Same. It seems to be the best alternative these days.
@bluecrocks
Ай бұрын
Same
@Nubbley
Ай бұрын
Me as well.
@jonthomson9262
Ай бұрын
Outside of sex.......what does the modern american woman have to offer?????
@royaldee400
Ай бұрын
@jonthomson9262 stop dating broke woman. Once she really likes you, she has alot to offer
@royaldee400
Ай бұрын
The problem is men are still looking for love, woman are not looking for love anymore. They are looking for a lifestyle. You have to be able to give em an illusion and unfortunately that cost MONEY. 😂
@apreviousseagle836
Ай бұрын
nailed the problem in the simplest of terms. I'm going to shamelessly steal your line :)
@blueboyd5297
Ай бұрын
I think they always were looking for a lifestyle...the GUY is just a fill-in-the-blank that she hopes is attractive 😂🎉
@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
Ай бұрын
That part , men want love and relationship, family Women want sex fun and options
@JohnDoe-pd4jo
Ай бұрын
Men are in love and women are in business.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
It's Not Even A Lifestyle They're Just Looking For Money [Or Drugs] And Someone {Stupid Enough} To Take Care Of Them😌 & Nothing More😎
@jonathancoleman6482
Ай бұрын
My ex girlfriend broke up with me in 2020 in recently she tried too get back with she got 2 kids by 2 different men in 4 years I respectfully rejected the offer.
@4yajustblazin
Ай бұрын
Good on you brother
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
Great move 👍🏾
@Nick_Nightingale
Ай бұрын
They always come back. She didn't come back for YOU... she came back for your WALLET.
@jonathancoleman6482
Ай бұрын
@@Nick_Nightingale 💯
@cultusdeus
Ай бұрын
Gosh the sheer audacity to expect men to raise other men's kids. . . nuts.
@bluecrocks
Ай бұрын
It’s like you said women get bored and leave even the men they find attractive. Women have nothing to lose hopping from guy to guy but men we have our whole life to lose. Women get saved by the system but men don’t.
@asdfxcvbn746
Ай бұрын
women don't get saved either. its a false sense of security. they go from guy to guy, losing their sexual market value in the process. they're cooked by 35 & then men stop saving them by age 40. its all downhill from there. as a man it seems dire, but if you just focus on self-improvement, even small amounts. its all uphill after age 40. for women its the opposite.
@beeblack2210
Ай бұрын
Oh yeah they got a lot of risk and that's time. Tic Tok ⏰
@k1ndr3dspirits
Ай бұрын
⏰ 👈😂
@JohnDoe-pd4jo
Ай бұрын
This!!! We get no help. Mean while they got crutches left and right and this is exactly why men have to learn to be selfish and put themselves fiest.
@Mantakendown
Ай бұрын
@@JohnDoe-pd4jo Best mature advice to mans conference that can save many lives.💯👍
@markjones741
Ай бұрын
Saving your money is a simple skill. But don't be a fool when it grows.
@user-fm3tu6gu4r
Ай бұрын
I'll never ever get married or have kids.
@hugostiglitz8465
Ай бұрын
Ditto. Same here.
@Josh-de2tj
Ай бұрын
You are smart
@morisco56
Ай бұрын
Same, Even if I want to I will never have a couple, the problem is that I will be the shame of my family and everyone I know
@jonathancoleman6482
Ай бұрын
@@morisco56 I only want 1 kid
@hms9891
Ай бұрын
Having kids sounds miserable, freedom thieves and pocket pirates
@Oceanviewcoffeeshop
Ай бұрын
I was married 20 yrs, been divorced 10yrs and im in the best shape of my life mentally and physically
@ashleycharleslouw6488
Ай бұрын
If you don't mind sharing your story brother, what led to the cause of the divorce?
@jonthomson9262
Ай бұрын
Your better off without her........its just that simple.
@blkgranit333
Ай бұрын
It's been millions of us men who have been divorced graped. Some never recovered. Some of us are even better than before. May peace be with you, my brother.
@Don380s
Ай бұрын
It seems like a scary transition from being married to single
@George-ri6vg
Ай бұрын
I was married for 12 years divorced eight years ago. The last eight years have been the best years of my life physically and mentally as well. It’s a great feeling to be free and to have control over your life.
@TherandomguyTV
Ай бұрын
To get married now seems like a fairy tale 😂
@jbmoney357
Ай бұрын
Or a nightmare..
@HammGwap
Ай бұрын
@@jbmoney357a damn nightmare
@TherandomguyTV
Ай бұрын
@@jbmoney357 I hear you man I’m not getting married not until late in life
@jbmoney357
Ай бұрын
@@TherandomguyTV I'm later in life now. Gonna be 50 in December. Not a snowballs chance in hell that I'd take a woman farther than the bedroom. By the time you're my age, you aren't inclined to wanna lose anything you've worked for.. and start over!
