Men don't want to "understand consent and coersion"........ It would disrupt their sex life!
@hatchettharley3186
4 күн бұрын
I said this before I read your comment lol
@amandasunshine2
4 күн бұрын
Exactly. There was this study that looked at why men abuse, and the researchers concluded, it became clear the question should be why _wouldn't_ they abuse, with the minimum consequences and benefits that come with it.
@ohnoohnono
4 күн бұрын
True
@heidithesausage
4 күн бұрын
💯
@TT_09
3 күн бұрын
This is literally a panel of R*pists advocating for the right to r*pe without consequence. This is the world they want their Daughters to live in? These “Protectors”…
@beeautifuldreamer2211
3 күн бұрын
Fully grown men still don't understand consent vs. Coercion. They refuse to think about anyone but themselves in these scenarios.
@nf1696
Күн бұрын
Not the definition programmed 🤦🏾♀️ George Bush- no child left behind.
@meiac
4 күн бұрын
the way he came up to "defend" a guy he don't know !
@talkingtochapri
3 күн бұрын
It's simp behaviour 🌈 they're simping for males
@Thepublicoffender100
3 күн бұрын
@@meiac I’m amazed at how often this happens
@astrohitter1791
4 күн бұрын
Men pretending they know better than the women that get chased is sad
@M.T.-qm4rt
3 күн бұрын
They're ridiculous, taking up time and space.
@jeanettestewart6564
4 күн бұрын
Every man that I’ve encountered either says that they respect or understand my “No” and proceed to be persistent in other ways to get what they want or they just continue to try to get what they want out right.
@thekennys8000
4 күн бұрын
And they weaponize their mood to get you to give in, sulking or stomping around, picking fights etc.
@vanaphill2454
4 күн бұрын
Which means they don't understand or refuse to respect the NO.
@hatchettharley3186
4 күн бұрын
The Wiley Coyotes of the dating world smh
@princessiman5809
4 күн бұрын
I just had a man the other day meet me and immediately try to hang out and as a somewhat feee spirited person I’m like sure but he made it clear even though he never outright said the words, which was very weird to me, but either way I said no and he played it cool as if he respects NOs and even said he doesn’t pressure women. I went home and the next morning I see this man has texted me maybe an hour or two after we just had this interaction asking to meet up. It was already late, why on earth would I hang out w you even later into the night when youve made it clear you want sex despite knowing nothing about me and I expressed I don’t want to have sex. Literally a setup for rape.
@fantym1633
4 күн бұрын
They don't understand consent unless it's their consent.
@SoftestHard444
4 күн бұрын
A LOT OF MEN attempt to monopolize women’s time. Its purposeful. The idea is to wear her down.. dust yourself try again. Constant badgering gets romanticized. So damn annoying and now you’re the villain for having boundaries.
@TT_09
3 күн бұрын
Exactly, they’ve been taught since childhood like Pepe Le Pew that their skunk stinky asses could try to SA a cat, episode after episode.
@sg5720
3 күн бұрын
I looked it up and only 2 to 10% of women make false claims of SA against men. So Pub is right - 90% of the time the women are making honest claims. 🤷🏽♀️😌
@acestarone
3 күн бұрын
@@sg5720the guy claimed to have the stats in front of him saying public is wrong. He never produced them. They are just here to say everything is wrong
@MzYumYum
3 күн бұрын
Offset is not a high value man. He is a man with a high monetary value. A cheating, mentally, and emotionally abusive man with 5 or 6 kids by 3 or 4 women is not high value. That’s quite low actually. And yes that applies to a woman with the same circumstances.
@epiphanyperry1877
4 күн бұрын
Never had a guy ask for consent upfront. Also if granted consent on that occasion does NOT mean each time we're alone, the consent still stands.
@vanaphill2454
4 күн бұрын
ask for consent each time.
@epiphanyperry1877
4 күн бұрын
@@vanaphill2454 yes exactly
@cherubicnerd
3 күн бұрын
Also,you can say no just before and during any smexual contact. Just gotta say that for the degenerates out there.
