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@Freetoughts
7 ай бұрын
My mahr was €250 and a book and I am very blessed with my husband Alhamdulilah
@Irisesess
7 ай бұрын
May Allah bless you and elevate your status sis 😄🌸
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Allahumma barik
@aliassem1035
7 ай бұрын
May Allah bless your union dear sister
@Freetoughts
7 ай бұрын
Ameen my dear brothers and sister 🤲🏽 May Allah grant everyone a good spouse and knowledge about the Deen. I love and cherish you all.
@aliassem1035
7 ай бұрын
@@Freetoughts Ameen summa Ameen
@luhitadori
7 ай бұрын
Trust me when I say this if she really likes you she would try her best to make the marriage as easy as possible.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Absolutely bro! Have you seen this with people because I have
@miladprive5163
7 ай бұрын
100%
@MrGizmoalchemist
7 ай бұрын
Nicely put.
@unit4593
7 ай бұрын
Make this one a rule of thumb, brothers.
@mlindalina1
7 ай бұрын
This is why people get into relationships and make the woman fall in love with them
@PhobeTracker
7 ай бұрын
The least expenses, the more blessings.
@miladprive5163
7 ай бұрын
Like Fatima zahra with Ali (ra)
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Haqq
@Cricketlover32841
7 ай бұрын
@@miladprive5163 - May Allah Almighty Send His Endless Mercies and Endless Blessings On Our Beloved, Holy, Honourable, And Respectable Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu'alaihi'wa'alaihi'wa'ssallam) and also Send His Endless Mercies and Endless Blessings On His Beloved,. Honourable, Respectable, and Pure Ahl Al-Bayt (Alahisalam). Ameen. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀 May Allah grant us their intercession on the day of Qiyammah. Ameen. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀
@luphuong5239
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit I going to assume that these high cost marriages demanded by the Muslim women are only happen in the western nations.
@Mango-ij6rd
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFitmay Allah bless you
@ismaelahmed8034
7 ай бұрын
Nikkah is becoming so difficult to approach and zina is becoming easy to approach
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
May Allah protect us. Good sisters and good brothers exist so we pray Allah can surround us with them
@ismaelahmed8034
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit Ameen
@suhaibsuhaib5947
7 ай бұрын
Marriage 200k meher,wedding,g wagon Zina=tinder😂
@ismaelahmed8034
7 ай бұрын
@@suhaibsuhaib5947 I don’t wanna live on this planet anymore I say an alien or some E.T in space throw an asteroid or a comet I’m ready for it In fact I’m asking for it
@suhaibsuhaib5947
7 ай бұрын
@@ismaelahmed8034 😂
@ahmedalmahdi9254
7 ай бұрын
As a man who is capable of paying those high mahrs, I would never do it out of principle and respect for myself. You can't be a man of honour if you have to pay your wife exorbitant amounts of money just for her to be with you and you'll never view yourself the same again.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Exactly akhi
@Zazezoo
7 ай бұрын
It’s her right, and you can choose a woman who will ask for whatever you are comfortable with. You seem too controlling, what’s the issue if you can afford? You can’t judge these sisters over KZitem video. They could be better Muslims than you and I. Perhaps they’ll Invest in that mahr, so they never have to work. we don’t know their intention/ plans… etc
@miladprive5163
7 ай бұрын
@@Zazezoo No No and No
@kevinultimate8791
7 ай бұрын
@@miladprive5163bet everything entered in one ear and left from the other one 😂😂
@MenkIsAMubtadiiDeobandi
7 ай бұрын
@ostop freemixing sister
@UmmUmarHamzah
7 ай бұрын
In my situation: I told him not to do a wedding and just set up our apartment well. No extra expenses. No honeymoon unless he wanted that. I did ask for a mehr I thought was reasonable, my husband said he would’ve given me more. At the end of the day asking for a lot would’ve meant we started on the wrong foot in my opinion
@A1.NrThhhh
7 ай бұрын
If you wanted mehr you should ask for something smart,in his means
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Allahumma barik
@Zazezoo
7 ай бұрын
That worked well for you, alhamdulillah Every brother is different. Some sisters ask for less and they get taken advantage off. These brothers go around and marry and divorce in secret and ruin women. One imam advised never to be modest with mahr, that men value that woman that they work hard for.
@jess13133
7 ай бұрын
a female should only ask for 3 month minimum wage salary at most. So that it can survive without depending on the man should he refuse to pay for essentials during 3 months period after divorce. So around 4-10k is reasonable.
@jess13133
7 ай бұрын
@@Zazezoo The females that ask for wealth will get it and receive nothing else and it will enter the hellfire along with the wealth that it want so much.
@hypeszskii7516
7 ай бұрын
I think it depends on the family you are from; I said to my husband give me what you can afford. Why make someone go broke, especially when you will be living with them.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Absolutely. But family values do not come near Islamic values.
@A1.NrThhhh
7 ай бұрын
That’s smart ask for what he can afford in his means
@hypeszskii7516
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit 100%, that’s what I meant; like if you are from a family that bought you up with Islamic values then you won’t ask for ridiculous amounts. Either way you have to pay zakat on the gold or the money once you’ve had it for 1 year. I doubt these girls asking for huge amounts will even know/do that.
@naimas
6 ай бұрын
I think regardless of the family the person may come from doesn't matter. It's ridiculous how muslim women ask for so much money, gold, buying them a house or a very expensive car. At the end of the day you're not marrying someone for their money, but out of love for Allah.
@tridaxpod123
7 ай бұрын
I got married with my husband teaching me something about Islam that I didn’t know and took no money or jewelry from him. We are extremely happy.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
May Allah preserve y’all
@jess13133
7 ай бұрын
The point of paying the wife a sum amount is so that if the husband die the children can at least survive for a period of time. If you follow the law of divorce that say the husband have to pay for at least a month worth and at most 3 months worth to ensure no child or the paternity of the child after divorce then 1-3 months salary is perfectly acceptable. Also the reason why females cant initiate divorce but he man can at any time without any reason.
@layla1796
7 ай бұрын
Isnt this haram? No mahr? U have to take some, there is wisdom behind it, its ordained and one of the 3 requirements. Dont be extreme
@tridaxpod123
7 ай бұрын
@@layla1796according to several hadith of our prophet pbuh. Mahr does not have to be money. It can be dates or even a gift of a surah to the wife .
