It's ok to feel pain and to need some space. The problem is to disappear without any satisfaction, for weeks, months... Even years. Like the other person has no feelings too. You have to deal with it, don't matter how hurt you are.
@priyankarana1579
2 жыл бұрын
Seriously I don't understand why they took too much space.... Days, weeks n months r enough...but a couple of months is too much....😞
@GoldUnSeenn
4 жыл бұрын
I just find out about you now I have a problem every time my boyfriend and I fight he always pull always and distant even though it’s his fault and he hardly apologize what should I do
@blessingosifo6357
3 жыл бұрын
How did things go? Did he come back?
@hope9672
3 жыл бұрын
This happens to me also
@samanthamakhafola3014
2 жыл бұрын
Mine did that and i discovered he's a covert narcissist so i left him for good
@sharona1ification
Жыл бұрын
Hi angel I have a question, so my bf and I had a argument and we’re not talking for some days now, I always apologize always (we been together for 10 months) even when he’s wrong I apologize bc he can dead ass not talk to me for a long time just to prove I’m always wrong when he is the one wrong, he always waits for me to call him again. Now again but this time I wanna put my foot down and not call first just for a stupid argument. What should I do?
@la4894
Жыл бұрын
How did it go in the end sis? Im only 3 months in but wondering if I’m meant to call or not. He’s in the wrong but I think it’s childish to go days on end without speaking. I don’t want to start chasing though.
@himanshimalhotra4901
11 ай бұрын
Yes, please tell me also I ma in the same situation.
@rushellereid2802
2 жыл бұрын
I have a guy talking to we like each other but we had a fight he said hurtful things I did too in told him he is heartless because he was like I don't care but he never text me again but if I reach out he responds to me he told me he stay away because he don't want that to happen again he avoids social media from that fight
@TomekSw
12 күн бұрын
You know that angels are not real? 😅 Thank you for a great video. More people should see it.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
12 күн бұрын
Thank you too and for your comment. We hope more people will watch and be blessed as you were
@lydiannabuckley5092
2 жыл бұрын
To be honest than why be with someone if you're going to hurt them like past relationship still use a nasty tone what's the point
@Arizona_lilly
2 жыл бұрын
I feel this or we say something that strike a nerve. He disappeared for 6 months and returned after like nothing we had disagreement all he remembers we have a fight
@janataylor6869
Жыл бұрын
Wtf?! 😳 6 months? That's toxic
@femaleanonymous8016
3 ай бұрын
In my experience I've dated many alpha bad boys and the arguments are something they can handle but they do get overly aggressive with them. However lately I've decided to go for men who arnt my type (beta) and everytime our first disagreement comes roughly around several months dating it makes them fold completely!!! Mind you I am classy and respectful but I am very smart and have strong points. However these men would rather disapear then try to fix it when they have a good woman even if the first disagreement has been the only friction we ever experienced together. I dont understand this at all, because I know I am a high value woman, beautiful inside and out.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
3 ай бұрын
Perhaps it’s how you speak to them. I don’t mean tone but sequence of words and language. You can get my HOW TO TALK MEN SO THEY LISTEN MASTERCLASS sometimes it can be a small tweak and you’re good to go😉
@kokytiti7090
2 жыл бұрын
What if he was the one who started all the bs talk???
@cantrellbarney6313
4 ай бұрын
I think I lost him I haven't heard from him in a week now due to our agrument I miss him so much
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
3 ай бұрын
Give him space
@vibbzgra8zeal40
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Girl! I just want to get your advice on my situation. I recently had a Little argument to me was a miscommunication between us but his response was he won't bother with me anymore it's been a few days since we spoke his been online but hasn't responded back to me after I sent him an apology message he hasn't read. Will he ever talk to me again?
