A few subscribers were asking why I decided to move to the Philippines. In this video, I try to lay out the top 10 (11!) reasons why.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
+jack c There's a lot of roosters here. And barking dogs. They don't bother me, but maybe I am just lucky. They do seem to bother some people. My only beef with the Philippines is the unrelenting heat on sunny days in urban areas. Then again, we have a metal roof, no shade and concrete walls. Well, at least we don't need an oven.
@roseliopalma9710
9 жыл бұрын
Philippine Dreams The hot summer season normally start in the months of March through May then June start the wet season. During the hot season months night time is very uncomfortable because of the heat. Living in a metal roof and concrete walls are terribles because concrete absorbs suns heat during the day and release the heat at night. Metal roofing also acts like an oven and stores heat in the attic and radiates heat inside the attic at all times. Proper ventilation of the the attic would help ease the storing of heat trapped in the attic like installing a vent fan with thermostat control set at a desired temperature to activate the vent fan and automatically shut of when temperature cools down. There are solar power roof ventilators you could install if they are locally available.
@ohboynothimagain
9 жыл бұрын
I am planning on moving to Tanza in 2 years to marry my girlfriend. I choosed to move out the states and start a new life there. I know all the ups ad down of living there as I think Im ready for the new start I just hope my family here can understand
@Phaulkonis
9 жыл бұрын
Christopher hopefully you got prenupt and you're not moving back to your country. she will take your money and run once she get what she wants.
@steveo27545
8 жыл бұрын
+Tyler Davis Ulu otin remark.
@grantbedard9859
10 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why you don't say that LOVE, is the first and primary reason why you went to the Philippines??? That is the "major" reason why Expats go there. Living in the western world, you realize soon that once you hit 45+ , your chances of finding a young, slim woman are slim to none. Most are divorced, overweight, with 1-2 kids, and also come with the "new feminist attitudes" that a lot of guys are just fed up with. LOVE- and friendly people are really lacking here in North America. I think you'll see huge amounts of baby boomers who are now about 45-60 yrs old, going there to find love and a new purpose in life. My situation is much like the sentiment you expressed so well in your video here Ned. You can't be happy just with nice houses and fancy cars--after you've had them, their no big deal anymore, and you want some real meaning and purpose in your life--be it a nice woman, or starting a family, which is available there in the Phils-- and not in North America. It's really a chance at a second life in a way--and guys are throwing all the money, career aside, and going there looking for real meaning in life. I'll say a very good, down to earth video Ned, and you covered a lot of very good informative information on the Phils here. I enjoyed it very much, but I do think--"it's the availability of women that is the # 1 driving force" for all the Expats going there, and you should be very upfront on this issue, as it's the reason why your there, and so many others like you as well. North America is a good place to make money-- but it can't buy you happiness. Look forward to more good videos from you--saw yours off Henry's site. regards-Grant ( in Canada) I'll likely be going there myself!!!!
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Grant Bedard Actually, I am not here for the women - I just needed something new and different from what I had. An adventure, if you will. And you are right - a lot of guys are here for that, but again, that wasn't my personal reason. It's just icing on the rather yummy cake that is the Philippines.
@grantbedard9859
10 жыл бұрын
Philippine Dreams - I guess everyone's reasons are different, some for warm weather, others for low cost to live etc. Good luck with your adventure Ned--your very similar to Henry out in the Phils. Be interesting to meet you guys there.
@jon2270
9 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100% Problem with him saying anything else other than women is that I don't see any other reason as to why white women don't move to the country for the climate or cheap costs etc. Instead there's just an influx of old white men moving into the country
@PhilippineDreams
9 жыл бұрын
John Primrose I see lots of "white women" every day here in Dumaguete - students, wives, retirees, young women working remotely, etc. etc. There are a large amount of "old white men" who have moved to the country and started families, and yeah, I think they would be the majority of foreigners in the country. But I also know a LOT of young foreigners who are here working remotely and taking advantage of working for USD/Euros and spending Pesos. I think it's peoples perception that the RP is a haven for old sexpats, which isn't actually the case.
@jon2270
9 жыл бұрын
Philippine Dreams At least we agree that the majority of foreigners in the Philippines are old white men and that's what I was trying to get at. Of course there would be white women and other young foreigners in the country but they are the minority and I've never doubted that. But if the Philippines' climate is so good and cheap cost of living why do we not see an equal amount of male and female foreigners in the country? What? Don't female foreigners not want all those things? Instead, its like I said, just droves of old white men moving to the country. To me what Grant Bedard said is true. Females can pretty much get a partner anywhere they live but for older males in the west its going to be a lot harder. And asian women are the ones more open to dating old white men because of the fact they are white and we still have that racial inferiority mentality in the Philippines and would want to see our children marry into white families despite anything else (age) as oppose to black people for example.
@Brokencedar
9 жыл бұрын
I spent some time in PI, in my youth. I've always dreamed about going back. Now, that I'm retired, (Military and police), I can afford to easily live there. I'm 46 now, haven't been over for 25+ years! I keep dreaming of a small Island in the Leyte Gulf where I stayed for months. I don't know you guys. This is the first video I have seen of yours. You nailed it as to where I am in life: Itchy feet. Burned out with the West. In a comfort zone. It's time to make a change! I have subscribed. Thank you so much for this video.
@markmeyers8712
8 жыл бұрын
I totally understand... it is a country with super beautiful people... who understand what is important in life.