@jamila442
5 ай бұрын
@@jess13133 Women can divorce their husbands, what are you chatting about? An example of this happening is when Thabit Ibn Qays' wife divorced him (Hadith reference Sunan an-Nasa'i 3463?)
@pinkywinkyx
7 ай бұрын
My own experience, I married my husband when he was a student in his final year. Our nikkah was simple yet elegant and nice with 30 people having a lovely dinner. I asked my husband for something very manageable as a mahr and wallahi we’ve become rich day by day financially as well as emotionally and spiritually. Good intentions and reasonable expectations and expenses will lead to barakah inshallah 🤲🏽
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
May Allah reward y’all
@SayedaMehjabin
7 ай бұрын
Girrl, Allahumma Barik❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ May Allah keep your family happy,Ameen😊❤❤
@kjy05
5 ай бұрын
@@SayedaMehjabinaameen
@englishblade
4 ай бұрын
You do realise the point of the wedding is to show the community you are married, who told you having few guests is good? we are Muslims not non Muslims
@misslink783
7 ай бұрын
Mine was just a hundred pound ring 😅 i wanted to ease my husbands burden so we would have money for more important things
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Allahumma barik
@moxxie987
4 ай бұрын
My mother mahr was 90k exactly! And she deserves it she came from a rich family so she needed to continue on her same lifestyle. My mother's father never wanted to let my mother marry a poor man and that was a great decision.
@axo23867
4 ай бұрын
sounds like shes spoilt
@hellokitty10117
3 ай бұрын
@@axo23867 okay?
@RedaReda-vl9ff
7 ай бұрын
You who reading this,peace be upon you
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu
@zackiejama5592
7 ай бұрын
the Prophet SAW said in a hadith that Qiyamah will not come untill the ummah immitate the non believers and look what's happening now muslim women demanding 100k in mahr in the west? may Allah SWT protect us all
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Allahumma ameen we’re in the end times for sure. What else have you noticed that conveys the Hadith?
@zackiejama5592
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFitwallahi i don't know if it's the same hadith but i did read that he (SAW) said that Qiyamah will not come untill tall buildings were to be built and they would be in competition with each other and look at places like Dubai and Saudi Arabia they build tall builldings for no reason and in Saudithey build hindu temple for these idol worsippers Astaghfirullah
@A1.NrThhhh
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFitconcurrent situation in Palestine there last hope is to go to rafah 😢
@ryojs4286
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFitI think, but not sure there was a hadith relating the Believers would be treated like animals Basically everything happening to the UYGHURS can be seen when people treat animals with cruelty But its even worse
@soubermed2175
7 ай бұрын
When one accept to pay ridiculous amount of money, its a green flag for her to treat him like a peason. The relationship would more of "give" and "take" and at some point, she will be bore of the materialism and leave, leaving the poor guy with debts and broken back
@Muslim-87
7 ай бұрын
Lets be real some times families will ask a for high mahr or you can't marry my daughter
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
May Allah allow men and women to be clearheaded
@adilabaig1368
7 ай бұрын
Brother fayyad, as a muslimah I really appreciate all your videos for the way they are very balanced and unbiased. I have however experienced Muslimahs in the US asking huge amounts too. One of my close relative is also constantly asked to bring more money from home so they can buy 1000s of dollars of house or expensive holiday or car when they just married. But then we have the exact opposite situation in the south Asian nations where women are barely given mahr that averages upto 100 to 500 dollars which would always be just 3 % of what they spent on the wedding. Instead the girl's father is made to spend on expensive weddings and huge number of guests. And many women aren't even given their mahr until much later in life. And some even die by that time and are expected to forgive it completely as a sign of love got the spouse
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
SubhanAllah thanks for your experience, it’s getting into a global issue for sure
@jamila442
5 ай бұрын
That's crazy how they don't get their mahr until later in life or until they die.
@adilabaig1368
5 ай бұрын
@jamila442 Unfortunately it is true. The father even takes huge amounts of loan to pay for his daughter's wedding and is many times also expected to look after the delivery expenses of the first baby and throw a huge party again. At the end of it all, not only exhaust all of their life savings but are also forced to borrow money from others just to save the dignity of their family and his daughter's marriage.
@MrGizmoalchemist
7 ай бұрын
Our parents (Allah bless them) had us request Fatimah Mahr which was not very much, but now in hindsight they realise they may have miscalculated as it’s not just about monetary inflation. Anyways when girls family do things with humility, it’s important guys also don’t take advantage too. Alhumdolilah so glad we have a mother who has helped guide us beyond belief. Always reminding us about the importance of attaining Allah Ta’alas barakah more than anything when it comes to husband’s finances. And I guess my father felt it was his duty to provide and keep his daughters content so that they didn’t go into another household with ‘hungry eyes’ and a hand that wants to take. Finances are relative to one’s needs, spending and wants. Yes it would be nice to have x y z but it’s not be all end all. Love and cherish relations over material wealth and life passes by very happily. (And btw maintaining beautiful relations esp with one’s parents is one of the barakah that many still don’t understand gets you places in this life)
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Wonderful message sis, may Allah keep us pure. I loved the point about your father giving you so you don’t feel deprived in the future and greedy. Allahumma barik may Allah reward him.
@rush003
7 ай бұрын
in india, the girl has to give dowry to the guy to get married and those demands are like a lengthy list and not just that but an expensive wedding so that they can brag about it. But when it comes to mahr [in the city where i live] the guys family would determine the mahr which quite lesser than what they've demanded. i have seen cases where the groom's family cancelling the wedding bc they didn't give what they wanted and treating the girl badly and shaming her for not bringing enough dowry. may Allah guide us all.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Astagfirullah. This is pure jahiliyyah. Allah revealed Islam so we can end ridiculous cultural practices.
@jamila442
5 ай бұрын
If they are Muslim, their marriage isn't even valid. This is illegal sexual intercourse.
@Humaira36858
5 ай бұрын
Yes, here in India, muslims are very influenced by the regressive hindu culture.
