Relationships with narcissists typically begin with a whirlwind romance. You will experience a level of intimacy you have never experienced before, as if you are soulmates. They will appear to be companions who worship the ground you walk on. It can be challenging to judge a narcissist's turbulent emotions if you're in a relationship with one. You're together for a moment, and then they dump you for no apparent reason. It may look appealing for the first few weeks or months, but after months of being with them, the Narcissist's mask begins to slip away, and they reveal their true self. Click Here to Subscribe: kzitem.info/rock/Nf93_WzIGLOV1C4PDGjrQg Video Time Line Introduction 00:00 When Will a Narcissist Leave You? 00:40 Number 1 When You Expose Them To Themselves. 00:44 Number 2 When You Start To Be Difficult, Not Wanting What They Want. 01:33 Number 3 When You Establish Boundaries. 02:32 Number 4 When You Are In A Difficult Situation. 03:31 Number 5 When You Are Depressed And Sick. 04:39 Number 6 When They Feel Like They Have Nothing Else To Gain From Being With You 05:41 Number 7 When You Start To Be Constant And Look Natural. 06:59 Number 8 When They Got Bored And Found A New Supply Replacement. 07:47 #spotthenarcissist #narcissism #narcissist
@munnalalkamlallu9625
2 жыл бұрын
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@munnalalkamlallu9625
2 жыл бұрын
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@munnalalkamlallu9625
2 жыл бұрын
Leaves from here
@Mia-zb2xr
2 жыл бұрын
i want revenge. i want to inflict pain on the narc..
@tammyfitzgerald5336
Жыл бұрын
Devil in a human shell 🙏🏽🙌💯grab the Bible’s 🙏🏽😊
@exsalafi393
2 жыл бұрын
Dear Empaths, once you know you are dealing with a narc, get out, stay out, don't turn back and cut them off all social media and find genuine, honest and real people who treat you well.
@spotthenarcissist
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Exsalafi
@vsrc8977
2 жыл бұрын
Just left a Narc! And staying out for good!
@mummyd1990
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true.
@royferguson3909
2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. this message needs to be shouted out . respect , no need to fight, ... ....flight is the only way . leave these toxic people to their own stuff. now we know .
@royferguson3909
2 жыл бұрын
@@vsrc8977 make sure you do , he be love bombing you by now and promising to change. don't be someone else's camillion. morphine into who you would have been before you got with mister/mrs toxic . you will feel re-born.....after the emotional pain subsided...and it will 😊 😃 days ahead
@oliveo2013
2 жыл бұрын
Anytime a narcissist leaves you for any reason its a blessing and a chance to have a new life that is based on the genuine rather than the fake.
@twovirginiacats3753
2 жыл бұрын
That is the way I looked at it too!
@zandilegcusa6963
Жыл бұрын
Well said
@drumdad54sdl47
2 жыл бұрын
Your best plan of action is to leave them first. Go no contact and live your best life away from their toxicity.
@kimanderson416
2 жыл бұрын
The only way to get back at or truly hurt the narcissist is to live a good life, find success, happiness, and real love. Every real smile or your unabashed laughter slices them to their core.
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Kim, how's your day going with you?
@show_me_your_kitties
2 жыл бұрын
You wish lol
@show_me_your_kitties
2 жыл бұрын
Narcs dont care if you are happy and laughing. If they do care, they aren't a narcissist.
@kimanderson416
2 жыл бұрын
@@show_me_your_kitties you missed the point
@kimanderson416
2 жыл бұрын
Grow up if you can
@t2dwarrior209
2 жыл бұрын
You can do everything for a narcissist but when you need them they will abandon you like they never met you.
@mummyd1990
2 жыл бұрын
My ex girlfriend did all the love bombing at first,then after around 2 years found out she was inviting her ex for tea when I was not there and she was always on her phone,she turned nasty and it took me along time to work out she was a total narccsist,so she dumped me to go back to her ex,then after 4 months she said she wanted me back and that she loved me so like a fool I believed her and went back,then after 6 months it all started again,constantly on her phone,lying,cheating and saying proper nasty evil stuff to me and she dumped me again,learned my lesson the hard way,so have just moved on and will never speak to her ever again,she has tried to text me and call me but just ignore her now,thank you for this upload.
@seaofmadness2622
2 жыл бұрын
You did the right thing! Take care of yourself!
@rachgrigg2447
2 жыл бұрын
Like you read my mind reading this 😅
@bam8039
2 жыл бұрын
Glad you had the strength to get away and stay away. Narcs are very wishy washy because they cannot be satisfied. The only thing that satisfies them is getting their way and you being blind to their bad behaviors.
@valeriedoyle3630
2 жыл бұрын
Omg why would you get back with someone like her, it sounds horrible the way she treated you, and cheating, on you too, hope you meet some really good and treats you great,
@bobbywood8710
2 жыл бұрын
These type (things), all run the same game!
@karishort1891
2 жыл бұрын
Each time I brought up an issue, such as him screaming at me, IT WAS MY PROBLEM NOT HIS. I ditched him. Finally...
@victoriousjoy9338
2 жыл бұрын
Good!!