@Cynophileandavianenthusiast
3 күн бұрын
They think consent to one kind of seggs act means consent to all seggs acts.
@deborahfrederick916
Күн бұрын
Never.
@sherriew36
4 күн бұрын
Hey PO...you get to see firsthand what women experience in the presence of these types. Their constant lying and storytelling while faced with facts is astounding. You have the patience of a saint.😂
@Thepublicoffender100
3 күн бұрын
@@sherriew36 it’s really wild!
@LasBlackUnicrn
4 күн бұрын
I hate how they get on here and act fkn obtuse/oblivious!! Jefe please b freakin for real 🙄
@sheenabean222
4 күн бұрын
My first s*xual experience was through coercion & then full blown r*pe. In fact, tomorrow’s the 11 year anniversary of that horrific day. But hearing PO advocate for women gives me strength and a voice for myself. Your videos are very healing. Thank you. So many of us women thank you soooo much. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@VioletFlame-Ivy
3 күн бұрын
A HUGE part of the healing is to feel heard and validated by somebody, because society is usually blaming women. Stay here with us, don't stop watching PO, because he is like our older brother who is trying to create a safer society.
@sheenabean222
3 күн бұрын
@@VioletFlame-Ivy I’ll stay. It’s so healing. I have my therapist and these videos from this wonderful human being. And I have your wonderful comment as well. Thank you. 🥹🙏🏽
@deborahfrederick916
Күн бұрын
Mine too! A violent, horrible experience with a grown man when I was a child.
@VioletFlame-Ivy
Күн бұрын
@@sheenabean222 💜💜💜💜💗💗
@happygucci5094
Күн бұрын
This part ‼️
@reinas1713
4 күн бұрын
Maybe is not yes, a smile while saying no, is not yes… the only yes is yes. And if you don’t understand that anything besides yes, is coercion and a possible violation then you are a part of the problem.
@TisTheeDae
4 күн бұрын
Ive gone through this more than i can count on two hands. I’ve explained to the men that have coerced me where i said no and i didnt want to do what happened and they still didnt understand. They think it’s playing a game. They must expect us to scream every time we’re not interested.
@FB.2002
4 күн бұрын
I’m really starting to think most of these men are just mentally slow. It’s really hard to listen at them. They make no sense, just stringing words together and trying to gaslight us like they are saying something meaningful.
@SheilaPatterson
Күн бұрын
The call’s coming from inside the house but no one’s home
@nedzed3663
4 күн бұрын
What's the point of having a father figure in the boys' lives that will explain consent to them, when those men don't understand that concept themselves? When those elder men are themselves socially conditioned into that very behavior?
@Hazel4love
4 күн бұрын
Also it depends on the Father figure...
@DashNash-z7k
4 күн бұрын
That’s who they get it from! 😂 that’s wild to me . There are way more old heads who don’t understand the concept of consent
@sg5720
3 күн бұрын
That is why women must be extra careful the type of man they decide to have children with. 😌
@essiethebestie1
3 күн бұрын
Cause he's just talking BS & lying. Most of those elders are meticulously teaching them to coerce, corner & pressure women & girls into sex. They're NOT teaching them no damn consent.
@DashNash-z7k
3 күн бұрын
@@sg5720 that would statistically be the majority of u. Which means men need to work on being vs telling women to choose better .
@Sirrah9
4 күн бұрын
Not all fathers are created equal and they barely understand consent. And consent can be taught by a mother and/or a father. The fake shock is wild.
@9darshana
3 күн бұрын
Right!! Most of these men were born because their fathers didn't understand consent.
@CN33449
3 күн бұрын
I dont know how you listen to these dudes. Props to you. Love from Australia from a solo ,childfree woman by choice
@virgochild4216
2 күн бұрын
The patience of Job😮
@meredithgrey777
3 күн бұрын
It's the gaslighting throughout this whole video for me. Bet if you ask a woman these guys have dealt with if he tried to persist past no, I guarantee the answer would be yes.
@theinvisiblewoman5709
4 күн бұрын
So they both said they had consensual s with a woman but afterwards feared SA allegations?? Doesn’t sound like they had consent if that’s the case. I don’t go to the store and pay for my groceries and then fear being called a thief afterwards.
