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@amymanns8023
3 жыл бұрын
If a man is treating you badly, block, ignore and run. It's not some cute dating game. He's probably a narcissist and thank God you're finding out now.
@sheriwl
10 ай бұрын
Yes. This. One million per cent
@pebbles92able
2 ай бұрын
💯. My ex narc would do that to me. That is what these losers do when they are trying to get you hooked into the trauma bond.
@j.d.1506
3 жыл бұрын
It’s a form of abuse. It’s very manipulative. No one should ever play mind games like that with anyone. Those are the kind of people that need to take their ego problems and disappear for good.
@mmhnma
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@nadineelizabeth195
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly no time for it
@bubbela
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@unapologeticella4540
2 жыл бұрын
I agree💯 he has always yelled at me but now he does it out in public and ppl ignore I wish someone would say everything is going to be ok or do u need help but they ignore no matter how close they are.
@a.g.o.t.i2848
2 жыл бұрын
My crush hates me for being gay and called me every single bad name but he's so nice to others.
@fruitsarelife7073
Жыл бұрын
It’s the most obvious first sign of an abusive relationship. That’s how women end up being stuck in something they didn’t expect. They lure you in and then mistreat you, then they will ne nice, then mistreat you. You will hold on to the good moments and think he loves you, when you are in an abusive relationship.
@goldchyna7105
8 жыл бұрын
He has my attention all right. I unfriended him😂
@safier321
8 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha 👍😂
@MissMichSan
7 жыл бұрын
Gold Chyna lmao you go girl dont play his games.
@8SeventeenForever
7 жыл бұрын
Gold Chyna 😂😂😂😂😂
@kikisbeautyworld5458
7 жыл бұрын
Gold Chyna that part !
@hadyswagswag235
7 жыл бұрын
Junk food go fuk urself U insecure bitch Ur husband walked away from U sad as hell
@Mistybluee86
6 жыл бұрын
He was rude to me so text him to tell him than i blocked him ... Than i went and had ice cream watched tv and went to sleep ... Im good now
@priscilla9226
6 жыл бұрын
Omg girl🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mist__4974
5 жыл бұрын
@Jack Smith What she said makes sense to me- That is big part of why she felt good perhaps - Said her peace and then did it. But i don't know. What do you suggest someone do if one is disrespectful by text?
@wednesdayaddams3533
5 жыл бұрын
Good let him feel the pain
@turkishdelight4467
5 жыл бұрын
YUP
@misspisces6249
4 жыл бұрын
Goo girl
@yvonaj3493
5 жыл бұрын
I have one sentence for this "ain't nobody got time for that" lmao
@smeraldasanchez2218
4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@moanapooh9726
4 жыл бұрын
Frrr thooo dammit. I'd rather leave I got too many important things to worry abt. Like sis or bro, U got a lot of start doing instead of worrying abt sum mfkin boi👌✔deal?
@jenniferjones1470
3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@fgr617r9
2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@gabrielleurbina7020
8 жыл бұрын
Honestly I'm at the age where I'm mature enough to not chase a guy who is obviously too immature to like me. If a guy is being mean, he just isn't worth my time so I'm moving on. Douche. Maybe he'll learn his lesson for the next girl.
@rosannamiranda4620
7 жыл бұрын
true i do same often
@peaceful4you408
7 жыл бұрын
Gabrielle Urbina You'll continue to miss out on your mentality. You have to realize that it's not the guy that missing out, its actually your loss. Because you have to put a little sweat into him, you get frustrated and give up. That's what most women do and find themselves in relationships they first thought was good but turned sour. The guy you wasn't willing to break a sweat with, might have been the man GOD sent for you to fullfil all of your dreams of a great relationship. It could have been worth it to put up with that guys bullshit for a little while to see where things could have transpired. All men do is just move on to other women as if you never existed. Be a little more open minded about guys and more doors will open up for you. I promise. It's your call of course.
@sunny4lady
7 жыл бұрын
It's immature, I agree, and as a girl I'm guilty of doing this myself. Picture this: You fall head over heals for a guy, he makes your heart race, and you get so flustered around him that you can barely talk normal to him in front of you and so you start stumbling around your words. Then you get very embarrassed, and as a self defence mechanism, in fear of rejection, you start being mean to him. You just never know how heartbroken a person has been in a previous relationship, so it's all a self defence mechanism. I'm actually pretty nuts about this guy, but it scares the living day out of me, to have these feelings. Just a tip, the guy might actually really like you, so give him a chance.
@dmcnei77
7 жыл бұрын
Ryan Heard Would you put up with the hot and cold nonsense with a woman?
@kristenmoonrise
5 жыл бұрын
@Beautifulbajan86 as if domestic violence didn't exist back then
@theyadoretay8062
4 жыл бұрын
How he treats you is how he feels about you
@acd1168
2 жыл бұрын
How he feels about himself. Someone else’s actions have nothing to do with you. You can’t control people.
@acd1168
2 жыл бұрын
@Ambra Bianca Thanks. This kind of misinformation is very dangerous to mental health. My ex used to verbally abuse me even when I was kind to him. That is no reflection of my worth. EVER
@fgr617r9
2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@fgr617r9
2 жыл бұрын
@@acd1168 They had it right. You partly did. They didn't say it had any bearing on their worth. They said it's how he feels about you not how you actually are.