@83sammygirl
2 жыл бұрын
oh yes the screaming he would tell me I brought it out of him and he was ONLY like this with me even though ive witnessed his rages with his own family 🙄
@karishort1891
2 жыл бұрын
@@83sammygirl I left almost 7 months ago and my life has changed so much for the better! No more lies and bs drama etc .. it is PEACEFUL ❤️
@83sammygirl
2 жыл бұрын
@@karishort1891 Good for you girl mine is too now. No ones called me any sort of nasty names in three months so thats been nice 😂😊
@karishort1891
2 жыл бұрын
@@83sammygirl awesome ❤️ we get to actually live life 💕
@luckycoady
2 жыл бұрын
The only thing is that if you have been in a relationship with a narcissist and if you have been through this it can be hard to adjust in future relationships. When you start dating again you start to think is this person a narcissist too based on their behaviour? You are on alert to everything. You fall into old habits and try to give the next person everything to satisfy their needs. The best medicine is to take time out. Preferably a couple of years and use that to heal and build your life and your strength. Don’t enter a relationship until you feel you can survive on your own too. Best of luck to everyone.
@karishort1891
2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with your opinion!!! Heal before moving on into a new relationship!!!
@cathyfournier9454
2 жыл бұрын
Been in one....never recognized it for over a year until he cheated on me and then tried to blame me because he was hurt !! I loved him so deeply and its still hard to ignore him but am finally getting a hard heart towards him.....soon I know I won't feel anything I see him for what he is and how he is thanks to all these awareness videos....Thankyou for all the great help !!!!
@yaak6287
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I left my narc of 12 years ..i am a nurse and am meeting Anicet people but am just scare of them .this is sad . I can't trust them am so down. I need some time off
@luckycoady
2 жыл бұрын
@@yaak6287 I do wish you all the best. One thing I do know about narcissists is that they don’t want to see you happy or with anyone else. Just take it easy and try not to rush into things. I know it is hard because when you meet them you just want to show them who you are but trust is a hard thing at first. Maybe take it easy and enjoy the time you spend with that other person but don’t commit for maybe a while. It’s hard to let your boundaries down but the right person will wait for you. Delete and block everything from your ex. Leave no memory in your phone house or anywhere and start loving yourself and feeling that you are worthy of love. Take care of yourself first.
@Pistonhammer
2 жыл бұрын
Make sure that the next time you date after coming out of a Narcissistic Relationship , which out for these 3 stages , But espacially watch out for STAGE 1 as that is your one and only saving grace !!! Stage 1 > The Idealization stage aka Love Bombing , Stage 2 > Devaluation Stage , Stage 3 > The Discard Stage. Best of luck in your road to recovery after surviving Narcissistic Abuse.
@today8488
2 жыл бұрын
Wish I knew more about this a couple of years back. Really went through alot not knowing the mess I was being dragged into. Videos like this are so helpful for the people going through things like this!
@charlottemeredith9215
2 жыл бұрын
Yes they are thank u but everyone needs to stand together and do something about these things they can't be human they have no heart
@TDOGG10210
2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@2Bad4YOUuu
2 жыл бұрын
I think it's obvious enough to all of us here, but never reproduce with a narcissistic person!! For the kid's sake 🙏
@JohnJohn-lu7wd
2 жыл бұрын
Making yourself the centre of your universe is exactly what makes a narcissist! Be careful not to become a narcissist while trying to get rid of one. Continue with your empathic nature but learn how not to 'cast your pearls before swine or give what is holy to dogs'. The problem was NEVER your empathy but your lack of distinction between sheep and wolves. You interacted with a predator as you would interact with a pet. Now you know the difference. Understand that you are developing rather than be ashamed of what transpired. Whatever you do, do not become a narcissist. That is not who you are. However beautiful a tiger looks, it can only be safely viewed when caged.
@show_me_your_kitties
2 жыл бұрын
Oh Jesus christ are you also afraid of the dark? You're scared of your own self 🤣
@show_me_your_kitties
2 жыл бұрын
You sound ridiculous 🤣🤣🤣
@JohnJohn-lu7wd
2 жыл бұрын
@@show_me_your_kitties Caution is not fear. Fools are ever confident, the wise learn. Its a learning curve.
@JohnJohn-lu7wd
2 жыл бұрын
@@show_me_your_kitties Truth does.
@bobbijeanschnable3513
2 жыл бұрын
They leave when they've depleted you completely
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Jean, how's your day going with you?
@kericaswell6084
2 жыл бұрын
💯 percent. You have to rebuild yourself completely.
@lilhimer3361
2 жыл бұрын
Either that or they threaten and torment you until you flee. So you DO, and never look back. Document with THEIR OWN MESSAGES. SCREEN SHOT THEM. RECORD THEM. VIDEO THEM. If they try to find you, unblock them for a moment and send them one of their most damning texts, and block them again. They will go away. Why? Because they are two year old cowards and are terrified. Remove every good thing from a person, and what is left is a Narcissist.
@SRTsoulsessions
2 жыл бұрын
The discard is the narcissist #1 go to when you as the empath have set firm boundaries. You know you have stepped into the emerged empath when you get the ultimate discard. Bravo
@grandmabubba1397
2 жыл бұрын
Is emerged empath a decent title? I would think super empath would be the highest rank.
@SRTsoulsessions
2 жыл бұрын
@@grandmabubba1397 that sounds great for sure. Emerged Empath is what my therapist uses… I like Bad ASS empath too… that sounds good, also 💯
@royferguson3909
2 жыл бұрын
this information is golden. I have learnt from this,hugely. The greatest tip is to just, leave the narcissist and continue with life. Don't confront them, because they are the best bullshiters and lairs . Not worth the heads pace, get away and discover your own inner smile 😊 Don't give them any more fuel . happiness is just around your corner . ☮ ☯️ ❤ will be restored to you
@Pistonhammer
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for that , espacally that last part
@etaokha4164
2 жыл бұрын
Exposing them opens a wound. And slowly they start leaving. My ex use to call me "stubborn" because he could not control me 😂. Good he left
@craig7736
2 жыл бұрын
i went out with two narcissists in my life and they left me with out warning. i learnt my lesson and i know the red flags. never again.