@WatchaPinasTV
10 жыл бұрын
I am a Fil AM and now living in bay area, south of San Francisco. I have been following your channel back when you guys just started. I know in a matter of time that your viewers/followers will soon pick up due to your entertaining and informative videos. I, too like many others here is considering of going back to Phils to retire.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks!! And I think you, of all folks living in the Bay Area as you are, can appreciate the difference in rents between here and there!
@WatchaPinasTV
10 жыл бұрын
Philippine Dreams I know, the rent in this area is quite expensive. Staying here after I retire doesn't make sense. I could use the money in the Philippines and live comfortably over there. Until then, all I can do is watch you guys and be envious ha! For now I have to work and bust myself off. By the way, I am an RN here and working 2 jobs! I am not complaining though...just saying :)
@shawnwallace3369
10 жыл бұрын
Good choice, philippines. Me and my wife are soooo ready to go back. Get back to the tastiest food and the simple life.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
A lot to be said for both. What island were you on?
@shawnwallace3369
10 жыл бұрын
My wife is from Davao City but we stayed in Manila.
@granknight
10 жыл бұрын
L wallace you should try el nido islands or maybe try visiting the enchanted river in Mindanao rather than staying in manila ^_^ you'd love el nido or enchanted river i assure you.
@shawnwallace3369
10 жыл бұрын
Ok thanks for the info.
@granknight
10 жыл бұрын
np
@johnwest360
10 жыл бұрын
American and Filipino couple are really meant for each other! Nice story man!
@devildogotdd
10 жыл бұрын
Great video..all the reasons are good. The Philippines is a special place to me and many others. The main issue with foreigners that don't do well in the Philippines is their inability to adapt. Do NOT expect the Philippines to be a poor version of your country...it is something altogether different. But honestly, besides my gf, the best thing about the Philippines is the people. The friendliest people I have ever met...and the most amazingly beautiful, loving, caring, and supportive women.
@davidkaiser810
5 жыл бұрын
It is July 20, 2019 so you will probably never see this but when I was watching this video I was looking at your wife. You could see the joy in her face. That says it all for me.....
@joeriley6276
4 жыл бұрын
I’m also a retired teacher from Boston . I can relate . I do 4 months there and 6 in USA . I find our list of 10 is the same . When I’m here in America I keep getting pulled back your way. . However, bilocation can be expensive. Truly enjoyed your video
@YiannisPho
8 жыл бұрын
This video of yours persuaded me to subscribe. We seem to have a few things in common. Like a love for seafood, sandy beaches, being in the company of people who smile easily. And, from a previous video, your love of reading. (Given that you taught for a while at a Philippines University, maybe we have that in common. I was an Econ prof at a US university for 33 years--now retired). The one big difference between us: you took the big plunge and found fulfilment in a drastically new setting. I chickened out. So now I do the next best thing and live vicariously through the experiences of people like you.
@christopherorourke6362
9 жыл бұрын
I'm in the process of selling off what I don't need, and after I have everything sold, I'm returning home to the Philippines, my second country, I already have my choices of where I want to live out my life. My goal is to be back in the Philippines by the Month of October, 2017 before I turn 64.
@angelieasoy5183
6 жыл бұрын
Christopher O'Rourke how did u process ur papers bfore u move to Philippines...any information that u can tell me.hve a good day.. Thank.u.
@65jjsd
9 жыл бұрын
I don't even know why I ended watching your KZitem, but it looks like you are happy and you have a supportive loving wife. Life is wonderful when you're leaving your Philippine dream. Tyler below is just jealous and negative because he probably met the wrong type of woman.
@lifeadventuresretirement8351
7 жыл бұрын
I love the place dumaguete especially the coaster area amlan. Such a peaceful place for retirement
@IAmWoody
10 жыл бұрын
Great video! Also, your relationship and her inclusion in your videos really brings forth your happiness.
@antonwalter1755
10 жыл бұрын
Ned how awesome.. I have been talking to a Filipina for 16 months myself.. I took my 3 weeks vacation time and actually went to the Philippines to meet her.. I stay there 4 weeks and came back to the US with the intentions of moving there with her.. there is only one word to describe my experience was WOW.. her relatives took care of me to prevent any mishaps while I was there... And yes we got married.. I will be moving over there sometime soon as soon as I get my sailboat ready for the journey.. that Ellene wants to take with me going to the Philippines on a sailboat.. keep up the good work any advice I will surely listen too... Jay
@dschmitt3373
8 жыл бұрын
Ned and Michell. Great Video again. I will be visiting in late Dec 2015 to mid Jan 2016 to see friends. You have given me insight into what i may expect. Your Beautiful Honey and the way she reacts to your words with shy eyes. or loving hugs or bumping into you, her expressions are to die for. adds a great amount of humor to your Videos. She shows a get amount of care for you,, She is a Good Treasure! Keep up the good work,, you said that you were going to go on a vacation on your last monthly wrap up. I am looking forward to seeing that Video too.
@1badmoefoe
9 жыл бұрын
Michelle is absolutely adorable!! I have a Philippine partner as well. I'm 47 she's 21 similar situation. I enjoy watching your videos good luck to you guys!!
@mttfboy
10 жыл бұрын
Nice video! Your lucky the gf allows you to partake in her videos :) Visiting the Philippines in December, perhaps we will cross paths. Stay healthy & safe!
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Yeah, she lets me play around with the camera every now and then. Until I break it.....
@jameswesthart5873
5 жыл бұрын
Pretty cool video. I'm an American and can see where you are coming from. It's very hard here in the states, so expensive and so much pressure. Seems like the key is taking responsibility for yourself and having some order in your life. After that, if you are fortunate enough to meet a nice honest girl then you can start a good life. It must still seem to be a lot of work but more rewarding than here in the states. The clean environment must also play a part in it. Having a family is good but must be very well planned. Husband and wife must work together at all times. No secrets or distractions. True commitment from husband and wife and always looking for opportunity for the children.