@HammGwap
Ай бұрын
@@jbmoney357 smart man
@Mike-ec2rr
Ай бұрын
No sane guy wants to be long term with modern women anymore. The risks outweigh the benefits, and men are becoming increasingly aware. Short term flings are okay, but nothing long term.
@LeonTheBeast363
Ай бұрын
Short term fling is the way💯. Ain't nothing being missed, you still getting the same goods and you pay her to leave.
@Mike-ec2rr
Ай бұрын
@@LeonTheBeast363yea they all come with too much baggage. They can go somewhere else with the baggages after we're done.
@user-qo1us9oc7g
Ай бұрын
fun only and you are good
@jonthomson9262
Ай бұрын
Other than sex........what benifits????😂😅
@Lucciii32
Ай бұрын
@@LeonTheBeast363don’t pay her at all 😭😭
@rockkstah2550
Ай бұрын
I was in a 15 year marriage, now divorced (she initiated )and single for 4 years now. It took me 4 years to recover , involve at my local church, financially recovered, I am now mentally,spiritually,emotionally healthy, and very productive at my Job. Peace and tranquility these days are priceless. At the gym 3x a week and loving life. Life is good!
@HammGwap
Ай бұрын
I’m happy for you man foreal
@Mantakendown
Ай бұрын
@@rockkstah2550 Thats traumatic bro im sorry to hear and im glad you turned negetive into positive.
@rockkstah2550
Ай бұрын
@@Mantakendown it’s all good man, I wouldn’t trade what I went through for anything cause it has taught me how to appreciate the little things things in life and to appreciate people.. most of all GOD JESUS has done a new thing in my heart and life.
@shanetoler9905
Ай бұрын
Stay single fellas. Focus on your craft. You can always rent a professional woman whenever you need to.
@39mack23
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@IvanChristopher.
Ай бұрын
Don't be that loser
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
Got Damn Boi🤗 Thank You Jesus☝️😎👌
@Notthatkevguy
Ай бұрын
I wasn't made for a partner. I don't have the qualities that women desire. A life of solitude is my path
@sirg-had8821
Ай бұрын
Same here
@TheAlfa1Omega
24 күн бұрын
Don't be silly! There's someone for everyone.
@sirg-had8821
24 күн бұрын
@TheAlfa1Omega There must certainly is not.
@Notthatkevguy
24 күн бұрын
@@TheAlfa1Omega Wish I could believe that
@TheAlfa1Omega
24 күн бұрын
@@Notthatkevguy Well, I hope you find a good woman that will love you for you.
@cultusdeus
Ай бұрын
As a Gen X man, if I was 20 again today, women, marriage and dating would be so far down my list of priorities they would cease to exist.
@teastrainer3604
Ай бұрын
It's just not worth the hassle. Simple as that.
@wl6020
Ай бұрын
Thats what we all say, but if you or me is 20 again, we would watch these videos, learn the lesson, and then turn around and put a 20 year old sarah, jennifer, and kelly on a pedestal and simp because theyre so awesome, and we know if we get older we must have money to access 20 year olds. We will see how much hard work, sacrifice for the next 10 years to get to be millionaires. Simping now would make more sense since there might be a shot with sarah, and there is a big chance we wont be millionaires
@DrewMIATL
Ай бұрын
My parents did such a good job raising me. They did the best they could…and I can’t even give them grandchildren because these women are so unbelievably horrible.
@WorldlyAuras-ze9yf
Ай бұрын
Go to another country. Import is the new meta. Seriously, there are plenty of non American women who want traditional marriage and family.
@tubalcain6874
Ай бұрын
I'm 66, a lifelong bachelor (not for lack of trying when I was younger), so it is what it is. I can state unequivocally that many women were just as bad back in the day as they're today. They just didn't have the internet to validate and enable each other. All I can say to young men is be mindful and watch your backs.
@blueboyd5297
Ай бұрын
I agree. The women are the same...the environment changed is all
@hugostiglitz8465
Ай бұрын
@@tubalcain6874 ' Watch your wallet too!
@MichaelParker39
Ай бұрын
I’m single by choice because the modern woman likes to play with men’s heart and emotional games can destroy men’s mental health and It’s not going to happen on my watch
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
Yeah😏 It's Crazy😌 If U Can't Control Her, N Ya Bitch Don't Answer Your Phone Call And That Gets You Emotional, Worried, Concerned, Makes U Wonder Or Frightened, Well Then You Don't Need A Woman's Relationship🤗 Period😎
@larvancioramos9748
Ай бұрын
Everything will be all right just adapt.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
1 Play😏 2 Pay😌 3 Go About Cho Motha Fuckin Way🤗 HA Ha ha🤣 Like Dat☝️😎👌
@ChrisAthanas
Ай бұрын
That happened to me and I became a minimalist
@shanesmith5198
Ай бұрын
The way thing are going I think i will stay single for life .
