Oh what a shame you felt you had to remove all your old videos. I have been a subscriber of yours for many years and I’m well aware of the vile things people have written about you. As a woman approaching her fifties I’ve learnt that those types of people that write such nasty things about other people, hate themselves their sad lives and have probably been bullied themselves. I feel sorry for them. They are jealous of you, you have a beautiful family and you have a good life. Ignore the haters Rebecca, your doing great 👍🏼
@laineynewlands70
5 ай бұрын
I 💯 agree with you. I’ve also followed you for many years & when you decided to leave KZitem I was so upset. You were the first family I had ever followed. At least I could still see you on Instagram but when you came back here I was so happy. It’s so sad you’ve felt you have to take down your videos 😢 Sending you & all your awesome family big, big hugs 🤗 xxx
@Lou7301.
5 ай бұрын
Hope they were at least made private for your own memories xx
@lisajohnson2847
5 ай бұрын
I used to watch all your family vlogs back in the day and was so glad you came back ❤ you are so good at what you do and it makes me sad that people can tear you down so much! I will never understand why if someone doesn’t like someone or something they see in videos why they watch! I don’t have the time or energy to watch anything that doesn’t give me joy! Just take care of yourself your fab Rebecca! 😊
@emmag6255
5 ай бұрын
There are some sad individuals out there Rebecca who love to bash people down. You share what you feel comfortable with. I think it was interesting to hear how you were/are navigating your next stage in lives. Like many of us we go through certain points where big decisions are to be made and thought about and I find sometimes chatting with others gets perspectives from all over and helps you to make a decision. It’s a shame some have made you feel you can’t chat about such things but we understand. We’re totally behind you. Absolutely loving your channel again though anyway - finding it a real comfortable watch. Also LOVE the podcast too! Xx
@dakotahill1335
5 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry people can’t understand that y’all’s life is just that: YOURS. I’m a blue collar wife too, and a stay-at-home mom. The people that get it, get it! And the people who don’t, REALLY don’t. I love your videos, and appreciate your openness and honesty. My husband (who works away too) and I have had similar chats, and knowing that you guys have considered similar changes is comforting and relatable. Keep being you, keep sharing what you’re feeling, and know that you have a loving subscriber here cheering you on! ❤
@victoriajones2423
5 ай бұрын
So sorry you have been through all this. I would love you to be able to pop all your old videos up 😊 loved and followed you for ages xxx
@lozahere
5 ай бұрын
❤️ always support you. My first ever KZitemr I ever watched.
@MrsRMeldrum
5 ай бұрын
You're the best!
@mahjabinuddin9545
5 ай бұрын
I love watching you sweetheart but do what makes you happy especially family and relationships love ya ❤
@ashliejade24
5 ай бұрын
I will never understand why people are nasty to people especially on social media, they have a choice not to watch, they could just u subscribe and move on. I love your realness and it is such a shame people can be mean to you about this or anything ❤️
@rosiew8-fenn
5 ай бұрын
Please don’t let the haters win! I love your videos as do all your loyal followers of which there are lots! Just block the bad ones! We obviously understand why you took your videos down but it’s all your hard work! Please bring them back and sod the haters! Just report the scum that dare to make hateful comments and know that the vast majority of your followers love and respect you, Lee and your family xxxx❤
@hippychick1982
5 ай бұрын
I don’t know why people feel the need to comment on a lifestyle they know nothing about. One of my uni mates has been with her hubby since our 4th year in Abdn, so near on 20 years, and he was already offshore then. I will NEVER forget the night we left the cinema to a voice message from him saying there had been an incident but he was ok. I think a lot of people seem to think Lee is off on a jolly for three weeks at a time and don’t realise the stress on both of you of having him in the middle of bloody nowhere with no way of getting back unless there’s a helicopter going for them or there’s a massive effort to get to them by ship. It takes a strong couple to live your lifestyle and a strong woman to keep EVERYTHING running smoothly at home and don’t let any keyboard warrior idiots tell you otherwise ❤💪🏻
@jessicastarkey8148
5 ай бұрын
That's so sad you've had to do that Rebecca, unfortunately jealousy ruins people. Plenty of us cheering you on though 🙌❤
@jemmalathwell2160
5 ай бұрын
Favourite youtuber! Been watching for years now 🫶 xx
@rebeccawidnall223
5 ай бұрын
I feel like being a stay at home mum is so frowned upon. I am a stay at home mum and always have been, i dont give a flying F what people think, its not their life and never will be.