@billmorse
10 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ned and Michell. I, too, am from Massachusetts and have had my fill of the brutal winters and cold people here. Maybe the Philippines is the place to go. In another video you mentioned the driving etiquette and how they don't use turn signals and cut you off in traffic. I'm trying to understand how that is different from Boston?? Good luck in your new home. I'll send you some snow in a couple months :o).
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
William Morse Boston drivers are wimps compared to driving here. It's crazy and takes a while to get used to the flow with no stop signs or street lights. I could use the snow - it's been very hot here the past four days or so. :(
@frankchris07
9 жыл бұрын
Beautiful wife beautiful life enjoy your life.
@luzsypewsy1
9 жыл бұрын
Frank Priv What happen if you found those wife an ugly one ? what would you do w/ it ? Thanks just curious..
@frankchris07
9 жыл бұрын
Every woman has beauty does not have to be looks
@visayantagaleyte5765
9 жыл бұрын
Luzviminda R. Pew You know what you talk about. Smart man ka inday.
@balikbayanpinay5883
8 жыл бұрын
I can relate to your reasons for moving in the Philippines. just returned from our (husband and I) vacation but only stayed in Luzon for 21 days. Life here in the US is like being on a never ending treadmill ride (speaking from my own experience). Two things I will never do again- 1. Complain about the traffic here (US) and 2. stress over small things. Good luck to both of you and always find time to enjoy life. :)
@davidvonch8223
5 жыл бұрын
Hubby and I are moving there soon... burnouts and lack of family issues... financial another... and we just need new and friendly ppl.
@philippinecowboy
5 жыл бұрын
The cost of living, beautiful beaches, friendly people and strong family values is what did it for me!
@theoriginalunderdog8634
9 жыл бұрын
Love your videos. I've got a filippina girlfriend, her name is Dyndel, she's from Tabango in Leyte. She's the most awesome woman I've ever known, a breath of fresh air. I've known her for 3 years now. I'm from New Zealand, I've got an ex wife, she epitomized everything about western woman, that I've come to dislike. But Dyndel's attitudes and outlooks are so different. I managed to visit her last year, it was only for a week, I didn't want to spend longer I case of rejection. But she held my hand from the moment we'd physically met, we had talked on skype, but in person was so much better. And from then on, I knew how much she loved me, and it made me love her more. So when I got back, I started saving for my second trip, because I knew I wanted to marry her. But then Typhoon Yolanda hit, and I supported her thru that instead of saving for my next trip. But, the downside was her family, putting pressure on her to ask me for money beyond my means. This the downside, and it almost caused us to break up, but it wasn't her, it was the pressure of her family. Then at my job my hours got reduced to part time, and my means of living stayed the same. But this isn't a sob story. I've managed to change my mean of living, and am able to save, for my next trip, and support her. It'll be slow going, but I'll get there, she is worth it. Though the biggest challenge now is the lack of communication, because we're texting, and network connections, can be bad at times, but I know all of this can make us stronger in the long run. Anyway thanks for listening. I'd love to bring her to NZL, eventually, but if that didn't work out, I'd want to be living where he is. So ill keep watching your videos for advice. Though I have a question, what kind of work can foreigners do in the Philippines? My background, is the warehouse and stores work, folk hoist driving etc, I know I probably, wouldn't be able to get that kind of work, just wanting to know what options exist.
@problemadongsinbad
10 жыл бұрын
Loved the list specially the lost of gratitude part. I may not be from a rich family but knowing that people who actually have more than enough and yet appreciating the simplicity of life is an eye opener. My dad is actually from dumaguete and I'm planning on moving there by April after my contract here in the mid east. I would really like to meet you guys, you look great together and I wish you all the best.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Stay in touch. We'll let you buy us lunch with all your OFW savings!! ;)
@toa1951
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks guys so much for your help. I was wondering because her family would really like me to move there, and honestly if my health were better I'd already be there. But I know it could be impossible for me to get around as I am also heavy, hence the power chair. She is willing to move here, we were just trying to appease her family. Again thanks for taking the time and effort to answer my question. Wish you both the best, and blessings on you, your house, and all who enter there.
@glennmcgee1729
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks for quelling my curiosity on why you moved to the RP. My top ten would include Asian women as a motivation because I've have found them as a whole to have a genuine sweetness that many men have difficulty finding in the states.
@Jbsoul
10 жыл бұрын
Great video, nice details. You can tell that she is really in love with you. I would love to meet someone from there.
@Panache50
8 жыл бұрын
Hi, First of all >>> compliments for this video. Secondly, what a recognizable story. Not all the 10 points, but at least 5 of them. Anyway, I come here already since middle '90's. At that time twice a year holiday for three weeks. The beginning was strange for me. In Europe you have a certain way of living, but what I discovered here, it was completely different. After a few times back and forward, I noticed that I was missing the Phill's, the moment I was back home. So I decided, after retired, start living there. And that's what I did. In between I was hoping to get "used" to >> fall in line, fill out these papers, doing everything two or three times, before something happened etc. On the other hand, the people are friendly, helpful , prices are half, as what I spend before,and last but not least, eventually I found my wife here. So in short, I'm happy. Yes, you're right, sometimes the temperature getting too much hi ( like last week ), almost 40 degrees C. But after two thunderstorms, it went down. Funny to see that >> people , especially the children, taking shower on the street. Staying now for a couple of years and in fact I don't want to go back anymore. My country changes a lot, the last 15 years, but not in a positive way; on the contrary. All in all , like I mentioned, I feel happy here and I hope, that you and your wife feeling the same thing. Grtz from Biñan.