@shimmer4771
7 ай бұрын
Salam Alaikum, brother. Good video, as always. My request is you do a video on domestic abuse that goes on in some marriages. There are some Muslim men who beat the wives very hard for no reason and these women are obedient. This happens and needs to be talked about... I have witnessed this. I haven't seen many Muslims speak on this issue. This has me very angry and upset. This type of abuse is not permitted. These are good women who get treated badly. Please speak on this.
@abdulrahmanalkhatib632
7 ай бұрын
Bro, can you make a video discussing weddings? Like culturally we’re expected to throw a big wedding party with music and dancing, but that’s haram. Pls make a vid discussing this cultural taboo.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
In sha Allah bro give me more details
@70newlife
7 ай бұрын
Nobody is going to stand in for your choices on the day of judgement. You need to understand whom you love more Allah or those who expect haram things from you. I did my nikah and walima with one months salary for all expenses in my sisters home. My grandfather supported my decision. I had 25 close relatives for my marriage. Every one warned me of dire social consequences. My friends disappeared for almost a year. My own parents would treat me with distance. I was happy though. I treated every one well despite their behavior. Today it's been 30 years they have forgotten their behavior I have forgiven theirs and I thanked Allah for a wonderful start to my married life and continue to do so. Just think today's world accepts girlfriends accepts zina accepts zina of eye. Why do you feel the world should expect you to do your share of haram that too knowingly. ??!! The world will lead you astray. That is why we Muslims are being butchered in millions and rendered homeless because we love haram of duniya in the end we get neither the duniya nor the hereafter.
@abdulrahmanalkhatib632
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit in Arab and desi cultures, once the Islamic nikkah has been done, we’re usually expected to throw a big wedding party with dabke, dancing, etc. many times it’s weird to not have a big wedding party. And the prophet PBUH encouraged us to have small modest weddings. And of course, these weddings are haram since they have free mixing and music. So please touch up on that.
@frost1419
7 ай бұрын
Well Said brother! Keep doing the good work u are giving to this Ummah!!!
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
May Allah make me a good-doer!
@MenkIsAMubtadiiDeobandi
7 ай бұрын
Brother astagfirullah you have the shirk game "g** of war" shared on your channel
@raianurrahman5985
7 ай бұрын
It's the same thing down here in Australia akhi. It's all talk. They say they want a man like the Prophet(saw), but when it comes to the crunch, they want someone who can spoil them like Kanye did for Kim. Like habibti, you're marrying Abdul from the local kebab shop. And what makes it worse, you got sisters who have social media accounts, who have 5,10, 20k+ followers, of both men and women.. and no doubt they're getting DMs left and right, and because of that, it's creating egos that are inflated beyond belief. Not to mention the doors of making her mahram and future husband as dayooths. Crazy times we living in now. The non-muslim women have more grasp of financial reality and expectations than our sisters do.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
May Allah protect us. Absolutely spot on. I’m sure you’ve seen some good sisters in AUS tho right? Every time I come down near lakemba or bankstown I’m pretty disappointed at the state of modern Muslims myself. Stay safe!
@raianurrahman5985
7 ай бұрын
@FaiyadFit I'm down in Melbourne, scenes aren't as hectic as you see in Lakemba or Bankstown, but you'll find it if you're looking for it. Regardless of where you are, there are men out there who wish to get married, but can't find a sister to get married to, especially one on Deen or one who wishes to marry like that of the Sunnah.
@reine6414
5 ай бұрын
You are right on most part BUT the mahr is not to be minimised either. I saw women asking just for a symbolic 2$ for mahr when the husbands had decent earnings. This does not make sense. There needs to be a balance. ALSO very important but the value of money BACK THEN is not the same value as of RIGHT NOW. In UK for exemple back then you could do a lot of things with 20£ but you can not do much with 20£ today. So you might not have the correct estimation of what 12 Uqiyah was.
@tzarak6257
7 ай бұрын
At this point, we're more like Buying woman rather than marrying them
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Absolutely smh
@donkhan1593
7 ай бұрын
A better term would be "Glorified Prostitution", my friend told me this is quite prevalant in his culture, which is quite sad...
@thatpakiguy3445
7 ай бұрын
Yeah just like the slave trade (“right hand possession”)
@mawadaaaa
6 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFitquestion,is umrah,6k,and a kitten to much…I can’t tell 😭😭
@B_muslim
2 ай бұрын
Depends on the man’s salary
@ranj9750
7 ай бұрын
I am 25 years old and seeing this makes me come to the conclusion of not wanting a woman even more. Ima stay single my whole life as i am not worried about Zina, may Allah ( الله سُبْحَانَهُۥ وَتَعَالَىٰ ) protect us. The West has the audacity to call women oppressed in Islam. Glory to Allah ( الله سُبْحَانَهُۥ وَتَعَالَىٰ ) that i am not desperate and may He keep me away from greedy women. May Allah ( الله سُبْحَانَهُۥ وَتَعَالَىٰ ) help brothers who are desperate for marriage but cannot due to financial problems.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Don’t be black pilled and get married chief. Good women exist and you can find them in the west. Allah can give you from sources you’ve never imagined.
@cool08player
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit Marrlage is a massive scam in the west. Most the wmn out here aren't even desirable. It might be worth it in some poor and impoverished country where they can't afford to be so absurd and demanding.
@ryojs4286
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFitI think he doesn't want to be just like any man But its starting to become unmanageable And this is for the brothers with degrees. Imagine those who DON'T have degrees They are just screwed it seems
@shay-maa4164
7 ай бұрын
@@ryojs4286 not true, as long as the brother is resourceful and shows that he's always actively looking for opportunities then Insha’Allah he will find a good wife. My friend got married and they started with nothing but now Allahumabarik they're finding themselves. May Allah bless their union and grant them all their heart desires that is Khayr Ameen. If a sister is saying no to you because of no degree then maybe keep looking..a lot of our shuyukh had humble jobs in addition to spreading knowledge, may Allah bless them Ameen. There are still humble and gems of women, just gotta approach it correctly or ask help from those that are in good marriages (may Allah bless everyone's marriage Ameen) and those that are trustworthy.
