I ain't mad at you for speaking the truth. Manhood is not taught yet pastors continually preach to women about preparing to be a wife. In any given Black church 70%-80% of the congregation is comprised of single women. Who are these Christian women supposed marry?
@coachrod8324
4 жыл бұрын
Amen facts
@fabfab5450
4 жыл бұрын
Former preacher's wife here. You are telling nothing but the truth. I've been in church ever since the age of about four. I hear newly saved 40 and 50 year old women say how they are waiting on their Boaz and they think the only good men there are are the ones "in the church." I've sat with minister's wives, pastor's wives and bishop's wives and I could tell you some stories. I've seen and heard A LOT! There's a lot of dancing, shouting, hollering, and yes prophelying over hurt, tears, and pain.
@coachrod8324
4 жыл бұрын
O wow I didn't know you was a former preacher wife. So you know I'm telling the truth.
@fabfab5450
4 жыл бұрын
@@coachrod8324 yes, I am. I was married for 26 years; separated for four of those and now divorced. Yes, I know exactly what you are speaking of and it's the truth. I know of first ladies and preachers wives who suffer silently. They are told to stay there for the flock and/or because they are in leadership positions and are supposed to be "examples" but in reality those examples are false ones. I just don't believe God wants us to suffer and just grin and bear it. I know of pastors and their wives who can't really stand each other and who sleep in separate bedrooms, but they stay together for appearances.
@fabulousmarilyn3.088
3 жыл бұрын
@@fabfab5450 my lord
@VibeWithVida
4 жыл бұрын
It's sad. Most black, Christian churches are full of single, lonely women who have no idea how to date and have no prospects for marriage. Our churches are all about emotion and preaching, not rationality and teaching. Pastors should be teaching about integrity, dating, courtship, marriage and finances. But no, it's all about keeping members hooked on a feelin.
@coachrod8324
4 жыл бұрын
Yep in almost every black church its nothing but a lot of single women.
@ThePhoinix33
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts. You have given me something to focus on in my ministry
@monicahorton9725
3 жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful soul ,not just handsome and beautiful .But spiritually ,on point. Another of leaders in the church are false prophet's. I wish I had a way to tell you what happened to me ! I absolutely love your show ❤ ! I very been watching your show for almost a week now Thank you for giving me strength along with ,the power of chirst. ✝️ ❎ ❌ ⛪ ⛑ ☦ ✝️ ❎ ❌ ⛪ ⛑ ❤
@iwrist313
3 жыл бұрын
They focus on keeping control of the women bc they can get their money while the men were discredited by the leaders in the church in order to control and keep that money coming in from the women
@alifeofjoy29
3 жыл бұрын
"Our churches are all about emotion and preaching, not rationality and teaching. Pastors should be teaching about integrity, dating, courtship, marriage and finances. But no, it's all about keeping members hooked on a feelin."
@rubylove19811
4 жыл бұрын
PREACHHHHH !!!! You have told the whole truth and nothing but the truth !!! Thank you for your insight
@coachrod8324
4 жыл бұрын
You welcome
@Millie_the_Mermaid
3 жыл бұрын
I do agree with women getting equal pay, especially if they have the same education and credentials for earning money for a job, but I believe that a man who leads in love should lead in a marriage and a family home. 🧡
@parisryan2012
4 жыл бұрын
It’s difficult to meet someone
@AnnieinKC
3 жыл бұрын
The problem with that ideology is that many men, head of their families, make poor choices. i.e., They want to get their appliances from Rent-A-Center, where you pay double & triple for that washer & dryer, instead of keeping their credit perfect and keeping a big savings account to just pay cash. Many of these men who have poor credit, then buys a gas-guzzler, show-off car at such a high 18% interest rate, rather than 4% with good credit, that make it impossible to pay off the car early & keeps the family financially strapped & without money for emergencies and job layoffs. I think the churches need to teach men financial and credit worthiness, off of a simple working-man job.
@thesmartbusinessbootcampllc
3 жыл бұрын
This is so good and true. Thanks for the raw and real teaching. Alll women and young ladies need this.
@coachrod8324
3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@ThePhoinix33
3 жыл бұрын
Time to teach the truth about family and relationships. It starts with your relationship with God. Woman stop giving everything to a man who doesn’t qualify to be in your space.The family has been downgraded to nothing. Our common sense has gone out of the window. Kings and Queens let’s get it together .
@christineadams3047
2 жыл бұрын
Coach Rod, I feel your burden. Praying 🙏 with you.
@vijandamuukua1903
7 ай бұрын
Truth served with a side of laughter. Thanks Coach
@valgal36
3 жыл бұрын
I’m literally dealing with that right now!! My my....
@coachrod8324
3 жыл бұрын
O wow book a coaching session or click on the link to purchase my book. www.amazon.com/dp/B08KTWY4GL/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_btf_awdb_vF8GFbPH59C62
@deejones4730
3 жыл бұрын
Queens be careful. If man do not know he's to be a provider and be a protector.Smh You are right Coach hang up. This is how they make excuses to something so basic. Men like this go after women because of a need from a women to provide for them.
