he is a covert, he still tries pulling me back, and I have to be civel because of our child together, but his days of manipulating me are far gone, now I know what he is and how they work,
@cynthiafortier2540
8 ай бұрын
Your awesome Joe, best voice ever for this subject. I could listen to you for hours, very calming. Thanks sir!!
@exodus1314
10 ай бұрын
Your videos are really helpful!! I love you delivery, and it helped me stay away from the. "oh I'm sorry, you are my soulmate, blah blah. 2 years no contact finally feel better. We were engaged for a few years, she goes Facebook official with new guy (has a domestic violence) now sends me a letter for a sit down. Tossed it in the garbage thanks to you! Old me would have jumped right back in!
@scottoz7891
8 ай бұрын
They ARE so weak.
@IsabellaPiesch
9 ай бұрын
They want you back because they want to use you further - sure not because they love you. So what to do if you respect yourself - don´t let them back. I let them use other supplies and I pity them. Really I do...
@tammybrasel2951
Жыл бұрын
Joe, you are spot on about this. I appreciate your videos and sharing your knowledge. I had married a narcissist, not even realizing that existed. 21 years ago I divorced him. Til today when I would cross his path he would tell me his regret! Now my Daughter's husband is doing same thing, regret, because I was good to all of them, my ex, Daughter and her husband but I've had to "gray rock" or "no contact" for my own health and peace of mind. You are awesome in explaining just how the narcissist works. I'm learning everyday how to deal with them and keep my life instead of giving it away. Thank you!!!
@heytheycallmeconnie
Жыл бұрын
Get😊w
@cajuncrackerranch7990
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏 Joe. You are an inspiration and an incredible voice of reason. Thank you for all of your work and contributions to this subject matter. Sincerely,
@icalotdonthide2646
Жыл бұрын
I like your voice, it's soothing!!😊😊
@joebhouse
Жыл бұрын
😘
@Flips44
8 ай бұрын
Ik know this is true cuz my ex narc would cry about her exes from years ago. Only difference now is I’m the ex
@user-cy9in5ry9c
Жыл бұрын
Great insight. He tried to Hoover me for 8 months after I went gray rock. I believe he is love bombing someone new now. I hope he has given up on hoovering me. I’m so much better that I detached
@ainahaga
11 ай бұрын
Has he hoovered you again?
@beemonroe4330
Жыл бұрын
Love your videos, they’re great. Love you Quora contributions as well. Appreciated. 💯
@Sally-ih6ls
4 ай бұрын
It’s true, our AC did that, left us, came back after 1.5 years, all great, then devalue and discard after 4 months…not sure how to handle it next time…she’s married to a narc so she’s completely changed
@klyn9619
8 ай бұрын
And WE support you and your AMAZING insight, knowledge and powerful healings!
@lioubovgrant1935
Жыл бұрын
Meditation (by your voice) and education ( by contents ) at same time. 😊Life is Good 😉!!! Thank you kindly Joe. 🤗❤
@joebhouse
Жыл бұрын
🥰
@lesley_lezley
3 ай бұрын
I hate that we work in the same building, and every single time we pass each other in the passages, he greets me. I walk right past him like he doesn't exist.
@Gwendeline
2 ай бұрын
He’s as happy as a clam back in his mothers bed while she bakes his bean
@Hiddenplace414
7 ай бұрын
You have been helping me so much to be understood and heard and understand this. It's been extremely traumatic. My second narcissist I dated but this one was much nicer and helped financially .but there was alot of triangulation. I can hardly eat for 5 days now cause my stomach feels like it's been on aRollercoaster. They really screw up your physical well being too wow .
@nilastewart7537
8 ай бұрын
We appreciate you for giving us knowledge and healing and giving us awareness❤
@trinitristant3527
6 ай бұрын
I just subscribed to your channel a couple days ago. Your channel even reaches Switzerland where I live (my usual language is French). The contents of your videos are so good that this channel really deserves to grow. It is helpful in spreading high quality information about narcissism. I'll try to remember leaving comments now and then to help the channel grow and I hope other persons will too 🙂 Thank you Joe ❤
@joebhouse
6 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support! ❤
@belindaputnam7353
6 ай бұрын
You are God sent.
@deb2319
7 ай бұрын
Its child hood trauma both ways- all ways. We decide what we are willing to put up with ...choices, chances & changes... Joe B- You really articulate the details and your tone, pauses and sighs 😇 I am binge watching your videos. And after I am moving on to living my best life again:)
@christinehow3595
Ай бұрын
Great channel Jo . Your so right in what you say . But great when they are gone !!! Won't ever take them back !!
@Tokolos
Жыл бұрын
11:01 running a program. unplug from the matrix or whatever you want to call it, and break the cycle.
@Gwendeline
5 ай бұрын
My narc said he only treated bad to play out all my other crappy relationships cause he said I told him to wtf
@GaryRSpicer
6 ай бұрын
I love these topics. I'm dealing with a covert narcissist ex who is pregnant. I don't even know where to begin but something just keeps telling me to just stop trying to communicate with someone who discarded me especially when there was never healthy communication when we were together. I've only tried breaking no contact to ask about the pregnancy/future with the baby and how I should show up. But clearly there is no reciprocating from her in any way. I'll gladly accept any good or decent advice. Thanks.
