It's expensive being poor. Wealth is a weapon. This system is designed to keep us down and hating each other.
@dr.lorianne
7 жыл бұрын
Brighterdaze If you (we) know this or think this, we have to do better, be smarter, be stronger, work harder and diligent in changing this mindset. "The system" can be changed for the better.
@marshag.4040
7 жыл бұрын
Anne Timmons the system for the poor isnt going to change. We must teach wealth mindsets young as well as informing ppl of what will happen when you encounter this system. This poverty mindset is a generational problem.
@dr.lorianne
7 жыл бұрын
Brighterdaze Exactly! We must do better!😊
@dougedoug2105
4 жыл бұрын
Correct. I was learning state capitals in 4th grade, I don’t even need to know that as an adult. You can’t tell me that even comes remotely close to making sense. The bulk majority of my learning came from me attending college. But now that I’ve graduated, I’ve spent the bulk majority of my time learning life skills & lessons that I should of learned as a kid. Whites seemed as though they are millennia ahead sometimes; I truly feel sometimes that they are living ahead of time and we are living behind it! Our respective educations are not equivalent or even compatible in this country.
@chocolaza
2 жыл бұрын
Or afraid of each other. 🤷🏾
@plinkysmama8309
7 жыл бұрын
💯 agree. I hate to go to the DMV! OMG. If you steal my wallet please leave my drivers' license. Please do not make me have to go to the DMV for a new one!!
@monicdavis6150
4 жыл бұрын
Zana Clements 😂😂😂😂😂. Life facts!
@chanelcummings9480
7 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, these bad attitudes are in HBCU financial aid offices as well.
@sydneyjackson9037
7 жыл бұрын
at all colleges. financial aid office aint shit
@priceless_motivation
7 жыл бұрын
Chanel Dove-Cummings who u telling I had hell with them until they got familiar with my face
@mbanks225
7 жыл бұрын
Chanel Dove-Cummings I couldn't agree more. Starting to think it's at all financial aid offices though. I went to an HBCU and then transferred to a PWI and financial aid offices here are just as horrible 😂😂
@tiffany29
6 жыл бұрын
Chanel Dove-Cummings HBCU Period! SMH
@aweofme
4 жыл бұрын
YES LAWD!!!!!!!!! And the registrars office
@dr.lorianne
7 жыл бұрын
They weren't expecting a rich white woman of your status to come through.
@AnnaMaeBullock
6 жыл бұрын
OfficiallyLori lol!
@KAMALAISHERNAME
5 жыл бұрын
Yassss. Cuz Dineva is a white woman like dis & not like dis babyyyyy
@dougedoug2105
4 жыл бұрын
Systematic Racism is why all the computers don’t talk to one another. If I control you time, then I can also control how much you waste of it.
@deadchannel7987
7 жыл бұрын
The government computers not being connected has always been baffling to me. God forbid you need something urgently cuz it's not gonna happen.
@JHouston63
7 жыл бұрын
Unless you have a "friend" inside, then there's no line, no stamped or sealed documents needed, and you might not even have to pay anything.
@curli-lettey4319
7 жыл бұрын
***** that's probably why they have black workers in there as to not have the potential client scream racial discrimination.
@deadchannel7987
7 жыл бұрын
***** It's a deterrent for sure. I used to work with homeless vets and learned that every time a vet moves to a new region they have to register with that local VA hospital to resume their medical care. I could understand having to update addresses and contact info but to have to go through everything from scratch for the same entity? It shouldn't have to be like changing from Blue Cross to Cigna. Makes no sense.
@troberson5501
7 жыл бұрын
+Hermit TV Junkie I understand where you're coming from. Those computers not communicating can be a hassle. But on the other hand, sometimes their inability to communicate can work to your benefit because one hand does not know what the other is doing.
@derlamtay
7 жыл бұрын
$50.99 plus a credit check to park..... lmao
@doc_ofalltrades2444
7 жыл бұрын
The white ones have attitudes too...it's the culture of all those places
@ArcaneThingOfBeauty
7 жыл бұрын
What's awful is that fighting the angry Black woman stereotype is hard when other women love fulfilling that role. I've worked in customer service since I was a teenager (VARIOUS jobs) and I've always been told I'm super nice as an insult, usually by another black woman. I know it's hard to be happy around other miserable colleagues and customers but your attitude can sometimes make people feel better if you're treating them with decency.
@ocky88
7 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@dougedoug2105
4 жыл бұрын
The stereotype is built into the racism as well. I got a new driver’s license in March and the lady refused to print any pictures with me smiling. Said something about her system indicating that my eyes were closed. The only picture that she accepted was the one that I took after my other pictures had been rejected several times, the one picture that I looked angry and annoyed in. I can agree with the whole notion that “people do treat you better when you smile at them“ thing because I’ve experienced it. Plus I see people of other races use the tactic to get better treatment. Black men are taught to mean mug each other before we smile so as to not look weak, but all men of all other races understand that that shit is just stupid because how the fuck are we going to agree to work together if we’re both on the defensive? I know it seems petty but I cannot wait until the COVID-19 Restrictions are lifted because I want to visit a new DMV and take another picture of myself smiling. I’ve had people work harder to sell me a car all because I was smiling in my driver’s license photo
@ajaay9244
7 жыл бұрын
This is why I always try and handle as much as I can online when it comes to government services. I know there are times when you have to go into the office, and when that happens, I always make sure I am already fed and mentally prepared. Because its like a full time job with all the waiting and transferring they make you do.