@MumLifeAndMore
5 ай бұрын
Whatever you do, you'll be frowned upon by someone. So you just gotta do what is best for you and forget everyone else 😊
@MumLifeAndMore
5 ай бұрын
I've been both, and both are hard work xx
@rebeccawidnall223
5 ай бұрын
@MumLifeAndMore Exactly, surely making sure people are happy and whatever they have chosen is working for them, should be the main goal. Its so sad seeing strangers tear people apart.
@theresawinder7403
5 ай бұрын
Oh my! Don't worry bout others comments, it's your life and people who watch you should be supportive!!
@user-id8yz9bu3g
5 ай бұрын
People are just so bloody mean. Ignore the haters, I love your fb page and I love your reels and KZitem videos. Have been watching for years now and always love the content. Don't be so hard on yourself xx
@lisbrealey1343
5 ай бұрын
Totally respect you protecting yourself. Being able to be a home mum is amazing never feel pressured to go to work. Especially if one of your children is struggling at present it is a blessing to be available for all three of them. Sending love.
@donnaclark5047
5 ай бұрын
Stress can also be a trigger, i always say....if this was happening to your friend, what advice would you give them? Not sure if you answer would be to let these narrow minded people's opinions of your family life, have the impact its having and forcing you to give into them and take down videos, i haven't seen them, but I personally wouldn't let them win, i wouldn't even let them see anything they say effects me... Even if i was upset and even cried to a friend, I'd still show the happy face and when there's no reaction they'll move on. I was shocked when I had my son (who is now 16) diagnosed with Autism, i thought people would be kind and thought bullying was for children and was scared of how the other children would treat him, I didn't need to worry as much about the children, it was the grown mothers in the playground that were vile, i was shocked to my core, it made me grow a thick skin, i had to for him to show words of others don't control us or our happiness ❤
@Mizzy5
5 ай бұрын
I’m glad you are looking out for yourself and the family.
@tracey8506
5 ай бұрын
So sorry that some people feel that it is their right to be negative. One idea i had was to have a home tutor for Poppy or some kind of support. They could cater to her needs and fit in with your unique family life. 😊😊
@michellehansen7
5 ай бұрын
Just gotta do you and what’s best for you and your family, always. ❤
@MrsRMeldrum
5 ай бұрын
I appreciate that
@rosiecantillon
5 ай бұрын
I think things were getting on top of you with your youngest re school . Your lifestyle seems to work so well for you normally. Long time follower 👍🏻
@bethhughes9211
5 ай бұрын
Some people are only happy when they’re dragging others down! I have just started work after 8 years as a SAHM, where hubby was the finances, basically. I’ve been called lazy & selfish by many. Only a small few knew how it really was. You & Lee do you! It only matters between the two of you! You know you & your family best.
@amandajones1691
5 ай бұрын
Love your videos, please try to ignore nasty sad people and just enjoy what you do best 🎉 xx
@hannahsmith6622
5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry people have been awful to you. Totally respect your decision but I do feel it’s a shame as I felt more connected to you understanding some of the real life challenges you were dealing with, sending you and the family lots of love xxxx
@VWbus1980
5 ай бұрын
We have been having similar conversations in our house. My husband works shifts and I have a small business I run from home (and make very little money!) Our youngest is adopted and has FASD and so life is very challenging. We would like my husband to do a 9-5 but it would mean down sizing and having less time together. I think we are going to try the 9-5 without moving and just see if he likes it. The job he’s in now would always take him back so it’s pretty risk free to try. Sorry people were being mean in your comments, I hate that you are having to censor yourself!
@zoesmith2087
5 ай бұрын
It is a shame some people have to be so negative but it’s your channel and you post whatever you feel comfortable doing. X
@SunflowergirlinPA
5 ай бұрын
I have always enjoyed how relatable you are in your vlogs ~ Illegitimi non carborundum!! Much love from the US!