@inarizic4945
4 ай бұрын
Find yourself a western revert. They accept Islam for the right reason and marry for the right reason. May Allah guide and help you find a wife.
@Uzair_Of_Babylon465
7 ай бұрын
Great video keep it up you're doing amazing things also Muslims need to learn about story of Ali RA when he got married to prophet Muhammad beloved daughter may Allah make it easy for all of us ameen 🙏
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Allahumma barik may Allah reward you. I mentioned it in brief but what takeaways do you want us to keep in mind?
@Uzair_Of_Babylon465
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit If you marry blessed brother the money will come as Allah bless marriage with people who fear Allah as Ali RA from being one of the poor people in people in the time of prophet Muhammad later in life was caliph of the Muslims and had 32 kids and many wives after Fatima RA returned with Allah and her beloved father prophet Muhammad this show's the real mahr from a point of view is getting married to great Muslim as that Muslim will rise great Muslims and does kids and grandchildren will change the Muslim world for the sake of Allah.
@thatpakiguy3445
7 ай бұрын
My name is Uzair too lol 😂
@Onewarner
7 ай бұрын
As a Muslim woman, I do not require a mahr or any material possessions from my future husband. My desire is for a partner who will treat me with respect as his wife and provide for our household. I have sought advice from elder women who are happily married and believe that a successful marriage requires mutual satisfaction and longevity. It is important to me that my husband feels appreciated and respected. I am seeking advice from happy couples in hopes of finding a righteous spouse. Please make a dua for me in this endeavor.
@mxrym098
7 ай бұрын
thank you for another amazing video bro, there are insane people who demand higher rate of mahr, even higher than 200k!! plus, i'd really appreciate it if u make a video on how bad and filthy it is to listen to music, and a lot of muslims are struggling with quitting music. jazakallah.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Jazakallahu khair and yes video soon on music in sha Allah. Any other topics?
@alyssachausse6752
7 ай бұрын
I didn’t ask my husband for mahr when we got married I Just wanted to marry him 😂
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
SubhanAllah but a mahr is still required
@jamila442
5 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit "And give the women their gifts graciously. But if they give up willingly to you anything of it, then take it in satisfaction and ease" Quran 4:4.
@evelynedelcourt3533
7 ай бұрын
As a muslim woman, what really bothers me is that it really seems like the woman forgot something: If you want to annul your marriage, you have to give the mahr back. How are you supposed to do that with $100k? Not spend it? I am so confused about a high mahr. On top of being contrary to the sunnah.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
SubhanAllah lol
@jamila442
5 ай бұрын
That Is something I think about too.
@lelu810
7 ай бұрын
"Sis, I'm trying to marry you" - profound words which I can never say to my sis 😅😅
@manday2267
5 ай бұрын
Hahahaah. Maybe the “sis” here is about the: “my sis in Allah;” not the: “sis in family.”
@Ajmolali82
7 ай бұрын
is it any wonder why brothers are going abroad to get married.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
SubhanAllah but good women do exist here, just gotta find them.
@jamila442
5 ай бұрын
I think the part of the reason for high mahr is because we are always told "my money is my money and your money is my money" and also because most of us are never taught that mahr is negotiable and has to be affordable for the groom because I know for a fact I wasn't or at least I don't remember I was taught about this and had to found out on my own. Also I heard it was because some girls are to shy to say no to a potential spouse, so they set high mahrs.
@iymuslim
7 ай бұрын
It’s important to not get disheartened, for the Muslim brothers. A lot of Muslim sisters speak like this jokingly, when push comes to shove, and they find a man they like, they won’t be asking for that much 😂
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Absolutely good women exist in the west dw
@iymuslim
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit btw I love your use of Quran and Hadith to back up your statements. May Allah reward you
@Lightless_era
7 ай бұрын
The prohpet mohammed said: those who demand less mahr are those who will live a long happy life
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Wow subhanAllah
@Lightless_era
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit Good day brother!!
@Wtizreal
7 ай бұрын
@@Lightless_erawhere is the hadith
@khayalie_pulao
3 ай бұрын
In Islam woman has the right to demand any amount of mehr....so who are you to judge ? A woman actually objected to Caliphs Umar, when He tried to tell women to not ask for much mahr...
@BilelMechri-fp5tx
2 ай бұрын
Ok don't complain later why you can't get married
@AbdAllah_54564
7 ай бұрын
You can blame the "His money is my money" ideology holders.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Astagfirullah. Have you seen high mahrs lead to successful marriages or no in your opinion?
@AbdAllah_54564
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit the more barriers put onto halal, the more it's gonna become resentful. A woman who has mercy for his man and thinks about charity for the poor, is a keeper for sure. Of course it'll outdo a high mahr marriage (regardless of the fact people can afford it or not).
@suhaibsuhaib5947
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFitwallah it always ends bad even if i was a millionare i would feel bad for exampel if my wife divorced me and married a poor guy for 3k meher while i the rich dude payed 200k i would feel like she loved him more
@Oceana2257
7 ай бұрын
I told my best friend, i dont want anything for my dowry. I dont have any male muslim family members as im the only muslim in my family. I told my best friend, if the imam decides i HAVE to have a mahr, then ill try to convince him to make the mahr 1 dollar equivalent to whatever currency is related to the nationality of my husband (example; if my husband is bengali, i'd like my mahr to be 1 dollar in whatever his currency is). I dont need extra money, i want my husband. Im not going to marry just for mahr or money, i want to marry for the benefits of Islam and for the love of my husband.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
May Allah bless you but it isn’t up to the imam. Islamically a mahr is required and there’s an opinion that stipulates the MINIMUM of a mahr as well so make sure you follow it.
@Oceana2257
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit i dont have any male family members that are muslim, so ultimately it comes down to the imam to decide my dowry since i cannot choose how much i want. What's the minimum for a mahr? Can i just deny having a mahr altogether?
@longegg-wind9577
7 ай бұрын
@@Oceana2257take the mahr that brother Faiyad explained in the video is equivalent to the amount of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم
@Oceana2257
7 ай бұрын
@@longegg-wind9577 i cant read the last part with the arabic. Can you please translate?