@karenwinston9664
7 жыл бұрын
Amen to that, smh... And it's a doggone shame that you have to "get prepared" to go into these types of places! It's sad but true...
@specialk8927
7 жыл бұрын
Yes God, you have to be prayed up. They try hard to belittle you, I pray to God they don't loose their depressing job and have to deal with the same stink attitude.
@curli-lettey4319
7 жыл бұрын
Celestrial just wait, their time might be limited when January rolls around.😒
@neesha918
7 жыл бұрын
+curli-lettey 😂
@oliviapopeofallthingsyoutu5505
5 жыл бұрын
I know it’s May 2019, but I couldn’t help, but to pass this tip alone. BRING A MANILLA FOLDER. I don’t care if all you have in it is some blank paper. I don’t know what it is, but a folder with some paper in it makes them move fast.
@_The.Queen_
7 жыл бұрын
It's GOVERNMENT WORKERS (PERIOD). Not just black government workers. Every time I have to go up there they have attitudes- black, white, asian, male, or female.
@dr.lorianne
7 жыл бұрын
Hope Stewart You're right in regards to some governmental agencies. At the end of the day, it's the culture that must change. It has to start from the top. Core values must be reinforced and required to see a change in attitudes.
@karenwinston9664
7 жыл бұрын
Fish can only do 2 things: 1. Sign that clip board or 2. Take a number! LOL! So doggone true Dineva! It's almost like a pre-requisite for ALL government workers to have attitudes!
@tamikamayes8071
6 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@theyheartrae4509
7 жыл бұрын
I think it's just customer service jobs in general. I am still in school so I don't have too many options yet, but as I catch attitudes from customers from the time I clock in to the time I clock out. I try not to be the "black woman with an attitude" and reset my mind with each new person, but people who work customer service are human too.
@MoneyKateOlsen
7 жыл бұрын
YES! People don't know how hard it is to be happy and smiling with the next customer after you've just been cussed out by the last one. What customers don't seem to realize is that WE have feelings, too (what they also don't seem to realize is that giving us attitude and cussing us oftentimes causes their eggs to be cracked, their chips to be crushed, their nails, hair, or makeup fucked up, or their loan denied).
@mbanks225
7 жыл бұрын
TheyHeart Rae it's definitely customer service jobs. I'm in college too so all I can work is customer service jobs or fast food and I refuse to do fast food lol. I've worked customer service for almost 2 years and as much as it's a negative experience to customers to receive bad service, it's also one for us to try to smile and greet everyone and provide great service especially when you're understaffed and a customer is disrespecting you every 5 seconds.
@slimjimy35
7 жыл бұрын
Sad thing is that this is very true. And it's always a black woman to treat another black woman/man like shit
@lomurray4069
7 жыл бұрын
Kee G always black women.
@cocojo58
7 жыл бұрын
Lo Murray Black men too. We ALL need to do better in how we treat each other.
@slimjimy35
7 жыл бұрын
Bethsaida Romelus you sound simple
@slimjimy35
7 жыл бұрын
Bethsaida Romelus are you Afro American? If so I don't take it personally because I'm not the one with the problem she have it. I've encountered as a Afro American woman on a daily GOING to Walmart, a bank, government agency when you call to ask questions the rudeness and unprofessional tone. Majority of black women have attitude problems and I'm a black woman saying this because I encounter it or notice it a lot. I take it personal when I see them act nasty towards a individual who comes to them asking questions about something pertaining to their jobs.
@curli-lettey4319
7 жыл бұрын
Kee G Those be the same ones if what they do to people be done to THEM, oh lord, those be the ratchet loudmouths who have to give people a show for attention.
@Mizzshron82
7 жыл бұрын
I don't know whether to park, pay leave or stay 😂😂😂😂
@EssSimplyDone
7 жыл бұрын
I swear u never disappoint
@theshadestartsnow9818
6 жыл бұрын
m&ms and skittles was ALL over the place! lmaoooooooooooooo
@tretre5671
7 жыл бұрын
the gag is is that they expect to wait us out so we will get disgusted about the time frame in which we need those services and that we will look somewhere else and let the government keep holding money that our families have put into over years but it's on purpose that these waiting out situations taking you all through the mill situation telling you to get this paperwork situations it's on purpose it's on purpose I believe that same thing with unemployment
@curli-lettey4319
7 жыл бұрын
I think that's true too but, if it was one of their family members or a friend of a friend asking about it, they would give that person all the shortcuts and possibly fill the application out for them placing code words on it to make sure they get in without the wait.
@troberson5501
7 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! I went to a session of the state legislature and they purposefully change the application requirement for children's health insurance program to every six month to increase attrition and therefore keep the program within budget. They were counting on people forgetting to renew or missing those appointments every six months. That was an eye-opening experience.
@tamikamayes8071
6 жыл бұрын
Yea👍I agree
@mutedearthvirgo
7 жыл бұрын
I worked for IL and I can attest that state government technology/filing is usually archaic. There's also a ridiculous amount of red tape that prevents timely change/innovative collaboration. Funding is the biggest issue, but there's much more bureaucracy that ties it up.