@devonwau
10 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed to you guys and you are a breath of fresh air. I am so glad to find an American that took the plunge.
@Airraidcd
10 жыл бұрын
Ned thanks for sharing about your life. I'm the opposite of you I moved to USA when I was 8 and still have lots of family in Socal and friends. I sometimes miss home but I enjoy my job, the modern conveniences, the nice packed freeway systems. Also the great weather in Socal...the beaches are nice but not as nice as the Philippines and the water is much colder in California. It took awhile to really, really learn the english language and be able to read and write effectively. Maybe one day I will retire once my 2 little girls are grown and move to Buhi which I think is south of Manila where my grandma's house sits empty since she passed away 20 years ago. Took me awhile to get used to the fast food like hamburgers and tacos as well as pizzas. They didn't have those type of foods back home in the 70's. Watching these youtube videos it's amazing on how much the Philippines has grown with lots of different American food. Keep up the awesome job that your doing. Your videos are so informative and I enjoy seeing how things have changed drastically.:)
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Socal can be pretty awesome and I do miss conveniences that we have in the US. There are a lot of fast food places here now, which might account for the burgeoning waistlines in some Filipinos. :) Glad we can do videos so you can see your home country.
@non-monogamousmark
6 жыл бұрын
You did not need to convince my wife and I about living in The Philippines but your video strengthened our resolve. Our desire is to create a team of people helping us with things in our business for the same amount of money it would cost to hire one person in the US. We are planning to live in both the US and the Philippines but we have to figure out how to make that work with legal and tax issues.
@jazz1bro
10 жыл бұрын
She absolutely is a faithful and lovely person.You are lucky!
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
jazz1bro I am VERY lucky. Thanks!
@wayneburns1635
10 жыл бұрын
howdy Michelle and Ned (notice I put the boss`s name first) HA. Love you videos. I was in Dumaguete last October for 3 weeks. Was totally awesome. I will be in Dumaguete October of this year but I am staying 3 months this time. Thanks for all the work you do. I learn something new every video that you post so keep up the great work.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks man!
@billgrimke-drayton2858
8 жыл бұрын
I am returning to Dumaguete very soon and look forward to living with my partner. I have a few things to do here in the UK, some of which still need sorting out - but will be done quickly. I am hoping my partner will be able to get a tourist visa for the UK this year for a short visit. Whatever the result, I will be going back. I look forward hopefully to meeting up with you two. Thank you so much for the useful information about life there. All the best, Bill.
@curtisseborowski161
10 жыл бұрын
Ned, Greetings from Boston! I have traveled to Japan, Hong Kong and Bangkok. The asian culture is very interesting to me. Just want to say your vids are great, and hope you continue! Looking forward in viewing them! Curtis
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Curtis Seborowski Thanks a lot Curtis, and we do plan on continuing. Heck, I ain't got much else to do. :)
@eileen30022
10 жыл бұрын
Great video. I have intense burnout...34 years of working in corporate law, long hours and I am ready for a major change. This really gave me something to think about.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
***** It's not a panacea. Take your time, do a lot of research, and visit a few times before making any major life change. Can you run your biz online? If so, you can live anywhere there is internet. :)
@jasonhunt3391
9 жыл бұрын
I love the Philippines...visited Boracay 5 years ago and fell in love...wish i could move there :-(
@KarlMaTo
10 жыл бұрын
Nice video my friend, we would certainly be able to philosophize a lot it we meet. I understand your notes about the "smile and body language". I noticed a lot of similar on my first visit to the Philippines in 1993-94. - Thanks for a great video and best regards from Stockholm Sweden
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Tommy.
@angelitanutter1496
8 жыл бұрын
Yes Philippines good to live.Cheap foods , fresh meat, fish and vegetables, Beaches good, I live in Pagudpud Ilocos Norte, Always go to Hannah's Beach Resorts during my hollidays.
@christopherstimpson6540
6 жыл бұрын
I recently retired from a police career. Now I have to "justify" to all that ask why I'm not a slave at work somewhere. If you have a nice lady and enjoy life and the culture there, you are far ahead of the game. I was an English teacher in Seoul before my career. Those were the best years I can remember. I like your videos and will probably be there in the near future.
@Eudawg101
9 жыл бұрын
Awesome show guys....Its actually a beautiful world..And I love Thailand and I know I'll the Philippines. You guys rock.
@scottp3287
10 жыл бұрын
Ned , Michelle already replied and told me that you almost did . So not that time Haha. She has a lot of patience just by watching her listen to you talk . You two take care . Aloha
@nehctergarreugse5242
9 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed your videos a lot and you seem like a very happy couple :) Thanks for the videos. I'm from Dumaguete City. Got many friends from different countries asking me about Dumaguete City and what it offers. I will share to them your channel. Good luck on both of you :)
@jostaub7851
9 жыл бұрын
Yeah she is a good girl...she is pretty too
@poppypicanto
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks for doing these videos. I think I am following in your footsteps; and I'm heading out to the Philippines in January for the it's time to check it out. But I pretty much decided already to make a life out there with my partner. Feel like I've done the whole western thing, of .... Job....flash car....house.... Latest iphone.... And now I'm happy for a much simpler life based on " living " :-)
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Poppy Picanto Thanks, Poppy. Visit first or have an excellent contingency plan if you find the RP isn't for you. And get your iPhone unlocked. :)
@lovlypink4667
9 жыл бұрын
Good luck and have a remarkable experience in my homeland:)
@GlassLegend40
10 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that you found the courage to find something new.. is what I need to do for myself since, I'm still in the same place and same 0'l old status.. Enjoy my birth place bro ! you got about 7.000 islands.. Thanks for posting bring back lots a memories.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
GlassLegend40 Salamat, kuya/dong. Yeah, got a lot more islands to check out. That is, if this rain ever decides to break..... :( Thanks, again.