@acd1168
2 жыл бұрын
@@fgr617r9 That is totally wrong also. No one is responsible for someone’s thoughts. You might get triggered by my tone of voice but that isn’t my fault. It will come from trauma earlier in your life.
@donnajustbeingreal6607
6 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a narcissist. smh Run run fast away.
@stanexe
4 жыл бұрын
Donna Just Being Real my crush is a narcissist-
@Gokuvsnaruto22
4 жыл бұрын
How is ignoring a girl to get her attention being a narcissist?
@ladennayoung2939
4 жыл бұрын
@@stanexe well if they are truly a narcissist. You need to leave them alone.
@ladennayoung2939
4 жыл бұрын
@@Gokuvsnaruto22 they call it the silent treatment, and a lot of narcissist do that to control you.
@stanexe
3 жыл бұрын
Ladenna Young girl I should have listened to uuu
@prettyynlashesss4880
Жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOOOOVVVEEE how when u click on your video you get STRAIGHT TO THE POINT !!!👏🏾👏🏾
@mariamistretta3860
5 жыл бұрын
When a guy is disrespectful to women not cool man, not cool. Don't torolate manipulate abuse or bullied. No I don't have to take it. Don't have time for a guys lame games. Don't go playing games with my emotional or heart I ain't a toy. Enough is enough don't have to tolate such disrespect in a man.
@grandoldsoul4691
5 жыл бұрын
ya da da da yet your still here
@QuirkySundae
4 ай бұрын
@@grandoldsoul4691just say you’re a guy that treats women badly and move on. Why are you taking her comment personally like she dated you? Guilty much.
@MsNobody
4 жыл бұрын
I just broke up with my fiance today. Know why? Coz he was rude to me. I feel so at peace right now that he is not around to control my life anymore. Told him yesterday "if you keep treating me like this, I have no problem leaving you". Well today i guess he thought I was bluffing.
@jondough3339
Жыл бұрын
Bad woman
@msmilano7091
8 жыл бұрын
As soon as the hot and cold stuff starts, that, for me, is when it's time to walk away. If a guy is messing with me in the not-so-fun way, all I see is that he think so little of me that he thinks he can act like that and that I'll still be there. The cruel stuff speaks the loudest to me. Pretty much all of my "relationships" have been friends with benefits, which is fine because it's pretty much the perfect arrangement, and there is no crossed wires or getting hurt; and I absolutely love the guy friends that I have ....but sometimes knowing that no guy has ever seen me as worth anything gets to me a bit. They're just being them, and actually says more about me than anything, but still.....
@kristenmoonrise
5 жыл бұрын
I know your comment is 2 years old but it sounds like you're actually not okay with the friends with benefits situation. I hope things are better now. But I totally agree. If people feel the need to play games, why do they have to be cruel ones? Why never a friendly and harmless one?
@sury451
5 жыл бұрын
@@kristenmoonrise Girls are usually the ones that initiate the mind games. Guys are just catching up to them.
@floralarrangements5919
4 жыл бұрын
@@grandoldsoul4691 hahahahahaha... So is it just when hes dick touches a puss or can his "dna" infect me with a high five... I dont know what you have been watching, but you need to seriously take most things you see on the net with a pinch of salt, especially before you go out into the world and hiss your hate. What an absolute load of horse shit. Bahaha so funny though, thanks made me lol hard.
@fgr617r9
2 жыл бұрын
Nah, you're worth more than how guys see you or don't see you. I promise. Take no stock in their opinion. They're confused.
@tolulawson4680
6 жыл бұрын
who has time to figure out why he's being mean. I just block his existence out of my existence. to hell
@barbarawright4717
6 жыл бұрын
That's a "game of manipulation". Its highly unlikely that anyone who bites that bait would get what he/ she wants, and is waisting his on her time. Let it go and move on...
@iaintaboutdatlifethough7397
8 жыл бұрын
He has me thinking about him 😑
@whyjenniferwhy8846
6 жыл бұрын
Iaintaboutdatlifethough o
@shan4883
5 жыл бұрын
Same, his friends are mean. Oh now I'm too young for him hah.... I'm around his age but look young. Just because I was rushing into work so I don't get fired like I almost did from his emotions bothering me that I was working overtime he took me rushing into work as rejection when he smiled at me and his friend called me cute. This has been going on for weeks now without asking how I'm doing. It made my day when he called me cute, I smiled back (or I think) came out an hour later trying to get my attention and than trapped me by hurting me calling me too young. Judging me without knowing me. I have to work and I have my own personal problems I need to deal with. Never got to know me. I've never felt so hurt like I couldn't move, my heart left me and I worked crying as if I lost a part of me who could have been a friend. I had seen him when he got so emotional and frustrated when I had the blinds closed and didn't know he was outside on break. I go into work stressed out everyday thinking about him and if we're ever going to actually talk and shake hands, nice to meet you but I've been too hurt, confused, and mad at him for that now. He's very confusing and have no idea after all this time that he still can't utter 2 words to me, only to hurt me now and ignore. He wonders why I can't wave at him, I don't trust him. His friends are there to back him up and ruin things. Thanks to them they don't have a mature understanding of women? And they are 40 to 50 years old? No respect. He was nice and caring towards me up until things went backwards. I would like to have just 1 day to speak to him but I don't bother anymore.
