I never question or get mad when creators take breaks. It's your life. I enjoy the new videos when they're uploaded, and if not, I have my own life. I don't have time to question another adult about theirs.
@roberta9428
2 ай бұрын
I see so many KZitemrs profusely apologizing for not uploading videos on a regular basis when they are sick or on vacation or whatever reason they choose to take a break. I get that you really want to be consistent, but you really don’t owe any of us an explanation if you’re not. While I do enjoy your life update videos, please know just because you’re on KZitem it doesn’t mean you have to reveal every or any part of your private life if you don’t want to. 💜
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 💗
@NormaMoon
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this
@amberwest9478
2 ай бұрын
Totally agree!!!
@queenofstitcheswarrior2668
2 ай бұрын
This would be my answer 100%! 👍🏼
@amyflemingowens5720
2 ай бұрын
I completely agree!!!!❤
@WendorfPhD
2 ай бұрын
Abby, the fact that you think the rest of us are ok or functioning correctly is wild 😜
@pocketsizegirl
2 ай бұрын
Girl, preach. We're all just doing our best.
@Joannabanana1989
2 ай бұрын
We are a mess. Send help 🙏🏻
@MountainPearls
2 ай бұрын
Right!!! Also, I wouldn’t go back to my 20s for anything! Seriously-My motto will be “Forever 32!”The life transitions, emerging mental illnesses (anxiety for me too), relationships (and learning what you want and need-OR need vs. want in a partner), and second mini-puberty (that no one tells you about beforehand) are HARD!
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
lmao we're are just trying our best out here
@elizabethruggiero9950
2 ай бұрын
Abby, Effexor saved me in a time when I thought I was literally nuts. My withdrawal was relatively painless because I had an incredible therapist, and a wonderful doctor. I’m sorry your experience was less than it could have been💝
@donnasuemiles906
2 ай бұрын
You are too hard on yourself. We love you and we understand. Take your time and be well
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Thank you 💗something I'm working on for sure!
@alyssabrandon1105
2 ай бұрын
I am a therapist and I commend you on sharing your personal journey. That takes so much courage to face what you have faced ❤
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
thank you so much 💗
@bethgoss5701
2 ай бұрын
Your honesty and vulnerability will help others more than you may realize, thank you
@mrsbinkbonk
2 ай бұрын
My 20s were not a carefree time. I was stressed and struggling. I think it is common, but not discussed.
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Could not agree more!
@ioanaschifirnet3814
2 ай бұрын
Yes!!
@VictorianPearls88
2 ай бұрын
I agree, and now that I’m entering into my 30s soon (I’m 28) for those of us who had a stressful time in their 20s, most don’t accept or understand or even recognize that the 30s usually is for fixing or repairing or healing what we dealt with. I’m getting into in the “fix it” phase and repairing the damages and problems I created or had thrown at me the last 8 years, I’d say even longer than that. Probably 10 years since I wasn’t the smartest with my money, self care, and neglecting myself and my peace. 30s can also be a stressful time overall but it’s a time of sometimes healing from your 20s and I’m going in tough and hopefully getting a slight head start before I hit the 3-0.
@mrsbinkbonk
2 ай бұрын
@@VictorianPearls88 I would say that is accurate. My 20s were a struggle in so many ways and since my 30s life has been good. Just want it out there that I am in my 50s and doing very well. Things get better. I think the world tells you to just get through high school/college and you are good. Maybe that is true for some people, but it definitely was not that way for me.
@Luna11420
2 ай бұрын
My 20’s were a mess! I’m definitely enjoying my 30’s much more. Aging is so demonized but I think I’m getting better mentally, physically, and emotionally with age!
@IndigooceanOrg
2 ай бұрын
My 20s were a depression and anxiety 'lost decade.' You've at least built up all of this and become an expert on something that helps people. I stopped anti-depressants at 31 and moved overseas for a year to live on a tropical island and let it all drain away. That was the reset I needed and I went on to create an amazing life that I absolutely love. Good on your for making the change and being willing to try new things towards feeling and living the way you want.
@megshuston2132
2 ай бұрын
Health anxiety video specifically what you found worked would be hugely appreciated!
@alma6555
2 ай бұрын
Love this❤. I just recently stopped taking anxiety medication (the proper way) and would love any suggestions on what helps her get through tough times. Sometimes one just thinks in the same box all the time
@ashleighcoles06
2 ай бұрын
Love your honesty!! I’m a family medicine physician and I see sooo many people struggle with anxiety & depression. I wish more people were forthcoming to help others feel heard!
@taradiane
2 ай бұрын
i've been on zoloft for GAD for years. i tried weaning off and it didn't go well. i felt like i was on a knife's edge all the time - every little thing would set me off into anger or tears (or both!). i feel like i'm just going to be on it for life, and that's okay. sometimes it really is a chemical imbalance that you just can't regulate on your own without medical intervention.
@Jess-bee
2 ай бұрын
I’m a counsellor based in Aus and I work with some clients who experience health anxiety. I don’t have years of experience under my belt and definitely need to do more professional development in this area. However I was glad to see you linked the CCI resources which is what I often refer back to! They definitely have some detailed resources and exercises available. I also love that you didn’t demonise medication even though you experienced some side effects and some difficulties in tapering off. They can be a real saving grace for when your nervous system is too far gone to implement therapeutic strategies, and certainly have their place.