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
Yeahhh Cause Having Kids Is Gonna Cost You BIG Time😏 It's Not Like It Was In The 70's 80's And 90's😌 Where You Could Have Kids And Get Away With It🤗 Now Having A Kid Is Pretty Much A Crime With A Huge Penalty Thanks To Womens Rights And Women😎
@t.p.m.414
Ай бұрын
I turn 37 in 2 months and I can't imagine being in a relationship between working & handling other business. It's just not a reality for a guy like me. 😢😢😢😢
@53strat55
Ай бұрын
31 and after having loads of fun with women, I do have to admit. I'm fully done now, avoiding them. Not even hooking up, not worth it.
@BrianReplies
Ай бұрын
I've been married to a traditional woman for almost 23 years. It's honestly the best it's ever been. It really is everything most men want where marriage and family is concerned. Unfortunately, I wonder if I got the last "good one" before they broke the mold of that kind of woman and decided to only make the "new model". Kinda like electric cars. Very few people want them. But they are SURE that everyone does and they want to pressure you to buy one. I worry for my son. He'll be 18 soon and the next 10 years are going to be tricky for him. Imagine growing up with a mother who is the very definition of love and grace and feminity...who didn't let herself get fat, and is able to dress fashionably and beautifully without crossing the line into the realm of immodesty.... imagine growing up seeing THAT....and then having to go and try to find the same kind of woman today. It's gonna be tricky.
@JEFFMAN90
Ай бұрын
Tell him to go overseas because western women are finished
@Manhwa-recapped
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂 it's funny because that's not the real problem, the real problem is them trying to attack or give him some other man's baby to raise
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
How Can You Eat Just Pancakes For 23 Years, And Be Right Minded, Or Even Still Happy Doing That?🤔 There's No Way, I Can Eat Only Pancakes For 23 Years, Ion't Care How You Fix Em😏 Pancakes, Are Pancakes😌 Are Pancakes🤗 So How Can You Have Sex With The Same Woman For 23 Years Is Basically What I'm Asking? Ain't No Pussy, Like New Pussy?🤨 Or Have You Cheated?😎
@RobMatton
Ай бұрын
@@BrianReplies gonna be tricky?? It ain't gonna be possible......
@brettcatterall7761
Ай бұрын
I quit dating but I got gang stalked by women the other day at the club. They told the club president I threatened them which never happened. They got mad when I called out their toxic gossiping about another woman. I'm under a 30 day suspension as of yesterday and was told to never come back after my suspension ends. Men in the club yesterday are not pleased I got kicked out and a hornets nest has been sturred up trying to get my suspension revoked. All of my problems were over false allegations and the club president simping for women's poor behavior
@zombine7103
Ай бұрын
This society is rotten. I dont think it will get any better.
@brettcatterall7761
Ай бұрын
@@zombine7103 it's really easy to be degraded and most are degrading with society. The damage in the last 10 years will take hundreds of years to recover. It takes 100 times more effort to become a better person. We lived through the best years in history. It peaked and now it's gone
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
That’s crazy I have many club incidents that should have never happened too😂. I’ve had instances with women trying to get an advantage over me and the excuse is, “I’m just a woman” “send me money” “I’m just a woman” “why you so defensive” “I’m just a woman”. I even had a girl who I had a close relationship with for years say I tried to trap her in a night club bathroom even after I brought her and her friend hundreds of dollars of drinks and sent her money for an Uber, she literally lied and tried to make me apologize the next day and feel bad and simp for her bc she thought I was too drunk too remember. Sickening bro and def no hard drinking around them
@brettcatterall7761
Ай бұрын
@@germainechris a new bartender was hired and within a week she's trying to control the customers and myself as a customer by saying what we can say do and not allowed to do. She sent the other bartender home as she was starting her shift and the new bartender told all the customers about hidden liquor bottles and her being drunk and smelling like booze. All made up for a power move. A meeting happened and they were told to make up. The new bartender was bullying me yesterday and I told her 4 to stop it. Then I called her out saying nobody likes you and you're a coward for telling customers about things that never happened. President called me and chewed me out big time and suspended me for a minimum of 30 days. Half the club is mad I got kicked out for standing up for myself and the other bartender. They're going to have a meeting about me tomorrow and the other members are going to give their side of the story. I reached 4 yrs sober last week and I probably shouldn't be hanging around clubs. Might be a good thing and set me on a new better path in life
@ldn876
Ай бұрын
Yet you will go back and chase the easy Emma's.