@amandasunshine2
4 күн бұрын
I think a big problem is men don't understand consent and genuinely think they're entitled to our bodies. So to them, it really is out of nowhere that can happen "to anyone". Some guys genuinely think if they get a yes, they're good. No matter what that took, whether it was a threat, wearing her down, coercing her, etc. Because they don't understand why things that aren't human, are lesser than them, and they are entitled to could have consent.
@oOIIIMIIIOo
3 күн бұрын
I know many people feel like they are seen as thieves when they enter a shop and leave it without bying something. That is similiar I guess. 😄
@M.T.-qm4rt
3 күн бұрын
@@amandasunshine2 I think it's dangerous to assert or accept "they don't understand consent." If you buy that, then they can do whatever they want with impunity. How is it that they can understand anything else you tell them but all of a sudden they're retarded/mentally deficient/brain damaged when they're denied what they want most? Please. . .
@SheilaPatterson
Күн бұрын
@@amandasunshine2not only entitled, but they legit do not view women as on equal footing with them. Why tf would a bug need consent to be handled and touched? It exists for their entertainment. That’s how they see us. Not human like they are.
@boring_elderly_millenial
4 күн бұрын
Why risk prison on the off chance you have encountered one of the very few women who buys into the "nice girls don't say yes" BS? The chances are way higher that a woman means "no" when she says it, and that pressuring her is just going to make her feel threatened or too afraid to keep saying no.
@fantym1633
4 күн бұрын
Considering the fact that the average guy can unalive the average wmn w/bare hands - that feeling of thr34t is very pervasive
@valery5900
3 күн бұрын
Age is very important in this conversation too. When i was in my early 20's... i wanted men to be persistent because it appealed to my ego. Now that I'm older, my no is no and it needs to be respected.
@adarateranroldan
4 күн бұрын
Pepé Le Pew and Johnny Bravo would like a word
@TT_09
3 күн бұрын
Thank you!!!
@MizGizma
4 күн бұрын
Because they don't want to understand.
@MsParty216
3 күн бұрын
It is too funny the way these ninjas will gaslight you right to your face!
@Thepublicoffender100
2 күн бұрын
With no shame
@M.T.-qm4rt
3 күн бұрын
It's boring and tiring hearing them virtue-signal. Even if they happen to be one of the very few who actually respect consent, they want to take that one anecdotal point and try to apply it to most men (which is harmful to women), just to win an argument against Public.
@LuhRen
4 күн бұрын
Men being GODLESS have lead to this reality
@sg5720
3 күн бұрын
AMEN. That is why men are suffering. They want to be better than God. 😌
@M.T.-qm4rt
3 күн бұрын
To the one guy who said the woman he was interested in said he should have applied more "pressure", I'm sure she meant in pursuing her romantically, spending time together, not for sex. No one asks for more pressure/stress on them like that.
@M.T.-qm4rt
3 күн бұрын
These guys are juvenile and ignorant. They don't realize just how disgusting their flat out lying and game playing is. Public is cooking and schooling them at the same time and they're too stuck on stupid to appreciate it. He's absolutely right and they know it. Watch the movie Cooley High and witness the begging and coersion that we all know to be true.
@blaqwabbit
3 күн бұрын
My ex parents are married. He has a dad. Always been married, always been around. As a matter of fact i love his dad. But he caused me so much psychological damage thru sexual coercion in our relationship i have no interest in men sexually atp. He nearly raped me in the traditional sense on 4 seperate occasions, so wtf r yall actually talking about. Father in the home means ass.
@a..ernellmcclenon5622
4 күн бұрын
They get it. Ask these men if a gay guy tries to get with them, and they say no. No means no. It's no gray area, or whatever, some of them even say they will punch the guy if he keeps trying to talk to them.