@GlassLegend40
10 жыл бұрын
Philippine Dreams Right! I still remember that when I was growing up in Marikina way back in the late 1977. when it rains, it pours unless it's a typhoon that can cover an entire island no power, no running water, rations were low and just an out house next to a bamboo shack. The whole shack creeks the entire morning while, we were trying to ride out the powerful wind.. Man! those were some real hard times..
@weekendtravellerph
10 жыл бұрын
Philippine Dreams this might help you explore places! www.becomingfilipino.com/ Canadian Guy living in CDO too !
@DavidDiaz-so5kj
8 жыл бұрын
I love how Michelle prompts you on your points... Alzheimer's starts early! :-)
@jimbrionz8565
8 жыл бұрын
+David Diaz lol
@greatheart52
8 жыл бұрын
+David Diaz You notice how good her memory is? It amazes me how well filipinas remember everything u say or do, with dates. lol
@hilariodiaz1592
9 жыл бұрын
i happened to came across your blog,its nice to hear what your saying about our country, although many of pilipinos are poor, it is still a good place to live here, kudos
@JAYJIANORAN
10 жыл бұрын
she's a cutie! someday…i'll be living the dream too...
@2011spaceage
9 жыл бұрын
I been trying to get to the Philippines now for 6 years. I married a filipina "my age", not a woman young enough to be my daughter. Anyway, my wife has a house in Samar, I also added onto the house a second floor plan "Americanized", but my wife does not want to live there permanently. Money is not an issue for me, but she would rather go back and forth to the Philippines. This does not work for me, I fell in love with the Philippines and the people there, and had been begging her to move back since. The wife likes Macy's and so on... It burns me up that we have a beautiful home to live in, but I am stuck here in the U.S. Consider yourself lucky!
@PhilippineDreams
9 жыл бұрын
Well, thank god you married a Filipina "your age." All these dudes with much younger Filipinas totally creep me out..... Oh, that would be me. :) Sounds like a tough situation, Alfa. I hope you all can come to some sort of compromise.
@nehctergarreugse5242
9 жыл бұрын
I hope things will work out for you and your wife. Good luck :)
@williammcneil1496
9 жыл бұрын
Same situation with me, Alfa. My wife wants to stay here in the US. She doesn't want to leave our grown children and our grandkids. I told her they can come and visit and we can also go visit, but she won't budge. It bothers me I have a good enough pension to live very well in the Philippines, but It's not enough to live comfortably in the States, so I have to continue to work. She has beachfront property on Camotes island in Cebu, but it's going to waste. I just don't understand her.
@2011spaceage
9 жыл бұрын
It does not make any sense to me either. My pension is great there in the Philippines. I do alright here in the states, but could be much better if we only moved. I don't know what to do at this point in life. Good luck to you!
@xikealexis1
9 жыл бұрын
Alfa M I am a filipina, I'm here in Canada sa a migrant worker, this is just my point of view from the dilemma you are into. Most of us Filipinos, coming and living in the foriegn countries means you have reached the "highest standard of ouur dreams" esp. If you are in US or Europe. We consider ourselves lucky to be in there, that's the general mindset of most of the filipinos. one reason is the source of income, better opportunity to have a high paid jobs even if it's minimum wage in there it makes a heck load of money when we convert it in Philippine money, that means we can support our families back home better, which comes to the first and foremost Primary reason why we want to stay and work in a foriegn lands. If we say family it doesn't mean only husband/wife then our children. It means almost our whole clan.
@zacharyjones7261
10 жыл бұрын
good topics and i want to thank you for your intelligent coverage. of topics so dear to me. i myself am from Tucson Arizona and every body use to say hello to people on the streets total strangers i for got how much i missed it.. Zachary
@darkhorse3557
9 жыл бұрын
Ned your wife Michele is so adorable.I have met a wonderful girl who lives in Southern Leyte. Her name is Jescel and I am completely head over heels for and she feels the same about me.I noticed one thing,well many things (all good) about filipino women is that they are very affectionate.I feel this way about Jescel because she is so easy to get along with and so lovable.And you know what? I haven't even met her in person yet.And this is what I'm getting at. I just graduated as a Medical Assistant and was wondering are there hospitals or Doctors offices where I can find employment? I want to come to the Philippines and stay for awhile and then maybe,just maybe move back to the U.S. for good or for a while to show Jescel and her beautiful daughter Leona, around and share the American culture with them.About how much did you spend to get there? What would it cost to bring Jescel and her Daughter to the U.S. permanently.Sorry to bombard you with all these questions.I just have got to be with her and her daughter soon or I'm gonna go crazy.Well...crazier. Take care,Don in Delaware
@okbilly1
8 жыл бұрын
I can relate to your reasons on making the move, I have have visited Thailand a few times but found there is a language barrier as it helps speaking Thai, Which I don't, I am considering coming to Cebu & giving it a go.