@apreviousseagle836
Ай бұрын
single here. got the snip, zero kids.
@Lucciii32
Ай бұрын
😭😭 goofy cut of his own balls and thought that was smart.
@Heavon1999
Ай бұрын
I been thinking about getting one early I’m 24!
@apreviousseagle836
Ай бұрын
@@Heavon1999 Well, make sure you really don't want kids. Also understand that you are reducing the chance of finding a good woman, probably by 90-95%. Normal women who aren't ridden want kids. We are placed into a wall and a hard place tbh. Even if you find a good woman who is pure, once you have 2-3 kids, your tas tee calls now belong in her purse. You are completely at the mercy of this woman. But if you get the snippity, then you won't find a good woman, just down to eff cylinder riders, and you're just another one.
@stayhungry1503
Ай бұрын
"Juice aint worth the squeeze"
@BEN-oi5zu
Ай бұрын
I wanted the wife and 2.4 children growing up but as I approach 50 I am glad that it never happened for me. I look around the battlefield at the people my age upto 60 year olds and its a mess. I gravitate to other single men who like leisure activities and spend time on hobbies. I can't remember the last time I approached a women with intent. To me relationships are a joke.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
Well I Rather Have Women Friends Than Having Men Hanging Around😌 But Chu Can't Be Friends With A Woman U Like🤗 Which Is Why I Have Call Girls😎👌
@christopherhennessey8991
Ай бұрын
I’m a dad who has daughters, two divorces under my belt. Am happy to stay single and free the rest of my life.
@XPLOSIVization
Ай бұрын
When in todays society you only have a 25% chance of staying married to the woman of your "dreams" Those odds just are not worth the effort, When you could indeed be focusing on yourself and making your own realistic dreams in life come true
@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
Ай бұрын
It’s less
@jbmoney357
Ай бұрын
I see it more and more when I go out to eat. Guys sitting alone eating. It's been the norm for me for years!
@hugostiglitz8465
Ай бұрын
Same here. Kinda feels good knowing I can eat in peace.
@jbmoney357
Ай бұрын
@hugostiglitz8465 It's one hell of a lot cheaper to go out to eat too!
@hugostiglitz8465
Ай бұрын
@@jbmoney357It sure is, especially these days.
@TheAlfa1Omega
24 күн бұрын
That's sad to eat alone.
@jbmoney357
24 күн бұрын
@@TheAlfa1Omega Costs me so much less! What's really sad is if you have to have someone to dine with because you're insecure.
@jerryc5743
Ай бұрын
4:48 - you are right on the money. As far as dating is concerned I quote Richard Chennai as Colonel Traughtman in First Blood, “it’s over, Johnny. It’s over!”
@rorycalhoun1126
Ай бұрын
Men are Wise nowadays.
@Electronzap
Ай бұрын
Just pay for what you want to do with a woman, and tell her to leave you alone if she demands more.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
There Ya Go☝️😎👍
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
Preach🤗
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
Amen😎
@GigaChad_169
Ай бұрын
Men need to stop sharing their resources with people who haven't proven their value and trustworthiness. Once that happens, people will start acting right. Until then, its all a game by people to get something for nothing out of others.
@enhancedutility266
Ай бұрын
Right 😊
@user-rk8zc7xn6k
Ай бұрын
In the Bible it says that in the last of days there will be seven women for every man. You can now see that it has started hapening. Stay strong in Jesus Christ. God Bless. H.Lee Dye - Tennessee usa
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
Well😏 7 Problems Or Better Than One I Guess🤗 I Guess😎
@thebigleone1066
Ай бұрын
I’m single. It’s very good. I can do pretty much whatever I want when I want. I’m working on becoming a very good guitar player and my golf game is also pretty good. I’m fine and I’m happy.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
I'm Here For A Good Time🤗 Not A Long Time😎
@droidgunner3840
Ай бұрын
Dude girls will talk to you all day long but getting them to meet up a different story never happens
@borednow5390
Ай бұрын
Good for all the single men out there 😎
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
Thank$😎
@davedsilva
Ай бұрын
Pre-divorce instability where children are groomed to hate you is no flex
@Imhimdogg
Ай бұрын
A lot of women are becoming introverts. 25 years from now medical field will be booming with jobs for home health nurses.
@YourPointOfViewPodcast
Ай бұрын
I disagree. Most women are extroverted and that's the problem because they get too bored and always want to do something rather it's risking the relationship with the man and everything
@Imhimdogg
Ай бұрын
@@YourPointOfViewPodcast a lot that I’ve been running into they are. Plus on a lot of the dating apps I see in there profiles state they are introverted homebody’s.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
I Know What Chu Mean😌 I Ain't Never Seen A Nurse Without A Fat Ass😎
@digitalbobby42
Ай бұрын
Many people can't differentiate being content with boredom. And let me say this, if you get bored easily...you are a boring person.