@naomigates30
5 жыл бұрын
Ughh me too
@moanapooh9726
4 жыл бұрын
Haha not meee!! 👁️👄👁️he suckss
@paraumbralin
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah... it just hurts though. I have a friend who did just this. He insults me more and more now and when I complain he calls me a "snowflake" and acts almost...offended that I tell him to stop. I'm starting to think I can't be friends with him anymore because talking with him is starting to make me unhappy.
@paraumbralin
6 жыл бұрын
Such a stupid reply, as expected.
@rubiplazola
5 жыл бұрын
Then he’s not worth your time and energy. He’s simply not mature enough and is verbally abusive towards you.
@rubiplazola
5 жыл бұрын
I say just stop hanging around him because he’s the problem not you.
@sury451
5 жыл бұрын
We know your part of the story but what about his? That is something I would like to know. Context matters from both sides. Judging how you replied to Jacks comment, it really says a lot.
@moyvuong7406
Жыл бұрын
Don't get sucked in to ther sick , mental games .... sad waste of a human being, love and do you first ... always!
@simplystar6601
4 жыл бұрын
No it’s a game of manipulation that is played to get me to bow down to his rules!!!!!!
@shan4883
5 жыл бұрын
I don't trust guys who do that to me anymore. Its a waste of my emotions and my life when I could be secure and happy. Making me feel so low and they come around acting nice the next day is passive aggressive behavior and it'll just go in circles until it becomes so draining that you don't know how to deal with it anymore. If they don't even bother to get to know me, its not worth it either. They were only chasing after the attraction, not me and not everything about me. I'm disappointed in this guy who did that to me and feel angry that he tore my heart out. I don't even believed he cared either about me as he said he did. He assumed I was too young (although I'm around his age) and just gave up on me. It all happens as I'm coming into work at night and he expects me to smile at him so he can approach me, I'm sick of it. His friend called me cute and they can't just say hi!? Its awkward and flattering at the same time but they dont get the picture that they are coming off insulting and hurtful after they assumed I rejected him which makes me not trust him.
@kristenmoonrise
5 жыл бұрын
Wow I feel like I could have wrote this! I finally got tired if the guy I like taking jabs at me after months of it all. I feel so much better, but I had to tell him to f off only once I was ready to. I was still hanging on but he didn't change. Eventually you'll have had enough and they'll get the hint.
@sury451
5 жыл бұрын
Hey shan you have to see it from guys perspective. I've treated some girls the same way you're describing but I'm trying to learn and become better. The problem comes is when we have failure of parents, especially a father. You could say I always had a father, some people wish they had a father to see him as a father figure. I tried always to follow my father everywhere he went but he rejected me and hanged out with his friends / his family instead of me or my brother. I saw how badly he treated my mother. I've seen my father throwing what my mom cooked for him on the floor because it was burnt. I remember doing the same to my mother when I was only 3 to 4 years old because my failure of a father taught me that way. I'm sure I'm not the only one with a failure of a father and it's hard to change especially not having anyone to give me any advice my entire life because I was raised to keep everything to myself.
@debra2949
6 жыл бұрын
Not always this answer ! Been with him 2 years hot up until the last month before he broke up . They get mean when they want out!! It’s usually that they found another girl they want to be with.. guys that self sabotage will also do this. If he’s doing it to you , it’s more likely that he’s cheating
@Samara077
Жыл бұрын
Any guy that has to play this game with me will never have a place in my life !! Why put up with a guy who’s willing to make you feel insecure when you can go for someone who carers deeply about your well-being
@redamancy13
7 жыл бұрын
i asked him why hes rude to me but he never answers the question its so annoying.
@melxoxo3209
6 жыл бұрын
Lmao I do the same with one of my co-workers. He'll flirt with me one day then rude the next. I'll ask him what his problem is and he'll just stay quite and walk away. A couple of other co-workers would ask him the same thing.(why he's suddenly being so rude to me) And he'll just say hes having a bad day. Even though he's sooooo nice to everyone else. It's not like I bother him either. Lol I've stopped talking to him for this reason.
@bryantsanchez3258
5 жыл бұрын
Redamancy I know right sams
@mariamistretta3860
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you somebody who agree with me, it is annoying not cool not attractive such the wrong way for a guy to get a woman interested.
@wednesdayaddams3533
5 жыл бұрын
When a guy ignores you it means that he acting like he's better than you
@grandoldsoul4691
5 жыл бұрын
@@melxoxo3209 that proves it had an effect because 1 you are now acting out by not talking, and 2 you are here reasearching lol. if you were indifferent you wouldn't even bother to care let a lone look up a video about it and comment about how you STOPPED talking to him LOL awh cute
@ohhkayy8775
3 жыл бұрын
Think about them? Yea, I think he's a jerk......Childish! A person like this is showing me how insecure he is. If you need attention ask for it.
@thepitmanbull1877
6 жыл бұрын
It's a waiting game almost like a dominant game who ever breaks first is the one summitting to the superior person can be male or female.
@selenarobinson1493
9 ай бұрын
Because He is cheating on you. There is no other reason accept that. All you need to do is ask him " OK. WHO IS SHE"? Because all your mind games is telling me you want to break up. So you're just going to have to BEAT HIM TO THE PUNCH. These days you can't even get too heavily attached to nobody anymore.
@braed6202
6 жыл бұрын
Guy here. I don't play games. If I'm mean it's because i'm in a bad mood.