@africanviolet777
7 жыл бұрын
38ktgold Well stated! As an IL native, I sense that corruption and nepotism are an additional source of frustration for employees from all ethnic groups.
@ryansmith7721
6 жыл бұрын
38ktgold But What does that have to do with them having an attitude?
@Sultrification
7 жыл бұрын
"...ain't shit to be happy for..." I'm so done with you! 😂😂😂😂
@afiyathediva
7 жыл бұрын
Some of the very people servicing you are on government assistance too. And you do have a point. When I was in law school the heffa told me I did not qualify for food stamps b/c I was working on a second degree! Da fuq!? Why do you think I'm working on getting a 2nd degree!? Funny some of my other friends that went to this white dude in there got them with no problem. But the hating black woman denied me. Go figure l! 😒
@jessicab331
7 жыл бұрын
afiyathediva Wen I was like 18 I tried to get an apt that went by my income they told me I didn qualify b/c I was in school and get financial aide! Like wth?!?! Where is the logic lol.
@afiyathediva
7 жыл бұрын
Jessica B. Wow! Illogical! If you are in school that means that you only need the assistance temporarily. Ugh!
@tezjudell
7 жыл бұрын
afiyathediva right.....no food stamps IF a person gets financial aid
@MissRichTV
7 жыл бұрын
Same thing for me. When I was in college, I wasn't working at the time, and I was living on my own, I needed food stamps and applied, the lady told me with the meanest attitude," you don't qualify because you're in college" meanwhile she told me to bring all my college paperwork with me, just to shut me down. Smh
@browneyes4188
7 жыл бұрын
I believe you.
@carringtonlei6105
7 жыл бұрын
I can speak to this from the employee's perspective as I've been in the space where I felt like people in governmental agencies have always had attitudes too. People who work for government agencies are some of the most unappreciated, overworked, abused people in the workforce. Particularly if you're a decent person with a halfway decent work ethic. In most cases, you have people who's thought process is to show up and get a check - no more, no less... so, that puts extra work on the people who ARE there to work because they're forced to pick up the slack because unions prevent half-ass employees from being FORCED to pull their weight... So, there's that frustration from the gate. Additionally, you have to understand that dealing with any social service agency where you give away ANYTHING, you have a certain segment of the population who is in NEED who feels ENTITLED and like you work to SERVE them and not assist them. I worked at an agency that paid people's rent, mortgage and utilities for five months out of the year if you were in need... all you were required to do is sit down and let me interview you for 15 minutes and explain what happened with your income for that month that left you with an eviction/late notice, or a red notice for your utility bill. You can't imagine how many times I've had clients curse me out, tell me what they think of MY effort to help them keep a roof over their heads, etc. I once had a lady tell me, "It don't make no sense to put somebody through all of this just to get their rent paid!" Mind you, she hadn't paid rent in like 4 months and I was about to cut a check for THOUSANDS to save her and all she had to do was tell me a summarized version of what's been going on these last few months... I lost it and asked her if she knew what I had to do in order to get MY rent paid... sit and listen to MF's who complain about a 15 minute interview to get rent money for TEN hours per day for TWO weeks straight!I've had people tell me, "You work for ME... I"M the client!" I had a client come in once and after nearly finishing the interview, I got to the financial piece and said, "OK... so, what happened with your money this month - why weren't you able to pay your rent?" He says, "My rent is paid this month..." Confused, I asked why he was there, "I'm talking about next month's rent!"... (confused some more) "OK, how do you know that you're not going to be able to pay next month's rent already?"... "I'm taking my kids to Disneyland..." OK... so, you're going to take them to Disneyland instead of paying your rent?!?... (With MUCH 'tude) "TF you mean, MF... my kids deserve a vacation!!"... No, TF YOU mean, MF... they also deserve somewhere to live when they come BACK from vacation!"We got cursed out all day every day. People who had NO understanding. People who, no matter how many times and how many different WAYS you explain things, they see things the way THEY want to see it. You ever see that video clip of the lady who says she has 15 kids and, "SOMEBODY needs to make sure that her children have a way to eat and SOMEBODY better make sure her kids are taken care of!"? Try dealing with 15 of those ladies EVERY single day of the work week. You don't go INTO it with an attitude, but I had to get out before I became one of those people you're speaking about. There's a LOT of behind the scenes stuff that you all don't see. They put a lot of pressure on you at governmental agencies behind the scenes as well and they don't care how overworked you are, they consistently add more to your plate. So, it's not always as it seems. Those people are STRESSED and I know because I've been in that seat.
@cc0589
7 жыл бұрын
Carrington Lei Amen! I've been there too, I had to leave because it was starting to take a toll on me.
@cmcleod2009
7 жыл бұрын
Carrington Lei You said it! I do food stamps and Medicaid. It's a daily struggle and I purposely try not to be angry and bitter. It's hard. People don't understand.
@nikkiw3734
7 жыл бұрын
Carrington Lei EVERY SINGLE WORD YOU WROTE WAS ABSOLUTELY 💯 TRUE , CORRECT & VERY WELL WRITTEN & I KNOW THROUGH EXPERIENCE AS WELL!! 👏👏👏
@nikkiw3734
7 жыл бұрын
C C05 ME TOO!! One of the Best decisions I ever made!!