@agumajoy4783
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I went through in a narcissist husband I curse the day I met him.
@kathleendubois7128
2 жыл бұрын
For me too. Wish I had never met him
@danacooper3646
2 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard when she said they'll try to replace you with someone famous etc 😂. Nope. He downgraded back to a homeless, crackhead, psycho ex 😂. He got what he gives 😜
@tam.s..9131
2 жыл бұрын
When you tell the truth...
@mightymouse1005
2 жыл бұрын
When you call then in their lies and tell them they're NOT worth what they demand because they demand more than they give.
@munnalalkamlallu9625
2 жыл бұрын
Apple every one cleared as arly as posible
@pocahontas4583
2 жыл бұрын
If you still offer some sort of “supply” they’ll never leave.
@sparkleypegs8350
2 жыл бұрын
unless they find a BETTER supply. Then they leave you in the dust.
@nancyk7954
2 жыл бұрын
@@sparkleypegs8350 So what if they leave you. Count your blessings. This is not a contest. If it was a contest and the narc left, you won. Get over it. Let the next one take the prize. You know what they're going to get. Figure out what your problem is and why you want to play this game with the narc. Fix yourself.
@juliejulie5604
2 жыл бұрын
Yes I believe so!
@ma.consuelovillafania1742
2 жыл бұрын
True..
@moniqaf
2 жыл бұрын
The only thing worse than the one that got away is the one that won't go away
@gregphillips6434
2 жыл бұрын
This video perfectly explains the Narcissist way of life. Sad and scary people!
@simplyrise5217
2 жыл бұрын
Short version. The narcissist is the DEVIL IN HUMAN FORM!!!!
@amywilliams952
2 жыл бұрын
The devil is something you are afraid to see your shadows, the real you .
@cherimalmquist5577
2 жыл бұрын
@@amywilliams952 That is another one Satan's lies......He IS the father of lies of course. Not nice to put that onto the victim.
@amywilliams952
2 жыл бұрын
@@cherimalmquist5577 you don’t understand. It’s not about religion beliefs , I’m being a psychology theory which Satan is a word to use to create fears , it’s easy to blame on that guy . I’m sorry you don’t view the same. I’m not blaming the victim , I’m speaking the truth that many won’t look deeply in themselves . Obviously this may sound confusing which it’s not your path , please respect on my opinions. it’s not worth the time and energy to judge me. Have a lovely day
@firewilson8056
2 жыл бұрын
Why expose them? They can become violent and even kill you depending on how angry they are when you criticize them and they aren't going to change anyhow
@invisible9455
2 жыл бұрын
so true. for example a criminal, paranoid one who walks around with a knife 24/7. Just go full no contact.
@alsalazar6502
Жыл бұрын
They should be eliminated. Why run? I'm confronting her, corner her, and watch her squirm. They keep hurting people because they think that they can get away with all this damage they caused us. They should be stopped. Watch them squirm, quietly, calmly like they taught us here.
@lajimolala4968
2 жыл бұрын
My coworker is a narc. She got mad, then insult and scolded me after I set up bounderies. For real, narcs really like to cross boundaries! She told me and other coworkers if I'm a difficult person, not a team player, arrogant and dumb! It's getting more disgusting when some coworkers instantly believe in her dirty mouth.
@victoriousjoy9338
2 жыл бұрын
Why did the narcissist cross the road? Because he thought it was a boundary.
@Megdracula
2 жыл бұрын
Happened to me at work. I got fired on my day off too bc of it. My manager hated me clearly. Never knew why. I always did as I was supposed to do. Did find out I have adhd but I never didn’t finish my work or reject anything asked of me just needed specific instruction on new things so I knew I was doing it correctly.
@kericaswell6084
2 жыл бұрын
I'm dealing with the same thing at work. It's very difficult I know. I'm sorry you are dealing with that too.
@rogelionuno8017
2 жыл бұрын
The narcissist will leave you when you have no money Lol
@fab3laundry
2 жыл бұрын
Ignoring a narcissist can lead to severe abuse even attempting to kill you. They are dangerous af.
@fab3laundry
2 жыл бұрын
@@keithclark486 sorry to hear that. Glad you survived such a horrendous attack. I hope the perpetrator was held accountable.
@djpacoelfuerte9531
2 жыл бұрын
Only an overt not a covert narc
@TheBakingGirlShow
2 жыл бұрын
Thats not narcissist. That’s psychopath
@fab3laundry
2 жыл бұрын
@@djpacoelfuerte9531 true
@djpacoelfuerte9531
2 жыл бұрын
@@fab3laundry a covert would use passive agresión and get revenge. They probably would love bomb You then when You give in, they Will then get revenge by ignoring You back. Which Will cause You to get angry and the cycle continues
@annsimon4004
2 жыл бұрын
I was raised by my grandmother my father and step grandfather and 11 uncles and 13 aunts so I knew what a good relationship is what a God fearing man is I know how a good man conduct a relationship and I caught him in 2 lies the day we met.
@dawnserrano737
2 жыл бұрын
When you challeng them..
@Amara.Bayarm
2 жыл бұрын
You will be showered by gift and care and then suddenly withdraw from you to feel power over you. They are both narcissistic.