@TarotwithMichelle
2 ай бұрын
As someone who is 46, each decade gets better. Let’s be honest, the teenage years suck with all the hormone changes and trying to become your own person. In your 20s you’re trying to find your place in the world. Transitioning to an adult is not easy. In your 30s, it will continue to get better because you know who you are and what you’re capable of doing. In your 40s, it’s even more pronounced. I’m way past the point of looking for validation outside of me and that alone has been life changing. This is not exactly the same as what you’re describing, but during this process you’re learning more about yourself and where your limits exist. We all have them. Embrace those limits. They exist for your own well being.
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
I love hearing this! I am so relieved to be in my 30's for this reason! And that's a really good way of putting it... so true.
@chamorrojen1905
2 ай бұрын
@@TarotwithMichelle I'm 36 and so far, I totally agree with this perspective! Very well said!
@TracyD2
2 ай бұрын
I’m almost 60 and it’s freeing. It sucks though when your body starts breaking down, you start to feel better mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Like why can’t I feel good and be cute at the same time. 😝
@chelseazaydaraensehon1198
2 ай бұрын
I'm 34 and I'm so behind 😂 I'll probably expire before my life wants to get it's crap together
@amberwsmith
2 ай бұрын
Abbey, I often marvel at the amount of work and organization that goes into your videos! I don't think your viewers would ever think you're lazy for missing an upload, and I also think most people, myself included, are not keeping track. Don't stress over that. We appreciate you!
@awalker127
2 ай бұрын
I'm always stunned when a KZitemr feels the need to explain where they've been or why they haven't uploaded. I can't speak for everyone, but KZitem is entertainment, I dont go crazy if I can't watch some other form of entertainment. You're a human, that has the same stressors, mental health challenges, life events, etc. As the rest of us. You owe us nothing, we should be glad for the moments you do share with us, but there is no obligation. Be kind to yourself. People can be assh0les, but the normal people of the world have no expectations, and we want you to be well. Take care of you 🌿 xx
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ❤
@ImnotassweetasIusedtobe
Ай бұрын
Yeah, it’s sad and odd if someone is upset that a “creator” is not uploading on a schedule that they want. I’m 35, I didn’t get a smartphone until 2014, I used to hop trains and travel as my priority after working a hardcore federal criminology job for years after finishing grad school. I can’t make myself check emails daily after that job, and I work with one client at a time in the private sector, with a great boss, and that’s been my favorite. I remind grown clients that they cannot speak to me the way that they speak to me if they step out of line, and I love the practice. They think they can control things or are owed everything bc of their money, but people cannot be bought, including you Abbie. You work for you. It’s your life and only yours. And withdrawal makes anxiety go nuuuuts, Benzo withdrawal especially!
@zekaay
2 ай бұрын
As someone who was diagnosed with a terminal illness at age 34 (and now 37), I can tell you that all you can do is to accept that we all die at some point and we cannot do anything about it, it is natural and it is okay. I know generalized anxiety from my past though and that you cannot just tell yourself this, but this is how things are. I try to be healthy while still not in the end stage (it is a type of brain cancer that grows very slowly - and this can never fully be removed, so it works in a different way than in the rest of the body. I also look normal and can work and everything for probably a few more years, so people would not be able to tell I have brain cancer) and enjoy the time I still have :) Basically the "live in the moment" mentality is what helps with thinking too much about how things will be at some point in the future.
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
I completely agree with you- acceptance has been a major part of this process for me. Thank you for your kind words and sharing your story. I'm sending you so much love and peace 💗
@zekaay
2 ай бұрын
@@AbbeyYung thank you for being the voice of reason when it comes to hair care ❣️and also I think it’s very brave of you to upload such a personal video. I honestly hope you are feeling better now and everything just keeps getting better for you, but when things are less than ideal know this: you are never alone and there are many of us out here who are also experiencing seemingly hopeless times ❤️🩹 in my experience things eventually always get better truly even when we feel we have hit rock bottom for the tenth time in this lifetime💓 thank you for your kind words :)
@Karen-c3d7i
2 ай бұрын
We are all in this together - thank you for sharing. You are loved.❤😊
@cococgb5389
2 ай бұрын
♥️
@crimbleland
2 ай бұрын
This is a similar journey to my sister who was diagnosed with a slow growing Astrocytoma around the same age. So many of the things you are saying are similar to how she talks about it. We truly never know how much time we will have. Good luck on your cancer journey ❤
@sfkat
2 ай бұрын
You're really so lucky to deal with this when you're young, many many women don't really deal with mental health issues until their 40 or 50s, just getting by day to day. You're advanced at your age in recognizing symptoms of depression and thinking of ways to deal with it and try to figure it out with a good doctor, or/and antidepressants
@EricaRayack
2 ай бұрын
As someone who experienced depersonalization and derealization as a teen (now 30-years-old and much improved), I am so thankful you are using your platform to talk about this. I didn't have the words for it then, and "beauty gurus" of the 2010's were my stress relief and guides to making it through high school. I bet you're helping others find the words for it now. Thank you for making people feel less alone.
@inspirequeens
2 ай бұрын
You don’t have to apologize or explain yourself for not uploading. There’s life bigger and outside of this. People will get over it, it’s KZitem. No one needs uploads to survive. You are your priority over anything else so don’t apologize
@jnaekoa3511
2 ай бұрын
Actually it gets stressful for them bcuz I think they do have to keep up with uploads in effort to maintain a specific amount of “payday“ it that makes sense.
@chiquitabanana89768
2 ай бұрын
Isn't this her job?