@longegg-wind9577
7 ай бұрын
@@Oceana2257 sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. It’s what is said after mentioning the name of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم. It loosely translates to may Allah send peace and salutations upon him. It is a dua that Allah makes mentions of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم amongst the highest angels
@Lami2156
7 ай бұрын
Why doesn't anyone criticize a phenomenon where men from this particular country (yes, it's only from one particular country, guys!!!) some of them (if not most) have the SAME MENTALITY where they want to have a wife from abroad, rumors have said that women from their own country require high dowries. But the problem is, they want their future wife to come to their country to then be married by a priest. Not only that, they also don't want to learn English/Arabic as a bridge for communication, but expect that their future wife will have to learn their language. I hope big influencers like you can open men's minds from this particular country to understand how important it is to meet and ask permission from women's guardians, and also to make women be aware not to take things easy on themselves in ways that are not in accordance with the Shari'a like this.😢😢
@kasimtime8478
7 ай бұрын
A woman that can be bought isn’t worth having anything above 30k is just reaching
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
U think 30k is even acceptable?
@kasimtime8478
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit it’s enough to make a man feel like because he worked hard for that money so he has to make the marriage work, on the other hand paying 500 seems disposable unless the guy is planning to have more than one wife. But ideally maybe 10-15k
@suhaibsuhaib5947
7 ай бұрын
@@kasimtime8478bro when will yall learn that meher wont stop a man from a divorce be a good wife and you wont worry. if this logic worked the western men would not leave their disrespectful woman even though they lose 50%of their assets,children,have to pay aligmony for life😂
@kasimtime8478
7 ай бұрын
@@suhaibsuhaib5947 it’s not the money it’s the intent of why he got the money if guys had to spend 30k on first dates I’m pretty sure it’ll incentivize them to get something out of it
@Salma_xx
7 ай бұрын
No hate but is 20k/30k that much? I am not even from USA amd i believe it's pretty standard amount. I didn't care for my mehr, compromise many many things for the sake of Allah, but you know what? People think you're weak if you're kind. Anyway, the guy never took the responsibility and used to tell me I am my father's responsibility. And later he divorced me. I wanted it too. But he sent the letter just like this is nothing.
@PE-Decoded
7 ай бұрын
These generations just get more greedy
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Modern ones innit
@notbrainwashed-vk9if
7 ай бұрын
Subhan Allah. excellent topic and very appropriate at this time.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Jazakallahu khair my guy
@Username27071
7 ай бұрын
As a woman, the only thing I want is to perform hajj or umrah. Forget the cash, gold, etc.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
May Allah preserve you.
@anisax23
5 ай бұрын
Being considerate and understanding of my soon to be husbands financial situation I’m only asking for 1k. I had it way higher before but I had to rethink my decision to make it easier for him inshallah. Some women are so unrealistic with mehr it’s embarrassing. Living in a fairytale in their minds
@malaykamudassar2678
5 ай бұрын
i dont know why we have this false idea that high monetary value = being a high-value woman, it's the opposite in fact because nothing is worse than attributing your worth to money/the material world. money does not at all come near character and values. demanding high Mahr is like shooting yourself in the foot; if the amount is so much that it makes him struggle financially afterwards, you will also struggle as you made it difficult for him to provide for YOU.
@khadyndiaye5999
7 ай бұрын
Imma ask for 2 cats (free adopted) and a nice diamond wedding ring (dosent have to be the most exspensive)
@shaicruz176
7 ай бұрын
Answers my question of difficulty finding a spouse and sisters made the marriage requirement even more complex than ever. Years and years been searching no luck whatsoever. I will find my wife in jannah inshallah.
@xshesyourqorqeousxx3
5 ай бұрын
lol so a woman is entitled for wanting a high mahr but a man isn't entitled when he wants more than one wife? The most important thing is that whatever she wants is within that man's means and it does not cause a financial strain on him. If he makes $1 million then $20k is nothing for him. Is it unrealistic for her to get married to a millionaire? Yes? But are they entitled? Nope :) The hadith that you quoted is talking about the FATHERS increasing their daughter's mahr, it didn't say anything about her increasing her mahr about the wives, daughters. and mothers of the Prophets (PBUT). Mahr is literally what the woman desires and the only contingency is that it is within that man's means, not the average man's mean. What is the difference from scrutinizing women for the mahr that they want and women scrutinizing men for wanting more than one wife?
@lambeefbiryani08
5 ай бұрын
In Indonesia, many of new married couple traped into debt's bank cause high mahr and big walimah. They did that just to show-off in front of their community.. May allah make it easy for me, i want to make my own legacy to do daawah..
@Mango-ij6rd
7 ай бұрын
We are all a ummah, we are all brother And sister, and we are all fighting. Fear Allah. IS WHEN WE WERE TAUGH TO LOVE EACH OTHER AND YOU ALL ARE FIGHTING!BASHING EACH OTHER. When Prophet Muhammad( may peace be upon him )used to cry for us.
@BalachBaloch-dx4hj
7 ай бұрын
I’m living in Baluchistan, where parents from the girls side would ask for 200 sometimes 300 miskal of golds making young men wanting to stay unmarried.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Astagfirullah mate
@miladprive5163
7 ай бұрын
It is not a country oké
@shwanmirza9306
7 ай бұрын
@@miladprive5163Ok? No one said that it's a country. It's like saying someone lives in New York, so he obviously lives in the US
@nobody-le2dt
7 ай бұрын
I'm going to be asking for a lamb this has beenin mymind been coupleof yrs and in shaa Allah wontbe changing my mind🥲
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Haha
@rodaisa7274
7 ай бұрын
Jazakalkhaair for this reminder
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Wa iyaakum
@legadoagency7974
7 ай бұрын
My was he read me ayat hursi and his native language before bed for two months after we get married ❤
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
May Allah reward you immensely. How’s the marriage now? Did he take advantage of you or devalue you like these modern muslims think?