@robertgriffin445
2 жыл бұрын
I was with my ex narc girlfriend was alcoholic on top of that. Yes, everything was wonderful. I told her I wasn’t sure about kids and she good with at the time. We had our issues but nothing that I could handle them at that point. Her drinking was getting on my nerves. She was also illegally here in US. Which made me worry cause she was driving. She would give off mix messages she wants a family and the next I want a motorcycle. I was want like do you want. We’re going out for 4 to 5 months. Then she past a remark we have not tried to have kids. When we had sex but I would pull out. I was sure what kind of mother make, her health and financial. I raised my son on my own and I’m not doing it again. So, we went to her Aunts wedding had a great time. Then I brought up getting engaged to her on our 1 year anniversary which was this past March and talked about set dates in June 2022. We had hard trying to find church , reception hall do to COVID. At that point she getting aggravated. Then my son & parents are like we like her but isn’t a little early. So she asked me how really felt I told her it’s to early. There small events and issues I’m leaving that opened my eyes. She didn’t like my answer she went to a liquor store bought whiskey and came home to have temper tantrum. Made a mess and slept on the couch. I brought back to bed and cleaned up the mess all before I went to work. That weekend was normal. She talked to heron Sunday and brought up what happened with temper tantrum she went shh. Then I knew what I was up against and that I was the bad guy. She’s a live in care giver. So, spends the week at clients house and comes home. Spend the weekend at my house. Thursday I left work early from not feeling well. That night we got into blow up fight over the phone. She told she wanted all her stuff. I’m like ok. I did exactly what she wanted. She came to pick up her stuff she said really. Almost she was bluffing and called her bluff. I called off from work Friday I was sick. She shows up to apologize and told me I look like shit and wants to talk about the wedding. I didn’t feel dealing with any of it and wasn’t thinking straight. She told me whatever she thought I wanted to hear. She wanted to talk my parents. So, they come over and she told my mom something different then she told me earlier. She told she was ok with 2023 and told my mom that your son agreed 2022. Of course she put on show and why is it always my fault. Then came the crazy emails. I told how I felt about her and that she had issues. She sent me angry emails and then one she was sorry and didn’t mean it. I never replied after that one. I was just tired outright. I remember her to talking her Aunt in Ireland the Aunt you better keep this guy he’s good one but don’t let your negativity ruin it. That sums are whole relationship. She said someone said this or that but it was her putting words in other peoples mouths. Yes, it hurts caused I loved her so much and I wanted something special with her. Honestly, I’m better off with out her.
@Young_Savage_904
2 жыл бұрын
She wanted to try for a kid and wanted to rush the marriage? Could it be for citizenship? Or it could be because she wanted to lock you down as quickly as possible.
@Ania-cd2sh
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew all this before I got involved with my ex right after my divorce…..what a mess that relationship was and I thought my ex husband had problems…I actually walked into a worse relationship right after
@arthurlangille4604
2 жыл бұрын
Was told once that I could find a way to shove an elephant up a fly's ass. Meaning I never give up. Always thinking there is a way. Definition of insanity is doing something over an over but expecting something different to happen. Relationships are an investment. The more time and energy you put into them the more you try to keep. They know that. Like digging a hole they will help you dig so you are in to deep just to walk away. You keep trying. But sooner or later you see you have tried everything, more than once. When you don't cave to the silent treatment and they realize you aren't going to. They quickly degrade into a psychotic mess. You are banished. They could not hate you more. They move on quickly to whatever sources they have lined up. Of course you are wondering what the hell just happened and what did I do? The 20 year relationship ends the same as the 20 week. The only difference is the investment. How deep a hole were you in.
@mariestevenson9459
Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe I’ve been with this man for over 40 years and am not just see he’s a narcissist
@fab3laundry
2 жыл бұрын
They leave when u you have nothing left for them to take. Or you force them.
@heartsquaremusic2953
2 жыл бұрын
Once you know enough, you realize that this is what hypergamy is built upon. And, hypergamy is the end all be all of how we are structured to function with others; ultimately
@helenduffy6642
Жыл бұрын
I never knew what a Narcissist was until a year ago. I have been married for 52yrs. I got blamed for everything bad cook,mother wife. I never knew what I had done wrong. Disgusted by sick people now it makes sense as my narc hated going to see someone unwell or even in hospital. I was ill and slept for 2 days and he didn't think that was unusual. No drink nothing he didn't care. I got a lot of verbal abuse, red flags but I thought it was his alcoholism. He was married to his alcohol then dog then computer where did I fit in. My whole married life has been a lie. Playing the victim pretending he is sick was the last straw, now my eyes are open wide to these talks. Thank you for your help.
@frainer
2 жыл бұрын
Drop out any 2 of 3 items and a Narc. will leave you, Money, Sex, Supply,
@cherimalmquist5577
2 жыл бұрын
Yes !!
@dootscoot1444
2 жыл бұрын
Facts it’s that simple
@steveconn
2 жыл бұрын
I try to remedy as many of these faults within myself as I can, though my emotional reserves as a caregiver can be limited.
@stephaniebaer2933
2 жыл бұрын
They leave when you are drained and have nothing else to offer. When they suck all of the blood out of you. Then they leave you at your worst. Then punish you.
@EllieM_Travels
2 жыл бұрын
A narcissist is capable of letting their target empath go voluntarily, but it feels like death for them do to that. If you are that empath, you should feel as loved by that narc as they can possibly love. Feel good about that and don’t try to cause them more injury. Whatever you do, don’t think it’s a good idea to rub your new love in their face or toy with their emotions. They might change their mind about you.