@DebbieEmslie
5 ай бұрын
This day & age we have to protect our own inner peace. Do whats best for you & yours! ❤
@LindseyDawnArt
5 ай бұрын
It's really sad that you're experiencing negativity again. It's so nice to see you come back on youtube after your last experience. Can I just ask what videos you had to take down?
@cm-nj
5 ай бұрын
I had the luxury of staying at home while my children were little and I make no apologies to anyone. It was work. That I loved it doesn't mean it was a vacation. Do not apologize for parenting. It is an important calling!
@clarepark82
5 ай бұрын
You were the first youtuber that i came accross and you got me hooked!! Followed you for years and have loved all your videos xxx
@nickym1ller
5 ай бұрын
This is why it’s so hard to find authentic feeling you tubers now; the trolls making it impossible for you guys to show much of your real life at all. Booo! Like many commenters on here, I really enjoy your videos! Hope you keep making them!
@emilyjarvis9668
5 ай бұрын
These haters are so sad, you just have to feel sorry for them! However I totally understand that with other stuff you have going on, you don't want to give any of your energy to those idiots. I love you and lee being back on KZitem, always the best authentic content and lovely people xxx
@clairelouisegibson5060
5 ай бұрын
So sorry you had to deal with this again ive watched from bk in the day and it was a shame what ppl did to u bk then , it was lively after your break to decide to come bk dont let them ruin it again for you ❤
@rhonagoggin108
5 ай бұрын
You were my first KZitemr always loved what's U do xxx
@Kate-hg6mg
5 ай бұрын
I honestly cant tell you how much it meant to me to hear you talking about going through some of the same struggles that i am. It can feel so lonely and like you're the only one. Totally appreciate you have to protect your family tho x
@bellasorella2531
5 ай бұрын
Long time follower here, my daughter is really struggling with leg cramps pain at night and remember P going through the same. Did you ever get any answers as my GP is so dismissive and just thinks it’s growing pains but I am wanting more investigations
@sarahdean7651
5 ай бұрын
Hope your ok. Love having you back on KZitem PLEASE dont leave urgh always someone with something negative to say what is wrong with people, everyone will have opinions & not agree etc but not everyone has to voice it, glad you've put boundaries in place to protect your mental well-being & just pull vids down if needed its your channel your content the loyal long term viewer's like myself completely understand. Cant believe youve had bertie boy 5yrs wow time flies. Take care x
@laurahouston5252
5 ай бұрын
Hi Rebecca, where did you get the basket that you use for your fire wood? Thanks
@siandavis9676
5 ай бұрын
I don’t blame you, some of the comments here and other places were just VILE. I cannot believe how nasty people are about you and the children. I was mortified reading them so god knows how you felt! I am really enjoying your vlogs, I find them motivating. I would love a segment on your Apple Watch and how you use it for fitness and motivation xxx
@becksbradford6816
2 ай бұрын
Only just found you, was looking forward to bunge watching a load of new content but gutted to find thus title
@MrsRMeldrum
2 ай бұрын
Ah soz! Lots of new vlogs coming though!
@rebeccaseal4182
5 ай бұрын
I am a carer for my disbeld son, and my husband works full-time, plus being a parent is a full-time job, and also no one's business if you work or not ❤❤
@gemmaharris9
5 ай бұрын
I really don’t understand people sometimes and why they feel the need to post such vile comments but protecting yourself and your family is so important so fully understand why you have removed them. On another note milk is a massive trigger for my psoriasis but I hope you find out what’s bothering your skin soon xxx
@shannonlarge5061
5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry you feel that way! Just so you know if the videos are in someone’s history you can still watch them as they are still on mine
@Pixief13
5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry people are being so negative to you it’s not fair 😢Always enjoyed watching you and your family for years and will continue to do so x
@user-fu9ho3lo6p
4 ай бұрын
Rebecca I must of followed you for what feels like a decade now I was really heartbroken to see all your videos were gone especially when I was trying to get pregnant and wanted to watch them x
@MrsRMeldrum
4 ай бұрын
Oh sorry lovely, was a bit of an over-sharer back in the day so didn’t feel comfortable having them live x
@victoriaflynn6506
5 ай бұрын
Stay at home mums are precious. Here in Ireland we just voted to protect the mother from bring removed from the constitution. And Won. ❤
@carolmilligan5653
5 ай бұрын
I'll never understand how a human being can be so unkind to another person. The decent people would never do that and we are in the majority.