@luckythumper1
10 жыл бұрын
As I listen to you ,I agree with everything you have said. I have been to Phils last 2 winters. I am married to a Flipino and we are expecting our first child in November. I will be back in Southern Leyte in late October. Look forward to more videos ...
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Thump. And congratulations. More vids are on the way......
@brucerdavidson
8 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ned for sharing your reasons for starting a new life in the Philippines. You may have given some reasons and encouragement for someone who finds him/her self in the same situation that was causing you to feel that you were missing out on life.
@russellsutton8203
10 жыл бұрын
A very informative video. I am an aussie who plans to visit for the first in 2015. Meeting a lady from Christianfilipina site & really wanting to turn my life around with a nice filipina. You are one lucky bloke. I can see by the look in your wifes eyes how much she loves you. All the best & maybe we can catch up one day for a chat cheers Rusty
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Russell Sutton Thanks a lot, Russell and good luck on your adventure!
@NG-cf7zh
9 жыл бұрын
BOSTON! I knew it! I was listening to you speak for about 5 minutes saying to myself "I think this guy's from back home..." I'm happy for you, boss - I moved to San Diego about 6 years ago and totally get a lot of your comparisons, because they're somewhat similar to my comparisons of SD vs Boston when people ask me how it is out here. That said, I've always wanted to visit the Philippines (and as of yet, have not) so I obviously can't *really* understand the Philippine lifestyle. Anyway, you've got a new subscriber. Go Sox/Celts/Pats/Bruins :D
@husky8243
10 жыл бұрын
actually they are all good because it brings an insight to the Philippines
@mellieabarientos9639
8 жыл бұрын
Hi Ned & michell.i love your show. I think you are a lovely couples.
@gaylegodkin
10 жыл бұрын
Hi Ned, I just happened across your channel today, not sure how I have missed you since I watch Henry's and others vids daily. Nice to meet ya, and look forward to meeting up with you when we make it over. We're planning to settle in the San Carlos City area initially close to my wife's family. I would be particularly interested in your long term plans regarding immigration. We plan to move there, and I'm still unclear on how to navigate the VISA's and such for staying there long term to indefinite. Thanks! GG
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
If you are married to a Filipina citizen and you enter the country with her, you are eligible for a free "balikbayan visa." which is good for one year. The details are noted at www.philippineconsulate.com.au/balikbayan-one-year-visa-free-stay.html That is actually the Australian consulate but it applies to all foreigners coming into the country with a Filipina/Filipino spouse. You both would have to leave the country every year (quick trip up to Malaysia or somewhere with a cheap flight) to renew it on the way back into the country. Short, international flights are cheap, so the BB visa is actually the best.
@Livefreeman
9 жыл бұрын
number 12 reason is to sit beside a beautiful girl, lol
@PhilippineDreams
9 жыл бұрын
april8329 I think that was 11....
@nylrede247amayu
10 жыл бұрын
Awesome couple!!! Thanks. Always enjoyed watching your videos. My life long dream to live there someday ! Yes, seafood , beautiful beaches and tropical fruits!!!!!
@johndoe-nr7tv
9 жыл бұрын
they are very upbeat and put me in good mood watching their vidios keep up the good work guys
@PhilippineDreams
9 жыл бұрын
john doe Thank you, Mr. Doe.
@joydelosreyes3266
9 жыл бұрын
john doe ii am filipino and i think you should check out this video and the uploader's (kyle) website and find out why finding a filipina lover is not first on his list for coming to the philippines. watch all his vids. yuo'll enjoy them....good times!
@edenbarredo548
10 жыл бұрын
You both are amazing thank you sssssmch for choosing Philippines God bless you both take care
@shwtym1
10 жыл бұрын
Great video! I did the reverse and it cost so far 10 k. My wife and stepchild is from Cebu. You seem to have found your best friend and really that all that matters. The stress level over here is great so I think you made the right move going over their. Will continue to follow and Good luck!
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
You mean you went back to the West with your wife and child? Oh, and the stress level here is nothing to sneeze at at times, as well. :)
@shwtym1
10 жыл бұрын
Yep! Live an well in Wilmington DE. Wife has two children could only afford to bring the youngest she is going to 1st grade this year. Sad part she has mostly forgotten her language speaking English all the time.
@tomstarzeck7137
9 жыл бұрын
I will be visiting a beautiful Filipina on the 8th of next month. ..this will be my first time going there. .to claveria. .I have faced a lot of opposition here in the USA from people who only think the girls overseas are scams..I'm sticking my neck out and going anyway. Despite the loss of some friends..I'm really enjoyed your informative video! .also living in Massachusetts at this time..
@sherylsiocson7577
9 жыл бұрын
See u soon bby:) i love u....
@rexracer4591
9 жыл бұрын
There are lots of nice ladies in the Philippines. But be careful. And not because you might meet a gold digger, but....as in my case, if you don't find someone who's at least at the same education level as you, and isn't into a lot of the same things you like, you'll find down the road that your relationship will suffer. Everything from lifestyle, diet, past times, education, all matter.
@pilipina75
9 жыл бұрын
Becareful and don't get all your hopes up.
@luzsypewsy1
9 жыл бұрын
Brian Barberg Well, I am not an Adviser by any means but you have to be careful when anyone travel to any foreign land period. I was there a few months ago to see the Pope. Philippines has change since I was a teenager is not good as it used to be and that is my opinion. Be prepared and Careful !!!
@9mmsteve
9 жыл бұрын
Rex Racer They ALL want money
@mrPoming
10 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing your opinions. I've been to Philly once and plan to go there this winter. I like the Phillipines!