@legadoagency7974
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit he’s Turkish and I’m American. He’s everything and more I preyed to Allah for. He’s work hard so all I want is to be the best wife to him for the sake of Allah. I know few would say I can get whatever I want but as a new Muslim female what I want the most is a kind loving husband and to be the best wife I can be for him. It’s sad the some just see the pretty thing in don’t see the long gain. To have a person that will love you take care of you in your family. I started looking at your videos when you was with 3 muslim love your content there and here. I know you help men improve their life but what about the women who want to live our live like it should be may Allah keep blessing you and your beautiful family
@ryojs4286
7 ай бұрын
@@legadoagency7974MuslimSkeptic has his wife give wife courses essentially There was one video on his channel about it I believe
@belgianheskey
7 ай бұрын
This is an important video for people to see
@kadraabdoulkader8033
7 ай бұрын
maher is just a gift from the man to show respect to the woman and her family. not more nothing less! it's crazy how most women themselves attribute their value , and honor with how high the maher is !!! that's sick realllly
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
May Allah protect us. Mahr is a gift.
@A1.NrThhhh
7 ай бұрын
I think in my opinion and experiences in the past having seen with my uncles,cousins it’s just that the more mehr they ask for they aren’t focused as much on the relationship just on the money
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Haqq
@Nurse106
2 ай бұрын
100k Whaaat? Never heard of this. What kind of men agreeing with this... crazy. My husband had depts. So we agreed on a Mahr of 5 euro.
@champbrady633
7 ай бұрын
We don't have this problem in America Alhamdulillah. All these demands that the women requested in your video sounds like cryptic language that: translation-"I'm not really into marriage. I'm trying to enjoy my moment."
@nxronite9994
4 ай бұрын
Bro I’m 21, getting my life together, trying to get closer to the deen. I was planning on getting married early (23 inshAllah) for a variety of reasons but seeing how the modern day Muslim woman is I can’t help but feel disappointed and disgusted.
@mammid9622
7 ай бұрын
are you sure the video isn't satire/ faking it? a lot of these street interviews are distort the actual values of the general Muslim woman
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
I know women who demanded extravagant mahr and men agreed and now the marriage ain’t it.
@wonderer2632
7 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, it is not satire. The Mahr has been inflating over the years. It’s like everyone is trying to outdo each other.
@mammid9622
7 ай бұрын
@wonderer2632 I think a really good wisdom behind Mehr is using it as a tool to gage if a woman will be a good wife or not depending on how much she feels entitles to ask
@MarcyMus
4 ай бұрын
My ma had a muslim friend. who's husband had a more ''You only asked for 20K. then that's all your worth'' attudie. I guess it something that works both ways.
@Sr68720
7 ай бұрын
Mahr should not be low or high but reasonable.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with low wym
@maz8487
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFitthe reason for the mehr is to give security to the woman and to protect them. I think alot of people forget this . Women aren't providers so if god forbid something happens in their marriage they can fall back on the Mehr. I'm against women asking for unreasonable amounts because that is unfair on the man and just greed but equally men need to pay according to how much they earn and what they own, they shouldn't shy away from this responsibility and it should be taken seriously. I'm not yet married but when i do in sha Allah get married i will ask according to what the man can afford
@محمد678
7 ай бұрын
Women are supposed to give the amount of mehr after finding a man, not before so she can make it based on his wealth, she can ask for any amount don’t get me wrong but it’s unlikely she’ll get married if it’s out of his budget and the prophet said the lower the mehr the better!
@junayedmustofaghalib4683
7 ай бұрын
Do not take them seriously. They are just ''stating'' their ''requirements'' for the heck of it (and maybe for the camera too). They do not mean all those. Women generally speak from a feeling-centric basis and their ''requirements'' will change like the wind. You could tell from their body language and tonality. They are not as entitled as we think they are. Women are agreeable and once you meet these same women in the video for marriage, 90% sure they will tone it down by a lot. Just a realistic take.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Absolutely but I know actual women who demanded tens of thousands of dollars and men who paid it
@bethere7862
3 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit desperate men are making our life much harder lol
@H786...
7 ай бұрын
apparently if u convert mahr fatimi to todays dollars is 9k usd. need more info on this
@yuriosato3565
5 ай бұрын
In india dowry given by woman to man and is close to the 1x-2x the mans yearly salary and the mahr is namesake like it'd be be his one month salary (upper middle class) and they even demand more money if the girl is dark skin or somethibg as if that is something to compensate for. They want all the princess treatment and be the man of the house too. Its crazy out here.
@mr.mystiks9968
7 ай бұрын
Let me ask if you think a wali asking for this is halal or not. As an Egyptian Muslim, there’s a cultural expectation to buy a home and furnish it in order to get her father’s approval. Mehr not included. I kid you not, I couldn’t find a decent home in my area that was affordable without using a mortgage. What happened? I paid $35K to own a piece of the home then $10K in fees to use a mortgage to get the remaining $300K needed. I tried looking for halal lenders and saw that they all are in fact not sharia compliant. So now I’ve dropped $45K to pay off a small piece of the home and get a 30 year mortgage. Of course the home is old on the inside and needs renovations. Floors, bathrooms and the entire kitchen need to be replaced and more. I paid some Egyptian and Palestinian brothers to do the work, so their labor plus materials came around to $50K. I’m happy to give them that money for their effort since they’re part of the community and the work was good. The mehr is $8K USD. In total I spent over $100K+. My parents say “but it’s YOUR house, not your wife’s” yet I feel like this is all mehr in a weird way. Sure she doesn’t own the home but the fact that it’s all a condition to get married is insane. Haven’t even paid for the furniture yet. Crazy wali syndrome where Egyptian fathers think not owning a home or apartment equals you being a failure as a potential husband.
@kadraabdoulkader8033
7 ай бұрын
subhanallah, even mortgage is haram. you could've just rented a house and then collected many to buy a small house
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Bro may Allah make it easy on you. All this is pre-Islamic ignorance and nonsense. This isn’t the way. Expecting a man who wants to marry your daughter to go into riba and pay beyond his means. What’s wrong with rent? This is total nonsense and may Allah punish the ones that do this knowingly. Sorry you had to go thru this.