@DIDIDOTHAT332
Ай бұрын
Exactly boredom is gods way of seeing if you can sit with your own thoughts and master yourself it’s also a form of protection to one’s self think about how many people that have died all because they were bored women men and teenagers that’s how the enemy trick the human mind into getting into bad things of the world if you don’t have the mind set to do positive things when boredom strikes it could cost ones life.
@stormchaser419
Ай бұрын
Feminism is not about equality. Never has been. Its all equality until it doesnt benefit her. The double standards are crazy. Absolutely crazy. The 90s were the last halfway decent decade for dating. Its only getting worse.
@skatecado2897
Ай бұрын
day 30 SR. Ain’t nobody stopping this masculinity train
@WesternBachelor
Ай бұрын
I'm a single bachelor. I do go on dates and have short term relationships, but women have largely not stuck around long enough for me to get into a committed relationship. I'd rather have an LTR, and I'd rather not be single. I believe in relationships, but it hasn't happened for me yet. I have a decent career, in decent shape, and don't do drugs or drink heavily. I have friends and hobbies yet it's still difficult to meet women who will want to stay around. In the past, your grandfather and father were able to keep a marriage together, 30 year career at one employer, and retire successfully and support a family + household on one income if he wanted to. Today, we play by a completely different set of rules and the mine field is completely different as well. We may see half of men today being involuntarily single like myself, who would rather have a healthy relationship but that's just not how things are designed today. Modern women don't want stable, reliable men. They want toxic men who have drama and the guy who brings 6 figures, 6 inches, 6 pack abs, and 6 feet tall as a base line requirement that the average man cannot compete with.
@borednow5390
Ай бұрын
@@WesternBachelor no. Modern women want the stable, reliable men after being run though and most likely with kids with different dads 😅
@GroupConglomerate
Ай бұрын
I love it. I do hope wahmen can find a good bear to take care of them tho 😂🐻
@disgruntledconservativevet1798
Ай бұрын
I’m married and absolutely miserable. Once you say “I do”, she says “I did”. It just not worth the sacrifice.
@Nsimpson
Ай бұрын
Which sucks but the times of this social media era making us good hard working men single.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
Women Are Annoying As Fuck🤗 Remember Dat😎
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
In Fact😏 Women Like To Get On Your Nerves To See If You Can Keep Your Kool Under Pressure, It's The Way They Are Designed To Do, N They Can't Help It Either😌 A Womans Way Of Thinking, Is To Say: [In Your Woman's Voice] "If You Can Stay Cool When Something Is Annoying You, It Helps You Grow😌" ???🤔 Now This Is How A Bitch Thinks🤨 & I Know It's Totally Insane To You As A Man🤗 But That Nonsense Makes Complete Sense To A Woman😎 Believe Dat
@sirg-had8821
Ай бұрын
After every relationship I've ever had, I always hear the same catchphrase: "You should have known better." Now I know better. Nothing I do is good enough for a woman who can't even decide what she feels or believes on any given day. I'm only going to rent them by the hour, if at all.
@BhekiMakhalima
Ай бұрын
Tht's why,prefer escort
@CaptainPunchBoxing
Ай бұрын
That's too risky you can go to jail
@apreviousseagle836
Ай бұрын
@@CaptainPunchBoxing also I hope he's not paying exorbitant rates.
@user-sy6jf4hm3t
Ай бұрын
Rent, don't own.
@jan-cq5wv
Ай бұрын
Works for me! 😉
@karlheven8328
Ай бұрын
Stay chaste, if you fall, repent, go to confessional. Living a false life is not a solution
@jkw6196
Ай бұрын
she is not yours, it's just your turn
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
U Don't Own Anything But Yourself😌 Yeahhh, Society May Treat Us Like Property, But Signing Papers Doesn't Mean You Own Anything🤗 They're Just Contracts That Are Meant To Be Broken, To Gain😎
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
@@karlheven8328 It Sound As Though You're Answering Your First Sentence😎
@Eazyfunnymoney
Ай бұрын
Chix is never Satisfied. You can't win. This topic was dead on point
@Daboiieli
Ай бұрын
Love and sex isn’t a Disney land fairy tale anymore not everyone is guaranteed to find love not being negative just sayin
@lamarthomas5603
Ай бұрын
If you can accept that the love of Christ is sufficient. Then you have the solution. If you find a help meet then that is good also.