@ClusterBombed01
2 жыл бұрын
They leave when there’s nothing left, no money, no attention and lots of contempt.
@lovelight5407
2 жыл бұрын
They are always sneaking about winking at strangers 😉😉🤣🤣🤫🤫🤫they are touched in the head ,they are EVERYTHING YOU DO NOT WANT "RUN" when the dirty narcs are near 🤣🤣
@voulapetrakos7508
2 жыл бұрын
It wasn’t a few weeks or months it was years 🤥💔🤮💯
@troyannbladsacker1811
2 жыл бұрын
42 for me. Discarded last year. Don't know why. I am disabled and feel that had a lot to do with it. Also he inherited a large amount of money so he didn't need me anymore. I feel like I will never be the same. Been diagnosed with PTSD from the trauma of him abandoning me far from home. I wish I would have known about narcissistic disorder years ago. I am 68. My whole life pretty much wasted. Very sad.
@nunyabiz6588
2 жыл бұрын
I had someone for a short time I believe to be a narcissist or at least a very toxic person leave me alone when I didn't do what she wanted me to do. She couldn't get away quick enough but not before she told people at a party about something I was supposed to have done (that never happened) that could've ruined my life. I realized I had to stay away from her. It's not even possible to think of a future relationship with her. I never had so much peace and quiet since her departure.
@debraannedimezza8075
Жыл бұрын
I guess I should be blessed. I never got the hovering or the phone calls to come back. I’ll change after he threw me out that was it. He went on with his life my last narcissist to this day, harasses me two different types of narcissist and 35 years no wonder I’m in therapy
@alcudiababe1
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah because your boundaries means to them they have to fight for you to for your submission. Boundaries means to them being told what to do and they're only comfortable telling you what they expect to do they want to do what they want to do and get away with it
@degraham9198
2 жыл бұрын
The problem is they don't leave. They swing back through your life periodically to try to destroy it. Get a restraining order from the court, and call po po as soon as you see their car.
@MidwestBoxin
2 жыл бұрын
Mine ruined her family by cheating on her husband 5 years ago. She told me on her own accord without me asking a question... She said she just did it.. he never abused her.... She was with him for years, and then just ruined her own family. I accepted her into my life because people do grow apart.. but NO.... she is TRULY a fucking monster. Her kids do not live with her, she completely moved out. Her kids basically cry for her on the phone... 14 year old daughter always getting caught in school with weed. 9 year old son is struggling to still be innocent,, his heart is innocent but his mind an absence of mom is ruining his outlook on life... I truly felt bad. We were poor growing up, we always had our parents. She has EVERYTHING and more, and is completely absent.... She drinks 8 bottles of champagne per week, 1 per day minimal. She is 100% diagnosed bipolar, i have been to walgreens with her numrous times to pick up her meds.... The things shes done to me in 10 months... the last 3 months especially, its just soo appalling. I can't even believe a human being like her exists... like a true walking demon... I dont even miss being with her, I am angered she treated me so fucking horrifically and she takes zero accountability. Fuckin crazy ass people out here!!!! I do not envy any man who comes after me in her life, shes is 100000% incapable of LOVING. She does not possess that emotion. Its astounding how dead she is inside. I wish i could write my entire story with her. but wow. she is a true witch, I feel bad for her kids, they treated me better than she did. Shes beyond broken.
@djpacoelfuerte9531
2 жыл бұрын
This is why people need to investigate their Childhood beforehand. But shes a single mother, she doesnt have to be a narc... Just being a single mother is a whole other different hell. It's the worst thing any man should ever do.
@Young_Savage_904
2 жыл бұрын
I'm a bit amazed that she didn't try to paint you as a bad guy to her kids.
@MidwestBoxin
2 жыл бұрын
@@djpacoelfuerte9531 not a single mom, Her ex-husband has the kids, they live with him & supports them.
@djpacoelfuerte9531
2 жыл бұрын
@@MidwestBoxin So she gave up her own kids That is a bad sign
@MidwestBoxin
2 жыл бұрын
@@Young_Savage_904 her kids were so kind to me & would vent how they loved their mother. So heart breaking hearing a 9 and 14 year old vent to me.
@lamehoney3560
2 жыл бұрын
The only people who are upset by boundaries are the ones who benefitted from you not having any
@reinapatricia6717
Жыл бұрын
Be happy when the narcissist leaves,bc then you can concentrate on yourself and finally put you 1st. Then you can give yourself the love they never gave you. Do not ever fall for the hoover,bc some narcissist's come back,but if you let them back in the cycle of narcissistic abuse start over again, remember they don't change and you're just a means to an end, you're just an object to them. Stay NO CONTACT!!!
@dawnserrano737
2 жыл бұрын
This game is truly ridiculous!!@@
@markg6333
2 жыл бұрын
I fell for a narcissist I was married to someone who could not help she destroyed her family and is hurting her child I have suffered greatly she was always lieing and sneaky gaslighting financial abusive women I hope she gets karma for how awlfull she is she doesn't care about anyone but her self she blames me for her problems and is playing a victim to get what she wants I pray for my son he is so upset and doesn't want to live with her I can't provide for her anymore she has completely drained me of everything
@victoriousjoy9338
2 жыл бұрын
I feel for you! Same happened to me. 30 years of giving and trying harder, but it only lead to throwing all I was and had into the toilet. They live a parasitic lifestyle and you are the host.