@mr.mystiks9968
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFitI pointed out how there’s nothing wrong with renting, but they always bring it back to money by saying, “when you rent, you still own no property and the landlord takes all the benefit”. Totally absurd since you can at least save more money while renting, and eventually buy a home in a better situation. Ironically the Wali inherited his home when his father passed. So there was no real hardship for himself to own a home when he had to get married. A lot of Walis had property handed down to them back when Egypt’s economy was stronger. Now if you tell the same Wali to buy an apartment given TODAY’s economic and opportunities, he simply can’t do it but expects YOU to. When you quoted “You cost me everything I own, and cost me a great deal of hardship” I felt like a clown because that has been my mindset the entire time. It cost me all the money I saved up, and the whole process of buying homes and getting my offers rejected, going thru a lender, going thru lawyers, finding and paying people to work on the home sounds like the a great deal of hardship. The whole process took nearly a year of looking for homes, investigating supposedly “halal” lenders, etc. At least if and when I have kids I will make sure they’re not subjected to this nonsense.
@TeeG-ye7ic
4 ай бұрын
If your use to that lifestyle-meaning if your family is a wealthy family and you have a certain standard of life then there is no problem in requesting a mahr that is higher. Now if your from a working class family and your family couldn’t afford the electric bill then sis lower that chest why would you want to start your marriage in debt.
@hoodibrando
7 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah
@naimam8212
7 ай бұрын
Honestly, I think you guys are partly to blame for this. Here me out, when you use language surrounding mehr like “worth” like “you’re not worth that”, as if the mehr value is an equivalent to her value. When women hear men have different mehr standards for different women. Women start to then feel like they’re disrespecting and cheapening themselves by asking for little.
@M.SA93
7 ай бұрын
It is not true that many men set a specific dowry for all women, it does not matter if they are beautiful or not, and it is known in religion that the one with the least dowry is the most blessed, because he is a man looking for a married life. If a woman thinks about luxury matters, she is not prepared for marriage and does not have the qualities of a wife.
@suhaibsuhaib5947
7 ай бұрын
There are woman in the comments literly comapring themselves to products saying men wont take something cheap serious dont blame this on the men
@QUITEPLZ
7 ай бұрын
Someone who's sort of "been there done that" - I can tell you the Prophet ﷺ spoke the truth. If you aren't man enough to offer what you're able to pay, if you're not man enough to say no to high demanding mahr, whether the demand is from the sister, her father or even your own standard of the society, then you "will resent" and regret your decisions. And suffer for a long time.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Absolutely. Men bend over too much for what’s beyond reason
@Prep4hereafter
7 ай бұрын
Many of this sisters might not even know the basic fundamental creed of a muslim, the true worth of a woman is her mindset and her ideology, same applies to man.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Absolutely. First to name their mahr and last to tell you where Allah is.
@sarahgarrett1850
7 ай бұрын
As-Salaam Alaikum. 😢😮❤❤❤
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Walaikum assalam
@YourAverageGuy786
7 ай бұрын
My brother i am 15 and I feel so lost when I watch your videos it makes me wonder about my future I’ve been watching your videos for a while now and i was thinking does the call have to be video and voice or is it possible for me to just message as I don’t know if I’d be comfortable using video or voice idk if this message is weird but I feel like im heading the wrong way in my life and would rather try seek some guidance
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Dm me on Instagram then to text
@manday2267
5 ай бұрын
He only talks about those women. Like if he told you about the good women in his videos then you think that your future would be bright. So the TL;DR is just ask the good luck from Allah. And have a knowledge of how to make your wife happy, and who wife should you chose, and how to treat your wife, and your Children, and learn them. Like don’t get me wrong it’s not complex and hard. It’s just need knowledge, and it would be so much better to learn from now, since learning is extremely good for any age; no matter of what is it. Btw I'm also 15. 😂❤
@nijma5526
5 ай бұрын
You kind of have to remember people back then money meant nothing to them nor was it really a thing until a few hundred years ago
@PHX-576
7 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah. Muslim brothers will know to avoid women like this. Materialistic.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
In sha Allah akhh
@phanatic4466
7 ай бұрын
lol if I have to pay that much for mahr, I better not have to raise even a single finger when I’m home.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Imagine that bro because in reality you can still not pay a high mahr and have an amazing wife who doesn’t let you lift a finger
@phanatic4466
7 ай бұрын
Make dua for me brother so that Allah may grant me a wife like that.
@ryojs4286
7 ай бұрын
@@phanatic4466ameen
@Technology_Releases
7 ай бұрын
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@sa30431
5 ай бұрын
If anyone would have given a higher dowry it would have been the Prophet Sallalhu Alayhi Wa Salam himself. If some woman are saying they don’t want to come across cheap .. by that logic are they better in faith or value than the mother of the believers? Men should not succumb to such demands. We live in times when holding onto the deen is like holding onto burning coal. May Allah guide us all.
@meanderingmangomanthe1stof611
7 ай бұрын
The short answer: because there are men desperate enough to pay
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Men need to stop s*mping now
@hajirachandlay
7 ай бұрын
Here in South Africa it's all about the women having money 🤦
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Astagfirullah
@hajirachandlay
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit lol
@frankiecal3186
7 ай бұрын
These Niikah's are crazy.
@galaxiay098-kp2mn
7 ай бұрын
Just Curious 😅 What's a reasonable dowry, according to a man?
@hariss8876
7 ай бұрын
It depends on your circumstances and what you have in your pocket and how much you're willing to give? It's better to give scenarios such as his salary, savings etc
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Reasonable depends but no more than $1k-3k
@muslimwhostrying
7 ай бұрын
IT IS A MINOR SIGN OF THE HOUR THAT DOWRIES AND HORSES BECOME EXPENSIVE AND THEN CHEAP (I'm a muslim sister js lmao) Khaarijah ibn Al-Salt Al-Burjami said, "We went out with 'Abd-Allah from his house [to the mosque] and the Imam was bowing, so we bowed and then went to join the row. A man passed by and said, 'As-Salaamu 'alayka (peace be upon you), Abu 'Abd Al-Rahmaan.' He said, 'Allahu Akbar, Allah and His Messenger spoke the truth.' When we finished praying, we said, 'Abu 'Abd Al-Rahmaan, it is as if you were startled by the man's greeting?' He said, 'Yes indeed. It was said that among the signs of the Hour, the mosques will be taken as thoroughfares, a man will only greet another whom he knows, women and men will get involved in trade together, **and women (i.e. dowries) and horses will both become expensive, then they will become cheaper and will never become expensive again."** Recorded by Al-Haakim from the Hadeeth of 'Abd-Allah ibn Mas'ood, and classed as Saheeh by him. It was recorded by Al-Tabaraani from the Hadeeth of Al-'Adda' ibn Khaalid. Al-Haythami said: "Its Isnaad includes some whom I do not know." Pg. 143 - The End Of The World: Major And Minor Signs Of The Hour, Darussalam.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Scary time we live in. What else have you noticed?