@kyliecogzell3012
5 ай бұрын
It might be caffeine when my mum had a op on her foot she was told to have decaf tea and coffee and no chocolate unless its white chocolate because prolongs the healing process I've never heard of it before but it's really hard to get feet to heal, anyway that might be what's affected your hand
@IsabelDarbyshire2468
5 ай бұрын
Don’t let the haters get to you just ignore them please put them back I enjoy watching them 😢❤
@samanthabidgood9517
5 ай бұрын
I have eczema and it’s sugar and gluten for me, which sadly could also be what’s making you react in your mocha 😭
@victoriaflynn6506
5 ай бұрын
Remove all diary. Stay clear of sugar it's poison. Don't get me started on aspartame or sugar alternatives 😂😂
@sabrinajoyce1060
5 ай бұрын
Feel sad for you that you had to prull ur videos over negitive minded people, as a subcriber since very early on , just you been real and honest makes me watch...alot of people feel the need to voice there negitive opinon and ill never no why... I love watching real life honest vlogs as it can be very relateable and i understand people just cant share as much its sad u had to do that x
@saraveness5194
5 ай бұрын
Fab vlog as always, thank you! 😊
@juliepearson1685
5 ай бұрын
Great tibsee you back Rebecca spring is here now longer nights at last, we just need sun.
@sophieelwatson6702
5 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear you have had to field negativity on here! I’m loving having you back. ❤
@laurengill3185
5 ай бұрын
Im so sad u felt you had to remove ur old videos. I love all your content and was a subscriber previously ❤ My husband works and currently i dont i stay at home and look after our 3 children. Bringing up ur girls is so important and your doing a great job. Live your life how you want, its nothing to do with anyone else. Keep ur head held high. The haters shouldnt be watching xx
@sandraareias2871
5 ай бұрын
With the weather affecting your mood have you ever thought about moving to warmer weather?
@preetaarya
5 ай бұрын
Absolutely love your videos and wait for these.. pls don’t be bothered by headless faceless and aimless people…. Do whatever gives you peace and pleasure ❤️ love from India
@carolgraham6669
5 ай бұрын
Love your videos always have been a long time❤❤❤
@jenniferingram1535
5 ай бұрын
Where are peoples heads when they think it’s their business to make those kind of comments and why do they even bother watching to start with! That kind of sharing is what makes you so relatable, there’s no falseness ❤ loved all your videos but I would have done the same and hope you are doing ok from the negativity ❤️
@mrsc-b_adventures_of_m_and_e
5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry you felt the need to remove your old videos. I have seen the negative comments and I just can’t understand why people think it’s acceptable to behave in that way. Are they jealous? Or are their lives so empty that this is the only way they think they can fulfil it? Can you imagine if they put that energy into something good, how different the world would be?! I also don’t think it’s anyones business how you and Lee earn your money! If the situation works for you then it works for you! Anyway just to say that I have been a long term follower on both KZitem and Instagram and I hope you don’t stop making content. You are one of the only online folk I have consistently followed and watched. Xx
@louiseroe778
5 ай бұрын
Its probably dairy. Chocolate and milk. Try black coffee as you will probably be ok with that x
@alisonkearley638
5 ай бұрын
I have been a subscriber for a good few years now and i enjoy watching them, some people can be mean and they have no right to give you their negative thoughts. I respect you want to keep your children private thats your right.Anyway keep doing what your doing now we know why some or most of your videos have gone i hope you dont feel to remove anymore.would love to see those jazz classes you go to. Your wireless headphones what make are they please? Great to see your video today ❤
@katieanne948
5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry that you had to pull the video's down, I was saving them to watch this week so I'm a wee bit out of the loop, but mainly I'm just very sad that you needed to do it. I don't understand people who leave nasty comments. What we were always taught was "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all", which, yes, is a bit of a problematic statement with some situations but I feel more people need to think about that old saying when they are tapping away something horrible on their keyboard. Hope you're doing ok and still plan on making videos because I really enjoy watching them. ❤
@JulesRingham
5 ай бұрын
Ahhh so sorry to hear the haters and negative comments persist after all this time.Hope you are ok and it doesn’t effect you in the same way it did before,I have watched you for years and was so glad when you came back and felt able to start again on You Tube. Big hugs to you xx Ps You look so fresh faced and glowy without makeup in this vid xx
@sarahlerego7279
5 ай бұрын
You are working doing KZitem and being the solo caregiver to your 3 children and making a beautiful home. Ugh people 🙄 ❤
@kymcoote6769
5 ай бұрын
All of your old subscribers know that you and Leigh are a great team. 💙💕💕💕💕🇦🇺🥰
@carolaustin3785
5 ай бұрын
Nice short and cheerful video, Rebecca! I feel you have been unfairly targeted in the past, with deliberate character assassination on social media, so totally understand your point of view. On another note, I don't know anything about Jazzersize, but it looks like fun - I will see if we have it out here (Brisbane). All the best to you in Scotland!