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
thank you 💗
@Queenmarie88
2 ай бұрын
Yeah she doesn’t need to do it for us for sure but this is how she pays her bills so I understand the stress of that. Love you Abbey ♥️
@calculatedspaces
2 ай бұрын
I got off of a common anxiety drug in 2017. I felt the electric shocks in my body and a lot of what you are describing. I love that you shared this because I genuinely thought of you during the last month. So glad that you got to the other side of it and didn’t have to stay on the medication. You are a helpful source; if you choose to share your health journey, I am also here for that video. The freckle journey has been entertaining so far. 💞
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Yes! Such bizarre sensations oh my gosh. Thank you so much 💗 freckle journey lollll 😂
@michellesparks1590
2 ай бұрын
I am 55 currently dealing with menopause anxiety (yea!) and the stress that comes with this age such as aging parents, teenage kids and my own mortality. Anxiety is a part of the human experience, it is our bodies talking to us. We have to realize they are just thoughts and there is no real danger. I know, easier said than done but this skill will stay with you. I have used my personal toolbox that I developed when I was in my early 20's to this day. We grow and we learn. It's good stuff.
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
I completely agree! Understanding anxious thoughts for what they are has made such a difference for me too 💗
@kimlandess8512
2 ай бұрын
I hear you.
@mo_nicole
2 ай бұрын
What you were experiencing in your feet and legs is called “RLS” or restless leg syndrome and it can last months with withdrawal. Magnesium helps a lot. It’s a HORRIBLE feeling. You are a STRONGGGG WOMAN. Congrats on your accomplishments, you should be super proud of yourself.
@queenofstitcheswarrior2668
2 ай бұрын
Magnesium supplement + Magnesium oil spray on the legs + Melatonine, B-Complex active, D3-K2 and lots of protein drinks + ORS/rehydration drinks.
@mo_nicole
2 ай бұрын
@@queenofstitcheswarrior2668 🙌🏼
@Dopey22AMJ
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I have generalized anxiety disorder, borderline personality disorder and ADHD. I have struggled all of my adult life (from about 19 and on) with mental health issues. My anxiety disorder is where generally, anything can give me anxiety, so I understand what you were feeling. I’m on about 9 different meds per day, and honestly they help me immensely. I tried to get off an anxiety med once before, and I also had extreme withdrawal symptoms for over a month, where I was vomiting almost every day, multiple times a day. I ended up getting back on the med because I could not get out of the withdrawal symptoms. It takes a very strong person to talk about this for so many people to see online. Mental health is SO IMPORTANT! I hope this video definitely helps others! Thank you again for sharing your story with us!
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 💗 and that sounds AWFUL! I would've done the same thing... so glad you have found meds that help you though it truly is life changing.
@caitroseco6752
2 ай бұрын
I have OCD, and one of my issues is that I have also struggled with intense health anxiety, so I can definitely relate. Prayers for continued healing and happy times 🙏🏻
@Ryanneey
2 ай бұрын
Same ❤️ it can be tough.
@evatimmons8734
2 ай бұрын
Glad you’re doing better! I would really appreciate a video on health anxiety. It’s something both my sister and I have struggled with for years. It doesn’t get talked about enough.
@savannahstory5342
2 ай бұрын
I also have health anxiety and I’m so happy you mentioned this, you couldn’t have described it better! I’m praying for you 🙏🏻
@JackOllie4
2 ай бұрын
As a 61 year old, I can say that some of your withdrawal experiences have prepared you well for menopause, because it can be very, very similar! Thank you for sharing.
@sofuntobeme
2 ай бұрын
💯
@carolinecaruso2880
2 ай бұрын
Abby, this is the most relatable video you have ever posted. Down to the details of health anxiety starting at 21, I also just turned 30, and my scariest symptoms have also been neurological. I legit thought I was dying. Ive learned that health anxiety is now recognized as a form of ocd. Exposure therapy SAVED my mental health. I've always loved you, but I feel an extra sense of kinship with you now. So glad you are feeling better. NOTHING is as important as health/mental health.
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
I have been thinking it’s OCD for awhile now! I’m going to try to find a therapist who specializes in this. Thank you! ❤
@rachelsmithkey9191
2 ай бұрын
Oh girl. I’m 28 and have been struggling with health anxiety too since I was 9. I was having severe anxiety attacks at school and had no idea what they were. The anxiety also caused me to develop IBS, which didn’t help the health anxiety. Now that I’m older, I realized my health, sickness, or germs triggered my anxiety. Mainly the stomach flu. So I lived in fear of vomiting (I know tmi probably 😅). It’s crazy how anxiety about one thing can quickly turn into anxiety about several others things in relation to the main trigger. I feel you and still deal with it today.
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
so true! it's like a spider web. sending you love 💗
@sissiebird537
2 ай бұрын
I was concerned when you moved to Chicago. I did the same, no family or friend connection (back before cell phones) so I knew it was going to be hard on you. I am so glad you moved back and got the help you needed. Very wise of you!
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
oh my goodness I cannot imagine not having a cell phone during that time. Thank you 💗
@Berri417
2 ай бұрын
I have never commented on a KZitem channel until today. I have been dealing with health anxiety for 5 years now. Although I have such an amazing support system with friends and family, I have never felt so alone. There are a lot of people with anxiety but I have never met someone with health anxiety and while I don’t ever want to minimize someone else’s anxiety, fearing that you have an illness and you’re going to die is on another level lol. Anyway, I comment all this to say, thank you. Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s so not easy and honestly, for me, embarrassing to talk about. I was literally stunned, I actually started crying lol when you said the words “health anxiety”. I finally wasn’t alone. I’ve also started YouTubing other peoples experiences (don’t know why I never thought to do that) and it’s been so helpful. Thank you!