@Daboiieli
Ай бұрын
@@lamarthomas5603 I’m discombobulated rn???
@lamarthomas5603
Ай бұрын
@@Daboiieli The Bible doesn’t guarantee every man or woman will find a spouse. There is a reason for that.
@Lucciii32
Ай бұрын
@@lamarthomas5603there is a reason for that and it has nothing to do with your imaginary god.
@lamarthomas5603
Ай бұрын
@@Lucciii32 well it’s not about wether God is real to you. It’s highlighting that there is wisdom in the Bible. The Bible authors understood how the world works.
@Basidium_King
Ай бұрын
Bruh I’m single as fuckkkkkk
@chm9935
Ай бұрын
Theyre just not dating or marriage material anymore.
@UTubeVidWatcher
Ай бұрын
What’s the point? The way things are, even if you get married, you are more than likely to marry a ran through single mother who thinks she settling for you. What’s the point? 50% of marriages end in divorce, so even if you get married, you’re more than likely going to get divorce anyways. It is better to not have ever been married rather than getting married just to lose everything that you worked hard for and have to rebuild your life all over again from scratch. As far as I’m concerned, things are fine just the way it is. Let’s meet up again at 50 y.o. and compare notes.
@courtneyharris1006
Ай бұрын
For men, love is a subscription...
@jocelynharris-fx8ho
Ай бұрын
This goes both ways. I'm a 59 year old black woman who was married and divorced within 3 years and then 10 years later, entered into relationship that lasted 20 years but ended when I discovered that he had psychological problems and they became harder for him to control. The pain is still there and I may never get involved in another relationship. I spend my time doing volunteer work, especially with animals and I discovered a love for tortoises. Want unconditional love? adopt a pet. They can't speak but they appreciate the love and care that you show them and they return that love to you. Even better, they will never leave you for someone else and they're loyal. Taking care of them fulfills me.🐢
@jomnix
Ай бұрын
Humanity is in very bad shape.
@rayzrsharp
Ай бұрын
What’s also of note is that MEN - we’re ok with being single. For women… it’s miserable. They’ll lie or try and say it’s not but they’re absolutely miserable. Especially if they’re pretty, it really bothers them because it points directly to their character or lack of femininity.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
They Don't Like Feeling Like Sex Toys😌 So If Their Trap Hasn't Trapped You😏 They Tend To Get Upset🤗 And Then Try To Trap Someone Else😎
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
& Like All Things😌 They Only Get Dumber With Age😎
@Heath-jq8xj
Ай бұрын
My house is where I go to recharge, not have a mental gymnastics competition with someone who has no respect for facts that don't change.........like math.
@whiteranger79
Ай бұрын
This is why it’s possible why jayz is working so hard
@MrSamadolfo
Ай бұрын
😒 broh, sometimes there is No Recovery, u dip into the deep end and it is over for you, dont do it
@VF1Skullangel
Ай бұрын
Being a step dad is a thankless job, no benefits and you will not be respected at all.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
It's 1 Of The Dumbest Things To Do, In The World😎
@rodneyrosse198
18 күн бұрын
I'm 55, never been married. No kids. I enjoy my peace and quiet.
@terencew7716
Ай бұрын
Fellas protect your sanity and your wallet in these current times!!
@Brocksampsonoverdrive123
Ай бұрын
Great video sir
@dashawnmitchell832
Ай бұрын
I’m starting to appreciate women more even though I’ve never been chosen by the ones I desire
@moreycleveland2472
Ай бұрын
AS A MAN YOU ARE BETTER OFF JUST BEING BY OURSELVES NO CAPPING
@texasgent4694
Ай бұрын
Personally i feel the exact same way, ive sworn off relationships altogether at this point, it's not worth it to invest so much time, energy and money into someone who can turn on/leave you at literally any second without so much as a goodbye, then all you're left with is a bunch of memories that ain't worth shit
@gkauto1959
Ай бұрын
this is exactly how I feel after a 20 yr marriage fell apart. put everything I had into it only to have the ex pull the rug out. and the memories are worse, since they take you to a happier time that can never be again. once you give your all and they bounce and take you for everything it kills relationships in the future since you never want to go through that again. you do the right thing and get fucked over!
@dl3650
Ай бұрын
Look, I've been single 5 years now and it'll be a full decade in late October since I've been on a date. For the first half of that time or so, it was hard, especially as a young man in his 20s, and I got more and more comfortable this way since. But the most important thing this man is saying is not to be a misogynistic woman hater. In fact, most friends I have are women, despite my long history of no romance or whatever. So, I guess what I'm trying to say, is, it gets better in time with being single and don't hate women, no matter how hurt or embittered one may feel, from certain circumstances. It's not a good look and not a way to live. And, it's a weak trait. Just be a good person, ride it out and you'll be fine.