@d1v1n1ti
5 жыл бұрын
thanks for you input
@animeassassin5183
5 жыл бұрын
Braed I understand but you just have to let her know your in a bad mood because if your mean she starts to get thoughts like what did I do ? Why is he being mean to me ? Is he planning to break up with me ? And then she gets really emotional and it hurts
@grandoldsoul4691
5 жыл бұрын
@@animeassassin5183 if it's an LTR yeah if it's casual he owes no explanation
@QuirkySundae
4 ай бұрын
@@grandoldsoul4691and she owes no explanation for feeling how she feels and acting accordingly if that’s your logic.
@CatsAreNiceMeow
2 ай бұрын
Why take your bad mood on other people?
@danieller2812
5 жыл бұрын
In a nutshell, they want attention!
@melxoxo3209
6 жыл бұрын
One of my co-workers does this. He'll be flirty and sweet one day but sooooo rude the next. I asked him what his problem was one day and he just ignores me and walks away. A couple of other co-wirkers would even ask him (why he's so rude to me all of a sudden) and he'll just say he's having a bad day. Even though he's sooooo nice to everyone else. I've been avoiding him almost everyday for this reason.
@tresjolieme81
Жыл бұрын
yep same with me its called the sweet mean cycle! they dont respect us
@anikaramdi8997
9 ай бұрын
Same.. ☹️
@telayajackson2.023
9 ай бұрын
I have a colleague who started saying hi to me on certain days, but he barely says anything else outside our mentorship. He's known as "everybody's friend". It makes me like him less the more I remember how he treated me when I'm around him. I started to subconsciously block every existence of him out of anxiety.
@rosemariemerzlak7012
6 жыл бұрын
Run for the hills
@sagittariusqueenofwands1115
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful I ran into this video. I am currently experiencing this behavior and you’re right , it’s on my mind because idk why he’s being so rude and mean 😔 I’m just staying away and because I saw this it will keep me away from going to him rn which is what I was about to do lol
@emyywolf
5 жыл бұрын
He’s rude to me and sometimes he’s nice to me.. I’m Starting to think that he’s trying ANY and EVERY thing to make me drool over him. And to be honest... it’s kind of working 🥴 AND I DONT WANT IT TO WORK 😣
@grandoldsoul4691
5 жыл бұрын
at least your honest.
@QuirkySundae
4 ай бұрын
Can I ask WHY this would attract you? Not being mean, just trying to understand. Do you happen to have low self esteem? 💔
@fatehaali106
4 жыл бұрын
Sounds very abusive to me, better to leave these types alone if control and power is what they seek out for the most.
@prit...1272
Жыл бұрын
A guy told me I am not stable just because I am an emotional person and it's just sad how people are mean to you just because you get vulnerable or emotional ..it's just cruel
@AliciaBudram
9 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot! Your videos are short and sweet and u get to the point lol most people don't do that...
@TheSoftLifeMeditations
7 жыл бұрын
r they doing this consciously?? if yes then the hell with men ??!!! wtf
@misschaney9245
7 жыл бұрын
They know the games they play. It's so sad when ones like my ex know how terrible they are, really don't like it, but since they are having a rough family life they will just continue to be horrible because bringing pain to others (most often women) puts them on the same level as him. I stopped talking to him today because I don't want to waste my time with someone whom I made every effort to care about him, buy him so much nice stuff when he only ever buys me chocolate. It's not all about you dude. I'm never again caring about you and have you care about you so that I fall by the waist side.
@zedi5721
5 жыл бұрын
@Jack Smith go cry, pussy
@rubiplazola
5 жыл бұрын
It’s just a way to control you emotionally and they try to manipulate you by putting you down. They want to intimidate you to be the dominant one.
@gumdrop4869
3 жыл бұрын
@@rubiplazola wait so you're saying that they want us females to be the dominant one?
@kikisbeautyworld5458
7 жыл бұрын
lol it's funny how you said you wondering that's y u ask this question 😂 he've been pulling this for a few days now and I was wondering like what happened? We were all lovey Dovey now he seems distant. And when I called him out on his games, he act like nothing was wrong or he don't know what I'm talking about. But then again I started questioning him again and he really ticked me off I just wanted to call it a quits right then and there. I hung up and told to never worry about me again. He texted and called me saying he was just playing and he wanted to see what I was going to say. He also said he did that to see if I cared about him. And I was offended because as much as I'm there for ppl you gone question my loyalty and realness
@sstan2419
5 жыл бұрын
It’s a terrible game nevertheless. Do they call it “psychological warfare”? Well, I have no room for those types of ppl in my life.
@swimsport1230
9 жыл бұрын
Should I ask him why he's acting this way? Cause it's not fun on my part...
@PrinceKassad95
7 жыл бұрын
If its not fun then you should say that to other girls who play stupid games with boys and mess with their heads
@misschaney9245
7 жыл бұрын
The best thing to do is enjoy your life and exit the relationship. Boom! Never make it so he sees nor hears from you again. That's the only way.
@mist__4974
5 жыл бұрын
@@PrinceKassad95 What other women do is not her responsibility--Same as what other men do not meeting your responsibility.