@myturn874
9 жыл бұрын
I run a charity called Youth freedom fund I help kids in the Philippines from serious trouble. I want to live there full time and provide full time jobs there. Can you think of any Businesses to open there or any good Ideas?
@GustavoRodriguez-qr5po
9 жыл бұрын
If I were you I would do something in tourism, I know the phillipines are a very popular tourist spot.
@PhilippineDreams
9 жыл бұрын
MyTurn I know a few guys running businesses here. They report mixed success with running a biz here. Beyond that, I don't know enough to comment further....
@patrickmountian5909
10 жыл бұрын
Hey Ned well just watched your lasted video here, and yes it was a good one, Shows alot about you and how you are there, i wish to go there also in maybe 6 months, But you know you let us down as Americans when your still afraid to open up to her with your heart to your lady ... She seems so special and preciousness too.... you need to let her know that sometimes , People there will think we are all cold like you, with our feelings locked away (living in a cold climate does that to people I know...... I lived in N Y 10 years and I have shoveled my last driveway in this lifetime ) ..... so relax and enjoy your life.... your woman and your world..... and be open to her before its to late ......mmmmm just suggestion... The videos are great your both great too and the expressions on your lady's face have me laughing all the time so tell her thanks
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Kevin. Yeah, I have to tell her those things more often.
@bongobong6288
9 жыл бұрын
I did this but not on my last nickel. Listen at 60 yr old I am invisible in America. Walk anywhere and any women you pass will not look at you. I walk anywhere in the Phil. everyone looks at me. I exist, it's great.
@hardmtnbiker
9 жыл бұрын
I'll be moving to Zambales in a month. I've watched a lot of your videos, thanks for your tips!
@cathymichael1480
9 жыл бұрын
Filipinos are family oriented people..and the sweetest people in the world. The good thing is,most of them are good english speakers and are talented.. That's why they hire many Filipinos to work in different countries.. I live in Dubai and always see pinoy bands here.. Don't know why some people hate Filipinos/Phillipines! Godbless... If many hate them, don't hire Filipinos in your country. Make sense??? Haha
@roysheaks1261
7 жыл бұрын
Cathy Michael That attitude may come from marrying a bar girl.
@poppypicanto
10 жыл бұрын
Cheers. What I plan to do is visit January for a two weeks holiday . To meet my love .... Check out where I'd be living ( as her mother is kindly letting me live there) but also check out some things, like test my money system etc ) and also get a SIM card registered / set up. Then if all goes well .... Back to the UK for 8/9 months to wrap things up. Ive been planning and planning - I think I'm all planned out. lol. :-)
@michaelchristophergutierre7244
8 жыл бұрын
Great video, I can completely relate. Inspiring to all of us planning to make that move and look for a better quality of life outside the USA. Your list looks like my list LOL :)
@tvminh
10 жыл бұрын
Philippines is nice until the money runs out. I hate the rat race in California but I must wait until I collect my pension at 55 two years from now. I thought about moving to the Phil 14 years ago but my better judgement told me to wait. I am glad that I wait. Philippines is hell if you are short on money. If you get serious ill without enough money then you die. I have paid for med, lab test, surgery and check up for my girlfriend mom. It is not cheap at all. Med is more expensive than in the USA. It is a very risky move to Phil without steady income like pension. Quite a few expat have die because they cannot pay for the medical treatment. Some expat become homeless when the money runs out. I have been to Phil 5 times. There are many paradise in Phil but...they all cost money. I am not preaching here. I share with you the reality of living in the Phil. Enough said.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Well said. Yep, the Philippines (or anyplace for that matter) is a bad place to be if you don't have any money. Medical care is (much) cheaper here but meds are more expensive (insurance doesn't cover them). The Phils is also a bad place to be if you are an alcoholic.
@ronaldarmstrong4649
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I will be in Cebu within a week. Did you get that butterfly feeling in you stomach. But I'm taking the plunge, I dreamt every single day of living in the Philippines.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Butterflies the size of turkey vultures! Do yourself a favor and get a blog on blogger.com to document your initial experiences. If you have a laptop, take a little video each day documenting your thoughts and feelings. You won't regret it. And wait til you see the malls in Cebu!!!!
@PhilChan22
10 жыл бұрын
Well said my friend. Glad everything is going well for you! Hey I sent you a message over on facebook. I figured you wouldn't check it very often, but go read it.
@willhart6110
9 жыл бұрын
Economy is not a valid reason to pick up and move to another country. If you don't love the country and its people...they you will get frustrated by alien languages, customs and way and sink into depression and chronic complaining...love is the reason and filipinos are worthy of it...
@DianeyDarker
10 жыл бұрын
You guys are adorable! Gotta love your vlogs! Subscribed! :)
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Dianey Dampor Welcome to the Dream Team, Sir Dainey!
@mhajas725
10 жыл бұрын
Hi Ned,hi mechell that was awsome story you told I must have missed this video,just found it,anyway I am very happy for you guys,and Ned you are living my dream now :) I been learning a lot about the Philippines on your channel you really did nail that one those are all very good reasons,thanks for the videos :)
@manstarbig
8 жыл бұрын
fantastic videos!! love your honest opinions glad your living your life and dreams!!!
@OurPhilippineAdventure
10 жыл бұрын
Those are awesome reasons to move to the Philippines and I am sure mine are almost the same as yours. My wife is from the North in Luzon and we have property up there, but your location looks pretty nice. We might have to check it out to see if that's where we want to move once we sell our home in the States. Thanks for the videos.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
No problem, Kev. I think it would be hard to find a place in the Philippines that isn't pretty. Even in Manila, you can take a drive out of the capital and see some pretty amazing places!