@royfontaine5526
Ай бұрын
Cope much?
@dl3650
Ай бұрын
@@royfontaine5526❄️ much?
@dl3650
Ай бұрын
@@royfontaine5526K, boyfontaine
@jkw6196
Ай бұрын
many feminists hate men though as they cry alone in bed
@1neTeeJay
Ай бұрын
MGTOW | REDPILL FOR LIFE❗❗❗
@Chris-hp2gg
Ай бұрын
Be careful what you wish for. You may get it.😮
@Tobias09101
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. Recently divorced after 16 yrs. No debt. Great credit. I make $84k a year.. 35 yrs old.. Cancer free now. Sucks i dont get to see my 2 kids and baby much but i still have plenty of life to live. Men bounce back stronger from Ls. Thats what makes a man a man. Young men, we are at a crucial point in history where 90% of women are NOT marriage material. Dont be stupid. Marriage is an archaic concept. It worked before feminism but the court system is anti male. Marriage is a death sentence. Dont be a fool thinking you can beat the odds.
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
Thanks for this man, stay blessed! 💪🏾🔥
@kristiyangrigorov5232
Ай бұрын
I'm 23 and never had a girlfriend, never dated. I'm doomed, and I feel like I'm missing out on experiences that everyone else seems to have had. It feels very frustrating to see others in relationships while I'm still trying to figure out how to even start
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
I know you may feel like you’re missing out and it’s normal because it’s only natural to want to have sex and date but when you zoom out you’ll realize patience and putting the right things first will pay off in the long run. If you figure out your life now you’ll be set within the next few years for sure, much quicker then men who wasted their times in their 20s looking for love
@malcolmwhite6204
Ай бұрын
Hi Germaine Chris, my name is Malcolm White, and I just wanted to say that I am such a big fan of your KZitem educational channel. The contents that you post about are so spot-on, and also, the value that you add to your video topics are absolutely incredible, and insightful as well. Please keep continuing to do this brilliantly motivational page up, and running, my good friend 👍 💯 😎!!! PS: Do you think that you can please do a video topic, and analysis about why men should have street smarts in their own lives? If you don't mind?
@TherandomguyTV
Ай бұрын
I’m seeing a ex gf that’s just wants some fun 😂 and no real string attached
@stayhungry1503
Ай бұрын
remember shes seeing 10 other guys at the same time so, rubber up!
Used to be bi, I gave up on dating women, I've got abused enough in my previous relationships. I only date men now. Things are more peaceful and relaxed, I like it.
@Jacob_Israel3777
Ай бұрын
Disgusting 🤢🤮
@johngray3449
Ай бұрын
Domestic violence is the highest among lesbian couples, gee I wonder why.
@philaman1972
Ай бұрын
I am not a misogynist. The bottom line is you really have to know yourself and what you want out of life. For example, if you are a guy and want to get married and have children, you better have a game plan as to how to achieve this goal. As for me, I am 52m never married and no children; I never wanted both because I know myself well enough to know that I cherish my freedom, sanity (LOL) and solitude. Like that great song by Faith Hope and Charity, "to each his own that's my philosophy".
@AetheriusComics
Ай бұрын
I think this is true for a specific demographic of men.
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
Yeah true, my point is that more men are waking up. There are men out there that let their woman run all over them and control their relationship, let’s be real. Most guys who aren’t single are not leading the way in their relationship today or are involved in a dysfunctional partnership, no boundaries etc.
@hugostiglitz8465
Ай бұрын
@@germainechris- Alot of henpecked guys out there. One guy at the gym said "Happy Wife, Happy Life" I kinda lost respect for him as he's now a SIMP to me.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
@@germainechris Well What Do You Call A Relationship?😏 One Where A Man Is Controlling A Womans Pussy?😌 Or One Like You Previously Stated, Where There's No Boundaries, No Holds Bars And No Loyalty, But Freedom Of Choice🤗 Just Which State Of Control, Is Better For Us As A Society?😎
@sheadailey3155
Ай бұрын
Better to have 2-3 casual girlfriends treat them like they are crap like they want
@CollinAbbott1997
27 күн бұрын
If all parachutes had a 50% chance of opening would you still jump? That’s basically marriage these days
@brandonhasgrit
Ай бұрын
It's not a social norm tho, even tho it's a quarter of us every last one of us is scrutinized in some form being perceived as "bitchless" "can't pull" "biological failure" etc
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
Yeah there are incels but there are a growing amount of men who are purposely staying single despite not having to. The number will only increase over time
@TaxTimeForever
Ай бұрын
Feminism has really liberated men like me
@Universal_exports87
16 күн бұрын
Dont fall for lies!!! Other ways to get what you need.