@wednesdayaddams3533
5 жыл бұрын
I would say that the reason why he's acting so mean sometimes because I'm think he could be woke up the wrong side of the bed in the morning or he had an argument with his parents or he's mad at somebody some guys can be emotional I just tell him if you keep acting mean to me then we shouldn't be friends at all
@becky7637
5 жыл бұрын
When he acts like this let him have the last word especially through texting let him wonder what you are thinking it will drive him nuts don’t respond right away act very busy
@alphanotmale1847
4 жыл бұрын
If a man is going to be trying kind games with me, then I’ll just walk off; games are for children by children, grown man don’t waste women’s time like that
@michellenten8666
6 жыл бұрын
Oh I am so blocking him in my contacts
@lapapa8129
8 жыл бұрын
Everything is adding up👌🏽
@Chosen1Crown
9 жыл бұрын
I do this all of the time for the exact reasons he stated in the video
@monicaplayproductions428
9 жыл бұрын
So I'm in his little game....I hate that I'm his!!!
@mcharle01
6 жыл бұрын
Mónica Play Productions omg yesss
@mist__4974
5 жыл бұрын
Me tooo
@grandoldsoul4691
5 жыл бұрын
Monica Play Productions Finally someone who is real
@andreea-roxanaiftodivoicu2352
6 жыл бұрын
Why is he acting so strange? I mean..sometimes ( most of the time) he looks at me, kinda makes small jokes, I look at him and he looks away quick, he's trying to get my attention, when I talk to other persons he stares with a blank look like he's going to kill someone. And there are days he is mean to me, he is just not nice, the way he talks, the way he looks at me. And then, again he seems he likes me. I just can't stand him! He is so confusing. I don't know if he feels something for me or if he does, is he worth it? I mean...he's kinda possesive right? And if he's already that possesive then...if we'll get together I'm going to have no life.
@jiminssugakookiewithacupof9037
6 жыл бұрын
He used to be extremely nice and all of a sudden he just ignores me and seem annoyed at me and I don't know if i did anything wrong
@QuirkySundae
4 ай бұрын
If he can’t tell you, you did nothing wrong. I’m able to speak on it if someone wronged me. Male, female, romantic, platonic, etc. it’s not hard to speak on it. It’s called being an adult and communicating!
@kimballew1805
6 жыл бұрын
When a men is upset about something, why do they don't want to be bothered with you when they supposedly love you
@maggiheart9553
7 жыл бұрын
yes he got blocked!
@CatsAreNiceMeow
Жыл бұрын
Run!
@tiasantos3511
4 жыл бұрын
He started disrespects me for no reason and spat at my face so I let him go
@hcoffee80
9 жыл бұрын
What if it's the other way around? i used to be friendly my crush and he was very stand offish. It was almost as if he was purposely being rude to me. So I wrote it off as hes not interested and started to ignore him. Now hes suddenly very nice to me but, sometimes he seems very nervous which makes me nervous and then I act awkward because I just don't understand his intentions.
@sabsays4091
7 жыл бұрын
Heather C THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME. except I didn't have a crush on him. He was rude to me. Then he started treating me normally and being nice to me. Idk what his problem was. But reading your situation, and seeing how similar it was to mine, I think both guys were just trying to get power from us because we intimidated them. So by being rude, they were trying to have more control and act defensively act as if they didn't like us.
@deandretowe3859
6 жыл бұрын
Heather C hey I'm in the same problem
@Gi4nn4K4t
6 жыл бұрын
Same
@shan4883
5 жыл бұрын
@@sabsays4091 same situation as me with gaining control over the situation. His friend pretty much threw fire at me with saying I'm too young for him (we're around the same age but look young) and we still haven't talked. I walked away very hurt and had to finish working. Its always at work. Him calling me cute for the first time made my day until he felt rejected and took it the wrong way. I got so mad, I felt like I had no voice and didn't know how to get mad at him, so I yelled and my friends are now mad at him too. He doesn't even know how to approach me and if I mess it up from being too nervous, he gets sad, confused, and than mad and tries to hurt me back. It all goes into circles yet we barely know each other, but I've known him for 10 months and never thought this would happen. Never knew he liked me. He kept it a secret for so long and I started liking him back. We just haven't actually spoken to each other, just indirectly.
@LauraGomez-jq2tr
5 жыл бұрын
He likes you but doesn’t want to admitted yet Happened to me which I’m still living with this situation which I just decided to move on and he’s also the reason why I clicked on the video which makes sense I guess
@MariaV0071
6 жыл бұрын
Finally, a clear answer to my question I have had for a long time. Why did he al of a sudden started being mean to me? Well, clear answer here, thanks. Wish the man would have just grow up, grow some balls and tell me genuinely that he is not interested instead of being mean, which kept me wondering what I did wrong.
@joyceiyadukunze9334
3 жыл бұрын
It's really annoying whenever he becomes rude and he doesn't even say what's causing it
@beautifulme2889
9 жыл бұрын
my boyfriend. hurts my feelings. 😞😒
@janiceasante55
3 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺
@sydneyclark2422
3 жыл бұрын
we have been together for three years and out of no where he’s being SO MEAN to me like the past month he has been so unhelpful with everything in our life. I was mean to him bc he wasn’t helping so we kept fighting over that but now he’s just like out of no where treating me like trash i never treated him like this when he wasn’t helping i would just get mad kind of all he had to do was wash a dish here and there
@atib1212
7 жыл бұрын
THAT HOSER! I WILL NOT BE CONTROLLED!!