@ryojs4286
7 ай бұрын
Jazakallah khyrun sister Also some advice to you and all Muslims not to use lmao As the A part is derogatory You can ask a sheikh tho if your unsure
@SmellyT03z
7 ай бұрын
0:08 sister, your not even wearing hijab and you asking for what most mens entire life savings are???
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Astagfirullah
@SmellyT03z
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit Salam faiyadfit I was wondering if you could make a video on increasing will power because I’m sure that all of us are experiencing this major fitnah within us and it would be good for us all to have a guide on increasing it with the power of Allah SWT.
@glzsyy
7 ай бұрын
I swear i just want 2 kitten as a Mahr from my future husband, If you truly love him then Money and other properties are nothing comparing to him, We will work and make money together and Insha Allah will fulfill these desires but by working together and putting our efforts together. Marrying him alone will be a precious thing for me but I won't negotiate over Kittens.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
SubhanAllah may Allah bless y’all
@kaix6023
7 ай бұрын
I genuinely don’t know a single girl that’s asked for or been given more than £500 and they’re not marrying broke men. I think these people just say extortionate amounts as a joke. No one would genuinely ask for £20k mahr. Why would they want to look greedy in front of their husband. Especially since for a lot of men marrying “gold diggers” or women who are only with them for their wealth is a big insecurity.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Seems understandable but I know women that asked for $20-30k+ and brothers that accepted 😳
@miladprive5163
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit20k dollars or 20k lira ? 😂😂😂
@Rifqiethehero
7 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, this is quite common in Malaysia... The higher your education is, the higher the mahr. Majority of these cases happen because the parents from the girl side of the family demand the men to pay higher mahr because their daughter has higher education like PhD... But they can't cook even a simple fried egg
@MrGizmoalchemist
7 ай бұрын
Lol
@mohamedmo8128
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFitDepends on the brother's net worth. If he's a multi millionaire demanding 500K is not ridiculous. If he works a minimum wage job 20K is ridiculous.
@FAJR-MV
7 ай бұрын
Can you ask andalusi about the War Room?
@laimatrb
7 ай бұрын
subhan allah
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Alhumdulillah
@asmamuthana4321
7 ай бұрын
Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allâh is All-Aware of what they do.
@L44YSN
7 ай бұрын
Some of them must be joking, I dont think the woman thinks shell get married if shes asks for 50k plus g wagon gold and a house. Cant be, its for views.
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
Be it. But I know sisters who asked for tens of thousands and brothers paid it.
@L44YSN
7 ай бұрын
@@FaiyadFit yeah ofc, the point you make in your vid still stands for sure just some of them seem so absurd that it must be a joke lol. May allah bless you akhi
@Yoyoadventure
7 ай бұрын
« If you’re a broke boy just say so 💀 » No but seriously I think women are allowed to ask for whatever Mahr they want if you can’t pay it means she doesn’t want to marry you. In Islam the man have to be the provider if you can’t afford mahr you can’t afford a wife. Not all women ask for crazy numbers, respect the one who does Even Omar رضي الله عنه admitted that it was wrong to put a limit to the mahr. A lot of men just don’t want to fulfill their responsibilities as providers and that’s sad. If you can’t afford her don’t marry her as simple as that don’t cry about it. Allah gave us the rights to decide our mahr so if it’s 1M so be it . May Allah guide us through the right path
@Yoyoadventure
7 ай бұрын
@@maryamanver236 exactly! That’s so sad that they focus on such matters and belittling women instead on focusing on what really matters 🤧
@raphaelnouh1442
7 ай бұрын
@@maryamanver236men can’t slack around regardless of the mehr. The man has to provide? There’s more to marriage than money. Are you looking for a husband and to start a family or money? Yes you have the right to ask for whatever amount you want, but if your being extravagant your just setting yourself up, not to mention most men looking for marriage don’t have stores if money lying around. All these expensive Mehrs do is make it harder for people to get married.
@raphaelnouh1442
7 ай бұрын
“A lot of men just don’t want to fulfill their duties as providers.” Source?
@M.SA93
7 ай бұрын
Whoever told you that the one who wants to pay a lower mehr means that he cannot be responsible or that he is poor. Most men’s financial condition is average and less than average. The rich do not exceed 10%, and the lowest mehr is more blessed, even though my financial condition is higher than average, but I will not pay the value of this mehr
@suhaibsuhaib5947
7 ай бұрын
Stop lying to men meher id just a gift it has nothing to do with him being a provider otherwise the profhet would pay a 1 million dollar meher and no it got nothing to do with a womans worth othwrwise the golddigers would be the mother of the belivers instead of khadija ra,and we want to marry a woman not buy her what is this if you cant afford her dont marry her,if you a man and your potential asks high meher move on if she really was attracted to you she would even do zina rule for the miskeen brother but not for the duse you acctually want😂🤦♂️
@imldn8372
7 ай бұрын
For the streets.
@hellokitty10117
3 ай бұрын
aib alek wallah
@yetundealimson5767
6 ай бұрын
People are just becoming too materialistic which is just an illusion. Mahr should be simple and moderate not extravagant.
@samirazouhri8498
7 ай бұрын
🌹
@FaiyadFit
7 ай бұрын
💪🏼
@zamzamabt
7 ай бұрын
😂😅 this was funny are those women trying to robber men😂
@manday2267
5 ай бұрын
I know, these are actually terrible to marry… Idk why they marry those. 🗿😂
@hellokitty10117
3 ай бұрын
i think a good 7000 dollars would do it
@a4482921
7 ай бұрын
I think women demanding high mahr can be a good thing, it lets the men know who to avoid 🚩
@duha0001
7 ай бұрын
Woman do not need such high mehr. Im a woman myself, and it can actually be a red flag for the woman not the man if she is wanting so so much from a man.
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