@cc0589
7 жыл бұрын
Nikki W ✊🏾 yay! I wished the public knew what went on behind the scene at these government jobs because the employees catch HELL from their supervisors, team leads, and customers smh.
@siddakarim
7 жыл бұрын
You are so spot on! The System does use black people to disenfranchise other black people! Please write this piece! There needs to be some dialogue around this!
@maxios
7 жыл бұрын
This is part of living on the City. If you were out in the burbs, things go a lot smoother with parking and government agencies.
@priceless_motivation
7 жыл бұрын
maxios ross I agree
@soexcessive84
7 жыл бұрын
maxios ross I would hope so but unfortunately not in NC...... it's a a whole other kind of mess up here lol 😂 i got me a job so fast after my brief stint on government assistance it didn't even last 6 months. I decided hell no I cannot come back to any of these building and talk to these people hopefully never ever again it's unreal!
@fallonmichelle1645
4 жыл бұрын
I live in the burbs and don't agree. Naperville DMV is a nightmare!
@shonikaschronicles
4 жыл бұрын
soexcessive84 ain’t that the truth!!! From Rocky Mount to Raleigh!!!
@xkatbby
7 жыл бұрын
dineva when you said Harriet Tubman I damn near fell off the bed! Haven't laughed like this is YEARS
@Chicgeek88
7 жыл бұрын
It's like they're required courses they have to take after getting hired on " how to have a bad attitude"
@mssheena24
7 жыл бұрын
MsDtown 💯💯💯💯
@alwall3
7 жыл бұрын
Even though I chuckled at parts of this video I am not buying into the"angry black bitch" stereotype & I hate when its perpetuated by my own ppl Iyanla said it's a myth & I'm with her! Black women dont corner the market on being angry& having an attitude but let the media tell it they do Enough with the bashing of black women
@mialeonard1838
7 жыл бұрын
Lee Wallace working in retail some of the rudest are white ladies and men
@alwall3
7 жыл бұрын
Shandra9000mail That doesn't make it singular to black women & I don't "trust you" What you just said means that you drank the kool-aid &fell for the bs A few experiences doesnt make you an authority on all black women Trust that 💯💯💯
@alwall3
7 жыл бұрын
Shandra9000mail seeing some black ppl on a video would never make me dumb enough to stereotype my own ppl There are just as many ppl acting a fool of every other race for me to know its not just black women How about look around & stop being stupid Go to college Oh & you'll see alot of black women there too getting educated not like ya stupid small minded ass
@mynniquinn4599
7 жыл бұрын
Privatizing is the worst idea possible. That's what causes Donald Trumps. Basic health needs shouldn't be seen as corporate profits.
@monetemery6055
7 жыл бұрын
I am D.E.A.D.!!! Diva you nailed it! "One check away from the other side of the window." Attitudes be STANK as Hell.
@pennigregory2034
7 жыл бұрын
No Structure, Inefficient Work Practices! I Walked AWAY Because of the BULL... Saved My Money and Got Me A Realtor!!!...*HOME OWNER*
@bangbangbabie
7 жыл бұрын
I've never had issues with black women workers yes I've ran across the attitude of government office workers but they don't always be black. sometimes the people who walk up to the front desk be having the attitudes and don't nobody wanna be bothered with a woman who's got kids and don't watch them when handling they business
@Three_Diamonds
7 жыл бұрын
Yes! Whenever I need to go to the MVA (DMV) for anything, it's an attitude. Even over the phone. They always look like they don't want to be there. Same goes for the State Assistance/Child Support building. Girl, stop.
@owbeautiful
7 жыл бұрын
Courtney Tamara Ues Courtney I agree
@rantpostpeacestation
7 жыл бұрын
If you underpaid, get a new job. Don't slack on the dam job! lol
@butterflyygyrlsworld5106
7 жыл бұрын
Plenty white womens be having attitudes too...
@peartreat
3 жыл бұрын
@Imamindmybusiness women
@quinnsmom57
7 жыл бұрын
You are right. I am old enough to remember back in the stone age when we were not allowed to work in any office unless it was in a custodial aspect. Now they have us as the gatekeeper and just say no customer service reps. Evidently, the number one qualification is to have a frown and to be unpleasant, or maybe even downright rude. I have always thought they do this because they know how some of us act up when seeking public assistance of any kind, due to the frustrating nature of the process we can be nasty to the folks at the desk who are just biding time until it is time for a break, lunch, and quitting time. It is unfortunate for the folks sitting at the desk, who probably thought they had a job that would allow them to be of service, but all they do is call out numbers and sometimes get cussed out. This is just a point of view from the street committee, by one of the long-time observers of our behavior on both sides of the desk.