@rickbeyers2826
9 жыл бұрын
Viewed this one a year later but. we want you to know how close you are to us. I share the same thoughts and feelings here. Planning to move into our house in Cavite in 2 years.
@luckythumper1
10 жыл бұрын
Have you experienced Typhoons yet. Unfortunately, Weng and I were in Tacloban when Yolanda came through and that is the only experience so far in the Phils I don't care to repeat..
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
I hope to God above that I never have to experience anything like that. I can't even begin to imagine what you experienced with the entire city's destruction.
@joshuaravel
9 жыл бұрын
Subscribed to your channel... Looking forward to watch all your videos... Thanks.. I'd be moving there someday soon... Can't take thus cold Chicago weather no more...
@marklewis4024
9 жыл бұрын
Excellent video.. i'm often there and just love it. When i'm there i don't miss it back home in the U.S. I'm buying property there too.
@BAHRAMCR
10 жыл бұрын
Ye ye ye, the 10 reasons you are in Ph. Is that cute little princess sitting next to you, be honest and admit.
@potsandpans960
7 жыл бұрын
I've been watching these videos and enjoying them very much. this video reminds me of a quote from Thomas Edison that says "restlessness and discontent are the first necessities of progress"
@barryjackson6367
9 жыл бұрын
You're from New England? I'm originally from New York City (Go Yankees). I'm presently in Wethersfield Connecticut. God, I'm so sick and tired of the winters here. I LOVE the heat, and humidity doesn't really bother me. Looking forward to coming back to the Phils.
@PhilippineDreams
9 жыл бұрын
Barry Jackson I don't know about that - I am no fan of NE winters, either but the relentless summer heat can get a bit much.....
@killersushi99
9 жыл бұрын
8 people dont like a key hanging on the wall.
@Muadib223
10 жыл бұрын
Old Viking idiom - "Life begins at the end of your comfort zone..."
@robertarodriguez2279
10 жыл бұрын
Life is simple. People makes it complicated. You guys inspire me... Hop eto see you in the beautiful islands of the Phil. :)
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Roberta Rodriguez Yeah, we tend to complicate more for ourselves.... the human condition and whatnot. Thanks, Roberta. :)
@michaelfirestone7440
10 жыл бұрын
Don't know the two of you too much, other than your videos and some emails, But I want to think of you guys as my friends...Thanks for the insight ♥
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mike and stay tuned for more updates.
@wasteoftimer
10 жыл бұрын
Another good vid! Lots of thought provoking things. I could not help but make my list also, inspired by yours.
@joellouisalba
10 жыл бұрын
Ned, you make superb videos. I am fond of viewing your ventures in and around Dumaguete because that is the place where I was born. My family emigrated to the States when I was only 2 years old but I have been back to visit two times with the family and two times as a solo traveler. During my last visit, I explored Robinsons Mall, Rizal Boulevard, Hayahay restaurant, Mang Inasal, Jollibee, and a dive resort in Dauin. The combination of a college town atmosphere tucked within the beautiful tropical countryside got me to think about making Dumaguete my place of retirement during my latest sojourn. But when I saw your videos and Ricky's videos on LifeBeyondTheSea, my mind has been made up and I am currently making plans to move to 'The City of Gentle People' in January 2020 when I retire from my government job. I am just curious on how you are able to learn Cebuano so well. My parents did not speak to me and my brothers in Cebuano when we were growing up, so I have very limited knowledge of this dialect. But, in the 8 or 9 months that you have been there, I think I heard or saw written over 40 Cebuano words in your videos. That is more than I know, for sure. But, I hope when I start living there permanently, I can pick up the dialect as well as you have. Please continue these videos, it is both information and also an inspiration so that I can continue working in my 'gubmint' job until the day I am eligible to retire with a 'gubmint' pension. Thanks for your efforts in putting the videos together.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Dang - thanks a lot, man. Cebuano/bisaya is actually more difficult to learn than I thought. I am pretty good with Spanish but the local grammar is all over the place. I actually know enough to be dangerous now - I can get the gist of a conversation but not the specifics which can lead to misinterpretations. I actually need to put more effort into it, as I plan on staying in the Visayas for a good long time. Thanks again Joel and stay tuned for more updates.
@chrism82d
8 жыл бұрын
Hello Sir. First I want to say this is a very good video. Most of what you spoke of applies to me. I spent 21 years in the Army and by the end was so burned out I would almost cry before going to work. I've recently retired and the reasons you mentioned are very much in line with mine. I'm married to a sweet little Filipina and we are torn between staying in the US (Washington State) or moving to Cebu (her home). We already built a pretty nice house that her brother and father (wonderful people) live in. To be honest, I think I want to go more than she does. Like I told her, it would not have to be forever, just 2 years or so. She could go back to school and get her masters degree (1 semester here would pay for her degree there) and I could take a break from life for awhile. Granted, I would miss my guns, cable TV and fast internet, but I would gain beaches and our baby would get to see her family for awhile.
@bert671
10 жыл бұрын
good luck out there. The Philippines is a great place to be just and the people are great! just keep an open mind.
@PhilippineDreams
10 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Bert. And yes, the people are the countries greatest asset.
@wolphman007
9 жыл бұрын
I've watched a few of your videos and they are great. I'm thinking of moving there from Los Angeles for business. I've been wanting to start doing business in Asia and friends of mine are starting in the Philippines. It sounds good but of course, moving to a whole nother country can be daunting. But I love business and I think this is a viable way to live there. We are in the Rice production and trading biz...
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