@alphanotmale1847
4 жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful you answered that question too! I’ve been wondering for quite some time
@kristineholcroft9163
4 жыл бұрын
So hurtful this is happening to me so cruel to do to someone who really likes you
@ishanaruffin2905
6 жыл бұрын
I asked him” why?? He so rude” he never answer my questions he ingrnoes me sometimes
@medicalsector3074
5 жыл бұрын
Only narcissists play those kinda games....better leave him asap before he further messes with you. Real mature men dont do so!!!
@grandoldsoul4691
5 жыл бұрын
@@medicalsector3074 like you would know lol. ask any REAL women about the guys they have been with. they WILL ALL tell you they liked the guys they couldn't figure out,. the guys who were NOT consistent with how they felt about them. NOT the guys who were "nice" who made their interest clear. the ones wwould never get mad , never make her FEEL ANYTHING. women like the emotional rollercoaster of emotions a man can provoke in her. if she gets upset AS YOU ARE. it means it worked.
@medicalsector3074
5 жыл бұрын
@@grandoldsoul4691 I don't think you are talking about a "real woman" in this case. A real woman knows her worth, wont settle for someone who plays dark dirty mind games. Period.
@grandoldsoul4691
5 жыл бұрын
@@medicalsector3074 lol it is what it is. ALL women and men respond to what they respond to. you don;t like it? talk to the big man upstairs when you get there
@sihlelandiswa4026
6 жыл бұрын
What are you supposed to do about it though? Because I'm currently in the same situation and I chose to blue tick him and ignore his texts. You right!at this moment I cant get him out of my mind.
@peaceful4you408
7 жыл бұрын
Im guilty of playing that "mean" game that your talking about too once in a while. But I only do it when I'm dealing with women who play games with me. When women play the "keep chasing me down game", I'll tend to start acting mean to them out of nowhere. I do it in a way that catches by surprise. I usually do it right in the middle of them playing their game. I won't do it too late or too early but just at the right time where it makes women catch themselves and feel bad or guilty about what they're doing. The women who are truly into me will usually stop the games and start acting normal but the ones who are just bullshitting around with me will give up and leave me alone. It works everytime. I've had much success being mean to women who bullshit me. I see why this guy is an expert advisor. He knows what the fuck he's talking about for sure.
@d1v1n1ti
5 жыл бұрын
RYAN thank you for your reply, I like you're upfront! so when you say, the women that are truly into you will usually "stop the games" and "start acting normal" what exactly does that look like? the "normal"? . . . because I was not intentionally playing any game so I'm confused as fuck, I am totally into him, I want to show him I'm being normal . . . help a girl out lol
@shan4883
5 жыл бұрын
Same here, I'm not playing games, I just don't trust him when he doesn't get to know me and his friends just hurt me. Who hurts someone with words so badly when they never knew me in the first place!? Doesn't make sense. I cared about him a lot but kept my distance from him for being nervous and caring about my long distant relationship which has been very hard. No games for me, but all honesty. We never had a chance to talk and be honest with each other, not even as friends. I'm just as shocked when he tries to approach me and gets upset if I don't smile anymore, I'm sad and also tired from personal things in my life. He doesn't even know I could be down about other things, not him. He thinks its always about him. That's when he rejects me back. Its very draining.
@fgr617r9
2 жыл бұрын
You have the dumbest logic. "Women who were playing games gave up." Way to shift the blame. No, those women are GROWN is why they left. Who wants to keep hanging around a guy trying to figure out what they did. Guy keeps telling them they're not mad, but continues to act angry. Wtf. How long is someone supposed to put up with that. You got life twisted. I hope you're not a representative for men, if so, they need a new one.
@fgr617r9
2 жыл бұрын
@@d1v1n1ti he thinks women are supposed to stick around and put up with being treated like crap and if they don't, THEY'RE somehow the ones playing games. He's not upfront. He's a typical douchebag.
@amandalongman737
Жыл бұрын
U sound pretty F’ed up. Your being intentionally manipulative and calculated with ur actions. I’d tell ppl to run away from u so fast. That is beyond not a healthy mindset and ur even kind of Trying to justify it makes it so much worse.
@JudithRomero-ev7zl
Жыл бұрын
I'm emotionally drained and other say he got mad during intimacy because I wanted to lay down during intimacy with my back aching ughh now I'm def emotionaly losing physical and mentally he makes me feel like I'm pushing him away
@BS-yl4wd
6 жыл бұрын
I know he likes me. I can feel it when he looks at me. But sometimes I feel like I am overthinking. Idk I can see it in his eyes how he looks at me. But nowadays he's ignoring me. He talks to the girl besides me more. And smiles more at her. But several times, I've seen him stealing glances at me. And when he talks to me, despite the girl being next to me he will look only at me. But sometimes he is rude. Idk why
@CrownOfbeautyy
5 жыл бұрын
I was in a very toxic mental abused relationship for 7 years and I’ve always wondered why he would be so mean then when I leave he cry’s and act nice then thy cycle continues thanks
@grandoldsoul4691
5 жыл бұрын
that's not the same as what his video is about
@phoenixcaii2905
3 жыл бұрын
But why does he only do this with me? (the one who doesn't give in), while he has a whole "harem" of girls around him kissing his ass... And let's not forget the wife he also has.... He doesn't act this way around them...
@stephanieholton5256
2 жыл бұрын
Im going through this right now, and I hurts because even when you're just calling to say "how your doing" I get yelled at. It's very emotional for me because Ive been mentally abused before and when I tell him that it's bothering me when he does these things I agent called emotional or blame me that Im moving fast smh it's so draining
@rosemcginnis914
8 жыл бұрын
Does this mean that he is playing bunch of other women or he is loyal? I don't mind the game, if he is by boyfriend and there is no cheating but I would mind the game if he is playing a whole lot of women.