@chocolaza
2 жыл бұрын
@Cynthia Perry-Crawford Thank you for sharing this perspective, which now makes me view this issue with a little more empathy and kindness. Thank you. 🙏🏽
@VirtuousWoman-fl6rz
6 жыл бұрын
This video made my stomach hurt I hollered from beginning to end 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@MsT-xm8xz
5 жыл бұрын
Yessssss
@newnatural73
7 жыл бұрын
I'm an early 1970's kid and I remember when my mom used to go to the government buildings to handle business and had to drag me along. At, that time most of the people were white me. And a few women. As times moved on and changes occurred their became more black woman were applying for those positions because now they are available to blacks and black women were the ones that needed and want those jobs other than being a maid. With this came the impossibility to move up so many have been stuck in those positions or offices for 30+ years with now breeds a down trotted employee and bad attitude and when you have people coming in day after day with maybe similar attitudes it is not a pretty scene. So now you have the white men and few women that have moved up but now those same jobs require a degree to get it and now these people who once thought that they could move up eventuality like their predecessors it will not happen unless they go back to school or obtain some kind of higher learning. So not they are almost trapped there. This system is so deep and a lot of the comments hit on some of the things that come along with crap of it all.
@schexylady
7 жыл бұрын
In Los Angeles, this is common of ALL races, not just Black women. There are plenty of overworked, unappreciated, and jaded people at my job. Many of the people we come in contact have this sense of entitlement when seeking these programs. Please take that into consideration.
@schexylady
7 жыл бұрын
It's no excuse for rudeness,and some things should be more efficient.
@shunnastates1123
7 жыл бұрын
That is true, now my mother retired from the department of public aid office in Illinois and she loved it and I would run into so many people that would say how kind she was. People use to say stuff like girl yo mama the only nice one in there!!! Lol But I thought you were going to talk about the people at the post office! Them folks in there !!! My God... MEAN!!!
@chocolaza
2 жыл бұрын
I managed to get one fired because she was so distasteful and mean-spirited.
@immamullen
7 жыл бұрын
I think sometime it is a matter of frustration for the workers. As a minority you are already seen a certain way in the workforce, especially a predominantly white place of work, then to have to deal with the "stereotypical" black person all day is frustrating and frankly embarrassing. In this society white people are allowed to be ignorant AND educated, whereas in our culture ONE ignorant Black person represents ALL Black people. That is how some see it anyway and it makes it hard so folks want to separate themselves from that stereotype. it's way deeper then "Black women with attitudes."
@immamullen
7 жыл бұрын
Also to your point about not seeing any other ethnicity or race working these jobs, maybe that is frustrating to. Maybe these women have been there 10+ years and have seen people with less experience and education move past them professionally. These are not excuses for bad customer service of course because we all have options. But to say you hope the government privatizes certain programs I hope you understand that includes the program you are seeking to assist you with buying a house.
@Silvertrea
7 жыл бұрын
Black women tend to have bad customer service no matter where they work. Not all but too many. Makes you not want to do business there because you automatically feel like your bothering them
@valentinomiller6251
7 жыл бұрын
Girl, hush. "A race of loser men"? You're so stupid. So because your loser man cheated on you, you bring that personal shit to work? You blame your bad behaviour on your man? Bullshit. I don't buy it.
@lisaflagg3922
7 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your journey to being a homeowner. been in my house since 2000 and I will never ever go back to renting
@marshag.4040
7 жыл бұрын
It's a poverty trap. Anyone that has the desire to raise up out of their circumstances there's ALWAYS a obstacle designed to discourage. And you're absolutely right governmental workers are not trained to think, just follow rules and policy.
@iamlaurengill
7 жыл бұрын
All imma say about privatization is be careful what you wish for
@genusspecific
7 жыл бұрын
right
@emeraldkaysgarden
7 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!
@MsThriller2009
7 жыл бұрын
honey , I tried to buy a house through a couple of government programs. needless to say they both had me waiting for years and years taking classes and all that other type of stuff , mind you I was ready to buy the house from day one, had the money for the down payment and they still sent me through the loops and loops and loops okay. to make a long story short I left them alone ,contacted me a realtor and purchased the house within a few months. if I was waiting on the government's programs, I would still be waiting
@Frugaldivastyle
7 жыл бұрын
I live in NYC in a Jewish community and I can tell you some examples that could piece together the black communities divide. I noticed in the community I live in they do not need to go to must offices like HUD, WIC and so on the have them right here in the community and the office is not clearly labled so only they know about it. I noticed this just last month while waiting for the bus to go to college ( I am getting my MBA) they moved the WIC office across the street so I so the sign. I have noticed of the years this same apoach is done by must communities that are non-black .
@PhoneJones
7 жыл бұрын
Girl I'm from NYC and you are speaking the truth! Williamsburg and Crown Heights...oh let's not forget Borough Park. Their community have everything for tthem...schools, bakery shops,etc..
@PeggyRabbit32
7 жыл бұрын
SCharitysBakery this is what people don't understand. people don't see the big picture.
@yanikeonpurpose
7 жыл бұрын
SCharitysBakery I live in London & I'm currently working with a Jewish family. They live in a home worth about £1.8 mill. The area they live in mostly consists of Jews, & this is the part of suburban London that has some of the largest & most expensive homes. I'm talking average 2-3 million pounds. They mostly shop in their own supermarkets. They are highly skilled people & are mostly lawyers & doctors, so most of the help they need can be found within their communities. Families are extremely close. They are very peaceful placid ppl. You go to a black community it is the opposite, high crime, high unemployment rate & govt funded housing. I've always wondered, how these people with a traumatic background similar to ours, where they were killed for their culture, yet they managed to come out the other side winning?? We need to realise the problem isn't the system. The problem lies with us.
@afro_ditee6941
7 жыл бұрын
Yanikeuk we give our wealth to everyone else including jews.