@princessiman5809
4 күн бұрын
That’s crazy. I just looked it up and the estimate is 2-10% and he gave them the benefit of choosing the highest POSSIBLE percentage of false accusations. And the assumption that every father accepts no himself to even be able to teach it just because it’s your personal experience is WILD!!!! Like the lack of awareness is crazy. Like the majority of the time exist around other men but are oblivious to their characteristics . How does this occur ??? I just don’t see how that’s possible. As a woman with morals I still can look around even if it requires observing women I don’t know and understand that there are plenty of women who exist within the realm of negative stereotypes even if I don’t so why is hard for them to understand that.
@aquarianrenegalllc4118
4 күн бұрын
Me @ 9:50 "oh brother these guys stink!"😂😂😂
@andreajones2700
4 күн бұрын
what does it take to make them care beyond their ego.
@dblr4931
2 күн бұрын
Did he consider that the woman was trying to let him down easy? That may be why she said you should have kept asking. When a woman likes a man and he asks her for her number, if she is single, she wull likely give her number. Women are scared of saying outright no to men because we have seen some of the outcomes.
@princessiman5809
4 күн бұрын
That wasn’t an echo that was someone recording a snap or a short and editing it while it continues to replay because he would rather seek validation from others in denial than go through the uncomfortable experience of changing a false viewpoint
@maureenprescott5778
4 күн бұрын
Hold up, Danisha Carter was in this live? Ima have to run it back cause I only listened to this one and I don't remember her being there!
@michellepreston9799
3 күн бұрын
If the fear is that having relationships in an intimate way will lead to a false accusation maybe men should ask the WHY of it all. If a man casually disgaurds the woman like trash after the fact or extremely dismissive it's possible that some women might retaliate in this way. But to be honest most men can get extremely aggressive and won't take no for an answer.
@Ka3Burton
2 күн бұрын
I was recently in a bar restaurant studying and enjoying my own company when this younger guy started chatting to me then said would you like a drink and had a bottle of red wine at his table. I could tell everything was rehearsed and carfuly planned out. I don't trust the wine thing because most men drink larger and he had this big Welsh work friend who travelled with him to jobs. His friend started telling him to leave the girls alone like an over protective dog. The big guy really put him in his place and that's how it should be but unfortunately not very common these days.
@bkstandard882
3 күн бұрын
Jadakiss was messing with high school girls in his 20s????
@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds
3 күн бұрын
33:52 atp, I think these dudes just contradict what Pub says because he's the one saying it, because then another dude says the same thing, and he accepts it🤦🏾♀️
@Epiphany428
2 күн бұрын
Simp is short for simpleton. Now if we are talking about the urban definition, is a person who does too much, tries too hard, in order to gain the attention and affection from the person that they like.
@niax782
2 күн бұрын
34:50 “you stopped trying to talk to me” Sir, those women are LYING to spare your feelings. The did not want “pressure” from you.
@SarahBuhrmanKalisara
23 сағат бұрын
Back in dating. Men who respect my boundaries without a fight. Men who take "not now" with love. I literally spend so much time chatting while sobbing bc it's so painful to realize what I'd never gotten. You guys don't seem to realize how much the constant attack of your flirting HURTS us. That's why so many of us won't be bothered anymore.
@M.T.-qm4rt
3 күн бұрын
@M.T.-qm4rt 0 seconds ago If only all that persistence went into their schooling or finding a good job or helping in the community or constructive hobbies or therapy or prayer or abstaining from pre-marital sex or , or , or. . . 😂
@mooreflava
2 күн бұрын
Great point...they are never persistent where it counts
@virgochild4216
2 күн бұрын
@@mooreflava Never😮
@virgochild4216
2 күн бұрын
I'm confused 😕 I'm exhausted 😩
@CARLIRENEA1
3 күн бұрын
Almost…almost smh
@StrawberryChaiLatte
2 күн бұрын
Omg why do so many of them whine like this??? I was literally cringing the whole video.
@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds
3 күн бұрын
These dudes are so ridiculously slow, and it's not even funny.
@sg5720
3 күн бұрын
Cause they are men??! Referring to the title. 🤷🏽♀️😒
@submissiveproviderstboth9485
4 күн бұрын
That is the whole gist of how Vince McMann operated😢
@Leomoon101
4 күн бұрын
The last five minutes of this livestream...🫣...do you guys not own dictionaries?!
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