@ronny8936
5 жыл бұрын
Maybe he annoyed by her or he wants her attention
@CatsAreNiceMeow
2 ай бұрын
Now, he could wonder why I blocked him.
@jondough3339
Жыл бұрын
Or…he’s a human and he has days that aren’t going too good and he’s not in the best mood
@shan4883
5 жыл бұрын
He was all happy to see me all the time and he was nervous to talk to me that he literally stood out on the road when I came into work just to know he was waiting for me fidgeting with his phone and it all went wrong. This has been going on for months and he knew my schedule when I came in and out of work. I was in a hurry to go into work, so he went around the corner window and smiled at me from a distance and I was being interrupted by a staff worker so I couldn't go to the window. I ended up looking out to see if he was still there and he was smiling looking up waiting for me until he panicked and said to himself what is he doing and rushed into his building stressed out. He was being flirtatious with me for 2 months now and his eyes got emotional every time we made eye contact and he just melted, so did I every time I had seen him for weeks after that. I was getting weak in the knees and haven't felt that way in a long time. He felt like he needed to approach me than but I was working. He did once the first time and I walked away since I didn't know what was going on. All we did was stare into each others eyes. I guess I had doubts that he actually liked me, but he did. His friends were always teasing him and nudging him to say hi until this week messed up. I didn't know what to do since we're both nervous and his friends ruined it calling me weird (I was just turning off my lights on my bike?) while he was with him and stood there laughing at the corner where he usually stands. I was shocked by their immature behavior. Since we had a hard time talking, they thought I was flashing my lights at them and made me feel very uncomfortable as I went into work and started crying. They use to be nice to me and would see them outside staring at me. It made me feel awkward but the guy that I liked never made me feel that way until today. I didn't understand why his behavior changed and he was acting all macho with his friends (who are in their 40s and 50s, you would think they would respect my feelings) and he acted like he couldn't careless about me although we have gone through a lot together and weren't even dating. He went on break anxiously waiting to leave afterwards and I didn't even want to know if he was texting someone. I was getting depressed and felt like I lost him. His friends told him to forget about me and it made me even more sadder. I wanted to get to know him. I think he would prefer outgoing women, than me now. He was shy around me.
@impamiizgraa
9 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend of 6 months has said he is being mean to me suddenly because he "doesn't see that I love him". What does that mean by that? He said he thinks I am selfish and unwilling to compromise. But quite frankly, why can't we have the freedom to both do what we want (on our own), without compromise, and still get along wonderfully in a relationship??? You don't have to always agree or want the same things to love each other. You can love in different ways :(
@MissMichSan
7 жыл бұрын
Anne s he sounds selfish leave him.
@impamiizgraa
7 жыл бұрын
Selfish, narrow-minded and egotistical - so I did leave him! Got me a new boomting
@MissMichSan
7 жыл бұрын
Anne s congrats have you are a queen.
@Animeloverxxxfan
6 жыл бұрын
It's the opposite for me. He was rude to me at first and I thought he hates me so I avoided him. Now is suddenly so nice to me and I'm confused?
@user-vu7rv1xf1l
5 жыл бұрын
Sure its a common game both guys & girls play, but its stupid, inmature, & has no place in a healthy bonded relationship. If anyone dose this to you, move on, not only just it save you from this loser, but it also teaches them a lesson its a path to failure & hopefully they will grow up.
@user-my2eo9lo1y
6 жыл бұрын
Does this behavior also prove that the girl does likes him? Shows that the girl is worried about why the change in his behavior because if there wasn't no attraction wouldn't the girl be more on the defensive side rather than being concerned. Would that be another explanation or reason?
@grandoldsoul4691
5 жыл бұрын
yep you nailed it. the fact she gets mad and gets emotional or sad or whatever PROVES it has an efffect. people who are indifferent don't care either way. they would just contuine to live. they fershure would not be on youtube looking up a video about why a guy is acting a certain way then taking time to leave a comment about how they don't care LOL.
@georgiapeach6015
8 жыл бұрын
We went on a date and talked for like a month, he then started being mean to me and told our friend group that he hates me. He generally avoids me but I catch him staring at me all the time when we're around each other. He then started talking to some other girl and brings her up quite a bit around me. What does that mean? What should I do?
@aimeedequoy2786
11 ай бұрын
he's trying to make you jealous and insecure. he's a loser. I would stay away from him.
@YasminYoruba
5 жыл бұрын
I hate when they say it’s a joke
@fammamjam
Ай бұрын
Thank you for explaining this to me. Yes, his actions lead me to ask this question. It also makes me want to run to someone else. I need someone who makes me need to run to them when I feel hurt, not run from them. I need a guy to call home base, my safe zone where I feel confident to hit homeruns not insecure and strike out. God send me my homebase.
@alexis.xdinosaur5292
4 жыл бұрын
sounds like... he hates me
@Kimbuja777
Жыл бұрын
I'm a man. A woman that I had a crush on used to be nice to me and now all of a sudden she's so mean. She never found out that I had a crush on her, I remain nice to her but why did she become mean?