@KimPLeo
7 жыл бұрын
I agree with EVERYTHING you just said!!!!!...There attitude just stinks...no smile. ...no nothing!!!
@llw53one
5 жыл бұрын
Yessssss! I’m loving this set! I loves me some Q! I love when you talk about real life situations. Thanks for sharing. Peace and Blessings to all!
@JILLIANAIREE
7 жыл бұрын
when will people stop making black women the scapegoat for all of their problems? granted a lot of government workers do have terrible attitudes but blaming black women is just the easy route everybody takes smh
@KP82457
7 жыл бұрын
Jill H. 👏👏👏👏Thank you I worked for the Federal government for years and most of the white girls I worked with were low class and had the absolute WORST attitudes.
@JILLIANAIREE
7 жыл бұрын
K BEVERLEE right? I go to a pwi where 80% of the staff is non black folks and they are so disrespectful. sometimes it takes every fibre of my being not to pop off and be an "angry black bitch" word to Dineva
@priceless_motivation
7 жыл бұрын
Jill H. its not just blk..it be white,hispanic n etc here in ala....they are extraaaa rude
@cocojo58
7 жыл бұрын
Jill H. I agree that this behavior is not specific to Black women but I think I have higher expectations for my (Black) people. It's so disheartening to discover how difficult it is for some Black women to be nice/empathetic to another Black woman.
@JILLIANAIREE
7 жыл бұрын
Coco Jo I get what you're saying but we have to stop this line of thinking that black people(black women esp.) are supposed to be proper and super nice to everyone on the planet at all times or else we're deserving of certain stereotypes and behaviors. There is a conversation to be had about us being nicer to each other but that does not excuse stereotyping an individual incident on an entire demographic.
@callmejoey6371
7 жыл бұрын
Where I live in Maryland the people serving you were once in your shoes. Assistance programs make job training mandatory, and the jobs they are training for are those of the unemployment agency and DSS. They would rather pay them to sit on the opposite side of the counter and perform a remedial service than pay them to sit at home and do nothing. These people have grown accustomed to the attitudes that come in the door because they have often displayed those same attitudes. Now the only difference is they feel a since of accomplishment and arrogance because they were "given" a position, because they definitely didn't earn it, and have decided to forget all the bs that comes with sitting in those lobbies for hours only to be turned away. "Work ain't honest but it pays the bills"
@jeelew
7 жыл бұрын
11:20 truth! Dineva I closed on a house 11/28 last year. I worked with a buying agent, because I had no clue about owning property. She told me about USDA loan, which is a first time home buying program. Even though the loan is through dept of agriculture and was originally for farmers and rural home buyers, things have changed. Now, about 90% of cities in US qualify for USDA. I make $24k as a flight attendant and wasn't sure if I was being too ambitious for wanting to own a home. Credit score in 700s, but nowhere near perfec. Look into USDA to see if where you are in ATL qualifies. I'm in Jacksonville, FL paying $776/mortgage on 3/2 house built in 2002...30 year fixed 3.25% interest rate..no money down. I avoided the whole HUD thing and dealing with the government. USDA is guaranteed loan, but it has to first go through a traditional bank's underwriting. Once it goes through the bank, USDA then takes your file and approves it. When buying a home, this program is rarely brought up, probably because it's so beneficial to the buyer and less so for the banks. All the best. This video was to real!
@markelachestnut6238
7 жыл бұрын
Why in the world don't he have more subscribers? He always speaking the truth.... I
@jessicab331
7 жыл бұрын
Markela Chestnut That's why! Smh! In 2016 ppl only wanna hear fake shit!
@bxgirl2930
7 жыл бұрын
also lol the managers over these women are also women so when the jealousy and pettiness is coming also from your boss who is friends with one's that hate you for no reason constant attitude now smh
@tezjudell
7 жыл бұрын
customers are annoying...That's why I couldn't do face to face!! "fired"
@fergieferg9192
7 жыл бұрын
Bruh...you built a whole entertainment persona off pretending to be a black woman. Damn near every supporter you have is a black woman. Chill bish. Dealing with you, I'd probably have an attitude, too.
@Bonjarreau
7 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine someone doing a video saying that gay blacks are always the ones with drug issues?
@fergieferg9192
7 жыл бұрын
Right?!
@JILLIANAIREE
7 жыл бұрын
Fergie Ferg exactly. Like don't just place this on us. I've dealt with attitudes by so many other races. White, hispanic, etc and of both genders too. I think just working in that type of environment makes people want to lash out but it ain't just black women.
@fergieferg9192
7 жыл бұрын
Workers at Gov't agencies have attitudes a lot of times, plus Atlanta is a black city. Somebody in podunk Arkansas probably complaining about "white bitches" at the food stamp office right now.
@trulyXinspired
7 жыл бұрын
Fergie Ferg, thank you for saying this.
@tenishal34
7 жыл бұрын
I know you venting but you got me dying laughing i absolutely love you!! I have been a follower for about 2 years,and i live for these videos! You are informative,entertaining,and just damn hilarious,LOVE YOU DINEVA!!!!!!!