@patrickjohnson8741
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@iphoneshsimcardashian628
2 жыл бұрын
It's Evil, it's all too common now. Mine took me court because she said I harassed her! No I spoke to her about her cheating and lies, she did not like it and denies it, where I have all the evidence. Now I can't see the children because she lied to courts about me being abusive to her and my children. This is the most single disgusting thing to do to the children's Father, who loves them dearly.
@Xena4battle77
2 жыл бұрын
GET YOUR SON !!!!!
@mindybelvedere4912
2 жыл бұрын
I LOVVVVVE this- accurate AF
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Mindy, how's your day going with you?
@iamwhatyouareyouarewhatiam6613
2 жыл бұрын
Yes they will abandon you in your time of need. They will def make things worse for you; do not tell them your goals, dates and pending significant events. If its important to you they will def work against you.
@aahmonddelite690
Жыл бұрын
Damn I guess I should ask WHAT THE HELL IS A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP & WHAT DOES IT LOOK LIKE?
@authenticme7351
2 жыл бұрын
Heads up people!! The narcissist will leave you but Won't leave you alone!!!
@narcissismtoday1045
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video it's Spot On :)
@RT_H1pH0p_
2 жыл бұрын
I want to change and i am learning about being a narci because i don't want to continue living this way....i accept i have narcissistic characteristics and i want to change....i cant be this 2ay
@jessicamiller6461
2 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, been married ten yrs to one. Everything is my fault and no one likes me. It's very emotionally draining. Just trapped, so I look forward to death when I am released from his abuse.
@phoenixmode6909
2 жыл бұрын
Don't wait for death. Leave, and live YOUR life NOW. If you give up and allow it to continue, you lose your life and yourself-- and HE wins, because he has achieved his goal of making you feel like a zero. Don't f*cking let him "win". LEAVE. Walk away. Forever. NOW. Trust me, you'll be glad you did. 36 years for me. I was too scared to end it sooner, so I suffered for 20 of those years thinking changing myself to please him would fix it all. Also the advice I was given by church and secular counseling. It didn't fix anything. I list who I was in the process. At 55, I'd had enough. I researched and worked on myself and began to figure out a plan. At 57, I ended it, and walked away for good. Best decision I have EVER made for MYSELF, in my entire life. Just GO. It will be a little wobbly & challenging at first, but won't regret it.
@lindamiles5035
2 жыл бұрын
My goodness that struck a chord. I feel your pain
@reneebrown8504
2 жыл бұрын
Understanding your situation is the first step, well done. Eventually you will escape. Seek professional help as they will guide you on your journey to freedom
@walkertranger5746
2 жыл бұрын
There is always a way out
@lindamiles5035
2 жыл бұрын
@@walkertranger5746 show me it
@novafamily8430
2 жыл бұрын
My wife doesn't have all of these qualities, but the ones she has is really damaging and intense.
@tinabyrne620
2 жыл бұрын
These 3 types of personalities are next to impossible for professionals that only specialize in these 3. The passive narrsasiste, aggressive narrsasiste and the most dangerous is the malignant narrsasiste. A passive narrsasiste will turn aggressive if backed into a corner, the aggressive narrsasiste usually verbally attacks all the time their back into the corner and the malignant narrsasiste is the one that will kill if they feel control is being lost or you cross them the wrong way. I was in the medical field on the clinical side for 30 years. I wasn't in mental health but we're all connected together and I have a friend who is a mental health professional and she says it's one of the most difficult personality disorders or just impossible. They will only change for a short period of time and once they feel they have you where they want you, the narrsasiste returns and sometimes double the trouble. Just to educate everyone if you don't already know is 1 in 200 people in the USA have one of the narrististical personalities and 75 percent are men According to statistics. It's better to cut all ties because they will blame you for everything, manipulate you, control you and all other negative behaviors. They all feel the world owes them and that's where the high entitlement attitude comes from. Well I worked in ob/gyne and I want you to know that I've never seen a baby born with a letter that the world owes you everything. 😆
@cindywilson7746
2 жыл бұрын
Yes. So very true. The malignant narcissists are the worst ones!!! My ex tried to strangulate me then turned it around on me when cops showed up!!!
@cindywilson7746
2 жыл бұрын
He lied about everything too!!! Omg, so crazy he is
@tinabyrne620
2 жыл бұрын
@@cindywilson7746 That's very common in all three of the personalities for them to lie, manipulate and everything is you're fault, they never apologize for anything, they just act as if nothing ever happened or they come with gifts. I'm very happy for you that you got out before something horrible happened. I have had many passive and aggressive narrsasistes but never a malignant one. Cindy don't be surprised if he shows up again to get you back because their known for that and they are master manipulators. Sorry you went through this.
@peacefaith2939
2 жыл бұрын
they never leave its been 22yrs and he's still stalking my FB, and sending fake friend requests...they dont wanna see you happy with anyone else !!
@sofiabamhamed8507
Жыл бұрын
Please pray my narcissist forgets me 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@rosalynjolly2565
2 жыл бұрын
When the money gone
@izil1fe
2 жыл бұрын
Birthday, death of family member, day you receive your PhD, when you win an Oscar, etc..
@libraempress2069
2 жыл бұрын
My ex narcissist discarded me like 3 times I didn’t know he was a narcissist till something in me led me to learn he is, but he always comes back when I wanted him and he doesn’t fully go
@grandmabubba1397
2 жыл бұрын
Good Lord, can you have unconditional love with narcissist? Blindness.