@user-defined15
2 жыл бұрын
My crush hates me BUT I DID NOTHING
@leavemealone5242
6 жыл бұрын
great person gives the best advice
@TB-lq7sm
7 жыл бұрын
*THANK YOU SO MUCH* you are wise with your words & I really appreciate this video. This guy at my school likes my friend alot. I was new at this school before but he never really noticed me until she came. We spoke the same language so we instantly bonded, and she and I became basically best friends. He was totally okay with us hanging out together but now, it's almost 2 months since he started to be SO mean to me (not to her even tho he is interested in her). Once he said something really mean (NOT IN MY FACE BUT BEHIND MY BACK) but I wasn't there to witness it but she was there when he said it and she told it to me later. Long story short, he wanted to embarrass me by saying something that he knows isn't true. Before, he was even showing interest in me, when me and the girl started hanging out which I didn't like. I blocked him because if he really likes her, he should like her, nobody else. But now he's just simply being mean (not teasing but in a very awful way). He's giving me all these looks like I ever did something to him. I *NEVER* did anything to give him the smallest reason to dislike me. But anyways if you have any advice for my situation *I would really appreciate it.* and btw I'm just ignoring him rn cause I don't want to get down on his level and start being petty like him. He's too stupid & too immature
@makeupwithmichelle7524
8 жыл бұрын
Yes my ex is sometimes nice to me and yet so mean out of nowhere and he has a girlfriend so why would he be trying to make me feel hurt and sad yes we both hurt each other in our past but we both apologized and I just don't understand? All I'm trying to do is be there for him and idk he just says things like that's why it's so hard for you to keep a man" "your ignorant" your crazy"
@loppy5876
5 жыл бұрын
me and this kid were really good friends then all of a sudden he started to be mean to me and so did one of his other friends. i asked him why he hates me or is being rude to me and he says ask my friend i talk to him the most. i want to slap him across the face. friends all of a sudden control your life.
@kristenmoonrise
5 жыл бұрын
Insecure dudes and their friends are the worst.
@maddiewachhorst8518
10 жыл бұрын
but how do you NOT let them have power over you?
@KlaudiaShaefferr
7 жыл бұрын
Leave
@kristenmoonrise
5 жыл бұрын
Stand up for yourself
@rubiplazola
5 жыл бұрын
Call them out, embarrass them, they will learn the hard way.
@grandoldsoul4691
5 жыл бұрын
@@KlaudiaShaefferr nope
@tracyjacksonjackson4221
2 ай бұрын
Answer this, when do men stop playing games and start being men? What is wrong with just letting a woman know that you are interested and asking to spend time with her so that you can get to know each other? The worst thing that can happen is that she says no.
@fruitsarelife7073
2 ай бұрын
Men are sinners
@mlks007
6 жыл бұрын
because she was suddenly started ignoring him
@BlackCat-qr6gy
10 ай бұрын
The guy stopped talking to me a week before he broke up with me. I’d ask him to hang out, he would just decline every time. Or I’d try to talk to him and he just wouldn’t be in the mood. Then he never explained anything to me, and was just like “it’s not you it’s me”
@evolvingthedarknesstarot8440
3 жыл бұрын
I dont want him anymore. He cheats lies and steals.
@salamkala14
4 жыл бұрын
Omg he hurt me 😿💔 why can’t he just be nice to me!
@fgr617r9
2 жыл бұрын
You crack me up with "both play the game" when I walk away and most of the women in the comments. Yeah I might have wondered, but I'm also done with him.
@sabasarwar6399
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing clarity about this
@jenwendy7
Жыл бұрын
omg so glad this is on youtube i was about lose it i will just ignore him and walk the f*** away from him instead. it's tuff cause we are on the same team at work ugh gotta be honest, i did not see this coming we are full blown adults
@gumdrop4869
3 жыл бұрын
told him, straight up, to stop fucking being rude towards me and he said he will stop. HE FUCKING BETTER. it took me awhile to come to the point to tell him. we will see what happens next
@PaNdeM0niuM
5 жыл бұрын
teasing and being playful, usually are signs they like you
@amlib7723
4 жыл бұрын
but hes being like soo rude and cruel and says stuff that hurt me
@chaymamajdoub4055
5 жыл бұрын
i don't think they're that smart 😂
@Venom1357Hong
Ай бұрын
That doesn't mean that he's make you think of him people can be showing they feeling to you
@bronzesweetqueen4227
7 жыл бұрын
Long story short.My crush (Naming him daniel),has been avoiding eye contact when there's no way he cannot not look.Well,before this whole incident,me and my crush used to hug and everything and do this type of handshakes (in June,July and mostly August)But now he's been acting weird and diffrent after the summer break.He stares at me from far distance but when I'm in front of him he doesn't,infact he acts as if there's completly nothing there.He tries to make me jealous with these girls,and I know he does 100%.I forfot ro mention that my friend,knows I like him and she still hugs him and he hugs her to and he does that right when im there.So my other friend (she doesnt know i like him but has doubts,went to the line and stood in front of him staring and so did i (we looked like idiots)then he looked straight at me and gave me a dirty look,but I didnt know what to do so I looked at him and walked away.
@Yazzzzy
7 жыл бұрын
Clorox Bleach my guy friend who liked me too does dumb shit kind of like that. Know your worth and move on. If he wasn't that relevant before you met him then he shouldn't be now. I notice when I keep my distance, he will start talking to me more. Then when I get close, he distances himself. I told him this and he denies it. Time to move on.
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