@brotherjason8635
8 ай бұрын
Binge watching 😎💯
@mariannekoroleva6495
Жыл бұрын
💯%!! Real information!! Thank You!!:))!!👍🍀🏵️🎁✨🌈!!
@SoniaProteau-cj6tk
11 ай бұрын
It s a blessing to know the truth ❤
@Gwendeline
2 ай бұрын
How is it I feel the weaker loser while they skip away with out any loss
@corneliamsomi1262
8 ай бұрын
Thanks, Joe, I manifes this one 😊 I didn't really search for it it just appeared on my screen, I the fun thing is I needed it the most. I have been in no contact with my nac husband over two months. We're been married for less than two years but I couldn't take it anymore ( discarded, silence treatment, staving me intimacy needs act.). One day he decided to put his hand on me and I left that night. He started hoovaring, accepting it for couple of days, as a result I have my important documents I left that night. I know can move on peaceful and successful with him.
@markh4926
Жыл бұрын
She definitely hovered me. I was calling it the pull and push and I fell for it about 3 times only to be made a fool of. I'm sure she enjoyed that and wiping the smile from my face, I think she planned that from the first day. There are two flying monkeys she uses, she is their aa sponsor and I'm in aa also. She has blocked me because I wouldn't bow to her and say, "Danielle you are my inspiration, you make me want to reach new heights, you are my hero." People really say that shit to her on fb and it's gag me stuff, but she eats it up and blocks me when I don't. Really dumb behavior but I know now.
@ninath13
11 ай бұрын
That's what they do plan to hurt you they know it when they meet that one day they will
@danasmith8390
8 ай бұрын
That demo God status can also be referred to as being in psychosis
@Ms_SexxyDiva504
6 ай бұрын
💫My only main focus is on me and my peace and happiness. Once I've given my all and it wasn't appreciated and I was taken for granted and used and pushed to the side as if neither me nor my feelings no longer mattered and used for his door mat and triangulated with other women and the lies and emotional and mental head games. The ex narc is a zero factor in my life. I could care less about my ex narc nor his feelings. Good riddance👍🏾. Nola9Ward ⚜️⚜️
@ninath13
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 👍👍👍❤
@LoveLess--
7 ай бұрын
I love watching (listening) to your videos! Its my nightly ritual, especially since your voice is relaxing 😌
@paulacarr2759
7 ай бұрын
Your amazing , you make so much sense , xx love your videos
@dawnhandelman308
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🕊❤️🙏
@mostHigh23
8 ай бұрын
We appreciate You Joe❤
@chilloften
Жыл бұрын
Ewe, except a Hoover for the lesson. This lesson indeed needs to be learnt. I wish it were taught instead.
@Gwendeline
2 ай бұрын
Where’s the redemption here for people that were good but are left to blame ourselves for attracting these evil beings because we have more to learn because we too are weaker
@Gwendeline
5 ай бұрын
I just learnt why I was asked by my ex narc if I had a harem n I thought he meant something else as a joke
@bonnieadams5516
7 ай бұрын
Yes, you help me a lot, especially your voice. 😉
@meheganmehegan342
7 ай бұрын
Well said mate 👏 highly enjoyed this video upload thankyou.
@scottoz7891
8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@DZ-jz8bj
4 ай бұрын
I just wanna know the truth 😔Are they really regretting it or no? Many people say that narcissists don't regret leaving you or discarding you, since they easily find or have another supplies. But I kinda feel it is a bit too much "superpower" to be able for them to just go without regret. Like, I don't think its true they don't feel regert but I never got the proof about it. Narcissist told me he doesn't feel regret at all. But since narcissists lie, how can I know the truth? Can someone else share their experience or idk... ?
@user-nc1rf5if1u
2 ай бұрын
can only comment on my experience, but my ex covert did have true regrets, not sure what he would call them but it sounded like regrets, but they were fleeting moments, and it was people that were good people, one being his stepdad, another being his best friend, he did tell me things out the blue, and later deny telling me, but as well as the regrets the other thing he told me was that he felt like he was always walking one step behind everybody else, as if he could not keep pace, and he felt like a chameleon, but it never stopped him doing the things he did, and when I say he felt regret don't mix that up with guilt as he never felt that, I think the regrets were, because of his behavior they vanished from his life
@DZ-jz8bj
2 ай бұрын
@@user-nc1rf5if1u Thank you so much for sharing this. As I was reading your comment of your experience, it came to my mind that they are maybe trying to "shut down" any feelings of regret. That, it appears in them for a little moment but they immediately shut it down. Can't accept they messed up something for themself probably. Idk. I sometimes gets these visions in my mind. It was said that they dont regret losing that person, but more likely they "regret" what they had from that person - that they dont have that supply (attention, money, energy) anymore.
@darylgreen3881
Жыл бұрын
🙏💯🙏🤠
@Gwendeline
2 ай бұрын
How is it I feel the weaker loser while they skip away with out any loss
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