@tonylynn1023
2 жыл бұрын
I do Concur 😂😂🕺🕺🕺
@vileplume5927
7 жыл бұрын
The description of the people at that second office...I'm screaming
@unapologetic3674
6 жыл бұрын
You're f-ing HILARIOUS!!!!!! Love hearing someone else speak the truth with not one gaf😅😅😅
@debsworld9530
7 жыл бұрын
Hey Funky Dineva Preach! I can't stop laughing
@naiwill0214
7 жыл бұрын
It's really not a black woman thing. It's a state/gov't employee thing. Yes most state and government employees have great benefits but most of them are also vastly underpaid & overworked. I worked for the state and most people really do start off wanting to help people but when you're barely surviving on a weak ass salary sometimes that shit carries over & effects your ability to provide customer service with a smile. I still work in social services but I moved my talents to a company whose coin matches my passion
@dr.lorianne
7 жыл бұрын
naiwill0214 Like your post. You made a decision to find a place that better suited your needs and goals. Wonderful. I think people forget government jobs are like any other workplace, they have budget constraints as well AND their money comes from the people, they may not pay as much because of this. On the flip side the benefits make up for it in most cases. While the pay maybe lower, you save on benefits. For some, they may find another job in the private sector that pays more but, the benefits will costs more in many cases.
@positivemanifestations3247
6 жыл бұрын
"Come on, come on! Bring yo' a----on!" 😀 😃
@lilyann168
6 жыл бұрын
This here is Classic Dineva 😂😂
@thecoachmangamry7086
7 жыл бұрын
One of the best things to do, is if you find a Non-Profit organization that specializes in Housing Counseling. Often there is only one counselor over the Housing Counseling services, as they have to be certified and certification, of course costs. One of the best things you can do is find a non-profit, preferably one that has been certified with a program called NieghborWorks. They're not only HUD compliant and will will offer the same amount of government "services" but with out the government experience. I worked in one of Houston's wards as a grantwriter and found that the government's wheels do grind slowly, and most certainly attitudes do flair up from time to time from both sides of the window. Just stay positive, I know it can be hard, but that's what you got to do.
@tashcow90
5 ай бұрын
Chile. I don't know why this found my 2024 feed, but I'm so glad. Some vintage Dineva.. 😂🍿
@nekew7315
7 жыл бұрын
But how is addressing black women as "bitches" any better than how they act? I'm just making a point...
@soulspurposeme
7 жыл бұрын
nothing in government is random funky dineva.
@TheLroyalness
7 жыл бұрын
Omg, truth!! and the process and flow is no different throughout the nation. I've noticed in my state (NC) depending on city, the front desk workers and even majority behind the scenes workers often use attitude, rudeness, and overwhelming guidelines to discourage people from moving further with various goals/process. It is very sad. They create depression and anxiety within others so very easily.
@bcodih2936
3 жыл бұрын
Lol I keep watching this because I LITERALLY HAVE BEEN dealing with this shit everywhere I go 😂😩🤦🏾♀️
@envogue2004
7 жыл бұрын
yasssss speak!!!! black person wit job vs black person need the job
@brittneycareathers1607
7 жыл бұрын
mind you most of the time these people have degrees that are behind the desk smh
LMFAO when he talked about the lady with her kids!
@itstiffy
7 жыл бұрын
When I tell you I needed this video on today!!! Had to go to the SSI office with my mom and walk through the snow just to get from my spot to the place, get up to the window and the lady is being both rude and condescending while trying to clarify my mother's needs, just to wait and be called back to a pleasant white man that helps us with a smile with some stuff that could've been taken care of over the phone...Girl 😒😒 To go through that and feel the frustration of different people saying different things on the same policy 😠
@lifesfun101
7 жыл бұрын
💯percent TRUTH! It's by design and the dumb bitches working those compartmentalized gov jobs are so comfortable and happy with being evil. It's truly eye opening. Thanks for sharing ! I made sure to let that commercial /ad play on this video as soon as I saw the title from the jump! Get that coin!
@blaakmamba69
7 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE SOOOOOO RIGHT!!! I WORK AT ONE AND I SEE IT FIRST HAND.......
@choklit4u
7 жыл бұрын
or on the other end of the phone lol..
@mayahthomas7283
Жыл бұрын
Here in 2023. I miss these videos lol.
@rodhart3976
7 жыл бұрын
I concur 100%. I'm new to Atlanta and i went to DFAC and i had to report security to his bosses boss for being disrespectful. These people really hate their jobs. I brother like me would be happy to make that lil piece of change.
@imlavender3538
7 жыл бұрын
I'm here in NYC and it's the SAME experience here. it's annoying and anxiety provoking.
@TheChannelJ1
7 жыл бұрын
McDonald is privatized and their customer service sucks. Privatization is not the key. Also most African Americans depend on Government run jobs like the military, post office, DMV, IRS etc... Privatization would only increase the chance of hiring discrimination anyways. The private sector is not a FRIEND to the AFRICAN AMERICAN.
@priceless_motivation
7 жыл бұрын
you are so right....this title gave me chills...here in Ala its TERRIBLE
@jessone71
7 жыл бұрын
You're are speaking the truth. Well, they knew or should have read the handbook to know what the job entailed. I'm always thinking," Don't be mad at me, I didn't put the application in for you".Between gov't jobs and fast food, customer service sucks, just so rude.