@Young_Savage_904
2 жыл бұрын
So you're done with him?
@grandmabubba1397
2 жыл бұрын
@@Young_Savage_904 Won't give up. I don't think it's possible
@Young_Savage_904
2 жыл бұрын
@@grandmabubba1397 Why?
@libraempress2069
2 жыл бұрын
@@Young_Savage_904 so done with him now 👌
@edgreen8140
Жыл бұрын
Amber is a narcissist; everything she blamed Johnny Depp for was a projection of everything amber did.
@ForeverXO
2 жыл бұрын
What's confusing is that many of these reactions and things happen in all relationships which is why I feel everyone has it to a degree but what most videos say about narcissists love bombing in the beginning and wanting to hurt and see the other fail and not being there for them, ect... It shows hate not love. So my question is... are narcissist pretending from the beginning to even love the person? because there are those who react out of hurt but do love the person, but it looks like narcissists feel hurt and react in those way to hurt the other but they have no love for the person they're doing this to. Plus the fact that they care more about how they look to others than the one they're with. So they shouldn't even commit with anyone then. 🤔 It's a hard thing to grasp because from what i get the narcissists withhold their true emotions and hurt and whatever else about them, and if they have no feeling of worrying for their partner when they're sick and don't show that they are in love with them, then why even bother being in relationships? why go through all the drama of trying to get something from a partner only to want to destroy them and enjoy seeing them destroyed? That is hate or like a step away from a psychopath killer mentality. That's what it sounds like.. living with someone who isn't at all who you think they are and who hates you and wants to torture you. Am i getting this correctly? I already don't trust anyone but seeing how deep the deception of narcissist can go, makes me glad I'm able to stay alone. sheesh. It's easy to be straight forward about who and how I am concerning relationships, especially since it helps to warn and keep others away. ✔
@angeldee7287
2 жыл бұрын
@Ted Menard I believe we create the narc tendencies as a defense mechanism and a coping strategy after the years abuse
@angeldee7287
2 жыл бұрын
The answer is yes. The narc is lying from the beginning. When they approach you, you are just a shiny new toy that they are going to break. They need supply (someone to beat up mentally) to feed off of, like a vampire needs blood to survive, the narc needs attention; only to disregard it and destroy it. They are damaged inside and they look to hurt everyone now that they have been violated. Vengeance. It’s very sad to watch, it’s even worse to be helpless in trying to help them get out to f the mess. The narc has been traumatized early in life and have decided to never let that happen to them again by doing it first. But it bites them back in the end.
@ForeverXO
2 жыл бұрын
@Ted Menard , Sorry for such a late response. I only now saw your reply, due to no notifications until someone clicked and it made me notice. Do narcissist not talk about themselves? and if so, is it just lies, because they don't want to tell about themselves? Actually nevermind this question. Thank you. 🌸
@ChrisPyle
2 жыл бұрын
Walking piles of need! 🤣🤣🤣 That is perfect
@Karenrosereid
9 ай бұрын
Yes all true I've experienced all that I read .
@Indy__isnt_it
2 жыл бұрын
This is an accurate list of their traits, but saying they will eventually leave you is NOT ACCURATE. I am stalked by mine if two days ago by and he hasn't spoken to me. I tried to split as friends, both being 1000+ miles from relatives but I know NOW that's an impossibility. But I still won't go down without trying. I do need him to, just not his love for himself. When you love humanity, you live and love in a completely other way as the narc. While listing so much, there is no advice to go along with it. Not sure how worthwhile a list is without KNOWING how to handle this fragile DANGEROUS human beans. You fail to mention THE most important aspect of this Disorder The older they get, when cognitive decline starts sneaking in, it may be they do not know what they do in a two minute time frame, enough to hide something on you, then forget it ever happened. DO THEY KNOW????? While a list is good, solutions and suggestions for safety should be included or a disclaimer attached
@Indy__isnt_it
2 жыл бұрын
OR WORSE. my narc has a weapon, a hand gun. I cannot withstand a bullet.
@nancysayad9960
2 жыл бұрын
Great advice to a Victim 👍👌
@clairelittle9182
2 жыл бұрын
My ex narcissist which I know he is because he ticks all the boxes, calls me a narcissist. Has this happened to anyone else?
@petronilobuan4648
2 жыл бұрын
Yah your right refuse the narcissist of determining who you are it’s only you who can determine who you are! As Socrates says know thyself k! When they are sick depressed everyone should cater to their needs everyone should pay attention to them and they don’t give empathy and same to others so so selfish! K
@terrysmith1419
2 жыл бұрын
News flash they never leave. They will come back! Send them away🙏
@DOCTORSAMMYBAYA
2 жыл бұрын
Great video
@wendynoto1923
2 жыл бұрын
Well your thumbnail says it all right there. Energy vampires
@emmamonroe3311
2 жыл бұрын
I was a super empathetic. I’m no longer that person lol
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Emma, how's your day going with you?
@pedrokarstguimaraes1096
2 жыл бұрын
Very accurately!