@michelleclarke2534
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing ur experience with us. I’m 52 and suffered from health anxiety starting in my 20’s. It was horrible and I didn’t understand it. It went away but would creep back years later. It’s still a struggle. You are not alone ❤ wishing you positive vibes and well wishes 😊
@augustmoonrae5407
2 ай бұрын
I’m a therapist and it doesn’t surprise me to hear your difficulties in finding someone competent in illness anxiety. I guess you could say illness anxiety is a relatively “newer” diagnosis and if you’re a woman with anxiety of any kind, it’s hard enough to find good treatment. Unfortunately I can vouch for the fact that most therapists are just throwing spaghetti at the wall and seeing what sticks, but happy to hear you were wise enough to know what wasn’t helpful and sought other kinds of help! Take care of yourself!
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
That makes total sense when there are just so many forms of anxiety and mental health disorders in general- impossible to be an expert in every single one! Thank you 💗
@karenferrara
2 ай бұрын
I am a mother who's search for a therapist and a diagnosis since my son was 12 to no avail. He got lots of both , He's 32 he's able to work at a job that takes less intelligence that he has, he's very smart but he is in such a constant fight against his brain,it literally takes from his intelligence. He has given up trying to find help he's a lonely sad young man and as I found out since he's 18 I can't help him. I'm always surprised when I find someone who's actually been helped.
@karenferrara
2 ай бұрын
Also it is my opinion as someone who knows him to his core and the reason I do is because he has no one else, he has social anxiety disorder , however there does not seem to be anyone who knows or acknowledge this. He had one doctor diganyhim as autistic, and he is not, however that stuck with him hard , when another diganosed him with schizo-affective disorder even though he was 18 that doctor didn't share it with him and I knew better than to do that, it was so ridiculously off I can't imagine how he ever got in school never mind a degree, doctors in this field seem to have more of an ability to cause more damage than to help, because they are dealing with someone's brain.
@karenferrara
2 ай бұрын
I do not think doctors take long enough to wean people off, it's harmless to take a long time but harmful to not do it, it seems almost simple but it's not done.
@karenferrara
2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry abbey I'm so upset about this weaning, having seen it done to my son, after twice I stopped allowing them do that and had them wean him three times slower than the regular weaning protocol. As you may see I've got a lot of frustrations regarding the field of psychiatry and those types of medicine. I guess I'm what you would call triggered 😊, I am so happy you have got insight into what was happening that is the key, the ability to recognize what's really happening as opposed to what your body thinks is happening.
@morgangreer6260
Ай бұрын
I would be the first person to watch a video where you talk about your health anxiety. I've been dealing with anxiety all of my life but it became health/illness based around a year ago. After several intense anxiety attacks, crying in my doctor's office, and finally getting to the point where it was all consuming, I got put on Prozac which is definitely helping but not fully. I am so grateful to have found this video because I know I'm not alone.
@jamiegoudy764
2 ай бұрын
I needed to hear your anxiety journey so much! I just started Lexapro almost a month ago. Still working my way up to the right dose and I think it’s helping but it’s too early to tell for sure. Anxiety and panic attacks are so debilitating. Videos like this help me feel so validated. I’m glad you feel better. I hope I will too.
@pninarosenberg7546
2 ай бұрын
Sorry for interfering but hoping you will. Lexapro helped me so much with anxiety and after a few years of therapy I was able to wean off of it and am lexapro free now. Even if you need it for the rest of your life it’s a great medication and was lifesaving for me. Hope it works
@1616Marius
Ай бұрын
Account from my boyfriend: thank you so much abbey! Especially talking about the Depersonalization & derealization was so brave and helpful! I was experiencing the same and thought I’m losing my mind. I thought only weird anxiety people get the symptom. I just thought you have only like heart racing and stuff, but not feeling safe in your own body is something I experienced too. That’s seriously hell. Thank you so much for sharing. Never ever expected that you have kind of the same problems. I looked at you and was like: she’s so happy, she would never go through the symptoms I experience and probably just has normal stress symptoms, but this was so eye opening that life on social media looks better than real life
@nicolefegan
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your mental health journey with us. It's so easy to feel like recovery is impossible (I speak from experience lol) so it's inspiring to see that you're past your darkest moments.
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh yes I've felt this way so many times. Of course 💗
@sarahcatss
2 ай бұрын
This was so relatable thank you for sharing 🧡 I’m 31 and have had anxiety since I was a teen but health anxiety crept in around 2018 and I had a full blown panic attack and thought I was dying and ended up going to the ER three times in one week, I was convinced they were missing something. Once I became more educated on the topic I realized I was not crazy and not alone. I still struggle but my mantra anytime I start ruminating is “I’m healthy and I’m okay”. 🧡🧡
@alyssajohnson582
2 ай бұрын
I relate to this! I never knew a “panic attack” could make you feel that way and I also went to the ER during my first full blown one in 2019 (thought it was a heart attack or something else happening).
@caroljohnstone497
2 ай бұрын
Thanks, Abbey, for being REAL. My heart was hurting for you watching this video! Man, our beautiful human bodies sure are complex. So much goes into every part of our health - our diet (and lack of good U.S. food supply), exercise, pollutants in our environment, making sure we have balance in our lives, etc. Thanks for being YOU - flaws and all. Been a follower of yours for years and wishing you the best. Sending love and a hug from California.
