Truth. Our biggest cruelty is controlling by NOT controlling.
@cajampa
Ай бұрын
Only if you are unbalanced and I have to deal with you. Or you are hurting someone I care about. I refuse to continue to feel your horrible emotions, so I am going to fix you if you want it or not. Or I am cutting you out of my life. My peace is everything. And that validation hunger I cut out of my valid desire, when I was a young boy. Because I recognized it could be used to control me. I validate myself just fine. It is not hard if you develop you meta cognition good enough. And this seem to be extremely triggering to other INFJ's, because when I mentioned my approach in INFJ spaces. I have gotten attacked for it. And I don't feel my perfectionism is sourced from childhood trauma. Even though I had massive amount of that. I think it is form the pleasure of refining what ever I am working on. To making it better and better over so many versions, over years and decades even. When I find that missing puzzle piece, in my consuming of information that will take it, one of the many projects I am working on. To the next level is the best feeling ever. Even if the implantation of the idea could take years to realize. I love it. It is a great journey. I can not wait to see what I have figured out in the next 5 years.
@gamesak1
Ай бұрын
Partially when i was younger, not in my 36.
@PSYCH-O
Ай бұрын
Hey PSYCH-Os! 👋 *So, do you consider yourself an INFJ control freak?* Comment down below 👇
@janesmith8050
Ай бұрын
Absolutely. But only in my own home. I don't go out into the world, at work, or others homes with any expectation of controlling anything but myself. But in my domain, everything must be in my control unless I willingly relinquish it.
@ikasugami8066
Ай бұрын
I've been called a control freak more than once. 😅
@krishall3187
Ай бұрын
Well said 👏
@drewford3205
Ай бұрын
Love you guys. Exactly it brother
@gildathury5205
Ай бұрын
Yup
@gildathury5205
Ай бұрын
It only makes sense to control my immediate surroundings
@eudoxus3
Ай бұрын
Gimme a break these statements are true for everyone
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