@qwrrsfgccipknbggsdrw
4 жыл бұрын
These men that are in church are human just like men that aren't in the church. The leader whom they are under as makes a big difference as well. Sadly but you have (some) men in church (Pastors) false prophets and he's not respecting his wife and cheating and so forth then mentoring other men. They are learning that behavior. We need leaders to be held accountable. We need to go back to the Bible days were the old men mentor young men and the older women mentor the young women. People need to have a relationship with the Creator and read the word from themselves and work out their own salvation with fear and trembling, is not about religion but a relationship. The word teachers us order. So if you have relationship with the Creator then you will learn it. True you do need to see example. I'm glad you did this video. Do some videos for young men showing them the way, how to be young men and how to be a single man, how to court women and the role in a marriage. Real men need to step up, why not start with you! Thank you 💖
@coachrod8324
4 жыл бұрын
Amen You Welcome
@jennyperez776
3 жыл бұрын
Coach Rod it will be nice you do some bibles class online 😁 I like your energy and your honesty , thank you
@jennyperez776
3 жыл бұрын
This so great I agree with you , I go to church because I want to learn but I can't do it no more and it so hard to read the bible alone ..
@paulinelawrence7784
3 жыл бұрын
@@jennyperez776 yes i love that idea
@lizblacmman8094
4 жыл бұрын
You are so right Coach Rod! A so called use to be friend of mine would always talk prophecy to me and would say some of the same things you just said ...to me!! He tuned out to be a narcissist which is even worst!
@margyiphillips4931
3 жыл бұрын
Three idols in the melanated community worldwide: Pastor, Marriage and Male gender. They do no wrong in the eyes of society.
@christineadams3047
Жыл бұрын
Coach Rod is so true but funny. He has me cracking up.
@asill.6668
Жыл бұрын
I'm cracking up too!!!
@christineadams3047
2 жыл бұрын
Keep on preaching the truth. Don't worry about who wants to hear it. If it's the truth you already know the offense that comes.
@christineadams3047
2 жыл бұрын
Coach Rod is so funny 🤣.
@nakiliatucker4059
3 жыл бұрын
You are speaking the truth.
@sierrhacarter7279
2 жыл бұрын
Tell it Coach Rod!!!!!!
@northernroots6807
4 жыл бұрын
So true
@Arizona_lilly
3 жыл бұрын
Ur so smart u must have a million woman after you. Ur hard worker ur my podcast every afternoon going into 2021 with you has helped me and kept my life together im going wait for good man no dusty im working towards my health my business etc but keep going
@vanessachambers697
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach Rod for this powerful message much needed to hear 😊
@veronicacarwin
3 жыл бұрын
Praise the lord bro,, you are telling the truth about these church,
@veronicacarwin
3 жыл бұрын
Hi couch Rod this is my first time on your program and I am learning so much about men of these days,these men thinking that all women are the same. I have to see that you value my time
@franceswright9428
3 жыл бұрын
They profalie that women are going to get a husband. You are the realist person on KZitem. Keeping it 💯.
@Itismytime-Amen
3 жыл бұрын
You right!!! Message on point!!
@Shay4YourMind81
4 жыл бұрын
All facts💯
@coachrod8324
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@maryanngray4519
3 жыл бұрын
Thats probably why there is no acknowledged concern about young men growing and learning how u r to act because no one they can look up to
@teishahowlett6342
4 жыл бұрын
I really,really Love listening to Coach Rod..I listen to all the videos,Coach rod does not like these low life so called men treating women like we only exist for their Release,if y’all catch my drift..please coach Rod keep making these very important vital videos..Thank you from Teisha..
@coachrod8324
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@mizrutz
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊 for sharing. I think this applies more so in the American church. I am African and as we are growing up we are taught qualities to choose in Husbands and even in the church. It’s sad though that sometimes Christians can over spiritualise things pertaining to life. Some of these false teachings are also penetrating into African culture as well. We need to be wise and discerning when it come to preachers, not everyone is speaking the real truth. Thank you though because you are speaking the truth. We need to get out of the mindset of instant gratification. That’s how we get deceived.
@coachrod8324
4 жыл бұрын
Yes Its mainly American churches I'm talking about. Mostly African Americans church.
@theresawhitehead614
3 жыл бұрын
Very informative
@theresawhitehead614
3 жыл бұрын
Very profound
@mariaowens3399
3 жыл бұрын
I love u Coach Rod ❣️
@christineadams3047
2 жыл бұрын
It's a shame 😔 that who is concerned about teaching the men to be men. If the men jn church fails, tnen the enemy is influencing them.
@tammycarter6184
3 жыл бұрын
Tell it like it is coach rod that's right
@pamelabassmarsh5262
3 жыл бұрын
I experience one..lies lies and more lies..as a queen I told him about himself and no he was raised by a tyrant father...not my problem get help!!!!!