@ccinswim
2 ай бұрын
Yes, do a video on anxiety and mental health problems too. So glad u are doing well now!❤
@HK-cp8tm
2 ай бұрын
Medication withdrawals are terrible! I am so glad I am not having them anymore. God bless babe x
@alexisojudd
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing! I am going through some mental health issues myself and this was a wonderful reminder that nobody is perfect and everyone has their own stuff going on behind the scenes. So glad you're doing better ❤❤
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Sending you such a big internet hug! You will get there too 💗
@docp4449
2 ай бұрын
Tapering off of an antidepressant is such a process. I completely understand
@2Mushy
2 ай бұрын
Yes! It was so hard and like minor torture. I'm glad you're ok
@crimbleland
2 ай бұрын
It’s so hard :(
@queenofstitcheswarrior2668
2 ай бұрын
They have taperingstrips that go down with only 0,2 each 28 days and stabilisation strips too. It’s hell to go from 5mg to 0mg for lots of people
@Daniellekg17
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for being so open about your health anxiety. I have it too and it helps to hear others🤍🤍 Glad you are feeling better!
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
of course! 💗
@meghanwright2829
2 ай бұрын
I cannot tell you how much I relate to this. I also suffer from health related anxiety and convince myself I have terminal diseases. The first time this happened, I was in grad school for occupational therapy and I was convinced I had ALS because I had muscle twitches among other symptoms. I would go in cycles just like you where I would get reassurance from medical tests (EMG) that I was fine and did not have a disease, but then 5 years later the twitches came back and I thought oh it’s here now, it just wasn’t progressed enough before. It wasn’t until an amazing neurologist I saw shared a case study article about other health professionals who also convinced themselves they had ALS when none of them did that I found peace. That and medication and therapy helped me immensely. Thank you for being so candid and sharing this. It helps me so much to know I’m not alone in this fear and I’m sure it helps many others ❤
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
This is exactly what happened to me 🥹 I remember reading that study when I was in my googling hey day lol. The twitching hasn’t stopped, but it is much better than when it first “exploded” if you will and I felt like my entire body was a firework 😂 THANK YOU for this comment. I don’t know anyone else who’s gone through this so it truly makes me feel more seen ❤
@corrienewman6593
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing! Mental health needs to continue to be a topic people are not afraid to talk about. So appreciate your vulnerability and so glad you are on the other side!!
@chalbrook1
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing and being so open and honest. You don’t realize how many people are going through or will go thru the same thing. ❤
@laura_powell3
2 ай бұрын
I'm so happy you're doing so well! As a fellow anxiety sufferer, I totally get having medical anxiety. I've had medical anxiety for the last 2 years and it's real rough. So glad you're better!
@kateedwards7788
7 күн бұрын
Finally, someone who has struggled with this as well. I have never been able to get off of venlafaxine due to how insane the taper off has made me feel all 3 times I’ve tried. Missing even one dose makes me so sick. I am thankful it has kept me mentally and emotionally stable but I really wish it wasn’t so difficult to stop taking it. Thank you for sharing ❤
@Jendy0304
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for talking out. A few of my friends know that I have an irrational fear of home invasion. Being honest about it helps me manage it when traveling, and the support of my family and friends is so appreciated.
@Autumn567
2 ай бұрын
I love how you talk about mental struggles. Brave and inspiring. I’m 29 and having an age crisis, depressed for almost a year now, and recently started new medication for my anxiety and depression cycle. Hoping to bounce back soon. Listening to you makes me feel less alone. Thank you.
@rubybevan2847
2 ай бұрын
I can relate as someone who was on effexor for years! I missed a dose a couple of times by accident and felt so horrible until I figured it out. The tapering process was no problem for me, but everyone reacts differently for sure. Thank you so much for sharing! ❤
@songitout
2 ай бұрын
Glad ur coming out on the other side… I totally understand. The struggle is REAL, I struggle with anxiety and depression sooo, yeah totally feel ur pain. Stay well ❤😊
@nlrod32
2 ай бұрын
I love that you shared all of this. Thank you for always being willing to be transparent about what has gone on for you. I think it's so important to normalize mental health challenges. Also, as a therapist, I'm sorry you weren't able to find someone to help you with this experience. I know it can be really hard to find someone when you're working through something that specific, and I'm glad you trusted yourself and did your own research when the professional feedback wasn't helpful.
@helenabb2912
2 ай бұрын
LOVE this honesty and vulnerability. Thank you Abbey x
@Snider4550
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing all of that so openly. I’m glad you’re feeling better!
@njmack6498
21 күн бұрын
Oh Abbey I am still on that medication after 20 plus years! I went through hallucinations, and every other thing you did! I am way older than you and decided I'm just staying on it but I wish my doctor had told me the horrors you might have stopping the drug. Glade you are okay now. Thanks for being so honest and helping others that may be on this med!💜
@lilwoodsprite
2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing with us and I'm so glad you're starting to feel better. I had my own struggles with anxiety, depression, panic attacks, etc in my 20s & 30s. It's such a dark, dark tunnel to travel through and it feels like it will never end when you're in it. You're my favorite KZitemr and I prefer seeing you & my other favorites in this format. Thanks for all of your hard work!
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Exactly!! And thank you 💗 I prefer KZitem as a viewer too!
@lindabenson1764
2 ай бұрын
I agree, I enjoy KZitem as a platform and have no desire to view Instagram or TikTok for a variety of reasons. Hence, I'm so glad you're planning on staying on KZitem! 😊
@kellybuechner3723
2 ай бұрын
I’ve experienced many of the same mental health issues as you so I’m happy that you got the help you needed and are coming out the other side.
@melissah9958
2 ай бұрын
Thanks for being so vulnerable about your mental health journey. It is so nice to see that sometimes we all need a little help:)
@kaceyisdead
2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Abbey! 🖤 You're not alone.