@Indy__isnt_it
2 жыл бұрын
If you're married and leave, you are still eligible for alimony because you did not leave and abandon, you left for your safety. This alone is not grounds for not providing. I stayed home with my kids after apparent slapping of my child happened in public and reported to local police. She never watched my kids again. I became a stay at home mom for the next ten years so I instilled my views, NOT those of someone you haven't a clue acts when you close the door. My kids were between 2 & 4 when this happened, too young to understand the questions, we assumed it was the younger who could not verbalize what happened. Be careful WHO has your children, you can get as many as you want. My narc was an almost perfect employee for 27 years IN LAW enforcement, I thought I was safe going into this relationship., And he knew the previous marriage end in S/A. OH, did he use that against me, still does. Every man since I was 15 has been an abuser the first and worst @15 -17 i-S/A, he destroyed me, more than I EVER understood. and now 50 years after his abuse, we have t spoken in 12 years, yet no one cares why. I warned my niece who was living nearby as a college student, I would never trust my dog with him
@totorialnotaurjrjrj9613
2 жыл бұрын
It is dream come true if a narc leaves my life totally with all enablers. I m free at last from their unnecessities. I m nvr one to b cntrlked. .I will retaliate sooner or later...it's best ths way. Narcs....bad news.
@channel1800dumb
2 жыл бұрын
When I was at university, many many years distant from this world, we were instructed to refer to anything neuter gender and positive as 'She'. The Royal 'She'. In fact, God was referred to as 'She', in one thing of the Old Testament. I find this video, to be normal, to say the very least...
@Wau12345
Жыл бұрын
I finished totally
@staggerlee3587
2 жыл бұрын
I just exposed one and just like that she left
@franceselam1437
2 жыл бұрын
I've had a hard time distinguishing if this person is an ark he is currently a long distance love constantly asking me for money because he says he does not have access to his account he was on a oil rig when I met him and now he is off the rig and still doesn't have access to his account he has a child that he wants me to send money cards to in Turkey he keeps giving me these sad stories and please please babe send me some money so that I can get home I did send him some money which was a mistake I know I feel like I'm being punished but I am so stupid that he keeps telling me how much I mean to him and how much he loves me and then turns around and asks me to send money is this an a Narc I've never had an experience like this before I need someone to tell me how stupid I am and tell me if I'm being manipulated by a narc he says he will pay me back when he gets home I have to send him money to get home really please someone tell me
@Cloverleaf_Farms_West
2 жыл бұрын
Have done all of these....some over and over.....still no discard.....
@ahuman798
2 жыл бұрын
After seeing the Video, i doubt Every single individual has a Narcissist somewhere inside them...
@debbiesianturi2505
2 жыл бұрын
The point is AVOID THE NARCISSIST PEOPLE
@erictorres4889
2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I broke up with the narc before she broke up with me I had the last say
@revheimliliam1305
Жыл бұрын
He said he was going to use me
@zacariasblanco9738
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone has a little narcissist in them no one is perfect it depends how committed both people are and finding that balance
@lilhimer3361
2 жыл бұрын
Zacarias Bianco You are lost. I really don't think anyone is talking about a normal person here. Narcissistic 'tendencies?' I love to hear someone tell me about their new promotion or anything good that has happened for them. A real Narcissist will change the subject if you ever tell them something good that happened for you. These people are evil on a level you clearly do not understand. They will try to destroy you but you have a choice : it's being anywhere that they are not. Whatever the cost. They are 100% cruel. Tendencies?
@spaceoddessy1
2 жыл бұрын
Spot on.
@donjesse2748
2 жыл бұрын
Her ❤ is mine she won't leave.
@danmakintosh7002
2 жыл бұрын
what happens when they expose themselves
@IkaikaArnado
2 жыл бұрын
Lawlz, why does everyone think it's Heard that's the narcissist? Johnny is just as crazy and narcissistic, if not more. He's definitely much better at it.
@amywilliams952
2 жыл бұрын
Heard has shields, no real emotions, she is not willing to look at herself in the mirror deeply yet. She has long ways to go
@IkaikaArnado
2 жыл бұрын
@@amywilliams952 Lawlz, and Depp does? He's you A-typical Hollywood narcissist junkie. OMG, he left his ex wife for Heard. He ain't no choir boy.
@deborahmulloy3580
2 жыл бұрын
Keep in mind, AH was Gaslighting him, Manic CONTROLL Madness, she would forever chase him, not to leave. Johnny had to finally let her EXPOSE herself. And GOD, The Cheating. With her friends, Johnny would be killed by them. AH just wanted what Johnny had and to devour him and be the widow, Scary as he'll.
@lawsonbrinton682
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Deborah, how's your day going with you?
@ronch550
2 жыл бұрын
What about psychopaths? They're on the extreme end of the spectrum of narcissism.
@vanessayurrita3724
2 жыл бұрын
Mine left me because when he discarded me for the 1,0000 time, I didnt wait for him, I started going out and Kiss another man. Not that I am proud of that but I was in such a Bad place in My life, the pain I felt was unbarrable. My ex couldnt believe it. I was single at the time, but he as a narc cannot stand that. Defenately they will leave You for good! He never cheated, I didnt either. Do all narcs cheat? Because mine didnt
@juileb197473051
2 жыл бұрын
I'm extremely selfish, and have good reason to play the victim card. Yet instead I'm always playing a servant, to the ones around me, so does that make me selfish or selfless?
@involuntarilycelebrate
2 жыл бұрын
sounds like you might be experiencing some codependency. all narcissism is related to codependency. not saying you're a narcissist, but you could have been affected by one, and have narcissistic fleas
@jonbob9872
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you have a victim complex and play surf to maintain it, for your own selfish needs, conscious of unconscious.
@arrowmax6189
2 жыл бұрын
100% u are in wrong way...in this universe we are lives to make smiles on other face to contentment our soul..& that's the ultimate selflove... But many people identify selfishness is selflove, that's the evil charecter. Hopefully u will be changed ur negative charecter very soon.
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