@coachrod8324
3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@asill.6668
Жыл бұрын
@2:42 Coach Rod what is a "poddatute" 🤣
@denayjalese
4 жыл бұрын
Keeping it too real.
@coachrod8324
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@dennahelm7233
3 жыл бұрын
Love this message thank. You Coach Rod
@theresawhitehead614
3 жыл бұрын
Wow that's good
@AnnieinKC
3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy your coaching videos. You not only bring info that other coaches bring, but you also teach women true honesty about subjects they won't get taught by other coaching videos. I wish your coaching videos were a requirement for all high school women. They will not learn your honest info about men at home.
@evonbaity6617
3 жыл бұрын
"AMEN!!!!
@sheilaverdell1370
4 жыл бұрын
Greetings Bro Rod If I May, the 'divine' standards of the Bible has become null and void. There are 'too' many false prophecies in the church and 'false' teachings from the pulpits. God is not pleased. Both men and women have become victims of not receiving grace from God, not just men.
@helena3631
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t date church men because I have heard all negative stories ..but the biggest church person that’s a female that I have been around has had 6 abortions between three men...if you say a curse word she want to take your head off and she’s very judge mental.If you didn’t know the real her you would believe she’s really like that but she is not it’s all a facade...people think they know people but they don’t ..focus on yourself and don’t date people because they religion you never know what brought them into it.. lots of broken people that scream church all day but not really about that life.
@claraht.6999
4 жыл бұрын
Brings to mind How much do you love your partner? Are you concerned about They're soul.
@claraht.6999
4 жыл бұрын
Think on Their or the confusion?
@reginapaul5469
3 жыл бұрын
I know you rght my Brother
@debrajackson9424
Жыл бұрын
Speak holy spirit 🙏
@ondradeese4017
3 жыл бұрын
I feel we should be fair. Some churches conduct themselves this way. It could be said all life coaches just want to make a name for themselves.This is what a man said to me when the subject of life coaches came up. I told him I didn't feel that way about all life coaches. When women are getting- to- know men some of them are saying they will not date a man unless he is receiving biblical teaching and direction from a church or counsel from a life coach, therapist, etc. Thank you, coach Rod for standing up and saying, "I don't need to leave Christianity to be what God wants me to be and join someone elses religion. I just need to do what the WORD says I need to do as a man." I feel the same way as a Christian woman.
@InquisitiveOne247
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Coach! Can you please do a video discussing a woman dating after a divorce with an elementary age child or any under age child? What type of man should she look for in your opinion? Real life scenarios that you have experienced first hand or have been questioned about from others to explain your advice would be very helpful. Please also discuss co parenting with an involved parent or if the dad left the child's life without looking back. What is the new husband's responsibility or role, then how should the child's father be dealt with? These factors matter when dating to get married in my opinion. You always give the best blunt but logical advice in a respectful way. So this video will definitely help many of us women for sure. Thanks😊
@coachrod8324
4 жыл бұрын
Ok yes that would be a good video topic
@InquisitiveOne247
4 жыл бұрын
@@coachrod8324 Thanks so much for wanting to speak on this 🙌🏾
@jennyperez776
3 жыл бұрын
This is one of the situation I have, I'm being hoping churches and they do read the bible but when they going to explain what god try to said they just judge you and scared you so how I'm going to learn God words, they jump and scream I don't even understood , so I stop going to the church. I which I could know a good church to go but it hard to found a church that will teach you God words.
@tanyajacobs1614
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you for this message. Today's society has totally reversed God's concept of family... God
@marymalloy2848
2 жыл бұрын
It's because people are not Totally committed to God, God can teach anything when people submit to HIM. Your eyes can't be on God and be led by your flesh at the same time. Some go to church and Never even read the Bible...so if the Creator is not leading, then who is leading????????
@RealDill69
3 жыл бұрын
🕊️🐍❤️💯
@flashylights
3 жыл бұрын
Bc their hypocrites
@lauriefraser430
2 жыл бұрын
All churches are not like that
@bleuclegg6295
4 жыл бұрын
I've never been to a Christian church that does any of that nonsense you were just doing.
@helena3631
3 жыл бұрын
You would be shocked but are like what he described
@nikkinanette8807
3 жыл бұрын
Coach hurt some fill’ins today!!! If you can’t translate the mumble of “speaking in tongues”, you’re faking!!! I don’t trust anyone who claims to knowing how to “speak in tongues”.
@Sunshine-dv3cu
3 жыл бұрын
you should not make fun of the holy spirit you could have made your point with our doing that . yes renewing your mind follows salvation, but Yah is the one that renews the mind through study of his holy word.. you should not encourage believers to be muslims, J witnesses these religions are not of Yah
@ericabaker6361
3 жыл бұрын
Stop it Lol
@misswill8488
3 жыл бұрын
Also these... 1 Timothy 5:8 But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. 2 Corinthians 6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
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