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
thank you 💗
@gaiafristachi4541
2 ай бұрын
Your video makes me feel less alone in my battle against anxiety, even if I have different themes. My heart goes to all of you living this struggle everyday and every night. Remember that you will feel better, sooner or later!
@ineedmorezzz
2 ай бұрын
OMG. The month coming off Celexa was the absolute worst. I'm now on Wellbutrin. I still deal with anxiety and depression occasionally, but it isn't as severe...usually. I also have anxiety around death and sickness which has extended to fears about my cats dying. On the plus side, I have never had thoughts of harming myself. Thank you for sharing. There are so many of us dealing with similar issues and it's always good to know you're not alone.
@Pennless
Ай бұрын
Oh my god, I'm glad someone else is talking about antidepressant withdrawal from venlafaxine! Thank you for talking about your experience. So proud you made it!
@lindaclements6639
2 ай бұрын
I’m so sooo sorry that you have had to go through this. Thank you for your transparency. Most of all…I just want to say to you that you matter. We, your community, love the freakin heck out of YOU. ❤ May your life fall in sweet and soft places from here on out. I’m so grateful you have such a strong and supportive family and friends…and cute boy…surrounding you. Be gentle with yourself.
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 💗
@krystal4464
2 ай бұрын
I appreciate your openness about mental health so so much. Your personality is a huge factor for loving you and your channel so much. In a way it makes me feel more connected to you as a person, and can relate with my own struggles. The amount of work you put in your videos, the research and all the information you give us doesn't go unnoticed. Please take care of yourself, and know that we are here for a reason. We will wait for the next video, your mental and physical health is much more important. Sending love 💖.
@beckyrobbins445
2 ай бұрын
THANK YOU for being so strong & brave to share this with us all. As someone who has experienced some of that, I can REALLY relate & almost thought I was crazier coming off meds as I was before I started taking them all together. So, so proud of you 🫶🏼❤️
@meghanwright2829
2 ай бұрын
Also, Thank you for the resources for health anxiety!!! I’ve never seen these before and never found a therapist who got it, either. I was totally doing a lot of things you shouldn’t do, and sometimes still do them. You’re amazing and I’m so glad I found your videos. Unrelated note, I’m back on dove shampoos after a 10 plus year hiatus because of you and my hair feels so soft!
@craybayblonde999
2 ай бұрын
Please, don't let a pretty blonde girl who has zero expertise lead you astray. Spend an actual amount of time interview and talking to psychiatrists and psychologists. She has no idea what she is talking about and doesn't care if she hurts or helps people.
@biamfpinto
2 ай бұрын
Hi Abbey, I have also been suffering from health anxiety since my early twenties. For several different times, I have asked doctors to book me so many different exams, because I really thought something was wrong, and most of the times it was "just" physical symptoms of anxiety. It got to a point where I wasn't able to function or focus on anything else, and started to have panic attacks more frequently. I have been better, but sometimes it is really hard for me to believe that nothing terrible is going to happen, and not confuse anxiety symptoms with "real" illnesses. I think it would help a lot of people to know about your experience, so they feel more understood and less alone... Hope you are feeling better now!
@hilaryallen1746
2 ай бұрын
Hi Abby! I feel you girl mental health is such a journey and I’ve dealt with it most of my life. I would encourage you to look into OCD, I’ve been recently after many years thinking I have anxiety, been working through my OCD diagnosis and i have extremely similar manifestations to you with ruminations/obsessions about my health. Wishing you the best ❤❤
@Anonymous4444
2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience Abbey! I know what it feels like to experience horrible withdrawal symptoms from antidepressants.. I had a similar experience with Zoloft. Glad you're feeling better!
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Ugh it is so awful!! Thank you 💗
@shmessica22
2 ай бұрын
I never comment on videos but I had to say THANK YOU for uploading this. I stopped taking my antidepressants two months ago and am still experiencing all of the withdrawal symptoms you mentioned. I’ve been feeling truly insane and alone in this, but your video made me feel less alone. I am sorry you went through all that and I’m glad you’re feeling better. Thank you again for sharing ❤
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Omg I’m so sorry you’re still dealing with it 😭😭 I hope you start feeling like yourself again so soon ❤
@shmessica22
2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@braebookster
2 ай бұрын
I am a newer viewer of yours. I too was on the same medication and dealt with the same things coming off of it. Mostly the nausea, that was worse then when I was pregnant all 3 times, and the brain zaps. I could barely walk due to dizziness it was absolutely horrible. But for the same reason, I stopped taking it because it made me extremely tired. I work full time, I am doing some college classes, I am a wife and mom of three.... I don't got time for that. 😆 I've been off and on of depression/anxiety for a about 10+ years now. Every single medication works for about 6 months and then my body just starts wanting to sleep all the time. It's so frustrating. Anywho, thank you so much for sharing this. It made me feel better that I wasn't crazy and alone in my withdrawal journey. ❤
@tzoe875
2 ай бұрын
Such a useful video! I’m sorry that you had the lengthy process of tapering and withdrawal, but sharing the experience will help others experiencing the same. Please continue to take good care of yourself,
@Sarpy777
2 ай бұрын
I'm very proud of you for being so open and honest, and I must say while watching I felt very grateful for make-up (which sounds weird), but there's something so calming and safe about processing/sharing your thoughts and emotions while doing make-up for yourself. It's a way of soothing ourselves without us realizing it most of the times. I guess that goes for pampering in general. So yeah, just wanted to say that
@suzannepoirier7364
2 ай бұрын
I think you have a calling - people need to know they are not the only ones having anxiety. Thank you for sharing!