@b-41subject57
Ай бұрын
Im in my early 30s. Ive only dated 2 women officially. The first one cheated on me, though i blame myself for it. The second was great, but had 2 kids and was more so looking for support than a lover. Ive had short "relations" with a handful of other women (in different countries). Dating is expensive. Marriage is expensive. Kids are VERY expensive if you genuinely care about them, as you should. I do very well for myself and im comfortable. If i bring a kid or wife/ex wife into the equation, and possible child support? I don't know what i would do. I have much more to say, but ive become jaded with women in general. Most are very boring and youre the one entertaining them. Definitely dont hate them, but i couldn't care less about Marriage. I also refuse to bring new worker bees into this asylum we call earth.
@breaks3085
Ай бұрын
This Guy is intelligent.
@realonebusinessschool
Ай бұрын
It's best for a man to figure his life out before getting married. It's always different building yourself and building a home simultaneously.
@b.lloydreese2030
Ай бұрын
Ive been checking out facebook dating, its a dumpster fire. The women lool 20 years older than their stated age. They all have these unrealistic expectations, ie single mom of a toddler whos looking for her forever man.
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
That’s crazy didn’t know they had that on Facebook now🤣🤣🤣. Probably a bunch of bs
@JB-kx9bx
Ай бұрын
I don’t understand this “she took everything” mantra on the internet. That’s not how divorce settlements work. If you have 100k cash in the bank there’s no state in the US where she gets all 100k unless that’s how you’re paying off her equity share in an asset like a house.
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
That’s not the point at all and let’s not act like we don’t know that marriage does not benefit men at all and the statistics don’t show it lol. Plus 100k is nothing compared to men who are marrying with millions of dollars who are getting finessed. And the fact that you say she didn’t take everything is irrelevant to the fact that she still gets part of what YOU worked years to obtain. It’s still not right either way
@LukaDonesnitch
Ай бұрын
What’s not understood is statistically for centuries there were men who didn’t have a woman. It’s not nothing new. The rate may have risen but there was always a high population of single men in the past it wasn’t by choice.
@stevekostakis2983
Ай бұрын
No, it’s not morally right to let a woman…your woman/wife do whatever she wants. There is a moral code. One has to decide to be a man and walk. I know it’s hard, I am going through this right now. Married for 30 years, I won’t tolerate her BS.
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
Good thing you married a long time ago
@39mack23
Ай бұрын
This video is spot on
@rashaadweston364
Ай бұрын
Find a women who has strong family ties or get a passport
@daym8
Ай бұрын
Like most economies dating and relationships are on the brink of collapse. Which is fabulous news furthermore, if people are concerned of human civilization dying well they should be informed that it's great as well we are 8billion and born without any reason.
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
No😏 Your Reason For Being Here Is To Have Sex😌 And Nothing More🤗 You Came Here Through Sex, And You Where Born With A Privet Part To Have Sex With. So Start Having Sex, Immediately, Cause That's The Only Reason You're Here, And That's Why You're Here, Other Than To Eat Sleep Shit And Work😎👌
@a.i1970
Ай бұрын
Eat😏 Sleep😌 & Fuck🤗 That's All You're Supposed To Do Here😎👌
@scottsnuffer2277
Ай бұрын
Jesus is king! Jesus is the only way to heaven.
@marbarosi
Ай бұрын
It' social media. So what's manning up? bouncing back, got it. But what is the trick? 8 minutes saying the same thing... So as a man.. what is it? how does one guard and climb this mountain?
@alexvig2369
Ай бұрын
1 in 4 life-long singles seems to be way too little. Probably a lot of past statistics mixed in. Also, the rate might accelerate and not grow nice and linearly.
@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
Ай бұрын
2/3
@alexvig2369
Ай бұрын
@@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 agree. Looks much more 2/3 in my perspective also. Being single really is the new norm.
@ricksanchez2425
Ай бұрын
Have a few good friends with benefits that's it
@bluefungi
Ай бұрын
This the way
@stormchaser419
Ай бұрын
Tom Brady couldnt stay married. He couldnt stay married. That alone should tell you something.
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
Facts
@emmanuelrobinson5051
Ай бұрын
Man this thing is gonna come two end soon
@OttawaNow
28 күн бұрын
I only sleep with career women from my childhood.
@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
Ай бұрын
2 years ago I saw a mini documentary where few guys on there ranted on about how inceldom is becoming a new norm for heterosexual males
@germainechris
Ай бұрын
Yes incels exist and will always but the point is to make the right decision and not get into relationships with bad people who don’t deserve it
@ismaelhall3990
Ай бұрын
Even high-status celebrity men are screwed what chance does an average guy stand.
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