@lailalake8524
7 жыл бұрын
yes, I loved this video. I live in Harlem, I think it is by design. I thank you for this because you made a experience that is painful and draining, entertaining and insightful. I encourage you to stick with your goals, stay blessed.
@rosemondrowsey8893
7 жыл бұрын
GIRL...... YOU AINT NEVER LIED . Ruff Buff. Like you chose that job, be Grateful for working. You there until 4. DO SOME WORK !Stay Sweet! ❤💯
@desireestokes3541
6 жыл бұрын
Lmao @ "Everybody in that bitch looked like Harriet Tubman came to free the slaves and forgot them."
@cynlovespugs
6 жыл бұрын
I've said this before and I'll say it again...I would love to have you as a friend. You make me laugh so much and you always speak the truth. You are an intelligent and wise one, Ms Ross. Thank you for the laughs. :)
@37mommingit68
7 жыл бұрын
They do it because they know you can't retaliate and because they can. After that 1 year probation period it's hard to get fired from jobs like that.
@lenebellaw8911
7 жыл бұрын
I live in Barbados and the same thing happens here, so I can totally understand you and what you had to go through!
@irresponsibleparent3
7 жыл бұрын
I agree to some level but if government offices were privatized then a lot of black people would lose their jobs or not get hired. The government is the main employer for black people in this country because private businesses don't like hiring black people.
@brandonbrown1916
7 жыл бұрын
Check that correlation... blk ppl (who think govt jobs are the be all end all in life) working at govt offices, and terrible service at govt offices. Everyone has a stank attitude because they all hate their jobs. Its just like going to a hood McDonalds vs a suburban McDs. It's always the lowest sector of black society working in non tipped service positions, and thus, we have to deal w Shaquitiana and her band of chicken heads from the block, providing 'services'. I'm perfectly ok w them losing their jobs, because they're terrible at them. I will take a pleasant white woman at the window over an angry blk woman who hates her life and feels it's ok to take it out on the public, any day.
@SupremeBytes
7 жыл бұрын
"She works for Wakenhut, just goin thru the motions. 'Scuse me ma'am!" Lmao you play too much!! 😂😂😂
@kdeloris2225
7 жыл бұрын
Everybody down there was hungry homeless and helpless. I am rolling right now.
@rsalas558
7 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right! They are a very crafty kind of evil folk and it's time WE STOP falling for it. Now I thank God I have never had to be up in the unemployment office, but I could only imagine. The DMV is my nightmare. It's definitely all by design brother.
@SmileyKJ
7 жыл бұрын
This video had me rolling!!! You are completely correct about the way theses government agencies are set up. I have come in contact with other races that seemed pleasant, but there is ALWAYS the ones at the window with the bad attitudes.
@hendribrown4255
7 жыл бұрын
I agree. Anytime I have to take care of that type of business I tries my best to do via phone or internet. However, if I do have to do in person baby I am well fed, bladder empty, snacks, good reading material, sweater, etc......Good luck to ya!
@JoyJoysWorld
7 жыл бұрын
Dineva it's because we don't get paid enough lol.
@robynsam2415
7 жыл бұрын
JoyJoy's World a lot of caseworkers are very overworked and underpaid. it's sad because you bust your butt to get the education you need for the job and end up being paid so little.
@JoyJoysWorld
7 жыл бұрын
Robyn Sam We are severely underpaid! My advice to any young Government employee would to be to not stay in the position for too long or try to become Federal (they make wayyyyy more money than state employees). Or if you are not about customer service then don't work in customer service, duh!!!
@karenwinston9664
7 жыл бұрын
Absolutely +JoyJoy's World! Keep it simple right? Stay away from occupations where you know you can't play nice in the sandbox, lol!
@lilbaby245
7 жыл бұрын
I can believe it. Government jobs are the cheapest. Pres. Obama highest stressed job in the country and I don't even think he makes a mil in one year.
@amberdst11
7 жыл бұрын
Robyn Sam 💯💯💯
@qure9128
7 жыл бұрын
"... but you know they not allowed to think, fucking factory workers." iDied!!!
@simplychante
7 жыл бұрын
I haven't even watched the video yet BUT the title already has me I agreeance!
@tamikadavison
7 жыл бұрын
No lie, I grimaced hella times at that "black bitch with an attitude" phrase but I can understand the Doll and you definitely brought it home by making note that it is quite systematic how the people who are supposed to be helpers are oftentimes hinder things in our community.
@PeggyRabbit32
7 жыл бұрын
TamiB_ right, we could talk about the number of black men calling black women bitches. maybe that's why they have these bitch ass attitudes.
@tamikadavison
7 жыл бұрын
lol
@kenfaye3030
5 жыл бұрын
It’s 2019 & I’m still dying laughing! The Harriet Tubman part🤣🤣🤣
@peppa_pig_
6 жыл бұрын
so TRUE these DMV/post office/gov employee cows treat you like a nuisance as soon as you walk in the door..like I'm sorry but if you hate your job just quit I'm just trying to send a package thanks
@LifestylewithAbby
7 жыл бұрын
sooo true!! everyone at the tag office on Roswell Road in Sandy Springs lol!! 😂
@aceboogie2984
4 жыл бұрын
I agree with all of this. And the main reason why people have to talk to multiple people in various departments is because so many folks be committing fraud down to the housing authority, food stamp and disability office!
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