@lorraineprewett9417
2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to go through all that, but so glad you are feeling better! Take good care of yourself!
@danielar
2 ай бұрын
I appreciate your content on KZitem and thank you for taking the time to keep on you tube. I hope you don’t leave and would love to see you reduce rather than disappear from this platform. Your reviews of products have never failed me. ❤
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Not going anywhere! This is my favorite platform for sure 💗
@danielar
2 ай бұрын
@@AbbeyYung❤
@victoriasykes5570
2 ай бұрын
Ahhh darling. So happy u r feeling better now. From a fellow insomnia and anxiety situation too. U don't know how bad it is until u can reflect back can u. Big hugs. But now u know the signs. As u get older u r more aware. I know my limits and am quite selfish now. As my mental health is so important. A full on nervous breakdown about my health and my 2 young boys health made me absolute a mental case. Pregablin and mirtazapine saved my mental health and my life. Will never go back, i know the signs and triggers as i have gotten older . So much love Abby xxxxx thank u for speaking about this. I felt so alone when I went through it 15 years ago xxx
@jn6746
2 ай бұрын
Abbey, we all want you to put yourself first, and for the record, your channel hasn't seemed to decrease in quality or quantity to me. I've been following since 2021 and I'm so grateful for all of your haircare work. Thanks for all you do. Please take as much time as you need if you ever need time off ❤
@lorihorbiak1680
2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing that Abby. I think it's important that other women see/hear that everything isn't perfect in people's lives as it may seem on social media. 💕
@ssaaggeeyy
2 ай бұрын
I went through some of my worst health anxiety periods watching your videos to distract myself from my own brain and stop me from spiraling on Google. Can’t believe we were going through the same thing at the same time. I’m so happy that you are feeling better now 💗 thank you for all that you do!
@LizA9294
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story, Abbey. As a therapist I think one of the best things we can all do is be honest and real with others about our struggles because we ALL have them in some way, shape or form. I’m proud of you 😊
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😊❤
@craybayblonde999
2 ай бұрын
Awww...you're not a therapist. But I hope lying on the internet makes you feel special.
@abigailtwidell1011
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking so candidly about this, it means so much to so many of us! ❤
@111shay
2 ай бұрын
I feel so seen🥲 Health anxiety is a living nightmare. I’m so glad you are doing better Abbey💛
@meredithsparks839
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! I was going through withdrawal from anxiety meds at basically the same time you were and experienced MANY of the same symptoms. It took me about 4-6 weeks to finally come out the other side. It’s nice to know I’m not alone. I love your videos and please don’t pressure yourself to do too much. ❤
@ersheri
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so brave and sharing your experience. If you’d like to give us more of what you’ve experienced I’m here for it.
@wiseowl1580
2 ай бұрын
I'm on the other side of dealing with someone who is on/off medication for anxiety. It has shattered my heart, and soul. It has been difficult to maintain the relationship.😢 Ty for sharing I wish nothing but the best for you. Peaceful thoughts. ❤
@jenniferkoltutsky5267
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your mental health journey with us. I hope you’re feeling better! 🙏
@ButtercupMaude
2 ай бұрын
I'm currently tapering off an antidepressant to get on something else so I FEEL YOU. I've not felt like myself for the past 2 weeks. I'm tired, moody, anxious, and my brain and body hurt. I also want to say you create such high quality content, you consistently go above and beyond and your reviews are so thorough. It's obvious you put a lot of time and energy in your work. I've learned SO MUCH from you. But please put your well-being first. We don't mind if you put out less content. We just want you to be happy and healthy ❤
@patriciadiez2049
2 ай бұрын
gosh! I’ve been decreasing the same medication for a year (from 300mg currently on 75mg) and I can confirm it’s AWFUL and SO HARD! I’m a bit concerned I’m not off the “on edge” state (started it about 2 months ago) but I guess everyones progress is different! Don’t ever feel alone in struggling and been vulnerable because all of us (or most 😢) are in the same boat! I’d love to congratulate you for succeeding in the withdrawal process!! You know in your own skin how difficult it is! And also: no need to explain yourself for not uploading! ❤
@chamorrojen1905
2 ай бұрын
Abbey, slacker is not a word that would ever come to my mind for you! As a longtime subscriber, I know you work tirelessly to create consistently great content! You are only human. Please don't worry so much that your subscribers won't understand when you NEED time off. If there is anyone who thinks you are a slacker for taking time that was necessary for your health, let those ones go and just know you will continue to grow just by being your absolute best self. Thank you for your vulnerability and transparency in this video. I really believe it will help others and I hope the many lovely comments I've seen can allow you to give yourself more grace when taking care of yourself ❤
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
thank you so much 🥹💗
@Skadetlk
2 ай бұрын
Abbey your videos changed my hair which gave me so much more confidence, you’re actually an angel don’t be hard on yourself your content is so helpful and useful, take as much time to prioritize yourself as you need whenever you need, always supporting you 💕💕
@hrjohnson77
2 ай бұрын
So glad that you're in a better space right now. I can sympathize with the effexor withdrawals, they're no joke. The brain zaps would keep me awake at night.