@tjall
5 ай бұрын
It's nobody's business who brings home the pay or if you chose to work or not before I fell ill I was lucky enough to have the choice to work or not so I chose not to and I love it just remember you don't have to justify your life at all some people make my blood boil 😡
@joannehart2582
5 ай бұрын
Aww don't let the haters win x
@amyjaynewebb6688
5 ай бұрын
my psoriasis has been vile recently, sunbeds really help! . always loved your content xx
@OrdinaryEnglishMum
5 ай бұрын
I'm sorry you feel you cant share what you like. Completely your life and how you live and what you do is totally your choice 🤍
@dawnwilliams-gz1cj
5 ай бұрын
Love having you back on here x❤
@irenes6627
5 ай бұрын
I love you here and Instagram. I have followed you for years. I live in Aberdeenshire and get you, your very relatable. ❤
@christineabercrombie5257
5 ай бұрын
All Dairy is a huge trigger it x
@dannifulker7494
5 ай бұрын
❤️
@magdalenadeighan7052
5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@1966buttons
5 ай бұрын
My friend with excema can't eat chocolate or milk (or any dairy products)
@jackiebrown2856
5 ай бұрын
Xx💕💕
@cerysrennocks8332
5 ай бұрын
I don't understand why people feel the need to be so vile and critical. With Lee working away and you being the primary carer, you are going to have substantial parental burnout especially with everything going on with Poppy. I have two sons and one is ND and they fight constantly....it's so draining 😖 Both my husband and I work full time and in stressful environments, so the patience can be very fragile at times xx
@mebeinganna1474
5 ай бұрын
Dairy is not good for eczema x
@michelleamywatt5695
5 ай бұрын
Can’t believe all your videos are gone Obviously set to private Such a shame that you had to do this due to horrible people
@layla7639
4 ай бұрын
Where her children?
@MrsRMeldrum
3 ай бұрын
I’m not comfortable showing my children online.
@hannahheerey646
5 ай бұрын
People are so vile! Can you not just keep the videos but disable comments?
@barbaramackay75
5 ай бұрын
Try lactose free xx
@irenes6627
5 ай бұрын
You don't have to explain your private affairs as a couple to anyone ❤
@alimather5175
5 ай бұрын
Can't believe Bertie is 5, 😊x
@margaretanne7762
5 ай бұрын
Without a doubt you have a much harder job than Lee.I am sure he would agree.who are these judgemental narrow minded people? They set women back years.
@DebbieWillow
5 ай бұрын
U r either on utube or ur not, simples.
@vickitoriana3454
5 ай бұрын
Sounds like lactose is your culprit. I remember you had issues with your tummy years ago. Going lactose free is so easy now.
@simoneswift
5 ай бұрын
❤
@TwinMumDiary
5 ай бұрын
Who are these people who have the audacity to comment on Lee working etc… SAHM mum is a full time job too. Some people have too many opinions and should wheesht Absolutely love your channel I watched you constantly years ago. I keep up with you on insta 🥰 this is my own personal channel I’ve started. Slowly but surely ✨ I’d literally watch you take the bins out and find it interesting 🤣 please you do you!!! You deserve all the happiness, try to not let anyone get you down✨ It is so much easier said than done though sadly🤍
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