@TishnaSwaby-ut5dd
Жыл бұрын
It won’t take no yrs girl they will come back around by a month after start missing u time makes people forget about wound so whoever ask she talking non sense a yr if he come back a year he coming bk for some ass
@Redsiix
2 ай бұрын
A low value man will come back. There are those of us that will drop you and NEVER come back. When a relationship becomes so toxic that it affects our ability to succeed you've gone and messed up BIG TIME. Those men who prioritize the future will never see you in that future when you're the cause destroying that future.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment and sharing so truthfully 🙏
@ACole-to3ij
4 жыл бұрын
Met a great guy . I think I messed it up he’s mad and my approach was wrong and disrespectful. Is there anything you suggest. I apologized. 😞 he’s talking but it’s really dry.
@Urla398
3 жыл бұрын
Same don't know how to move it forward..
@KK-vs3vz
2 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same situation rn. Could we get an update if it got better for you both?
@janataylor6869
Жыл бұрын
Same thing with me right now 🙈
@ivanabura552
6 жыл бұрын
What should I do if boy think I cheated him by messeging with some guys who are my FB friends? Me and that boy met on dating site, he is from other country and he visited me 4 times. He always had to drive 7 hours to me and back. We were intimate together. After he found out I was talking with someone else, he said he is hurt and he need time to think. He didn't speak with me 10 days. What should I do? Thank you
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
6 жыл бұрын
Well there's no harm reaching out to him to see if he is ok and see how he responds or if he does. If he doesn't get back to you then I would give him some more space or find someone else because he maybe using this as an excuse to change his mind about you.
@thepeacemaker6645
2 жыл бұрын
Ladies, ladies, ladies. You cannot ask another woman about why men behave a certain way in certain situations, it is best to ask a man. With respect, this is like a man, explaining what women feel and go though during the entirety of a pregnancy, If you need accurate answers/info, come to the source. Great channel BTW.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
2 жыл бұрын
Haha thank you for the compliment but Ofcourse I beg to differ. Just as no woman can speak for women in their entirety to assume that a man can do the same for other men BECAUSE he is a man is unwise. There are many many men who can speak accurately to the realities of being a woman as there are women who can speak to the realities of men. You ofcourse may struggle to identify with these traits because you may not be the TYPE of man we discuss here in the Academy & that’s ok. What’s not ok is making a misinformed comment to my Swans. You are loved BTW
@thepeacemaker6645
2 жыл бұрын
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy I am going to be honest here, I watched a lot more of you videos and I am quite intrigued. I might have spoken too soon lol. Listening to you and reading all the comment gave me a greater insight of how/what women thinks on how we react to certain situations. Most of what you say hits the nail on its head, you have a lovely channel here, I will subscribe.
@bernieoconnell5515
Жыл бұрын
I agree despite the fact that she is a lovely warm Person. Men are totally different to us so they process emotions differently. I don’t believe that men are emotionally fragile quite the reverse in fact. You need to take advice about men’s behaviour from a man full stop.
@TishnaSwaby-ut5dd
Жыл бұрын
She don’t know she talking he won’t come bk lies they normally comes bk after a month
@Dave-oq2en
2 жыл бұрын
i love you 🥰😍😘😻💀💀💀
@lornaelizabeth6290
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you- I have been in a great relationship and I hit a big wound!he has really withdrawn- I didn’t understand what the big this g was- so ended up pushing him away even further until I joined the dots. I have been open and honest about my accountability and the part I played- and why etc - without ever blaming- it so hard as the relationship was so fantastic! We are talking a tiny bit- and I am trying to be patient- but I am worried that I have pushed too far! - he has mentioned that he is recognising this cycle in his life! - (with women) it’s hard and it hurts a lot - my intention was not to hurt him! ❤️
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
2 жыл бұрын
🌸🌸❤️🤗
@nanomeow
2 жыл бұрын
This resonated
@MaybejustNarbe
Жыл бұрын
I only approach men who show they are actively interested in me. And that’s it, I don’t have time for these games. I don’t accept returns, especially damaged ones.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy
Жыл бұрын
Why are you approaching men again👀
@MaybejustNarbe
Жыл бұрын
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy sorry! I misspoke! I only reciprocate to men who show they are actively interested in me. I Never ever ever approach!!**
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