@zisel1979
Ай бұрын
I’ve struggled with health anxiety since childhood and I’m almost 30 so I really feel for you and I’m so glad you’re doing better (I am too ☺️). I had a similar experience with traditional therapy, but if the thoughts ever come back and you want to give therapy another shot, look for an OCD therapist that specializes in ERP
@angelag669
2 ай бұрын
I know what it is like to be a workaholic and how stressful it is. I got so bad that toward the end of my career that my MANAGER made me go to therapy. By the time I had to retire I was suffering from depression and having anxiety attacks. Even after I retired I still go to my therapist to deal with chronic pain and illness, insomnia, nightmares and mild OCD. Kudos to you for taking care of yourself. I am glad you still upload to KZitem b/c I don't use Tik Tok but you do what works for you.
@Audrey-qx1tb
2 ай бұрын
abbey!!! oh my god please talk about your health anxiety- i have the same thing and i’d love to hear the opinion and journey of someone who’s on the other side of it. i doubt you’ll see this but i’m tossing my vote in the hat anyway!!
@cynthiabravo8927
2 ай бұрын
You are so brave ✨ Thank you for sharing,you’re not alone 🫂 ♥️
@ScoobyDoosMom
2 ай бұрын
Abbey, thank you so much for being so open about your struggles and really shining a light on how disabling the symptoms can be. Only through education can we finally end the stigma that sadly still surrounds mental illness, when it should be treated no less sensitively than any other illness, that society would never place a stigma on. As someone who has suffered from anxiety (now diagnosed with GAD & PTSD) and depression for 46 years, my heart goes out to you. Anxiety is crippling; just the anxiety about having anxiety is overwhelming. It’s all I ever knew since childhood so it has always been my “normal” but not knowing what it was for years, left me as a very fearful child. I did my fair share of partying in my 20s and 30s. Spent many years in therapy, including drug therapy. I even tried TMS (trans. Magnetic brain stimulation for treatment resistant depression) but unfortunately, it didn’t work for me. Thankfully, that is not the case for everyone and MANY people do improve, I’m so thrilled to hear it sounds like you have through hard work and dedication. Looking back at my life thus far (I’m not 52),I was most able to functio and worked full-time from my 20s to mid-30s but I was also on some heavy duty medications during that time with horrendous side effects, some of which sometimes feel worse than the illness. Unfortunately, nothing has worked for me so far and at my age, it is clearly some thing chronic that seems to be getting worse to the point that I now have neurological pain(which was diagnosed as fibromyalgia, which sadly, the medical community seems to know very little about or how to treat, and I often feel like doctors throw that diagnosis at anything the minute they hear the words “nerve pain” which could have other causes they don’t explore because it’s simply easier and quicker not to.) so on top of taking medication for anxiety, depression, and now sleep, I am also taking medication for fibromyalgia, And the side effects of those meds are as bad as some of the heavy duty mood stabilizers I was originally tried on which my doctor determined way too late, was the wrong course of drug therapy, and it left me unable to sleep without it. I have re-search that medication and found that this happens with a lot of people. It’s not even a sleeping pill but being on it for a considerable amount of time seems to change the brain in someway so now I have one more medication that also causes brain fog and has left me unable to work. Most of my life has been spent as a test monkey on various medications my biological psychiatrist threw at me. And to be fair, he was doing his best, but I’ve only recently found out that this very well, respected psychiatrist, who went to the best medical school in the world, recently had his medical license placed on probation for five years for massively over prescribing medication and not documenting in patient’s charts. He was my doctor for 25 years and I trusted him. I can’t even imagine starting all over because both my friends and I are finding that finding doctors with bedside manner, we’re really willing to sit and work with you, it’s becoming more and more challenging. Unfortunately, many of these medication‘s, along with neuroleptics to treat nerve pain, have terrible side effects like brain fog, sedation, lack of coordination, stomach symptoms (which don’t help IBS, which many people with anxiety also are diagnosed with.) I only found out recently that the doctor was prescribing all my meds, should’ve been running blood test to monitor my liver and kidney functions and never did a single one. He downplayed the side effects so that I did not realize how serious they were; meanwhile, I was falling asleep at work, and once in the car, which was absolutely terrifying. My doctor knew I was driving and never warned me about it.. I would’ve never gotten behind the wheel if I’d realized what heavy doses of multiple medications I was on. I also have been on meds that cause tremendous withdrawal that doctors didn’t warn me about. Coming off of anti-depressants, benzodiazepines, zzz drug sleeping pills (Ambien, Lunesta, etc) can leave you, quite literally unable to function. I just found out that that Lyrica I was prescribed for fibromyalgia, requires being detoxed off of, so I can never just stop it. I would’ve hoped a doctor would’ve let me know that before prescribing it, but that specialist also did not mention it. It’s really unfortunate when those of us who are suffering, also have to become our strongest advocates and do all the research, when medical professionals aren’t warning us about symptoms and disabling side effects. I’m glad it sounds like you haven’t interacted with providers like that and hopefully, you never will. Cheers to continued success. The skills that you learn and how to deal with your anxiety, will come in handy for the rest of your life. Just know that your followers will be here for you whenever you’re able to post videos, but the most important thing is prioritizing your health and you never need to apologize for doing that!
@LauraLVTGW
2 ай бұрын
So happy that you are off the meds and feeling better!! Please take all the time you need, when you need it, we will be here when you post. I am very happy you are going to continue to post on KZitem. I love long form content and only go on Instagram about once a week. Any video you choose to make, I will watch. Watching any video from you, feels like talking to a friend. Years ago I was on meds for depression, getting off the meds was difficult. I believe most people need help at one point or another and hearing about other peoples journey absolutely helps. Wishing you good health and happiness!!! Many blessings!!!💖💖💖
@AbbeyYung
2 ай бұрын
Long form content is my favorite too! Thank you so much 💗
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